I love that this includes African countries that aren't so mainstream or well-known. I love learning about places that aren't in the limelight.
@lionelsheja6381
Жыл бұрын
Maybe they need to update themselves on the map 😅
@ugwuanyicollins6136
Жыл бұрын
@@lionelsheja6381 All of these countries are on the map, what are you talking about 🤬
@lionelsheja6381
Жыл бұрын
@@ugwuanyicollins6136 that has got nothing to do with what I wrote.
@Charly9K
Жыл бұрын
All these countries are very mainstream
@JAG214
Жыл бұрын
If you ask me a lot of people knows about Nigeria, South Africa and maybe Rwanda because of the Movie and the genocide that happen over there in the 90's
@ericawebba694
Жыл бұрын
Natsomi is so gorgeous 😍 ❤. Beautiful smile❤. Much love from Angola🇦🇴
@peacocktheking
Жыл бұрын
The rwandan girl looks perfect 💚👀
@JUST-LAURE
Жыл бұрын
She is gorgeous 🥵😍
@BonaneCanisius-t1s
19 күн бұрын
@@JUST-LAUREyes of course
@cqtaylor
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting viewpoints from those of African countries. Much appreciated!
@tuyennesamuel9591
Жыл бұрын
Natsomiiii she ate it❤️❤️❤️😍😍 love from Angola🇦🇴🇦🇴!!
@magdabak5797
Жыл бұрын
The girl from Rwanda has Such an amazing skin!
@Frivals
Жыл бұрын
Because you don't see from close distance
@tiaraayim4239
Жыл бұрын
She generally is gorgeous 😍
@georgegayed2991
Жыл бұрын
I love this Mina guy from Sudan!!! Such a nice smile 😁
@martamax88
Жыл бұрын
Me too, he seems so sweet.
@henri191
Жыл бұрын
"If i have 10 women that means i'm rich enough to take care of all of them" oh man 😅
@Menaceblue3
Жыл бұрын
LoL
@emZee1994
Жыл бұрын
Generally that's the caveat on how the society accepts it. In the West for example society expects you not to have more children than you can afford to feed If someone in the West has too many children and cannot provide for them all it's considered a personal failing and not an indictment on a child rearing in general
@jamosss
Жыл бұрын
As a Nigerian, this made me pretty hype😌. I like the Angolan girl and the Rwandan girl seems rather...progressive😂
@benjaminsmith2287
Жыл бұрын
Why is the Naija man wearing a coat??
@jamosss
Жыл бұрын
@@benjaminsmith2287 just his fashion sense. Some Africans dress like this😌
@benjaminsmith2287
Жыл бұрын
@@jamosss OK, cool. He's very fashionable. I saw him in another video with a Naija woman. They were hilarious. Something about stereotypes of subSaharan Africans.
@BonaneCanisius-t1s
19 күн бұрын
we are from Continent bro😂❤🎉
@babyramses5066
Жыл бұрын
RWANDANS where u at? 🎉
@osagiee.guobadia-secondytc4624
Жыл бұрын
This video can teach African-Americans including me about dating. Thank you, Dating Beyond Borders. : )
@whateverjude
Жыл бұрын
Lived in Rwanda for a year and I loved every minute of it :) The dating as well 😏
@ronfarkas
Жыл бұрын
Nadia: Polygamy is unfair because women don't get to do it! Equality! Also Nadia: Bring me cattle, pay for my meals.
@eurianaalmeida780
Жыл бұрын
Shout out to Natsomi 🇦🇴❤️
@wilerydasilva6367
Жыл бұрын
Love love NATSOMI and Nadia💕
@sierraandrade899
Жыл бұрын
i know natsomi! shes amazing
@Zangetsu643
Жыл бұрын
Should have invited a Kenyan to teach you about character development phenomena in Nairobi Dating
@CineShinya
Жыл бұрын
Very interesting! And such beautiful and so different people, too, if I may say! I knew about Algeria that the family of the man has to offer what in my country we call προίκα but the lady's family has to offer to the groom, but I didn't know it's a tradition for the entire Africa! It's so fascinating to see all the different perspectives.
