One vital component that wasn’t mentioned was: pray about it. Take your situation to God. Ask Him. Pray asking for wisdom from above. Yes counsel is good and this is a great teaching to help us…ultimately God is the Judge and that’s Whom we need to be right with. God will guide and direct us as to what to do. I say just add that into our lives. Taking it to God in prayer for answers you can trust will ensure we will be right with God. 🙏
@auditts2mm
Жыл бұрын
Amen to that
@lamariquita_
Жыл бұрын
This!!!!
@SharkWhisperer1988
11 ай бұрын
Well said, I know this is true.
@fayettewaligorski8132
7 ай бұрын
Amen and yes… this is the Most helpful
@mtoi
7 жыл бұрын
Some have erroneously concluded that the only reason I could come to the conclusions of this teaching was that I must have been divorced and now re-married. For the record. Both my wife Julie and I have only been married once, that being to each other. Neither of us have been married before or divorced. Our marital status had no influence on this teaching.
@eternalpraise1658
7 жыл бұрын
Messianic Torah Observant Israel Amen
@Jessica-jh9iz
6 жыл бұрын
Why does the Bible say we must stay unmarried in. COrinthians 7? Please I really need the help.
@TheSacredlizzy
6 жыл бұрын
I prayed this morning and cried out to the lord. I was 2X divorced. Abandoned on both. Not a believer also. I was clean from drugs 2 years ago with my boyfriend and we were married in the LORD shortly after. I have been called an adulterer and i can’t understand it ... I praise GOD that he led me to this video. I am crying. HIS GRACE IS ENOUGH and my husband and I are not in sin. Thank you YESHUA and thank you brother for delivering this message , I feel HE led me here so that I can walk in peace. So grateful.
@alphonsoalvarez3281
6 жыл бұрын
Sorry forgive me did not proofread the text before I sent it and I meant very inspirational and I meant death my dad God bless you my brothers we need to get this right lotta people are hurting in this matter and we want to do what's right in Gods eyes not a mans eyes because man's opiniomeans nothing only God's opinion means everything
@joeroux9782
6 жыл бұрын
What was the word used when YaHVeH gave Israel a letter of divorce? What did they do?
@jenna2431
9 жыл бұрын
This gentle teaching is the most Scripturally reasoned, compassionate, most understanding of "real" life that I think I've ever heard. Thank you, Rav Berkson.
@jenna2431
8 жыл бұрын
+Jenna Caruthers And after studying this out again, I would point out that the Malachi 2:16 reference also is a putting away, not the sefer k'ritut:/"divorce." (H7971 shalach, send away) so it's no wonder why YHVH wouldn't like that option.
@ajlouviere202
5 жыл бұрын
@@jenna2431 then comes the judgment for all that disobey the scriptures.
@HopeLives2012
4 жыл бұрын
@@ajlouviere202 unfortunately yes😥😥😥
@sunshinedayz2172
6 ай бұрын
There must be a vested interest to twist that verse to mean divorce. Perhaps theywere not devnely inspired.. Putting away and the giving a legal divorce paper are clearly two different things..
@dadjoes
8 жыл бұрын
This teaching video needs to go viral. So many people are hurting because of the errant teaching that has been spewed forth from so many would be teachers who don't know what they are talking about. I hope everyone who watches this sends it to everyone they know. Thanks Rabbi Steve.
@shqiperirsjacobo2879
7 жыл бұрын
Amen exactly I agree I have seen some crazy teaching an condemning people glad I came across this video God bless
@sellinabanda5411
5 жыл бұрын
As a victim of divorce I am getting clearer on this subject.tjank you
@rcjr2633
4 жыл бұрын
You're exactly right!!! People abuse scripture in this area for personal gain and security.
@StampedClay
3 ай бұрын
Share it!
@redsolar7
Жыл бұрын
Really good to have light on this issues that has caused so many people to suffer because of wrong teaching. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@fredseaver2220
5 жыл бұрын
We have been married to each other for over 66 years . AMEN
@anthonybardsley4985
5 жыл бұрын
You should be teaching.
@mrs8792
4 жыл бұрын
Fred Seaver And... I’d like her opinion on this.
@CatfishHeaven777
Жыл бұрын
Exactly why Jesus to told the woman at the well that she had been married 5 times and that she currently wasn’t married to the man she was living with. He would have said you have been with 6 men but are still married to the first. People are insane in some of their teachings
@ObeyJesusOurLord
Жыл бұрын
Great point!!
@lauratempestini5719
Жыл бұрын
How is reeking havoc to loving tell our loved ones the truth? My understanding is if we do not their blood is on us.
@semperfi-1918
Жыл бұрын
Question is was she married to the current guy or ... was she just living with him? Context is missing. And without understanding cultural and historical context... there is nothing but face value. Which can be missleading.
@semi2893
Жыл бұрын
They could also all have died... Just saying.
@KatrinaTahar
Жыл бұрын
1. Yahusha didn’t tell the woman to do anything, what He did do was let her know HE knew her sin. 2. Yahusha did not even indicate if this man OR HER was free to marry again--only that the man she was with was NOT HER husband. 3. We don’t have enough information as to whether they were “real” husbands or not by what He says. She could have been married all of them according to her pagan customs or she could have “had” 5 husbands which were not hers to have. 4. Could all those husbands be dead? Giving her an allowance to remarry? This passage is not thorough enough to try and rest in--for either side. What we do have clear teaching on is that Yahusha Himself said that to enter into a marriage AFTER a divorce is to commit adultery. Does committing adultery make a person the spouse of the other person? It doesn’t appear to be evident anywhere in scripture to be the case. Irenaeus (c. 180 A.D.): “That erring Samaritan woman did not remain with one husband. Rather, she committed fornication by many marriages.” (ANF, Vol. 1, p. 445) Justin Martyr (c. 160 A.D.): “Concerning chastity, He Yahusha uttered such sentiments as these [he quotes Matt 5:28, 29, 32; 19:12]. So that all who, by human law, are twice married, are in the eye of our Master sinners, and those who look upon a woman to lust after her. For not only he who in act commits adultery is rejected by Him, but also he who desires to commit adultery…” (ANF, Vol. 1, p. 167) Athenagoras (c. 175 A.D.): “…a person should either remain as he was born [i.e. a virgin], or be content with one marriage; for a second marriage is only a specious adultery. ‘For whosoever puts away his wife,’ says He, ‘and marries another, commits adultery….These adulterers and pederasts defame the eunuchs [i.e. virgins] and the once-married.” (ANF, Vol. 2, p. 146-147) ...
@loraditch
5 жыл бұрын
I gave this teaching to a pastor of a SDA who had been divorced 20+ years ago and remarried. This issue was eating the pastor of SDA alive...it is no longer eating him alive so thank you.
@maunder01
Жыл бұрын
How is he today?
@ibezag0
5 күн бұрын
Is he still Married to his second wife
@milliethemog
5 жыл бұрын
Wow; what an excellent teaching and study. This has truly freed my mind from years of doubt and confusion/depression concerning the translation errors and wrong teaching and twisting of the words of Messiah Yeshua, thank you for this blessed teaching; Shalom!
@tommylee2695
8 жыл бұрын
This is the best teaching I have ever heard on this subject, and I've heard a lot of them. This is also a great word study of both Greek and Hebrew words.
@tigerhorse2patriot21
9 жыл бұрын
What a blessing this has been to me. I cannot thank you enough. This has truly set me free from years of wrong teaching. Thank you for being a clear and timely answer to my prayers!
