Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
@laurawheeler-px6oz
Ай бұрын
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
@juanderuano8969
Ай бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@laurawheeler-px6oz
Ай бұрын
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@juanderuano8969
Ай бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@gwynnielsen5081
2 ай бұрын
Being in love is about attraction. Loving is about soul pull, meaning you feel connected to the person on a very deep level.
@BermudaGrass
2 ай бұрын
I think you’re introducing a different type of attraction. She was referring to visual attraction (when your eyes connect to something you like), and you seem to be referring to a spiritual attraction (when your core connects with another’s). Both aren’t always present at the same time, but if we are talking about love…yes, a spiritual attraction does override a visual attraction. And, yes, both being present is ideal but quite rare.
@iamnatlina
Ай бұрын
That is called attraction dear ...
@gwynnielsen5081
Ай бұрын
@@iamnatlina Attraction can be on a superficial level.
@SonuGupta-br2mv
9 күн бұрын
Both can never be present at same time.
@Steve24527
2 ай бұрын
It’s the aura you’re attracted to! Love grows with respect
@Stoiclady777
2 ай бұрын
Yes, you can tell when someone doesn't really love you when they don't make the effort to meet with you.
@Pheonix1111
Ай бұрын
Sadia’s description of love is further proof that narcissists only love themselves and hate others. Narcissists would never undermine their own ego. Narcissists see everyone else’s needs as a burden.
@livingurdreams09
Ай бұрын
Yes, love is all giving __ when both partners work together to uplift each other, that's a true love relationship.
@misspearlangel
2 ай бұрын
To be love long term, we need to work on giving ourselves selflessly. To serve one another in love without be trampled on. Especially the egoist must serve another.
@Taylor086
Ай бұрын
Love is real and unconditional. Love for life. Attraction is fake and conditional. Lust/attraction is good as long as the thing that attracts you remains the same, youthful age, youthful attractive looks, money, success, power, etc But once those things are gone (youthful looks and age changes after 10, 20, 30, 40, 50, 60 Years of marriage). People can loose their successful jobs, cancer and health issues, lose their home or job, then people will walk away from their partner or stay and cheat on their partner, once those things that attracted them are no longer there.
@anuplondhe375
17 күн бұрын
Everything is dumb when you realize that the person you love don't love you back🙃 you can't change someone's feelings towards you, if they want to take advantage of you, they will. Without thinking how much you love them.
@davidsheeran5144
2 ай бұрын
I respect the lady relationship advice on men and women Emotional issues
@deepeshkatiyar1
6 күн бұрын
Giving too much to your partner is nowadays seen as a weakness.. Never go head over heels. Keep it within you even if you are madly and deeply in love.
@Alice-ts3vl
Ай бұрын
To love someone deeply you must be first attracted to someone in some way at least!
@ay-tj7pj
Ай бұрын
Yeah love someone who are attracted to you.
@toddthornton509
2 ай бұрын
Really elucidating theory I agree codependency an inverted narcissism doesn't work.❤😮
@toddthornton509
2 ай бұрын
I'm really attracted to this lady being so pretty an very very clever.😮❤
@user-xi8sd7ks3n
Ай бұрын
if that relationship didn't work out there's always some one else who will make you Happy
@fredom808
3 күн бұрын
Don’t look for fireworks (body warning) look for the fireplace (not attracted at first but feels like home)
@miguelpatrick6192
2 ай бұрын
We don't create Love, Love comes naturally. We live at a time when most people are attracted to everything shallow, everything Worldly, and Love is not in the equation. If One has to create Love, or make Themselves Love Someone, the relationship or situation will not work...
@user-xi8sd7ks3n
Ай бұрын
every person Lives a different lifestyle no one is perfect we all Have made our mistakes in life relationships and so many other things that we as Humanity go through we Learn from it as we grow older
@delviar
Ай бұрын
Finally I can agree with you. At this video only.
@user-yy1oe8cx7k
2 ай бұрын
Attraction is more mystical than LOVE??? Since when???? Do you all know what LOVE is or truly means? That's where you need to do the work and make the right choice in making a decision between LOVE and lust!!! No judgment towards anyone, I know how hard this can be.
