Ladies never drive home if you are being followed 🚨Go towards a police department instead and call 911 while on the way. If you aren’t interested don’t go back and forth with people like this. It only escalates the situation. Never make yourself a sitting duck in your own home which should be a safe space ‼️‼️
@Genesis0Nieves0
8 ай бұрын
This could save a life, boost
@itsyagirlashleytv
8 ай бұрын
@@Genesis0Nieves0 I really hope so!! I watch true crime and I’m scared for that woman. What if he comes back? He sounded so mad
@willn8664
8 ай бұрын
Both Ladies AND Men. It can happen to anyone. There are unhinged psychos in both genders.
@judahscub6347
8 ай бұрын
I'm guessing she didn't notice him following her
@grannym2880
8 ай бұрын
This was one of the first things I was taught when I got my licence and started dating. Always lock your doors as soon as you're in the car, if you're being followed, head to the nearest cop station. I always drove myself to the date location so I'd have a way to get home if it didn't work out. Thankfully it never came to that but it's a rule I taught my own daughter and she will pass it down when the time comes.
@mystic006
8 ай бұрын
I'm terrified to date these days. So many weirdos out there.
@yaboigamerdouji7573
8 ай бұрын
At that point I’d call the cops
@BabyDoll-fs3bu
8 ай бұрын
Also…. Ladies be careful how much $$ a man spends on you bc most likely he’s expecting something in return. Don’t be entitled.
@asant90
8 ай бұрын
They both seem drunk. She should’ve driven to the police station.😵💫☠️
@willn8664
8 ай бұрын
If she was drunk she should have called an uber. No need for a possible DUI.
@dirkthewrench
Ай бұрын
NEVER drive home if you're being followed Dont allow them to know where you live
@thomasn3882
5 ай бұрын
Any chance this episode is a skit, because I'm finding it really hard to believe that anybody would be this dense.
@daveblackman816
8 ай бұрын
Wow he drove an hour so he’s entitled nor. And why would he spend 300 bucks on a first date?? Poor girl may need a restraining order.
@dc56789
8 ай бұрын
What would someone normally spend on a first date in the US?
@Josh-py9rq
8 ай бұрын
@@dc56789 Less than 40 bucks if even that I will have chicks come up to me in the bar they usually have their own drinks they give me their number or come kick at my pad if a lady likes you she won't need or want you to spend money on her seriously that guy just has no game.
@bennyg3955
8 ай бұрын
@@dc56789it was laid out pretty well in the video at the 4:36 mark.
@markhaunert5029
8 ай бұрын
I smell a disturbed guy that would need to spend that much
@markhaunert5029
8 ай бұрын
@dc56789 kinda hard to say considering the way you're poor or rich. Personally I would think 100 ballpark.
@spacesnakeeyes5057
8 ай бұрын
As soon as I heard him say "I've been down this road" I was shaking my head, that says a lot And he was fr crying, this is pathetic
@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066
8 ай бұрын
Yeah I imagine many MANY women NEVER want to speak to him again after a date with him!!! 😬
@Skank_and_Gutterboy
8 ай бұрын
Problem is, a lot of these pathetic guys give up on a normal life, go mentally dark, and quickly become dangerous.
@bettybunbun9664
6 ай бұрын
He was crying because being rejected hurts.
@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066
6 ай бұрын
@@bettybunbun9664 so does finding out the guy you're on a date with is racist
@ladyedraven
6 ай бұрын
Yup. It says this guy assumes it's never him. And therefore has never tried to learn from his miss steps.
@dmiranda70420
8 ай бұрын
"I'm calling my black friends." "BLACK FRIENDS, ASSEMBLE!!"
@HM-yr1vr
7 ай бұрын
😂
@kyemberlyeaden1949
6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@ronitas3958
6 ай бұрын
Haha, this is so funny!! I mean real laugh out loud funny, especially because I'm Black.
@YThates
6 ай бұрын
"My black friends are on the way, they gain a speed boost at night because of high police presence. Won't be long before they get here to prove I'm not racist."
@ladyedraven
6 ай бұрын
🤣 Yes, it''s never the racist superheroes who say that. 🤣🤣🤣
@Davidin518
8 ай бұрын
Arguing with a stalker was a bad decision. The very moment she realized that he followed her home, she should have called the police, or driven to the nearest police station. She put herself in danger by sitting there arguing with him.
@Skank_and_Gutterboy
8 ай бұрын
Yep, engaging him tells him, "One in a million? That means I've got a shot!"
@vanessacallahan3515
8 ай бұрын
Exactly. Women carry protection. I used to carry pepper spray and was not afraid to use it. Never tell a stranger where you live. Always tell a friend where you are going and have a safe word. Tell employees where you have your date what is going on. Give them a signal if you might need help. Also leave before they do, and ask employees to keep them from leaving right after. And do not drink a drink they give you or that you’ve left alone around them.
