"If I live in Dutch, I would speak Netherlands" they got him nervous 💀
@infj4w511
10 ай бұрын
Also, Indian is not a language
@Milonification
10 ай бұрын
Hahaha yeh that one made me laugh
@shahabdeiri7629
10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@toomuchinformation
8 ай бұрын
That guy was hilarious.
@cherry3036
6 ай бұрын
Thats how you say Dutch in Dutch : Ik spreek een beetje Nederlands ;)
@Noah_ol11
10 ай бұрын
-The two Dutch ladies : "we love Dutch guys , tall , blonde and handsome" - also the two dutch ladies : "what's wrong with Dutch men ? They never approach us" 😂 a country with many Chads
@legolas7r
10 ай бұрын
I think its a cultural thing. If a Dutch guy approaches a girl in Holland to get her attention , the Dutch girl will see him as a needy weak man.
@Daniel-gw2ts
10 ай бұрын
@@legolas7rNot just in The Netherlands men can see as weak or needy , most of the countries today are like that
@The-Cat
10 ай бұрын
@@Daniel-gw2ts Western countries. Men are still expected and accepted to approach women in Asia/Africa ( as a man naturally would)
@Onche518
10 ай бұрын
@@The-Cat Only Northern countries. In France, Spain, Italy it's still the dude who has to approach
@The-Cat
10 ай бұрын
@@Onche518 give it another 5 years for it to completely change. Gen Z are consuming the crap that poisoned the north
@QWERTY-hl6wm
6 ай бұрын
You have to speak nearly fluent Dutch to get into their social circles, it is when they start approaching you, because you are part of their world, then it is easy to date them, you meet their families and distant friends too, get invited to bbqs and dinners. They do not bother with foreigners that leave in 1 year and treat them as a hookup. I grew up there as a foreigner, so I have an inside info :)
@LUKEandBEAR
6 ай бұрын
I don't think your personal experience is representative for Dutch men at all.
@SidMajors
6 ай бұрын
@@LUKEandBEAR Well, she's not wrong. We have so many expats here. It's not like she's unique in her experiences.
@LUKEandBEAR
6 ай бұрын
@@SidMajors I don't question her personal experience but she talks like it's a common trait. Every society has its "badboys" but that doesn't mean it is the standard.
@SidMajors
6 ай бұрын
@@LUKEandBEAR Guys that aren't into expats per se are bad boys?
@LUKEandBEAR
6 ай бұрын
@@SidMajors great reasoning dude...
@Ron-pm3qk
10 ай бұрын
The Dutch guy who's with his gf trying hard not to really speak his mind out
@LunaVioletta7
9 ай бұрын
"If I live in India, I would speak Indian. If I live in Dutch, I would speak Netherlands" LOL bless that man
@Urla398
5 ай бұрын
Lol
@Neothefish
5 ай бұрын
I laughed so hard. He is cute
@Tanisha-br9bn
5 ай бұрын
As an Indian girl these got me fr 💀💀
@hiddencem6235
4 ай бұрын
i guess that's why he stated that he wishes to speak his own language when he becomes old =D
@jmarcossarbalncar
3 ай бұрын
it's because "Netherlands" is how the language Dutch is translated to Dutch
@youdj_app
10 ай бұрын
I lived in the Netherland, and if you are from a latin country like me, feeling emotions and stuff, be prepared to have your heart a bit scratched by the "coldness" of the dutch women, or the culture in general :D. That's being said, dutch people are very friendly at first, but if you want to connect deeper, they start to be very cautious ;). If you love electronic music, that's the country for you tho. Thanks for the video Marina!
@hakanstorsater5090
10 ай бұрын
I'd have guessed Germany or France to be bigger centers for electronic music, although it seems popular all over the continent. (I know Netherlands is famous for more low-brow electronic party music such as gabber and happy hardcore, though...)
@jasper8291
10 ай бұрын
@@hakanstorsater5090 Armin van Buuren, Hardwell, Afrojack, Martin Garrix, la Fuente.. Do I need to go on?
@Frivals
10 ай бұрын
Way better than being false all the time and having false emotions
@o_javier_milei
9 ай бұрын
@youdj_app Thanks for your comment! What do you mean by "you have to be very cautious"?
@slavianalbanovich9025
8 ай бұрын
I don't understand what you mean by "Latin", perhaps you mean South American, but it makes no sense to talk about neo-latin speakers in general given the cultural diversity that exists among this group of people.
@karinelvis4467
9 ай бұрын
You nailed it with the Dutch prefer dating the Dutch
@victoroliveira5890
10 ай бұрын
Surprising that many of them mentioned the language barrier. Dutch people are usually really good speaking English 😅
@bhart3321
10 ай бұрын
In my travels I've found most Europeans speak perfect English. It's taught to them from early age in school so they have plenty of practice. Idk why they're so gun shy about it either.
@sandra5345
10 ай бұрын
Thats only funny propaganda 🤡🤡
@IoT_
10 ай бұрын
@@bhart3321Yeah, but Dutch people are the most fluent English speakers in the world amongst non-native English speakers.
@Roman888
10 ай бұрын
Also surprising given that the Dutch language is hideous.
@pauvermelho
10 ай бұрын
They are not good in speaking English They are the best
@Joey-ct8bm
6 ай бұрын
Definitely foreign for me. They are just more exciting to me. I wanna learn their culture and want them to learn mine.
@kosterix123
Ай бұрын
more exciting as in "actually alive".
@andrejgrupkovic7765
5 ай бұрын
Mediterranean Guy living in Netherlands here, totally can relate. I notice Dutch Girls tend to not like guys that are not Dutch, unless the girl has some ethnic background other than Dutch. I'm a tall guy, but with darker hair and darker skin complexion. I tend to have more success with girls from Spain, Italy, Greece or France. Its just a cultural thing I think. But yeah definitely notice i have less success with Dutch Girls.