@mikasaackerman8232
5 жыл бұрын
Brenda Brito it was an answered prayer for me as well 😭
@keithmanasseh2882
2 жыл бұрын
@@mikasaackerman8232 If this teaching is TRUTH, then where is it WRITTEN in the Holy Scriptures (The Holy Bible) that a Hebrew/Israelite/Jewish Man Put Away his Hebrew/Israelite/Jewish Wife without giving her a Bill Of Divorcement? Our Heavenly Father is not the Author of confusion that it is not WRITTEN in the Scriptures that we can show evidence of the TRUTH. Amen.
@Ms.F531
Жыл бұрын
This has set me free. Matthew Nolan teach the same thing. Praise Yah. 👏🏾 🙏🏽
@aldacisa
8 жыл бұрын
Steve Berkson is quickly becoming my favorite messianic Rabbi. Just a good and blessed mix of grace and Truth. Many blessing to you, your family and your congregation
@hattielynnfridge3124
7 жыл бұрын
Becoming mine too
@renak.6370
6 жыл бұрын
Amein!!! His teachings are such a blessing!!!
@ObeyJesusOurLord
5 жыл бұрын
aldacisa Such kind words!😊
@superserversleuth
5 ай бұрын
I recently heard that this video is your top viewed video. I can tell you why: I share it almost daily in Facebook groups where people condemn others for getting divorced. People need to know the truth, and this video saved my life.
@mtoi
5 ай бұрын
Wonderful. Glad it was helpful.
@casseophealejarde-khaizen
Ай бұрын
Being divorced is forgivable. Divorce+remarriage while the covenant spouse is living is adultery - Luk 16:18, Matt 5 and 19, and Mark 10.
@superserversleuth
21 күн бұрын
@@casseophealejarde-khaizen Only if you translate the Bible incorrectly.
@casseophealejarde-khaizen
21 күн бұрын
@@superserversleuth I'm sad to see many are falling into the ditch
@jorethaisby6960
5 жыл бұрын
Wow. I’m a newly born-again Christian and I have been praying for guidance on this issue. At the very beginning of the video I was like “wait, that’s not correct” and went to respond but something spoke to me and said “Hear him out and if you feel the same at the end...then respond.” And I’m so glad I listened because this video really opened my eyes to so many things. Thank you for making and sharing this.
@bithyahamsegulah56
Жыл бұрын
@@JacquelineServantess Facts Matthew 19:10-12 His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mothers womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heavens sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
@KatrinaTahar
Жыл бұрын
Regarding Steve Berkson w/ MTOI @1:50 he basically says "keep out of it" (with the goal of the leadership dealing with it) Leviticus 19:17 "You shall not hate your brother in your heart. 👉You shall surely rebuke your neighbor, and not bear sin because of him."👈 but it should be done in accordance with Matthew 18:15-19 @8:00+ he says you can divorce and get remarried @9:30+ he makes marriage nothing more than a contract (where as it is a covenant, which is far more binding) @13:00 he iterates remarriage (allegedly) allowed @17:10 "and then it's legal and ok" @25:20 he differentiates the lack of certificate. While there is a valid point of discussion here, it boils down to semantics, and he (later) uses this to bolster his point that with a certificate, it is somehow ok to divorce and remarry, thus nullifying the very words Yahusha (and Shual) say based on Genesis 2:24. @36:00 he misses 1 Corinthians 7:13-16 @39:39 No, it doesn't say he can't, but neither does it say he/she can. It says "*when you do*, *then* you shall not...." Nothing says she is free to marry again at all. @41:45 "there needs to be erva or porneo" He is connecting erva (the Hebrew word) with porneo (the Greek word). However, the Hebrew word for adultery is H5003 naap. Erva H6172 is uncleanness. Recall adultery results in *death* (and he correctly noted this at the start). If adultery is fornication, then the distinction Yahusha made is irrelevant, and there is no point in marriage, as adultery can trigger divorce, and divorce results in adultery. @43:28 "only porneo or erva are reason for divorce" Again, he has synonomized fornication (or uncleanness) and adultery and made both reasons to divorce, thus nullifying the words of Yahusha.
@Yomammy2468
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this teaching. I have never heard this perspective of the scriptures before. It answered my personal Biblical questions regarding divorce. Thank you again.
@carolyn4830
4 жыл бұрын
I am sitting here taking notes, trying for word for word. I want to learn this so I can share with people. This is so good, I just prayed this morning for clarity in this. After you explained it is really not that hard, but it is with 50 years of hearing other things preached about it. God bless, hoping to see you on Amazon with a published book about this.
@nikkisharp2779
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much this cleared up condemnation that my husband and I have been under for the past 4 years when we came into Torah. Shalom
@johnspartan98
7 жыл бұрын
I have been in numerous debates trying to get people to understand what the teacher is saying in this video. I watched too many videos on youtube to count them and I studied many teachings from many pastors and teachers on this topic. What I find is too many teachings lack grace, mercy, compassion, and understanding of the original texts. This is by far the best teaching on the topic. I could have saved a lot of time if I had seen this first.
@ObeyJesusOurLord
5 жыл бұрын
johnspartan98 I agree, John. Likewise, wish I'd seen this video! It would have spared my husband & me the agony of mistakenly thinking we'd have to dissolve our marriage. We are very happily married but were having to defend our relationship because it's a remarriage.
@simosc2
7 жыл бұрын
thank you so much...I am new to observing Torah..you have no idea how much relief this teaching has given me that I don't have to leave a good marriage of 34 years because I was divorced....Yahwey bless you
@ObeyJesusOurLord
5 жыл бұрын
simosc2 s 😀
@godisgoodtv36
4 жыл бұрын
Ohh yes me too living in fears because every preacher was like you can't get married after divorcing A good man who is with me for almost 5 years with 3 kids thinking how to let my marriage down
@ianmonk6211
2 жыл бұрын
This is the best teaching I have seen on this topic. My unbelieving wife left me and filed for divorce. After 15 years God blessed me with peace in my house. ;)
@durangoalderson9387
Жыл бұрын
I agree.
@microsoilenhancersinspirey5750
Жыл бұрын
Don’t sign it...Yeshua is the ultimate covenant keeper and a covenant was made between you and her...yes you can find justification in scriptures for she abandoned you and that’s covered!..but what if you don’t agree to divorce and live as an example of love by observing Torah after faith in Yeshua so that she can see herself how your work in Torah is because of your faith in love in Yeshua cause you too love her with that strength but not first!.. That’s what I have chosen to do for mine left after now 19 years for she is still my spouse but not acting like my wife but I keep praying for her to see and it shall be Abbas will not mine!.. I pray for you!..I understand first hand your struggles... Shalom!..
@Jesusbride515
Жыл бұрын
If that “piece“means you got a second wife, that is adultery.
@GatheringBitByBit
Жыл бұрын
@@Jesusbride515did you not hear him say we are not to meddle
@Pathtozion144k
Жыл бұрын
@@Jesusbride515 no it’s not show the scripture to back that up 🔝 please no opinions allowed here only holy scriptures. Adultery is not taking a second wife adultery is taking a married woman king David was not an adulterer for having more than one wife he was an adulterer for taking uriah the hittites wife
@childofyah9693
5 жыл бұрын
This video set me free in the first five mins, my Husband was sent to me less than a month later
@sjg5994
2 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah!
@Texasgrrl77
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! My husband cheated on me and fell in lust with a younger woman. This past November he filed for divorce. We had been married for 29 years. I didn't want the divorce even though he cheated on me and he had done other things I don't want to go into. Anyway, I was told and heard on other youtube channels that God will not allow me to be remarried and I was to be alone for the rest of my life. I have been so sad and not understanding why a God of love would want that for me? I don't think what those so-called preachers are saying is right or nice! They had me believing that I was going to hell if I ever get married again and my only choice was to reconcile with my ex-husband! I'm in no hurry to meet a new man. But I don't want to be alone and if the Lord has someone for me I will be so happy! My divorce was final on January 2. I feel like I have a whole new lease on life now! Thank you! ❤️😊🕊✌️🏻
@sigalsmadar4547
5 жыл бұрын
see how screwed up the gentile church is! The very thing Torah thing says not to do - get back with the person you divorced - is what they tell you to do! ugh!
