We as black people have to stop taking advice from entertainers this is the problem
@jadoneholmes397
Жыл бұрын
I totally agree. They are more brain washed then any of us
@joedoe6251
Жыл бұрын
No advice from no one...
@FASBLAQUE
Жыл бұрын
You're right and we never would have heard of Iyanla if not for Oprah giving the sister a break. She's really just a loser and trying to capitalize on the broken lives of her own people.
@houstonveganchick5659
Жыл бұрын
I agree.
@ChaseNSmoke
Жыл бұрын
I disagree. Take advice from anyone as long as it's rooted in truth.
@shawnisgracious
Жыл бұрын
I’m tired of hearing these same conversations … No one can TRULY RESPECT someone who DOESN’T RESPECT their own
@cosmicneuromelanatedgoddess
Жыл бұрын
Yep
@LastoftheMohicans116
Жыл бұрын
It’s getting to be exhausting. For real! 😕
@Patienceofthesaints
Жыл бұрын
I’m beginning to believe that we can not get any help, until our Elohim Yahuah comes to get us! 🤦🏽♀️
@ariuwg4186
Жыл бұрын
Yet you clicked on the video
@fbakay4700
Жыл бұрын
Well this platform is certainly not a place to really deal with this kind of issue in the way it needs. But there are plenty out there, keep searching, cuz I promise you it'll take no time at all to find a channel that'll provide you with a better take on this topic than this one...
@Boredwitu
Жыл бұрын
The real issue is that people don't want people that actually want them
@alliwishis_2
8 ай бұрын
🎯🎯🎯👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 I always knew this for the longest time
@iceburgess461
5 ай бұрын
No
@iceburgess461
5 ай бұрын
@@alliwishis_2no
@lavernerowden8509
3 ай бұрын
Exactly you better date and love someone that loves you. Cmon now you need to date who appreciate you. You have to look at what you’re attracting.
@MegaRoc1
Жыл бұрын
In the words of Katt Williams, "it's called SELF.....-esteem"
@INSIDEVIEWOFYOURMOTHER77
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@dmstre82
Жыл бұрын
Factz
@kronickintrovert
Жыл бұрын
Esteem of yo muthafkin self lmfao
@FASBLAQUE
Жыл бұрын
See?🤗
@dr.peppermintpatty4925
Жыл бұрын
Katt Williams takes care of a woman.. No woman that dated katt has never said otherwise
@nymetro20
Жыл бұрын
I’m so tired of this Black Man VS Women BS we just need to love each other and value each other and help each other succeed enough division and bitterness
@jamw9253
Жыл бұрын
Thank !!! Our people don't see it's a set up to keep black people separated all this bullshit . We need to come together and black men and women who are hurt go seek therapy .
@dr.manhattan6278
Жыл бұрын
we can't do that because our standards are too high for each other.
@jamw9253
Жыл бұрын
@@dr.manhattan6278 nothing wrong with having high standards just have to make sure its realistic and we fit the same standards we put out there .
@rawman18
Жыл бұрын
That's a utopian ideal that cannot be upheld in this current culture. You can't love a segment of women who clearly don't love themselves.
@garyjohnson691
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, it's becoming draining on both sides.
@mstr-menstandingfortheirrights
Жыл бұрын
DL was absolutely right! If you don’t want me when I’m driving the bus, you don’t deserve me when I own the company.
@hellenmuka7207
Жыл бұрын
Exactly.... that's why bus drivers should date...broke hoes...ya know equally yoked....
@FieldOfReeds619
Жыл бұрын
That's why 6 figure men explore their options because they were once that guy that women didn't want & never forgot it 😮
@JayLawson
Жыл бұрын
@@FieldOfReeds619ep and I hear women saying "six figure man" requirement as if its a clothing choice or restaurant selection. As someone who makes six figures, I can say that I reject ALL women who have a six figure requirement. Literally the women I date do not even know I make six figures until after we are dating. This is because money doesn't make a man and no one knows where they will be in the future. Men need a loyal woman who is going to ride for them not a liability selfish leech with a hand out.
@TheoCynical
Жыл бұрын
Mike Jones!
@PettyLabelle
Жыл бұрын
And that’s why he had a side baby on his wife 😂😂😂😂😂
@kingstrong5351
Жыл бұрын
If y'all are gonna have a REAL conversation then y'all need to invite people on this show that will Challenge some of the talking points you all are pushing. You can't just have an Echo Chamber where people agree with unchecked opinions then expect people to take this show seriously 😂.
@meditationridingwaves7559
Жыл бұрын
That's exactly what it was an echoe chamber this wasn't a convo at all
@jeanetteelmore5650
Жыл бұрын
To king strong: i agree with u sir. These echo statments have not been responded to or spoke about. This is a continiation of African/ So calked black people respondi g to : A division of the African people before the Slave ships docked. Dont u see the colonizers had to divide you in order to control u. Why do you co tinue to fight each other. YOU are not enimies of each other. The colonizer is you enemy. THE TRICK CONTINUES TO WORK. KEVIN SAMUELS IS MAKING MONEY BY GASLIGHTING VARIOUS STATEMENTS. AS FOR AYANLA VANZANT, I AGRE. YOU MUST DO YOUR WORK. TOGETHER IF AT ALL POSSIBLE. WAKE UP PEOPLE, PLEASE.
@mr.nyceguy7800
Жыл бұрын
💯Facts! The female with glasses on was a prime example of the masculine, combative, overweight, bitter black females we are talking about. She knows damn well she's a stud and no men, including black men, want anything to do with her.
@marcusmajors6196
Жыл бұрын
Exactly this is why they won't have it live either
@Dasmithstonian42
Жыл бұрын
Yeah this has been one of my goto channels for years and I think they just lost my attention
@Monica-vt4mz
Жыл бұрын
I’m saddened that the unity black men and women once shared when we were fighting for freedom, civil rights, and equality has been lost. Both sides have to start listening to each other with some empathy and acknowledge that there is pain on both sides. Running away is not the answer, we need each other more than we realize.
@rogerblewett5595
Жыл бұрын
Black women's did this when they decided to listen to the white supremacists government and accept welfare and chase college degrees instead of building with their black men and building up the black family.. the truth is finally coming out 💯
@eor_drahcyr
Жыл бұрын
But when people aren't actively listening, sometimes it not even worth it
@realbeautyness25
Жыл бұрын
DID YOU KNOW THE BLACK PANTHER PARTY FELL APART BECAUSE THE BM LEADERSHIP WAS MARRYING AND DATING OUT GO LOOK IT UP
@tiz12291983
Жыл бұрын
This ^. We can't keep pushing away the medicine and expecting to get better.
@Beautyroom300
Жыл бұрын
It was perceived as unity. Even in the Civil Rights and Black Panther movement, black men silenced the women of those movements after the women laid the foundation. Essentially the hatred for black women happening now has always been here, we just refused to see it.
@somethingelse419
Жыл бұрын
Some of these men just discovered that classism is real. "You won't consider me because I'm a good guy?" "No. Just like some of yall won't consider ugly women who are loving." It is what it is.
@hellenmuka7207
Жыл бұрын
BM only want their preferences to be respected ....but not when BW have preferences..
@millyoneyedeaz1350
Жыл бұрын
@@hellenmuka7207 lol its the exact opposite. Women period, black or not want to be taken as is, but have a laundry list for men to be with them. Plenty of ugly men get women when they're rich and that rarely happens with rich women, why is that?
@millyoneyedeaz1350
Жыл бұрын
lol try telling that shit to ugly men who are only considered when their bank account is huge. Fact is some of you women been on this bullshit for so long, yall believed it was ok. " i was born with a pussy so im supposed to be taken care of" isn't a preference, its a childish adult women's attitude. Yall talk all this equality shit out your left cheek, then say all this bullshit out the right. LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOO
@lastmanoftomorrow2840
Жыл бұрын
I don’t see the connection, a guy drives off of beauty. Income is a whole other beast. Blk women are the biggest consumer in the u.s. I live comfortably, not paycheck to paycheck, and that comes with knowing what to buy and not what to buy
@bakhembrutalknowledge
Жыл бұрын
So being a loving person should be enough when it comes to a woman, but not a man?