@TOBZ333
Жыл бұрын
In Nigeria I agree that we don’t let women pay for anything. Nigerians raise theirs sons to take care of any expense even if the woman is richer
@martamax88
Жыл бұрын
The girl from Angola is so beautiful and has such calm energy. I like her.
@augustavumbi5700
Жыл бұрын
Big up from ❤ Angola 🇦🇴🇦🇴🇦🇴
@ladieofexcellence
Жыл бұрын
Natsomiiiii!!! My sis❤
@FormulaManuel
Жыл бұрын
I’m just 30 seconds into the video but I’m already LOVING the music 🤩
@FormulaManuel
Жыл бұрын
I’m through now and that was really interesting 🤓 I’m not really sure about the background music and the pacing could be quicker, but the casting on the people you brought in and especially the audio is really amazing! Bringing in Nigeria is a must of course, as it’s the biggest country, but Rwanda and especially Sudan was really appreciated! To sum up, really good video Marina + team 😊
@-_-SpongeBob
Жыл бұрын
This place is hell 2.0 man I gotta escape South Africa quick! Love ya Canada 🇨🇦
@sakeebkamal3472
Жыл бұрын
Girls from Angola and Rwanda are tall and beautiful ❤I wonder what is their height?! 🤔😇
@Momomutchi
Жыл бұрын
In Angola it’s not common to be as tall as Natsomi she’s an exception
@sakeebkamal3472
Жыл бұрын
@@Momomutchi she is beautiful! Tall girls are awesome!
@pauvermelho
Жыл бұрын
@@Momomutchi There is an Angolan ethnic group where people are very tall but I don't remember which one it is
@1NatureGod
Жыл бұрын
@@pauvermelhothats why his saying its not so common im angolan and tep its true
@kagabopaul3126
4 ай бұрын
@@Momomutchimean while Nadia is the a mid height of Rwandan girls 😂
My wife is Rwandan. Nadia is right about everything.
@benetdigitomszr591
Жыл бұрын
Kigali we share 🇷🇼
@kennethrenquist9414
Жыл бұрын
Shoutout to Rwanda
@1NatureGod
Жыл бұрын
We also caled lobola in angola 🇦🇴 but some angolans cant let that portugues go 🤦♂️
@_MC529
Жыл бұрын
damn, that Rwandan woman is hot...
@mohamedahmedyassinhussein6856
Жыл бұрын
There’s so many men with multiple wives i Sudan , and people do date in Sudan and use social media to speak to one another
@Laurence0227
Жыл бұрын
Is that a typical South African Indian accent? my impression of such accent is loosen Indian pruniciation with british Intonations
@premmungroo4996
Жыл бұрын
Due to our deep seated South African history, many of us had a British education and therefore I don’t have a typical South African or Indian accent. Personality, I am 5th generation South African so none of us have Indian accents. I would mostly say it’s universal.
@Mizjae
Жыл бұрын
Our accents are based on where you were raised regardless of race. She sounds like she is from Durban but more the suburbs
@HereDiianas
Жыл бұрын
@Jé-naine Meyer Accent is more than location. It is also influenced by people around you. An American kid raised in the UK with American parents is likely to have an hybrid American/ British accent. But if he goes to an American school he can even have an American accent.
@Mizjae
Жыл бұрын
@@HereDiianas can't speak on the example you gave but in SA, our accents are based on location and the schools we attend regardless of our parents accents. This applies to all races as well. Your example is about two different countries, I'm talking about areas within a country.
@rickguy2006
Жыл бұрын
Kigali we share😅 indeed
@fabb4i2
5 ай бұрын
1:17 lol
@plinioj
Жыл бұрын
One of the best...
@kylesavage4525
Жыл бұрын
Equality on consequences of cheating but not when it comes to the dowry payment and the cost of dating/marriage. Yeah that does not sound like double standards at all.
@Frivals
Жыл бұрын
Females 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤣🤣🤣
@chrystianaw8256
Жыл бұрын
It's the fathers of African women who require dowry payment, so take it up with your own sex.
