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@jurenlopio6301
11 ай бұрын
I feel like it depends how intense your connection was, mine has comeback at least 3 times and each time its alot sooner. Trust me they are a lot more scared then you, so dont be scared to speak up and walk away when they dont listen. Even if they dont come back and you do the work, you always come out learning something.
@eileendom5858
11 ай бұрын
Mine DA came back twice and this is the 3rd time we broke up. I had to walk away bc he kept dismissing my boundaries and was becoming disrespectful. Now im happy to learn about DA and am happy to be doing the work on myself as an FA.
@KatherineM-hx4sb
11 ай бұрын
You have good 😌 words why don’t you have your own channel.
@cindybesitos8933
10 ай бұрын
@@eileendom5858my 3rd break up as well doing Nc again. 1&2nd break up he begged and even asked me to marry him but this time he’s not begging and pleading he’s actually very cold and hasn’t reached out in over a week. 3 weeks now into the break up. I hope he makes the right choice before it’s too late. 😢
@ThaMonza
10 ай бұрын
@@cindybesitos8933My ex has me blocked, and she's not reached out in over 5 months or so now, that said it was our 5th breakup and it was a long distance relationship, so she might just be done though I hope not, tho she isn't the one to reach out. Hope you hear from yours soon.
@priscillarodrigues7599
6 ай бұрын
@@cindybesitos8933 my third breakup as well so did they come back.
@sweetredd1
9 ай бұрын
Who has the time to deal with these toxic and damaged people? Life is meant to be lived. Run away!
@nicholecornes1915
9 ай бұрын
Amen to that
@dianaverano7878
6 ай бұрын
Correct.
@carlfreiermuth5424
11 ай бұрын
I find it very difficult to even imagine that my avoidant ex experiences any human emotions at all..
@RezaBarzegar-e4m
10 ай бұрын
they don't, i understand that listening to these kinds of videos gives you hope and you,just like me, want to keep that hope in case she ever do come back! but believe me i did it all, i did the begging at first,and then i did no contact for months only to be shocked and humiliated in the end... they meaning avoidants, choose not to feel emotions, and by the time they let their guards down, it's already sooooooo sooooo late, so i suggest you move on asap and try to regain what you lost with someone else
@RezaBarzegar-e4m
10 ай бұрын
avoidants really really don't care and probably won't come back! I've never seen an avoidant come back and now i experienced it first hand.
@hushpuppies872
11 ай бұрын
If someone avoids you never wait for a second chance. I am assuming most people watching are adults. If you didn't care enough to lose the person it's you who doesn't deserve a second chance.
@mathews0618
11 ай бұрын
Heres the problem. An avoidant would be comfortable with a secure partner if they were capable of communicating their needs. They'd even become secure enough to have a fulfilling relationship. But they dont. They require a partner that pursues with toxic determination. I am secure and i wont waste my time with someone that is hard to make plans with and communicates in a vague, inconsistent way. One or two times of that and i walk away. I love my life and am in no hurry. I dont get far with anxious people either. They treat you like you owe them something. So its not that secure people wont help the insecure population its just that the insecure population is looking for someone different than the secure population. Same as why gay men dont date women.
@dianaverano7878
6 ай бұрын
Nope. Avoidants sabotage their own romantic connection even if you are sincere. They have that sense of relief after they have kept you at a distance. The closer you become, it creates uncomfortability with avoidants. Thus they need the drama and self sabotage to feel in control. Everything is about control with avoidants. Avoiding close relationship makes them feel safe. Secure attached people need healthy romantic connection. And wr cant give that up.
@canis556
5 ай бұрын
They take control of when, how, for how long you spend time together. Otherwise the distance themselves and leave. Their independence is priority, if You agree, then can have relationship with them otherwise they feel smother
@mathews0618
5 ай бұрын
@canis556 sure but what kind of relationship is that? You cant make plans, cant talk about the future, cant commit with friends, cant do alone stuff.