@guacanememoya2045
3 ай бұрын
You're totally right, I had the same experience while living there, totally clicked better with those nationalities
@lutherblissett7873
Ай бұрын
Neither they nor their families want to mix their genes with people they consider undesirable or inferior
@ThatGuy09890
5 ай бұрын
lol. I’ve noticed a lot of Dutch people seem to “think” they don’t like traditional gender roles, but really they just mean countries with people who look and act radically different from them, AKA Asians and black people. The obsession with Italians, Spanish, Latin Americans (who are SUPER macho/traditional) etc. that I see in a lot of these vids seem to confirm that. Either they have no idea what people from Latin America are like, or when they say gender roles, they only think of stuff like hijabs and forced marriages.
@Wetsand348
4 ай бұрын
They simply have no idea, not only them, but pretty much the entire world has little to no knowledge on latin america
@hiphipjorge5755
4 ай бұрын
@@Wetsand348 I wouldn't say they have no idea being that there are Latin Americans living in the Netherlands and TONS in Spain, so they've encountered them. The fact of the matter is that they probably don't have exposure to the poorest Latin Americans, who more likely move to the US if they emigrate. That means that their exposure won't show the worst of machismo. On the other hand, Americans are biased to see the opposite. That said, on every real account, Latin Americans are still less foreign and very much less traditional than the Africans, West Asians and South Asians that Europeans are talking about
@adrianseanheidmann4559
3 ай бұрын
"The obsession with Italians, Spanish, Latin Americans (who are SUPER macho/traditional" Spaniards aren't that macho/traditional buddy.
@helloworld7818
2 ай бұрын
I agree. But they're extremely traditional and conservative. lmfao. Dutch women are so freaking boring and have no personality at all.
@aknezevic997
Ай бұрын
Totally agree!
@Realjjjjjjjjj
7 ай бұрын
When we say they’re direct and it’s rude, we mean they’re direct passive aggressive and this is RUDE😀
@JackyNickelson
5 ай бұрын
Next time if you visit the Netherlands. Please do visit outside the Holland provinces. There is more then only cities or Amsterdam, Rotterdam, Then Hague. In the east we got like Veluwe or the North... Fryslân boppe. Hollân in de groppe
@NoctLightCloud
4 ай бұрын
what would be the best way to visit those regions? by bus?
@stefanjansen5198
4 ай бұрын
@@NoctLightCloud train
@kosterix123
Ай бұрын
there is no point - social etiquette is the same everywhere. Fear and distrust of the unknown.
@Max-hw7xl
2 ай бұрын
im a gernam who grew up internationally, have been living in NL for over a decade. my GF is dutch. we kinda stumbled into a relationship. while english is my best language and her english has gotten extremely good over the course of our relationship, my dutch is more than good enough to take a yelling in dutch when she is mad. being able to express yourself in your 'native' language is important in a relationship, but there is no reason you and your partner cannot learn enough of eachother's languages to make the occasional getting the mad monologue at and understanding you fucked up possible its the same with any important convo. she will throw dutch words in, sometimes we will be having convos in dutch and il throw in an english word.. its a matter of conveying information, not a language test. if you both are able to send and recieve the info its all good if you both value democracy and individual freedoms, a lot of culture differences are easy to bridge. religion and conservative family are the killers
@kosterix123
Ай бұрын
good luck with your individual freedom, it sounds very cold.
@GiblixStudio
10 ай бұрын
As a 40 year old dutch dude I personally don't care about foreign or not. Met many women from various backgrounds and as long as the attraction and interest is there it'll work. For the past 8 years I've been married to a woman from Paraguay. She traveled around and ended up in the Netherlands and stayed. So I didn't even have to go abroad :D as for cultures I wouldn't date. most likely best too avoid american women. My personal preference is the more "mysterious" looking women with darker hair. So South Americans and Asians works for me. Especially since I also love their cuisine compared to boring dutch. I hit the jackpot there ;) In the northern part of Europe we men do approach women. We are just way more private and we also are more critical on who we want to approach. It isn't just being single so I approach everybody. We got standards and patience.
@harrodsfan
6 ай бұрын
Lol until something untoward happens lol
@MabusNero-bb3sv
6 ай бұрын
simp
@flowershower6857
5 ай бұрын
Ewwwww imagine liking asians
@NoctLightCloud
4 ай бұрын
the hookup culture in Amsterdam (and northern Europe, like Stockholm) is worldwide well known. What "standards" and "critical"?😅😂
@Arnhem-NL
4 ай бұрын
@@NoctLightCloudhooking up driven by lust or having higher standards to build something serious are very different things. It’s the time we live in unfortunately.
@zlam9872
10 ай бұрын
The reason why People want to date someone from their own culture is because they prefer to stay in their comfort zone
@infj4w511
10 ай бұрын
Especially in a relationship. Relationships already are very hard, so I want it to be as comfortable as possible
@Joekool88
10 ай бұрын
Either that or the chance of meeting someone outside your culture is almost/near impossible
@Discounted
10 ай бұрын
Nah I'm just racist
@zlam9872
10 ай бұрын
@@Discounted Good for u pal 🤣
@MrOliebolNL
10 ай бұрын
@@Discounted same
@JaeJae95
6 ай бұрын
If I would live in Dutch I would speak Netherlands. Ah yes! My dutch brother on point with that one
@adaflorea96
10 ай бұрын
It's funny cause I went to Amsterdam just once in my life and the only night I went out, I had like 6 different Dutch guys come up to me to ask me for my number and a possible date, even though I went there prepared to not be approached by anyone. I actually went on a date with one of them and turned out to be the sweetest date I've ever had in my entire life followed by an even sweeter one. I think I just got incredibly lucky.
@АртёмАлексеенко-л7о
10 ай бұрын
Amsterdam is not like other parts of the Netherlands.