@LackaJudgment
8 ай бұрын
but then no TikTok views and we can’t have _that_
@moontecker
8 ай бұрын
agree this guy has mental issue.
@Claudia_Crimson_585
6 ай бұрын
@@LackaJudgmentstfx i doubt you would know what to do
@strawberrysangria1474
8 ай бұрын
"I'm calling my black friend right now" I'm begging you, stop! 🤣 "Black friend, tell this person I'm not racist! I'm a threat to all people equally!"
@dabullzfan25
8 ай бұрын
02:48
@caitnewbold1676
6 ай бұрын
😂😂
@politicalfoolishness7491
8 ай бұрын
Next his mother is going to call and try and get her to come for dinner. I remember that crazy reaction to rejection too. LOL
@melissajessen3596
8 ай бұрын
Oh wow lol 😂..... I remember that!!! 😅
@lovelight6973
8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 right!!!
@marquese1960
8 ай бұрын
Yes the enabling crazy mother.😂😂😂
@aprilmay1061
8 ай бұрын
@@marquese1960 The mother trying find her crazy son a wife so she can get him out of her house.
@smokerise
8 ай бұрын
Yea, mommy probably has a cage in the basement all ready for her.
@jonanna1894
8 ай бұрын
I imagine not one minute of an evening with this man is pleasant. He followed her home and didn’t see anything wrong with it? Beyond creepy.
@Skank_and_Gutterboy
8 ай бұрын
Horrible, like a horror movie. OMG.
@ross5839
Ай бұрын
He was auditioning to be on Dateline.😮
@markhaunert5029
8 ай бұрын
I hope a million women see this and take notes. This was frightening just to watch.
@HeyitsBri_
8 ай бұрын
It’s already a page in the book. It’s just that sometimes we get a little too hopeful
@matthewsanchez7953
8 ай бұрын
I hope a million men see it and realize that behavior like his is cowardly, pathetic, and _totally unacceptable._
@angiec3512
8 ай бұрын
I sure did.
@angiec3512
8 ай бұрын
@HeyitsBri_so true
@octo.lina69
8 ай бұрын
Too bad, his face wasn't shown
@kevchas
8 ай бұрын
I suggest the man spend half of the $300 for a therapy session.
@theturquoisedream9244
8 ай бұрын
Fuck that!!! He needs some time in a locked psychiatric unit!!! For free!!
@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066
8 ай бұрын
And possibly some medication too!
@steve9473
8 ай бұрын
Trust me these type of people never change. There is no therapy that will help them except jail.
@Skank_and_Gutterboy
8 ай бұрын
He needs to go to a therapy camp for 6 months.
@Skank_and_Gutterboy
8 ай бұрын
@@steve9473 Yeah, you're on about the same tack as me. Hopefully a psychiatrist sees this nutcase for what he is and gets him committed, and he goes to a place with real security that he can't just walk away from.
@annenelson5656
8 ай бұрын
He’s been down that road before because he’s a creep.
@Skank_and_Gutterboy
8 ай бұрын
Can't get away from this nut fast enough.
@thesuperdingos
8 ай бұрын
I’ve had bad dates. I just went home lol. There are so many women out there. That’s what dating is for, win some, lose some. This dude is unhinged.
@johnub4
8 ай бұрын
Exactly. I been through it too before I got engaged to my fiancé. Those chicks I had first dates with that were bad weren’t the one for me. I was also a desperate man who ended up in a toxic relationship that lasted for 19 months. That certainly was stupid of me to do that. I’m glad that in the end she left me and I moved on.
@mamouilletten1562
8 ай бұрын
Also, why spending so much money on a first date ?? I'd like a walk in a park with an ice cream/hot chocolate milk to learn more about him. I'm too old school i guess...
@Chisthebest0
8 ай бұрын
@mamouilletten you're not old-school. You just have common sense.
@johnub4
8 ай бұрын
@@mamouilletten1562 I agree. There are activities to do on a date that don’t cost much.
@poyzenxgirl
8 ай бұрын
Girl dodged a possible LITERAL bullet... 😬😬😬
@lightningringeopal3601
8 ай бұрын
Or a knife
@Skank_and_Gutterboy
8 ай бұрын
Yep, nothing safe about this guy. If she started packing heat, I'd support it.
@steve9473
8 ай бұрын
He knows where she lives this is the beginning. She needs to pack her things and leave. I guarantee he will be back.
@AlwaysKDawg
7 ай бұрын
She dodged a nuke.
