You can show them all of this information, and they still won’t change a thing.
@SingleTax
3 ай бұрын
Yep, and that's why increasing numbers of men are walking away in disgust. If her list of demands is that long and unrealistic -- and she's consequently that difficult (if not impossible) to satisfy -- then she's simply way more trouble than she's worth.
@WillHal1000
3 ай бұрын
Because women are literal children. They all grow old but most never grow up.
@Alazar654
3 ай бұрын
@@SingleTax Correct.
@Alazar654
3 ай бұрын
steve, you're correct.
@anon4kag
3 ай бұрын
Using logic & common sense to communicate to most women, is like singing to a houseplant to make it grow better.
@tdrive398
3 ай бұрын
The part that absolutely floors me is that women will reject (or destr0y) a stable relationship (marriage) for no other reason than she doesn't get "butterflies". We're supposed to be adults- chasing "butterflies" is for children.
@AQUARIUMFREAK123
3 ай бұрын
WOMEN ARE CHILDREN.. once you understand this, it will all fall into place.
@goofywill90
3 ай бұрын
Freedom with no responsibilities will do that to a person.
@peopleofearth6250
3 ай бұрын
That's why I'm never getting married.
@knox7945
3 ай бұрын
They are chaotic in nature
@pepicrummer5887
3 ай бұрын
My wife did this. After being ran by through she came crying to me about how unfair life is! I asked her if it was fair how you destroyed our marriage. Why was she upset because? The younger models were on the scene soaking up all the attention. She was 33 but they were 21-25 she could not take it.
@kydelastra
2 ай бұрын
Ladies, if you confuse a meek/humble attitude as weakness, you're fooling yourselves. Every guy thinks they are a badass until they meet one, and a real badass man doesn't parade around acting like one.
@FriedPi-mc5yt
2 ай бұрын
Men can usually spot who the badasses really are. If you are a dude and can’t. You risk a punch in the nose.
@redrustyhill2
Ай бұрын
Speak softly and carry a big stick
@stevemiller1517
Ай бұрын
He also does not telegraph his strike.
@flyingpaladin2712
Ай бұрын
Striking is not typically a dangerous man's first choice.
@redrustyhill2
Ай бұрын
@@flyingpaladin2712 what is first choice?
@meshugganator08
3 ай бұрын
Hoe math is a national treasure
@janerikpe5852
3 ай бұрын
I watch his first video the day he launched.
@chadsensei-ue6jn
3 ай бұрын
No wonder the country's broke.
@Richard-mq7wf
3 ай бұрын
He's an idiot
@StayFractalesque
3 ай бұрын
@@chadsensei-ue6jn ..seethe...
@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387
3 ай бұрын
@@janerikpe5852same
@doctordetroit4339
3 ай бұрын
Peace for men= serenity. Peace for women = boredom.
@MikeKassel-vk7ue
3 ай бұрын
My relative is named Serenity,,and she agrees with you 100%
@mmiYTB
2 ай бұрын
Yeah, I think I saw a video where one woman admitted it was a stupid idea to break up her relationship: "I mistook complacency for boredom."
@pyrhoe
2 ай бұрын
And they absolutely HATE boredom.
@garyaction7106
2 ай бұрын
Exactly !! I need excitement,travel and passion..
@castirondude
2 ай бұрын
I think of peace for men more as productivity. Men like being in a zone where they're productive.
@gregsLyrics
Ай бұрын
I was raised to cherish women, who can give a man the ultimate gift of life in a child, and to provide and absolutely protect the delicate little flower. Pure good guy. What an idiot I was and am. I invested 8 years into a woman of my dreams...she merely waited for the grass is greener on the other side of a new man. My heart was super crushed. Ten years later, I still will never trust a woman again.
@bbb8182
18 күн бұрын
You are in SUCH good company brother. I disagree with your self blame about being naive. We are products of our upbringing and experiences and of how much we knew about the hoe_math involved... I also relied too much on one or two parts of the equation and got burned
@bpprovit
11 күн бұрын
@gregsLyrics if they are unstable in mind, they will not be able to provide stability. If you can discern a stable mind from an unstable one, this can help you chose better relationships. Peace is ultimately found within oneself. If she doesn't know this, that is a huge red flag.
@tempest411
4 күн бұрын
Ah, let me guess. You married an American woman.
@ewan3900
13 сағат бұрын
I totally understand mate. I was raised the same as you.
@nadie2795
3 ай бұрын
Women say 'We are attacked constantly when we leave the house', and of course they get bored at home, go clubbing, and hope the men are dangerous
@SCOTT77100
3 ай бұрын
1) Most of the time if they get bored it's due to guys getting to lax in the relationship or too busy with other priorities. 2) Clubbing--problems are going to happen, it will eventually backfire on her 3) Dangerous men--plain stupidity, you get what you ask for. Women with this thinking will continue to shed tears and be miserable.
@Vazzini42
3 ай бұрын
Women talking about attention may sound like a complaint, but deep down, it's a brag.
@hoppeanofasgard1365
3 ай бұрын
really depends on the women honestly, some are more of the party type than others, some women are perfectly satisfied staying at home and reading a good book watching a romance movie/ series. Other women are intellectually stimulated in which case yea you got to keep them from getting bored so they don't leave, but if they leave they're not leaving to go to a club, they're probably leaving to go talk to another guy, or possibly even a women, on more intellectually stimulating things because you're just to dumb to be interesting to her.
@StimParavane
3 ай бұрын
@@SCOTT77100 Women crave emotional drama.
@jamesdotson1080
3 ай бұрын
@@SCOTT77100 You seem like a "Nice Guy" Scott That's code for chump where women are concerned. How many married women have you bedded who explained this to you?
@StimParavane
3 ай бұрын
Raising little girls to believe they are special is a major contributing factor to all this delusion. But it's done to sell them stuff they don't really need.
@StayFractalesque
3 ай бұрын
..theyre all 10/10, yet need make-up, expensive clothes, invasive surgery, prescribed narcotics, acrylic nails, hair extensions, lip filler, nose jobs, BBLs, high heels, etc, etc, etc..
@davidturner1641
3 ай бұрын
great statement
@Kleyworks
3 ай бұрын
'They' manipulate for multiple purposes, not just money. It's maximising and using up as much as possible.
@Illtechnica
3 ай бұрын
The Princess Syndrome is real. We teach girls they're never wrong, and when they make a mistake it's because someone (mostly boys or men) did something to provoke them to make a bad decision.
@joeprimal2044
3 ай бұрын
Yes. Women are born with value just because they exist. As long as they don’t get fat and are tolerable personality wise they will be pursued. Men on the other hand only have the value they earn.
@chasepeterson1696
2 ай бұрын
The worst part about the guys in creep or ick zone is that they think they're doing what the girl wants. What she says she wants. "I want a nice guy who really cares about me and can open up and share his feelings..." When that guy is nice, when he shows he cares about her, when he opens up to her, the bad boy score plummets and they land in that ick zone.
@johnmachter40
2 ай бұрын
Its a test. Just a test to see if you let your boundaries go and change for her.
@Shyhalu
2 ай бұрын
@@johnmachter40 Its a test to see if you are a lower status man with no options, or if she is the option. At the end of the day, we need to teach wmn to stop lying.
@johnmachter40
2 ай бұрын
@@Shyhalu you cant. Its unconcious testing behaviour. I saw that my whole life in countless occasions. You cant talk logically about that with a woman. Its unconcious testing nature to see if you are the man she searches for.
@danielwebb9188
Ай бұрын
It is what every movie , TV show , romance book tells men to act
@johnmachter40
25 күн бұрын
@@danielwebb9188 yeah, clever way to weed through weak and strong minded guys.
@StimParavane
3 ай бұрын
Women no longer seek a good husband. They want to have a series of relationships because the female ego craves emotional drama.
@zman6513
3 ай бұрын
Correct. I blame liberal (as in our current neo-liberal) society. It caters to women. It’s all about individual empowerment and satisfaction of desire, largely through materialism. It was a different world before deregulation of the sexual marketplace. Then women sought and valued stability. Now they want excitement.
@tactileslut
3 ай бұрын
For most, the State discourages connection by revoking support. If she gets past that, there's a clause allowing collection of spousal benefits associated with multiple deceased husbands. Arsenic and Old Lace, codified.
@zoidberg444
3 ай бұрын
Look at the primary entertainment form marketed for women - the soap opera. Women deny they enjoy or indeed need emotional drama but if they didn't why do millions of them watch that slop?
@shans1986
3 ай бұрын
Women ascend. They are not looking.
@doctordetroit4339
3 ай бұрын
yup...just watch a soap opera....every episode is a marriage or divorce or coma....drama drama drama....
@N3RV001
2 ай бұрын
If a man is attracted to a women and she meets all his needs, he will love her and cherish her, and pour himself into making her life better. If a woman is an attracted to a man and he meets all her needs, she will be bored.
@juliafox52
Ай бұрын
Maybe the younger generations.
@Im1withU
Ай бұрын
LOL funny
@suchislife801
Ай бұрын
This video is proof that when you finally manage to understand women you will no longer be able to like them. Something dies inside of you and there's no going back.
@recoveringsoul755
Ай бұрын
As women get older, we value calm, stable, dependable, consistent behavior. As Young women some amount of excitement and spontaneity was good But when you have kids you realize you no longer want or need that, you want kind, honest, trustworthy. There's enough excitement out in the real world. Too much drama
@suchislife801
Ай бұрын
@@recoveringsoul755 Sure you do, "recovering soul". What else is left to value after you've "run through" everyone else, right?