@evelynpineda3688
11 ай бұрын
100% correct he acted as if nothing happened. He reached out to me after more than 2 months of no contact just to ask if I still have the perfumes im selling. I did not encourage to prolong the conversation. I just gave him what he needed. I figured, he just want to check if I will respond and I did. I figured, if he want to come back, he needs to do better than asking me for a perfume. I mean, come on! Yeah I want you to come back but you also have to realize that you hurt me. Yes you are an avoidant and Im willing to learn how to handle that but I also have my boundaries. I know he will reach out, one way or another I am sure he will. For now, im working on being the best version of me. Thanks coach craig and victoria for the videos, it really helps.
@cjthemvp123
9 ай бұрын
@evelynpineda3688 update ?
@evelynpineda3688
9 ай бұрын
@@cjthemvp123 he messaged me on christmas. I was shocked he even asked if he can call. I said yes and when talked for 20 minutes. He asked how I was doing. He asked more questions than I did. He is really an avoidant. No message on New Year but thats ok. I spoke to him yesterday, he called again instead of chatting. Right now, i just want to let it go. Im not seeing anyone new but Im starting to get tired. Im tired of waiting. And it still breaks my heart that it's so difficult to let go.
@michaella5799
3 ай бұрын
Trauma bonded side piece
@joemadonna9164
11 ай бұрын
Unless I missed it and I followed you and others for years now! This is the first time I heard you or anyone say...." and when they come back it's like they never left" Ilike the break up never happen!!!! I've lost count how many times that happened it is the craziest thing ever they came back like they just saw you yesterday and what's even crazier is we welcome them in !!!
@JessicaLopez-i2r
11 ай бұрын
After getting dumped many times, heartbroken I'm watching these videos
@Zenytonine
9 ай бұрын
Hahahaahahaga ı felt it deeply
@anaaviles6552
9 ай бұрын
It’s painful,specially when they shut down. On and off behavior on their part is exhausting. Specially, when it stretches out for years. You leave them alone for a couple of months and they become anxious themselves coming back giving very little. They need professional help to get out a vicious circle that would eventually leave them alone. On our part, we can only focus on our personal goals and self improvement. Here I am doing NC again and giving him the breakup. Not showing emotions, being cordial and cool about it is hard work. I have no choice at this point. I am arming myself with more knowledge now. This was an amazing video! Thanks ❤
@ConfidencePT
11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. I am the dumpee. I do feel like my Avoidant will never give me a second chance. I was unintentionally neglectful with spending time with her when I was focused on improving my position on life for us.
@eileendom5858
11 ай бұрын
Wish I could give this video 10 thumbs up lol. Love learning about these attachment styles especially avoidant.
@onelife5302
11 ай бұрын
The problem is they usually leave again when things get close again
@sheliasmith2884
11 ай бұрын
And they will but guess what if you worked on yourself you really don't care what they do anymore.
@qwertyyxoxo
11 ай бұрын
@@sheliasmith2884 then why even bother trying again with them, there's a ton of fish in the sea, many of whom are secure and not scared of connection/closeness.
@cherrylane79
6 ай бұрын
They need therapy.
@MiakoKoneo
11 ай бұрын
I needed this video so much! I was dumped by an avoidant. Thank you coaches!
@jboxwood2194
11 ай бұрын
I’m friends with my ex now, but only due to doing the work and completing The Knowledge workbook. I can regulate my emotions when communicating with him and it allows him to be vulnerable (even a little). My anxiety isn’t triggered. It’s seriously such a peaceful place to be in. It’s funny that you mention in this video but so true- when we talk about why we break up (he broke up) he’ll say “why DID we break up?” like he has full-on amnesia. I just laugh and I’m thankful it’s not a pain point for me. Emotional regulation is a HUGE part of communicating with him now. Thank you coaches for putting this info out there! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@lorip4087
11 ай бұрын
This describes my ex to a T. It has been almost a year now post BU and I am in a strong relationship with someone else. I hear my ex has been unhappy but has made no attempts at reconciliation (quite the reverse). I have no doubt these people are broken inside and do suffer, but they cause the rest of us a lot of suffering too. Better to avoid their emotional games. Craig has been a wonderful resource for moving past all this pain and getting perpective on what happened. He is right about everything. In my case the avoidant just didn't attach, I guess, and likely had more than one side piece along with me (or wanted to). Maybe one day my ex will give me the full story from the other side.