@danielhaynes7212
6 ай бұрын
She dodged a Fucking nuke 😬
@moontecker
8 ай бұрын
If woman rejected you, your job as man to accept her decision and move on with your day.
@bettybunbun9664
6 ай бұрын
I find it tough to do.
@melanin.beautyxiii
6 ай бұрын
Look at it in a different way. She did you a favor because if y'all did get together it wouldn't be a great relationship bc she doesn't really want you. You deserve a person who actually desires you. It's pathetic to chase someone who doesn't like you. @@bettybunbun9664
@ladyedraven
6 ай бұрын
Also, like a job applicant, figure out where you went wrong, and attempt to improve to improve your chances next time. Here here.
@FreelancerFreak
5 ай бұрын
@ladyedraven omg someone speaking thoughtfully and logically I'm impressed 👏
@bettybunbun9664
5 ай бұрын
@@ladyedraven 95% of companies will just give you a generic rejection message and ignore any requests for more information. Most of them couldnt give you feedback even if they wanted to (which they dont) because they just used some bot to filter out your CV in the first place.
@jessmorgan6732
8 ай бұрын
Not every woman has faced creepiness to quite this extreme, but we've all faced something similar. One guy I turned down accused me of being racist toward him (I'm white, he was Kurdish) and said I was getting too attached to my then-new boyfriend. Another accused me of having a fear of intimacy.
@tiredofthebs8290
8 ай бұрын
I was nearly date raped many years ago. We were sitting in his car talking. He kissed me which I was ok with but suddenly he was forcing his hands all over me and trying to get on top of me. Fortunately, I was able to fight him off and get away from the car. I was in my mid twenties and very naive at the time. Ladies, don't get in a car with a date unless you already know the person very well. Get a ride or drive yourself to meet them. Always, always let someone know who you will be with and where you are going. A friend, family member anyone that you trust.
@deborahpichardo1547
8 ай бұрын
Guy I turned down also accused me of racism. I'm latina, he was African. It got weird when he told me I also couldn't be friends with his sister anymore.
@bigthunder7002
8 ай бұрын
I turned down a girl once. And she cried and never talked again. But she probably cast some spells … 🪄
@Grouchbox
8 ай бұрын
@@tiredofthebs8290 I had a similar experience, and at one point he wrapped his hands around my neck and started choking me.
@annt.7785
7 ай бұрын
True, BUT there's always a first time for everything. Never let down your guard, you never know when you could be next, if you are next. I hope this doesn't happen to you, but these males are heavily unhinged these days at the simple fact that we exist on the same planet as them. They're harboring some real hatred for us and its starting to get real scary out here 😒.
@epgames2981
8 ай бұрын
Love your videos. I’m seriously losing faith in humanity though.
@franco6296
8 ай бұрын
X2
@TheMityquin
8 ай бұрын
Losing faith? Wow! You still have faith?
@Dawg.....
8 ай бұрын
Appears it might be an interesting story. Hope she's ok?. But couldn't get through all the commentary to hear the actual incident.
@_labacanitaz
8 ай бұрын
me: "hmmm. wonder which racial slur he used...." creep: "lemme call my black friends!" me: "oooooh. okay." 😒
@TJ-fg3vs
8 ай бұрын
Ahh! So that's what "whine and dine" means... 😂
@Skank_and_Gutterboy
8 ай бұрын
Ahaha!!!!!
@whatifschrodingersboxwasacofin
7 ай бұрын
Better than “wining and dying” 😉
@arevir68rivera
8 ай бұрын
Who the hell spends $300 on a first date?! Dude.. a first date - coffee & a bagel... if she's nice. 🤣
@firelady118
8 ай бұрын
They were at a bar, I think the $300 probably mainly went to food & cocktails, he was probably hoping to get her drunk enough to get in her pants & got pissed off cus it didn't work smh
@Skank_and_Gutterboy
8 ай бұрын
Applebee's or Cheddar's is like 50 bucks. Where did he take her, the restaurant in the Waldorf Astoria or some place that Bobby Flay owns?
@Skank_and_Gutterboy
8 ай бұрын
@@firelady118 Gotcha! I didn't think of that but you're right, cocktails can get expensive real quick, especially if you're buying her $20 mojitos and showing off with a couple of $50 shots of some super top-end exotic tequila or 30 year old Scotch or something to "prove" that you're sophisticated.
@beeblu5043
8 ай бұрын
Typical incel talking points.
@fortunateson2
6 ай бұрын
@@beeblu5043wait so suggesting that a man not spend $300 on first date is an "in cel talking point"? Holy [f]uck!
@johnub4
8 ай бұрын
Xeno is 100% right. NO ONE owes you an explanation as well as closure to rejection.