@Curlycrew333
2 жыл бұрын
🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️
@maunder01
Жыл бұрын
Are you remarried now?
@StampedClay
3 ай бұрын
Not only are these Gentile Christian churches wrong in their understanding of the scriptures but the "reconciliation" method can only be attempted before ending the contract. Too many forcing couples to reconcile when it is not going to work. They often actually encourage separating, instead of a written legal divorce!
It is about time that brothers are stepping forward and meeting the challenges of that damnable traditional teachings on marriage, divorce and remarriage with the truth! Many debates going on to break the spell of the traditional lie. I am proud of this brother for taking the time to make this video and his studies on this subject are very indepth and his proof, very strong. Keep going brother. There are many to reach yet; many brethren to save from the old lie to this truth, well said. Thanks!
@mtoi
8 жыл бұрын
+Karen Mercier Thank you for your encouraging words :)
@ObeyJesusOurLord
5 жыл бұрын
Karen Mercier Well stated!
@drdfilm
4 жыл бұрын
I am kind of upset and I have to forgive myself for waiting this late to watch this video because it kept popping up on my search feed on KZitem. Full of Truth full of grace full of compassion, I know there's more to say but those are the best words I can come up with.
@theheadlightdoctor5336
6 жыл бұрын
It seems that a legal separation would be equal to putting away. Being with another person during that time would constitute adultery.
@sharonlynn7013
5 жыл бұрын
Accurately so.. And what is in this teaching.. That's where part is then stated a certificate of divorcement..
@stormrising2623
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly! It's not a difficult concept to understand. But it's easier to fool people than it is to convince them they've been fooled. Even the famous God hates divorce scripture is literally God hates sending away. And of course He does, as it condemns the woman to adultery since women in that time couldn't provides for themselves so without a certificate of divorce she couldn't legally remarry and only choice for survival was prostitution or living in sin.
@keithmanasseh2882
2 жыл бұрын
@@stormrising2623 if God hates Sending Away, then He would have hate it when the Hebrews Sent Away their Strange Wives. “Now therefore make confession unto the LORD God of your fathers, and do his pleasure: and SEPARATE YOURSELVES from the people of the land, and from the STRANGE WIVES.” - Ezra 10:11 (KJV)
@doglover19601
2 ай бұрын
@@keithmanasseh2882they were Pagan wives that they were not supposed to marry.
@Natecarricart
4 ай бұрын
I share this from time to time because so many regurgitate church traditions and tell others that hell awaits them if they divorce..bevause "God hates divorce."🤦 I appreciate the depth, compassion, and sincerity that Rabbi Steve takes here. The leaven of the pharisees has leaked into the church so much that so many are condemed to live hell on earth with an abusive or toxic relationship because some well meaning Christian watched Voddie Baucham or Paul Washer and convinced them that divorce comes with a penalty of eternal damnation.
@Logic807
3 ай бұрын
I was the serial adulterer, with young girls half my age, destroying my family, my wife heard no divorce from God (not sure audiblyor something). I challenge her in the understanding of the Bible, with what I know . Long story short, I was dealt with by God, gently...but this because I understand he is HOLY grew in fear but in relief (joy) that I can trust the Bible, the old and the new. The contradictions fell away. When I got back to the family, my son was violent to me, my daughter who loved me so much do not trust me(consider the horror that I did to them), it was not because of the divorce scriptures. I thought it is okay to divorce as there could be conditions, for example, my immorality. But I decided to check it up myself and was shocked by the unambiguous words of the LORD. Nothing about who is teaching me. Furthermore, read Paul letter to the corinthians. Read I carefully and plainly, the same as Jesus teachings The hardness of heart is not to obey (believe in) Jesus and to overcome. Believe as in the Exodus narrative is to believe what Jesus sayEnter your rest by trusting the LORD or face the consequences. Importantly read yourself and do not trust any teacher but to check it yourself. And bring it to God. See if he answers you. I mean truly answer you.
@Natecarricart
3 ай бұрын
@Logic807 if Yeshua(Jesus) would have contradicted the torah then he would have been a false prophet. The torah does not call divorce a sin. Sin according to 1 John 3:4 is "the transgression of the law." People can have their own experiences on either side of the subject, for or against divorce. But when it comes down to it, it doesn't matter your feelings on the subject. What God's word does not call sin, we cannot call sin. No matter how strongly we feel. People will swear up and down that drinking alcohol is a sin, when the God's word never said such a thing. The torah and the new testament speak against being a drunkard, but not against consuming alcohol in general. That is just another example of people's own emotions and perspective becoming an authority over God's word. We need to be very careful about that. It's a very serious sin in itself to add or take away from the word of God. On this topic, I highly suggest listening to rabbi Steve go through the scriptures. It's wonderful that some people are able to work through a toxic marriage and remain. I would caution telling everyone else they are to do the same. That's a decision between you, God, and your spouse. Meddling in such tender affairs of others when you have no stake in it, is arrogant, and obtuse. Too many churches have put many through living hell by heaping guilt and condemnation on others for considering this option. Again, I highly recommend LISTENING to rabbi Steve and meditating on this. If you only respond to the title of the video, and insist with your own claims, you show that you are not to be taken seriously, and are simply seeking attention. Remember one thing for certain, God, the holy spirit WILL NOT contradict the scriptures. That means the full picture given through both the torah and prophets, as well as the new testament. Neither will the holy spirit contradict context from a historical, grammatical, and cultural perspective.
@mistyaaa7644
3 ай бұрын
I wish more people would teach like this! We have all been taught and learned so many lies concerning our creator that it’s no wonder people are or have become atheists. For so long since way back before any of us were alive they have taught so much destruction and lies and made our creator into this type of tyrant “god” who is completely scary! Even the word “fear” concerning him makes people afraid. Fear means respect, reverence, etc… Not to be scared to death. And all this you better not question god or your going to hell is ridiculous! It’s not that your questioning him you are asking to understand what he means in things and it’s okay to contemplate and ask him questions etc. Now knowing the truth I do know it makes me super upset and angry at how much the “evil” has tried to twist him into something he isn’t and what he did not say or mean. It has destroyed more people than any of us could count! So many are sick physically mentally and spiritually on a severe level because of this. And it’s very sad. But I am so thankful that I live in the time when knowledge is being increased!!! And the truth is being shown and told! Our father is amazing and the entire story is absolutely beautiful and mind blowing!!! 😊
@michellegower1259
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! I was married 21 years with 14 yrs of abuse. I felt unloved n committed adultery, twice. Ended in divorce. I got remarried but was a Satanist by then. Pure lust with a guy 15 yrs younger then me. He cheated but I took him back, as I came back to God. Later I found Torah. My Faith grew and my husband cheated again. He eventually left me for her, who is 18 yrs younger then he is. I divorced him on adultery 2.5 yrs ago. I have not been with another man since. I pray if it's Fathers will, he will bring me a Torah man in my life. Not easy as there are no messianic churches nr me.
@mtoi
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your testimony Michelle, and Praise the Father the teaching was a blessing to you. Happy to provide additional support through individual counsel if needed.
@ObeyJesusOurLord
5 жыл бұрын
Michelle Torok I pray that the Lord will heal the wounds of your heart & that He will bring you a wonderful, godly, faithful husband.
@CDKElder
5 жыл бұрын
I’m going to be honest. This is probably the best teaching on these topics I have seen in a long time. Great job.
@lissieRiv
8 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best teaching on marriage. It should go viral! Thank you for standing for truth
@ObeyJesusOurLord
5 жыл бұрын
Lissette Rivera I agree!