@willstaub6581
11 ай бұрын
Hi Coach Craig, This video sounds a lot like her. She broke up with me at the end of July. We were both starting new jobs (her first job right out of college) and I was prepping for a Bodybuilding show. The week of the breakup and before we were talking about what we wanted to do for our 6 month anniversary (we had talked for 6 months to get to know each other and started dating in April) and hanging out with her cousins. But at a 4th of July party, I noticed her avoiding me and acting distant. I let her be because I knew she was getting ready for an interview the next day. A few days after the interview, over text she said she was struggling with her mental health and couldn’t believe she was doing this, but wanted to break up with me. I begged her to take some time to think about it, which she agreed to. I would still text her good morning like I usually would when I got up before she went to work (which was probably a mistake on my end). But at the end of the month, she decided to officially end things. She said we weren’t compatible (even though we spent a whole year together basically) and she had lost the “spark” in the relationship. She asked if we could still be friends and I said no, I wanted a relationship with her. She also mentioned that I should see other people (she always got very jealous when other girls flirted with me, but I’d always be respectful of her and wouldn’t fall for their flirting). I asked her if we could try again in the future (I mentioned reaching out to her in 3-6 months, but later learned from your videos, she needs to be the one to initiate contact since she broke up with me) and she said she didn’t want to put a timeline on it because she had done that in her last relationship and got burned by her ex. I texted her a few days after the breakup and said maybe we just needed some time apart to get ourselves situated and that I still cared about her, and she left me on read. She hasn’t blocked me anywhere and still views my stories on social media when I post. I have been in no contact since that text. About a month after the breakup she started liking some of my TicTok reposts, and I liked a few of hers back, after that she stopped (probably another mistake on my end). I haven’t talked to her since that text, but she still watches my stories even if I post multiple in the same day. This has been going on for almost 4 months now. I feel like she wants to come back, but doesn’t know how to. She seems happy going out with her family when I see her post. I think she’s scared of the connection because I was her first healthy partner after a lot of toxic exs (we rarely argued, and if we disagreed on something we would talk it out without insulting each other). She also didn’t have a very good childhood, her parents got divorced when she was 10 and the only example of a stable relationship has been her sister in law and brother’s marriage. What do you and Victoria think about this situation? Do you think she is an avoidant that will come back?
@Rocky76549
11 ай бұрын
What I learned from Craig and Margaret is that , we need to give them complete space (absolute no contact) no stalking, no viewing their stories and so on … spend time improving self, and be in the abundance mindset. My gut says she will be back but she will take some time .. till then focus on ur life goals
@willstaub6581
11 ай бұрын
@@Rocky76549 I have the same feeling. She ended things because she had a “gut feeling” too, but I have a feeling our story is far from over. I did compete in the show 2 weeks ago which has been a goal of mine to get back on the bodybuilding stage after 4 years away (was going to compete in grad school, but COVID had other plans). It just feels so weird because I feel like she’s watching me and trying to find a way to come back. Craig’s videos have been very helpful with calming my anxiety because this breakup came out of nowhere.
@dannycolwell8028
11 ай бұрын
Fearful avoidant with quiet bpd. I’m actually scared of seeing her again 😂
@sreach93
11 ай бұрын
You are the Red Adair of understanding breakups, how to navigate them and how to spark the flame again
@andybiddle9088
2 ай бұрын
🙏🏻 Thank you. Very well explained. Me and my DA had a GREAT relationship and just laughed.. ALL! THE! TIME! Then a close friend of hers sadly passed away and she changed in the flick of a switch! She text me, "Its over!", even though 48 hours before, we were planning to go away. This, obviously, was such a shock and i tried to find answers on the Internet, as it just didnt make sense. This lead me to attachment styles, (something id never heard of). Reading about it all and watching videos, it was like i was reading about me ex. She told me she had a shit childhood. So!... Things started to make sense....kind of!.... My ex was/is a DA. I wrote to her in June, offering my friendship, ( ive done alot of healing in the past 4 months and im in a good place). Id still like her in my life as we had such a laugh together. Anyway, i got no reply. Im leaving it now. If she gets in touch, GREAT. If not, "Oh well." Could she have turned down friendship because she is stll missing our relationship, still has strong feelings for me and friendship would be too hard for her?