@slspoon81
Жыл бұрын
What’s funny we aren’t even discussing compatibility. We’re only discussing monetary value. Money is not everything. Does the bus driver make you happy? Is that bus driver a good father? Is he supportive? Does the bus driver provides. In Chicago CTA drivers start at 80k and many w/ tenure are in the mid 100k. Ppl are so caught up in vanity and superficial titles that we are missing the boat on genuine love and peace.
@jermaineburgess3767
Жыл бұрын
This is the black woman's mindset they only take take take
@chuckwicksimmons5813
Жыл бұрын
And the sad thing about this is brother. They don't give a s***. They just want to make sure he can level up and own the company or a business.👌🏽💯💯
@Berribunnyo
Жыл бұрын
We can't leave black men behind. But black men need to choose the women that want them , not the women they want
@Iloveswedes
Жыл бұрын
That's why they get divorced, don't have a man, and don't have any children. So many things separate black folks by design, and then we do it to ourselves with this chasing money nonsense.
@iluvthadrama
Жыл бұрын
Would Barack or Michele marry a bus driver? They are compatible and it's not just because of money. Education, their values, and the circles they move in make them compatible. They wanted to live a certain lifestyle that they wanted to reach. And also most marriages separate and fight over money. Money is not everything but it is important. It adds to your quality of life.
@MJohns-ui2vs
Жыл бұрын
Yamamieka is the text book example of what that brother was talking about. She “heard” but she ain’t “LISTEN” to a damn word he said. He literally addressed EVERYTHING she was complaining about but she just so ready to argue, point fingers and place blame.
@MJohns-ui2vs
Жыл бұрын
She bitter af
@nicole.s2652
Жыл бұрын
@@MJohns-ui2vs She can be bitter and who hurt her but did she tell a lie though bm once again u proved her right can't tell u dudes nothing bm think they pain only matter i show ya'll by dismissing u out of my face bm is way to damn emotional and fem fem. You are not the only one's hurting and this why i do not care about bm pain cause ya'll are selfish u bully bw u are mean and trifling u walk around mad all the time bw owe u nothing bm at this point just jealous hearted take a step back and look at yourselves.
@nhayahsgoode
Жыл бұрын
Because he wasn’t saying anything. Per usual. If black men shut up and stop crying to the daughters of a culture who want them dead, we might can move on. But black men still want to cry and whine about the women they left unprotected while the slave owner stole and raped them.
@mistahjay8598
Жыл бұрын
She on her woman king shit.😂😂
@AndreE-me6pr
Жыл бұрын
Big Yama will never ever acknowledge any of the wrong or faults of BW. She finds a way to turn BW into a victim in every situation. She doesn't like black men.
@eugenedantzler4485
Жыл бұрын
Black men we human too...... Don't let society define us.. We know what we go through..... We get the blame for everything that goes wrong... We literally have nowhere to turn in this world
@robertdore9592
Жыл бұрын
That is not only a tired and lazy argument; it was expressed with bloody dreadful grammar too. Where the hell is your self respect?
@Heat_Rush
11 ай бұрын
YOU get the blame????? You CAN'T be serious!!!!
@Plemonoo
11 ай бұрын
@@Heat_Rushyes and everyone knows it but you
@ampollard7041
10 ай бұрын
I blame the WM & WW 🤷🏾♀️
@CherokeeCabinetmaker
10 күн бұрын
@@ampollard7041Yahweh gave them (WM, WW) that power because of iyr disobedience. Lack of gratitude, not keep the laws commands and statutes! We also know theres a shortage of BW due to violence.
@vincy745
Жыл бұрын
There’s nothing wrong with a black man sharing his feelings.
@FASBLAQUE
Жыл бұрын
He fronting for the camera. You can't see that? Lawd!🤔
@vincy745
Жыл бұрын
@@FASBLAQUE yes, he might be fronting, but it’s about the message not the messenger.
@thomassantana777
Жыл бұрын
@@FASBLAQUE I also think he was fronting and I didn’t believe him. What type of women was he seeking? The Beauty Queen or the perfect black female?
@FASBLAQUE
Жыл бұрын
@@thomassantana777 Both. See, the perfect black female to all those guys in that room is not a bw like Iyanla who coddle them, but a woman like Eboni K. that unlike Eboni has low self esteem and worships mediocrity. I have come to realize that bm only want a woman they can exploit, because they're too weak to standup and do what a real man does. If you look at the Holy book of the Jews their definition of a man is a man who is financially fit. They call broke men women and bitches. These bm are mad at Eboni K. because she doesn't want a bitch she has to take care of and pay alimony too if it doesn't work out. They low key gold digging without the tools, but they think feels are going to work for them... A feminine trait! These men are more feminine than any feminist I know.... Talking that 50/50 shit that was coined by feminists!😏
@FASBLAQUE
Жыл бұрын
@@vincy745 You still in here with your remediate comments, huh? Go troll somebody else, because your frequency is too low and is irritating to me. I don't debate bullshit. If the message is a lie so is the messenger. We ain't buying it. Y'all go head on and get becky and we gon' do what we do. Ain't gon' be no bus driver though or no remediate who does not want to educate himself, but wants to be the leader. Miss me with all that. Go troll somebody else who doesn't know any better.
@A13eautiful1
Жыл бұрын
Im so sick of these conversations. If some BW want to date for financial stability & some BM want to get on a boat to nest in other communities, let them. As long as everyone is happy in the long run, that's all that matters.
@WhathehadasSole
Жыл бұрын
I think a percent of the community hates to see anyone happy, regardless if they keep it black across the board. We just have to hate someway and wonder why there are no real leaders
@maxpower6979
Жыл бұрын
Happy?! How dare you want everyone to be happy!!! That's just poppycock!!! Being happy makes angry!!
@eor_drahcyr
Жыл бұрын
🤣😂 I know one of them's NOT gonna be happy... And everyone else has to know about it
@jraehardin
Жыл бұрын
👍🏽 Agreed. The problem is, people aren't happy doing that though. Thus the "Gender War". Truly happy people are quietly doing what they do.
@hellenmuka7207
Жыл бұрын
I've just realised that BW being in loving relationships with wealthy men makes Blk men wanna off themselves ... coz WHY CAN'T BM ACCEPT BW PREFERENCES..NO BUTS...NOT IFS...WHY CANT THEY ACCEPT IT......BW LITERALLY HAVE HAD TO ACCEPT BM PREFERENCES FOR LIKE 100 YEARS...
@razanthewarrior1175
Жыл бұрын
4:42 this woman is the exact example of how she didn’t listen. She instantly turned the conversation back to women and proved his point.
@sickofguysnamedtodd2293
2 ай бұрын
That’s what they do. Al that bs about women being the more empathetic and understanding gender is bs. They’re too solipsistic to truly understand men. Because by and large they don’t care about what we go through. As long as it doesn’t adversely affect them, then it’s of no consequence. This is why it’s a waste of time having this kind of dialogue with women in general, BW in particular. Because the script is as predictable as the plot of a Tyler Perry movie.
@camverge21
Жыл бұрын
Lol the fact that she brought up Kevin Samuels is funny because Kevin talked shit about men too 😂
@PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves
Жыл бұрын
Kevin was a pedo and he didn’t talk the right ish about men because he was doing the same bs
@raphaeldelaghetto85
Жыл бұрын
Hell yeah. First clip I ever saw of his, he was going in on this dude complaining about women not given him play. When he (Kevin) turned some of that same no chaser truth towards women, they couldn't handle it.