@Frivals
Жыл бұрын
@@chrystianaw8256 it's the fathers who also request the men to pay for every time you meet a man otherwise you don't want to see him again? Stupid female
@kylesavage4525
Жыл бұрын
@@chrystianaw8256 Yes while the mothers are always like ''No just let him marry her for free we don't need cows or goats or money''
@tonyeffik6781
Жыл бұрын
@@chrystianaw8256 lmao you’re joking right? you don’t think the mothers require and demand for it also if not more??
@JUST-LAURE
Жыл бұрын
Nadia is gorgeous 😍😍😍
@chrystianaw8256
Жыл бұрын
So interesting
@awesomeirlable
Жыл бұрын
Great video!
@judeokonkwo391
Жыл бұрын
Shout out to the Nigerian guy
@reezndukwe9339
Жыл бұрын
I wonder why he wore a coat though.....would have taken it off for the interview else he was planning to stand out
@jayfizz545
11 ай бұрын
@@reezndukwe9339 Because Nigerians stand out wherever we go and we dress down for no one. You jealous or something
@Joseph-qd9ew
Жыл бұрын
Terrible comment section 👎 nice video though
@mojjim2177
Жыл бұрын
They never have black South Africans
@regomoditswemolai5168
Жыл бұрын
South Africa we are diverse come now
@pauvermelho
Жыл бұрын
I see a lot of black french also. Are you going to complain with the Sudanese too? Don't be upset maybe during the summer he gets darker 👍
@Tu51ndBl4d3
Жыл бұрын
Yes because this channel's caucasian owners are trying to enforce their ideology on Africans to accept the invaders as "African". This isn't like American media that itself chooses to show diversity, no this is foreigners IMPOSING diversity on an African country that didn't ask for it.
@ugwuanyicollins6136
Жыл бұрын
@@regomoditswemolai5168 not as diverse as Nigeria, just saying
@ugwuanyicollins6136
Жыл бұрын
@@regomoditswemolai5168 yet we are 99.5% Native Nigerians
@JemimaNta
10 ай бұрын
Sighhhh nigeria needs to work on morals ohhh. We cant be like the west ohh...the youth need to wake up
@Paulusmus
Жыл бұрын
Gender equality!
@arleteporto09
Жыл бұрын
Natsomi 🇦🇴🇦🇴🇦🇴🇦🇴🇦🇴❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@lxportugal9343
Жыл бұрын
Alambamento: O Homem alomba com as despesas todas E depois ela tem que alombar com o homem na noite de núpcias...🤷♂ É a vida 🤷♂
@ChicagoBoiADRMX.
Жыл бұрын
Can u make Dating Afghan Girl plz
@freedoo69
Жыл бұрын
Nigérians are very similar dating views with Congo 🇨🇬🇨🇩, Cameroon and Central African Republic.
@RDCFemmes
Жыл бұрын
Angolan are like congolese. Yes, they will get a list.
@HereDiianas
Жыл бұрын
@Friday night LOL, did you even read the comment? In Congo for the Dowry the future's wife family, Uncles and Aunts on top will give a list of things they want to the future husband. So read before you type.
@m.s.e.4192
9 ай бұрын
You know in my culture... Eritrea, the woman pays the dowry. But the man gets the woman the gold
@Yoohag
Жыл бұрын
I liked that nigerian guy 😂
@yasser7139
Жыл бұрын
I think at least one north African country should be included because it's still Africa 😅
@evothenew3333
Жыл бұрын
Well in this channel they consider Sudan as a North African country since it was included in the North African video.
@ilhuicatlamatini
Жыл бұрын
Wow, so much I didn’t know. Had no idea polygamy is still a thing in 2023, yikes. 😮😬 Dowries seem just as antiquated tbh, but still not as shocking as the possibility of having to share a spouse. Can’t get over that one lol.
@agb3762
Жыл бұрын
That's the thing about culture, things vary from place to place. It's the same way, we can't understand same-sex marriage.
