Bullying really needs to stop and cops and social workers need to step up more. No offense to anyone
@icalotdonthide2646
17 күн бұрын
Hence the saying, don't start nothing, won't be nothing.
@TherapistTamaraHill
17 күн бұрын
True! Very true.
@a.m.4994
16 күн бұрын
Ty. Hope you’re feeling better. This definition fits Narcissistic ppl. Even ignoring them triggers Narc injury, rage & vengeance.
@TherapistTamaraHill
16 күн бұрын
Thank you! Yes, much better. And you are right, it does!
@j.m.marcovecchio6691
17 күн бұрын
I would not like to seem heartless, but sometimes in life, if you do not stand up for you react, even by means of vengeance, you will be treated like a doormat for the rest of your life. In the. Christian Culture, many people wrong you aware of what they are doing because they are already counting on your forgiveness and when you don’t act in a forgiving way and still set up the score, they lose their bearings. Yet, either you fight for yourself or go live on an island, because somebody will always be playing dirty.😊
@TherapistTamaraHill
17 күн бұрын
That first statement I partially agree with. Sometimes you do have to stand up and face that person to set a standard, to set a boundary. But in most cases, you can "defeat" that harmful person by not giving them your time and energy at all. My mother used to tell my brother, who had a hot temper, "you may try to push back with someone who will beat you, then what?" Sometimes "standing up" is saying nothing. Doing nothing. Praying about it. Asking for strength and guidance. Being wise. Going the legal route if you must. It's a choice we make every single time it comes up in our lives. The wrong choice may haunt you. The right choice may add more years to your life, as my Apache grandmother used to say!
@markesabowers1567
13 күн бұрын
Amen I agree these individuals will all always exist sadly many of these individuals hate them selves due to traumatic events for example I study watch the documentary of Hitler so came from a broken abusive stressful home. What I discovered when they don't get help or don't want help the get worse and cause horrific havoc an pain.
@Scene68
15 күн бұрын
I believe vindictiveness could count as grooming. I only state this, because I have two older adult cousins (who when once as children, were good and respectful) but having a mother (my aunt) being extremely immature and vindictive (I have been on the tail end of that) instilled her destructive behavior or conversation in them to now they're both as despicable or even more despicable in their behaviors than their mother. It always goes back to home.
@KimberlyGladden-r2x
17 күн бұрын
Thank You 🙏🏽 For Describing The Real Truth About My Families Relatives n Others Toxic Personalities!! It’s Helping Me To Overcome Obstacles
@coopermccormick
17 күн бұрын
This is so on point. Love and appreciate your content.
@TherapistTamaraHill
17 күн бұрын
I appreciate that! Thank you 😊
@tmac7887
17 күн бұрын
Thank you for your insight Támara. In hindsight I knew that it wasn’t the right decision to make, but when people constantly try to take advantage of your situation and misfortunes, it creates a vengeful mindset which I’m trying to get out of as a get older..As of now the relationship between us is not good but like you said it’s a decision that I have to live with..This is why I love watching your content, it’s helping me to understand myself. I’ll chalk that up as a bad decision on my part
@TherapistTamaraHill
17 күн бұрын
Yes, you're welcome!! And thank you for sharing your stody for everyone to explore further. That helps normalize the complex dynamic this behavior causes. I think you are thinking the right way on this! I'm glad to have you on the channel. We're all growing, including me, and every decision we make we can either see it as a growth opportunity or a failure. I think you are seeing this as a growth opportunity. That's wonderful!
@gailhicks6547
17 күн бұрын
I really appreciate your channel. I hope you are all having the best day you can. 🙏❤️
@TherapistTamaraHill
17 күн бұрын
Thanks so much!! I'm very glad this is helpful to you and the others on here 😊🤗 Hope you have a good weekend ahead.
@truth4utoda
17 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤this was so informative and I love when you talk about dark psychology.
@TherapistTamaraHill
17 күн бұрын
Thank you!! I'm so glad. I LOVE dark psychology.
@domingabarboza9897
17 күн бұрын
Thanks!
@TherapistTamaraHill
17 күн бұрын
You're welcome and thank you for the superchat!!
@darrylharris756
17 күн бұрын
Thank You✨✨✨✨✨✍🏽📃
@TherapistTamaraHill
17 күн бұрын
You're welcome!!🙂
@danitajminer3279
17 күн бұрын
Good lord girl, that cup is a size of a flower pot.😅
@TherapistTamaraHill
16 күн бұрын
🤭🤣so true! It's heavy too!
@GirlScoutC00kiez420
17 күн бұрын
I need a coffee cup like your water mug 😂
@TherapistTamaraHill
17 күн бұрын
🤭🤗 I don't even remember where I got this 5 yrs ago! I just know I had to get it!
@j.m.marcovecchio6691
17 күн бұрын
T Mac was right! It was simply Justice!
@Classybrown27
13 күн бұрын
I had to go to higher up’s with a situation this female who I don’t know meet her once briefly she’s been stalking me for years unprovoked crossing many boundaries looking into my personal business etc sabotaging me harassing me non stop like it’s normal very disturbed individual delusions and clearly psychosis one sided rivalry very envious person can’t wait until she’s in a facility or prison
@lianad4910
17 күн бұрын
❤
@KarlaPatriciaAbarcaMartinez
17 күн бұрын
Spanish subtitles please doctor!❤️🩹
@TherapistTamaraHill
17 күн бұрын
👍👍
@Smartbeautifulawesome
17 күн бұрын
Can we just wish them peace? Help?
@TherapistTamaraHill
17 күн бұрын
I know. They truly need it and often times, a lot more help than that. Sadly.
@fairygurl9269
17 күн бұрын
💔❤️🩹💗💞
@TherapistTamaraHill
17 күн бұрын
🤗
@GirlScoutC00kiez420
17 күн бұрын
I missed it 🤨
@GirlScoutC00kiez420
17 күн бұрын
Was watching Alex Murda (Murdaugh) take the stand on cross examination. Very interesting study..
@GirlScoutC00kiez420
17 күн бұрын
I think Bullying is way worse now with internets and social media cell phones etc...I seen some bad bullying in my day, and I was once a victim of reverse bullying? when a kid was trashcanned and rolled down a hill while I was going to class. When the kid crawled out of the can I happened to giggle because it was kind of funny I thought at the time.. (I know thats mad messed up now, I should have helped the kid) The 2 guys who did it got away with it and he (who was trashcanned) immediately blamed me. I fought it at the district office but was ultimitely kicked out of the school district and graduated a year late. It sucked..but the bullied kids can be dangerous as the bullies when it comes to vengeance or revenge. My situation wasn't like how things are now, but the bullied kids (victims) sometimes do want revenge. Well adjusted kids Do Not Bully and after that episode in High School I went on and stood up to bullies to this day, even if it has/had nothing to do with me. Things are way more dangerous, cruel and vindictive now obviously in light of all the school violence and troubles these days in the World and espexially in the USA. 😮 Hope you feel better..migraines and toothache pain. Arrggh.
@TherapistTamaraHill
17 күн бұрын
🤗
@markesabowers1567
13 күн бұрын
Amen I agree these individuals will all always exist sadly many of these individuals hate them selves due to traumatic events for example I study watch the documentary of Hitler so came from a broken abusive stressful home. What I discovered when they don't get help or don't want help the get worse and cause horrific havoc an pain.
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