@camverge21
Жыл бұрын
@@raphaeldelaghetto85 bro that’s all it is.. he was telling people the truth about themselves. Saying what others are thinking 😂🤣
@bankaizangetsu6465
Жыл бұрын
@@raphaeldelaghetto85 I think he told dude yu fat and yu broke pick a struggle lol
@tupactargaryen
Жыл бұрын
That men been dead almost a year and he’s still living rent free in these women’s head.
@resurrection5
Жыл бұрын
There is a reason this narrative is being fed to us constantly. We'll end up hating each other snd never get ahead.
@eor_drahcyr
Жыл бұрын
The fucked up thing about this is women have less leverage than men, when it comes to procreation. Sometimes I wonder why these women cut their noses to spite their faces? If I was a woman in my thirties knowing I don't have much time time to have kids, I would change my attitude and mentality, listen to what men are telling me ASAP!!! Because I'd be aware that these men can have kids basically forever fertile (Robert De Niro just had a baby at 79 years old). Everyday goes past and her looks are descending but her attitude/mindset gets worse. A lot of women are in TROUBLE and it won't be fun to see in the next 5 years... But when you do it to yourself, who can you blame?.... Men, right?
@mh1970
Жыл бұрын
Too late
@meagain9514
Жыл бұрын
It’s not a narrative when it’s literally the words out or people’s mouths and witnessing their actions
@zopound7688
Жыл бұрын
I concur
@nonyabiz12
Жыл бұрын
It's messed up but u can't make people love u. Especially when they hold the lifeof luxury over love.
@marqueshawalker2111
Жыл бұрын
Honestly I encourage my man to cry cause I don't want him crying on ANYONE else's shoulder! I want to be his EVERYTHING!
@TheInspiredthought
Жыл бұрын
Yaaass! Some of our people have fought for so long and so hard they don't know when to put down the sword. They don't know that until you disarm you'll never experience true love which is amazing.
@BamMilg
5 ай бұрын
Your a good women then if its true
@cheezedoodlenygguh6229
Ай бұрын
You just want control. Most men simply don't need to cry to you because men want actual solutions. Not fake empathy or gaslights. Or "please keep your head up".
@cheezedoodlenygguh6229
Ай бұрын
Stop fetishing men's emotions.
@CherokeeCabinetmaker
10 күн бұрын
@@cheezedoodlenygguh6229 Men are builders etc so thats why commune with Stronger Men. Weaker classes (economically) need to learn from Stronger male.
@tyadams1785
Жыл бұрын
Yamaneika has the same combative spirit, she committed on the standards that men required but it was a different story when she spoke about the standards of women. Men should take whatever they can get I guess …. Smh
@iluvthadrama
Жыл бұрын
You missed what she said if you think she is saying men should take whatever they can get. Missed it completely because that is not what she said. The only black men that have a problem with Yamaneika are the ones that feel she is talking about them.
@mecalpitchford4878
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, I can't even finish watching this because she's pissing me off so much!!
@andrefarrington406
Жыл бұрын
Yamenika needs to understand you can't fault someone who is asking a question. And, Pierre nailed what Eboni was trying to state about her mindset. All of Eboni's defense was too emotional.
@Yamaneika
Жыл бұрын
@@iluvthadrama Thank you! To fully understand what I’m saying it would require one to listen and comprehend. Thank you for possessing the skills that many are lacking when they comment.
@dr.peppermintpatty4925
Жыл бұрын
Her idea of a standard is hers.. I feel the same way... Men by design should be financially sound when they approach women... It's not the other way around..
@Nicety08
Жыл бұрын
I’m tired of the bickering between black men and women. We are hurt on both sides and this is all by design to disconnect the black family. I appreciate the young man expressing himself, I think it’s all about our experiences. We need to be more vulnerable, but that vulnerability shouldn’t be met with disgust. If we talked more like this we would be in a better place.
@jraehardin
Жыл бұрын
Finally, a sensible comment. I owe you a beer 🍻
@brandmoney
Жыл бұрын
👏 👏 👏 👏
@ibabechanel
Жыл бұрын
What "black family" ? 🤡😂🤣
@henrywells6223
Жыл бұрын
I suggest everyone revite Kevin Samuels videos.... He spoke about this and gave us a solution. And by the way white men are having this same problem. I do believe the U.S. is attempting to divide men and women... But it's not going to effect them they way it will effect us
@nhayahsgoode
Жыл бұрын
Black men started it. They’re still mad at how they let the white man still from them and rape their wives. So now Black men have be one the weakest male species on the planet, crying to the daughters of a culture who want to destroy them.
@DreamHHS
Жыл бұрын
It’s crazy hearing a 50something year old lady talking about how “her friends” want this and that as if that’s what a 20something year old young woman would be looking for.
@lesbert2712
Жыл бұрын
Yamaneike sounds trigger, and defensive, which is why she missed the point. She’s saying exactly what Black men are complaining about. 🤦🏾♂️
@mookdayam5520
Жыл бұрын
Bro she always sound like she's hurt.
@hSmiley904
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@rnbw_artz
Жыл бұрын
Not even your preference likes a complaining man. Get your passport bro!
@davidtyler6708
Жыл бұрын
And once again she offers no solutions. It's as if she want the Black community to die. She is to bitter, obstinate and masculine to not want to solve this problem.
@aquarius-woman5364
Жыл бұрын
You cries when Eboni told you to do better. Shut up!
@major0888
Жыл бұрын
She definitely is speaking from her own downfalls, and her dislike for black men.
@dr.manhattan6278
Жыл бұрын
The reason she doesn't like good black men, is because they don't find her attractive. She needs to stop putting mayonnaise on both sides of the bread. 🛑🍞😂
@maryabara4892
Жыл бұрын
Another buck🦮
@cjjohnson3827
Жыл бұрын
Of course she’s angry. If you looked like a booger bear you’d be angry too 😂😂😂
@BigGameVision
Жыл бұрын
Every single time
@vanityposh6348
Жыл бұрын
@@cjjohnson3827 you want to clown this woman on her looks, but y’all do not want anybody to clown a black man who makes under 100 K a year. Come on now.
@SEFYH
Жыл бұрын
I feel bad for bus drivers... They didn't deserve to get DRAGGED and disrespected.
@AB_Jax
Жыл бұрын
This whole "angry black woman" narrative is tired. Yes, some are angry and hurt. These same men that make these comments come with damage & baggage also. It's not like they are any more successful in relationships outside of their race.....it's just an excuse to mask preference.
@NorthPhilly-zr7xc
Жыл бұрын
I do believe social media pushed it wayy worser
@nubian77
Жыл бұрын
@@NorthPhilly-zr7xc black males have also irresponsibly pushed the term on and off social media.. we cant blame it all on SM alone, who are behind those accounts? The Tyler Perry movie: Diary of a Mad Black Woman, helped to build that trope, and here we are now. There’s been no accountability whatsoever from BMs on the destruction of BWs image. C Delores Tucker spoke on this years ago, and they chewed her up for it smh
@keanonsean649
Жыл бұрын
No matter the topic, Yamaninka is always mad at Kevin Samuels..😅 That man gone, let him rest in peace please.
@davidtyler6708
Жыл бұрын
She has Kevin Samuels Derangement Syndrome.😆😆
@TheDreMacShow
Жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!
@meditationridingwaves7559
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 exactly
@Ajp167
Жыл бұрын
A hit dog will
@Chitownsfinesthoops
Жыл бұрын
She needs therapy bad, I don't know why they keep putting her on the show to give any relationship viewpoints, it's senseless.