@ugwuanyicollins6136
Жыл бұрын
So what, Euro centrist, so what
@Frivals
Жыл бұрын
You like double standards i see
@silveryfeather208
Жыл бұрын
I'm fine with sharing spouses if you are not hypocritical about it. You can't have multiple ladies then get mad that your ladies are doing the same
@agb3762
Жыл бұрын
@@silveryfeather208 clearly you don't know/understand how polygyny works, you're just looking at it from a very simplistic view. In the simplest form, even a woman's body doesn't work in a way that it supports polygamy but let's leave that for another discussion & get to work with facts. The husband in polygyny marries the women, he goes to seek their hands in marriage from their families,the woman & her family are mostly aware that the man practices polygamy. The man takes ABSOLUTE RESPONSIBILITY of taking care & providing for ALL the wives & ALL the children while the women do nothing but just be wives(they won't have to lift a finger for anything). Imagine having to bear the heavy responsibility of taking care of about 10 children, 3 wives & their extended family & a woman who does nothing of the same responsibility says she wants to also have other men? How? She's literally bringing nothing to the table besides being a wife, the husband is dealing with a large number of people he has to take care of & can still afford to say he wants more wives but she's doing nothing & wants other 'husbands'? Is she the one going to take care of those husbands? You have no idea how polygyny works. Like I said, you're just looking at it from a very simple view. Polygyny is not for everyone but those who practice it understand their roles & responsibilities.
@silveryfeather208
Жыл бұрын
Lady on the right I do agree with only in some cases. But I find she is also hypocritical I don't think dude on the left gets it. Yeah, sure he can have as many wives as he want. But the point is why the double standard. If a woman is rich and can afford to keep a lot of man happy, why the social stigma. It should go both ways. And yes, women should take care of their partners too. Anyone should take care of their partner in ways they can. It's such a strange mentality. If my man doesn't make a lot of money but knows how to cook, I would love him. I'm a money maker. I like working. It's OK if men stay at home. But this goes to her point about dating. Everything is equal or go home. Don't preach about equality in one place but not others.
@fabb4i2
Жыл бұрын
Oh, the South African girl is Zulu? She looks rather Arab or Indian to me.
@jaskatpon1
Жыл бұрын
She’s Indian.
@HereDiianas
Жыл бұрын
She is South African, ethnically Idian but obviously she knows the different tribes and culture of her country.
@RealityQuEeNN
5 ай бұрын
Please read a book
@babayemiolumide336
Жыл бұрын
the nigerian guy is a sell out to others nigerian prince 😁
@mgtocrateezspeaks3971
8 ай бұрын
Sounds like more trouble than its worth.
@ilovenoodles7483
Жыл бұрын
I do NOT agree with polygamy, but everything else is great!
@ugwuanyicollins6136
Жыл бұрын
Why
@ugwuanyicollins6136
Жыл бұрын
Euro centrist "morality" strikes again
@tutorialtime9603
Жыл бұрын
varushka from SA? lol
@zanelemnguni6014
Жыл бұрын
We have a huge Indian population in SA due to the British and Dutch bringing them over for labour. The rainbow nation (a term coined by Mandela) prides itself in our individual identities and cultures whilst bringing us together as SAns
@Healingson
Жыл бұрын
Your South African representatives are always disappointing as a South African, I never feel represented by them as they usually aren't very culturally South African
@emZee1994
Жыл бұрын
People who don't understand why polygyny (1 man multiple women) is the norm in polygamous societies, and why polyandry (1 woman multiple men) is not accepted, are people who generally really haven't given this topic serious thought The Nigerian man did a good job at explaining why it is how it is but this isn't a very complicated topic. There are countless social and biological factors which give polygyny a significant advantage over polyandry. Most people who object are usually going based on emotions and tend to hold very liberal wishes for society
@silveryfeather208
Жыл бұрын
Biologically it might be the norm. But with DNA testing and modern work, we shouldn't hold on to traditions for the sake of it. I make more money once upon a time than my male coworkers because of my skills. I was more educated. I chose a different career eventually and make the same amount (unionized) so if most women are more educated and eventually make more money (doctors in Canada are skewed female) would polyandry be OK? The lady on the right isn't western and I think many women who object aren't coming from a western view. Sticking to traditions with no explanation just won't do. If any gender can care for their partners they should all go for it.