@Muck006
3 ай бұрын
Women WANT the "handsome/successful man", because ... *OTHER WOMEN WANT HIM!* They want to WIN "the competition for the best man".
@unwokeneuropean3590
3 ай бұрын
After they win they will divorce him. They won, they took his money and they can be free again.
@freeagent.87
2 ай бұрын
It's biology, nothing we can do about it.
@edheldude
2 ай бұрын
Yes, even if they're not compatible.
@SovrinWealth
2 ай бұрын
Yes, I think that is a very accurate assessment of a very high percentage of situations - woman will move heaven and earth to get in front of the line just to be beating off the other females - so it means it's often a competition rather than actually develop a relationship - men, don't ever get lead away from your purpose for a woman...purpose is KING
@nightmareTomek
2 ай бұрын
@@edheldude Well and why doesn't it matter for them if he's not compatible?
@keng528
3 ай бұрын
This guy is off the charts he would make Dr Phil actually shut up great job🎉
@thystaff742
3 ай бұрын
Dr. Simp will just over talk him in not letting him get a word in. Like he always does when someone is winning an argument against him. This is why I don't watch TV, it's garbage.
@skepticalbystander
3 ай бұрын
Makes me want to start spamming Dr Phil's videos telling him he needs to talk to Hoe Math. Dr Phil is a fuckin joke. I'd love to see him have an honest conversation with him.
@eriklarsson3188
3 ай бұрын
@@thystaff742 Well, that's Dr. Simps job. He's also a gate keeper. And you're right. TV is garbage, 100% pure manure and poison.
@NANGSGARAGE
3 ай бұрын
This is why we love social media. We can tune into what we want to watch.
@AngleNeo
2 ай бұрын
Dr Shill is not even a doctor man's an actor 😂😂. Phil need to worry about his hairline instead of other people.
@JayFGrissom
2 ай бұрын
I almost died laughing when you said, “I’d rather have a felon”.😂
@johnbowman3630
Ай бұрын
Hoping you were able to detect her sarcasm there...
@quigglyz
5 күн бұрын
@@johnbowman3630 Yeah, sarcasm. Sure.
@jeremycole3008
3 ай бұрын
This guys presentation should be required high school curriculum
@Muck006
3 ай бұрын
Marriage counselings ...
@jeremycole3008
3 ай бұрын
@@Muck006 if men were made in the image of god, were women in the image of buffoonery ?
@charliedontsurf334
3 ай бұрын
@@Muck006 That hard part there is at that point (I assume you meant post-wedding counseling) that is a day late and a dollar short. High school is where this needs to be taught.
@chamberlain323
3 ай бұрын
That was my overwhelming thought when I encountered this guy’s content on his KZitem channel for the first time. Damn, I wish someone taught me this stuff when I was 18. Instead I had to get friendzoned one time too many and learn the hard way that women don’t really like those qualities, even though they claim to.
@PantsofVance
3 ай бұрын
Yeah right...would instantly be shut down as 'sexist' towards women lmao
@anon4kag
3 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, the "Keeper category" has been so weaponized by the legal system, that marriage is a hard NO for most intelligent men with a sense of self preservation, no matter who the girl is. Marriage is now more like, just deciding who you are eventually going pay alimony to.
@hoppeanofasgard1365
3 ай бұрын
Yes and no, I think as men we always need to be on look out for the perfect women that wouldn't divorce us. in today's age though that's complicated because not only do you need to make sure you match up in every way possible and you love each other, and you're vibing in multiple different situations, you also have to make sure your women is not one to be swayed easily by societal pressures because the easier that society can change and influence her, the more likely she will change and grow out of the relationship. So basically if you're looking to get married you need to also put close to the top of the criteria of what constitutes a keeper, a woman that's intelligent and individualistic.
@anon4kag
3 ай бұрын
@@hoppeanofasgard1365 Sounds good in theory, but reality is a fickle beast.
@langhamp8912
3 ай бұрын
@@hoppeanofasgard1365 Statistically, marriage is a terrible choice for men. While men might think they can choose wisely and correctly, statistically men are more likely to choose wrong than choose right. One would not fly in an airplane that has a greater than even chance of crashing but men choose marriage and the subsequent divorce all the time.
@geobloxmodels1186
3 ай бұрын
I was married for 20 years the first time, and the second time it was over in a few weeks. I gave up on it all. Now every ten years I just pick a woman I hate and buy her a house.
@langhamp8912
3 ай бұрын
@@geobloxmodels1186 That's why I don't give them my real name.
@SusanMelson-kk6ll
2 ай бұрын
If you are not in the financial market space right now, you are making a huge mistake. I understand that it could be due to ignorance, but if you want to make your money work for you...prevent inflation and invest.
@doodee2392
2 ай бұрын
Honestly I really need help learning to trade. Seeing my portfolio low makes me very sad
@doodee2392
2 ай бұрын
Just bought $1k Ethereum and $5k bitcoin with the recent dump in crypto I was told it's the right time to buy and get ready for a skyrocket
@roselineonyeka6023
2 ай бұрын
You're right forex trading is surely a lucrative way to invest whether you want growth, leverage, stable income or something in between.
@HarrisonKelly-rs6is
2 ай бұрын
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@jonathanmorgan4803
2 ай бұрын
I started so little withjust $2,500 because I was skepticalabout investing,but fortunately now Iregret not starting big
@gregorylay3333
2 ай бұрын
Women can't tell which men have the greatest capability to be dangerous towards threats. Most of the men I know who are capable of defending themselves and others, capable of the most violence, are the most gentle and peaceful under normal circumstances. They tend to avoid conflict when possible and will seek to de-escalate the situation.
@johnmachter40
2 ай бұрын
So... Are those men you describe the types that have women left and right flocking to them?
@jimmyharris135
2 ай бұрын
better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war
@donniedonnie639
2 ай бұрын
Many seem to require drama to feel important. I can't help but wonder what kind of people (and society) we would all be with the absence of modern entertainment and news amplifying all of the negative and reckless human behavior in existence. Many of those things grew exponentially and now have a huge following while many positive behaviors are being shunned and attacked.
@kilabug94
2 ай бұрын
@@donniedonnie639 a.k.a. boring.
@donniedonnie639
2 ай бұрын
@@kilabug94 how can you be bored by the absence of something you didn't know existed? Existing in a garbage dump of useless and manipulative information that has made its way into the fabric of society isn't my idea of excitement or something to keep me from being bored. People's sense of realistic expectations has been mangled and warped by the modern world.
@LibertyWolf1
3 ай бұрын
I've boiled down modern female dating preferences to this simple statement. Women will choose any given man by how much jealousy he engenders in her known female groupings.
@kristianlavigne8270
3 ай бұрын
💯 😂🎉😅
@Turshin
3 ай бұрын
💯
@SubvertTheState
2 ай бұрын
This is literally true. I know there are laugh emojis but my sister told me straight up. She makes her financial decisions emotionally, and the things she chooses are the things she thinks other women will be jealous of. This kind of chaotic and constant hostility makes no sense to me.
@JakkFrost1
2 ай бұрын
It's commonly known that wpmen will generally show more interest in men that other wpmen want.
@pong9000
2 ай бұрын
In high school I had a crazy ex from another school stalking me to knock on the classroom door and plead we talk in the hall. Two girls in the class I'd never spoken to just handed me their phone numbers - one seconds later at my desk and the other after the bell rang. Later in life as a contractor I leaned that jealousy between female clients would create drama, but also gild my work no matter what. Selecting men on basis of popularity is guaranteed to keep women in a bubble of mediocre lady's men.
@edwo6648
3 ай бұрын
"Men don't understand Women, Women understand women and they hate each other" A Bundy
@Kleyworks
3 ай бұрын
Stop copy pasting this quote already. Its old and Al aint no hero or role model... pff
@craigpeet657
3 ай бұрын
@Kleyworks But what if it's the truth? Old or not.
@edwo6648
3 ай бұрын
@@Kleyworks Funny I typed it out from memory. Don't hate the truth, embrace it.
@Kleyworks
3 ай бұрын
@@edwo6648 Sorry mate... The quote is doing its round a lot together with warm memories of Al making 4 deciding touchdowns for the cup or whatever - whatever..
@jwarrior9986
3 ай бұрын
I'm thinking men are starting to understand women...and now that they do, they are walking off.
@emergentform1188
Ай бұрын
It's very disturbing how women don't much value kindness and compassion. Many see it as weakness and are repulsed by it. That's seriously messed up.
@sal78sal
Ай бұрын
its biological. survival of the species.
@antonmaier5172
3 ай бұрын
And that is why most men have completely checked out ...
@LaborHours
3 ай бұрын
And the more that men check out, the better it is for the men that don't.
@sala9324
3 ай бұрын
This isn't natural. This was done on purpose. The destruction of the nuclear family in Western Civilization was done on purpose. Start with the law. The law DESTROYS men in divorce. Next, is government becomes the surrogate man by providing monetary benefits. Next, is cultural - "strong independent" women don't need no man. And now women are going crazy with depression. And Western Civilization is collapsing - Depopulation Bomb. All on purpose. It's just that most normies are too dumb to realize what's going on.
@MrAbeAllen
2 ай бұрын
When men check out.. I bet it improves their bad boy score. Haha. Like how people say “when you stop looking for love it can find you.”