@don_shoti804
Жыл бұрын
“Equally Yoked” is what ppl ain’t looking for you can’t mix and match lifestyles and values and expecting a enduring worthwhile relationship
@mygodisawesome6121
Жыл бұрын
Facts❤
@jaybee6892
Жыл бұрын
Yaminika always flips the accountability on to black men. No accountability from this women 🤡
@DemureDarlings
Жыл бұрын
I’m married and I also have a son! It pains me when I see my son’s girlfriend disrespecting him knowing I’m on FaceTime with him😢To call a man out of his name or put hands on him would never be acceptable the other way around👏🏽 My son has feelings, and even a animal 🐸🐼🦅🦆🐢🐰🐯🦊🐴deserves respect 🫡 I do not coddle my son, and he has never seen me talk to my husband that way EVER! Women can never talk about a man’s feelings or perspective for 20 seconds without talking about themselves for the other 23 hours and 40 seconds 😤😏
@rogerblewett5595
Жыл бұрын
Never.. I can't stand listening to her
@jaybee6892
Жыл бұрын
@@DemureDarlings 💯
@jaybee6892
Жыл бұрын
@@rogerblewett5595 exactly 😂
@DemureDarlings
Жыл бұрын
@@jaybee6892 Then women like me get call PICK ME’s well I’m happy I was chosen!!! It’s hard being born as woman because most are too selfish, emotional lacking the ability to be rational & goofy😩 I want no parts of that!
@michealhouse9395
Жыл бұрын
I used to think that angry black women was a myth because most I know are usually empathetic, smart and edifying.... Then i seen tht lady with the red glasses and was like "there it go"
@jermaineburgess3767
Жыл бұрын
It pops up every time I don't say good morning to black women at all they are angry all the time
@meditationridingwaves7559
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@BjtheLawyer_
Жыл бұрын
One thing most bw aren’t when it comes to bm is empathetic. How can they be empathetic towards men when many were raised w/o men around?
@patriciajemmottjemmott3162
Жыл бұрын
She always angry
@kisha6370
Жыл бұрын
BW Angry= everybody live to talk about it. BM Angry = Unaliving his own brother, mother, children and women which would you prefer? thought so
@professorx8549
Жыл бұрын
Feeling the brother's pain. Very bold of The Brother to express His feelings this way (in a genuine way). Quality Communications is the key regardless of race, as this is a challenging phenomenon regardless of demographics. This explains why couples in general have not figured this out ( e.g., Black, White, Asian, Italian, Straight , Gay, Rich, Poor, educated or not. The fact of the matter is that nobody is remaing committed to the institution of marriage. " A good marriage is a Union between two ( 2 ) good forgivers." --- mark twain This saying by the legendary philosopher, perhaps is a true saying of all relationships,
@junerdub
Жыл бұрын
Let's give Thanks and Praise to all bus drivers, who transport all those good folks to where they need too go. Damn the level!!
@415folife9
Жыл бұрын
My best friend made over 100,000 a year driving a bus and a few of his Bo workers where millionaires through investments Don’t sleep on a bus driver job …
@jaie-m7673
Жыл бұрын
A bus driver shouldn’t try to date a beautiful lawyer. I meannnn, what are they gonna TALK about?
@spareld
Жыл бұрын
most bm are not bus drivers so lol
@samlosophy5894
Жыл бұрын
@@jaie-m7673you never know
@maxpower6979
Жыл бұрын
@@jaie-m7673 Transportation law?
@mlew7330
Жыл бұрын
This woman keeps Kevin Samuels name in her mouth every chance she get… He must’ve really hurt her with the things he spoke about.. Wow!!
@davidtyler6708
Жыл бұрын
The man has passed away and she still brings up his name. Crazy.
@guguemichaels
Жыл бұрын
Because she's fat, unattractive, old and bitter. Exactly who Kevin Samuels speaks about. Big Shirtley...that's why she HATES KS, even after that brother's passing. Her hate for him is still there.
@walterbrown2425
Жыл бұрын
Well look at her 😂
@jraehardin
Жыл бұрын
🏈 His... "built like a linebacker" episode must have struck a nerve 🙃
@ladyt266
Жыл бұрын
He was a plague to the Black community.
@aeerjordan4994
Жыл бұрын
This is proof that as black Americans we are not only divided by looks and gender But definitely by income..
@mr_m4613
11 ай бұрын
Yes and thats why black men are going overseas because the women over there values HIM more than his money and status.
@justsaved3876
Жыл бұрын
I'm a Black man, and i think a lot of our Black brothers is full of 💩 I've seen to many black men in my 54 years of life take advantage of, hurt, and abuse Black women We black men may not want to admit it or take responsibility for it, but we have not treated our black women the best... We can do better. But I'm not broad-brushing because not every black woman is caring, loving and nurturing either...but i believe more of them are loving, faithful, and nurturing, then not.
@zerotolerance2026
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support!
@nubian77
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for telling the truth about the situation.. people will turn a blind eye because it hurts them too much to face the truth. As time goes on, the femicide rates in the black community will be highlighted nationally, and then accountability will be inescapable..
@movingmountains4832
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@TheChameleon703
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for still loving us when a lot of them don't!!!
@DamChaRob
Жыл бұрын
High quality people attract high quality people, point blank period. If you are having trouble attracting people who you deem “on your level” you not as high as you think.
@yo3rdtier128
Жыл бұрын
But Ebony is not high quality, not at all. She’s on bus driver level, she just don’t realize it
@TSR228
Жыл бұрын
@@yo3rdtier128you sound silly.
@TyWerks
Жыл бұрын
not exactly true some ppl meet messed up individuals
@DamChaRob
Жыл бұрын
@@yo3rdtier128 I don’t know her well enough to be the judge of that. In my relationship I try to also the exemplify the traits I see as high quality and that has been working for me. Some peoples view of high quality can come down to very superficial things and I think that’s what causes such a disconnect when they find people they think fit that mold.
@DamChaRob
Жыл бұрын
@@TyWerks you’re right, and those have to be relationships you learn from. But people looking for the wrong things can lead to that being a repeated cycle. It’s kinda unfortunate but the reality is some men and women just aren’t ready for committed relationships. I can’t say you have to lower your standards but really breakdown what you are looking for in a partner. It can take a lot of tough conversations to even get to really understand someone but that’s how the best relationships are made, wether it’s a lover or a friend.
@sportcoatjoditv7148
Жыл бұрын
The bus driver question is equivalent to asking if she would live with a man that lived with his mother. And saying it's ok to do that because he would eventually inherit the house. Instead just getting his own house. Would it wrong of her to say she, doesn't want to live in his mothers house?
@j.t.k.90
Жыл бұрын
The same way society asked Eboni “where your man”? Didn’t Yamaneika “where’s your man” Iyanla at the beginning, as she questioned her credibility? Sisterhood has a short term memory
@Mr._Moderate
Жыл бұрын
Exactly 👏 👏 She seems like an afro-misandrist/afro-feminist 👍
@dr.peppermintpatty4925
Жыл бұрын
Where is Iyala’s man? Clearly she can qualify this question...
@brownsugako7772
Жыл бұрын
That's a valid question, Iyanla got money and will date down, I know there is a 50-60 yr old Tyrone that will date her...
@j.t.k.90
Жыл бұрын
@@dr.peppermintpatty4925 don’t know, don’t care. Just pointing out the hypocrisy
@j.t.k.90
Жыл бұрын
@@brownsugako7772 that all maybe true, however I’m just pointing out the hypocrisy
@dmstre82
Жыл бұрын
How the hell did we end up talking about how black women feel. I thought this was about how black me feel. This woman hijacked the conversation and reversed everything
@flyguy7825
Жыл бұрын
Man you're playing the same game they are playing date who you want to date lol And don't let anybody shame you because you're dating someone who's not black that has no bearing on your love for black women or women in general.
@IAMDJKOOLROD1200
Жыл бұрын
💯
@meditationridingwaves7559
Жыл бұрын
Idk bruh I'm lost 😂😂😂😂😂
@duckmcgee8979
Жыл бұрын
Black men are the second most chosen men on earth. Black women are the last chosen. We will be fine fellas😊
@ramsesstafford4640
Жыл бұрын
Exactly a man can't even complain about how he got the flu because his woman is too busy screaming about how she got a splinter in her finger.