@emZee1994
Жыл бұрын
@@silveryfeather208 1) The lady on the right is very Western, she grew up in Canada and it shows. 2) No amount of modernity will erase biology, unless we literally start to change our DNA to merge the genders into one. Our psychology is also just as hard wired as our biology. Polyandry is made easier with modern technology, but all that has happened is that it has gone from completely impossible to extremely impractical. For polyandry to work you would need to have a barren female, or one who is made barren through medical intervention. And she would have to exclusively date men who do not wish to have children and who also do not mind sharing her sexually. Both those things are counter to the psychology of the man and the woman as they are going against biology. Also the risk of STDs rise dramatically with polyandry, which is not true about polygyny Personally I'm a believer in monogamy, but polygyny can work and it has worked historically. But polyandry is a recipe for disaster
@Tu51ndBl4d3
Жыл бұрын
@@emZee1994 You're right, no need to argue with anything. They are fighting against God. "God you're wrong! I know better than you! Men and women are the same! except men should bear all financial responsibility including dowries and paying for everything and support the home emotionally etc but women shouldn't be expected anything because that's sexist!"
@violettavelvet6972
Жыл бұрын
@@emZee1994 i'm curious... why is it a problem for a women to have children in a Polyandry. I don't understand what you mean about it going against biology? is it because they would not know who the father is? right now I don't remember the names but I know of several cultures or places where Polyandry is the norm and the children born from it are either considered belonging to the whole family meaning all the men are their fathers or the children are assinged at random to one man but again beacuse is not that improtant since they are considered still a whole family. And about the risk of STDs.... isn't the whole point that the men will only sleep with one woman and nobody else? so how are they going to get STDs if they are all clean? again, not arguing, just curious
@emZee1994
Жыл бұрын
@@violettavelvet6972 Good questions, I'll say that 1) Yes figuring out who the father is is going to be a real concern. Yes there are some cultures who get around this issue by seeing the child as exclusively the mothers, or the common child of the village, but this is extremely rare. The culture you're referring to is the Alaskan native Inuits. They did this not from choice but only out of necessity as the extreme climate meant that life expectancy was very short. Generally we only see polyandry in cultures that are found in extreme scenarios. 2) Without the environment pressures, polyandry is extremely distasteful and unpopular to almost all cultures in the world. 99% of men would not be happy about not knowing who their child was, as well as sharing their wife. Polyandry almost always results in violence between the men, if not mandated by the environment. 3) One huge problem with polyandry is that one woman is expected to birth the children of multiple men. In her life span she is likely to birth upwards of 10+ children, this is obviously very dangerous. It makes more sense to spread out the birthing to multiple women. 4) In regards to STDs, if one woman has (for example) 5 husbands, and they are all disease free, a STD can still develop as the mixing of different bacteria will eventually cause the woman to develop a yeast infection. STDs are very dangerous in this scenario as they will quickly spread to each man and in a low tech society this means death for a large amount of people and it means birth defects. 5) Polyandry goes against our evolution. Human beings have evolved to be mainly monogamous, with small bursts of polygyny being used as needed. Polygyny is most useful when the male population is too low, such as after a famine or after a war. But long term polygyny is generally very unpopular with men, as the majority of men will be left without a partner and this will again result in violence
@1NatureGod
Жыл бұрын
Yall gotta bring the real people to represent the country she is india
@emZee1994
Жыл бұрын
Rwandan girl is annoyingly woke, you can tell she grew up in the West. First she tried to preach equality in polygamy, which is a laughable concept becuase polygamy is almost always expressed as polygyny by all animals who do it. And the core concept of it is inequality, the whole idea was about alpha males hoarding women and blocking sexual access to them. Even today polygynous marriages are done as a way to express wealth and status. In the West we do polygyny as well but not formally in marriage but informally through hook up culture Secondly she tried to pass off the dowry as "not buying the woman" when in reality we know that's exactly where the dowry system started from. For 99% of human history the woman was property, it's pointless to try to rewrite history. The dowry was developed as a way to civilise male interactions when it came to the topic of sexual access to females. In the past the alpha male got many wives exclusively through violence, which is not a good method if you want to build a society. The dowry allowed for the exchange of females without it being seen as a loss in honour to the male who was giving up that property, as he was being reimbursed. Of course today it's almost always done simply as tradition (in the West at least) EDIT: All her progressive liberalism and equality preaching went out the window immediately when talking about who pays for the first date. As soon as she was pressured to apply equality in an area which didn't benefit her she immediately abandoned it. She can't talk about double standards in gender relations if she has her own. Either you believe in complete equality or you don't, and I have yet to meet anyone who genuinely believes in complete equality
@Frivals
Жыл бұрын
But with today laws in which the marriage is a time bomb which the females can activate at any moment and destroy completely the husband, have no more sense to legally marry females.
