I DON'T ever want to love someone more than I do Myself..(Period)
@normajean7241
Жыл бұрын
I feel bad for her she looks like a sweet lady who just doesn't wanna be alone.she has no kids so she is alone in life .she deserves love.she isnt perfect but she is a good lady.
@Remember_Eden
Жыл бұрын
Lol, you must be crazy like her to think that she is a good person. Anybody who wants to control someone else’s life to the extend she did is not a good nor sane person. She needs help, not love.
@evonjohnson4078
Жыл бұрын
She should have gotten something back. Worthless mean man.
@prissydee
Жыл бұрын
And I totally agree with you
@Barbiekell-86
Жыл бұрын
I agree
@carmel23
Жыл бұрын
@@Remember_Eden and exactly what was the extent of control? All i saw was a desperate woman trying to hold on to a piece of shit that she loved by paying his way. She might've been nagging, but she wanted him to be a husband & he didn't want to be. She is very well a good person and lovely woman. She needs an alpha male who leads & not a beta male with his hands out. I heard he died 2yrs later and guess who had to plan his funeral? Had it been me, I'd have his body delivered to California with his family....
@user-jj6dj3hs9t
Жыл бұрын
He does not love her. He is using her because he knows that she loves him. She doesn't want to be alone.
@catherinewhitman8333
5 ай бұрын
She is manipulating this man to keep him!! She is buying him!
@kareenwatson6084
Жыл бұрын
This man is ungrateful. Lady, let him go. You might end up being his permanent caregiver. I'm sorry for her. She's desperate.
@lavjamsoflocamp
Жыл бұрын
The niece commented that he died 2 yrs after the airing of this episode
@queennola3039
Жыл бұрын
Her self esteem is in the gutter… he’s a user and manipulator. A recipe for disaster.
@msholliday3935
Жыл бұрын
Both of them need some physiological counseling. She delusional calling him honey and husband and he is a compulsive liar. He had to talk Pig Latin to escape? 🙄 pure madness!
@rudyniosho2505
Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@catherinewhitman8333
5 ай бұрын
Can you imagine her with a child??? She's totally controlling!!!
@bevybabydoll9414
Жыл бұрын
She's a beautiful soul, feel extremely bad for her, but she doesn't realize she dodge a bullet because he didn't love or like her, but was willing to use her to break her even more, so wrong and no good!
@jadriangarner6374
Жыл бұрын
No he dodged a bullet everything about her screams red flags
@RTA6226
Жыл бұрын
He KNEW he was sick! He saw 👀 she had a few dollars 💰 and he went for it. He doesn't love her and never did. She loves him, you can tell. She needs to leave him and keep it moving.
@carmel23
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@yevonnehorn6196
Жыл бұрын
This lady married a man who needed someone to take care of him. Not love her.
@sweetsweet81
Жыл бұрын
He was cruel to her. Granted she was extremely smothering, but he didn't have to treat her that way.
@d820m
20 күн бұрын
sure he did.....🤣🤣🤣🤣
@vernettapigott3233
Жыл бұрын
She's a little controlling but he has no problem taking the crazy lady's money. She's beautiful and God bless her with someone who will love her
@MyWayWendy
2 жыл бұрын
The conclusion on this episode is what everyone's waiting for..
@jeanpast7508
Жыл бұрын
You have been trapped by a Narcissist. He has no empathy for you, he just admits that he never loved you and will never love you. Move from your emotions, and stop thinking that you can make him love you again. Let him go. Judge Lynn was right its time for self-care.
@lavjamsoflocamp
Жыл бұрын
His niece commented here that he died after the airing of the show
@d820m
20 күн бұрын
yaaaaay!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@FinDom1
Жыл бұрын
She is definitely pushy but he’s not completely a victim.
@sandrarice4197
Жыл бұрын
She's a beautiful lady. I wish her much love, joy, and happiness. He's a deadbeat. He used her and abused her. She is so much better off without him. God bless this young woman. Blessings and peace.
@savtrill333
Жыл бұрын
"it might be a rainy night in Georgia but it'll be a cold day in hell before I go back"😭😂🤣
@gailsmith836
Жыл бұрын
He’s nuts and she wants to keep him? He’s too much, selfish and uncaring. Cut him loose and throw his sorry butt away.