@shagw4286
Жыл бұрын
I remember a sister who was a lawyer, speaking her 20 year successful marriage to a trash hauler. She said she dated a number of finally successful men, but they were obsessed with money. In the man she's been married to, she found her soul mate, and doesn't give f*** what anyone things. Her family and friends love him, and that's secondary to their own love, but she appreciates. I've made alot of money in my life, but never played the "materialism for p****" game with women. Those relationships are based on a false premise. It's why the divorce rate has always been over 50%!
@srneal9274
Жыл бұрын
I think d.l. Hughley was right
@ambitiousbeauty1013
8 ай бұрын
That marriage worked for her because she didn't mind being the breadwinner. She possibly was the dominant one in the relationship. Dominate woman who don't mind being breadwinners are more compatible with men who are less ambitious. Some women want a man who is ambitious like them and have a good paying career like them. Compatibility is key.
@mookdayam5520
Жыл бұрын
Why is Yaminika even on here? She never has anything positive to say about black men. How long has Kevin been in the ground?
@bleucarrotcake
Жыл бұрын
It’s so sad that it’s come to this. Honestly, a lot of this feels manufactured. I’m not sure who’s pulling the strings but BM and BW weren’t going at each other so openly in years past. I don’t know… maybe it’s due to social media. Whatever the case, it’s sad. No other group dogs each other so openly like this.
@el8233
Жыл бұрын
The female rappers started this
@deephousenation9848
Жыл бұрын
👏🏾
@JELIFISH19
Жыл бұрын
It's definitely social media. All of these "relationship gurus" have created platforms that conform to men complaining about women. And it becomes a big echo chamber. Then you have people going viral and they'll use them as examples of what's wrong with the opposite sex.
@cald4aprps628
Жыл бұрын
Totally Manufactured and continuously perpetuated by labels, media, celebrities and YT channels. Anything to rile up emotions and getting people going back and forth.
@bleucarrotcake
Жыл бұрын
@@cald4aprps628 I totally agree!
@oloubabee
Жыл бұрын
Everybody needs to hold themself accountable
@TM-ocean
Жыл бұрын
It’s so funny how people were so hard on Eboni K Williams. People act like their attractions aren’t based on superficial things. The people who had the most to say know damn well that they wouldn’t try to get to know a little person, “ugly” person, single parent, obese person, disabled person etc past the surface to get to their personality.
@miamitten1123
Жыл бұрын
Most of the stuff you mentioned are genetic traits. That’s important. As for single parent, that’s life altering commitments to a child that’s not yours.
@user-vm2hh9ts8h
Жыл бұрын
Ebony Williams is a arrogant snob....
@lilmaalie24
Жыл бұрын
Typical women reverse it back on the man 😂 she literally made the point
@craigeking5042
Жыл бұрын
She made fun of him being sensitive then said women want sensitive men..she made a black women issue and didn’t take any accountability on anything he said..she listen to argue and being defensive she didn’t listen to have a conversation..
@traceyharris3341
Жыл бұрын
When you a black man holds a black accountable black women its you hate your mom an all black women. But when a black woman holds a black man accountable its shut up an take it. Thats a hypocrisy. With its not about your education or money its about good memories.
@ramsesstafford4640
Жыл бұрын
🎯 and Bingo 👍🏽
@BigGameVision
Жыл бұрын
Yup
@QueenAnnabelle
Жыл бұрын
Women and men are not the same we are held to different standards men are to be compared to other men and Black men don't measure up.
@traceyharris3341
Жыл бұрын
@@QueenAnnabelle no you are compared to each other in a relationship not to anyone else. That's what it is you holding each other accountable for what you do. If only one side can hold the other accountable thats not a relationship an yall dont need to be together. Stop comparing black men to other men. The comparison is supposed to be person to person. Neither should be lumping everyone together. Its about picking the wrong person. An when you continously pick the wrong person for the wrong reasons yes your relationship will fail every single time. An that goes for any man or woman.
@QueenAnnabelle
Жыл бұрын
@@traceyharris3341 You sound crazy that's why Black Men are last comparing themselves to women we are not the same. If we are not the same then you can't hold me accountable for anything because by nature we are different and your perception can be incorrect.You can only measure yourself by the highest performer in your own gender group period. Women relationships fail because they think men & women are the same when we are not. Men don't love like women love or think like we think 🤔 period. Men are only in relationships they can benefit from and use women as a resource.Most men are only using most women that's why only another woman can hold another woman accountable. A man holding a woman accountable isn't genuine when you understand most men's mentality and they're only there to take from most women. It's all game 🎯
@jeanettetaylor7569
Жыл бұрын
This story have taken so many turns, I've forgotten what we were thinking or even talking about! God bless ❤
@kimberlydill8059
Жыл бұрын
That is because they said she was talking about black men when she said nothing about black men.
@melanatedgod7604
Жыл бұрын
The gender war is beyond exhausting, they have been trying to destroy the black family for YEARS. Here we are still finger pointing, not taking accountability for anything and just complaining about the other. We won't get it until we understand that we're ALL WE GOT. Period.
@eor_drahcyr
Жыл бұрын
But if you continue believing what you've been taught... You've got 0 chance
@gigiinspired780
Жыл бұрын
While everyone else wins
@damesixtyate
Жыл бұрын
Yaminika is the wrong, angry about everything and everybody person for this subject. She started by saying I turn it off if it's IV.
@NorthPhilly-zr7xc
Жыл бұрын
She always coming at black men lol
@BBrown-km5mi
Жыл бұрын
@@NorthPhilly-zr7xc she might as well become a carpet muncher if black women are so great but it's black men who are always the problem...🤷🏿♂️
@uncommonsense7399
Жыл бұрын
@@NorthPhilly-zr7xcause she is a 1
@professorh7024
Жыл бұрын
*Raises hand* 🙋🏽♀️ While I agree with his point on Eboni K. Williams, PLEASE stop asking Pierre about Black community issues. He was NOT raised in a black home, so he should not be considered a consultant on anything regarding the Black community.
@seannimmons9924
Жыл бұрын
Whew! Man, I'm glad I'm married, because if I had to go through some of the stuff that single people have to face as far as relationships are concerned I'd pull the rip cord and bail out. It's flat out embarrassing. I mean what's so hard about getting, and staying in a relationship? It's easy to me. I think alot of people are just making excuses for their own behavior and shortcomings. You can't get into or thrive in a relationship until you figure your own self out first. Geez.
@fishscaley
Жыл бұрын
Fax my G!!!!!! Been married 20 yrs........1 girl 3 boys......I'm scared for them.
@cruzpaez8047
Жыл бұрын
I agree. Self-Respect, Self-Knowledge along with Self-Integrity will allow you to love your'self' & find someone who wants a relationship & is not afraid to hold themselves accountable & do the work needed in any good relationship. Marriage is WORK. The hardest, most impactful decision you will ever make that will greatly affect yoy lifelong is who you choose as a lifelong partner.. wife/husband. I believe Pierre hit it right on the nail. Yammika was fair, but was not truly listening to what the lady *who would not date a bus driver* said, but she closed realizing she agreed with Pierre's points. He really defused the entire argument of Black Men vs Black Womyn since I do believe it is a MSMedia strategic move to sell more media products. Look to Commmunity, not Celebs.✌🏾💜
@Jenjin1313
Жыл бұрын
Agree. Married 16 years. What's wrong with falling in love and enjoying the company of a loving man. Struggle love is love. Money can disappear. Beauty will fade. But if he look at you everyday like the first day...nothing can compare.
@ariamason9324
Жыл бұрын
They don't want real relationships or take it seriously. They just sleeping around getting pregnant and impregnating people for fun..they are not thinking of any future or the future of their offspring. And the cycle continues.
@johnstarks32
Жыл бұрын
Stay married bruh... lol
@reidiancestinson9902
Жыл бұрын
Everyone seems to be hurt. How are we going to win if we can't get past the pain? We all need to heal from trauma and help each other.
@MzSam2U
Жыл бұрын
I agree some therapy and counseling are needed to get past all this.
