I swear, I’m done with ”trying to manifest“. I feel like the law of assumption and techniques have got me into a rabbit hole at some point. Now I’m just back to how I lived my life before knowing anything about manifestation - I’m just more mindful and focus on my well-being and confidence more! Detaching and just going with the flow whilst doing my best to stay happy and relaxed is the way I do it now. Love your video! ❤
@ijwd424
Жыл бұрын
Ironically, that's exactly what the law of assumption is
@abar612
Жыл бұрын
I am exactly there. Like, I'm done doing techniques and trying to achieve something, now it's just I have desires and let them come to me and I'm content with my self and life. It feels like a big victory. I'm glad you're feeling something similar too
@jillkx
Жыл бұрын
@@ijwd424 didn’t realise. I always assumed that the law of assumption requires persisting on your desires, saying affirmations etc.
@ijwd424
Жыл бұрын
@@jillkx Probably because tiktok and most youtube coaches ruined law of assumption. Neville Goddard put it in terms as simple as possible (which is why he's most people's go-to): you basically just have to believe you already have your desires or that they're already promised to you and that's it. After that, you get out of your own way and go with the flow. You technically don't have to do anything else. Techniques are just things that help you, not everything will work for everyone. Tiktok made persisting out to be forced affirmations while you're crying in the bathroom lol, that won't do anything but make you feel like shit. Persistance just means that you don't fall back into a story you don't like (such as "I'm unloveable") and when you do, you take yourself out of it. Tiktok also made techniques the most important thing in manifesting when they're not even that important.
@yng27
Жыл бұрын
@@jillkx “I Am” and your imagination is the most powerful. Like IJ WD wrote, unfortunately this practice has gotten muddied and flooded by people on social media who either turned this into a business by selling classes/coaching or those who swear they’ve made a breakthrough and claim that their method is the way the works best. even Neville wasn’t the end all be all, you are. If you decide that you need 1 or 100 affirmations a day then that’s what it is, you’re the creator and you’re the one who chooses. techniques and methods are absolutely not necessary (nothing wrong with them at all i love them!) , imagination is
@haleydaye7246
Жыл бұрын
'You are the sky, everything else is just the weather,' LOVE THIS. ❤️
@questforwholeness
Жыл бұрын
huge
@CAL-of9mu
Жыл бұрын
That is quoted from a lady named Peema Chaudron, a bouddhist monk.
@spmoran4703
Жыл бұрын
So do I.
@spmoran4703
Жыл бұрын
@@CAL-of9mu I have read some of her books . I reccomend them.
@millylagat
Жыл бұрын
oh yes!
@K1111A
Жыл бұрын
“You got at attached to the love that they were giving you, that you weren’t giving yourself”
@heyjavonnejay
Жыл бұрын
I had to run that part back!
@f8hmida
Жыл бұрын
thats so good
@inflames2070
Жыл бұрын
Bullshit
@jamalydude
Жыл бұрын
Dude it’s so true. I’ve been broken for so long and this hit me deep
@thediynetwork11
Жыл бұрын
i needed to hear this right now
@MrExtraFINESSEtrial
Жыл бұрын
To love is to attach. To be broken or hurt is to detach. Never subject yourself to unnecessary war and pain. You sound like you love extremely hard. That love can never be replaced and some people will long to have such love and affection in their lives. Stay strong and "protect your energy"
@trollzynisaacjohan1793
Жыл бұрын
I feel Like I've disociated so much that I've finally become apathetic to my former expectations in relationships and I feel actually happier. You become so less needy and chill.
@mzhaque
Жыл бұрын
When you let go, you feel relax & that's when your manifestation comes true. That means , if you're tension free in a wish fulfillment stage, you will see it soon.
@marree9570
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this! I was getting so sick of setting timers to affirm or making tapes. No more sticking to rigid schedules that have been ingrained into me from LOA communities on Twitter or YT. I’m just living. It’ll come to me, as Neville said it’s already done.