@savtrill333
Жыл бұрын
They are both crazy as hell, this was funny and ridiculous 😭😂🤣
@FromPatience2SelfLove
Жыл бұрын
Lol
@nancysainhigh1354
Жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this topic!! I’m avoidant because I’m ok being alone. I was dating a man and he was so sweet, and understanding, respectful, and attentive. He thought I was cold and I didn’t have strong feelings for him like he did. I recently broke a pattern. He would tell me he would miss me usually I would be quiet, but we haven’t seen or talked to each other in a couple days. I realized I missed him. I struggled with texting because I didn’t want to be the first to text. I knew I was afraid. I thought my thats it he is gone. Out the door. Or he is going to ghost me. I made a conscious choice to text. Usually when afraid I tell myself I’m not going to live in fear. Texted him. Telling him I missed him and he better not be asking for other woman’s phone numbers. I was actually shocked that he responded fast with “I miss you too. I won’t.” Dating him I realized I have patterns of cutting people out, not letting people in not because I’m afraid of rejection but being used in some way or judged. I love that Matt said you use as a form of growth. In past dates I would enter with zero expectations and don’t care if he likes me or not mentality , See what I learn from the experience. I discovered when like someone I tend to contain and not show any emotion. When the man I date shows genuine displays of affection in public it makes me uncomfortable. I am getting more comfortable and receptive. I met him at car wash. I wanted him to talk to me and he did. He wanted to take me out to lunch. We had breakfast the next day. Let’s see where this goes! 🙏🏼
@markharry8486
Жыл бұрын
I have issues with this too and am learning to be vulnerable with people. You are doing an amazing job; breaking patterns in no easy task. He seems like a really sweet guy who will appreciate you. Wishing you the very best.
@justinclynes481
Жыл бұрын
Oh boy .. I think I have the same pattern 😐I have been most of my life alone (single and enjoying life by dancing around my apt in underwear) but recently I was in a relationship where my partner was complaining all the time that she felt lonely and I was distant .. it has been really difficult for me to discover if I have a pattern, I still don't know if I do .. maybe I have to rethink my situation because your story sounds a lot like me
@anthonyszymon3032
Жыл бұрын
Love this for you. If you don't mind me sharing a book recommendation. It's called women who love too much by Robin Norwood. It's so good. If you want to check it out. I feel like every woman should read it or hear it in an audio book. Best of luck!
@markharry8486
Жыл бұрын
@@anthonyszymon3032 Thanks for this!
@anthonyszymon3032
Жыл бұрын
weII a friend of mine has aIso introduced me to a spiritual adviser who helped me, she is a caster and i can say she is very good at what she does,i am a living testimony.
@shelbyjade5426
Жыл бұрын
If she says, "my husband " one more time 🙄. This sister is chasing a ghost
@maryjane3713
Жыл бұрын
Loneliness can be very difficult especially as we age. She seems a little off mentally and he took advantage of it.
@marcia7834
Жыл бұрын
Sad😢
@natashaking4158
Жыл бұрын
He is a user! You don't love her but she can pay your bills.
@jo-annbastings
Жыл бұрын
The comparaison with the movie «Misery» and what that woman was doing is not that far fetched. She desperately wanted a man in her life and was ready to do what ever she could to have and keep a man by her side. I don’t feel sorry for that man because honestly if he didn’t want to be married that soon and that fast to her, he was free to say WHOAW! WHOAW! Let’s not forget though that he took the money she gave him. The worst thing in all that pathetic story is that she still pleading for their ‘couple’ by explaining to him how awesome it could have been if he wanted it.
@charn1058
Жыл бұрын
Now she is holding the kidney in Georgia over his head to come back... he said it may be a rainy night in Georgia but, it will be a cold night in hell before he comes back there... Sad but lady face it we can't keep a man that don't want to be kept....Pray like I am doing for our soul mate... Blessing to you and everyone that a man walked out on.
@feliciajohnson1668
Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@sunshinebutterfly4654
Жыл бұрын
Let it go lady! He has showed her more than once that he don't want her! She is a little crazy and needs counciling regarding how she shows her love to someone....I hope she finds someone that fits her level.....
@Clobberg
Жыл бұрын
The audience wouldn't be laughing if a woman was telling a story about trying to talk on the phone without their husband listening in.. And people wonder why men don't come forward when they're abused!
@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare
8 ай бұрын
They have laughed when women go thru this. What are you talking agt
@terrybsawyer
Жыл бұрын
My feelings are so torn for her! She’s beautiful inside and out and only had one requirement… reciprocation! He is NOT the one! God Bless her! I pray she receives what she deserves right on her lap!
@FreedomNurse
Жыл бұрын
People talk about them moving too fast, they’re old! They have to move fast.😂
@tedra6455
Жыл бұрын
That's why it didn't work, because they didn't know enough about each other so soon.