@devieanderson451
6 жыл бұрын
America needs to hear this .... brought tears.....I know so many have a "story"...but I am thankful for the TRUTH COMING FORTH... thankful for His Mercy and Grace...
@KatrinaTahar
Жыл бұрын
Regarding Steve Berkson w/ MTOI @1:50 he basically says "keep out of it" (with the goal of the leadership dealing with it) Leviticus 19:17 "You shall not hate your brother in your heart. 👉You shall surely rebuke your neighbor, and not bear sin because of him."👈 but it should be done in accordance with Matthew 18:15-19 @8:00+ he says you can divorce and get remarried @9:30+ he makes marriage nothing more than a contract (where as it is a covenant, which is far more binding) @13:00 he iterates remarriage (allegedly) allowed @17:10 "and then it's legal and ok" @25:20 he differentiates the lack of certificate. While there is a valid point of discussion here, it boils down to semantics, and he (later) uses this to bolster his point that with a certificate, it is somehow ok to divorce and remarry, thus nullifying the very words Yahusha (and Shual) say based on Genesis 2:24. @36:00 he misses 1 Corinthians 7:13-16 @39:39 No, it doesn't say he can't, but neither does it say he/she can. It says "*when you do*, *then* you shall not...." Nothing says she is free to marry again at all. @41:45 "there needs to be erva or porneo" He is connecting erva (the Hebrew word) with porneo (the Greek word). However, the Hebrew word for adultery is H5003 naap. Erva H6172 is uncleanness. Recall adultery results in *death* (and he correctly noted this at the start). If adultery is fornication, then the distinction Yahusha made is irrelevant, and there is no point in marriage, as adultery can trigger divorce, and divorce results in adultery. @43:28 "only porneo or erva are reason for divorce" Again, he has synonomized fornication (or uncleanness) and adultery and made both reasons to divorce, thus nullifying the words of Yahusha.
@elizabethgeises4084
2 жыл бұрын
Thats how i understood it too but most of the teachings from other pastors makes me feel like a already in he'll condemned sinner! Thank you so much. From Namibia 🇳🇦
@leebanguilan8478
4 жыл бұрын
Amazing teaching. I have been confused about teachings I have heard regarding this matter but this video made it clear for me.
@shaylasomerville4733
Жыл бұрын
Thank you rabbi for everything you do for us . This was true freedom for me to hear. Shalom
@ThePeaceCoach
Жыл бұрын
Sister hi...it's me. Going to watch this now. I just stumbled across your comment when reading these. If you need a friend do email me. It's in my description box. Sounds like your going through some stuff...me too.
@Jesusloverofmysoul144
5 ай бұрын
Incredibly anointed teaching. Sadly even with the breakdown of scripture those who have religious spirits will still not be able to receive this. This is exactly why we must be taught by the Holy Spirit. HE cannot mislead Himself.
@oliviamitchell4099
4 жыл бұрын
I Must comment because i was so terrified about the divorce situation because i am divorced and i have been for many years. And when i married it wasn't right and not only that i was told through my mother too married. But when the abuse came in couldn't take it any more but through all of this i've learned my lesson and trust me i been waiting on the lord and i am still waiting because i refuse to make the same mistake twice and i know what to do this second time around. JUST KEEP ME IN PRAYER GOD BLESS YOU FOR THE TRUTH BECAUSE I WAS SO SCARED THAT IF I REMARRY AGAIN THAT GOD WOULD SEND ME TOO HELL BEING TAUGHT THE WRONG WAY AND THE THINGS PEOPLE SAY NOT REALLY UNDERSTANDING THE BIBLE THEMSELVES.
@leahanne7288
8 жыл бұрын
I was so wrong in my perspective on divorce! Being raised in churchanity I thought that you could not remarry after a divorce under any circumstances. I even know a divorcee who has been celibate for 30+ years because she believes churchanity teachings on divorce also. Thank you for the enlightenment, this is such a great teaching!!
@ObeyJesusOurLord
5 жыл бұрын
Leah Anne How humble & transparent of you!😊
@ginagregg6642
4 жыл бұрын
@@ObeyJesusOurLord My unbelieving abusive ex husband left me divorced me and married someone else. Am I free to remarry?
@BumbleBee21917
2 жыл бұрын
@@ginagregg6642 yes you are free to remarry
@hiddengem4293
2 жыл бұрын
@@ginagregg6642 Hello, how are you doing today?
@WarriorRemnantBride
7 жыл бұрын
Someone put a LINK on on an FB page where I found this today. ENJOYED it thoroughly. I am divorced 6 years ago. Was separated hoping for restoration for 3 years prior to the divorce. GREAT teaching and confirms my heart convictions in daddy GOD and HIS life giving immutable truths..... GOOD doctrine here brother!
@casseophealejarde-khaizen
Ай бұрын
I pray got your restoration and reconciliation in Jesus name.
@madeinhisimage9277
2 жыл бұрын
This is how you preach the word!!! Using the original text
@sierratroyer5227
2 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy how this teaching is pretty fast paced and clearly broken down!
@zanduncan3548
8 жыл бұрын
Praise Abba Yahweh... Let Yahshua shine In our lives
@neemathebest
7 жыл бұрын
What a blessing...am so blessed i surely needed to hear this. God bless you for allowing Him to use you to send this word out to those who needed it.
@mrs8792
6 жыл бұрын
My family was cruel and unsupportive when I got divorced. They had no idea what I went through! I can’t stand it when those types think it’s ok to judge. The Lord knows my heart and only He knows the truth.
@AdjectivesRGreaterThanPronouns
6 жыл бұрын
t Klein The good thing is He knows our hearts but the even scarier thing is that He know our hearts. 9 The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it? 10 I יהוה search the heart, I try the reins, even to give every man according to his ways, and according to the fruit of his doings.
@ObeyJesusOurLord
5 жыл бұрын
T Klein So sad that your family was not there for you in your time of despair & heartbreak. Hope things have improved! 😊 ✝
@casseophealejarde-khaizen
Ай бұрын
Divorce is forgivable as long as you remain unmarried or reconcile back.
Wow! I was blown away by this teaching. My soul has been restored through this teaching. Thank you Yeshua.
@ObeyJesusOurLord
5 жыл бұрын
James Munn How wonderful!😊✝
@Lindamu1
7 жыл бұрын
Finally a clear explanation of marriage, divorce and remarriage, Now I am ready for a Torah observant husband?!!!Only if Father wills it of course!
@cattywampusmcdoogle
6 жыл бұрын
Only if at 40 I had a proverbs 31 wife
@ObeyJesusOurLord
5 жыл бұрын
Linda Savard Lord willing, Father please send Linda a wonderful, godly mate. In Jesus Name I pray.
@maunder01
Жыл бұрын
How are you now Linda? Have you remarried?
@mdj8583
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this very enlightening teaching!
@alanais2382
7 жыл бұрын
Well.. do I ever feel released from my divorce shame!
@VictoriaEzpeletaLucas
6 жыл бұрын
Sis... what is in the past is in the past... we have Yahshua as our advocate. Don’t let the enemy keep you in shame!
@laurasawatzky6557
6 жыл бұрын
Me two Alana. I was attending a baptist church and for the longest time I walked in shame and filth. Thanks to Elhoim I have been seeking old scripture in which one after one I found so much truth and healing and grown as if he was calling me out of Babylon. I chose my daughters health and my desire to be one in Elhoim. I tried in my marriage but my ex husband was into alcohol and gambolling and emotionally and mentally abusive. It was too much my daughter was in and out of the hospital from depression.