@bluecoffee8414
3 ай бұрын
I am dismissive avoidant. I finally understand that and I also understand how I got this way. I'm so grateful to Ken and others. I would like to say one thing to people who have dated people like me and who were mortified by how we behaved towards the breakup. No the relationship wasn't fake or some game. This avoidant attachment stuff is dead real. If it's any consolation, we hurt a lot too even though it can look like the exact opposite from the outside. Don't stay unless they finally have some insight and dedication to working on it. You can do better.
@priebess
Ай бұрын
I don't know if you will see this but thank you for your comment. I was with a DA during all of 2023. I fell deeply in love with her. She abruptly ended things in January '24. Then moved on to another about 6 weeks later. I always wondered if she even felt anything for me since we were both "happy" together as in we didn't have a single disagreement nor was there any criticisms by either of us. Almost like it was too good to be true. I really would like to see her heal from her core wounds as she is a wonderful person. Thank you for your comment and the insight that it has given me.
@chrismartindrummer
11 ай бұрын
My ex does this after almost 2yrs. Acted nonchalant weeks after devastating me, checks in, admits they can move on after dumping me by text but gets angry anytime I mention the breakup of how didn’t have to happen. Then will text me back after a few days. It’s exhausting, confusing and annoying. We dated 2.5 years, then 2 off, then 1 on and now almost 2 off again. I never saw any noticeable change in their behavior or willingness to change and grow.
@Ken-od7gc
7 ай бұрын
And this is the problem. They just walk around with ZERO accountability, devastating others, and just act like oh well.
@helendoody8996
3 ай бұрын
Please, please don't waste any more of your precious time on this person who refuses to accept any responsibility for their actions. She is a grown woman and knows exactly what she is doing. I know all relationships can hit hurdles but these people not only have been damaged by their childhood wounds but may well have an inherited predisposition to dismiss and discard the deep genuine and loving feelings of others. All we can do is encourage them to seek therapy and work with a qualified councillor. Good luck in the future.
@carlfreiermuth5424
11 ай бұрын
I experienced that.. My ex had discarded me coldly, Right afterward.. a woman I was crazy about from my past.. I ran into her.. I saw her working.. I was a bit afraid but I mustered up the courage and called her over to me.. she came running over so excited.. she started telling me everything that had happened in her life right away and the way I was thinking: why the hell is she telling me all this.. she wouldn't even talk to me years ago.. well this woman was from way way before I met the ex that meant so much to me. sure, that girl had meant something too.. but that was so long ago.. looks like over time my value went up and hers went down. she's still married to the guy she doesn't like and she's not happy. oh well.. now my most recent ex? I doubt I will ever see her again... and if I did see her again.. I'm sure I will be overwhelmed with so much emotions.
@darrenrichards8941
6 ай бұрын
My avoident broke up with me 6 times now 7 i begged and she took me back they dont like sorting probles out they run away i hurt her this time i pushed to see if she would walk away before marrying her she did im going back over seas in 4 months to see were i stand and see if we can sort things out but moving on u need to get over a ex because if your in another relationship and they come back it ant fair on that person I PRAY SHE CONTACTS ME .
@princhipessa1969
11 ай бұрын
My ex told me that every time she stayed at a hotel with (one of her rebounds) she thought of me. They literally vomit what really went on with them when you reconnect.
@JustmrEllison
9 ай бұрын
Thanks for this video. Really trying to be hopeful but I’m struggling, insomnia, can’t eat, tons of anxiety, spiking blood pressure… ex girlfriend broke up with me suddenly, for the second time, a few weeks ago. We have been together for well over 3 years. I didn’t know anything about attachment styles before and now I see clearly her (dismissive avoidant) traits and behaviors. Had I only knew beforehand. Hope you could shed some light on like if there are any differences regarding gender, age, the avoidants timeline after breakups, quality and length of relationship, their typical excuses like it’s never going to be us, I’m not happy, I’m not in love with you… do avoidants just fall out of love in longer good relationships with a good partner they clearly appreciate or is all of this coping mechanisms? Truly looking forward for more of videos regarding avoidant attachment.