@Volkbrecht
2 ай бұрын
@@LaborHours Not really. This works only for the guys that don't fall in the "no people" zone (if you haven't already, check out hoe_maths charts, that stuff is fun :) ). Just being available isn't enough, you still have to be attractive measured by current standards of success and hotness.
@spanishmonkey8366
2 ай бұрын
And the men that don't check out either die miserable and full of regrets and a crap ton of debt@@LaborHours
@frant1cOne
3 ай бұрын
80% of men fall into that ghost zone... Just ignored.
@francisdashwood1760
2 ай бұрын
I don't think that 80% are in the ghost zone, but 80% are considered to be ''mid'' or even below average! Which means that a lot of women end up settling! The % in the ghost zone is roughly equal to the % of men who never get laid or if they do get laid it's with prostitutes. Perhaps 50% are ghosts???
@randomanon7040
2 ай бұрын
Hoe_math explores this in great detail on other videos.
@manfredschmalbach9023
2 ай бұрын
@@randomanon7040 He calls 'em "not people".
@nightmareTomek
2 ай бұрын
You gotta learn to install yourself in the ghost zone and be comfortable.
@benturney5767
2 ай бұрын
10% maybe and you can change that
@westernartifact4163
2 ай бұрын
Walking away from women is not the biggest slap to women. Finding a woman that’s less conventionally attractive, but pure in heart is the biggest FU to the system.
@Lina_Antoniou
Ай бұрын
Indeed, as far as it goes for women who don't respect themselves. If the woman respects herself, any male resistance one way or the other is futile.
@fi2ks
2 ай бұрын
“Know women, no peace” ;”no women, know peace”
@williamkirby3552
2 ай бұрын
I’m nominating you for a Nobel Prize.
@louisrobitaille5810
2 ай бұрын
I'm stealing this.
@frankpaulson3202
2 ай бұрын
@@louisrobitaille5810That's a play on "No Jesus, no peace. Know Jesus, know peace." Nevertheless, it's a witty variant. 😊
@A.J.Dubs26
2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@wej0w
2 ай бұрын
Nice. I always interpreted 'Bob Marley's - No women no cry' litterally as in no women no crying from them as a joke. This made me think of that
@AB-ez4rm
3 ай бұрын
If a man approaches a woman and she views him as a creep, it's harassment. If she views the man as a bad boy, it's a come-on.
@meadowbyastream
2 ай бұрын
It's not that she doesn't want to be cat called; it's that she doesn't want to be cat called by YOU. (pejorative you...)
@MG007.
2 ай бұрын
And that's why those fools end up alone and used 😂
@Jeremy-ql1or
2 ай бұрын
@@meadowbyastream Also, she doesn't want to see other girls get cat called if she isn't being cat called.
@A.J.Dubs26
2 ай бұрын
@@meadowbyastreamThat's it! She only wants CERTAIN men to ogle her..😂
@darkma1ice
2 ай бұрын
@@Jeremy-ql1orand she’ll complain about being catcalled because it tells women she gets catcalled
@SimpleTruth1309
2 ай бұрын
At first, as captain of the wrestling team, I was getting lots of attention from my girlfriend’s friends, until she told them that I was “harmless”. After they heard that, they were no longer interested in me. I didn’t understand it at 17 years old, but women in college taught me that being too honest and considerate was looked down upon as weak by the ladies. Good life lesson.
@cubiczirconiabeard5366
18 күн бұрын
it's looked as weakness EVERYWHERE !
@YeOldeBag
11 күн бұрын
As another comment eloquently put, replacing this relationship negotiation with civilization, this so called “weakness”, is what is informing upon the collapse as a whole. And to reference another well put comment, having see and understand this metric I am speaking of, will not and has not made a difference of a valuable magnitude. Why? Because of the same reason that the Uber customer woman in hoe maths car… childish refusal to integrate the truth.
@EvilHandyman
3 ай бұрын
I love how you admitted that women don't know what's best for them. That's 100% true, and it leads to disaster.
@FergusHodgson
3 ай бұрын
They seem to be their own worst enemies.
@Vade1313
3 ай бұрын
and they vote on feelings
@johnmorelli3775
3 ай бұрын
That was my conclusion after 20 years of dating.
@scottverge938
3 ай бұрын
Don't ever say that to a woman, she'll lose her mind.
@hoppeanofasgard1365
3 ай бұрын
@@Vade1313 hmmmm, makes you wonder why we ever gave them the vote to begin with. Maybe our forefathers knew best and only men should have had that right.....
@st44455
3 ай бұрын
When I first saw this chart it was like scales falling from the eyes. Every past relationship came into crystal clear cringe worthy focus.
@Hynotama
2 ай бұрын
And now you know why women weren’t voting and why the father was choosing her husband.
@mattbeckelhymer1669
Ай бұрын
Exactly
@TheFimbullord
3 ай бұрын
51 years old, lifelong bachelor. Marriage is a joke. I quickly learned that in my mid twenties, when starting my management career. Women were willing to sleep with me regardless if they were involved/married or not. It disgusted me and caused me to shun commitment entirely as there was no loyalty or honor among the women in the workforce, at least in my experience. I was the bad/good mix but went all bad by my early thirties. That was back in the mid nineties. Sodom and Gomorrah 2.0 right now. It is so sad to see society collapse so readily.
@nelsonmcgee3545
3 ай бұрын
Same here brother same here my friend you and me the same.
@overtonwindowmannukesrlame5581
3 ай бұрын
Total degeneration.
@georgesontag2192
3 ай бұрын
Divorce court for a man with children is very difficult to describe. As an example, the judge said for me to sign my house over to her using a quick claim deed. If I refused to sign, the judge said she would sign my name. No wonder men refuse marriage. The internet is showing men how bad it is.
@scottverge938
3 ай бұрын
I feel like I hear the same story from any man that's really good with getting women. They've been with a decent amount of them and some of them are married or in a relationship and don't even tell the player until after. And it totally sours the player on women in general. One thing I'd offer, is that maybe it's not that all women are like that but the women that respond to a bad boy player type while in a relationship obviously are.
@themick6586
3 ай бұрын
@@scottverge938but as we see from hoe math the majority of women want the bad boy, it has been estimated that only 5% of women are really marriage materal, the long odds of finding the few that are suitable makes it worse than the casino. And many of the ones that would make good wives are not the lookers that men would like. If you get a ugly fat woman she will have less options, and thus is more likely to behave, and less likely to have an entitled attitude.
@orangeandslinky
3 ай бұрын
"A woman has the RIGHT to change her mind, about anything, at any time, for any reason, as many times as she wants to." //// I Heard this when I was a kid. I didn't believe ALL women were this way. I was wrong. Can you make a deal (covenant) with this kind of person? Of course not.
@city_of_coompton6832
3 ай бұрын
I'd just reply "the right to change your mind doesn't mean you won't have to deal with the consequences of changing your mind..."
@ST-TV
3 ай бұрын
Making a deal with an entity like that only made sense when you had outside factors that made it very difficult for said entity to act on those mood swings. Now all of that is gone and with it goes the concept of marriage.
@StayFractalesque
3 ай бұрын
Listen Bros, you wouldnt sign a contract with any other stranger or family for that matter where they get all sorts of your hard earned cash and prizes just because they change their mind.. there is literally no reason to get married, ever.. if she wants to be mad about it, she can go protest with her vagina hat and tits out on capital hill to remove no-fault divorce laws.. oh, and DNA test at birth, no exceptions
@independentaquaman7424
3 ай бұрын
@@city_of_coompton6832 Except that when you reply that way it means that you are hateful and therefore dangerous. Yes, that's what it means to those women.
@georgesontag2192
3 ай бұрын
She gets a house, land, alimony when she changes her mind. It's an easy decesion for her. That's why they do it.
@mesv3567
2 ай бұрын
Hoe-math is a genius and he deserves every bit of attention and recognition he's getting, he's the best doing easy and comprensible charts to understand social aspects of our society and culture.
@Shyhalu
2 ай бұрын
No he isn't, dude picked up a 304 that is eventually going to destroy him.
@billable1861
2 ай бұрын
@@Shyhaluwhat’s a 304
@Shyhalu
2 ай бұрын
@@billable1861 Google it.
@recoveringsoul755
Ай бұрын
His success in dating seems to be based on a man being able to get laid. Not necessarily men who would be good marriage material
@Shyhalu
Ай бұрын
@@recoveringsoul755 Correct, a man who is marriage material is "success" for wmn, not men.
@skywalkershaun1
2 ай бұрын
Lol, those “dangerous” bad boys won’t protect anyone. I knew a girl back in the day that put me in the friend zone. When someone broke into her home her “bad boy” boyfriend was telling her to lock the door and call the police. That’s usually a 30 minute wait time. She called me as I was 2 blocks away. I was there in about 5 minutes and armed. Cleared the house, and saw the intruder must have bailed though the kitchen window. This guy tried telling me I was stupid because that’s the police’s job and I could have been hurt. She stayed with him for another 6 months and bailed for an equally “bad boy”. I have since gotten married to a woman that doesn’t do this crap, and we’ve been together for 14 years.
@russelljimmies9293
2 ай бұрын
I've gotta say. That's not how I wanted that story to end. Still, glad to hear you found one met your criteria and who could appreciate the qualities in you the friend zone girl couldn't.
@johnmachter40
2 ай бұрын
Spektor, thats not how it works. Badboy has just give a girl the projection, the image of a badboy. She doesnt care about logic, only how good the emotional rollercoaster with this badboy she'll get.
