Facts I was just thinking about her the other day 😭
@stormyXwrld
7 ай бұрын
Literally…I’ve missed her so much
@PourLaMourDeLargent
7 ай бұрын
i too have recently discovered that i am on the spectrum, as a fellow Black queer person, I am wishing you the best along your journey ❤
@jeremiahmandrade
7 ай бұрын
I don’t have the social capacity
@starlenekayci
7 ай бұрын
I still wear the sweater 🥲
@aaron_osborne
7 ай бұрын
As a physically disabled college student in 2023 there was an instance where my self esteem plummeted. Like yourself Kai I am an aspiring filmmaker but when a professor said I wasn’t taking lessons seriously I went livid. Sure learning is slow but I still understood what was asked of me. Being away from that specific production course and rediscovering my love for screenwriting has been a huge blessing. My dream of filmmaking is present still but it was an experience of finding the wrong mentor last year.
@hhhsp951
7 ай бұрын
some people are full-time artists. i myself, am a full-time autist.
@issiahharris6134
7 ай бұрын
Honestly such a inspiration as a person who’s going back to school at 22 and black and queer, so thanks for this
@zkkitty2436
7 ай бұрын
I’m a brown queer person going back to school at 22 and it’s.. so rough. Like who cares about homework in these conditions??? Sending you love and hope that you’re relatively okay rn ❤️❤️
@issiahharris6134
7 ай бұрын
@@zkkitty2436 thank you so much honestly I hope all is well for you to, I’m glad that I’m not alone in this situation because I’m looked at as lazy but it’s just ✨Trauma✨
@devantulloch8015
7 ай бұрын
I’ve been watching you since I was a senior in high school. You’ve grown tremendously
@diananavarrete00
7 ай бұрын
I never leave comments on yt but I just wanted to say thank you Kai for always sharing your wisdom and being authentic with us. I've been following you since 2019 and to see your journey has been truly inspiring and motivating bc I relate to you so much and I'm 23 so we're close in age too. I myself have struggled (and sometimes still do) with my sexuality and also feel late to the game sometimes so it was refreshing to hear that someone my age is in the same boat. the way I see it sexuality and gender are fluid, and like you said, we don't have to prove anything to anyone. I didn't feel confident enough to consider myself queer until I turned 22 and around that time you had published a blog post where you came out as queer and I took it as a sign that it's okay to come out, that I'm not late nor early bc this kind of thing doesn't have a age limit, it just feels that way due to our cisheterosexist society. didn't mean for my first yt comment to be an essay but again thank you.
@AmalBarre-h6c
7 ай бұрын
Hello Kai, I have been following you since beginning of uni and starting to believe that I unconsciously was geared to your content as I went through similar struggles. To keep things short, I went through university, but I ended up failing. I started to notice patterns ( struggling to fit in, masking, shutdowns) that was related to my adhd and now suspected autism. I find everything an demand and have put myself flight mode. Since it has now catch up with me, I’m also having to live life in a slow pace, lower demand level now. It’s definitely a shock wondering how did we go through life before. However, I’m starting to give myself grace especially in this current world. It’s a scary world where my ethics and morals do not apply, but I truly agree that community is the best options for those of us that are neurodivergent and/or disabled. Anyways, it was nice seeing you again, stay safe!
@bluumondayy
7 ай бұрын
this video was the first time i untensed my shoulders today. i finally feel like i'm not the only one suffering and holding all of this in my brain.
@Wellyafoundme
7 ай бұрын
I have been lost emotionally, you and many others inspire me. I am writing letting you know that while Im listening to you I am writing and using my voice for change. I want to make this world a better place, for all of us.
@jude3656
7 ай бұрын
Hey Kai, I hope you’re doing well enough in these circumstances! I feel your story and voice have been so relatable and comforting (and ofc important) these past few years. Would love to see you around here more often if you’re ever up for it, for sure! ❤
@renaywaterman815
7 ай бұрын
So refreshing to see you post! I missed your videos! ❤
@marsmakesart
7 ай бұрын
this the first video i’ve seen of yours. i could listen to you talk for hours. thank you for talking about disability justice!
@kid-ava
Ай бұрын
I'm black, queer, have complex trauma and potentially ND. I love and appreciate the content you put out
@lookinthemirrorugly8874
7 ай бұрын
I feel like I’m living in the twilight zone because it seems I’m the only person who still is very cautious of Covid. Like, people do not understand how much you don’t want to have that spike protein in your body. People are going to develop diseases 20-30 years earlier than they were supposed to. Nervous system issues and Alzheimer’s runs in my family and I am not trying to develop problems so early. Covid already did a number on my nervous system so it’s probably already too late anyways. I just wished more people cared.