@MzSam2U
Жыл бұрын
Me and you got the same last name
@FieldOfReeds619
Жыл бұрын
True... so men deal with one broken woman after another & gets to the point where those men just seek peace elsewhere 😢
@aaronrogers4533
Жыл бұрын
Materialism is destroying our people, success isn’t money it’s doing something you love and moving forward with that
@sandilemlambogoblination420
Жыл бұрын
Why do y'all not put men like Cory Holcomb, who are gonna push back on Yammanika's terrible arguments, Pierre is incapable of debating and defending men against this disrespectful woman who blames blackmen for every issue in the community. Yammanika your the embodiment of women the brother in the video is talking about, terrible panel once again well done.
@anthonymcguffie772
Жыл бұрын
Pierre is a damn lame he just don't wanna get kick off the show.
@theycallmemrfiggs
Жыл бұрын
Corey and the people at Comedy Hype disagree on things, to put it lightly
@sandilemlambogoblination420
Жыл бұрын
@@theycallmemrfiggs That's why he'd be good choice and I'm making an example with him it can be any other comedian/influencer that has a strong view on masculinity like Malina King, MTR, Oduke Jackson, Anton, Mr Let Go or anyone from the Lapeef Networ...etc
@theycallmemrfiggs
Жыл бұрын
@@sandilemlambogoblination420 You know how Corey is. He went in on Pierre and the channel owner like he’s known for doing. 😂😂😂😂I don’t think they want him on their channel after that. Corey wouldn’t want to do it anyway.
@kingbob6711
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@keithimages
Жыл бұрын
I cannot take anybody serious when they refused to be accountable to their actions or the lack of it. I've been with females with money & those who didn't, but it was how I was being treated to determined if we was going to last for me. 🤷🏾♂️
@vashtikelly6837
Жыл бұрын
AGREE.......
@shugbz1
Жыл бұрын
Thank you that sums up what relationships should be about. All you people wanting CEOs but forget that 1. CEOs won’t have time for you 2. Not all start up businesses succeed meaning $$ with be an issue 3. All because you are in a position with no intention to run the company doesn’t mean you are lazy or complacent. I chose not to go into management at my company because a, the pay is lower than where I am. B, they don’t have union representative and C, I don’t agree with the policies or being forced to enforce them. I’m saying this to say we employees are doing just as well if not better providing protection for our families without our names being on the letter head
@dogtown1718
Жыл бұрын
I feel you. I choose not to promote because it would conflict with my Son's schedule. I pick him up everyday from school, but I guess that makes me lazy, complacent, C and D student because I don't own the City of Los Angeles. I'll just keep working my Law Enforcement job.
@shugbz1
Жыл бұрын
@@dogtown1718 shame on you for letting down the African American race as well because it is your duty alone to bring up a whole race
@dogtown1718
Жыл бұрын
@@shugbz1 What in the hell are you talking about? I choose stay in a position that allows me more time with my son and I am letting down the whole black race. All the talk about no fathers in the black community. I am an active father who sacrificed promotions for his benefit and I am wrong. Black men can't win for losing.
@bennyallen2394
Жыл бұрын
I’m just going to go talk to my parents who have been married for 30 years
@Kelly_Silverman
Жыл бұрын
I can only imagine how this topic has been making male bus drivers feel for the past week 🤦🏾♀️
@MrHearddat
Жыл бұрын
They don't care, they been busy working and riding their Harleys and driving their corvettes and enjoying their off time with thier families.
@jermaineburgess3767
Жыл бұрын
@CallmeSonof Curtis James know that
@kalimbaayinde25
Жыл бұрын
AND?😂😂😂😂
@antwangordon6918
Жыл бұрын
As if there isn’t thousands of women who also drive buses. If I’m not mistaken, Ebony’s single mother drove a bus for a living. Go figure 😅.
@tw8002
Жыл бұрын
Yep; go convince these male attorneys to date female bus drivers!
@avace917
Жыл бұрын
It wasn't the fact that she said she wouldn't date a bus driver. It's that she called the position mediocre knowing that she was raised off of that same profession.
@Iloveswedes
Жыл бұрын
And then have a nerve to talk about generational wealth. She straight up dissed the profession and the people in it, and she's living proof that it can work out and create a successful child. However, if you don't teach a child that money isn't everything, clearly it spoils them and makes them insufferable to the point of not having a mate or children.
@tw8002
Жыл бұрын
Boy … come pick up yo feelins’
@maxpower6979
Жыл бұрын
Bus Driver Lives Matter.
@aquarius-woman5364
Жыл бұрын
It is mediocre and average. Nothing wrong with average for average people
@avace917
Жыл бұрын
@@aquarius-woman5364 just stating why most people seem have a problem with it. It comes across as demeaning to some. I wouldn't consider any essential worker average but that's just me.
@MaryBerryGray
Жыл бұрын
Being a bus driver can indeed make one a millionaire. Depends on how long you drive, overtime, pension etc. Folks have retired at 50 and younger bc they started working in their teens👀😊
@MasseurDavis
Жыл бұрын
I remember in highschool, a classmate once told me " You're so sweet, and cute, but Id run all over you", this has become a major issue, Women trying to dominate, most of us men don't want to be around a woman with that mindset.
@kisha6370
Жыл бұрын
ok then bye. bw date outside of bm and y'all need to be somewhere building a damn bridge.
@maxpower6979
Жыл бұрын
@@kisha6370 I wish I could understand what that statement meant, but I cant.
@tyrellanderson4722
Жыл бұрын
Oh, I get exactly what he's saying.
@chezoutside
Жыл бұрын
Women don't want to dominate. But we have to step up when men don't. Or we wouldn't get anywhere.
@tw8002
Жыл бұрын
@ Masseur. Davis In high school a BM once told me your cute for a dark skin girl!,, Masseur. Davis Hurry up and go pick up your feelings!
@rawman18
Жыл бұрын
This conversation went as expected. Yamaneika will fight tooth and nail to uphold the sisterhood code. Even after seeing a black man showing vulnerability she laughs at him and rejects his pain. And her animosity towards Iyanla was expected as well. Iyanla ((much like Kevin Samuels) held up a mirror and these black women couldn't handle their reflection. That's why they continue to blame every other factor for their situation except for taking accountability. And on a side note, I'm glad Iyanla is finally getting her due for her past work on Fix My Life. That was a much needed television program.
@badnewzscubasteve
Жыл бұрын
BOOM!
@Hyear2030
Жыл бұрын
Then move on. That's what I hope these men are doing. Leave bw alone.
@TheConnonedrum
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I 100% agree with you.
@anthonyfields3323
Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@FASBLAQUE
Жыл бұрын
How she gon' fix somebody's life and her own life is broken? She was lucky when Oprah gave her a break, but got too big for her britches and left Oprah when a major network offered her more money. If she was a true sister she would have stayed with Oprah and helped that sister build her brand instead she runs to the white man then gets cut and tries to go back to Oprah and Oprah rightfully told her NO! Now she on youtube hustling for subs! Ain't nothing she can tell me, because first of all I can't stand a dumb man who wants to be a leader, but don't want to educate himself. Iyanla has two failed marriages, because she settled.
@realnigga29100
Жыл бұрын
Who else notice the woman in glasses whole conversation attacking and blaming black men literally proving the guy who was crying point
@PPinkzmusic
Жыл бұрын
These were highly intellectual perspectives... I like the deconstructing by all Yamaneika, Pierre, and Harmony 👏🏽👏👏👏🏽👏
@Strongmentality12
Жыл бұрын
There was nothing deconstructing about this is a one-sided pandering superhero rant about protecting black women 🤷🏾
@tammymorgan5348
Жыл бұрын
Pierre is absolutely right! People heard what they wanted to hear from Eboni's comment. The young lady who said she wouldn't date a bus driver, and it's about the mindset is exactly what Eboni said but people got triggered and didn't want to hear that.