@godisgoodtv36
4 жыл бұрын
Me too i was living in tourmented after beeing married for a second time until today i feel peace and i can live now full of trust in my marriage with the man who is so wonderful
@keithmanasseh2882
2 жыл бұрын
@@VictoriaEzpeletaLucas what Scripture Verse saids, a Believing Woman can Divorce her Husband. The Context of the Holy Scriptures (The Holy Bible) shows us no Jewish (Believing Woman) had Authority to Divorce her Husband. If you and anyone else is willing to follow the Torah righteously, then you should know Women were not given a Commandment by any Prophet to Divorce their Husbands. According to Scripture, any Woman who Divorce her Husband is still Married to him, because Scripture saids that Men where able to Divorce and not Women. Read It For Yourself.... “When a MAN hath taken a WIFE, and MARRIED HER, and it come to pass that SHE find no FAVOUR in his EYES, because he hath found some UNCLEANNESS in HER: then let him WRITE HER A BILL OF DIVORCEMENT, and give it in HER HAND, and SEND HER out of his house.” - Deuteronomy 24:1 (KJV) Does this Verse say anything about Women Divorcing? There are many Women of yesterday and today that are committing Adultery by Divorcing their Husbands and Marrying Another. So terribly sad.
@casseophealejarde-khaizen
Ай бұрын
Are you both in covenant marriage?
@yahuahforever3169
2 жыл бұрын
The Bible speaks of only ONE time you can remarry and this is if your spouse dies!! This speaker just added his interpretation, he said because it didn’t say letter of divorce you can remarriage, that’s him talking and not scripture. He can’t show you that in scripture he added that!
@kwarrior2188
2 жыл бұрын
The Word of God states you can only remarry when your covenant spouse dies. Otherwise you are in adultery. No adulterer will see the kingdom of God. Seek God for he is not the author of confusion.
@wingamwila4113
10 күн бұрын
You people are honestly so slow it's amazing 😂
@truthstillmatters59
5 жыл бұрын
This is the best and most thourogh examination of what it means to get divorced and remarried that I have ever seen. I like it not only because it relieves me of my shame, but teaches a truth. I have been made to feel unworthy of even attending church anymore because I am divorced and remarried. The church has the attitude, why are you here since you've condemened yourself to hell?
@casseophealejarde-khaizen
Ай бұрын
Are you praying for your husband's soul?
@KatrinaTahar
2 жыл бұрын
“And they said, Moses suffered to write a bill of divorcement, and to put her away. And Jesus answered and said unto them, For the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept. But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; and they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” Mark 10:4-9 KJVAAE
@casseophealejarde-khaizen
Ай бұрын
The preacher did not address that no men may separate what is joined as one flesh. God honors the covenant marriage and so it is important to know what you're getting into before you marry.
@wingamwila4113
10 күн бұрын
Kindly explain Mathew 19 then? What does it mean?
@casseophealejarde-khaizen
10 күн бұрын
@@wingamwila4113 I would love to. Matthew 19 was written for the Jews whereby the custom of bethrotal was practiced. Remember Mary who conceived Jesus while bethroted to Joseph? Joseph planned to divorce her as he thought she had been unfaithful. The bethrotal is the only exemption and that is why it states fornication since the marriage has not been consumated yet. Once the marriage has been consumated, divorce + remarriage while covenant spouse is living is adultery. Read: 1 Cor 7:39 Rom 7:1-3 Luke 16:18 Mark 10:1-10 Hope this helps. Praise Jesus! 🙌
@wingamwila4113
10 күн бұрын
@@casseophealejarde-khaizen so Jesus used the words wife and husband casually? Don't words have meaning then?
@wingamwila4113
10 күн бұрын
@@casseophealejarde-khaizen from the order of events I'm not even sure the order of events contextually refers to betrothal.
@colorado353
4 жыл бұрын
You make me proud to be a Messianic Jew!
@MeloRon-c4y
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this teaching. Marriage (Ketubah) is a contract. A covenant. Adam and Eve broke the original yet YHVH made a greater unbreakable through YAHUSHUA covenant or contract to those who will receive HIM. This has been something I've thought about and even condemned myself as a put away then divorced woman. YHVH is the greatest lawmaker . HE understands contracts and their remedies. Thank YOU FATHER!
@nathanburden2031
6 жыл бұрын
Excellent sermon I researched this and have known this true understanding for a long time it is a shame many are ignorant of this as leaders even thanks for a clear CONCISE TEACHING
@happyd1479
11 ай бұрын
This was a great and even life saving teaching so many people are unfortunately counsseled to stay in abusive relationships to avoid divorce due to ignorance and also told if they remarry its adultery
@mtoi
11 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful.
@Jericho-xs3ju
10 ай бұрын
I like how you go through scripture and definitions. I will look at some of your other videos.
@Captain_Of_A_Starship
10 ай бұрын
He's saying releasing and putting away aren't synonymous, as if they are two separate things like the Catholic annulment which we know isn't right. This teaching can have you in adultery
@grant2149
8 ай бұрын
@@Captain_Of_A_StarshipExcatly
@grant2149
8 ай бұрын
@@mtoi"Glad it was helpfull" You are leading Thousands to sin. Pathetic you will be held accountable remember my name regardless divorce there is NO REMARRIAGE YOU ARE LEADING YOUR FLOCK TO DAMNATION.
@judith9489
7 жыл бұрын
Shalom and Thank you so much for putting a real effort into explaining this ,ive been having a hard time over the years trying to understand this subject not really knowing what to believe and I went to the father about this and he lead me to you ,peace be with you and your family
@ObeyJesusOurLord
5 жыл бұрын
Judith How wonderful that God led you to his sight.
@TheHomeExpert5
4 жыл бұрын
Praise the Lord! Whenever I find that a Jewish person has accepted the Lord Jesus Christ it lifts me up! I pray that ALL Jewish people would read Isaiah 53, Zechariah 12:10 and all the other scriptures that reveal Jesus is The Son of God and the Savior!
@clienguite2231
2 жыл бұрын
Amen. Same here.🙏🙏🙏
@hiddengem4293
2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@stephyLynn7
5 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU! after studying how “Jewish” marriages work from a historical and biblical way. The explanation is very cut and dry. You commit to a contract, an agreement made. usually there is a waiting period and then they consummate. It only takes transgression of one part of a contract to nullify the whole thing. You then decide what to do about that. But you have to look at the fact that the contract is broken but if you want you can try and save the marriage. In my case it was broken years ago and I’ve been living with emotional,verbal and physical abuse for 12 years because of “God wanting restoration” I finally stopped trying to fix the situation and Told God that I would honor my covenant to God because I had not been unfaithful and that I would let God fill my emotional void. I let God build me up in his word. When I began to bloom and be happy despite my circumstances, things got worse and my spouse turned worse on the kids. I had to leave. After 13 years (12 married) I am somehow leaving a toxic situation by Gods grace and mercy with 4 kids at the age of 33. I have a lot of work to do but God has been providing every step of the way. If you read this. I hope in encourages you and ask for prayer for me and the kids as we transition through the divorce and God grants us favor. I do not want to go through the public court system but it’s what I had to do for my safety. I’ve been TO for 2.5 years. My spouse was Torah knowledgeable but did not apply the spirit of the law.
@dora444da
7 жыл бұрын
i love this vedio it helps so much for the longest time i felt i had no hope i never stop loving my creator but could not go back to church till i met Yeshua im legally divorce and met someone didn't want to go through the whole marriage shebang and been living like this for 27 years. I just found torah 3 years it's been difficult but yahweh has been working in my home love your video please do more on this subject
@warneachothereverydayheb.3406
Жыл бұрын
I was very impressed with the authority in which you spoke on another subject. Now I'm very discouraged and have no confidence in anything else that you say. It doesn't seem to me that you are "following the pattern, exactly!" Divorce and remarriage for any reason causes someone to live in adultery. Jesus statements were radical, not compromising! He wasn't following the pattern of anyone/Pharisees or the like.