@TASconfidential
Жыл бұрын
Poor lady, She should have been let his ass go, wished him well, and never looked back!!!
@reginaharrigan7454
Жыл бұрын
Sis he doesn't want you move on
@cxm1211
Жыл бұрын
I saw Part 1. I believe he is lying. She need to let him go. He doesn’t want her🤷🏽♀️🙁
@horschiday9449
Жыл бұрын
She made them move too quickly. He never really had time to heal from previous experiences nor develop that love for her. And of course his renal failure could have contributed to his behavior (since the kidneys can’t get rid of the toxins in the body and that leads to confusion and behavioral changes) but she loved him too deeply too quickly and wanted to keep him all for herself. Sad reality.
@carmel23
Жыл бұрын
The only thing that made him move quickly was the thought of her being a millionaire from that dating site. He switched up soon as he found out there weren't any millions....
@ceds.9592
Жыл бұрын
@@carmel23 right!
@Dr.Unknown23
Жыл бұрын
I cannot believe what i saw after the court was done. Was she beginning him ?? Really??? She is going to send him money again!!!
@albertamiddleton4038
Жыл бұрын
He's a little boy in an old man's body. When anyone that darn grown wants to leave let them leave. They are both to blame for the shenanigans. When he, "fainted", I would have left him then. He showed you and told you. Marriage is not for everyone. Be happy single.
@lovelyone1451
Жыл бұрын
I've been waiting a whole minute for this episode.
@meeksluvspink9047
Жыл бұрын
My last boyfriend was a Darryl. He was a liar too😒
@lavjamsoflocamp
Жыл бұрын
Narcissist
@honestyisadyingvirtue
Жыл бұрын
It's amazing how many comments are talking about him being the bad guy and how she is so sweet. Yet any of her actions she's done, if the roles were reversed the comments would be about how controlling he is and how he's clearly using the sickness as a way to try to keep someone that doesn't want him. She constantly talked over him, half admitted to hitting him, listened to his calls, etc. Yet because she's a woman it's seen as "loving to hard and he's using her" instead of what it really is. Abusive. He may be using that money but she also gives it as a way to keep him in her life. She has red flags all over her. She needs some psychological help.
@mneekiful
Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU for saying this! Notice when they talk afterwards, her verb tense goes from present to past---as if she's giving him a new ultimatum, "...Put me first..." I think she's addicted to him and the drama he brings, she'll keep chasing the "high" of "winning" him---and pay for the opportunity to do so.
@queennola3039
Жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree.. I was reading the comments and everyone has so much sympathy for her. Yes he’s a user and will continue to use her. But she did a lot of unfathomable things.
@kaneshapeters6687
Жыл бұрын
Finally a comment with some common sense she’s overbearing and manipulative and controlling he’s a user
@rbellishere88
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, they both deserve each other. He saw an opportunity to rest in his femineity after realizing she was desperate for a man. She came after meeting twice offering money to buy a man, and he decided to get paid to be a fake husband. Two whole grown adults with life experience (40-50yrs) operating like delusional immature children. So, they both came up off of each other for a minute. However, at the end of the video, you can tell she is still desperate to continue all the disfunction (victim mentality). She knows what she is doing--nothing sweet about her or decent. A decent woman...no matter how desperate, would have too much pride and dignity to allow herself to be disrespected in any way (financially or otherwise). Some of the lonely women in the World still are intelligent enough to make good decisions regarding relationships. The Rose🌹
@feliciajohnson1668
Жыл бұрын
100!!!!
@beejackson2713
Жыл бұрын
🌋 I have ZERO respect for him‼ 🗣
@sharonjackson268
Жыл бұрын
Gurl...don't beg him...please run!
@Peachpocket415
Жыл бұрын
Get a dog and call it a day
@jerez81777
Жыл бұрын
Her behavior was over the top but he's no innocent victim sick but he didn't have a problem taking her money the fact that he escaped she was crazy enough to send him money tells him after the case says they could go to go counseling after the show ends she's the one who needs professional help you can't make someone love or want you he could've divorced her after he left but he found a fool to pay his bills and be taken care of she should've been gone and stop the cash flow and let his family deal with it
@yvettebaker7554
Жыл бұрын
The whole problem here is this woman loves this man.more than herself, he don't love her at all he just used her n.she was too blind to see
@essence4life23
Жыл бұрын
He just been using her but she delusional about their relationship
@jamiex6072
Жыл бұрын
He's a liar. He's not telling the truth.
@annisaarthur-castro6227
Жыл бұрын
He used that woman! He never really loved her; he wanted a meal ticket and geriatric nurse.