@diofromyozgat
10 ай бұрын
Its because you are really pretty, i think these tips are for average looking people😅
@AKASHROY-i9f
9 ай бұрын
So cute lots of love
@-_YouMayFind_-
9 ай бұрын
@@diofromyozgatthere are more men then woman in The Netherlands so adventually most guys have regular looking girls.
@diofromyozgat
9 ай бұрын
then still these tips are for average looking girls, pretty girls dont really need tips in anywhere around the world:)@@-_YouMayFind_-
@gallardospyker
10 ай бұрын
I've lived in netherlands for two years, Dutch guys are easy going, but it's hard to have relationship with dutch girl when you are foreigner even if you are good looking, intersting, funny and have a good financial situation. They will put at an higher level dutch Guys .It's not like in Germany, England or France, The video is fully true, thank you for sharing.
@nicossbots
10 ай бұрын
and that's why netherlands still has handsome tall dutch men because dutch ladies have standards
@adrianburciu2744
10 ай бұрын
@@nicossbotsyou're not at all implying anyone who's not dutch is "below standards" are you? not typically dutch or racist at all, no. Happy I don't live in your rainy boring country. Plenty of more attractive men and women in other countries.. like have you ever heard of Scandinavia, or Eastern Europe or Romania? :D Oh wait, if you're not dutch you must be ugly, I forgot. Ah.. such a romantic country and language.
@Siranoxz
8 ай бұрын
@@nicossbots No, that's not exactly how it works here.
@nicossbots
8 ай бұрын
@@Siranoxz what do you mean?
@bryansmulez4672
28 күн бұрын
@@nicossbotslol then why's 10% of white dutch has mixed Indonesian ? and also indonesia have a lot of mixed dutch with dutch grandma.
@Ed-xv4sy
10 ай бұрын
Approaching is a no no. Guys do not do it. As a guy who gets hit on occasionally, I'm TELLING you, when they like you, they will approach or stare at you like a crazy person so you approach THEM. Either way, this is 2024 almost, do not be a rookie and go lusting after them, they're big girls, they can approach if they like what they see.
@Frivals
10 ай бұрын
Stop chasing girls and let them chase us, men are the prize ❤️
@Frivals
8 ай бұрын
@@toomuchinformation i see it shows that there are 2 comments but i see only your comment relying to me and don't see my comment
@toomuchinformation
3 ай бұрын
I don't think that women should approach men, but the making eye contact, dropping the handkerchief (Jane Austen style) to encourage a man to approach is probably the best way.
@veronicapichardo332
3 ай бұрын
You are big boy you can approach the girl you like too
@kosterix123
Ай бұрын
I got approached about a dozen times. Agree with poster.
@lendondain1
10 ай бұрын
After your last video featuring Dutch people and their rude opinions about other cultures, I think many of us are happy for the tall, attractive Dutch to stick to dating each other.
@PolHa-gv4js
10 ай бұрын
Dutch are just horrible people. Dont date them
@hunchbackaudio
10 ай бұрын
If your opinion about the Dutch people is only based on funny short YT videos, it's best to leave them unbothered indeed.
@Frivals
10 ай бұрын
If rude is being honest and not lying than I want to hear that rudeness
@PolHa-gv4js
10 ай бұрын
@@Frivals hahaaaaaa honest and Dutch doesnt go together. When you mean honest you mean you say nasty things to people to hurt them. Otherwise you lie about yourself in order to achieve your goals.
@adrianseanheidmann4559
3 ай бұрын
@@hunchbackaudio I'm German, I've met a ton of Dutch people. They seem to be by far the most openly "xenophobic", it's a bit weird.
@areyoumad1
3 ай бұрын
I love Netherlands. Hugs from India.
@kosterix123
Ай бұрын
based on what? Some cute pictures?
@AllisonCD94
10 ай бұрын
I live in Amsterdam and I am happy to be surrounded by Dutch people who have or had foreign partners, they are a different type of people, those who have no problem speaking another language and dealing with another culture at home, they are very curious to learn new things and get out of their comfort zone. ❤ 🙌🏻🇳🇱
@harrodsfan
6 ай бұрын
Lol.... until something untoward happens to ya !
@MabusNero-bb3sv
6 ай бұрын
why do you look like a freak.......
@tumwesigyemoses-tu8wk
16 күн бұрын
I should be there one day
@slavianalbanovich9025
8 ай бұрын
What people don't understand is that dating a girl is HARD EVERYWHERE, unless you're beautiful or go to a poor country, but in the latter case it's not that people are hitting on you because they're in love, but because they see in you a way to escape poverty.
@FS_5023
7 ай бұрын
I agree
@toomuchinformation
7 ай бұрын
Except that "dating" isn't a thing EVERYWHERE, though I get your point.
@DDA532
2 ай бұрын
Thats how you describe women in general they use to come up to man these days not even one wil come up i work in the city i speak to people 6 days a week and i gues ive spoken to women mabey 2 or 3 times sinds the start of the year.
@kosterix123
Ай бұрын
We Dutch gave up dating girls. The only guys hitting on Dutch girls are foreigners and usually shorter than the girl. It's such a waste of energy and for the girl, such an annoyance. Plus, rape percentage is 10% and sexual abuse around 34%. Doesn't sound too idyllic.
@kosterix123
Ай бұрын
@@DDA532 yep same here. You are found economically and socially non viable.
@ichbinhier355
10 ай бұрын
Quick answer: if you are a tall man from Latin America, Spain or Italy, then you can get a Dutch woman easily.
@toomuchinformation
3 ай бұрын
Well Dutch men are the tallest in the world, so that's what they're used to.
@flowershower6857
Ай бұрын
these countries you mentioned men are 176cm at best.