@jessab2448
11 ай бұрын
Was with my ex for almost 14 years, we were engaged, he broke up with me 2 months ago without ever communicating anything was wrong. We had a great relationship, but I think felt pressure to propose even though I never pressured him to do so.We have been in NC except for logistical things (moving out logistics/paperwork, etc). Had to contact him today about something and he said that it was okay that I wasn’t bothering him and that he was always around if I needed anything….what does that mean? I don’t read too much into it, but wondering what the intention is. He’s a good person who I think has some issues that need to be figured out.
@christopherbullens5494
11 ай бұрын
Great video. And great content
@JMCee
11 ай бұрын
It would be great if you provided something on the best phrases to use when relating to an avoidant which help strengthen the relationship.
@Colt31389
11 ай бұрын
Hey coach, KZitem introduced me to your content after my breakup at the end of July. I've been able to reflect on things & improve myself in understanding dating dynamics, no contact & now the knowledge of attachment styles. My ex was & still is a coworker of mine, so navigating no contact with them has felt awkward at times and feel it has slowed all progress, be it getting my ex back or letting thoughts of them fade from my mind. Given my situation, my topic suggestion would be for how to approach no contact with a coworker. I appreciate your time & the content that you & coach Victoria are putting out.
@sethtenrec
11 ай бұрын
I don’t think anyone’s making a video for your specific unusual circumstance. Here I’ll save you the time ….don’t date coworkers.
@Colt31389
11 ай бұрын
@@sethtenrecDating coworkers isn't the best idea; I agree. However, it happened and there are plenty of others that have done so. Given this, I don't think it's unreasonable to suggest my idea as a video topic as other dating coaches have done their own on the subject and I would like to hear Craig's & Victoria's takes & approach.
@jeffreyyeo
11 ай бұрын
I have been following your channel for over a year and I really wanna believe what the 2 of u are saying but until my DA ex reach out wanna get back and repair I reserve my skepticism
@CoachCraigKenneth
11 ай бұрын
What do I say at the start of every video… every situation is different…
@kylereese9462
9 ай бұрын
Dear Craig & Victoria, I want to thank you. I am a 50 year old man and I recently separated from my wife (aged 42) after 10 years of marriage (no kids). The reason is that she is a dismissive avoidant and I couldn’t take it anymore. She has a lot of qualities as a person, but her avoidant attachment style has become unbearable to me. She also suffers from mysophobia, which also affected our everyday life and undermined sex - as if her avoidant attachment style was not enough to undermine and eventually terminate any kind of intimacy. I have a secure attachment style and over the years I did my best to maintain connection & intimacy with my wife, but to no avail. Eventually she shut down completely and cut me off of any human touch: no kissing, no hugging, no holding hands, and of course no sex or any kind of sexual activity. I could feel her growing resentment, which she attributed to my refusal to have children with her. While I understand how crucial this is for a woman, I still don’t want to have kids, and furthermore I have now realized that a DA woman is not exactly suitable to become a good mother. Now the crazy part: she is a psychologist/psychotherapist, but still she does not acknowledge her issues (avoidant attachment & mysophobia), and vehemently refuses to discuss them or make any self-improvements. So we ended up in a sexless marriage, with not even the slightest sexual or non-sexual human touch. She also devoted almost all of her time in her work, like being 90% a professional psychologist and only 10% a wife and life partner. What our marriage felt like in the end was like being roommates (we sleep in separate rooms) who once in a while do something together, like catching a play or going on a trip. But other than that, we became two people living separate, parallel lives. Finally I decided I can’t take it anymore, and can’t live like this anymore. I don’t want to. So I broke up with her and she moved in a small apartment of her own. During this time I studied a lot about her attachment style, and it only corroborated my views. A DA partner will keep undermining and killing intimacy in a relationship, and will seek excitement outside of it (for example being workaholic). These people actually need to be alone, or to have so much space of their own that being with them will actually feel like being alone. It’s like being married but feeling like you’re widowed. So, after trying in vain to make our relationship work, I broke up with her. Unless she addresses those issues and does the necessary work to improve them, she’s not good for me anymore. So on this first day of 2024 I feel relieved and optimistic about what this year will bring to my life: either a reformed and better version of my former partner, or a new one. And I would like to thank you, dear Craig & Victoria, for being so nice, eloquent and helpful; thank you for sharing these heartwarming videos on youtube, thank you for explaining to us those deep, obscure issues of the human psyche, thank you for being so humane and friendly, thank you for keeping us company, thank you for all this valuable information, thank you for helping us understand ourselves and others, thank you for showing us what we can hope for and what we can achieve in our endless pursuit of happiness and harmony. Sending to both of you my warmest wishes for a prosperous and successful 2024!
