Hey PSYCH-Os! 👋 *So, do you think INFJs need boredom in their lives in order to be truly happy?* Comment down below 👇
@Jack.Waters
2 ай бұрын
No one wants to what we are really thinking of them or there actions. Don't ask if you don't want to know. There is no holding back anything cause You ASKed....
@dontcomply2war
2 ай бұрын
The way the world is today, I'd rather live what other's call a boring life happily 😊
@PSYCH-O
2 ай бұрын
Agreed 💯
@roberttrough6439
2 ай бұрын
What seems like boredom to others is delightful to an INFJ. Were in our own heads stay out you can’t handle it! Hahaha 😂
@PSYCH-O
2 ай бұрын
That's exactly it! 😌
@cynk956
2 ай бұрын
We're into details like spelling and being grammatically correct. You probably meant "We're into our heads..." Not "Were into our heads... "We're" is the contraction for "we are." I feel bad for extraverts in that they have to work so hard to get enough stimulation. Their systems are underperforming so they have to rev it up by external stimulation. INFJs, on the other hand, have especially rich inner lives so we don't need to waste our time with foolishness and shallow attachments!
@roberttrough6439
2 ай бұрын
@@cynk956 I say what I mean and mean what I say. Keep up or fall behind.
@1nilu1
2 ай бұрын
@@cynk956 Its a little sad though no? God has given you a brain that can enable you to virtually do anything and you live in this abundant world where you can have, be and do anything you want but you'd rather stay in your head and fix other people's grammar? Go out in the world and discover your potential, its what God wants from you. Sorry, Dont want to dictate but dont want you to miss out either, you're only here as you once
@roberttrough6439
2 ай бұрын
@@1nilu1 what fantasy world are you in? I’m out and about every day. You sound like a demonic narcissist. Take your walk on the dark side. I live in the light.
@nanrobbins2916
2 ай бұрын
Bored? Only boring people are bored. I'm always engaged in something---Improv, dancing, cooking, swimming, socializing for an hour, no more. I am happy with my own company and I am not boring.
@lindavalentin5582
2 ай бұрын
Boring? I enjoy my calm peace and solitude ❤
@robertm.946
2 ай бұрын
i'm chillin i'm not bored
@user-ml6dk8sk4e
2 ай бұрын
I don’t want ANY FRIENDS! Well one or two is okay ,maybe ! 5 very intelligent cats ,5 very adorable dogs ( one has a very interesting story ) and my one and only sweet daughter
@user-ml6dk8sk4e
2 ай бұрын
My Daughter is INFJ TOO !
@RichterScale-oz5pp
2 ай бұрын
I never realized I was so happy
@achebwahs1111
2 ай бұрын
I live by myself, 20klms outside of the closest town and surrounded by trees and wildlife not neighbours. I think often, I think deeply and I think fast. I stop when I sleep and that could mean plenty, or siestas. Others try to make plans that include me. Stop it.
@allentuggle2837
2 ай бұрын
Sounds like HEAVEN.
@achebwahs1111
2 ай бұрын
Foremost part it is until the few times it isn't. That's just a state of mind.
@VotePaineJefferson
2 ай бұрын
There's nothing boring about life, because you can always change your focus/perspective/viewpoint thus seeing the world anew every day.
@sunflowerpower642
10 күн бұрын
Also funny that they only go out into the world to judge it, not to enjoy and contribute to it and think of what could be different then do nothing about it. Upset that the doers don’t do it but unwilling to do it themselves. It’s absolute peanut gallery behavior.
@drewford3205
2 ай бұрын
Right on time brother.
@bwaldsch23
2 ай бұрын
Well, considering that the masses are unfriendly, judgemental, and fake -- I think that I prefer my boring life over hedonism and constant inebriation. 💜
@sojourneroftheland
Ай бұрын
A little spontaneity is ok for a little bit... but too much (even self inflicted) seems to spin out of control leaving me feeling like I may be short circuiting lol. Predictability, simple pleasures, quiet self assigned goal setting and projects are all like a warm cozy sweater in the dead of winter: Reliable, and welcomed always :) Cant tell you how much I love this channel. Never a time I dont laugh out loud (either nervously or knowingly) about how you describe/asess INFJs. Thank you💐
@Moonbeast_1138
2 ай бұрын
This channel knows me so well. 😊
@nanetten6238
2 ай бұрын
Sometimes my husband begs me to "show a little enthusiasm". I guess I am boring him.
@rabbitgregory9289
2 ай бұрын
Well, as the Scarecrow in the Wizard of Oz says, “I could while away the hours conferrin’ with the flowers, consultin’ with the rain.”
@user-zz2dx3qf7u
2 ай бұрын
The tin man, having found his head asked: " but are you happy?" " Happy? What's THAT?"
@cynthiajohnson9412
2 ай бұрын
Wow! This video nailed every point.
@user-ml6dk8sk4e
2 ай бұрын
What some 😮 call boring ! I call LIFE 😊🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@drewford3205
2 ай бұрын
❤
@sunburstrose7860
2 ай бұрын
I am curious what other INFJs think about this "self-improvement" thing talked about in the video? Do you relate to it? I don't. Except if that means trying to learn to be more loving, patient and kind, and how to more extend more peace and healing to the world. If spirituality is "self-improvement", OK. I don't see that as "self-improvement as much as "development." I also don't relate to the "INFJs are strict with themselves". Disciplined? Not so much--except maybe if one is an Enneagram One INFJ. Haha, that inferior Se can lead to a lot of not-so-strict-with-ourselves, especially when under stress. I am also detail-oriented and conscientious, but I don't relate to being a "perfectionist", either-it's not the same thing. Maybe Enneagram Ones relate to this "self-improvement" thing, but I wouldn't say that it is necessarily an INFJ thing. I think INFJs are generally tolerant and accepting of others and of themselves. But maybe that is an Enneagram Nine INFJ? Wondering what others here think. I think the creators of this video are confusing Enneagram One traits with INFJ traits, or are describing INFJ traits through an Enneagram One lens. Also, maybe others think that what INFJs love is "boring", but seeking inner silence, feeling that inner silence that developed INFJs can cultivate, allows INFJs to hear their intuition and what some call the voice of Spirit. We are privy to an entire dimension of existence that most other types don't get to experience. For a lot of us, I think, that is far more delicious than the nonsense of the rah-rah-rah-sis-boom-bah, the gossip (oh, god! lol) of the world. (lol) And, yes, there is also the cultivation of the mind that INFJs love, and the creation of art which is usually quite different from the art other types create. That's a fascinating topic, too, I think.
@user-zz2dx3qf7u
2 ай бұрын
As the enneagram is a moving thing, it's important to NOT to " identify " with things that seem static , as regards personality. That being SAID...
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