@davidson46100
2 ай бұрын
@@russelljimmies9293 The movie ending is his getting the girl. The best ending is him getting the WOMAN.
@arib515
2 ай бұрын
Never put yourself in harms way for a woman that is not your GF, wife or family.
@gistfilm
2 ай бұрын
When she called for help, probably should have said, "you're not my hoe" and ended the call.
@piobmhor8529
3 ай бұрын
This guy reminds me of an old boss of mine. He was a great guy, a few decades older than me and lived a rather wild life in his youth. He had a great way of explaining his experiences with female nature, rather cynically at times but was brutally honest. He described “the wall”, how women were born rich but become poor whereas men are born poor and become rich, the hot/crazy matrix, golddigging etc. but never used charts. This all came from personal experiences. He gave me the kind of advice most young men need to hear, but seldom ever get. He’s in his 80s now and I still see him as often as I can.
@shans1986
3 ай бұрын
Women are born rich and with age, become richer in spirit.
@poopingwhilestanding5801
3 ай бұрын
@@shans1986Lol.... yeah, sure thing sweetheart
@terraflow__bryanburdo4547
3 ай бұрын
@@shans1986Or cats.
@scottverge938
3 ай бұрын
God I wish we had all been taught lesson.
@tdrive398
2 ай бұрын
As is true with human nature, you don't tend to appreciate that which you didn't WORK for (like when daddy buys you a new Camaro for your 'sweet16', vs saving from your after-school job to buy your first clunker). Females are BORN with value- most don't appreciate this and thus waste it. Males must WORK for their value. They not only appreciate it but are righteously angry when a female uses the courts to steal much of the value he worked for for "no fault" reasons after he invested in her.
@emergentform1188
Ай бұрын
The more I learn about female psychology the more horrified and turned off I am.
@TwoBassed
2 ай бұрын
What I’ve noticed over the years is once a relationship starts the women will start to ‘change’ their man, different clothes, different hairstyle, different car, different ‘hangouts’, different friends, then after a time of their choosing they dump them because ‘they’re no longer the person they fell in love with’!
@jasonmarchant4525
2 ай бұрын
haha, there was a comic strip about that once. They make then changes to mate gourd but then the changes make them lose attraction to their man
@grouchy88
2 ай бұрын
Oxymoron 11/10 👌
@czarchy8
2 ай бұрын
So true. Classic!!
@thefantasticjway5681
2 ай бұрын
The answer to that is not let that happen. It's so important that you keep your own identity
@HenshinFanatic
2 ай бұрын
@@grouchy88 well, some kind of moron at least.
@jamesclark6427
3 ай бұрын
At some point, probably in the 1960s, all of the universal knowledge women used to have about picking men was lost and no longer passed on. My mom was born in 1940. She had it. When she was a teenager in the 1950s, her mom and the other women in her family taught her you never go after the boys all the other girls are chasing, because they'll just use you and throw you away. She said it like everyone knew that and it was just common sense. But that's no longer known. It appears there is no instruction being given to women at all now. Maybe not to anyone. Which explains a lot.
@beowulf_of_wall_st
3 ай бұрын
thery never had that knowledge they just stopped paying attention to the men in their families
@breakingthemasks
3 ай бұрын
The difference was that ... Get this... Girls *like... Being used... As king as the guy is a real chad. Its not a "mistake" per se... Its a willing choice, and one they are thrilled to make. It just so happens that this choice has some monumentally negative consequences.
@patrickday4206
2 ай бұрын
you mean right at the same time as mothers entered the work place??? and the free love/sex generation happened
@jamesclark6427
2 ай бұрын
@@patrickday4206 Probably a correlation. Although women were always in the workplace. My mom grew up with no father, because he was killed fighting the Germans in France in 1945. My grandmother had to work on the assembly line at General Electric in Philadelphia, which she did for many years until the late 1970s. But community hadn't been completely destroyed in those days as it has now. So my mom had her entire extended family all in the same small neighborhood growing up. Everyone looked out for her too, because her father was a war hero and that was well respected then. It was an entirely different world. The way that time is now generally perceived is grossly inaccurate too. Women being driven into the workplace en masse to serve as tax cattle was a deliberately engineered operation.
@patrickday4206
2 ай бұрын
@@jamesclark6427 some say the government encouraged it to increase tax revenue
@TheDWZemke
26 күн бұрын
Lol do not forget after a guy gets married the woman has another list of rules that was never talked about
@amahana6188
19 күн бұрын
Understatement of the Year
@WoodbabyCYL
19 күн бұрын
Yupp
@jozillagorilla1263
3 ай бұрын
The other 4 women are all thinking the same thing. They all think they'll be the one.
@hoppeanofasgard1365
3 ай бұрын
Yep!, that's how it works, and that's why they'll put up with harems, which while most guys love that kind of situation, they rarely if ever understand the dynamics at play because they know damn well if the situation was reversed they'd be disgusted, but guys are not women. totally different mindset.
@chriswhinery925
3 ай бұрын
Every woman thinks her vagina is magic and will convince the man that he only needs her forever.
@StayFractalesque
3 ай бұрын
@@hoppeanofasgard1365 ..whats more disgusting.. dipping a chip in the community guacamole, then trying the salsa, then, oh, is that chipotle?.. Or, being the side dish that every man in the party is dipping his fingers into... Exactly.
@davidturner1641
3 ай бұрын
probably two of them have agreed two share him.... they will remain his sleepers for life if he gives them what they want
@hainleysimpson1507
2 ай бұрын
The side dish everybody puts their fingers in. Way more viruses.@@StayFractalesque
@franksalidivar7342
3 ай бұрын
Hoe Math is HILARIOUSLY Truthful....Been watching that guy for awhile....
@davidmerrell1163
2 ай бұрын
I'm surprised Women haven't cancelled Hoe math yet, calling him misogynistic for exposing their idiocy.
@ToreDL87
Ай бұрын
Why would they want 304 math cancelled and prove him right?
@davidmerrell1163
Ай бұрын
@@ToreDL87 Because they don;t take any responsibility for their upside down logic, they just deny and deflect, and make it go away. Cancel culture.
@MarshallLloyd
3 ай бұрын
Wow, your reaction is amazing! No deflection, no denial, no rationalization, and totally open minded regarding logic. You did have a good dad. Kudos to you.
@AbrahamKingston
3 ай бұрын
There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all unique. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've learned that there's always a way to solve problems. Five years back, my wife and I were almost divorcing because we had problems in our marriage, but we managed to work things out. It was a hard time, but we got past it.
@GodfreyKelz
3 ай бұрын
I honestly want to be happy too. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart, I can't imagine my life without her; my love for her is strong. I really want her to come back, and I'm fully dedicated to making that happen. We've tried different paths, like therapy, to fix things.
@AbrahamKingston
3 ай бұрын
Moving on from someone you hold dear is invariably challenging, but in my experience, I was guided by a spiritual counselor who prevented the breakdown of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
@GodfreyKelz
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this advice. I'll promptly start searching for her online. I appreciate it. I'm optimistic that pursuing this approach will also lead to favorable outcomes for me; her absence weighs heavily on me.
@AbrahamKingston
3 ай бұрын
Welcome... You should..
@Stormspinner
3 ай бұрын
This seems like an AI-bot comment... it's not touching the actual topic. And there's another comment here almost identical.
@detch01
2 ай бұрын
From the perspective of a 65 year old man who's seen the elephant a time or two: What men want from women is respect, affection, a partnership in goals and a respite from the outside world; What women want is to be seen by their sisters as having a higher status than their sisters. The feminist movement has consistently claimed that men "objectify" women, when the opposite is actually true - women objectify men based on what they have and how that places them in the hierarchy of the twisted sisterhood. Men mature with time. Women get old.
@westa1762
Ай бұрын
OLD!
@captainwheelbarrow649
Ай бұрын
Yeah if a woman thinks that other women also want a certain guy that makes him more desirable in her eyes, as getting him would validate her and raise her status among other women. They want other women to be jealous of what they have. Guys just don't think like that. I don't want other guys to be jealous of me and try to steal my girl all the time, that's just a hassle.
@mrbabyhugh
3 ай бұрын
0:01 women do not know what they want, they go off how the person makes them FEEL. once you are able to spark her emotions, you got her. this why women say, i didn't feel "energy", "spark" or whatever. also note, many times after a break up she says "i dont know what i SAW in him, he is normally not the type of guy I would date". she dont have a type, she just feels she does based on fairytale stories but her EMOTIONS will ALWAYS guide her actions. that guy made her FEEL something and she got attracted to him, simple.
@chiari4833
Ай бұрын
Yep, when you can't outgrow adolelecense things like that happen... This is why most women don't make good leaders, it's not hpw they are built(although this is true for some men too, to a lesser degree)
@AlexandriPatris
3 ай бұрын
As an extreme introvert with a low 'bad boy' score, I'd rather be a 'ghost' than a 'creep' or an 'ick'.
@hoppeanofasgard1365
3 ай бұрын
I'm moderately introverted myself, want to know how I overcame this limitation with women? I dressed in ways that got their attention and worked out. I never could overcome not being the life of the party personality, around to many people I get quiet and my thoughts go more inward, I just don't have that kind of charisma either, but it didn't matter when I looked masculine and always kept up with the fashion trends that women find hot. Try it, I can't guarantee it'll work for you but what do have to lose!