@Alchemist_171
10 ай бұрын
Almost 5 months in NC. But I’ve been asking some of my friends who live in the same building as her and they’ve been saying that she seems happy. She even said that she doesn’t hope to get back together with me. She doesn’t care if I’ve been working on myself, she just doesn’t want it again. She’s happy for the happy moments but I can’t forgive the bad part she said. I thing that’s it. We were long distance for more than 6 months and together for like 5 months. Idk. This shitty hope won’t go away.
@vasilisvks1448
Ай бұрын
update?
@amishapariya9128
11 ай бұрын
Happy Diwali 🪔 support from India 🇮🇳 May this Diwali bring you lots of sucess in coming future.
@xbox_beyond
3 ай бұрын
5 months, no contact. Dumped via text after 2.5 years together.
@dianaverano7878
6 ай бұрын
The question is, do secure attached people need avoidants who self-sabotage romantic connection, no matter how sincere we are. It's a no. We dont need this self-created drama. We need healthy romantic relationships and Im up to that. That is what I need. We dont need to throw that need because of an avoidant.
@MonsterTomten
11 ай бұрын
I was the dissmissive avoidant in the relationship but it was she who ended it. I only learned about attachment styles after the breakup. I also know there was another guy she was emotionaly involved with. So I guess my avoidant tendencies were only a part of it.
@Bionicbunnywabbit
11 ай бұрын
She had no integrity. That has nothing to do with you.
@canis556
6 ай бұрын
Mine came back after months, shocked why Im resentful after the distance. She said, she thought we both gonna be happy to talk and see each other after so much time apart. LOL
@Romie15
11 ай бұрын
Great video! Thank you!
@Cristiano907
11 ай бұрын
It's a bit of a grey area. Avoidant or not, I Personally don't believe they come back most of the time despite some of the success stories we hear about. Sometimes we have to be realistic, regardless of whether we want to accept it or not.
@lorip4087
11 ай бұрын
None of my exes ever have come back, and I am almost 60 so I have a few. However, I have always traded up with better people and realized the loss was for the best in the long run. Stay strong, everyone.
@chetbailey1529
3 ай бұрын
I agree entirely. Especially if you're dealing with a severe dismissive avoidant. Its been 6 months sin ce BU with my ex. He blocked me everywhere. I see him often when he's out walking his dog on the beach. He just walks past me, ignoring me completely - head down on his phone. The energy I get is "not bothered" and "oh no, not her again". Sometimes he hides or turns and walks in the opposite direction.
@Jakas-qt6hj
11 ай бұрын
What about borderline personality disorder coach can you please do a 25 min talk on this. If possible please. It’s so complex and would be grateful
@rwentfordable
11 ай бұрын
Look up borderline personality disorder on this channel. They've done 3 25+ min videos on it.
@kareno1593
11 ай бұрын
They won’t come back if they started dating a new person right after
@CoachCraigKenneth
11 ай бұрын
lol. Oh I can assure you they do 🤣
@dinohandukic2672
11 ай бұрын
What if she blocked me everywhere(social media,phone number), its been 1,5 months since breakup..
@Ken-od7gc
7 ай бұрын
Do avoidants give a second chance? Only if you're unlucky. Seriously run away, far away and never look back
@nicholecornes1915
9 ай бұрын
We cannot go through that again you guys!
@Marauder-kd8zi
9 ай бұрын
Always felt like everything was a projection
@stephenciotti2127
11 ай бұрын
Good morning coaches!
@KatherineM-hx4sb
11 ай бұрын
Is so true what you say and put in the effort to take care of myself no matter how l feel. Just do it.
@sterlingwoodruff3562
11 ай бұрын
What attachment type are narcissists typically?
@bigeyes3486
11 ай бұрын
It's more likely that narcissists are high in avoidant attachment. However, there’s no evidence to suggest that everyone who has an avoidant attachment style is narcissistic and there are some key differences between avoidant attachment and narcissism.