@IronBronx
Жыл бұрын
She actually equated to being a blue collar worker to being mediocre. And I actually went to high school with EKW and even back then as a teenager, she was bougie. So yeah
@tammymorgan5348
Жыл бұрын
@@IronBronx a bus driver job IS average/mediocre I the grand scheme of careers. Y'all wanna make her down the person when she said multiple times she's talking about the job and the mentality. Why are y'all so triggered by that? It's the truth. And you can call her bougie all you want but her standards are her standards just as your standards are yours, Love.
@IronBronx
Жыл бұрын
@@tammymorgan5348 Shes egotistical, condescending, superficial and materialistic....traits that no man with integrity is gonna tolerate. There's a reason why she's still solo. I cpuldnt care less what she wants for herself, but when you call jobs that actually require you to break a sweat "mediocre", that's when I have a problem. And let's not forget that it was the blue collar folks who were still running things as essential types while everyone else was at home chilling. And women like her will continue to be alone.
@Remember_the_Time
Жыл бұрын
@@tammymorgan5348 I find it crazy they're offended by this but will turn around and try to "humble" a woman real quick 🙄
@Dablkwid0w2008
Жыл бұрын
@Remember the Time? Exactly! The socioeconomic circles have to kinda match
@terri4081
Жыл бұрын
He needs to talk to his fellow brothers
@ChessMandingo
Жыл бұрын
Everything KS said was right. BW who don't seek therapy are damaged goods. I love Yamenika, but y'all know that you don't want a sensitive man. BW always push off their toxic behaviors on BM. "Well, you know why she's hurting, because of another BM who looks like you"! Lastly, Eboni was with a white man and got kicked to the curve....not one comment from any Black woman about that, HOWEVER, when y'all see a BM with a WW..... ALL HELL BREAKS LOOSE. Lastly, can we PAH-LEEZE stop the lies. BW have podcast dogging BM all day
@davidtyler6708
Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Many BW like Yamaneika and Eboni have unresolved daddy issues that they do not want to get checked.
@isaiahedwards6586
Жыл бұрын
She said the white man wouldn't quarantine with her. A brutha would've parked that bus, came home and quarantined with her ass😂😂😂
@jaie-m7673
Жыл бұрын
I SWEAR FOR GOD we do not care about y’all being with yte women. Y’all jus want us to be mad. We have OPTIONS.
@davidtyler6708
Жыл бұрын
@@jaie-m7673 "You dost protest too much."
@teenahmichelle407
Жыл бұрын
It’s “kicked to the curb”… 🙄 Yes, this is all I got from what you wrote.
@z.noirdivine5023
Жыл бұрын
5:39- I like how they want us to just walk out completely vague and naïve, yet no one is talking about the americas BW femicide rates, like are you serious? This is ridiculous.
@Lovebrix99
Жыл бұрын
They are just mad because more and more black women are seeing the light and walking away from black men
@jraehardin
Жыл бұрын
😢Thats a huge problem yes.... But the topic was occupation & income. It wasn't even about love or compatability for the relationship.
@uncommonsense7399
Жыл бұрын
It’s frustrating talking with black women, they refuse to get it.
@hkproductions6681
Жыл бұрын
Soooo, Yah-Mah-Neka says that the first response was; “where yo man at” YET: that’s her exact response to I.V. being the inspiration behind this VIRAL moment… 🤦🏽♂️ Typical, “pot, calling the kettle BLACK!!!!” 🛑 With the rhetoric, please 🙏 holier than thou mentality. GTFOH 😤 4-REAL. 25:10
@teenahmichelle407
Жыл бұрын
“The hypocrisy!” -Yamenika 🤭
@jackieknox6619
Жыл бұрын
I didn’t like that comment either. And if she had done some research before the show IV’s man died recently. She said it on the Breakfast Club interview. Smdh! Many of us can’t take the truth.
@hkproductions6681
Жыл бұрын
@@jackieknox6619 EXACTLY!!! YAH is most definitely 💯 one of them ones…! 🤮
@TheDreMacShow
Жыл бұрын
Damn Yamaneika do you like black men?! Because you made the conversation about you and not the subject 😒😒😒😒 I’m really sick of her man bashing and not listening to what a man need.
@davidtyler6708
Жыл бұрын
Clearly she don't. She is on some Ellen DeGeneres' BS. Danielle, unlike Yamaneika, LOVES Black men. I wish she was on the show today.
@aquarius-woman5364
Жыл бұрын
Go and get a white woman. Why are you crying!
@30lakeia
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate the opinions, feedback, and comments from the panelist and the guest/business owner, Nicole. Thank you. Be well, everyone.
@kynshii
Жыл бұрын
I really like that. If you can't sit next to me when I'm driving the bus, you don't get to ride in my Benz.
@vanessagreene369
Жыл бұрын
Can it be a Honda accord lol they look better to me 😊
@kynshii
Жыл бұрын
@@vanessagreene369 I got you, let me go to Delta Sonic and get it clean then hop on in lol 👑🚗🚗
@ashasun6620
Жыл бұрын
She has the Benz already catch up
@misstruth9027
Жыл бұрын
She may not need to. She may have her own Benz. The world is changing. Women are creating their own wealth and buying their own toys. Sadly, everybody will moving apart instead of together.
@davidtyler6708
Жыл бұрын
@@ashasun6620 And she driving by herself, with no man in sight.
@samuellavon4846
Жыл бұрын
Both black men and black women both have caused pain to each other. Both sides need to take accountability for how we all have treated each other and change it! All of us need to do and be better. The black community as a whole needs counseling because i dont see us getting out of this cycle until we all go to counseling in droves to get the tools we need to not tear each other down and help build us up.
@mentalprograming5365
Жыл бұрын
close but not the idea.. the counseling industry is designed to counsel blacks and whites differently. Black men and black women usually always get the advice t0 stay away from eachother while others are slowly told to heal with eachother.. we need to counsel ourselves, idc if its a "black" counselor they still cant go outside of what their told to push on you.. self healing is important.. stop looking for somebody else to tell you how to heal.. it will ALWAYS fail.. stop trusting someone based off color.. its the mentality that matters.. the agenda they push continues the divide and quite frankly looks like its a done deal..
@carolyndavis3152
Жыл бұрын
Most blackwomen don't care at this point. Blackmen move on!!!😊
@dogtown1718
Жыл бұрын
Another example of a black man expressing his feelings and being totally discounted.
@ljefferson1481
Жыл бұрын
Feelings…grow some balls!
@aquarius-woman5364
Жыл бұрын
And black men are crying about Ebonis comment
@dogtown1718
Жыл бұрын
@@aquarius-woman5364 I've seen more women talking about it then men. Man expresses himself it's crying . Black women express themselves it's empowering. Black women say what they want it's a preference. Black man says what he wants he is colorist, featuring, he hates his mother. Says forget it I'll find love outside of the U.S he is a pedophile, a dusty, the women here never wanted him. Notice a pattern here?
@gilliancottlemathurin8446
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Yamaneka! When you lower your standard in dating it builds resentment on both sides. In order to fit in you feel constantly pressured to accept what does not suit you. This then leads to bitterness and when children are brought into the mix they become pains in the toxic oneupmanship😩
@Strongmentality12
Жыл бұрын
What about all that one side and pandering bulshit she said? She clowned the other black woman about not having a man, and then turn around and defends why her fat ass ain't got no man 🤦🏾 she was just running her mouth and need to stick to comedy.
@truethrilla4424
Жыл бұрын
Hold up wait a minute. If that was the vibe in the relationship. How did kids get involved? That point should have been reached way before the children.
@TheInspiredthought
Жыл бұрын
Pressure is self imposed. It is how we respond to words, situations etc. Could the bitterness come from not having honest conversations with yourself about what you could have done and will do differently next time?
@Blakataq
Жыл бұрын
It's having tough conversations like this that we have amongst ourselves as a people that help us grow..
@jasontate7885
Жыл бұрын
Damn I thought the subject was about how black men feels.. now we back about blk women.. it’s crazy how she don’t get it and play victim.. why can’t we just be in this together
@dogtown1718
Жыл бұрын
You noticed that too.