@maleekaismyguardianangel
Жыл бұрын
You got this💗
@NoToYellowpigs
Жыл бұрын
was thinking that way too. It's already done to me. With prayers, it manifest.. I'm dependent to God.
@dr.m6152
Жыл бұрын
Oh no no that's really too much girl!
@kimmydiunicorn
Жыл бұрын
You’re voice is so therapeutic. I’m an auditory learner. This for sure could be a guided meditation for me. You dropped so many gems 🥹❤️ Thank you.
@mesunekonyan
Жыл бұрын
I detached myself to almost everything in my surroundings. I even detached myself from my friends; now when they ignore me it feels normal back then when they do that it messes my mind. So detaching and not controlling the uncontrollable give me peace.
@Juicyfruit12345
Жыл бұрын
How about you get some new friends instead of settling for ones that ignore you
@Yoyoyo-k3k
Жыл бұрын
"what they bring to the table that's already full"🍃❤️loved it
@jennyrobo
11 ай бұрын
Practicing self love and following what feels good without trying to control others or the outcome. Radically accepting what you can’t control and focusing on what you can control that makes you happy
@smak387
Жыл бұрын
Detachment is hard because everuthing demands intimacy. Friends, work, family....they all want extreme intimacy in return and when they notice you are detached they can feel hurt. This tends to be the root of many problems
@briannataggart3997
Жыл бұрын
I love this video so much, it really resonated with me 💜 I recently started working on detaching from outcomes, and I feel like what’s been working for me is also becoming comfortable with the idea that my life is good the way it is without the certain thing I’m manifesting. I’d reaffirm to myself “Despite the outcome, things in my life are good just the way they are”. Lo and behold, I ended up getting them! When it comes to relationships, detachment is a bit easier when I ground myself and recognize when I’m attached to a person versus the IDEA of that person (it’s usually the idea of the person I get attached to)
@manga_kita
Жыл бұрын
How do you know the difference between the idea of the person or the actual person?
@bluestrife28
Жыл бұрын
I can’t hear these words enough. Some of us have waited far too long to try and fix some deep-seeded habits and ideas, but knowing we aren’t alone out there helps so much! I’ve been trying to throw off the yoke of the obsessive fearful need to control things and keep them either safe or unable to hurt me my whole life. The struggle is real. Thanks again.
@UniqueAdrianiOfficial
5 ай бұрын
“ you are the weather “- whenever shifts in the weather happens, it’s always to help out the earth in some way. and that’s how i like to view it. my storms, cold days, etc are helping me for the other seasons in my life ✨. Everything works out even if you don’t see it, like the weather
@rx.104
Жыл бұрын
I needed this so bad. I been a 6 year relationship which was off and on and we was so toxic for each other but we couldn't let go of each other but recently he jumped in a relationship with another person and i was so attach to him. i couldn't let go but i;m learn to be independent without anyone around , i know he will come back but I want to be healed and able to tell let him know in the proper way how everything we have done to each other fucked me up.
@ladygodiva4141
Жыл бұрын
I was always in touch with my thoughts, goals and feelings until I entered an abusive relationship and it eroded all sense of self. It’s so important to remain anchored into yourself. I am now slowly after 2 years returning to my body (not just running on stress and autopilot) and its really knocked my self confidence. Beautiful and calming video, thank you 🙏
@energyistruth
Жыл бұрын
Immaculate vibes. You are such a lovely person ❤ I appreciate this channel so much.
@justletitlinger
Жыл бұрын
This made me feel good and at peace, thank you so much for this wonderful video!
