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@joannvalentin-alvarez1843
Жыл бұрын
So many men breaking those cycles of absentee Dad’s. They do not know what they’re doing but they are trying and they show up and that counts for EVERYTHING to their babies. ❤ my Dad was a hot mess express but he tries now. It matters to me. I am so proud of ya!
@jamesb.hallmd9899
Жыл бұрын
Who taught animals to be fathers? There are NO EXCUSES for abandoning your children. Stop lying to yourself. God has built in us the ability to father.
@clementmckenzie7041
Жыл бұрын
few male mammals father their offspring. Most mammals are raised by single mothers in the wild.
@indigorager
Жыл бұрын
Yeaaaa be specific. Cause lions eat their kids😂
@elmahdi5
10 ай бұрын
Brothers don't abandon their children the mothers destroy their own families and alienate his child/children from him. Absentees fathers are treated with respect and are begged to stop by and see the child/children.
@jamesb.hallmd9899
10 ай бұрын
@elmahdi5 But the brothers are CHOOSING these women. Choose wisely because YOU are creating the next generation of criminals or leaders. 85% youths in jail grow up in fatherless homes. 90% runaways & 71%high school dropouts are from fatherless homes. The #1 risk factor for suicide is fatherlessness!! It is bad for fatherless children and the problem is the MEN! THE buck stops with us. Blame women if you want to--that's naive & irresponsible of us men to do this when men rule this world--not women. Would the REAL MEN please stand up?
@dailymadness9129
10 ай бұрын
@@elmahdi5this isn’t true, I’m not black but as someone who works in human services I can tell you. a lot of these dudes don’t want to be dads, i don’t even know why they chose to still get with black guys
@unHingedBaddie
Жыл бұрын
Bruh 2023 still blaming slavery for not being a father? Who teaches someone to be a parent? Single mothers had no choice to pick if slavery or who did what to care for their offspring’s, but black men want to be coddled for “breaking barriers”.. this is such a weird take wtf
@a.l.r3721
Жыл бұрын
Look at full interview. He states that it is not an excuse but it is a reason. He is staying the reason why we are in this predicament but to hold ourselves accountable for getting out of it.
@unHingedBaddie
Жыл бұрын
@@a.l.r3721 it’s neither a reason, it should never be a reason. Imagine if men that are Jews in 2023 said anti-semitism was the reason that they are deadbeats.. Black men need to grow a pair tf It’s like black men skipped the phase where a human adult actually fully matures, takes responsibility even when they don’t like it like the rest of other humans.. the victim mentality is getting pathetic
@VICTORIOUSONE22
Жыл бұрын
@@a.l.r3721 Black women were slaves too. Black women still produce without excuses or emphathy. Blackmen always looking to be coddled and considered. While giving the women that give birth to you no consideration. Make it make sense.
@Transformersarecoming4yourkids
10 ай бұрын
This is why they’re at the bottom of the totem pole when compared to other men. Always feeling sorry for themselves, always blaming someone else for their shortcomings, etc… this is why I advise women to not deal with them.
@OceanisInfinite
8 ай бұрын
It is so victimhood mentality. We’re still giving black men excuses but the black mothers have been vilified since way back when. And I don’t see any men coming to our rescue to support what we didn’t know. This is why I tell women STOP having these men’s babies & decenter them until they get their shit figured out or else you as a women will keep being blamed for the state of the black community because they will NOT take accountability for themselves or their fathers sorry asses.
@cheryldixon2740
11 ай бұрын
Oh please stop: Just be a father just like you expect the females to just be mothers. It’s doesn’t turn into a special project because the father is black.
@WinkiBlack-qr2eo
Жыл бұрын
The guy in the black shirt talking about good point🤔 the guy in the beige shirt looking like what the hell is he talking about Lol I'm saying this man is not making sense
@debraafriday
3 ай бұрын
There was no good point here...
@cesarmedina6187
Жыл бұрын
Quit using a crush, there's plenty of black fathers that raised our kids right God has put it to know right from wrong
@bkstandard882
Жыл бұрын
No there isnt compared to everyone else
@OceanisInfinite
8 ай бұрын
If there were enough black fathers really making a difference in their sons & other fatherless sons lives we wouldn’t have this problem but the fact that we do let’s you know the handful of fathers that yall all wanna lean on can’t carry the misdeeds of the majority of black men.
@Liyaxs
4 ай бұрын
@@OceanisInfiniteforreal, pointing out the few “good” means that most black men are horrible fathers. look at how they demonized russsell wilson for marrying ciara and raising future jr. they worship future, the baby mama maker over the man who stepped up and took responsibility for his family, stepson included.
@ThePriam3
Жыл бұрын
Victim mentality is going to be the demise of black men .. it’s 2023 there’s tons of help & resources to help black men be better fathers… or just stop making kids because nobody thinks black men are doing a good job nobody
@margieroberson670
Жыл бұрын
Exactly!!! This is a whole bag of crap! Any black man buying into this fallacy, their children will be apart of the judicial system. It's 2023!
@NaturalBeauty_101
Жыл бұрын
@ThePriam3 true indeed! The black community keep taking things back to slavery but thank goodness we have moved on centuries from that time. The truth today is BM can get careers, earn money, get a mortgage, live comfortable, healthy lives if they CHOOSE to!
