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@aiaimonkey9085
Күн бұрын
Its also worth noting that many of the men who have made Diddy a meme will quickly try to utilize the SA of men and boys in an argument when women and girls are highlighted as victims. These men don't care about SA period.
@dontmesswithme8722
14 сағат бұрын
PERIOD. I feel like these type of men only bring up serious men/boys issues whenever they want to silence women. Because now the horrible crimes that Diddy has did is now a big ol meme and the main people who are doing the meme is literally men. but atleast there is still a good chunk of people who is taking it serious…
@jlcii
Күн бұрын
Is there a double standard with male SA victims? Two words: Terry Crews.
@DanielOkungbowa
Күн бұрын
Lord!!! Wake it up.
@bd3966
Күн бұрын
Yep, and let's not forget poor Brendan Fraiser who was essentially blacklisted for not allowing it.
@ShesMajickal_
18 сағат бұрын
YES. They made fun of that man
@KimWest-hv4tv
17 сағат бұрын
i don't really get your point when people are still making fun of Cassi.. shes a woman.
@herbyxrevolus
Күн бұрын
Sorry about the abrupt ending. The video file that was meant to be at the end got damaged. It essentially stated the the Full audio episode is available for FREE on Spotify/Apple podcasts & the Full Video is available on Patreon 💖
@indiaturner6868
Күн бұрын
Because of that I gotta get the patreon neowww
@figz6
Күн бұрын
ahh okay, I was about to comment & ask what happened 😭 great video as always herby :)
@drewberriesandcream
Күн бұрын
i kinda loved it 😂 “savannah slow down” the end
@NANelson
Күн бұрын
Hey, Herby! As Aubery O'Day of Danity Kane said, people need to focus on the crimes, not the sexuality. I can't wait for this video to start and to see what you have to say ❤
@dontmesswithme8722
2 күн бұрын
Thank you for talking about this!! i know im really early but i wanna say a few things.. maybe ill update this comment once the video actually premieres. First of all, i hate that diddy is now a big talking point just because he is accused of being into men, now everyone is running around saying “No diddy” like how they be saying “No homo” or “Zesty” or “sus”. the word gay is getting a new trademark every year i swear. Anyways , I hope the victims get justice, atleast people are taking this case abit more serious than they were years back when this case got paid dust. (Mainly because of diddy being extremely famous)
@bringjoy73
Күн бұрын
This is exactly how I feel. Like people not talking about the actual ab*se he doing doing, like did they all conveniently forget that Cassie video along with her allegations along with the r*pe ones???? But it’s so funny to say ‘no diddy’ cuz apparently a man being potentially bi is worse than being a literal ab*ser in every since of the word
@janeljohnson5833
Күн бұрын
I think the world is desensitized to SA. It recently occurred to me that the underpinnings of this take is a lack of humanity for self. When folks are striving to meet cultural expectations that are not humanly possible from around the age of six or seven, when would space for their humanity have existed or been held? Insofar as folks learning to stealthily have their needs met through attention seeking behaviors in their toddler years. How could you realize your humanity? How could you realize your true self if you’ve been indoctrinated long before you could discover who you are…and by extension, how could you “see” others when you had your person “stolen” out the gate?
@claireistotle
Күн бұрын
had to screenshot your comment because this is beautifully said.
@ThyCatalystRaves
Күн бұрын
Oh mannn, I am SO glad someone else sees it too! I have been so like.... off put/lowkey skeezed out by just the way ppl are titiling their videos on this sh*t!!! It feels like people cannot take anything serious these days, and not it a fun-edgy way.
@rxbynofficial
Күн бұрын
the way u both spoke on this was sooo needed. as a black, gay male, thank you for your service. 🙏🏽🙌🏽 p.s. not too much on the sugar and grits cus that’s my shiiii 😭😭🤣💀
@ricodoubleswiththelines5240
Күн бұрын
I’m so glad you spoke on this I don’t like when people say “no homo” I especially hate the “no diddy” it’s just foul
@KimWest-hv4tv
17 сағат бұрын
what's wrong with it ??
@keepingitkianatural
Күн бұрын
13:55 I agree with everything said with the exception that Lil Rod's lawsuit particularly had actual discrepancies and deceptions. I don't feel like his lawsuit and Cassie's lawsuit are of the same veracity at all. Rod's choice in council was questionable, and then it was discovered that a piece of submitted evidence was from an adult film. Rod tried to strong-arm Diddy into a settlement by weaponizing homophobia, knowing damn well people would blindly accept his accusations because they included accusations of homosexual behavior. He also outted several people who were not accused of harmful behavior. This really compromised the public reception of his case imo. Cassie's filing was unimpeachable. With that having been said, Diddy's violence against his male victims is absolutely being trivilazed.