@Skank_and_Gutterboy
8 ай бұрын
Yes. AND, she actually gave him a good reason (though not good enough for him). They had some drinks, his inhibitions dropped, he showed his real and horrid personality, and he started dropping racial slurs to show how "cool and edgy" he is, which only showed what an idiotic dink he is. That's a perfectly valid deal-breaker.
@Ash-tree420
8 ай бұрын
It's 2024 and people still using "but I have black friends" as an argument against being racist 😂
@danielhaynes7212
8 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 wtf I didn't notice he said that
@Ash-tree420
8 ай бұрын
@@danielhaynes7212 LMAO he said "ok let me call my black friends then". Like bro don't even play, we know you don't have any 😂
@danielhaynes7212
8 ай бұрын
@@Ash-tree420 🤣🤣🤣
@Reviewland963
8 ай бұрын
😂 It's wild.
@annt.7785
7 ай бұрын
I've heard someone say "my dog is black, I'm not racist". You have no idea how weird people are 😂😂😂.
@sharondavis6674
8 ай бұрын
Never ever go directly home if someone is following you. Why would you want him/her to know where you live? Call the police.
@markhaunert5029
8 ай бұрын
Very good point. I think these situations get women so rattled they just want to get home. Terrible to be stalked.✌️
@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066
6 ай бұрын
She didn't know he was following her till he got out!
@jdenoe69
8 ай бұрын
They only reason she didn't immediately call the cops was because they were both drunk and she didn't want to implicate herself in a potential DUI. However, dude is an creep. When they're not interested, move on and find someone who is. The end.
@philipbenner
6 ай бұрын
My first impression was that she is slurring her words, did she drive home drunk? Now I agree with you that she isn’t willing to call the cops for fear of implicating herself in driving drunk.
@area.man.
5 ай бұрын
@@philipbennerPlus when she mentions the boo boo by her eye and had no idea how she got it. Usually you know when that shit happens.
@Atrus999
8 ай бұрын
I'm surprised the woman actually confronted this weirdo instead of calling the cops and getting a restraining order.
@marycarter6134
8 ай бұрын
She's really a beautiful girl and she dodged a bullet with that guy. I hope he doesn't try to take revenge of any kind because she doesn't deserve it.
@simonsmith1974
4 ай бұрын
A bullet? More like a fucking thermonuke
@ealgava7234
8 ай бұрын
DON'T GO HOME IF SOMEONE IS FOLLOWING YOU. She got extremely lucky. Head to a Police Station.
@Jadaistyping
8 ай бұрын
This is why I don’t use dating apps anymore. I had a guy find me on social media after I unmatched him. Idk how because I never gave him my socials and I didn’t use pictures from my socials. Be safe people! Edit: I also don’t go by my real name on those specific socials.
@thesuperdingos
8 ай бұрын
I don’t blame you. Online dating is much worse now than back then. It’s so easy to find someone online based on a picture than it was a few years ago.
@cbgg1585
8 ай бұрын
@@thesuperdingosLmao, what’s the difference? You saying if you met in real life I.e. speed dating that these sorts of stalking WON’T happen? Stalkers and stalking behavior like this has got NOTHING to do with online dating. 🤦♂️
@cbgg1585
8 ай бұрын
I don’t know how using dating apps or meeting in real life will prevent stalking. This isn’t a dating apps issue.
@thesuperdingos
8 ай бұрын
@@cbgg1585I like how you just made up a completely different scenario up in your head that has nothing to do with my comment. I’m talking about how it’s easier nowadays to find someone’s personal info just by using pictures, even if you are anonymous. I have no idea what you’re going on about…
@PepeToTheMooon
8 ай бұрын
@@cbgg1585what are you going on about ??
@JJJJ-he8bz
6 ай бұрын
I spent 300 bucks on a round trip plane ticket to Florida. No way in hell any date is worth that much money. It sucks seeing so many men so danm desperate like this. It’s sad.
@OG-uq9yb
6 ай бұрын
They think a women will fix them and make them happy
@andrewmildenberg4210
5 ай бұрын
Right, because that's the take away from this video. That the poor men have it rough, not that this woman was threatened and harassed by an unhinged, racist asshole. Bro, get your fucking priorities straight. What a weird take on this vid.
@canadianrushfan12
8 ай бұрын
I met a date over 2 hours away. I paid for dinner, drinks and paid for my train tickets. I got ghosted in the end but I never bothered her again. I took that chance and that was not on her.
@chocolatefrenzieya
8 ай бұрын
First, she didn't need to justify her reason for dipping, secondly, for all you young ladies, this is an immediate phone call to the police. IMMEDIATE. Also, please develop situational awareness. I don't know how stealthy he is, but she led him right to her street. Hopefully, he's not exactly sure of her actual abode.