@halfpipefreak
Ай бұрын
we are taller haha
@LeeAnn-y8f
28 күн бұрын
One of my mentors is Dutch! Such a wonderful man. Oddly enough, as a child, the first language i tried learning on my own was Dutch. ❤
@Tanisha-br9bn
5 ай бұрын
I confirm that we speak Indian in India 🤣✔✔
@flavio888
10 ай бұрын
They speak english so well. What language barrier ????
@GeoSocratic
10 ай бұрын
To some people it is wearisome to speak in another language or listen to another language (even if such person is fluent, needless to say when they are not). It is a stress that not many people are up to living on a daily basis. To make friends, the foreigner will need to speak the local language at some point as the spouse's friends might not be willing to speak English when they can speak their language among themselves. They won't speak English just for one person. It doesn't make much sense to do so to be honest. Besides, they can have kids and having them exposed to different languages might be confusing and harmful in the beginning as they are going to live in one country and the official language will matter the most after all.
@canchero724
9 ай бұрын
It's just not the same as your native tongue.
@Siranoxz
8 ай бұрын
If you want to date Dutch people then speak their language or else go find someone else.
@toomuchinformation
8 ай бұрын
@@GeoSocraticI get your first para, but not the second. I think it's a privilege for children to grow in a multi lingual household. I don't see what the problem is. Kids will differentiate.
@Karankam-lj4bs
7 ай бұрын
Its one of their excuse for not dating foreigners without sounding rude
@spaceyy06
5 ай бұрын
I am a Dutch man and I am dating a Mexican woman!
@Limpi43
10 ай бұрын
6:09 He's spot on. PS.: The girl from Suomi is gourgeous.💙
@singingLeaf123
7 ай бұрын
suomi? Finland is same word in finnish?
@spaceyy06
5 ай бұрын
@@singingLeaf123 Suomi is finnish for Finland
@oliverfa08
10 ай бұрын
Men should learn with the Chads of The Netherlands , even though most of the men are over 6'1 ( 184 cms ) , not approach women is nice behaviour
@Onche518
10 ай бұрын
Waiting for women to approach you is the opposite of a Chad move
@oliverfa08
10 ай бұрын
@@Onche518 a man approaching women can easily be seen like a needy guy wanting their attention
@Onche518
10 ай бұрын
@@oliverfa08 Well it depends how you do it. In France, Spain, Italy it’s almost always the guys who do it
@infj4w511
10 ай бұрын
Nah, Chad culture is much more similar to the Italian "macho" culture. Also, the whole point of approaching your person of interest is to show you're needy and want their attention. They need to know that shit if you want to try to get further with them. Whether it's the man or woman who has to initiate this doesn't change that fact, and it's always uncomfortable to be the one to approach, because approaching is always the vulnerable option which will lead to rejection in most cases. That's a fact, regardless of whether you're a man or woman. After all, most people like less than half of the gender of interest well enough to want a relationship with them. Most people marry near to 1 person, and not the entire gender.
@Frivals
10 ай бұрын
Stop chasing girls and let them chase us, men are the prize ❤️
@flavio888
10 ай бұрын
Tall,white,blue eyes,blonde 🫤
@nieko3038
10 ай бұрын
Yeah so?
@flavio888
10 ай бұрын
@@nieko3038 so what?
@nieko3038
10 ай бұрын
@@flavio888 apparently you have an issue.
@flavio888
10 ай бұрын
@@nieko3038 if you didn't get it so You have an issue bro
@nieko3038
10 ай бұрын
@@flavio888 Keep crying and playing victim. Mf Fix your own life instead of spreading hate.
@TripleS-o4q
9 ай бұрын
6:30 , sorry we are good. We don't wanna handle rejection. Thanks.
@mabellajoh
7 ай бұрын
won't date Chines guys for height?: I'm a French person whose parents are from Manchuria (NE China bordering Siberia) and have met some guys from Manchuria in my college in the U.S. According to them, in Manchuria, the new generation (ppl born after 2000) most guys are 190+;; lots of girls are 180+. lots of guys in the 6'3 -6'7 range. 2 guys are 7'0. No guy was under 5'10, the shortest guy in his class was 177cm. Mind you he went to a tiny high school. I heard ppl born after 00 guys under 6’0 are outcasted for being short in high school. Manchuria is taller than the Netherlands for a bit.
@donbrabo
6 ай бұрын
I just googled it and the average height in that region is 1,68 for a man so yeah...
@mabellajoh
6 ай бұрын
sorry ur wrong salty white dude. There is a huge difference between Northern most Chinese and Southern Chinese. My ex was 6'4 from Manchuria and only the average height there.re @@donbrabo
@FactsandReelsForall
2 ай бұрын
Lies 😂😂 chinese are shorter
@lutherblissett7873
Ай бұрын
Chinese people usually have less attractive features and are physically less appealing, even if they are tall. It's normal for them not to be considered attractive.
@dimrrider9133
18 күн бұрын
In your fantasy world it is but i was the tallest guy there with my 1.89m
@officialrobertcenox
6 ай бұрын
dutch girls are by far the hottest as a airbnb host i received alot of ppl but the dutch are just perfect blonde blue eyes tall good skin tan great smile great hair is just like real feminine perfection
@FactsandReelsForall
2 ай бұрын
Kinda racist
@officialrobertcenox
2 ай бұрын
@@FactsandReelsForall personal preferences are not insults related to colour skin background if you can’t distinguish that I advice you to switch your brain
@FactsandReelsForall
2 ай бұрын
@@officialrobertcenox blonde, blue eyed yeah yeah sounds like a certain dictator who killed 6 million people
@monero892
5 ай бұрын
The woman who won't date Chinese because of height. Been living in China for a a few years now and the young Chinese these days can be super tall, met many easily above 185. Unfair to sterotype them as being short...even Korea has many tall, at least 180 which is euro average (I realise Dutch are tallest in Europe)
@dimrrider9133
18 күн бұрын
in the world yes and i was the tallest in China with my 1.89m
@ikben86
3 ай бұрын
Really interesting post. Wat een geweldig inzicht in de Nederlandse cultuur!!