@AlexandriPatris
3 ай бұрын
Changing my appearance to simultaneously be more masculine and 'fashionable' would just be an act and way outside of my comfort zone. I'd rather be myself, comfortable and alone than fake and uncomfortable (and still alone, more likely than not).
@hoppeanofasgard1365
3 ай бұрын
@@AlexandriPatris Well you kind of have to let it become you. I'll admit when I started working out I liked it, and I think that's a big part of it too. But you're probably right, if you don't enjoy working out a women might detect that you're not being yourself and that can work against you almost as much as a more muscular physique is working for you. As far as keeping up with fashion trends though, honestly it's neither here nor there for me, I don't not like it but I don't particular enjoy wearing all of these hot in style clothes either. If really pressed on the issue I probably would just say I'd like to just wear a t shirt and blue jeans and call it a day lol, but somehow it works, but I make it work too. But it's up to you, my only advice is sometimes maybe we have to step outside our comfort zones just a little bit to get what we want. But that's just what I found works maybe there's other ways. Good luck in anycase!
@chrisharris6462
3 ай бұрын
If you own your creepiness and ickiness you will transform through it and become better. We are all capable of being creepy. And capable of excepting it.
@LordMalice6d9
2 ай бұрын
@@hoppeanofasgard1365I changed my dress routine as well, and I noticed a bit more attention, not just from women, but from men as well.
@robertandersson3417
2 ай бұрын
Problem is that the extremely high value men don't need to pick ever. They can just have a harem for the rest of their life.
@treeamigo8447
2 ай бұрын
Why is that a problem? Unless you are broke.
@faismasterx
2 ай бұрын
@@treeamigo8447 The problem is for the other 98-99% of men.
@christerjakobsen8107
11 күн бұрын
@@treeamigo8447 It becomes a problem once the vast majority of men decide to no longer contribute to civilization.
@Bandanko
7 күн бұрын
like Elon you mean? how many baby momma's?
@quigglyz
5 күн бұрын
@@treeamigo8447 You're not extremely high value. You never will be.
@mariofierro9994
2 ай бұрын
Women size up how tough men are very poorly, they don't choose the guy who can defend them from the bad guy, they choose the guy they need to be defended from. The men who are actually tough don't need to act like animals, they look the "dangerous" men in the eyes and the "dangerous" men just know that he isn't acting like they are and they fear it.
@ashr8801
2 ай бұрын
Bro… yes. This is so accurate.
@JonRaybon
2 ай бұрын
Truth, women would choose the criminal over a cop most times, even if the criminal himself fears the cop.
@blackjohn9240
2 ай бұрын
Yes sir
@jeremiahstone5285
2 ай бұрын
On the same lines, I've found they will attribute a loud, boisterous and or obnoxious guy as having alpha male traits, but someone truly confident and strong doesn't feel the need to make all that noise to prove themself
@MandySweiss
2 ай бұрын
In conclusion: most of them are stupid😂
@Oldhogleg
3 ай бұрын
Interesting analysis. The fundamental difference is that men assess things logically like an adult while women assess things whimsically like a child.
@FarfromEden
3 ай бұрын
Agree
@hoppeanofasgard1365
3 ай бұрын
I've come to this conclusion too, but it took me years to come that understanding because growing up we are taught women mature faster than guys and are the ones with the more level heads as a result of that maturity.
@drstrangelove4998
3 ай бұрын
Women, not all, but most don’t even know what they are going to think from one day to the next. They are not logical but ‘emotional thinkers’ controlled by their hormones. It’s their tragedy, and in a way, men’s too. 🙄
@aretwodeetoo1181
3 ай бұрын
@@hoppeanofasgard1365 Both things are true. In almost all animals with some exceptions (like pandas due to extreme malnutrition) the most developed are born less mature, less independent and mature slower, but they mature further. In contrast others reach "adult" state faster but develop no further.
@chadsensei-ue6jn
3 ай бұрын
Yeah, misogyny is just sooooo logical.
@nathanmorgan3647
2 ай бұрын
The more I learn about women, the less I want one.
@redpillcoach1855
2 ай бұрын
Unfortunately it doesn't get better as you make more observations.
@breesechick
2 ай бұрын
Not all of us are bad. I'm single because I've being more discerning of who I even have as friends etc let alone a future husband.
@billable1861
2 ай бұрын
@@breesechickthat’s what you know we want you to say 😂
@Gooch072
2 ай бұрын
You nailed it. If a woman has a relationship with her father, she looks less for bad boy traits.
@clownshow5901
2 ай бұрын
which is why so many women today only go for the bad boy - they come from single-mother homes.
@thebunker6350
2 ай бұрын
Not true at all, they just have to be more secret about it
@andremiller9919
2 ай бұрын
@@thebunker6350true
@MisterSoThrowed
2 ай бұрын
She’s probably cappin. I’m sure she got turned out by bad boys in college.
@lilaschwarz1236
Ай бұрын
Depends on how her father acts with he rmother.
@Alazar654
3 ай бұрын
Its good to see so many men waking up to what's going on. I remember a time when I was always called an incel just for speaking about this information, but now men see it too. Good job men. 👍
@Malinkadink
3 ай бұрын
My sister's friend called me an incel lol, I'm more voluntarily celibate because I'm no longer a teenager/young 20 year old with nothing to lose. I told my mother if I get married I'm putting my assets in a trust with her.
@TooCoolToCare32
2 ай бұрын
That "galaxy" section is why women initiate most divorces and breakups. Just crazy!
@lepotdefleur9906
3 ай бұрын
The mistake zone is where she regrets what she has done and the guy end up in court. edit which , ironically, will make him more attractive to certain women.
@ST-TV
3 ай бұрын
I agree. The mistake is the bad boy she doesn't want back.
@hoppeanofasgard1365
3 ай бұрын
LMAO, so sad but true!
@paulofaquin
2 ай бұрын
Happiness for men = satisfaction. Happiness for women = excitement.
@glennhecker4422
2 ай бұрын
"Excitement"... or DRAMA.
@bastil5856
2 ай бұрын
@@glennhecker4422 Drama equals excitement though, just not usually of a positive kind.
@stars2oo5
2 ай бұрын
So are men serotonin and women dopamine driven?
@Bialy_1
2 ай бұрын
@@stars2oo5 Funy how you guys trying hard to forget everything that was presented here by limiting everything to one sentence that is literally more false than right when you look at things this "tunel vision" way... To make it right you would need to make even wider generalization and simply say that MAN wants good wife that knows how to give him healthy and good looking kids that she then will be able to raise and woman want a man that will be able to fight and provide for her and her kids.
@HenshinFanatic
2 ай бұрын
Happiness doesn't exist though.
@refuztosay9454
2 ай бұрын
Young dudes need to put 100% of their focus on: skills/education/career, physical fitness, defensive skills. Leave the chicks alone until you have mastered yourself. When you have your game together - your confidence will be there and your value will there. These things will attract the women you want to consider.
@Lina_Antoniou
Ай бұрын
Except this is not up to men. If a woman respects herself, she can drag in any man she wants. Because first of all she knows what she wants so she renders this video completely irrelevant, and secondly men are actually the weaker gender. Hell, we even attract men we 're not interested in.
@paulcoonce2493
Ай бұрын
I went that route but by the time I was successful, most all had children and baggage from broken families and past relationships. Just stayed single for many decades.
@Lina_Antoniou
Ай бұрын
Not sure why my response here got censored. I don't need a man with particular physical and defensive capabilities, what is so bad about saying this?
@leonniceday6807
10 күн бұрын
The irony is that wise men don't want women that you have to work so hard to get them. Especially since there's no guarantee of loyalty.
@Lina_Antoniou
10 күн бұрын
@@leonniceday6807 1)Are there wise men? I have yet to meet one. 2)A woman is not property for a man to "get" her. The woman gets the man if anything. 3)Your complaint on "no guarantee of loyalty" just goes to show you 're hopeless at finding your mistakes. Stop acting as if you were infallible, most likely you yourself are the reason for that "no guarantee of loyalty".
@joekahno
3 ай бұрын
You are very open about the influence your father and your faith have had on you. Over the last fifty years we have had two generations where more than half have some experience living in a single parent household. We're talking about the clueless raising the clueless. Add the influence of feminism over the same time frame and you have the toxic indoctrinating the clueless.
@lepotdefleur9906
3 ай бұрын
Even worse, the wants/needs change in the month, depending if she is seeking lust more(ovulating) , understanding ( the raging time) or security ( the rest of the month), not counting the effects of the pill does to their cycle/mood/body, if applicable . Yeah I m a guy so ...take it that as an observed generalization with my late mother, sister, friends and coworkers. edit or as some people would say: an anecdote.
@darceymillar4270
2 ай бұрын
All men require of their lady is 1. A peaceful home 2. Respect 3. Acknowledgement
The best qualities are low self-esteem another good one is paternal issues but nonverbal is divine.
@SinisterReality
Ай бұрын
@@mikeyoung490thats part of acknowledgement
@oopsdidItypethatoutloud
3 ай бұрын
Check out a book called "The manipulated man" by Esther Vilar A 1970... or 60s anti femanist woman ❤ from Northeast England ❤️
@pabloramos369
3 ай бұрын
Great book! An eye opener. I read it in my childhood/early teen and along hearing my mother, teacher and principal of a girls school, so fed up about other XXs made me a red pilled guy decades before that was actually a term.
@stayfree6115
3 ай бұрын
Also the predatory female.