@mamadude505
6 ай бұрын
Right. I would absolutely not argue with him. I would call the police or drive to the police station.
@chocolateice24
8 ай бұрын
If he's racist and toxic def a red flag he sounds like he's giving off seriel killer vibes by following her💀💀💯💯
@citizenearth71
8 ай бұрын
The day the world decides to reject drinking alcohol, the way it rejects smoking today - is the day everyone's lives get better AND longer. Alcohol is so not worth it.
@Undo743
8 ай бұрын
Indeed, sucks that happened to her, but she did sound drunk, but I'm no t a breathalyzer so I'm just speculating because they were at a bar in which a dude bought her 300 bucks of alchahol, so one would assume they drank a bunch and now are both driving drunk. I wish people would stop driving drunk. I'm glad she's alive however, and no innocent person lost their life, but that stuff happens. I will advocate against drinking and driving any day. Personally, I think she should have called the cops. And technically, she doesn't need to post it online, only the cops or the courts really need to footage. The rest to me, just feels like it is a tad bit for clout on her part, and no, I'm not defending him, he is absolutely in the wrong on his part. Either way, my biggest issue is the drinking and driving, and of course the guy being a creep, don't do that guys.
@Skank_and_Gutterboy
8 ай бұрын
But it performed a service today. It caused him to lose his inhibitions enough to use racial slurs around her and proved without doubt that he's a total dink.
@juelanthonybeats2123
8 ай бұрын
Thank you alcohol is awful and brings out the absolute worst in people. I can attest from my own experiences. I got myself into some Trouble drinking before hitting the wheel in the past. Also right now I do Lyft and Uber part time have to deal with a lot of drunk people in my rides. Most of the interactions with these people are either disingenuous or extremely brash to the point where I get a bit concerned for my safety. I’m never touching an alcoholic drink again!
@brunoqnzbk7891
7 ай бұрын
I have gotten drunk and NEVER ACTED like this. Excuse. That's why the law doesn't excuse people because they killed or raped someone because they were drunk.
@citizenearth71
7 ай бұрын
@brunoqnzbk7891 It's also about being drunk and, as a result, vulnerable as a woman. When a woman drinks alcohol, she diminishes her own judgement and awareness and reaction time and might not be as capable of protecting herself than if she is sober. (The girl sounds scared and drunk in this video.) As a female, I don't get the attraction of dulling my mind and intuition with alcohol and drugs when I go out at night and meet people I am unfamiliar with.
@johntesh199
8 ай бұрын
why would you spend $300 on a girl on a first date. Hes just a simp lol
@willn8664
8 ай бұрын
THIS. If other person is expecting you to spend a lot on them on the first date and even on the second and third then they are not right for you.
@mikes7446
8 ай бұрын
Thinking he’d get laid
@Josh-py9rq
8 ай бұрын
LOL exactly I am like I don't even have to spend 40 bucks hell most ladies will come up to me at the bar have their own drinks flirt a bit then boom back to my place for fun lol this guy has no game.
@aplive58
8 ай бұрын
He probably thought it would buy him a relationship or sex. Giving me some serious niceguy vibes.
@RossLinderman
8 ай бұрын
This is so beyond the pale. There's definitely a reason that he's "been down this road before". It won't be the last time.
@simondawe8774
7 ай бұрын
Sounds like this guy is a walking restraining order
@dave11686
8 ай бұрын
I would have called the cops
@ThoughtsandGlares
8 ай бұрын
she would prob have gotten a DUI
@Mystic-WTF
8 ай бұрын
I wouldn't have gone home if I knew he was following me. If I didn't know and he came up to me, I would pretend I was at a friend's house and then call the cops. I always carry a weapon of some kind. Glad you're safe. Don't date people that you meet online. 90% of the time, they're frauds or worse. Be diligent and stay safe. ✌️
@Undo743
8 ай бұрын
Agreed. Find relationships with people you meet in person. They tend to be more meaningful. That's not to say that people can't meet online, it's just saying, if you take yourself away from the internet, you'll see there is life outside. That part wasn't directed at you, that part is more for in general.
@Mystic-WTF
8 ай бұрын
@@Undo743 I totally understand what you mean. Get out in the world instead of hiding behind a keyboard. ✌️👍🍻
@AppStateWaifu
8 ай бұрын
My heart’s beating fast for her 😨 Yes Xenoshot I’m also curious on a follow up. Hope she stays safe
@thedenntist
8 ай бұрын
Simply report a drunk driver and don't engage. Unless, of course, she was DWI also.