@henri191
10 ай бұрын
"I like Dutch guys , they are tall" correct 😂 , being tall , especially for a man is indeed relevant
@nicossbots
10 ай бұрын
just like it's relevant for a girl to be good looking
@Frivals
10 ай бұрын
@@nicossbotsyou can't control your height, but you can control how good looking you are
@Iflie
10 ай бұрын
Those women were really tall themselves and so if you want a guy who's taller than you dutch men are the way to go. Most dutch women I grew up with didn't think about that as much, they take taller for granted and were not as tall themselves. I'm short , so there are very very few dutch men shorter than me or even the same height. So nothing to worry about.
@marcosantonio9987
10 ай бұрын
I am like ... I am handsome but I am 5'7... Damn that's harsh kkkk
@Iflie
10 ай бұрын
@@marcosantonio9987 There are plenty of women shorter than you at that height.
@sllewrevor
10 ай бұрын
Great video. Thank you very much. I learn so much from the dating scene in other countries. As well i have to say that the dutch girls are very, very beautiful.
@Joekool88
10 ай бұрын
I like the Steven He meme!
@NotInformedOfficial
10 ай бұрын
2 dutch ladies to foreigners: "just go for it" also 2 dutch ladies: I like tall men Goodluck Asian / ethnically shorter foreigners
@-_YouMayFind_-
9 ай бұрын
I think its more because Dutch woman are quite tall themselfes and girls often dont want a men smaller then them, but not always ofcourse
@Jesuisben15
Ай бұрын
And be white please 😂😂😂
@PopHQ
6 ай бұрын
Dutch men are lovely , dated 2 of them , they are really sweetest and warm but at first they will appear a bit cold 😂
@johngonzalez4298
10 ай бұрын
Happy Thursday Marina! Great video today and interesting with people visiting and living in the Netherlands 🇳🇱 have their preferred way of dating someone who is from their home country or a foreigner. Keep making these videos as they are great to see. You go girl 😊
@QWERTY-hl6wm
6 ай бұрын
In most countries you are more attractive to locals as a foreigner, in the Netherlands they extract points from that fact, so it is exact the opposite.
@toomuchinformation
3 ай бұрын
Is there a gender difference here?
@praetoriancorps
6 ай бұрын
the approaching thing got me. even tho I'm Dutch. Looking back 20 years ago, I'd go out with my friends and I think guys used to approach more, or maybe that's just the anecdotal bubble I lived in.
@Sorchae
4 ай бұрын
No it’s true, it changed a lot even from like ten or so years ago, dutch men used to approach us girls a lot and then dating apps became a thing and it changed dramatically
@kosterix123
Ай бұрын
@@Sorchae how did dating apps change culture?
@Sorchae
Ай бұрын
@@kosterix123 when did I say they changed culture?
@kosterix123
Ай бұрын
@@Sorchae 3 months ago. Look at your remark before this one.
@Sorchae
Ай бұрын
@@kosterix123 oh I know perfectly well what I said. I wouldn’t say it’s changed the culture. If you want me to explain that for you I can :)
@MiaTheDreamer
5 ай бұрын
My boyfriend is Dutch, im learning Dutch.. ❤
@V0r4xiz
10 ай бұрын
I was like "Oh my god, she looks like Lizzy Kaplan. Gorgeous. And those curls! And her English is fantastic, too!" *Seconds later* : "I only date tall guys" *frantically spams +5s forward button* Why does this braindead opinion not go extinct? Imagine saying this about someone's weight, which, unlike your height, is something you can ACTUALLY control. You'd get boo'd at immediately. Out b4 "found the short guy"
@Guillermo153
10 ай бұрын
Have you been to the Netherlands??? People are huge , most dutch Girls are taller than most foreigners, and well dutch guys are pretty good looking (No Homo) and very tall I mean if they have to choose there is literally no competition
@Onche518
10 ай бұрын
Netherlands is pretty much a suicide destination if you're not 6'+ and want to score a girl. Maybe Scandinavia even is a better option
@Limpi43
10 ай бұрын
I agree. When girls say they wouldn't date a guy under a certain height, it is as shallow and stupid as guys say they wouldn't date girls under a certain cup size or over a certain weight.
@V0r4xiz
10 ай бұрын
@@Guillermo153 You're saying that like that was some kinda excuse, lol. The average breast size in Sweden is larger than in Japan, therefore swedish men only wanting to date women with large breasts is a sane take. Like... are you hearing yourself?
@grimmhaven
6 ай бұрын
@@Limpi43 Although I do agree, I can also acknowledge that people are entitled to their preferences. If you find it shallow and stupid, why would you even want to date such a person to begin with?
@coppersulphate002
6 ай бұрын
I love all these patriotic dutch people
@biegebythesea6775
4 ай бұрын
You know, I realised that dutch people soound very... Irish in general. It wasn't just that one guy.
@popocatepetl7706
Ай бұрын
5:30 Gurl, same feeling in Germany. Noone has ballz here to approach anybody
@MabusNero-bb3sv
12 күн бұрын
Only simp weaklings........approach evil women.......
@OliverG.-fi7fl
10 ай бұрын
damn the Finnish girl has such a hot voice, she should start a podcast fr
@sekeboutoe2742
Ай бұрын
Ik wil graag een Nederlander,omdat ik meer Nederlands praat❤
@GMunoz-oj5zb
8 ай бұрын
I have seen a bunch of dutch men wanting to date latin women from Colombia and Venezuela
@guacanememoya2045
3 ай бұрын
To "date" yeah, I can imagine
@flowershower6857
Ай бұрын
@@guacanememoya2045if you're beautiful/handsome, you can get date everywhere. beauty matters
@henrymorrisss
26 күн бұрын
Not for "dating". They just know nothing about the culture, and think about Latinas in a sexualized way, so it has nothing with reality. I had a friend which wanted to date Russian women because society has sexualized Russian women so much. Once he tried to date Russians, he changed his opinion and now dating a Dutch girl. Thinking someone is hot according to stereotypes and actually date people from another culture are two different things.