@kareemchoucair3755
Жыл бұрын
thank you for this reminder. truly, thank you
@PopsikleShop
Жыл бұрын
I just got off the phone with my therapist where I literally was feeling everything you were saying💖 thank you! I love your flow & I most definitely thumbs up this video & subscribed to you!☺️💛
@blurryface4519
8 күн бұрын
"why do things have to work out exactly picture for picture as you visualize them what if they worked out better" hit me hard🤧
@gemini36B
Жыл бұрын
I had to watch this twice bc ur voice made me fall asleep 😴🤷🏽♀️
@missmaomi28
Жыл бұрын
I needed this… 🎀 Your channel is my fave❤
@phillypainting303
Жыл бұрын
You are truly my guardian angel. Thank you for all of your uploads and personal experiences. much appreciated.
@coserkaze
Жыл бұрын
When I say I NEEDED this video...man. I'm currently going through whirlwind of problems that are forced upon me, and I've been desperate to gain control over everything for fear that if I dont, my problems will swallow me whole. I've always known I have an issue with "control", not in any harmful sense, but because I cant help but feel like I'm always burdened with issues that force ONLY me to find the solution to. But maybe that isnt the case, and maybe that's why I keep going through these problems...to learn a lesson in learning to detach and just do what you can with minimal desire to achieve an ideal outcome.
@aleenahalleman2403
Жыл бұрын
I want to live by this. I want to be unattached and I want to work on not needing people in my life all the time. I want to break up with someone that has caused me so much pain in the time I’ve been with them and they don’t care. So I will try and detach from everything so it will be easier for me to leave this person.
@EMPANAO321
Жыл бұрын
Lol why u sorround yourself with people that cause u pain??
@thickfitsteph
Жыл бұрын
I literally thought about you a few minutes ago… I turned on my KZitem and you were there 😳 We are all connected
@Wearethechamps
Жыл бұрын
So blessed to hear a like minded evolving soul today. Thank you universe for this video and the sharer 💛🌻✌🏾
@tayleermugar
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this.
@michaelchase5304
Жыл бұрын
"remove yourself from the picture" the *weather* of emotions, situations, etc. Nice!
@Dave_Bean
Жыл бұрын
Take care of yourself FIRST in all things and you will become a miracle to others I love your talks!
@rebekka8192
Жыл бұрын
Detachment is the most luxurious feeling ever🙏🏻🎀🤍
@sagwa1985
Жыл бұрын
Whoa. Why did this come about at a eerily necessary time in my life? Thank you for this.
@nayanaparmesh5343
9 ай бұрын
1. Remove yourself from the picture 2. Temporary weather (This too shall pass) 3. Self control (Regulate emotions,prioritise yourself, self love) 4. Be aware of things you can and cannot control
@RaissaHeidi
Жыл бұрын
Love your saying in attachment. I needed to hear it so bad and it complemented what I learn in therapy. Thanks a lot ❤
@RekhaRadera
Жыл бұрын
Ur voice is so calm n soothing..so r u❤
@kristibivins9632
Жыл бұрын
Detaching has been the only thing that has worked for me one of the most amazing videos yet 100% truth
@francesm4314
Жыл бұрын
You have the best advice. I love your content.
@princess17257
Жыл бұрын
Amazing video! I needed this today
@dharmasutraa3992
Жыл бұрын
attachment leads to suffering, so this is a good strategy 👏🏽
@micheleduffy2190
Жыл бұрын
This is excellent and exactly what I needed to see right now. Subscribing immediately!
@savvy1128
Жыл бұрын
Your video came up on my for you page, I’m grateful that I found it! I needed it.
@hak33malmustapha
Жыл бұрын
"I am the sky, everything else is just the weather."
@miyaa-rahman3723
Жыл бұрын
This was my feeling for the past two day. Thank you for your perfectly timed video. It was so needed!
@XMissCupCakejeee
Жыл бұрын
You voice is very comforting and the way it's filmed it very comforting to me as well, thank you for creating and sharing
@fireboltzer0634
Жыл бұрын
Thank you and god bless you I really needed this.
@GHOSTRIDER4EVER
Жыл бұрын
This woman is getting in my spirit, and I need it.