@tylerhackner9731
2 күн бұрын
Thank you for talking about this!
@sidneybritton5948
15 сағат бұрын
It’s interesting to me because I felt like the only reason Diddy’s crimes were even taken seriously because there was men involved. Men who talked about him, men who make fun of him, etc. i feel like if this was exclusively concerning women he’d still be out here committing atrocities
@alishaendre616
6 сағат бұрын
Yup
@nianolan107
Күн бұрын
I did not know I could use prep. Some of the prep ads I've seen during drag race always have AMAB people. This makes also think about how Drag Race continue to only cast AMAB people (with one exception) despite the fans asking for that. It really added to narrative that prep wasn't for me. Thanks for saying that because I really didn't know.
@phillydterminaldisease6578
2 күн бұрын
i'm high af ngl
@phillydterminaldisease6578
2 күн бұрын
what if when you die you get lured in with the smell of your favorite food 🤤🤤 i just smelled something delicious like bbq but spicier like you could smell the spice funny thing is i lost my sense of smell 😮😂🤷♀️ idk what to do with this info but i couldn't breath for a second 🤷♀️ i hope everyone is ok 😂🎉
@imtime22
Күн бұрын
29:53 "whose activity is bisexual but their identity is not" that's a word fr
@lboogi
Күн бұрын
I am so confused as to how grits became such a battleground. Both of my parents were from the South. My whole family is Southern. Grits in my family on both sides could be both sweet and savory. This argument is some new generation ish. This is tantamount to saying the only way to ingest grits is through cheese and shrimp like other ways of cooking them didn’t exist prior to this. Sugar goes in grits. Salt and pepper go in grits. Now can we move on to more important things as a people?
@lboogi
Күн бұрын
I’d also like to add… there is a such thing as savory oatmeal. So the oatmeal argument for saying grits should only be savory is invalid.
@alishaendre616
6 сағат бұрын
@@lboogiI had savory oatmeal and it changed my life 😩🤍
@lboogi
6 сағат бұрын
@@alishaendre616 I haven’t tried it yet but I’ve saved a few recipes!
@Scriven42
Күн бұрын
BBC, that's the British Broadcasting Corporation, for folx who are confused... #Helping.
@izzaanimates9041
Күн бұрын
Thanks, grandma!
@Scriven42
Күн бұрын
@@izzaanimates9041 You're welcome deary. Eat your vegetables. Wear a scarf. :)
@268anita
10 сағат бұрын
I’m googling and I can NOT find what it means!
@phillydterminaldisease6578
2 күн бұрын
5ppl waiting why 😂😂😂
@gigaguayabodelsur
Күн бұрын
This is really true. Everytime I open about things that happened to me with other men, people start treating me like a little girl even when I'm a grown man. I just think we were not though how to feel empathy to men without changing the way we perceive them. We somehow keep relating vulnerability with femininity.
@JamarJoseph89
Күн бұрын
clockin empressive earned a like
@claireistotle
Күн бұрын
👀
@erikkayoung1557
Күн бұрын
It is a CHOP!... for sugar and grits. Cheese, shrimps, sugar, one of these things CLEARLY does not belong.
@rachelv673
Күн бұрын
Thank you for being so thoughtful with all of this. You're creating the space for conversation and ways forward in a world that's usually just arguing about something and going nowhere. This is amazing
@coreyo.conner7897
Күн бұрын
Thumbnail for the video is sendinggggg me chile 💀 great conversation as always! ❤
@TheBlackpanther45
Күн бұрын
Sorry just for clarification. I thought PREP wasn't tested and approved for transmen/ciswoman? I've felt like I've seen that many times before.
@tetramputecture
Күн бұрын
Common misconception, but no, certain brands of PREP *are* approved for AFAB people. That wasn’t always the case, so old info sticks around.
@liminaljay3311
3 сағат бұрын
I’m a trans guy and try to stay up on this stuff. That’s only Descovy, as they never did any trials with trans men/transmasc folks or cis women. Truvada, and now also Apretude, the injectable form of PrEP, are approved for everyone. A nice bonus with Apretude is that it doesn’t impact your kidneys, whereas with Truvada that impact can be so intense they have to test you every 3 months.
@Mindyours1999
14 сағат бұрын
I’m commenting merely to put this video higher in the algorithms. There needs to more voices speaking on this w some principles and not just tabloid fodder, thank you all.