@ThoughtsandGlares
8 ай бұрын
she prob was
@RachelStormborn
8 ай бұрын
If you know you're being followed (I don't know if she knew or not until she actually got home) DO NOT drive to your home. Drive to a public place where there are other people and stay there no matter how tired you are or whatever. Now this woman will be looking over her shoulder for a very long time concerned that this unhinged idiot will show up and harm her. If she posts a follow up I would love to see it.
@Undo743
8 ай бұрын
And don't forget, be prepared to call the cops.
@littleangel4780
8 ай бұрын
Better yet, drive to a police or fire station
@tiredofthebs8290
8 ай бұрын
A public place is good but a police station, fire station or hospital would be even better. ❤
@PepeToTheMooon
8 ай бұрын
He’s already going cray and it’s just the first date. Imagine being in a relationship with him. Oh well, back to his parents basement he goes.
@TheBastardWombatKing
8 ай бұрын
He really tried the Costanza defense? I know black people!🤣
@dabullzfan25
8 ай бұрын
😂😂
@happylizard7741
6 ай бұрын
He expected sex in return for paying for the date. Unfortunately alot of guys think going on a date is the same as hiring a prostitute & that you owe them. This is why i pay my half & stay armed and on alert when I used to go on first dates
@tylerzeno1025
2 ай бұрын
You literally have no statistic to back this claim up. But you won't talk about the entitled women. lol.
@siddharthvasu3511
2 ай бұрын
@@tylerzeno1025The video is already an example of that. Also no one is saying that entitled women don't exist, it's just not relevant to this situation
@nonexistent2335
2 ай бұрын
@@siddharthvasu3511 i think their feelings got hurt lmao
@_Dynamight_
2 ай бұрын
Yup, some guys are just being nice, which is fine. Some expects 'that' in return. Gross. So my advice to all my fellow ladies, just pay for your food yourself. Never place yourself in his debt. You never know whether the guy is a monster or not.
@Djevan41598
8 ай бұрын
That guy ain’t going to find a girlfriend acting like that
@stychentyme
8 ай бұрын
I don't understand what was going through this guys head. Follow her home? He's lucky she didn't call the cops on him. Are men these days so fragile? I haven't dated in a long time, but doing something like this would never occur to me,... however I also don't use racial slurs, so yeah. Truly hope this gal can recover from this and move on. I do think she should have police report done up, but that would be up to her.
@AdamSmithChill
8 ай бұрын
guy: hello black friend? can you please tell my date i'm not racist. black friend: i don't think he's racist. girl: omg you were telling the truth! please come inside and spend the night!
@xhosagibran370
8 ай бұрын
“I’ve been down this road before”, I wonder why??
@SpookieCupcakes
8 ай бұрын
That is the most dangerous video I think I've ever seen on your channel. That could have ended so much worse. I would have called the police.
@greenfairy6552
8 ай бұрын
There are guys out there that if they spend money on you they think you owe them.
@mamabear-9.18.18
8 ай бұрын
And they promote this mindset on their podcasts then they too cry and overreact when they are canceled. *cough cough* "Fresh & Fit", "Just Lonely Things" (aka "Just Pearly Things", etc. Here's the outcome and repercussions of the amazing alpha male mindset advice.
@phoneemail2035
8 ай бұрын
Is that any more unreasonable than women showing up to a date feeling entitled to have everything paid for? This is why adults split the bill or don’t project expectations on others. I loan people money the same way I buy someone a meal when I offer, with no expectations of reciposity.
@jessicaferguson4518
7 ай бұрын
I'd never go to dinner on a first date. Too much pressure. I met my husband at Starbucks so I could leave if I didn't like him. Both parties should think that way
@OG-uq9yb
6 ай бұрын
Movies and shows have rotted peoples brains
@billysaint4981
8 ай бұрын
They both sound drunk AF
@Nebulababy13
8 ай бұрын
Ladies. If you have access to your phone during an interaction like this, CALL. THE. COPS. in that moment. Stop being passive and nice. They don't deserve it. While they rant, dial 911. Stop waiting for them to go away
@noemad5391
8 ай бұрын
Coming to the comments to see what unhinged individuals have to say in his defense
@merobhabtamu3331
Ай бұрын
Yeah , too, I thought most guys will defend him😂
@bettybunbun9664
6 ай бұрын
I'm pretty thin skinned myself (wish I wasn't but I am who I am). When a woman rejects me, it cuts right through me. But the only thing you can reasonably do is take it and move on, its true.
@sherrienale9974
8 ай бұрын
I think first dates with a stranger it's best to go dutch,thus preventing this reaction from loose canon's if the date ends on a sour note..Who spends 300 on a first date normally? I thought the guy said she left him at the party?? Maybe I misheard,,if so,my bad !