@leroystea8069
Жыл бұрын
Had re-subscribed. Originally was clearing my subscriptions that I wasn't viewing. But your last several videos really hit home for me. Thank you for this one. Makes perfect sense 😇🙏
@AJB828
Жыл бұрын
beautifully made. felt like you were talking straight to me
@nexusgirl5402
Жыл бұрын
I watch this every single day...just to remind myself...Thank you so so much xxoo
@thereprogram888
Жыл бұрын
this is the most valuable thing that people need to learn
@camsquadronnie7935
Жыл бұрын
Detach and just be beingness
@JanineHyslop
Жыл бұрын
You have a great voice to listen to so many voices grate on me yours is relaxing.
@varushar1
Жыл бұрын
Hi, thank you for the insightful video. Please make a video about the Mother wound and best way to heal it with love, compassion and light.
@veritydivinity4309
Жыл бұрын
I can literally tell you, you found me at the right time. in the knick of time! and one person in the comment about letting go also helped me. the pain i am in feel as if it will finally consume me soon, as I hold on to just but a small hope that I will get out ever if I don't apply this well. how can help my life not to end in suicide, idk, i dont see it at this time. so i will listen again and try again.
@alleywayyy
Жыл бұрын
i think the weather is best seen as the emotions and that everything happening to you is pollution cause its harming you mentally and you can't control it but u can control how you react like you have a farm and it represents ur mentaly health when you take care of it, it can make u happy by giving u food and being beautiful but when crows come to pluck at it and take a bite what are you gonna do?? and the crows represent other manipulative/people disrupting ur peace and over all you just can choose what to do to stop them crows by like giving them the food from your farm even though u need it to survive or putting up a scare crow which doesn't really work too which would represent a fake face maybe or you can build a green house over ur crops which is basically strengthening your mental stability with extra care and protection and self love
@Sayre777
Жыл бұрын
I feel detached from everything everyday and it’s miserable and I can’t seem to be normal for anyone or anything ever. Everything sucks.
@alexthievery7834
Жыл бұрын
I love everything this video gives off the vibes everything, thank you so much
@anabmohamed7241
Жыл бұрын
I love the whole energy of this video.
@kwekhu-ty7et
Жыл бұрын
Acceptance with no fear of rejection can produce trust. Minidstates probable futures and timeliness. Gdspeed
@MzSoulll
Жыл бұрын
Needed this so much. Ugh, thank you
@CreativeLegend2023
Жыл бұрын
I like your vibe kid.
@Angeltara02
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for these wise words. You are a gift to humanity. I can only imagine the things you'll do in your life.
@cocoonme1984
Жыл бұрын
Hi! I'm only starting to look into manifesting and I'm happy I found you. 🙌
@FluentlyFletch
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this queen.
@fuzzblender
Жыл бұрын
This helps. Thank you.
@yashikamamtagoidani4606
Жыл бұрын
Hello Maleeka, i would love to see you talk and guide us on the topic of self regulation, believing ourselves and self love, in action terms and the procedure of that. Your voice really calms me and guides me the best
@ryannelson2255
Жыл бұрын
Great work, love your disposition and sharing about smthn you yourself are mindful of 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤
@alexandracannizzaro810
Жыл бұрын
Woah, I absolutely loved this video!! Thank you so so much for sharing this wisdom with us. You're a wonderful human being. Big hug!!
@winterqueenkel
Жыл бұрын
I'm 45 and never had a boyfriend--I'm so detached, I could never attach. That's what abuse can do to a weak, scared soul.
@IamliterallyToji_777
Жыл бұрын
This is just a venting comment: I cut off my friends and it's been really painful... I did it because i've been disrespected way too many times, i told them that it hurts me and i don't like it but they kept pushing and pushing until i cut them all off. I sit alone at uni while seeing them have fun in front of me, i feel kinda uncomfortble being alone in such a crowded place but at least i don't feel drained like i did with them.