@Dacedace1
5 ай бұрын
Thank you
@wingamwila4113
10 күн бұрын
God doesn't change. The same God of old....is the one we serve today. He compromised then according to you huh?
@rolaine733
5 жыл бұрын
If it was joined together by our Lord. So much peace in hearing this message, I'm just now finishing it. Absolute peace. Ty.
@9mmaster538
Жыл бұрын
It’s a terrible thing that many comments here sound just like the Pharisee’s. There was no room for forgiveness to sinners and they thought above others. “To some who trusted in their own righteousness and viewed others with contempt, He also told this parable: 10“Two men went up to the temple to pray. One was a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. 11The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed,a ‘God, I thank You that I am not like the other men-swindlers, evildoers, adulterers-or even like this tax collector. 12I fast twice a week and pay tithes of all that I acquire.’ 13But the tax collector stood at a distance, unwilling even to lift up his eyes to heaven. Instead, he beat his breast and said, ‘God, have mercy on me, a sinner!’ 14I tell you, this man, rather than the Pharisee, went home justified. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.” Luke 18:9-14
@casseophealejarde-khaizen
Ай бұрын
Why do we always say we are being condemned when we are speaking against sin? Do we really want to follow Jesus or do we still love our sin? Let's be honest. Have we died to ourselves, carry the cross, and follow Jesus?
@wingamwila4113
10 күн бұрын
@@casseophealejarde-khaizenNo you people make forgiveness impossible and grace impossible too.
@casseophealejarde-khaizen
10 күн бұрын
@@wingamwila4113 Beloved, forgiveness is free in Jesus and so is grace. Because of forgiveness and grace, I willingly obey the Lord Jesus's commandments even though I have to die to self, carry my cross, and follow HIM.
Fantastic teaching, well researched and very well explained. Thank you for your time and effort. So many people battle with this.
@dianesledjeski2849
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. This is an answer to a prayer. I left my marriage ten years ago because of all kinds of abuse except physical, but never got a certificate of divorce because of money. I have been with someone else and have repented to ABBA. G-d bless you, your family, and congregation.
@warneachothereverydayheb.3406
Жыл бұрын
What does repentance look like? Turning from living in adultery to leaving the person that you are committing adultery with!
@cryptojihadi265
10 ай бұрын
You're sick. Telling people to destroy a marriage and a family, just because you're too proud and or sadistic to admit your beliefs are false and based on not knowing the scriptures and the words that were actually used. Sent away and being divorced weren't the same in tjat culture just as Separated and divorced aren't the same today. Even in our fallen society you can't get remarried if you're only legally separated. Until you have a divorce decree you're still married. Do you honestly think God and Jesus would set up a system where a woman who gets unjustly divorced from her husband can't remarry and is forced either into adultery, prostitution or starvation? Because those were her ONLY choices back them.
@grant2149
8 ай бұрын
@@cryptojihadi265You are truly lost and deceived. Therebis No biblical grounds for remarriage except death. Good luck with your opinions on judgement day., i do Not wana be you one day.
@grant2149
8 ай бұрын
Excatly many will be lost the road is narrow this man is deceiving people
@casseophealejarde-khaizen
Ай бұрын
Agree
@casseophealejarde-khaizen
Ай бұрын
@@cryptojihadi265I've been standing for 7 yrs and never regret this because I am being led to Jesus in my stand. I'm never led to divorce because I hold on to the covenant I made that I will be faithful to GOD and my husband until death. Am I wasting my time to stand then? Who is leading me to stand? Satan? I too have needs but all of these have been provide by the Lord. I'm in divine peace, not desiring anything outside of His will.
@3acrehomesteadin884
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this wisdom. There is a particular person in my social media feed who is continually condemning me and others for having previous marriages. I married at 19 before understanding Torah and really understanding Yahuah and really life in general. I was young and dumb and acting in my own will and not Elohim’s. I have grown and repented, as have many others. This person continually tells me I am going to go to hell of O do not divorce my husband and live the rest of my days single. She tells me I am unrepentant because I refuse to break the covenant I have made with my husband. This clarifies so much for him. Please pray for this woman for her view on this matter that she may come to the truth.
@Anthony-yy3kc
2 жыл бұрын
This woman is following what is called "The Marriage Permanence Doctrine". They believe that the first person you marry is your permanent spouse until they die. Yes they believe that someone such as yourself can not remarry for any reason. That who ever you married when you were young and unaware of Torah is your only husband and that if you can't get back together with him you must remain single always. But they still allow for remarriage after a divorce. They say if I am single and I marry a divorced woman it's not a legitimate marriage. Therefore I can divorce this woman and marry again as long as she's never been married herself.
@RonnieHellesoe-kh4op
Жыл бұрын
Read down to Mark 10:4-10 explains it Moses wrote the bill of divorce, not Gods will. You leading people to damnation
@grant2149
8 ай бұрын
Excatly i do not wana be him one day deceiving his flock.
@shalalala868
4 ай бұрын
Did you watch the whole video? probably not.
@shinryuken5423
Жыл бұрын
He skimmed over 1 Corinthians 7:10, which argues against his whole teaching pretty strongly. If this one verse is expanded on, it will present a different teaching than what is presented here. Also, he downplays "what God has joined together, let no man separate."
@olliew7225
Жыл бұрын
He does address what God joined together. Do you think God has joined together every married couple? Or is it only those who got married in church before a pastor? Or is it those who God purposed to be together?
@shinryuken5423
Жыл бұрын
@olliewatler7225 I don't think anybody can decide for other people if God joined them or not. I can speak for myself, and I agree that God put the means for my wife to be my wife. The circumstances of our relationship determine my reasoning. Being married at a church or by a judge is not the determining factor of "what God has joined together." All marriages should seek God's will. Nobody should have a mentality that says, "God didn't join us together, so it's OK to separate." Once you're in it (marriage), try to make it work.
@grant2149
11 ай бұрын
@@olliew7225God recognises all marriages. Period. Believers ot unbelievers. Hebrews 13:4
@madeinhisimage9277
4 ай бұрын
@@grant2149so he recognizes Gay marriages or those married in Vegas drunk.
@grant2149
4 ай бұрын
@@madeinhisimage9277 Dont be stupid Now are you a kid or an Anti christ. God regconises all marriages between 1 Man 1 Woman for life believers or unbelievers please give SCRIPTURE where it says GOD RECOGNISES GUY MARRIAGES.
@agentb7433
2 жыл бұрын
God has blessed my ears to try words as the mouth does meats. Not everyone that claims to be a preacher is sent by God
@wingamwila4113
10 күн бұрын
You could also be easily deceived by your pride.
@marvinjacobssr538
Жыл бұрын
You can’t make someone stay with you and to continue loving you. Some people change over the years. They started out loving God but then they change through the years. It takes a lot of work I don’t believe in divorce but is what it is.
@DouglasHolman
5 жыл бұрын
Wow, what teaching! Thank you for an absolutely great word from YVHV. It absolutely cleared my mind. Thank you, thank you thank you for this segment, helping me through all of this dross. I've been divorced for almost 11 years, I've been through a life-threatening, stroke because of it! I've listened to others but no one has ever put it as clearly as you have. As I said, I have been listening to speakers for a long time and I NEVER heard this before. I believe in the WHOLE Bible, not just the New Testament (for lack of the proper term). I am so enlighted by your teaching that I want to "shout it from the rooftop"!
@casseophealejarde-khaizen
Ай бұрын
Are you praying for your wife's soul?
@louisecoleby4176
4 жыл бұрын
Thank God for you. Years of being judged and wondering how Jesus could be contradicting Deuteronomy 24...such release and relief.