@ms-jl6dl
3 ай бұрын
1971. Good book.
@oopsdidItypethatoutloud
3 ай бұрын
@ms-jl6dl I was going to say I need to revisit it. But it'd actually be visit it as I've only breezed through parts... I need to take my own advice
@calvinhobbes6118
2 ай бұрын
I thought she was German.
@mo-sy9ws
2 ай бұрын
That's why us ladies must keep our value as high as possible. Not sleep around. My mom said to me- "be the kind of woman for the kind of man you want". My kind of man wanted a good girl, a friendly and feminine girl and a hard working girl. He had to marry me to get all of me. Will recommend the same path for our daughter.
@chaoslimits
2 ай бұрын
You’re running away from the real problem. Vetting a trustworthy man results in long term success; artificially holding back before marriage is an easy way to be single into your 40s.
@jeremyeblack4987
2 ай бұрын
That's right. Men want virginal women. Women want men with all kinds of sexual experience. Prostitution should be legal. That way men can get the sex they need while the women can remain the type of women they can respect. Also, men can legally get the sex that his wife can't or won't give them without cheating. It's a win win.
@jeremyeblack4987
2 ай бұрын
That's right. Men want virginal women. Women want men with all kinds of sexual experience. Prostitution should be legal. That way men can get the sex they need while the women can remain the type of women they can respect. Also, men can legally get the sex that his wife can't or won't give them without cheating. It's a win win.
@jeremyeblack4987
2 ай бұрын
That's right. Men want virginal women. Women want men with all kinds of sexual experience. Prostitution should be legal. That way men can get the sex they need while the women can remain the type of women they can respect. Also, men can legally get the sex that his wife can't or won't give them without cheating. It's a win win.
@jeremyeblack4987
2 ай бұрын
That's right. Men want virginal women. Women want men with all kinds of sexual experience. Prostitution should be legal. That way men can get the sex they need while the women can remain the type of women they can respect. Also, men can legally get the sex that his wife can't or won't give them without cheating. It's a win win.
@jtwood4925
2 ай бұрын
When I first started working after college a couple of my female co workers took golf lessons thinking a future guy would like them if they knew how to play. At a happy hour I told them guys play golf to get away from women [thats why men's only clubs were formed] and they thought I was an idiot. Thats something that goes in the cabinet. About 7 years ago my wife's female co workers signed up for motorcycle lessons at the Fort Lauderdale Harley Davidson dealership. They all thought it would be cool to learn and then they could ride bikes with their boyfriends [some husbands]. Guy s either do this to get away or show off their lady on the back. This is a negative in the cabinet. Every 24 to 36 months my wife tells me something nutty women are going to attract guys,
@johnkauppi7078
3 ай бұрын
When I was in my late teens to mid twenties I had no trouble attracting women as I was a fit, good looking guy. But I was poor and next to broke even though I always worked. I slept with many of them but failed in relationships. Women said I was too nice or didn't make enough money. I am a good, kind, thoughtful, caring guy by nature. So it's hard to be the non-caring asshole that women become attached to. I know guys who treat their women like crap and the woman stays and puts up with it. Experience in life made me change tact. I kind of stopped caring about what women want and became selfish and aloof. A bit of an asshole. And next thing I know I've got a beautiful girl that I can't get rid of. I married her. Women's thinking and way of operating is so strange to men, it's almost like they are from another planet.
@jamesdotson1080
3 ай бұрын
My story is very similar. Classic nice guy. Grew up on a farm. Athlete. Always helped the neighbors or anybody else who needed it. Got cheated on by my first serious girlfriend and it broke my heart and my faith in women and to a lesser extent humanity. I swore off relationships. Learned some cold approach tricks from some of my older cousins and became a player. By the time I was in my mid twenties was keeping a rotation of 3 or 4 women that I would "date". If I met a new girl who really caught my attention I would ditch one of the others. Then I met the woman who got me to give up the other women and I married her. We just had our 30 year anniversary recently and to this day she says I am the biggest jerk she ever met. My wife got to see that the good guy, at least some of him was still inside me. The simple fact is that a man just cannot afford to show weakness to a woman before she has been imprinted by him and he knows she is a decent person herself.
@storm2945
2 ай бұрын
I’m 20, and you’re describing me. I can’t see myself being an asshole; that’s just not who I am. I don’t like treating people that way, but at the same time, I’m wondering if that’s really what it takes to get a girl.
@thecurrentmoment
2 ай бұрын
@@storm2945this and the original comment are interesting - it's almost like the guy who is bad but is good just for her. It made me think - guys who are nice to everybody, it's kind of hard to tell if he likes a girl because he is nice to everybody, and it's not clear if his niceness to her means he is interested in her or not. If a guy buys a woman flowers on the first date for example, then he probably does that for every woman. But if he is selfish in general but is nice to her in particular occasionally then it becomes something special. Almost like a woman sharing her sexual desire with a guy, like that is something she gives when she is expressing a desire/love for a guy. If she gives it to every guy, or even one guy but all the time, then it is not seen as special. If a guy sleeps with every guy on the first date then it is really hard to tell if she just has low standards.or is genuinely interested in you. Maybe that is the problem with being too nice - your generosity is not valued because everybody gets it and she doesn't have to earn it. Women, and people in general, want to feel special so there has to be something that you give to only her for to feel special. Men want to be the exclusive recipients of a women's desire and sexual vulnerability, while women want to be the exclusive recipients of something else, I guess his protection, provision and love. They want to be the ONLY person to receive that, possibly in all time 😅 So guys, don't be too generous, make a woman earn it. That's what I'm getting from this.
@Kratatch
3 ай бұрын
The mess we are in is because women think they are all 10's. And the fake ones that think they are 10's but try to be humble call them selves 7 or 8.
@FergusHodgson
3 ай бұрын
True, and barely any men will challenge them because doing so is a losing strategy. Men tell them that they are 10s to make them feel like they are keepers, even when they obviously are not.
@Jeremy-ql1or
2 ай бұрын
It is time for the "All Men Are 10s!" movement.
@DevilDog-zp5yq
Ай бұрын
They need to understand where they are on the food chain, but they don't.
@T8ombs23
21 күн бұрын
more importantly, new age feminism has created an atmosphere where there isn't much personal accountability. they are given permission to rationalize all the reasons something is the mans fault, or the patriarchy, etc. also if 60% of us weren't living paycheck to paycheck, dating would improve
@mjs3343
Ай бұрын
I'm in my later 60s, and this stuff makes sense, and such mentalities certainly existed in the 1970s and 1980s.
@MoyToy84
3 ай бұрын
This is why arranged marriages were way more successful than women choosing on their own. The Father would know who was the best candidate for her daughter.
@Malinkadink
3 ай бұрын
Marriages would be more successful even without arranged marriages if you get rid of no fault divorce so women couldn't just leave because they weren't "feeling" it anymore. Marriage in its current state means absolutely nothing when you can get out of it at a whim and get cash and prizes if the man didn't protect himself accordingly.
@MoyToy84
3 ай бұрын
@Malinkadink That is true. We live in a gynocentric world. Men need to be Men again and make changes.
@txdmsk
3 ай бұрын
@@Malinkadink Even if no fault divorces were a thing of the past marriage would be a terrible thing for men. Attractiveness for women drops STEEPLY in their teens or at the start of their 20s. For men it rises until their mid 30s, then alls off very slowly. Studies show the sex drive of women drops STEEPLY once they get married. Women do not want to have children anymore: over half of all European wh:te women will never have kids, those who do on average have their first child at the age of 35.
@snicklefritzfry
2 ай бұрын
@@txdmsk Attractiveness for women drops in late TEENS?? Wtf dude
@aaronrodgers9202
2 ай бұрын
@@snicklefritzfryright? Somebody might wanna check this guys hard drive 😮 might be some pdf files saved in there
@michaeloden9808
3 ай бұрын
I don’t want to play anymore and I realize that that’s okay. MGTOW for life.
@benbunyip
2 ай бұрын
Pretty honest discussion. She DID have a good dad. 👍🏻👍🏻
@Leathal
2 ай бұрын
Always look at a woman’s relationship with her dad. If they don’t have one (or at least some surrogate): run the hell away immediately. I’m four decades into being on this planet and haven’t once met a single woman from a truly fatherless home who wasn’t a human natural disaster
@im1who84u
2 ай бұрын
In life I've learned there are three things to *never* share with women. 1. A house. 2. A bank account. 3. Everything else.
@hohooooooooify
2 ай бұрын
Man that was quite the list
@MrChristocentric
2 ай бұрын
@@hohooooooooify haha
@ApesAmongUs
2 ай бұрын
"A secret" really needs to be explicitly listed and not just left to be included with "everything else."
@im1who84u
2 ай бұрын
@@ApesAmongUs ?
@user-mf4xm2sf6v
2 ай бұрын
Correct 💯
@MikAlexander
3 ай бұрын
Other problem is that women confuse consciences and polite dudes with nice dudes.