@itsjustme8359
10 ай бұрын
Go to Copenhagen next
@cvsop7338
10 ай бұрын
As a middle eastern woman, seems horrible to date a Dutch then, lol :))) I tried one here in Qatar, all he was doing talking about cheap palaces to go and cheap wine and money stuff, so stingy :/
@Frivals
10 ай бұрын
The prostitute 😂🤦♂️
@Julia-kg5vu
10 ай бұрын
Why you didnt offered yourself to a Sheikh 😂As long as you are in Qatar
@redleeks6253
10 ай бұрын
@@FrivalsWatch your mouth, you're not talking to your mom. Also your mother had to follow that professional route to be able to feed you, be grateful.
@MabusNero-bb3sv
9 ай бұрын
@@redleeks6253actually all women are like that......
@Baphomet-bk7cx
8 ай бұрын
Cheap women, shame on u
@Samanta-ws7yv
4 ай бұрын
I see a lot of Dutch men who date or are married to my fellow Brazilians. ❤ I don't think I'll be as lucky. 😅
@lindamanuel9073
10 ай бұрын
Yikes! All I am hearing is Dutchmen are anywhere between an incel and a douchebag, but in general a cheapskate. Could you imagine Valentine's Day or the anniversary? "Oh, yeah, pay me when you can for the roses and card I gave you." or "The only reason why I am with you is because you chose me and spoke Dutch." The only remedying quality is being tall and blonde hair, I guess... Even though I have seen plenty of potbelly and unfortunate looking men with blonde hair who are 6'4 in white socks and sandals.
@Ed-xv4sy
10 ай бұрын
This is your ego throwing a temper tantrum.
@lindamanuel9073
10 ай бұрын
@@Ed-xv4sy Where is my ego and how am I throwing a temper tantrum?
@DeafDemoBA
10 ай бұрын
@@lindamanuel9073 The only positive qualities you mentioned are physical and thus superficial in itself. Most of the men aren't cheapskates at all, especially during celebration days. Seems like you're wrongly informed. Dutch men seek more than that. I know, because I am one.
@lindamanuel9073
10 ай бұрын
@@DeafDemoBA Sorry that you're offended but I am simply stating what is being said.
@DeafDemoBA
10 ай бұрын
@@lindamanuel9073 No apologies needed, this is soft by Dutch honesty standards ;-)
@bochaberinyakundi7148
10 ай бұрын
Africans... let's gather here and discuss.
@FrappuccinoDrinks
10 ай бұрын
Just go for it 🤣
@DavidCoutino-iv7ck
6 ай бұрын
But don't go too much
@Waitingonasunrise
5 ай бұрын
I wanna also add the Dutch guys get better with age :) it’s so odd when I hear someone say Dutch guys don’t approach women. My husband is Dutch and approached me first, asked me out for dinner brought flowers on our first date and flew me to his country multiple times.
@MabusNero-bb3sv
5 ай бұрын
Your husband is a simp.......
@DeeBee-tq7pm
6 ай бұрын
The Spaniard woman looks like a high fashion model.
@АртёмАлексеенко-л7о
10 ай бұрын
Thank you for the video!
@gewglesux
10 ай бұрын
Loved Amsterdam..... had me an Amsterdam good time also!!
@muminhn1002
2 ай бұрын
None of these people were in love trully I guess. 🤔 When it "hits" you the language barrier, the height or colur, etnicity falls apart very quickly and you rise above the things imposed on you for so long. I can definitely say that the local girls are really curious about macho man, so much that the fall from their motorcycle, or have some crash with their car... While examining a macho on the street specially in the small town or rural areas.
@CasualChatwithKim
21 күн бұрын
I’m South Africa and would prefer to date someone from a different culture because I find South African men all the same and it doesn’t interest me. Sure, they’re relatable because we share similar cultures but I find other people from different walks of life more interesting.
@minetdbrogs9386
10 күн бұрын
I know one volcanologist who got married on a volcano
@CallMeTwinny
6 ай бұрын
1:14 i got the opposite, i can express myself much better in english than in dutch.
@erikabee3498
6 ай бұрын
I don't have a problem with dating foreign women. I dated women from Germany, the Tsjech republic, Russia, Morocco, Turkey and Cape Verde. But I like dutch women too. I was shy for a long time, but got over that in my late twenties. So yes I approach the women.
@fahmif.n2715
5 ай бұрын
Mr worldwide
@erikabee3498
5 ай бұрын
@@fahmif.n2715 Maybe.. I 'am. But it never was a choice. It just happened. I guess I can fall in love with women from all ethnicity by their looks ! But still, beauty is nothing without her inside...how much we could connect.
@meaganchui363
10 ай бұрын
I'm Chinese and I like dating a foreign so I can learn their culture
@adrianadrian3510
10 ай бұрын
I'm Indonesian and also have interested to dating foreign people
@jamesvandemark2086
6 ай бұрын
Hmmm- being an American with a Dutch family name was an unexpected bit of magic, as I recall......
@АртёмАлексеенко-л7о
10 ай бұрын
Btw, Dutch girls and guys are really attractive!
@Baphomet-bk7cx
8 ай бұрын
Overrated
@zarifam1635
Ай бұрын
Not at all if you call those guys "really attractive"
@shinnlee6742
Ай бұрын
Agree @@Baphomet-bk7cx
@Joggert
3 ай бұрын
Dutch are quite conservative and there's tons of xenophobia going around the Netherlands.