@rachhhh9722
7 ай бұрын
They dont even give a chance or effort thr first time . I doubt they would a second time
@ZhengSW
11 ай бұрын
Avoidants can only change without work if you're secure. What happens if there have been 2 breakups already? Will the Dismissive Avoidant give a 3rd chance?
@sheliasmith2884
11 ай бұрын
Yes mine did especially if it was a good relationship I haven't spoken to mine in months, And guess what while I'm texting you he is finally texting me they are a trip a lot of space is the key and I worked on me he will see that I have changed a whole lot. Thanks to Kenneth.
@carlfreiermuth5424
11 ай бұрын
"Love" I've heard of that before...
@gabrielcarig5951
11 ай бұрын
Hey Craig! I just wanted you to know that you have been such a huge help to me, I am currently experiencing depression which I am waiting a schedule for a psychiatrist but its taking too long especially because mental problems aren't really a priority to hospitals here in the Philippines, I have been experiencing insomnia and a lot of other side effects due to the traumas that my ex left me and to the traumas that I forgot but my recent ex triggered, I couldn't sleep properly but You, coach Victoria and coach Margarette's Videos always seems to make me calm. My ex left me for another guy and I only found out just last week but they've been dating 2 weeks after our break up and we are long distance like 2-3 hrs away, I feel so used as I was abused physically, emotionally and s*xually by my first ex that my recent triggered all of them. I wanted to ask you if a dumper would feel dumper's remorse while she's dating somebody new? Im still a student studying in college and I cant really afford a coaching session with you even though I really want to. I wish you all the best Craig and I want to thank you and coach Victoria for everything that you're doing for us, Rest in Peace to coach Margarette she was the best ❤
@Cosmicsurfpro
10 ай бұрын
Life happens for you not to you. Learn the lesson and the harder the lesson the more you learn. It's a blessing and all that exists is the here And now so stop thinking and dance with the infinite intelligence that is only in the here and now. Be present in everything you do and life will start to be a magical experience. Meditate and focus on breathing this will help bring you in to the present moment. The beginning is the hardest part but not that hard 😉💪🏻🤙🏻
@gabrielcarig5951
9 ай бұрын
@@Cosmicsurfpro who ever you may be I pray that you help more people as much as you did me when I read this!! She recently just reached out to me but im not really focused anymore in getting her back, I'm just doing me as you said! Looking back, those 6 months was one of the hardest parts of my life I had to deal with and the fact that we're both strangers to each other and you took time and energy to reply this is much appreciated more than you will ever know! ❤️ I hope nothing but the best for you man!!
@elagalang97
4 ай бұрын
My ex is a prideful avoidant. Do you think he’ll ever reach out?
@lorderectus1849
11 ай бұрын
If there’s another sausage or sausages in the picture you will mean nothing to them ex or no ex! Simply walk away and focus on yourself only!
@Marauder-kd8zi
9 ай бұрын
My fa emotionally abused me and said I was weak and I needed tougher skin around her like I’m soft or something and said I don’t love myself
@adsdsds6190
11 ай бұрын
Can they still come back after reaching out a week after we broke up?
@lindavrasich7791
19 күн бұрын
@coach craig Do you deal with marriage or only dating?
@CoachCraigKenneth
18 күн бұрын
I deal with it all 💪
@nicholecornes1915
9 ай бұрын
Probably that's dangerous as hell
@daisydewinter907
11 ай бұрын
And if he erased your number?
@tjsharpgirl8060
9 ай бұрын
What about 3rd chances
@chrislim7976
Ай бұрын
Stop living and breathing on their terms. Yes everyone has some form of childhood trauma. It doesn't excuse ridiculous behavior as an adult.
@davemaurer7341
10 ай бұрын
What about a 3rd chance??
@northshorelight35
6 ай бұрын
They only come back if they’re broke and living in your house. Lol where else are they going to go? But it doesn’t mean they’re in a respectful relationship with you.
@SebLucas1998
11 ай бұрын
I would like to think so 😢
@RezaBarzegar-e4m
10 ай бұрын
don't get your hopes up. with dismissive avoidants, chances of them coming back is below 10%, it's one thing if they are emotional towards you whether it's anger or missing you or... but if they are cold as ice, take it as a clue and start moving on, or you'll end up even more heartbroken
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