@tylerdurden3722
3 ай бұрын
I think you might be the one confused. Being considerate and polite, especially to a fault, is exactly what makes a nice guy a nice guy. Btw, there's nothing wrong with being nice, as long as it doesn't come at the expense of virtue and personal boundaries. E.g. it's not possible to truly exercise virtues like honesty, transparency, integrity, etc, without risking offending others. Also, when nice to a fault, it becomes manipulation (i.e. choosing words with a focus on manipulating thoughts and feelings in someone else, regardless if the intent is good or bad). The only form of communication that isn't some form of manipulation, is to choose words that focus on describing what one truly feels and thinks, and this risks offence. Plus these virtues require courage and strength of character in some scenarios, and the opposite is cowardice and weakness, which are not virtues. The process of attraction happens subconsciously. It's not a conscious thought process or choice. People experience attraction as things they feel, "chemistry", "vibe", etc. Women can't help often being romantically attracted to courage, honesty, integrity, transparency, strength, confidence, etc., and not the opposite of these. Human beings are biological pattern recognition machines. Millions of years of Darwinian evolution went into women being able to subconsciously sense the physical and behavioral traits needed to raise offspring with optimally. Some animals mate select with peacock feathers and dances and the attraction process is instinctive, our species has our own mate selection process and criteria coded into our DNA as well. Human males evolved to play a specific role in our species via hundreds of thousands of years of natural selectin, just like any other male in it's species evolved a role, and in humans females evolved to mate select accordingly (the purpose of mate selecting is to mate and produce offspring). it's that simple. Being "nice" makes women like a guy. What it doesn't do is arouse women (we evolved to have arousal, to induce behavior that produces offspring).
@denislegeev1119
3 ай бұрын
Women rarely confuse. They feel everything a mile away)))
@davidpaulk785
3 ай бұрын
@@tylerdurden3722OP comment was spot on and your long rebuttal was unnecessary.
@cosmictreason2242
3 ай бұрын
@@tylerdurden3722you're in error, niceness is agreeableness and obsequiousness. Not to be confused with kindness, which is generosity and deference for someone according to their station (honor)
@Junoj101
2 ай бұрын
if she is not sure about that aspect, she will test you. she will do something that a man who has abundance would say NO to, if you do not say NO to her - you are a nice dude without a spine. nice man is afraid to say NO because she might reject him, this is where nice dudes make a mistake.
@jamesriser5305
Ай бұрын
What a convoluted way to pick a spouse. Before she passed in January, my wife and I lived a life of 54+ years of wedded bliss. I chose wisely and we had a wonderful life together laughing all those years. The young women today are not particularly desirable...hence the MGTOW movement.
@TheCegreen1
8 күн бұрын
What is MGTOW stand for ... married for forty one years. I am still her "Bad Guy".
@current9455
3 ай бұрын
This is why under traditional families in the past kept the daughter Safe from the other 2 men’s compartments Fathers and brothers could tell what type of dude was bad news for her. She’d be mad they kept her away from him But by the time she matured and got married It Might not have been the Man she wanted but she ended up with the man she needed. Feminist and socialist Destroyed the family And polluted the young impressionable girls. Result = Loneliness l Man less childless Independance Depression
@Alazar654
3 ай бұрын
Absolutely correct.
@hoppeanofasgard1365
3 ай бұрын
I think women should have the right to choose the man they want to be with, BUT that requires a women to actually be able to really think about what she wants on a deeper level than most do, for her to be able to self reflect on a lot of things and of course to be mature. As such it's not really so much the fathers or brothers right to insist they marry a certain person and not others, so much as it is to guide them and stop the worst of the trashy guys from getting a chance at least until she's mature enough or wise enough on her own. obviously when that time comes for anyone particular women will vary greatly though.
@current9455
3 ай бұрын
@@hoppeanofasgard1365 It’s her right to choose. It’s her responsibility to Deal with that choice.
@hoppeanofasgard1365
3 ай бұрын
@@current9455 For the most part I agree with you, but fathers can't just take a back seat either. fathers not being there to guide their daughters largely results in the society we have today where men are frustrated that women have slept with to many guys and women are frustrated because they end up single at 35 with no future prospect of ever resolving that issue and ending up alone.
@current9455
3 ай бұрын
@@hoppeanofasgard1365 Women are the gate keepers of s€x Men are the gatekeepers Of relationship’s. There are zero keepers.
@josephcooper9640
3 ай бұрын
Quartering did an interview with Hoe_Math. He has post graduate degrees in psychology. Very well schooled genius and a great guy overall.
@Richard-mq7wf
3 ай бұрын
He makes some good points but his chart is crap
@StarboyXL9
2 ай бұрын
@@Richard-mq7wf Seethe simp
@LordMalice6d9
2 ай бұрын
Most of my college education is in computer science. I can relate to the highly analytical way of thinking.
@Leathal
2 ай бұрын
It’s good to have a formal education but don’t fall into the credentialism trap (one of the more pernicious forms of control enacted by the longhouse/matriarchy)
@quigglyz
5 күн бұрын
@@Richard-mq7wf cry harder
@michaelharton8712
16 күн бұрын
A man will sacrifice his happiness for his family and woman will sacrifice her family for her happiness.
@naich3774
3 ай бұрын
the "Galaxy" LLOOLL... A girl marries a man because she believes she can change him... but we will never change :-) a man marries a woman hoping she will never change... but she will, for sure!
@BWater-yq3jx
2 ай бұрын
and never for the better.
@DaDavis1954
3 ай бұрын
Showing your emotions from your past is nothing to be ashamed of. This video reminds you of who you are. You are only human, after all. God bless you.
@Variable-2-actual
2 ай бұрын
Women aren't supposed to pick the man, men are supposed to pick the woman.
@diegrinder6851
Ай бұрын
LOL, in what alternative reality did you hear that?
@westa1762
Ай бұрын
Phi alpha to that.
@LARESCIV
12 күн бұрын
Bro if u try do that then ur basically kidnapping her
@ddleupriandboast
3 ай бұрын
It's worse. Men know you have been in the bad boy situation or the mid for a long time. It rubs off on women. Worse if you are older as a woman, probably go hand in hand though. You will be a sweeper even if you have good looks.
@paulcolin9071
2 ай бұрын
I understand
@FergusHodgson
3 ай бұрын
The problem from the man's side is that finding a keeper is extremely difficult. Sleepers are a dime a dozen. Even if we want to move out of the sleeper zone, therefore, we struggle to do so. The women are stuck being sleepers, and men are stuck with a bunch of sleepers (or nothing at all). The vast majority of women have shown they do not care about being keepers. If they did, they would pay more attention to what men want: kindness, youth, fidelity, natural beauty/health, family orientation, respect for male leadership, etc. Good luck finding that.
@tiagocrypto
2 ай бұрын
I should add castity too.
@ohar7237
2 ай бұрын
This explains my successes so well...
@tdrive398
3 ай бұрын
I think the way many modern womyn respond isn't based on any in-depth contemplation or thinking, rather almost entirely on flitting through changing emotions. Which is why their relationships are so chaotic- they're not based upon a firm foundation.
@edwardmcgarthwaite7771
3 ай бұрын
All their value comes from external sources. Hollowed out
@PureYang0
3 ай бұрын
Which is why the father was the one in charge of setting daughters up with committed relationships historically. That’s why the father is the one who walks down the aisle in marriage and literally hands the daughter over to her husband. It’s because leaving relationship building up to women has always been a chaotic fail, you read about such things even in the Bible.
@ruckboger
3 ай бұрын
It makes sense in a twisted way why women found Ted Bundy attractive
@modestmouse2889
3 ай бұрын
WOMEN aren't worth it anymore.
@Alazar654
3 ай бұрын
@@ruckboger I'm totally not surprised. Think about what characteristics makes a bad boy a bad boy. You''ll eventually realize that women just like bad boys lol like literally.
@miketindol1679
2 ай бұрын
This gives more credibility to the wisdom of the Bible. Abstain from sex until marriage and then fully invest to bonding with one another. This mess was the result of multiple partners and loosing the bonding to one individual. Without that it revolves around physical feelings opposed to spiritual connection.
@Leptospirosi
Ай бұрын
Thinking about the movie "A serious man" by the Cohen brothers, after watching this graph, suddenly everything clicks, and story itself makes perfect sense. Men and women don't speak the same language and don't really understand each other on a rational plane: it just happens that they get along (when the planets allign). When society and conventions mix the waters, things that were going suddenly grind to a halt, and with the massive polarisation of modern social politics toward "expectations" and self focussing over empathy, it's easy to understand why so many marriages are falling apart.
@drscott35
3 ай бұрын
There is one flaw with your logic about a man picking one of his harem to have a relationship with. Once he picks just one, then he no longer has that as a "Bad Boy" trait and she will not value him as much. This happens a lot with married men. A woman that is interested in a married man wants him to leave his wife and pick her. However, as soon as he does that, she no longer is as interested in him and it usually ends with the man being single.
@FarfromEden
3 ай бұрын
Good point, thank you
@notaras1985
2 ай бұрын
A castle besieged, is not a castle no more. It's a hut now.
@kevingibbs5632
2 ай бұрын
@@notaras1985nope, it's a prison
@willejones1918
2 ай бұрын
Not necessarily. Depends.
@JonRaybon
2 ай бұрын
Not to mention, the whole "if she cheats WITH you, she'll cheat ON you." This is true 99/100 times.
@stevefromwork6136
2 ай бұрын
I sent this video to ny best friend. His gf asked what he was watching on TV and she got PISSED. And had a chip against me from then on. Nothing drives me crazier than being right but being told it's wrong to be right.
@iamLI3
Ай бұрын
hahahaha
@TheNegative1
Ай бұрын
nice of her to prove the point
@quigglyz
5 күн бұрын
Women don't like when men expose the reality of female nature. She's pissed because she knows you see through her bullshit.
@NashonHanselman
2 ай бұрын
Being in a FRIENDZONE, when you did NOT know it, looking back is soo frustrating that you were viewed that way....