@frietvet
3 ай бұрын
😂
@lainmahashima8211
3 ай бұрын
netherlands is literally the one of the most progressive liberal country in the whole planet. dont be ridiculous
@Tsuma_Vento
4 ай бұрын
6:35 "Ego...ego is also a thing. For men." Uh huh, sure. Thanks for making the distinction. Stick to that mindset. It's totally not Dutch girls' ego ever playing up or them acting high and mighty (even though they were raised in a modest lower, middle class family) once you do show your interest and make a move.
@biegebythesea6775
4 ай бұрын
There I was thinking the 'London Dungeon' was a unique thing and now I see there's an 'Amsterdam Dungeon'. Doesn't have the same ring to it.
@karenhackney9920
10 ай бұрын
Emotional damage! 🤣
@antonboludo8886
6 ай бұрын
Luckily I am from Canada. There are cultures from all over the world here.
@linajurgensen4698
10 ай бұрын
Luckily Germany is not that liberal yet. If I had to approach a guy here it would be a major turn off. (Like the girl said)
@MabusNero-bb3sv
6 ай бұрын
Ironic that you all women are liberal af 🤡🤡🤡
@toomuchinformation
3 ай бұрын
Isn't that what happens in Germany? Marina has a video on dating German men which says just that.
@MabusNero-bb3sv
3 ай бұрын
@@toomuchinformation Germany is a simp country I guess........
@emmac4082
7 ай бұрын
thé Dutch guy I used to flirt with took his guts; made the first step and came to talk to😊 (I am eurasian, French Chinese)
@MabusNero-bb3sv
7 ай бұрын
he's a simp that you brainwashed then........
@kelvin19949
10 ай бұрын
3 words: Not for me (and I'm Asian). If you reject the whole race based on certain stereotypes or shallow things like height it's not worth my attention at all. In fact some Korean and Chinese men are pretty tall.
@igotmydriverslicense
10 ай бұрын
are you chinese because you sound like one
@yalinahewage1941
8 ай бұрын
Race mixing is disgusting. You made a good choice
@DP-yn3jf
3 ай бұрын
That’s what I was thinking! These women don’t know what they’re talking about 😂
@nickgermanic8505
27 күн бұрын
The Dutch are tallest people in the world, except Estonia I believe.
@yehuihe1825
4 ай бұрын
lol these two dutch girls. while I'm Chinese I'm taller then most Dutch man. Surely taller then these two. I would like to ask them whether they would like to date me
@toomuchinformation
3 ай бұрын
Why do you care so much?
@yehuihe1825
3 ай бұрын
@@toomuchinformation honestly, I overreacted by stereotyping. But height of Asian has increased dramatically recently, more so than Dutch a hundred years ago. It’s not about race, just nutrition. I’m in Netherlands quite a lot of times find Dutch here implicitly proud of their height. Which I find very distasteful. On top of that these two girls just bluntly stereotyped 1.4billions while sounds not very intelligent. But you are right. I shouldn’t. But i genuinely wondering whether they would date me if im the one asking question
@lainmahashima8211
3 ай бұрын
dont be so desperate dude omg, its embarrassing. you dont need to prove yourself over a video of random girls
@onlineonlineaccount2368
Ай бұрын
@@yehuihe1825 They just have low value for Asian men, they just said it themself. Their type is tall Dutch blond men with blue eyes it what it is bro. Asian men are not considered attractive to most Dutch women. Not all Dutch men are tall aswell to be honest many are also avarage height. Also Dutch guys with foreign origin are also tall for example Carribean, Surinamese and various African groups their men are also very tall in the Netherlands. Yet they don't have hard time dating.
@yehuihe1825
Ай бұрын
@@onlineonlineaccount2368 Like I said I'm taller than most dutch men. I dated plenty of dutch women and saw plenty of asian men dating Dutch women. Your stereotypes are outdated, at least on me. That's why I;m wondering whether they will date me if I'm the one who asking question
@lordtains
Ай бұрын
What does she mean that here in the Netherlands the guys don't approach? It's still the culture here that guys are supposed to make the first move..
@Treinbouwer
3 ай бұрын
Ja, als je het in Amsterdam gaat vragen zullen er een boel zijn die voor buitenlanders gaan ja. Weet je hoeveel er daar geen Nederlands spreken! Probeer het nu eens een keer op Urk. Da's net zo representatief.😂 Het lijken me ook hele grappige reacties.🙃
@Frivals
10 ай бұрын
5:24 i like that girls must approach men first 👩❤️👨
@The-Cat
10 ай бұрын
I rather take a ✈✈✈✈ and go where being a man is abolutely accepted as intended in it's natural form. (masculine men and feminine women)
@Frivals
10 ай бұрын
Stop chasing girls and let them chase us, men are the prize ❤️
@MabusNero-bb3sv
9 ай бұрын
@@Frivalsstop having relationships.........and despise them all..... being alone is great.....
@Frivals
9 ай бұрын
@@MabusNero-bb3sv don't agree
@MabusNero-bb3sv
9 ай бұрын
@@Frivals you don't need to agree......but it's the truth.......and it's much better.....
@Mya-Elba
8 ай бұрын
The NL and Scandinavian countries are the worst if you’re a masculine man looking for a feminine woman
@freecellboo
5 ай бұрын
3:20 the stunning girl on the right has a darker shade of skin colour, I’m wondering if she’s a Dutch person of Middle Eastern ancestry?
@toomuchinformation
3 ай бұрын
Or Indonesian.
@Manuello92
10 ай бұрын
So I have Dutch ancestry, but New York (New Amsterdam) Dutch roots, and I have to say I don't like the Dutch. The more I get to know about the Dutch from the Knickerbocker days to modern-day Dutch people, the more I feel like I am eating a stale cabbage soup that pissing me and my stomach off.