@ashleyd7447
Жыл бұрын
I'm proud of you. It wasn't easy but in the long run you'll see that you're life is better without them. Keep putting yourself and your needs first, uphold strong boundaries, and focus on yourself
@DepecheMode5
Жыл бұрын
It's gon get better, trust me
@flamingaish
Жыл бұрын
you're very brave and you'll be alright soon, i promise. you're loved and i genuinely appreciate you for making that move
@coderlicious6565
Жыл бұрын
I had to cut off 2 siblings due to that. I'm fine with it. I feel great.
@IAMGEORGE415
Жыл бұрын
Letting go - david Hawkins
@becausethisisalex
Жыл бұрын
thank you!
@spiritualkee7192
Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much! I needed this!
@kneedeepentertainment7453
Жыл бұрын
PEACE ✌️ ❤️ AND LIGHT 🙌🏾 GODDESS 👑. KEEP INSPIRING AND REMEMBER TO CONTINUE AND VIBRATE AT YOUR HIGHEST FREQUENCY 🌌🪶🪬💫🧘🏽🌎🙏🏾💜🌹🤴🏿
@Flyest90
Жыл бұрын
I needed this
@catherineclarke489
Жыл бұрын
Really appreciate this message!!
@riasarkar4653
6 ай бұрын
Literally, I don’t feel I’m anyway less and I work on myself. But detachment, is not in my nature, by nature I have control issues. How do I even start with detachment!!! Aarrgghhh!!!
@dreamcatcher77777
10 ай бұрын
Hey Chelsea, when i detach i really detach, so i find it difficult to then appreciate or pay attention to the blessings when they do come in (because i've made them my equal, so i don't think about them twice because i don't find happiness in them) could you pls do a video about how to not become entitled to what you've manifested🙏🏽
@ShoshoAkinyele
Жыл бұрын
This came at such a good time ❤
@annalovebrows
Жыл бұрын
Habits need repetition ❤
@r.4m4n
Жыл бұрын
Thank you❤
@katt1134
Жыл бұрын
Wow ! Great amazing video ❤Love you
@Gabbiereal
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing.
@jazzynikkipromotions
Жыл бұрын
Love this! Thank you!
@R3DMAN451
Жыл бұрын
I Regret a lot, time I'll never get back and where I've felt (at the time) was worth Investing in. Fuck it
@tequilachanel7312
Жыл бұрын
I loved this so much. Thank you 💕🖤
@MrAlarine
Жыл бұрын
Interesting. I get the....feeling..... when i watch you speak on this topic...Only three people have done this on my journey, my-self included, you are now the Fourth.
@KadeemJames
Жыл бұрын
🤲🏿🧎🏿 peaceful
@wowsports8800
Жыл бұрын
I'm actually confused. I'm detached to an extreme level but always been extremely controlling, as my detachment grew, I turned this need of control into a careless behavior and an " I can't control, I won't think about the future" attitude
@2okaycola
Жыл бұрын
I'm very good at this
@shae7217
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@khushboogautam9778
Жыл бұрын
thank you making this video
@maleekaismyguardianangel
Жыл бұрын
My pleasure 🙏🏼
@PathOfMidas
Жыл бұрын
it doesn't always work out. it's perpetual torment.
@stokes111111
Жыл бұрын
Love you so much ❤
@anthonycrossley2426
Жыл бұрын
This sounds like Dissociation, which I've been doing for years...
@Devonellah
Жыл бұрын
Personally - I am not into Detachment - I am into CONNECTION :)
@Jjalyn202
Жыл бұрын
Thankyou for this video.
@maleekaismyguardianangel
Жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@lolawho8676
Жыл бұрын
I detached first time in my life and my mum died.
@HappyMindAffirmations
Жыл бұрын
How can you detach from something that you desire most in your life and when there is time pressure? I am trying really hard since a long time. Any advice? 🙏
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