@Belightandbreezy
Ай бұрын
True love is a choice and not feelings. However, let’s be real I’ve been married and I know after ten plus years after our good looks ( which was the driving force to get together) fade what are we attracted to? Because myself and 99% of married adults realize the attraction and excitement of omg you look so good I wanna kiss you feeling is not there. It just isn’t. Everything in sex is more routine and yes every once in a while the person looks hot. Everything she said is right. Attraction is mystical and I don’t know how to get it back to the level it once was. Attraction is not lust.
@marufkhanabd17
Ай бұрын
I like her❤😊
@intergalacticchicano
Ай бұрын
I told my homegirls that there's a difference between been pretty and been attractive, I can think you're the prettiest woman in the world and not find you one but attractive but you can be ok looking but I can find you the most desirable woman ever.
@dp4sho
Ай бұрын
This is so true
@Giftofknowing
Ай бұрын
The fact we are even talking about this problem in this new era is quite sad and silly... we haven't moved passed all this we seem to have gone backwards
@Freemind-fq5pt
Ай бұрын
? What do mean? You realize most people weren't raised in love or guidance. The whole point of the life existence is to learn and teach. Your lesson is probably patience and compassion.
@troytaylor108
2 ай бұрын
Speaking of love, that soundtrack is tight. I wish I knew the artist.
@leylaaydinova7696
Ай бұрын
Small people cannot love.. Big people carry beauty within.. they are natural lovers.. And this girl is right. If it is hard for you to meet someone's needs and you are unkind then you dont love that person. You'd better find another one..
@ronb9515
2 ай бұрын
This woman irks me. Attraction is mystical but love is a skill? Yet, when stylists work with people to create new looks for people, they clearly know how to make someone more attractive. Certain communication skills can make you more attractive. What's often difficult and mystical is love. God is love! If that's not the most mystical statement there is, I don't know what mystical is. God is spirit. The spiritual is mystical by default. The ability to love unconditionally, the ability to love a world that has largely turned its back on you, the ability to allow blessings to fall on the good as well as the bad... All of it is mysterious. Yet we call, the greatest and most enduring thing in the universe less mystical than basic attraction. It's human wisdom and not very good wisdom at that.
@BermudaGrass
2 ай бұрын
I think you’re misunderstanding what she was referring to. She was saying figuring out why attraction works or doesn’t work is a mystery, even one someone meets all of the aesthetics you’re typically attracted by. Whereas the reason why love can be more easily understood is because it is the removal of the ego, in a biblical sense that would be the removal of pride. So she technically gave some explanation within your realm, respectfully.
@ronb9515
2 ай бұрын
@BermudaGrass I get what she was saying. The nuances of attraction can be difficult to pin down especially for each individual person. We all have likes or dislikes that can turn us on or off to reasonably attractive people. But what she says about attraction being mystical whereas love being simply a skill is far from truth. I used the reference to the love of God to highlight the ridiculousness of such a comparison, but even in the realm of romantic or familial love such as the love of a mother for a child, comparing that love to being a skill just doesn't make sense to me. The bond of family and that of romantic couples suggests a much more indepth relationship built not just by skill but by intrinsic factors that supercede skill and are far more intangible and even mystical than we are often able to understand and appreciate. Just listen to the mountains worth of poetry that has been written paying tribute to the mystical nature of love. Such things are just not done for attraction. This is why I find this statement misleading because just a little bit of thought into the nature of love vs that of attraction tells me that the mystery of love far surpasses that of attraction. Learning to eliminate ego is an important skill upon which deeper more sustainable love can be built, but that alone is not the key to love anymore than saying the right pickup lines is the key to building attraction. There's so much more to it than that. This is why I say that reducing love to being a set of skills compared to the mystery of attraction is so disingenuous and just doesn't make good sense.
@amandalidey329
Ай бұрын
No volume?? Well thats a sign from god. Lol. I try not to listen to a bunch of videos a day trying to tell me & shape me into something or someone so he's attracted, in love, etc. She does have a lot of good advice & ik when im just attracted to someone & also how I feel, howeverr sometimes u have to put your feelings aside. 10 videos per day isnt healthy to watch. It will have u questioning everything. Just be yourself & the right one will love u for u or not.