@basielu
4 ай бұрын
literally found this vid as a Black, queer, self-diagnosed autistic person while detangling for the first time in months because of executive dysfunction.. and you're like my new youtube best friend.
@MuvaEarf
7 ай бұрын
whenever you do pop out, it's always a word 🙏🏾
@abbieamavi
7 ай бұрын
Kai I'm so proud of you. I've been subscribed for awhile and you always keep it genuine. One of the only "influencers" I follow and actually enjoy seeing. Also beautiful to see you thriving in your Black queer and autistic life, when I last watched your videos a lot, I think you still lived in Atlanta, and maybe you had just realized you had ADHD. So incredibly proud of you, I'm so happy for you that you found your people, and are prioritizing mental health and safety. Sending you all the love and joy, and welcome back 💞
@Naa_amanua
7 ай бұрын
you being visible validates my experience a lot, thank you
@OGseoulite
7 ай бұрын
I MISSED YOU SO MUCH KAI😭😭 I don’t follow you on socials cause I did a social media cleansing & removed a lot my filling but I’m glad to see you’re still alive & well❤❤❤❤
@jjordansuccess1015
21 күн бұрын
Hiii KAI, I was here to be nosy at first but you educated me, I am also happy to hear your life update, whether we realize it or not we're all overwhelmed but distract ourselves to put up with it...I like your approach! Cause life really a nightmare out here
@rosiiie3840
7 ай бұрын
I missed you sm! been watching you since your high school vids
@_ayannaxo
6 ай бұрын
Hey Kai! I have been watching your videos since 2019. I resonate so much with your content. (I'm a 23 year old black queer autistic woman from the DMV who has just been diagnosed less than a month ago. I dropped out of college back in 2020, but I finally decided to resume my schooling at a community college too this past fall where I can only take a certain amount of classes at a time. I deal with overstimulation also and find socializing and performing daily tasks quite challenging and time consuming.) As you mentioned in this video, representation is really important and I am truly grateful for your insightful videos that help me feel less alone, understood, and validated. I admire how intelligent, articulate, and honest you are. Thank you for sharing such vulnerable thoughts and experiences. ❤
@ThePaperbackFairy
7 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing Kai, I appreciate this discussion and your vulnerability. I’m part of the queer autistic community and I relate a lot you experience. Thank you again, you’ve made my day a little bit better!
@bisoulune5879
7 ай бұрын
It’s a breath of fresh air to see other people who hold the same values and I’m also autistic with OCD + ADHD. Thank you for making your content❤
@Joshdifferent
7 ай бұрын
It’s wild out here
@ShalemAhava
7 ай бұрын
I feel seen here 🥹, thanks for expressing your thoughts sis
@elle.roiproductions
7 ай бұрын
WELCOME BACK KAI! I have PDA Autism and gender queer as well. Everything about this video was spot on. Including being a gay man in a past life. I always tell ppl, yea I'm straight but I love men the like a man. It's nice to see others like me exist. It's been a very lonely 39 years.
@shatasiaj
7 ай бұрын
Kaiiii omg 😭😭 loved sitting down with you at least that’s what it felt like I miss your content so much I also wanted to say thank you for using your platform to speak about the multiple genocides happening rn AND the importance of recognizing how little we all know loved this take thank you for being here!
@Starr_lit
7 ай бұрын
Love your dreads ❤, hair tutorials on hair plz
@madisonshipp8991
7 ай бұрын
hi Kai, I appreciate your vulnerability and representation so much as someone who is also black, queer and autistic/ ADHD. I am excited for more of your videos :) (if you end up continuing to post on youtube!). I resonated with a lot of the points you shared
@akaimarje
7 ай бұрын
i relate to alot of this and its so hard
@serinat2181
7 ай бұрын
Hi Kai, thank you for sharing your experiences. I am a WOC and can relate to the above title. Sending you lots of love and thank you for being a safe space for me when the real world isn't so kind 😥😭❣
@katelyngraham4260
7 ай бұрын
I so feel the "i feel like my dreams are not enough" like in the grand scheme of things it justs seems so unimportant like my dreams have to go further than just me. Its seems almost selfish idk idk
@BlakaveliX
7 ай бұрын
Omg is great to see you!
@sleepypapas
7 ай бұрын
so freaking relatable!🫶🏼love everything you have to say👂🏼i missed your videos!!🤩
@Seia894
7 ай бұрын
Not to also mention hospitals across states are closing!!! It’s crazy out here.
@ijomi
7 ай бұрын
like the desire to do nothing because the future feels so bleak yet living in a capitalistic society is such a funnnnn dichotomy 😻
@mariacampos5049
7 ай бұрын
Hi Kai, its so nice to have u back, I’ve been watching your content for years. I appreciate your thoughts and dedication so much. Hope everything goes well 🫶🏼
@morgipi
7 ай бұрын
missed you ily
@christine3477
7 ай бұрын
The surprise i didnt know i needed!