@Milonification
10 ай бұрын
When are Americans gonna learn that all Europeans really don't care for the whole I have blah blah european ancestry. You don't know nothing about being from said European country unless you have actually lived there or maybe if your parents are from there, you are just some person from the USA. And therefore, of course you can feel disconnected from actual people living there. You are from a very different cultural background. Your ancestry has nothing to do with it in this case and certainly gives you no credit in the matter of liking a countries culture more or less.
@jackretour8610
6 ай бұрын
That girl at 4:56 who says Dutch men don't approach her is probably because they're not interested in her. We're quite critical here.
@sjondon5218
6 ай бұрын
Girls looking like that and never getting approached? More like not often approached by guys they are into. Also it's defenitly not the norm in the Netherlands for the girls to do the approaching. They maybe do it 10% of the time if I'm being really generous. Or maybe I haven't been in Amsterdam for too long and the dating scene has changed 180 degrees.
@sakeebkamal3472
10 ай бұрын
Dutch people are really cool to be honest! They need to blend more with South Americans and South Asians. ❤
@TransilvaniaRotterdam
10 ай бұрын
and racist , i lived there 2 years
@sakeebkamal3472
10 ай бұрын
@@TransilvaniaRotterdam which country are you from brother?
@flowershower6857
3 ай бұрын
they can have south asians, because we south americans prefer others south americans
@Joey-ct8bm
6 ай бұрын
'I want blond and blue eyes'. 'I like Spanish and Italian guys'. Typical Dutch woman there. 🤔
@hanahana0329
3 ай бұрын
There are few men who have them in those two countries
@NotAfraidToQuestionThings
3 ай бұрын
It's not like no Dutch men ever approach any women but generally speaking machismo is lacking in Dutch culture. So, we don't care if we drive a Prius, we don't dance well, we don't brag about ourselves and we don't have "game"... the respect for women is really high and in general men are not playing around. They'll show an interest if they know they really like someone. The men just aren't that comfortable with expressing passion openly. Catcalling for instance in The Netherlands is almost exclusively done by other cultures than the Dutch themselves. Not trying to offend anyone, just trying to give a bit of insight.
@onlineonlineaccount2368
Ай бұрын
@NotAfraidToQuestionThings....Bro stop lying man. Dutch cat call all the time especially in remote places and towns on a fridaynight and weekends. I do agree that machismo and masculine traits is not part of Dutch man culture. Also the whole notion of Dutch men being respectable to women is also false many Dutch people can by misgonistic against women. But alot Dutch women are also very discriminatory in my opinion.
@erikg3732
5 ай бұрын
As a dutch guy I am not surprised that most prefer Dutch. I always preferred foreign and thats also why I travelled a lot and lived in different places. Currently living Palma
@user2003-c8t
Ай бұрын
Which nationality u dated was your favourite?
@adambomb4332
8 ай бұрын
5:24-5:34 I just can't believe it 😱 the one on the right is a stunner, such a beauty 💕 My future ex 😁
@AroLiberteSquad
10 ай бұрын
2:54 what a tough moment for that lad 😂
@Hipstersofasia
4 ай бұрын
The funny thing about two dutch girls who said they wouldn't date asian guys look very latin. They don't even know where they are from.
@toomuchinformation
3 ай бұрын
I don't understand your comment. Asian and Latino (whether south America or southern Europe) are different racially and culturally. So even if they are Dutch of Latin descent (and we don't know if they are), what difference does that make?
@flowershower6857
Ай бұрын
@@toomuchinformationew. Southern europeans are closer to dutch.. they both are europeans. And from those, ofc "latino" are closer to europeans than asians are
@mabellajoh
7 ай бұрын
wow, my sister's name is also Marina. But Marina, I wish you could tell those girls: won't date Chines guys for height?: I'm a French person whose parents are from Manchuria (NE China bordering Siberia) and have met some guys from Manchuria in my college in the U.S. According to them, in Manchuria, the new generation (ppl born after 2000) most guys are 190+;; lots of girls are 180+. lots of guys in the 6'3 -6'7 range. 2 guys are 7'0. No guy was under 5'10, the shortest guy in his class was 177cm. Mind you he went to a tiny high school. I heard ppl born after 00 guys under 6’0 are outcasted for being short in high school. Manchuria is taller than the Netherlands for a bit.
@NoctLightCloud
4 ай бұрын
notice how no one said they don't prefer African men? It's perfectly acceptable to say they don't like Asian men, but no one is allowed to say No to African people even though they secretly would like to. The bias against Asians is through the roof. (Also, everyone in Western Europe went out onto the streets for BLM, but hardly anyone did the same for ALM although both personally affect people in Europe minimally to zero.)
@toomuchinformation
8 ай бұрын
The guy at 2:40 looks like a cross between Matt Damon and Jesse Plemons.
@tman5634
10 ай бұрын
In all the interactions with Dutch people over the years, i've always got in well with them, maybe because i'm also straight to the point & honest...but unfortunately at 5'9" & quite attractive in my own country, i'm not tall enough for Dutch women, who like their guys tall.
@toomuchinformation
8 ай бұрын
Probably because Dutch men are the tallest in the world.
@misskaedy
7 ай бұрын
I also noticed that when I interact with Dutch men, they sometimes purposely avoid eye contact. It's like they are scared to lock eyes with you. Is it just me or do Dutch men do this with other women too?
@dutchy1645
6 ай бұрын
I do this all the time
@helloworld7818
2 ай бұрын
This is absolutely my experience too, it's so funny. And I caught two dutch men in different times staring at me. And they got startled and scared and made an awkward laugh. It's so weird to me.
@misskaedy
2 ай бұрын
@@helloworld7818 Yea, or one time I laughed at a dutch guy because I felt like he was giving me too much eye contact during talking with him and he laughed back too.....it made him lose concentration from his work. Then, he completely avoided eye contact with me but I saw him smile to himself later.
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