@debbieedwards420
8 ай бұрын
Thanks Xenoshot.😊So there are guys still out there that women should lay down with them because of the cost of a dinner?
@arthurneddysmith
8 ай бұрын
Never ever let someone follow you home after a negative interaction. It's not difficult to take a few lefts and rights in order to see if there's a tail.
@angiec3512
8 ай бұрын
Yes, please do a follow up video. I'm curious as well. She should've drove straight to the police station when he started going psycho. I would've just drove off and went there and filed a report about what happened, just in case this guy ever shows up to where she lives. This psycho is an idiot for wanting to take her to a very expensive restaurant on a first date. Smh
@micktaylor5205
7 ай бұрын
Hope she got a restraining order.
@markbrown4039
8 ай бұрын
A nice change of pace, a video where the poster is not the whackjob. Follow up video, please. The guy sounded like he was drunk, and therefore shouldn't have been driving in the first place. To be fair, we didn't hear him say the n-word, but when he started dropping the c-word, that's another red flag. And when he offers to call up his Black friends to prove he's not racist, here's a newsflash...you can have Black friends and still be racist based on you using the n-word. When I was single, I had my share of first dates that didn't go further than that. And that's ok. It's often not you personally, there's just no magic. Shrug it off and move on. This woman made the mistake of engaging with him after she bailed. Don't. You can't reason with a man-child. And if you think you're being followed or stalked, DON'T go home. Drive to the nearest police station and call them on the way so they expect you.
@josueveguilla9069
8 ай бұрын
Welcome to Clown Planet, ladies and gentlemen.
@machetefreddy2851
8 ай бұрын
Ah, that poor bruised ego. 🙄
@Wulfyr
7 ай бұрын
Look bruv. Leave her alone and get tf over it. She doesn't owe you. Go home. Have some pride and dignity man.
@Ifoughtpiranhas
8 ай бұрын
This is actually a blessing. She dodged a major bullet. Maybe he did too if she didn't at least offer to "go dutch" on the bill on the first date. But this guy has major emotional control and anger issues.
@JaxonSmithers
8 ай бұрын
Dodged a huge bullet. At least a vulnerable narcissist, possibly a psychopath.
@melindaroop1346
8 ай бұрын
Unless he was the one that asked her out. If you want a woman to go dutch, don't ask her out.
@josepha3805
4 ай бұрын
I would be pissed as hell if I spent $300 on some girl & she left in the middle over some silly word, but to follow her home is just loserdom.
@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066
8 ай бұрын
Creepy AF! Do NOT go home, drive to the police station!
@JaxonSmithers
8 ай бұрын
I’m concerned that he could show up there at some point. He strikes me as someone who’s capable of being violent. Would like to see a follow-up.
@ToureTaylor
5 ай бұрын
"I'm not racist..." "I am calling my black friends now." 💀
@TCR2025
8 ай бұрын
I can tell this is one of those dudes who listens to that “red-pilling”nonsense like Donovan sharpe.
@bluesapphireymca
7 ай бұрын
A man who hit on me at a house party who i rejected let himself into my house hours later after waiting outside for my housemates to leave. It was fucking terrifying
@the_missing_peace_
6 ай бұрын
She risked her safety for likes & attention on social media, instead of going to the cops. She’s an idiot. She decided to confront him at her car door instead of going to the police station…if she was so unsafe she would have never even allowed him to get that close to her and going back and forth. This is how so many women get killed because you assume that the way you look won’t cause you to loose your life.
@TanukiOkiyo
8 ай бұрын
Might want to check if he has a record for domestic violence or check his yard for bodies . Fr
@dreadfuldee2432
8 ай бұрын
The first date should be simple and easy A cup of coffee, maybe lunch....
@FeeJohnson
8 ай бұрын
2:39 slurring the words... they are so drunk and driving and stalking. This does not look good man
@Undo743
8 ай бұрын
Indeed, both were drinking and driving. That's probably what she means by the "hate comments" I'm glad she's safe from being hurt or kidnapped, but I will call out drinking and driving. And they both were slurring their words.
@christinenolan1418
8 ай бұрын
This poor woman. I’m glad shes safe. Be careful.
@syd1196
7 ай бұрын
As soon as I realized it was him at my house, I would’ve called the police. We never would’ve had a conversation. So dangerous and quite terrifying that he sees no issue with this behavior. Would be scared that he’d come back. Would’ve been trying to figure out how to drive off.
@RudySpontaneousAdventures
8 ай бұрын
Glad that girl is safe. Sheesh following her to her house. That’s insane..
@cameronrazavi5532
8 ай бұрын
It's guys like this that give us all a bad name. Gentleman, step in and call them out whenever you see this!!!