@goodvibezz9216
11 ай бұрын
@@TfyallLookingAt and this is why many have that experience of BM not being good fathers. You won't know if a person can be a good father or not until you have his child. That's why I encourage stop having children by men who hasn't proven themselves to even love you. If a man truly loves you he's going to love his child that you birthed.
@Transformersarecoming4yourkids
10 ай бұрын
The demise has been taking place for decades. BM will always have excuses for their shortcomings. Like Umar said “50 years of hip hop being celebrated like it’s a big accomplishment but not ONE hospital or any other institution has been created.”
@OceanisInfinite
8 ай бұрын
Thank you!! The cognitive dissonance of him saying that we are doing a good job is so counter productive when we all see the problem. It’s them.
@NoName-q4i
6 ай бұрын
They listen to a man with 3 earrings wow😮
@herbertfrey1238
Жыл бұрын
How many years are y'all going to keep blaming wyt ppl for y'all's failures?? Grow up and take responsibility for your own actions.
@db6881
11 ай бұрын
In 1000 years I guarantee they're still going to be trying to ride their slave ancestors coattails.
@Transformersarecoming4yourkids
10 ай бұрын
That will never happen. Which is why the BC is every society’s permanent underclass..
@dailymadness9129
10 ай бұрын
@@Transformersarecoming4yourkidsexactly and then the dudes in their community can’t take accountability. I’ve never seen such a group with such awful male figures
@Liyaxs
4 ай бұрын
@@dailymadness9129exactly, pathetic
@Christian80806
3 ай бұрын
And husband. Because to be a good father is to be a good husband FIRST.
@AnaThaLight
Жыл бұрын
The answer is in the heart.
@dcm12388
Жыл бұрын
That's not true quit promoting this
@NoName-q4i
6 ай бұрын
Oh 4 earrings lol my fault
@clementmckenzie7041
Жыл бұрын
On the planation children were fathered by all the men on the plantation. When a fathers was sold the other men on the plantation took those children under their wing. Most men had to hide from the master exactly who their children were, so that the linage would not be used as a selling point. They fathered their children at night in secret but we made families.
@OceanisInfinite
8 ай бұрын
This is such an irrelevant point being as though we are now in the Information Age & have been for a while these men still don’t care to learn to do what’s right even for themselves let alone the children that they sire.
@Liyaxs
4 ай бұрын
@@OceanisInfinite100%. - women need to decenter these men and center god. if family is what a black women wants, i’d advise her to look outside the black/African community.
@danielkelley7422
Жыл бұрын
What about all the men who were fathers to their children and husbands to their wives before the black woman became so “strong and independent “? They did it and they were closer to slavery than anyone now. I can’t agree with your explanation
@db6881
11 ай бұрын
Black men really act like courts and laws don't exist. Someone could literally just breathe in your direction, and you'll claim it stopped you from being in your kids' lives and paying towards your kids. What a SERIOUSLY weak and pathetic group of so-called men.
@goodvibezz9216
11 ай бұрын
Shout out to that specific group of men! Your comment makes it seem like all the men during that time were just wonderful husbands and fathers. WRONG! Strong and independent came about from the degenerate group of bandits who abandoned their kids, disrespected their wives/women, or abused their wives/women. "That" group did the most harm & caused women to abandon the idea of needing men for provision. Dont try to blame the government, blame that specific group of men, the degenerates! The government was just a means for women involved with degenerate men to support themselves without having to rely on them for provision. Education (which most of you hate) and more jobs becoming available to women, was also another means for women to survive "independently" without the need for a man's provision.
@Transformersarecoming4yourkids
10 ай бұрын
Exactly. Liberal thinking BM always have excuses 🙄
@OceanisInfinite
8 ай бұрын
There weren’t enough black men being fathers to their children to make a significant impact or else survival mode wouldn’t have ever hit black women at such an alarming rate. She wouldn’t have had to be strong IF the men were.
Constantly Crying victim. Black women were slaves too. Yet we still must produce with no excuses or emphathy. Make it make sense.
@sevenkings2354
Жыл бұрын
Excuses excuses
@Transformersarecoming4yourkids
10 ай бұрын
As always…
@OceanisInfinite
8 ай бұрын
And it just continues on like they’ve been doing since the 60’s when welfare took black men outta the homes? I wonder who’s to blame in 2024?
@wesmyone9562
Жыл бұрын
That's a good point, I never thought of it like this🤔
@WinkiBlack-qr2eo
Жыл бұрын
Kunta Kinte have his father your father teaches you how to be a man a man looks at his father on how to be a father Your parents are your first teacher However he's right every man is not meant to be a father
@Liyaxs
4 ай бұрын
“i think we’re doing a good job considering “…👀im sorry if you are procreating with this in 2024 - you cannot be helped. yall are not doing a job, at ALL. Black women have adjusted to their freedom (1970) and are working, starting businesses, and getting educated at record rates. level up, or sit down
@DrLesiaThePreachasDiviNation
Жыл бұрын
Agreed
@taahiramcgee
3 ай бұрын
Sounds good except if we decide that we want to follow God and most black people at least went to church. The bible says "When my mother and father forsake me, then the Lord will take me up" Psalms 27:10. We never read this bible that has been sitting around peoples houses for generations. We also would have saw the lies told to us by those same plantation owners. We wouldn't have wanted to integrate with this Babylonian system.
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