@DemureDarlings
Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY! I’m married and I also have a son! It pains me when I see my son’s girlfriend disrespecting him knowing I’m on FaceTime with him😢To call a man out of his name or put hands on him would never be acceptable the other way around👏🏽 My son has feelings, and even a animal 🐸🐼🦅🦆🐢🐰🐯🦊🐴deserves respect 🫡 I do not coddle my son, and he has never seen me talk to my husband that way EVER! Women can never talk about a man’s feelings or perspective for 20 seconds without talking about themselves for the other 23 hours and 40 seconds 😤😏
@dogtown1718
Жыл бұрын
@@DemureDarlings preach
@ShortKingTheGoat
Жыл бұрын
@@DemureDarlings He honestly needs to not be with her he has to be told the truth even if it hurts
@DemureDarlings
Жыл бұрын
@@dogtown1718 🙏🏼🫡🙏🏼
@tmoore74
Жыл бұрын
I have never seen bus drivers get so much shade Damn lol
@Cpre1111
Жыл бұрын
As a BW, I say let BM be with non-Black women in peace 🤷🏾♀️ We don't care as much anymore. I'm not begging any man to love me, honor me, protect me & provide for me. I say, let Blk men be free b/c I'm certainly doing me when it comes to interracially dating. As Blk women, we have more important concerns than who Blk men want. Blk femicide is extremely high, so is the SA of young Blk girls and ALL Blk women. The list goes on how unique the problems that we as Blk women only face, especially when it comes to Blk mothers who die in child birth and from homic*de...it's exhausting because Blk men care more about the issues that only directly impact them. Us Blk women have been alone in this world for a LONG time. I'm good. Let Blk men date non-Black women in peace. Blk women will either change (be willing to seriously interracially date), luck up and get Blk love or die alone. Stop begging to be chosen by men.
@ramsesstafford4640
Жыл бұрын
RIP Kevin Samuels. ✌🏽😎
@KPVIDEONEWS
Жыл бұрын
They struggle " BECAUSE ,BLACK WOMEN ARE TAUGHT TO COMPETE WITH BLACK MEN OVER B.S. AND SMALL TRIVIAL B.S."....ALWAYS A COMPETITION
@quentinbrown3373
Жыл бұрын
When Kevin Samuel was talking to the women that specifically called in to his show somehow all women were offended but he wasn't talking about all women so keep the same energy for ebony k that yall kept for Kevin
@tw8002
Жыл бұрын
All women had to take that most BW don't qualify for the Hig value Man… Well BM have to take that Most BM don't qualify for Educated pretty millionaire BW!
@eor_drahcyr
Жыл бұрын
You're not lying
@hoodhippychick
Жыл бұрын
That’s exactly what they are doing We are still talking about what Eboni said 3 WEEKS LATER!! This shit is stupid when we need to be nation building we falling for silly tricks
@avaphynx
Жыл бұрын
Yes he was talking about all black women. Not white women or his preference latinas.
@geekedstoner4209
Жыл бұрын
She didnt listen or watch anything!!! She jus an angry black woman, and her points are everything these dudes saying. She makes no sense!!!
@D1andOnlyHammer
Жыл бұрын
And this is why we needed Kevin Samuels
@jwilkerson4
Жыл бұрын
Where is Patrice Oneal when we need him?
@nubian77
Жыл бұрын
He in there with Kevin Samuels and Alan Rodger Curry.. I wonder, do males think of their mortality, and the afterlife when they go around causing destruction?
@m0kn33marc
Жыл бұрын
It's pretty much a guarantee that Yamasquesha doesn't have a man and that's ok because I'm sure she doesn't need or want one.
@davidtyler6708
Жыл бұрын
I am sure she is going over the rainbow.
@inovartesmedialdainovartes2041
Жыл бұрын
Hey Nicole Anderson (Atlanta) ! Met you in Angola 🇦🇴! Stay safe and sharp sister!
@djairalert422
Жыл бұрын
Bottom line is Ebony can have a preference, we can’t control who that woman screw!
@DeseClips
Жыл бұрын
Accountability is desperately needed. People cannot bring past experiences to new situations and expect things to work out. Maybe it will but the majority of people don't want to deal with previous baggage
@CPT543
Жыл бұрын
Gee it must be so difficult carrying so much resentment in your heart. I love that one comment she read that said black couples are doing well but the media makes it seem as though this is not the case. The problem is many people believe everything they are fed by the media and thus develop a hatred for their own people for no good reason other than, "they told me I should hate you."
@bootneyleefarnsworth1788
Жыл бұрын
The lady in the red glasses is exactly why Black Men are using their passports.
@j.daniels1548
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@romarisewilliams7429
Жыл бұрын
They definitely need to move the camera back 😂😂😂
@hellenmuka7207
Жыл бұрын
I was told it's cheaper to date overseas because the dollar dominates in most countries ... apparently BM can't AFFORD TO DATE IN AMERICA...
@j.daniels1548
Жыл бұрын
@@hellenmuka7207 the juice ain’t worth the squeeze
@danniecurlett8702
Жыл бұрын
The lady with the red glasses still don’t get it
@DvinUniversal12SoulVibrations
Жыл бұрын
I think black men and black women are tired of society. Pushing us around and we're taking it out on each other. It is not fair to one another. I love my black people and I always will with our problems et cetera.❤ I'm dying love for my people will never go away. I hope one day I can see peace between our people.
@missbel8849
Жыл бұрын
I remember the clip, it was from a few years ago when Iyanla had her show. You can see the hurt in the brother’s emotions so for him to ask the women what damaged them he needs to ask himself that and do some personal healing. Yonnica said everything I was thinking aloud-she hit the nail on the head. Both black men and women have their traumas from one another and folks really should be more mindful of advice given from a lot of these “relationship”/manosphere/women who do not walk the same walk/not speaking realistically. Iyanla already said she doesn’t want to get married ever again, and she recently judged Eboni Williams for her preference of wanting someone on her level. 😐
@NorthPhilly-zr7xc
Жыл бұрын
Oh snap the clip is old I thought it was new
@Strongmentality12
Жыл бұрын
This yanica character talked all this shit disss another BLACK woman, then contradicted herself about not having a man at the end of the video and the worst part had zero SOLUTIONS. This was one-sided echo chamber.
@willsalter8113
Жыл бұрын
I swear Yamaneika hates black men and it comes across in her statements about black men. Kevin Samuels (R.I.P) passed away one year ago and for some reason she keeps invoking his name. Let that man rest in peace and also Pierre becomes a wimp whenever he is the only man on the panel like they clipped his balls. This conversation is so disingenuous and completely dishonest. These conversations are difficult to have because people lie and can’t separate emotions from the conversation.
@aquarius-woman5364
Жыл бұрын
Black men are useless outside po..rn.
@mariemuhammad5313
Жыл бұрын
It’s definitely pushed by the media and social media 1000%
@willieyork6999
Жыл бұрын
Black weman are the bottom of the barrel type weman.
@ForrestMcCloud
Жыл бұрын
We already know BIGBACK Yamanieka gone have something stupid to say! 🙄🙄🙄
@IAMDJKOOLROD1200
Жыл бұрын
💯
@redmanjohnson4616
Жыл бұрын
Definitely
@rawman18
Жыл бұрын
Like clockwork
@rosejames5172
Жыл бұрын
🙄 you broke men like to disrespect bw like clockwork.
@cryptjoi9194
Жыл бұрын
Black men we don’t care if you go to ⚪️ women but do not blame BW for this…it’s you bruh.. good luck and much love with your ⚪️ women.. BM and ⚪️ women are mirror images✌🏾❤️
@thatgirlkells5505
Жыл бұрын
Facts. Mirror Images!!!!!
@christopherlewis2194
Жыл бұрын
Then why every time a BM post a picture with a white woman y'all always mad
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