10:45 The goldfish story resonates. It reminds me of the Ryan Home HOA race over here on the east coast. Cookie cutter homes. Families so close together yet so separate. Built on massacred land. We’re jumping out of the ocean into our little bowls.
@michelledorance2684
11 күн бұрын
I LOVE your comment I have to comment on it- I never make comments/ replies but wow. What you said is so profound. I’m in Pittsburgh PA just about 20 minutes south. I own a residential cleaning company. Your mention of the Ryan Home HOA so close together yet so far separate is just wow! The amount of huge beautiful homes we clean in this one neighborhood- they’re 750,000 for the base model and go up from there. All these clients have the SAME home but the insides are the same yet so different. So same exact kitchen but they’re maybe white wood vs dark cabinets etc. we have about 35 homes in this neighborhood. But they’re all SO different yet literally the same from the same cookie cutter. I admit my husband, 2 year old daughter & myself are in an HOA (not Ryan but similar) and we are SO separate from our neighbors yet right there. We only bought when we needed much more space when I got pregnant and had a clock ticking- but this won’t be our forever home. I can’t do the “rules” if I wanted my house to have a pool of privacy fence I want to make that choice. I just have to say how profound your comment was to me!! I just want straight to our job with the approx 35 clients- 5 have the same exact layout- so separate- don’t know one another; but yet they have the same exact layout just maybe black lights above the dining table instead of silver.. but that dining table is in the same place. But SO separate w/ different lives. Thank you for this thought provoking and wonderful observation!!!
@gibbiv
11 күн бұрын
@@michelledorance2684 Woah! I'm also from the south hills (Bethel Park). My second childhood home was a Ryan Home. My first childhood home was a suburban paradise. The main reason we moved is because my parents wanted their own bathroom lol. I suppose it was also appealing to them to go form middle to upper-middle class status lol.
@robinhurston7377
27 күн бұрын
At 12 min. ...substitutions. I grew up with sociopath brother. Parents quite busy with that. As a teen became outsider , insecure, withdrawn and drank. My brother , one yr younger ruled my life I guess in many ways. Was that he substitute for my parents not focusing more positively on me? Was this when I was not seen? I undechaieved my way through school. Made many bad mistakes. 67 now and still trying to figure it out. Had 2 boys, married twice. Now successfully. All is ok. But I'm still in here . Sad. This ego is so tough.
@kellyvikasayoga
Ай бұрын
This is beautiful 😍 thank you xx
@anacorreia5846
Ай бұрын
So important, so tranformative. Thank you. ❤
@jonitipping4783
Ай бұрын
To want is to suffer :/
@DarkStarr11_11
Ай бұрын
😊Tara I loved finding this video today 🌞Right out of the gate @2:13 I knew I needed to stay till the end 🎯As I'm in recovery been 4 many moons _gratitude for each morning I wake w/o even a thought of using what had been my drug of choice (Heroin ) It's a gift to acknowledge where I was then and how far I've come . However when I function en a wanting mind...It steals the joy of quiet in this moment .I realize I have more of these unhealthy aversions that lead to unproductive actions... We are so blessed to have your messages ❤ Dr Tara Brach ❤
@peacefulmoments56
Ай бұрын
Well, as my tabby came closer for a warm snuggle, I was realizing its safety and security and I already have these to a degree. Thanks as always 🙏🏽
@flipczech
17 күн бұрын
You’re lucky to be loved by a tabby, they’re so cool, namaste. XX
@Svkindredspirit
Ай бұрын
Beautiful
@lightfullyou
23 күн бұрын
Thank you ! I became aware the what I want is to feel safe and be safe in community. A beginning of a new practice. ❤
@zwolkeyy
Ай бұрын
Insightful as always, Thank you Tara
@quilting
Ай бұрын
tara what an excellent topic, it moved me, the simple truths you express so simply thank you my dear for the clarity and thought
@flipczech
17 күн бұрын
Tara, thank you. There is much intention in the tone and sound of your voice, that sometimes is enough. It was for me 8 years ago when I was very much broken and mostly going through the motions- but it was easier to absorb Knowledge in your simple presence and eventually I let things in. Namaste and thank you thank you thank you. XX
@Sunny_Day1111
28 күн бұрын
Needed this today. (Everyday). Looking deeply. Thank you, Tara 🌻❤️
@davidrudd5126
29 күн бұрын
AWESOME. Can’t wait till 2 nd week R A I N is soooo powerful. Many thanks Tara
@samm6626
Ай бұрын
Thank you
@billnigreen
Ай бұрын
Thanks!
@jamesboutin-crawford6220
26 күн бұрын
❤ Thank you
@nimrodquittner1373
Ай бұрын
Hi I once listened on KZitem to one of Tara's lectures that explain scientifically the four segments of the mind. Cognise/ recognise/ feeling and reacting. I can't seam to find it, can anyone direct me please ?
@SideB1984
22 күн бұрын
Look at the video Learning to Respond Not React. I think that’s the one.
@nimrodquittner1373
22 күн бұрын
@SideB1984 Thank you so much... do you happen to have a specific link ?
@SideB1984
22 күн бұрын
@@nimrodquittner1373 I would definitely post it for you if I could but KZitem doesn’t allow links anymore 😢
@nimrodquittner1373
21 күн бұрын
Thank you so much @@SideB1984
@pigemperor
23 күн бұрын
I am in an online aa meditation meeting at the moment. I searched for one of tara's meditation as i am too screwed up to practice silently now. Are there any more resources that relate to 12 step?
@pigemperor
23 күн бұрын
Or addiction in general. Read kevin griffin
@SideB1984
22 күн бұрын
Check out Michael Singer’s work. Seats of Contemplation is a good channel to listen to his talks. Keep going. 🩵
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