@missbeee6637
8 жыл бұрын
teaching the truth is important. thanks for the teaching. we all have to go the Lord and let His scriptures directly speak to us on this matter. Allowing the Holy Spirit speak to us in agreement with the scripture on this at a personal level. Because at the end of it all be judged based on the scriptures and not on any one's teachings. By the way God does restore marriages for people who once were divorced. Even if one becomes a believer, it takes prayer and praying for your the spouse of your youth. God will save both of you and restore. God bless
@maunder01
Жыл бұрын
What do you believe on the topic
@soldoutproductionsaz4081
2 жыл бұрын
Your giving excuses for divorce and remarriage. It’s a horrible horrible thing when believers divorce, especially if there’s no adultery or physical abuse. It’s devastating to families for generations.
@Jeffmacaroni1542
Жыл бұрын
Torah commands adulterers to be stoned, Yet Yah showed David Mercy and grace, Torah is about the preservation of life over death, False teachers teach do get a divorce then get re married is unforgivable.
@wynetteabc
6 жыл бұрын
You give the best teaching. I thank God for you!!!!!
@bruce8339
5 жыл бұрын
AMEN HALLELUYAH PRAISE YESHUA HAMASHIACH🙌📖💯🙏!! This is exactly what I've been teaching for the past 12 years and yet many lukewarm Christians still goes against what Yahweh has spoken!!
@maunder01
Жыл бұрын
Please elaborate!
@chachadodds5860
Жыл бұрын
WoW! There's an awful lot of judgmental people commenting here, telling others what to do. Apparently, they didn't hear the pastor give caution and rebuke, to any who would dare to tell another, what they should do about their marriage, or remarriage. I hope they realize soon, that involving themselves in a decision about someone else's marriage covenant, makes them accountable to God, for the outcome.
@ryanramkissoon1630
Жыл бұрын
Good talk. Most times we start off on the wrong foot.
@TimMarttala
Жыл бұрын
Love you brothers & sisters…tyvm for posting this excellent lesson…keep it up! One bit of feedback: while I love the brother’s enthusiasm, whom we can hear often giving Amens and lots of instant feedback on points and definitions being made, and I admire him clearly following along closely, I must say: for a video/audio listener like myself, hearing that is repeatedly a distraction. I advise: alter your microphone setup so audience members aren’t audible in the recording. (Side note: check with the congregation whether they feel it’s as excessive and/or distracting for them as it is for a remote listener like myself. But, in the end, AMEN, continue to facilitate and allow appropriate and agreed-upon enthusiasm among the congregation!)
@jrlatina
Жыл бұрын
I wish I could get this translated in Spanish for my parents who are constantly telling me that I must remain single the rest of my life because i divorced a cheating husband!
@Captain_Of_A_Starship
Жыл бұрын
Your parents are correct and this teaching is wrong. According to your thinking, only someone who commits adultery, themselves and the person they are married to won't be automatically in adultery when they divorce and remarry... *So commiting adultery is wrong but that same adulterer can legally remarry in God's eyes no problem,* This is what your saying when you think it's okay to divorce and remarry because the person cheated. The scripture appears to be more of a hard teaching than that... Whoever divorces except for an invalid marriage like marrying a divorced person... Gay marriage, incestuous marriage. Basically whoever divorces except unless they married someone they weren't supposed to marry according to God's laws, it causes them to commit adultery if they remarry. And anyone who marries a divorced person commits adultery. Essentially there is no more divorce and remarriage.
@jrlatina
Жыл бұрын
@Captain Of A Starship you are incorrect, my marriage wasn't even in a church, it wasn't a marriage that the Lord brought together, also it was an unequally yoked marriage in a court, he also is the one committing adultery, this is why this sin will be judged by God and only God. I have the right to marry another man if the Lord sends a good man my way.
@Captain_Of_A_Starship
Жыл бұрын
@@jrlatina I'm sorry, I think I had a typo. The bible doesn't tell us that adultery is grounds for divorce and it's no "judgement," id really like to know where being unequally yoked makes remarriage okay? And I'm guessing your Catholic if you think being married in a church actually matters because you should remember that God recognizes the marriage of unbelievers as well who never step foot in a church. Your parents are correct, once married the only way one can remarry is after the death of one of the people married, there is only one ground for remarriage and that's only if the marriage was sinful like if you married a divorced person, had a gay marriage or an incestuous marriage etc.
@jrlatina
Жыл бұрын
@Captain Of A Starship sadly your most likely stuck in the book of Matthew, try reading other chapters in the bible, you most likely are an evangelist who thinks that everything is a sin, the only sin not forgiven by the lord is the blasphemy of the holy ghost, and again only God knows my childhood and my past sins as an ignorant kid being forced to get married , Yahweh is not involved in all marriages, and does not bless every person who gets married for the wrong reasons, remember it's better to marry then to burn , try reading corinthians , not every person has the gift that Paul had of staying single 🙏🏽
@Captain_Of_A_Starship
Жыл бұрын
@@jrlatina My friend I'm only referring to remarriage and many marriages were arranged by parents in the past and currently. All valid marriages are what God puts together even if He didn't want you with that specific person because marriage comes from God Himself. You say I'm stuck in Matthew but give me the scriptures your talking about then. I'm not trying to judge you our accuse you of sinning, I'm just telling you that this teaching is wrong and your parents are right.
@johnbear6145
4 жыл бұрын
The best teaching on this subject ...thank you...
@jimakbailey5541
8 жыл бұрын
THANK-You Rabbi Steve Berkson - Onward, Shabbat Shalom, EVERY Day, Jim
@davidwomack5982
6 жыл бұрын
FINALLY!! Someone with a lick of Holy Spirit sense. We were blind, but now we see.....
@ethantroy311
5 жыл бұрын
David Womack do you live in North Georgia? I know a David Womack.
@writeousrhema
14 күн бұрын
Great teaching. I was worried about dating and potentially marrying a divorced man.
@mtoi
13 күн бұрын
Glad it was helpful
@leonadubois249
6 жыл бұрын
I thank you for this teaching..I have never been married but held very strong beliefs on divorce and remarriage through what I was taught in "Christian church"...I am still unlearning the lies..thank you for clarifying this volatile subject.
@rickyyahsharal3236
5 жыл бұрын
Shalom..... Just been listening to all your measages and so far 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 still going to a christian ministry but broke free from it Spiritually mentally and emotionally .....im involved with Shabbat and follow the Messiah only and the father Yahweh keep his covenant and commandments and follow Torah/Scriptures i appreciate you...... All the way from Chino California Shalom 🙏
@warneachothereverydayheb.3406
Жыл бұрын
We are commanded to warn our brother when he is walking in sin. Yes, most definitely it says it is our responsibility to warn those who are in sin, not leaving it up to "leadership". No scripture supports your statement brother! It's your responsibility as leadership and a body to excommunicate the immoral/fornicating brother (1 Cor. 5:1+)
@jevitadowell403
5 ай бұрын
Your exactly right. So this video is already starting off in error! I think I know how this will go 😒
@DouglasNicholson-ff6ep
3 ай бұрын
Where are you getting the phrase "walking in sin" from? Revised Bibles! How about like the KJV says rebuke him before all if he commits sin! What does "walking in sin" look like when it comes to raping women? How often? Please get back to the KJV Bible only only only.