@malia0523
Жыл бұрын
So how was she hearing his calls on the other phone if they only had one cell phone
@biggwillnyc4047
Жыл бұрын
Damn !!!!!! Why is she begging a man who clearly don't want her ???????
@jusmejaussyb8237
Жыл бұрын
& she still begging in the end. My goodness.
@priscilladulder
Жыл бұрын
Waited 7 days for this
@lesliehill332
Жыл бұрын
This lady needs a little therapy, not to insult.... She needs to work on herself before getting with any other my man....
@florencejones8575
Жыл бұрын
She were too Controlling and did not want him to talk in Court.
@saucyfaces
Жыл бұрын
That self esteem in hell.
@reyfin4922
5 ай бұрын
They clapping like she said he got a kidney 😂
@carmel23
Жыл бұрын
She gets a bad rep of being crazy & controlling in the comments when this man lied & played games her. He thought he was marrying a millionaire & it was no problem that he barely knew her & it happened fast. He switched up soon after finding out she wasn't a millionaire and became an awful husband, probably thinking she would leave him, but she clinged to him instead. Loneliness is a disease.....
@Moore_cookies51
Жыл бұрын
YET, HE HAD HIS HAND IN HER POCKET BOOK. TALKING ABOUT THE NEGATIVE AND FORGETTING THE POSITIVE.
@RacieRain
Жыл бұрын
That lady is crazy. He's a user.
@ladonnajohnson-spence2714
Жыл бұрын
Loneliness caused her to become obsessed with him. She meant well !!
@rich5248
7 ай бұрын
I remember watching this back in 2012 or 2013, and at the time, I felt for the husband, but watching it again over ten years later, I realized this dude was full of it.
@anquentinwilliams2764
Жыл бұрын
This dude lowdown. Spending her money but, does not want her. He led her on like he was going back to Georgia so, she would continue to send him money.
@carmel23
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@ellesouthernbelle5655
Жыл бұрын
THE judge asked him ,Do you love her? GTFOH!! Does it matter, she doesn't love him she wants to posses him, its like she is caring for a child, not a true partner, or mate.
@tlchinyuku
Жыл бұрын
Poor lady, so lovely
@targetedgucci2501
Жыл бұрын
She still begging 🥺
@tedra6455
Жыл бұрын
She hooked!
@queeniebell740
Жыл бұрын
His family was no good for him they wanted that insurance 💰.TS hard to say maybe he really felt she had put something on him sometimes sickness does follow behind stuff like that intentionally and unintentionally it happens to let us know something is not right about the person you are with they could be doing things to hurt you....also he was using her whoeva he had those grandkids with is who he probably went back to.
@sassarific
Жыл бұрын
If this doesn't show how hard it is for women, black women, to date in Atlanta, I don't know what does.
@kattiethomas4687
Жыл бұрын
She's a very sweet lady ❤️,God blessings sweety..
@leticiamacias5481
Жыл бұрын
He used her. That's 😢 sad
@deborahblackshear3325
Жыл бұрын
Just leave Ms Dana and Darryl get a divorce. He don't love you sweetie 😘
@npatricefree
Жыл бұрын
Perhaps, if she wasn't so smothering and controlling, they would still be together. She does come across as crazy. I see the relation to the movie Misery.
@mesmerize3965
Жыл бұрын
I love this Judge. Say it Judge to this man.
@wmc2457
2 жыл бұрын
Where is part 2? or is this some sort of sham
@KDOtHall260
Жыл бұрын
Part two in 2 hours
@ceds.9592
Жыл бұрын
I feel bad for her, she seems to deserve so much more. Yeah, the lies and exaggeration is funny, but she clearly wanted to be love and he clearly doesn’t understand how grace his illness may be in a way she does. I hope she found love.
@st-Miin
Жыл бұрын
I love judge lynn❤
@MsBizzyRae
Жыл бұрын
The more I listen to her, the more I feel that his description of her being the Kathy Bates in Misery is accurate. She's a nice lady, but she is loopy and has this sense that he can't survive without her. He SHOULD NOT be taking her money, but, I think she will take him however she can get him. It's good they aren't together. She needs to just let that man go.
@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare
8 ай бұрын
He died and she was the one to pay to bury him. She wasn’t crazy at all. He love bombed her and gaslighter her. That can turn a person into something they don’t want to be. She was 49 she had no children she just wanted to believe what he was saying
@MsBizzyRae
8 ай бұрын
@@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare I respectfully disagree! We are in control of our own actions…no one can “turn us” into anything! I said he shouldn’t have taken her money, he was wrong but she wanted a man so bad that she was willing to accept (or believe) anything just to have him. I said she was a nice lady, but she was still loopy! It also seemed like she kind of enjoyed being able to say she was doing things for him. She had a “savior complex”
@Nard9701
Жыл бұрын
She was physically and mentally abusive, yet there was laughter the entire episode. If the rolls were reversed with a large man and a smaller woman there would be outrage.