@jadabrown2569
7 ай бұрын
I love your videos, kai! It’s really cool that you are authentically yourself. I think that’s what it’s all about!
@lovelifesing123
7 ай бұрын
i resonate so deeply with everything that you've spoke about
@thehodgepodge6
7 ай бұрын
Thank you Kai! I am black, queer, and autistic. I loved what you share about gender and I feel similarly! I noticed growing up, I had a lot of obstacles that prevented me from questioning but now since I do not have those pressures, it’s a lot easier for me to be my true self. Not sure if you have read “The Future is Disabled” by Leah Lakshmi Piepsna-Samarasinha, but it’s a good book talking about the what the future of disability will look like. Good stuff though! 🖤
@sophiahillman4219
7 ай бұрын
I literally love Kai. I've always felt like he's one of the only creators who is sooooo legit about the Black and queer experience. I guess some people feel it seems niche but it's literally so liberating hearing a creator that can actually empathize with my experience and they've always been so inclusive. Also I fully agree with the claim that Love on the Spectrum infantilizes people with autism... I just feel like there are no or maybe not enough neurodivergent and/or autistic people behind the camera.
@posd6893
7 ай бұрын
Kai is back!!!!!!!!
@thefemaleuzi
7 ай бұрын
I been watching your channel since I was a freshman, now I’m a senior and I move out this summer omgggg 🙂💗💗💗
@sadefan536
7 ай бұрын
You’ve been missed dearly. ❤
@marzemarcel9529
7 ай бұрын
I feel, and have felt like you were my better spoken other part. I feel like you're what I could have done if I were more clear and concise with my words. I know I shouldn't put a damper on myself because of autism and other perceptions, but people make it clear what they're are and aren't willing to watch, and I couldn't put out videos that I know people wouldn't be able to stand getting through. I'm so grateful you exist and you've gone through this journey. I am asexual as well, and I think it has a lot to do with my germphobia, I don't have OCD, I just have sensory issues and I don't like touching a lot of people. Thank you and once I'm better financially, I'll be able to sub to your patreon and catch up over there
@Kymbrlei
7 ай бұрын
Yes your backkkkk! 🫶🏽
@nunua8294
7 ай бұрын
Kai is BACK!
@victoriajoy2357
7 ай бұрын
your vulnerability is very warming, thank you :)
@C6LD
7 ай бұрын
Kai’s back 🙌🏾
@rebirthofaspiritualbeing
7 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry about you suffering from the shortage - when I moved back to CT from NC I couldn't get my Adderall filled for about a month, and every month after that for about the first 4 I would regularly go about 3 weeks without my medication and it was driving me crazy. I hope that you can find a pharmacy which keeps a regular supply soon
@auriannewithane
7 ай бұрын
I totally relate as a black boy on the spectrum to many of the points about romance.. but then again its like none of that sounds weird or out of the ordinary to me? like that should be the norm to j chill out at 17, 18 to find a decent person. Most of us haven't figured out sexuality or what we like sexually. The bigger conversation should be why heterosexual hypersexualization is still the norm in teens not why are you a virgin at ...? and don't get me started on the stupid patriarchal invention of virginity 🥲
@esperanzaduran-stawiski8590
7 ай бұрын
They just read so many parts of my life I felt isolated in in the first 10 mins
@fionagallagherapologist5968
7 ай бұрын
i missed you sm !! i resonate with this video deeply
@MartinAndGina
7 ай бұрын
Omg Kai, I swear it was about 4 days ago that you randomly popped up in my head and I meant to look you up. Then this video popped up on my timeline! My mind is blown. But imma go ahead and watch the video
@CHARIS7531
7 ай бұрын
Missed you ❤
@ShadowsingerAzi
7 ай бұрын
Kaiiiiii!!! We've really missed you
@msjuier
7 ай бұрын
bro that one hit close to home 🫶🏼T^T
@senhor_errante
24 күн бұрын
I am a bi autistic dude from brazil. I'm 20 and feeling very lonely. It's kinda hard for me to make friends, I usually end up going to places I don't wanna go just to feel like I am part of a group, and I always end up feeling worse. Anyway sorry for oversharing a bit, but your video made me feel like I could still find others who are a bit more like me, and that was kinda nice.
@prettypri1740
7 ай бұрын
Hope you’re doing Alr Kai
@sebastianf6499
7 ай бұрын
Hey beloved, here's a ❤! I love your video. Signed, a Black queen like me ✊🏿🏳🌈
@100Stratusfiedx
7 ай бұрын
14:02 omg. This was me. In fact even in high school people thought I was asexual. This was a great conversation I can relate to a lot of things you said. Also that vyvanse/adderral shortage was hell.