@Livingthelifeneenee
5 жыл бұрын
Queen Esther was a second wife! What God has joined together, that is the key
@AriesAndPisces
Жыл бұрын
Please define the history of the reasoning to that, there is a reason why Moshe's gave that Law, was it not so, men in ancient days were throwing the women out for no cause practically, example when the man got TIRED of them in a sexual way or even if the women burnt his meal because she was mad at him, he would throw her out?.. Let us be absolutely clear and understanding the history of these Laws. To stop everyone from encouraging Divorce and Remarriage, YHVH Never Ordained Divorce! NOR REMARRIAGE, "YHVH hates divorce" (Malachi 2:16). Matthew 19:9 says, "I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery." See also Matthew 5:32. These Scriptures clearly state that REMARRIAGE AFTER DIVORCE IS IN FACT ADULTERY, except in the instance of "marital unfaithfulness."... Law, the punishment for adultery was death (Leviticus 20:10). Deuteronomy 24:1-4 mentions remarriage after a divorce, does not call it adultery, and does not demand the death penalty for the remarried spouse. The Bible explicitly says that YHVH hates divorce (Malachi 2:16). The Bible nowhere commands a remarried couple to divorce, either. Deuteronomy 24:1-4 does not describe the remarriage as invalid. Many remarry without the knowledge of how YHVH is or feels about the Covenant of Marriage, therefore there of course is forgiveness as with all sins. Does this mean we can go through 4 or more marriages just to put Yeshua back on the cross? NO! Lord forbid we continue in sin, when we have the knowledge of YHVH. Ending a remarriage through divorce would be JUST AS SINFUL as ending a first marriage through divorce. Both would include the BREAKING OF A COVENANT MADE BEFORE YHVH And With YHVH, between the couple, and in front of several witnesses..... The Bible definitely encourages remaining single or reconciliation over remarriage (1 Corinthians 7:11). YHVH plan for a married couple to stay married as long as both spouses are alive (Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:6). This passage, though, does not specifically address remarriage, only being bound to stay in a marriage (1 Corinthians 7:12-15) YHVH, no matter what people say YHVH Still hates divorce, Every divorce is a result of sin, either on the part of one spouse or both. Does God forgive divorce? Absolutely! Divorce is no less forgivable than any other sin. If YHVH forgives the sin of divorce, does that mean you are free to remarry? Not necessarily. YHVH sometimes calls people to remain single (1 Corinthians 7:7-8). Yeshua pointed out that these laws were given because of the hardness of people’s hearts by Moshe, not because such laws were YHVH desire, Let us remember YHVH Hates Divorce (Matthew 19:8)… I do understand people will say what about abuse, still a YHVH can change a person and a person can desire change as well and achieve it too., but I would not stay in a abusive household, and I would not return to reconcile unless led by the Holy Spirit and counsel of the elders and proof that person has indeed changed By YHVH. My Mom always says about Marriage, " Look, If something's broken , what do you do?, you don't just go throw it away, you Fix it."… Same as Marriage, it's a work in progress. Think of it this way, just like you are Yeshua Bride, Yeshua won't throw you away just because of a flaw you have, no, instead he will work to fix the situation with you, so that you will be prepared for that day to come at his bridal table.
@shalalala868
4 ай бұрын
Did you watch the whole video??
@AriesAndPisces
4 ай бұрын
@@shalalala868 Yes, I absolutely did.
@gaylenebarnard7040
2 жыл бұрын
wonderful insightful teaching.
@FilthyRagsGaming
3 ай бұрын
Thank you, teacher.
@simplypositiveme
5 ай бұрын
THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU SO SO MUCH! I've had so much shame since 1999 for having no choice but to leave my then husband due to violence in the home and addiction. 😢 My life prior was shame as well, so my entire life has been nothing but SHAME.
@Jeffmacaroni1542
Жыл бұрын
Torah commands adulterers to be stoned, Yet Yah showed David Mercy and grace, Torah is about the preservation of life over death, False teachers teach do get a divorce then get re married is unforgivable.
@warneachothereverydayheb.3406
Жыл бұрын
You did idolatry, and you stop doing idolatry, you don't continue in it. Jesus said that you are continuing in adultery when you remarry (Greek present tense is a present state and perpetual and ongoing!) You are committing adultery present tense (he didn't say that you committed adultery past tense)
@sheylaabarca9754
5 жыл бұрын
BRILLIANT. Thank you so much for this easy to understand and Biblical, teaching. I appreciate it. God bless you.🙏✝️💯👑
@patrickmcveigh7496
Жыл бұрын
On divorce and remarriage you are wrong Christians do you have the right to tell other Christians what the Bible says to tell them what they’re doing wrong and the Bible says also pray for them so we do have a responsibility when somebody is in adulterous marriage.somebody has married somebody where there’s no grounds to remarry except the person died.
@wingamwila4113
10 күн бұрын
But you have the right to huh?😂😂.... pride pride pride
@warneachothereverydayheb.3406
Жыл бұрын
If you had a husband and children before Christ, are all those relationships invalid after Christ? No! If you had a child out of wedlock before Christ, are you no longer obligated to that child after your conversion? No! All the more! You are to seek reconciliation and relationship and providing for that child and spouse, especially if you are the man! You are more accountable now in Christ! You are accountable to forgive and wait for reconciliation! Not go on with your life as if it's yours to do with! I'm sure that all the 12 apostles had hormones, but they kept them in check and served the Lord faithfully unmarried! They understood Jesus ultimate meaning in their response, "why get married then if it is this way?!"
@HelloooDear
Жыл бұрын
Very well said ! Gods word over all feelings !
@giturdone1200
2 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with the whole two people getting married for the wrong reasons the whole Greco-Roman philosophy about marriage is not a biblical definition of marriage it generally falls short marriage is a illustration of Yashua and his bride the church and the relationship his has with his bride I'll completely agree here I've been divorced twice failed miserably I didn't have the tools needed at the time to be a good husband been single 22 years my eyes has been opened and now I'm doing the best I can to lead a Torah lifestyle I've grown so much got a long way to go divorce is never good but necessary at times love is more than feelings sometimes you have to choose to love Yah didn't have to go to that cross but he chose to go that's love you just do it when it don't feel good
@SuperNinja757
3 ай бұрын
I disagree with how casually he refers to marriage as a contract. I think the OT/NT makes a stronger case for marriage being more of a covenant than a contract. Genesis gives the idea that what becomes one flesh cannot be separated which speaks more to a covenant than a contract which can be broken as long as there is an agreement. Understanding this completely changes how everything else is approached.
@Logic807
3 ай бұрын
I agree with you. Marriage is a promise. Not a contract. Because of our hard heart, a covenant, that is to emphasize a solemn promise. He is not teaching right. A contract is an agreement with potential exit clauses, but did the promise said till death do us apart? If it were only an agreement, we would have been rejected by God. It is his promise that we hold on.
@DouglasNicholson-ff6ep
3 ай бұрын
Contract or Covenant? There still are parameters and guidelines which if violated resolve the "Covenant". Matthew 19:9 KJV only
@SuperNinja757
3 ай бұрын
@@DouglasNicholson-ff6ep what do you mean specifically “resolve”? I agree there are exceptions that can justify a divorce but what I don’t agree with is the view that marriage is a contract. In the OT when we see the God himself divorce Israel for idolatry it was the picture of a broken covenant where God sent her away but still wanted reconciliation. Totally in contrast to what is being taught here.
@DouglasNicholson-ff6ep
3 ай бұрын
@@SuperNinja757 ......also, Hosea did not take his first wife back. Corrupt bibles say that, not the real bible. Satan wants every son of God to be guilted into remaining one flesh with an adulteress! Christ asked "what Concord has Christ with Belial. Meaning Christ in the born again man, with "Belial" in the sexually immoral woman.
@DLHerrod
7 жыл бұрын
This guy is a great teacher! This was helpful.........
@isaiahbaskett8131
8 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!!!!!!! FOR SEEKING YAWH AND SHARING WHAT HE HAS TAUGHT YOU WITH THE REST OF HIS CREATION IT JUST BLESSED ME IN SO MANY WAYS THANKS AGAIN I'LL SEE YOU IN HEAVEN SOON!!!!!!
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