@derrickzanni1762
19 күн бұрын
I used to openly clown on some creep in high school who would harass girls all the time. Bro was so delusional that in the face of confrontation he couldn’t help himself to cope and defend his disgusting behavior. These people are sick and can’t be helped.
@Rasia-lu2ib
7 ай бұрын
Shes his first hottie
@mortanicus5871
8 ай бұрын
I smell a creepy narcissist!!
@emperornav1115
6 ай бұрын
Both of them.
@SulfuricLover
22 күн бұрын
@@emperornav1115 elaborate?
@SulfuricLover
22 күн бұрын
most narcissists are more self aware than this I think he's just socially inept
@Wulfyr
7 ай бұрын
Anyone with a sister knows what I'm feeling right now.
@OG-uq9yb
6 ай бұрын
Murderous
@simonsmith1974
4 ай бұрын
I'm tamping mate. And my sister is older and married but if this had happened when I was younger? I'd be finding out where he lived and paying him a little visit
@cometzz_c1rcuzz
7 ай бұрын
Bout 30 yrs ago my uncle was at a bar having a great time. When he left he noticed a car following him home. He got out and confronted the guy. Guy said he thought me uncle was hot and asked him on a date (im not saying what he him was right) my uncle punched the guy right in the face and said he wasn't gay and for the guy to get the fuck away from him.
@sd21910
8 ай бұрын
Yea it’s wrong, but then she goes on about a “swollen eye” looking for sympathy. This whole world is a bunch of soft clout chasing people. What a joke on both sides. Why would anyone post this anyway. I’ll give us another 20 years if that and then we are done. Everyone is so soft anymore and there’s always an excuse when you need one
@emperornav1115
6 ай бұрын
100%
@BabyDoll-fs3bu
8 ай бұрын
Trust me when I say: This man is extremely dangerous!! Not only bc he followed her home but bc of the word that starts with a “C”. When a man calls a woman that, there is absolutely no respect, love, humility, etc, in his heart. He most certainly will hurt someone- if he hasn’t already. *She’s the picture of all the ladies who have been unalived by an unhinged man*…. 😢R.I.P. to all 💜 Why did she let him spend so much though? And how could you be so unaware of your surroundings that you don’t look around to see if he’s following you or not? ? Come on ladies!! Wake up!! Pay attention!!! Please! AND PITCH IN $$$$$$$$$
@Josh-py9rq
7 ай бұрын
Have you met anyone who is British LOL they say that like every other word their cussing is on a completely different level
@AmbblyPuff
8 ай бұрын
I wouldn't handle this as calmly as she did if some creep followed me home. I would've called the police.
@lizcollinson2692
5 ай бұрын
Drive to the cop shop even.
@tiredofthebs8290
8 ай бұрын
Xeno, it would be awesome if you could post a follow-up if one becomes available. I pray that she remains safe. The fact that he knows where she lives is not good.
@soundofsouls2320
8 ай бұрын
This is why when you meet someone you don't allow them to spend that much money on you because you don't know what they think they are entitled to remember you don't know this person why do you need a stranger to spend money on you just to get to know each other this dude is a total creep and guess what creeps when they spend money they think they're entitled to if you don't know them then go out get a coffee talk and pay for your own damn coffee and leave secondly I would never go out on a date and get drunk with someone that I don't know
@outaaspace6156
2 ай бұрын
honestly, id drive to the police station. he can follow me there. 🤪 word of advice, dont say its your home, say its a friends or something they will be less likely to come back.
@Celestial_jade43
8 ай бұрын
this is why you carry a weapon as a single women. period. one wrong word and that could have been her life
@Materialgirl_3
7 ай бұрын
Followed her home? I really hope it wasn’t her house. Someone like this will be back
@kjs0391
8 ай бұрын
Everything is wrong in here. When he stormed off like a 3 year old saying he drove an hour and the coin. Start that car up. Leave. Call assistance.
@tThisNThat
8 ай бұрын
Dude was slurring...he was tipsy AF....She dodged a big ole bullet on that one! If that is how he reacts after dippin on a date, imagine how abusive he will be once you live together....NOPE!
@Undo743
8 ай бұрын
They were nothing drinking and driving. I dont agree with what the dude did, but I will call out drinking and driving, and she was sluring words. Stop drinking and driving people.
@kcm4511
6 ай бұрын
I had a male coworker follow me home from work. He was upset that I had rejected his sexual advances. I actually got home and parked in my driveway and realized a car parked on the curb right after I parked. I called one of my friends who is a local police officer and thankfully he was on shift and he was doing rounds so he swung by my house and the guy left.
@Rowan-mo4ko
6 ай бұрын
They both sound drunk and shouldn't have been driving.
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