@strvmpet
2 ай бұрын
Thank you
@knottycurl
7 ай бұрын
No one has to accept you and you won’t feel negatively about that once you fully accept yourself.
@kaifoster
7 ай бұрын
you can feel negatively about things and fully accept yourself.
@aw16922
7 ай бұрын
I remember when you moved to ATL while I was in college there and I wanted to meet you and be your friend so bad lol
@Nacidosparadom
7 ай бұрын
Keep your head up ❤️
@mjames8025
6 ай бұрын
👑Kai 🥰
@lovelifesing123
7 ай бұрын
you are amazing. thank you for your video it's awesome
@MeintheMiddle1
2 ай бұрын
I think you should look into PMDD, if you are having 2 good weeks and 2 bad weeks. The mood swings may be it related to your menstrual cycle specifically the luteal phase. That estrogen drop after ovulation is the worst and can be super debilitating. I was just prescribed estrogen during that 10 day period and its a miracle in a bottle.
@alexandriajade
7 ай бұрын
Your hair looks great darling.
@j3llyfru1t
7 ай бұрын
thank you
@newworldlord643
6 ай бұрын
Im queer and have the same diagnoses 😢 life feels impossible. I'm trying to get a book completed now. ❤❤ good luck to you and everyone reading this struggling
@nasgoul59
4 ай бұрын
I appreciate your content. Also black, queer and suspect I’m autistic and it’s very rare I feel truly seen or relatable to others and it makes me glad there are spaces to connect in this day and age :)
@j8cqu3lin3
7 ай бұрын
always enjoy watching your videos, Kai. the peace you are searching for is found only in the arms of Jesus.
@kaifoster
7 ай бұрын
i disagree
@divinelikewine
7 ай бұрын
This was excellent ❤❤
@queencece8666
7 ай бұрын
Truth it’s really just honesty and none of that fake positive bulls hit
@disorientedbutterfly
7 ай бұрын
I have access to the medication and I feel so guilty bc I constantly forget to take it.
@kennypham3856
7 ай бұрын
Jesus, I'm Asian, gay (a dude), and Autistic! I need to listen to this!
@khanyi_oktober
7 ай бұрын
*non-invasive comment/opinion* Would you consider leaving your country and doing an exchange program somewhere? I imagine you spending a year somewhere totally different , doing creative stuff however you wanna
@bevs9995
7 ай бұрын
I read this title as "Diary of quiet black music."
@lov3ufari
7 ай бұрын
the vyvanse shortage is the worst
@cryptid479
18 күн бұрын
Hey there! I know I’m a few months late to this, but I’ve just now gotten to watching this and I personally am kinda confused on what you meant when you said most queer ppl aren’t queer ethically, would you be willing to explain? I don’t mean to be rude in any way, I’m just curious /gen. Love the vid btw!!
@ayishaluke649
7 ай бұрын
at 13:09 talks about how some people are not even ethically queer, i’m kinda new to the community and i’m trying to find out what you mean by that can someone help i feel like i heard the statement before.
@ThatAutisticBlackMan
7 ай бұрын
Being ethically queer is about embodying values of justice, integrity, and compassion in both personal and collective actions, within the framework of queer identity and experience. Being ethically queer can involve actively advocating for social justice, equity, and inclusivity for all marginalized groups, not just within the LGBTQ+ community. This may include supporting intersectional movements and challenging systems of oppression.
@zwriel
7 ай бұрын
I MISSED YOU MAMA
@pussyfruit
7 ай бұрын
Always great hearing from you and your perspectives! glad you’re doing what’s best for you and no one else 🩵
@ameliajohnson2884
7 ай бұрын
Omg kai 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
@mya.y720
7 ай бұрын
I'm similar to you so its great to see this channel
@Savageeye
7 ай бұрын
I missed seeing you 🫶🏾
@anayanikole1381
7 ай бұрын
bruh i missed seeing you
@sanayajames6936
7 ай бұрын
2 years ago, you were posting videos about healing and spiritual journey. Are you still on that journey (if you don’t mind me asking)? I’ve always been very spiritual, and now I’m questioning if I have autism or not. But idk if I’m convincing myself I do or if I actually have it. Sorry if this is outta pocket lmao
@reaastarr
7 ай бұрын
kaiiiiiii.
@jonathanlong2751
7 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@TeagueChrystie
7 ай бұрын
oh hell yes
@indyiahh
7 ай бұрын
So interesting i just thought about youuuu
@diminarchy
7 ай бұрын
Hey sorry if this is unwanted advice, but in lue of stimulants bupropion has helped me a lot with executive functio I have Autism, ADHD, and cPTSD so its something i really struggle with. It did take like 2 weeks before I felt the effect though
@diminarchy
7 ай бұрын
Its also a med they give out (relatively)easily. I've never had a shortage. I double my dose in the winter
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