@kagabopaul3126
4 ай бұрын
But that's how we think in Rwanda because in the first place polygamy is not allowed in Rwanda because we respect our women She definitely grew up in Rwanda
@lilchow9975
Жыл бұрын
First
@Ahmed-pf3lg
Жыл бұрын
Cringe how you put an obviously ehnically Indian woman in there.. Plus that Sudanese is way too light to even be Sudanese. He is mixed or just a Sudanese with majority Arab DNA (which is Rare). I wouldn’t consider the Indian girl as african..
@DatingBeyondBorders
Жыл бұрын
She was born in South Africa. There are different ethnicities living in SA. ☺️
@Ahmed-pf3lg
Жыл бұрын
@@DatingBeyondBorders Talking about Africans it’s better to bring indigenous people.
@_MC529
Жыл бұрын
As nice as these people seem, their countries are still very backwards... Especially the dowries, polygamy and financial responsibility... ridiculous
@childrentoys4537
Жыл бұрын
What hypocrisy!! Are you using your western yardstick to judge cultures that do not agree or relate with you guys? Who (or what authority) defines whose culture is backward or not?
@JemimaNta
10 ай бұрын
It's not backwards. It's culture
@_MC529
10 ай бұрын
@@JemimaNta it's not in accord with the 21st century. Sexism and discrimination are rampaging
@JemimaNta
10 ай бұрын
@@_MC529 who cares...culture doesn't have to be westernized. Doweries aren't particularly offensive to females. You foreigners shouldn't tell us how to go about our culture. You've done too much on this. 🙄🙄🙄🙄 we're urbanizing, that's enough. Now shoo... You're the least eligible person to complain, if you were one of us it's viable but you?? Please excuse yourself from the chat
@kelvincyprian1237
7 ай бұрын
@@_MC529 just shut up
@TheHawkeye200
Жыл бұрын
yet again you people fumble with south africa 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
@KoketsoR7
10 ай бұрын
Nah, bro she respected us very well. You triping
@pauvermelho
Жыл бұрын
A irmã é alta..... qual é a etnia dela?
@wilerydasilva6367
Жыл бұрын
Angolana
@ugwuanyicollins6136
Жыл бұрын
@@wilerydasilva6367 angolan is not an ethnicity
@wilerydasilva6367
Жыл бұрын
@@ugwuanyicollins6136 yep sorry she’s BLACK AFRICAN
@ugwuanyicollins6136
Жыл бұрын
@@wilerydasilva6367 again not an ethnic group
@ugwuanyicollins6136
Жыл бұрын
@@wilerydasilva6367 For the same reason i don't identify as "Black" African man. Africa is farrrrrr to diverse to classify someone as "Black'' African 'cause it's to broad e.g. in my country 99.5% of the population is" Black" sooooooo 🤷🏾♂️
@SheIsPotential
Жыл бұрын
interesting… no sex into marriage … that’s a good thing y’all love y’all bodies 🫶🏼 .
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