@RealPackCat
Ай бұрын
FRIENDSWITHBENEFITSZONE is much better.
@michaelpage5499
3 ай бұрын
That guy makes very good videos. He only left out one small detail. 80% of men never get out from behind the ghost. The categories only affect the 20% that she will see. The other 80% just aren’t there.
@ST-TV
3 ай бұрын
That is actually not true. The 80% rule applies to men the woman doesn't already know, it's around 50% of men she does know are ghosts.
@sal78sal
Ай бұрын
no, most met get married at some point. ghosts are maybe 25% of the men. at most
@arrowhead455
3 ай бұрын
It is really about survival. Each sex is looking for sex-specific traits that will keep a relationship the most safe and stable. At the end of the day, it’s still a gamble. What was once stable, can change because of the direction the wind blows. And in this society with the crumbling of the moral foundation and standards, exponentially difficult for success, unless the couple can resist this culture.
@eandatoo
3 ай бұрын
It’s as risky and volatile as penny stocks lol 😂
@b-bigb1426
2 ай бұрын
I like her. She is smart and open minded. Also thinks deep. She has accountability. Not defensive.
@westa1762
Ай бұрын
Simp
@b-bigb1426
Ай бұрын
@@westa1762huh?
@sal78sal
Ай бұрын
well done, if you ever saw her you wold get friend zoned.
@quigglyz
5 күн бұрын
She seems great until you get in a relationship with her. Then she'll do EVERYTHING you've ever seen in manosphere videos. All women are like that. Yes ALL women.
@alanmerrick2841
3 ай бұрын
Olive is to Bluto as a child is to a roller coaster. It’s not about sex. It’s about Olive's emotions energised by excitement. Popeye being a good man is not a roller coaster, and so she is not excited by him.
@metanoian965
3 ай бұрын
is Olive Oyle virgin ?
@DanXJ19
3 ай бұрын
Blitz took the Olives pit 🫒
@garyhoward2490
3 ай бұрын
Well...Blow Me Down!!!
@metanoian965
3 ай бұрын
@@garyhoward2490 Olive will do the job, for sure.
@alanmerrick2841
3 ай бұрын
Reality gets written into art. There was nothing funny about how the cartoonists portrayed female nature. From the classics to cartoons the truth of things has a way of showing forth.
@ungenerationed9022
3 ай бұрын
"H03 Math" is already legend in the man spaces.
@MrAndyLake
2 ай бұрын
Never gonna marry, never gonna have kids. And for what I learned from this “Zones” diagram I’ll never have a decent relationship with a woman. Nature and instinct still overrides all human reason, wisdom and logic every time.
@brownsquid7977
2 ай бұрын
After a hard work, finally, I have succeeded... I descended from the CREEP zone to the GHOST zone.
@iamLI3
Ай бұрын
nice going , more fodder for the gacha games
@melkerner
3 ай бұрын
They want what they want, until 5 minutes later when another "feeling" happens. and then Menopause happens, and they want what they want without any regard to the marriage, the partnership or anything else.
@hoppeanofasgard1365
3 ай бұрын
That's why you have to play on that emotionality of women, if you can't trust them to keep a commitment, then work with what works, be romantic with her to always bring out the feelings that are conducive to keeping her. it's that or bust I'm afraid with most these day.
@jermaineayivoh8263
3 ай бұрын
My 6 year old acts this way, she will say she wants to eat such and such, then 5 minutes later she suddenly doesn’t want to eat what she said she wanted to eat 5 minutes prior and now wants something else. This behaviour is also not a one of here and there, it’s a reoccurring theme constantly changing her mind and not being able to make a decision and stick to it. Having children gives you a very good insight into the psyche of the majority of females if you are observant enough. It really isn’t an exaggeration when it is said that many women act like little children.
@hoppeanofasgard1365
3 ай бұрын
@@jermaineayivoh8263 It can get so frustrating at times though... Tell me do you know how we came to as a society to have this false notion that women mature faster than men? Because clearly for the majority of them they stick to their childish ways longer.
@jermaineayivoh8263
3 ай бұрын
@@hoppeanofasgard1365 As to your point about maturity, well I suppose it depends on what we are trying to define maturity as. If we are strictly speaking about physical maturity, then yes girls comparatively to boys tend to reach their physical maturation point at an earlier stage. You’ll sometimes have 12-14 year old girls that have fully developed female bodies. Boys however tend to not hit puberty until 15, 16 or sometimes “only” at 17 years of age. When it comes to the mental side of things that’s a completely different story. I reckon when it comes to mentality it’s a combination of nature and nurture. As men not only do we generally tend be better at keeping our emotions and grievances in check, we are also expected to take responsibility for actions to a much higher degree than females are expected to. Males get harsher judgment and treatment from society at large for stepping outside of the accepted gender norms. Females however generally get much more leeway and have many of their faults and missteps excused or completely ignored. In a sense it’s the same way misbehaviour and law breaking from a child isn’t met with the same sort of punishment/ disciplinary action as misbehaviour/ law breaking from an adult when it comes to the court of law. The fact that women tend to reach physical maturity at an earlier age than men do, works as an advantage in their younger years yet paradoxically becomes a disadvantage later down the line. The advantage is that very early on in life, women tend to get an abundance of attention from the opposite gender just for existing, meaning most women have achieved next to nothing in their younger years yet at times manage to acquire attention from men as if they have some sort of celebrity status (depending on their physical attractiveness of course). The downside to this is that it causes many women to get mentally stuck at the age at which they started receiving vast amounts of attention from men. Because of this many women grow up with the delusion that they don’t need to change anything about themselves, why would they if being just themselves was enough to attract plenty of men in the their youth ? This is also why when men make the mistake of asking females for dating advice, what they will often be told is “just be yourself”. The reason women tend to give this advice is because it worked for them on masse when they were young and attractive. Attracting women as a man however is much more nuanced and complicated than it is for a woman to attract a man. The chickens come home to roost however once women begin to age and lose their youthful looks. This is the stage at which many women are confused as to why they aren’t capable of attracting men like they used to be in the past. The answer of course is extremely obvious, but since many women have a problem with self reflection, many fail to come to the proper conclusion! As to it at times being very frustrating having to deal with women, yes females can be on occasions a headache to deal with at the best of times. Though I also find that many men make the mistake of trying to communicate with women as if they were men. Logic tends to be the domain and language of men. Emotion tends to be the domain and language of women. When you’re trying to converse and interact with a child, you aren’t going to get very far by talking to it as if it were a grown adult. You could talk about quantum physics to a kid, but it is mostly likely going to look at you in confusion and eventually get bored and go on to do something else, instead of trying to communicate in a language it doesn’t understand or doesn’t have any interest in. Instead you’d be better off to lay out a colouring book and several differently coloured crayons in front of the child, and then say something along the lines of: “Hey doesn’t this book look exciting ? I wonder what colours would best suit that tree over there ?”. The same principle must be applied when talking to women. You need to be able to interact in the language that females respond to. If you are able to affect a woman’s emotions through your presence as a man, the likelihood of her falling for you significantly increases. It’s in a woman’s nature to feel attracted to a man that can influence her emotions. The worst thing you can be to a woman, is a man that has no effect on her emotions. A man that has no effect on a woman’s emotions may as well be a ghost to her. You may as well not exist in her eyes. Modern day society has played its part in incorrectly teaching men that women and men are equal, meaning the same. Men, women and children all have their value in society of course, but we are by no means the same. The sooner men realise this and act accordingly, the better off they will be in the long run. The advantage of being a creature of logic instead of a creature of emotion is that logic can be used to understand emotion and it’s origin, whilst emotion if allowed to remain unchecked can wreak pure chaos with little to no understanding of where it came come. This may be a pretty long winded post, but I really thought about the questions you asked and tried to give the most thorough of answers that I could come up with.
@hoppeanofasgard1365
3 ай бұрын
@@jermaineayivoh8263 Nonono, that was amazing, and I enjoyed reading all of this post. I'm the kind of guy that likes to leave no stone unturned so the more detailed the answer the better as far as I'm concerned. Thanks, and I largely agree with practically everything you said here, make a lot of sense!
@SOAP-jf7ue
Ай бұрын
To have one's daughter speak so highly and affectionately of you is one of the apex achievements a man can reach.
@Hazmatt3446
2 ай бұрын
This is why Self-obsession (pride) is the downfall of every society
@paulcolin9071
2 ай бұрын
Also what drives herd mentality
@radscorpion8
2 ай бұрын
@@paulcolin9071 As a self-obsessed herd animal, I can confirm these statements
@mikeyoung490
2 ай бұрын
Ha women
@Ardante11
Ай бұрын
Correct. A highly Selfish Society is the downward spiral. A Sacrifice Society progresses by finding a balance.
@HectorDiabolucus
3 ай бұрын
You already mentioned something in your universe and I definitely have a cabinet. I would swap the looks and personality. I've dated 5 thru 10's and the ones I liked the most were the 6's and 7's. But they were the nicest. And that makes sense since that's what I am.
@ionmedicaldesigns8122
2 ай бұрын
I really appreciated your note about how to stay in that zone. I was married for 16 years and I saw this fall apart in real time. Learning how to maintain and push through as we age together, change, butterflies long gone etc. is a huge issue to address and learn how to maintain in a healthy way.
@MSMW23
3 ай бұрын
This is an amazing insight. It explains perfectly to me why I have only had 2 relationships in my life and why I no longer seek one.
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