@marialucas2875
2 жыл бұрын
I don't know why but I'll be waiting
@thelionandthemouse9933
Жыл бұрын
Oh wowwww let’s start a gofund and give her that money and some counseling. She deserves someone who will appreciate her and love her back. His ungrateful S.O.B🤬!
@thelionandthemouse9933
Жыл бұрын
The sad truth is if she was a match she might have gave him her kidney💔💔💔
@d820m
20 күн бұрын
got better things to do with my money than give it to some delusional old hag, you'll be the only one givng her any money through gofundme, so go ahead and waste it
@MusicsBackup
Жыл бұрын
They both are touched.... And not by an Angel.....
@savtrill333
Жыл бұрын
Their friends even sounds crazy 😭😂🤣
@dionned42
Жыл бұрын
Being alone and being lonely is two different issues. She tried to fix her loneliness with a relationship that was moved too quickly and then she tried to keep him for herself. If this was a man that was doing this to a women the internet would be calling him controlling, a bully from family and applaud the escape. There's nothing wrong with wanting love, just understand the difference between Love and Occasion.
@rachellegoodwin4868
Жыл бұрын
09.27.2022 I've been waiting since last week for part 2 ....
@jew-el1
10 ай бұрын
19:29 she’s been under heavy manipulation… but she’s kind‼️
@jasminej6281
Жыл бұрын
Oh god he’s used her bad She needs to move on and start loving herself
@OLS623
Жыл бұрын
Beautiful Lady and Good Hearted God will Bless you ❤️
@senorasolitaria7908
2 жыл бұрын
Post pt 1 and make us wait 7 days for pt 2.?! What a crock
@patriciaross7269
Жыл бұрын
What is wrong with her? Just move on!!
@rudolphkendall6759
Жыл бұрын
I love this woman.
@keishah5341
Жыл бұрын
You can tell this lady is lonely and just looking for someone to love her. She looks so much like my mommy. I hope she finds a great man to continue life with and love her like she deserves to be loved!
@HC-ir9rr
Жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh... Smh she should've gotten her money back that sick man is a leach I mean A LEACH. Am upset judge Lyn l really am
@thisismyinferno
Жыл бұрын
Hes horrible. I don't believe how he describes her.
@laurenrobinson6175
Жыл бұрын
Black men will get that check off a woman. No matter what!
@oodief88
Жыл бұрын
I knew he was full of shit from the first part of the case.
@Patriciasworld
Жыл бұрын
I’m rolling😂
@jar7840
Жыл бұрын
Omg. Of he is on that stage of renal failure, I'm almost positive he has passed away
@lavjamsoflocamp
Жыл бұрын
His niece on here said he died after the airing
@poshpearls23
Жыл бұрын
Maybe it's just me.... but I do get crazy lady vibes from him. She wasn't going to let anything or anyone stand in the way of her getting married and being a caretaker. She definitely seems like the kind of woman who would thrive in a situation of Munchausen by proxy..... is it just me?? I think he saw the signs and got out when he could. Just him being off so many medications is a sign..... through a twisted love mentality, I think there was potential of her actually killing him. But that's just my perspective. Something is just off about her. 😖
@hateisforlosers6116
Жыл бұрын
Yess he didn't do right. He didn't have a problem letting her pay his bills.. leave him where he is, her heart is in the right place just with the wrong man💔💔💔💔
@charn1058
Жыл бұрын
I am here just to find out who is the millionaire and how?
@stellaj5775
Жыл бұрын
I genuinely feel bad for her. She is a caring person and he took advantage of her, but Karma is a bitch. Hope she'll find someone who can match her love and energy. Sending Prayers!!
@wendyfarrier477
Жыл бұрын
She is a wonderful soul inspite of her appatent controlling ways, which ofcourse were all borne out of love. However, I am really confused as to how she fell for him because he's very dishonourable and I highly doubt he was any different when they first met. I hope she meets a good guy.
@gracie4200
Жыл бұрын
Sounds like a user 😯
@Vincent-um9pi
4 ай бұрын
Black is beautiful ❤
@t.bailey5043
Жыл бұрын
I wonder did he go and get that kidney transplant. I hope he did if he wants to be here a little longer.
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