@moustik31
Күн бұрын
Madonna was jealous! Edit: Thank you for reminding us how the Menendez brothers were made the butt of the joke. I HATE what Ryan Murphy did with their story! 😤
@danielleg8257
15 сағат бұрын
16:00 yas!!! Herby so damn eloquent❤
@CountryBwoy
Күн бұрын
7:02 CLOCK THAT MUH FUH ALL DAY
@Theyarediviiine
Күн бұрын
This was so good but the video cuts off??
@TheHoodHumanitarian
Күн бұрын
this was so awesome. thank you for extending your platform.
@home-818
Күн бұрын
No sugar in grits!
@marklouis1890
Күн бұрын
I take my grits with a bit of sugar
@home-818
Күн бұрын
@@marklouis1890 get out 🩷
@lisreads4872
Күн бұрын
@@marklouis1890Are grits like made of corn? Not an American but I think it might be similar to the mieliepap that we have in South Africa? I’ve always been curious about it. ^^
@MaejorArray
Күн бұрын
why we pitting two baddies against each other is the question
@Cflenoury
Күн бұрын
I love you Herby!
@TmssSimon
Күн бұрын
Heyyyyy herby !!!
@reet7060
4 сағат бұрын
Ryan Murphy is SICK that is NOT how you portray a story of abuse. He’s done it again. They need to stop giving him production money and attention.
@kittykattastegood
19 сағат бұрын
Unfortunately newer PrEP medications were not indicated for cis gender women on initial clinical trials. PrEP research was initially conducted with sero divergent couples that were cis gender. I conducted a survey at my clinic that found out of 100 young women aged 13-25, 97% did not know about PrEP, and they did not know they could take it.
@bluboy4ver2
15 сағат бұрын
I feel like this younger generation has a totally different meaning of Trade. I’m in my mid thirties and the definition of Trade has always been in the name itself which is why for many reasons it’s kinda toxic. It’s a relationship built on transactions, trading secrecy for sexual favors. Discreet, DL, Trade all mean the same thing to me because the whole point of it is for someone to maintain a socially str8 life while benefiting from a queer sex life secretly. This is why I have never understood the fascination with Trade or why a lot of gay men find it attractive. I understand a submissive kink but the idolization of these type of men doesn’t seem to serve our own self esteem.
@lowtech42
6 сағат бұрын
Such an important conversation to have!!! Thank you both for having so much sense and using this platform for good!!!
@ShesMajickal_
18 сағат бұрын
This is an excellent point!!! Diddy's preference was men. For some reason - the public only wants to focus on the women... wont say a word about the male victims.
@officialkiva_
18 сағат бұрын
I like grits both ways period depending on my mood ..idc idc idc
@piggybank2906
9 сағат бұрын
They can say what they wanna but imma still eat my sweet grits
@andrewdoucet3029
20 сағат бұрын
thank you for this! might be the best and most direct conversation I’ve heard on this topic. thank you both! appreciate you both!
@phillydterminaldisease6578
2 күн бұрын
imma watch this video tho ngl didn't remember what a premier was for a sec 😢😂
@liminaljay3311
3 сағат бұрын
So appreciate both your commentary
@honeybee591
Күн бұрын
man whattt way to leave us on a cliff hanger babess 😭
@SquidSquid7
6 сағат бұрын
2 mins into the pod n i already love yall!
@nashley2
Күн бұрын
He said “ is the trade in the room with us” 😂😂😂🤣😂😂
@MrTooEarnestOnline
Күн бұрын
Bro where were you on the last Olay and Friends?
@Fracasso-s
Күн бұрын
Really liked Noah's shirt
@SolCareMimi
Күн бұрын
Can’t watch now but for the algo ❤
@dameluz5228
14 сағат бұрын
Definitely NOT cancelling Janet for being 100% accurate rn-fake elections be damned..😹
@tangled55
Күн бұрын
What happened at the end, gurl? 🤣
@miriellemusoko4153
Күн бұрын
The way the video ended 🤣🤣🤣
@emilyonizuka4698
Күн бұрын
me too includes men too!
@khufuhollyjr4577
Күн бұрын
Okkk Herby trade!!!
@iamvikiskull
Күн бұрын
I'm on the floor.
@CarringtonKelso
12 сағат бұрын
The ending SENT MEEEEEEE 😂
@JamarJoseph89
Күн бұрын
gurl
@miriellemusoko4153
Күн бұрын
i love love love this channel i love black ppl i love queer folx i love semi ghetto antics keeps me engaged i love that im on this corner of the internet with herby in it i live babe thank u for the work ur doing & being so informative king queen doll them her/him u eat down :3 🫶🏾
@nianolan107
Күн бұрын
Omg god your so lucky Doechi isn't even coming to my city. I hope you enjoy yourself 🩷
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