@ritabtheone
Ай бұрын
💯 right ❤
@edayigodwin2646
22 күн бұрын
My Biggest Fear Is Getting Hurt 😥😥😥 By Somebody I Already Explain My Pains To✌✌✌✌✌
@MinorityMans
2 ай бұрын
True, but what if one partner is egoistic and the other is not?
@Strathom1
Ай бұрын
Attraction must be the first step, and love is more. But is it from both sides? If you have a question mark here, is it correct to continue that way? I am not sure. A one side relationship is insane, isn't it?
@freespirit4809
2 ай бұрын
i don’t agree ! sometimes psychology doesn’t get it right for example , when i see a beautiful woman, like our psychotherapist , i feel love in the air , & am attracted to her, therefore love & attraction are one entity that cannot be separated , we cannot hold a coin & think it has only one side 😉
@istudyyou2130
Ай бұрын
You can’t love someone when you first see them bottom line.
@RichardLee-yk4fo
Ай бұрын
Pure love baby girl ❤
@elenasalvatore832
Ай бұрын
Oh, I don't know - maybe it's something called ''intuition'' - and the reason you can't pinpoint on why you don't like them is because they remind of something your subconscious dislikes but you aren't aware of it yet.
@Chris-hp2gg
2 ай бұрын
Love is a four letter word.😂
@Martin_Priesthood
2 ай бұрын
😮😂😂
@Alice-ts3vl
Ай бұрын
Thats why atttraction in more honest, mystic and valuable for me. Because of her definition you can love everyone if you decide, but thats not true. I tried to love a man i wasnt really attracted to and finally i lfet him... its advice for old desperate women. Without sexual attraction there is no love
@GodblessedGratitudeGratitude
Ай бұрын
Qoute beautiful Praba sister...
@iamnatlina
Ай бұрын
If u r immature then ur love is nothing but Attraction only ... If u r mature, then may be it is love .. Now question is, are u mature?? 🤔
@fatehyabali
Ай бұрын
B
@user-dm4lx6yt4l
2 ай бұрын
Hey Sadia don’t forget,you have an 3:30 pm with the toll brothers,about building your house over in the red section,There actually giving you a good price on the square footage,
@cujbaion1
Ай бұрын
I had to 😢
@AdiyyGordo125
13 күн бұрын
Remove all the ego
@CharityRedd-kx3nb
Ай бұрын
Wow i'm gonna say you are very , very beautiful
@elenasalvatore832
Ай бұрын
Call it intuition, can't pinpoint why, but for a long time now - every time i see her (Sadia) I just get a bad feeling and everything she says with a grain of salt. I don't think her advice is constructive or evidence based. Most of the time i feel like she's speaking from her own perspective of what she believes society tries to portray.
@SuzanaMarkovski
28 күн бұрын
HONEY, JANEZ EGO IS REALLY HUGE. 100%.YOU CAN CHOOSE ANOTHER ONE. I REMEMBERED YOU WHEN YOU CYCLED TO WORK IN LJUBLJANA. I ADORED AND NOT JUST ME. RESPECT YOURSELF WOMAN. LEAVE HIM ALONE
@dougie6886
2 ай бұрын
BS
@thetruther954
2 ай бұрын
Enjoy the excitement. I don’t want A Ferrari. I want MY Ferrari, if you know what I mean. If you don’t, then how will you win? Wipe the drool from your chin. I wish Tate were mine too. So I could teach him.
@robertl4765
Ай бұрын
Women don't know wtf they want. 😂
@nwoke1
Ай бұрын
Utter rubbish masquerading as wisdom. 😅 Someone should tell her, please.
@LauraBran-zs8pu
2 ай бұрын
Sadia dacă as putea acum alege din nou dintre iubire și o masca cu nutela lui suflețel as alege masca... atracția prin respingere îți taie respirația. Nu s făcuta ptr iubire, m am ales cu insomnie. Cind îl atacam ridem singura prin casa și eram fericita. (acum ne am zgâlțâit, despartit și blocat. ❤️)...
@Belightandbreezy
Ай бұрын
Yes I would choose attraction even if fleeting it’s so strong and irrational
@Nick-mh7vr
2 ай бұрын
We dont need any advice from terrorists
@aryadalal2087
2 ай бұрын
How is she a terrorist?? Just bc she’s Muslim?!! How ignorant and foolish you are!
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