Bro found out on an interview that his wife was keeping the baby's gender a secret😂😂😂
@atamo4323
3 ай бұрын
If they have a girl already, the baby must be a boy to be a surprise.
@waylingtons
3 ай бұрын
@@atamo4323not really though 😂. It’s still a surprise if you don’t know what the gender is.
@tobubiify
3 ай бұрын
Better than keeping the baby's race
@universeslap
3 ай бұрын
@@Cha4kit never meant sex. People used it interchangeably, as they use their/they're because of unawareness.
@Meow3431
3 ай бұрын
no I think he knows that his wife knows but he just made a joke...
@Gazelle871
3 ай бұрын
The fluctuating daycare fee is insane. It's crazy how their government wants them to have more children but refuse to make it easier for them to do so.
@wordzmyth
3 ай бұрын
So unfair really forcing her out of the workforce. In such an unfair systems you can see their regret even though they want their kids
@postblitz
3 ай бұрын
The #1 cause of all of this is the rejection of the cultural values which made Japan what it is in the first place. Japan had families living together under one roof which easily supported both child rearing, expenses and education. When you take the crash course of that into living in couples in apartments where they charge rent of course they can barely manage and only the landlords make bank. Japan just needs to go back to what it was.
@AmandaComeauCreates
3 ай бұрын
Its wild to imagine that they literally would rather one parent be unemployed or underemployed in the declining population crisis when that is literally the outcome they are trying to avoid??? They want more people working.......let them work?
@frozenwalkway
3 ай бұрын
its almost the same here in the usa if u work a low wage job. 800 a week for day care might as well just stay at home and be with the kid
@sirrebral
3 ай бұрын
What would be insane is the opposite policy, in which low to middle-class would-be parents receive less assistance for childcare than higher-earners. Not only is helping those who need it the least an inefficient use of the country's economic activity, it would also create additional stresses on the poor and middle class. In such a scenario, the "best" of bad outcomes might be a counterproductive reduction in the birth rate, and in the worst case, it might result in more children being raised in households that can't afford to educate them or keep them out of trouble.
@ReynardNathaniel
3 ай бұрын
this interview has been done 10 years ago, and will be done in the next 10 years. why? cause government doesn't care. they just want to win. how do u win again? cater to majority population. who is the majority population in Japan? not young people. which mean, they will create policy that cater to older generation which has a little if no benefit at all to the younger generation. making their life harder and not wanting to have kids.
@theinktician
3 ай бұрын
Maybe. But the population didnt drop as much as it will in the next 10. The Baby Boomer generation is the largest and they're just now starting to decline. 2040 will be a scary time for 日本
@theultimatereductionist7592
3 ай бұрын
Well said, user-jd!
@dgmojojojo
3 ай бұрын
The government care they even wanted to make a ministry that help people to have children but judging by past program i don’t think they get it what’s the core problems: it’s high cost for renting/properties, living costs, and children education.
@bistander
3 ай бұрын
That's the same story globally. The older generation are in power and look out for their own interests. And most of the time their interest is keeping their money.
@Hyst44
3 ай бұрын
They will care a lot more once china gains most of the control in that region. Only about 10 years off from that probably.
@THMILLER
3 ай бұрын
The girl in white (2:43) is right if the government doesn't create a good standard of life where people can afford to have kids and own things then OFCOURSE the population will decline because people today are educated and think about the costs and time that goes into having a family.
@Lucky55Blue
3 ай бұрын
Correct. Also, our modern generation teaches us the value of personal agency and personal choice. That’s why having Children is a losing strategy or inferior Life prospect.
@MyrKnof
3 ай бұрын
So, we need less education!
@tobubiify
3 ай бұрын
She seems like she learned a lot about it.. and thought a lot about that.. I think she might want a kid so much that she has to think that much about it.. Kinda sad
@nikhilPUD01
3 ай бұрын
I don't think we need kids, as technology is growing very fast, we don't need population, we will live with robots
@yiyeungwong
3 ай бұрын
We live in humanity’s golden age. If that isn’t good enough I don’t know what is.
@Jupitersonlyson
3 ай бұрын
If population decline is such a problem , governments should prioritise making it far easier to have kids. Everything seems more important. Military budgets , net zero and so on. Why have kids when you and the child would suffer needlessly.
@VirtousStoic
3 ай бұрын
In summary japan conservatism (closed economy and they are so resistant to change even in their own companies) and its government failure to help its citizens is breaking japan And japan is using gambling and media (manga, anime, music, etc) to distract and make money from its citizens without helping them have money in the first place.
@tatsumasa6332
3 ай бұрын
We make laws and policies for our government to follow so the government is us (Japanese citizen) in the end.
@hyberkonawa272
3 ай бұрын
Don't use suffering as an excuse of not having children in marriage cuz Islam are conquering the whole world and forcing people to deny their own culture and beliefs in the name of Sharia-Law. That's why Europe countries such as Sweden has completely shut down the borders. Life is suffering and will always be, even if you don't have children.
@fayelis
3 ай бұрын
@@tatsumasa6332 obviously the people dont run the government corporations and money does
@tatsumasa6332
3 ай бұрын
@@fayelis No, we do by picking the reps. there's only half of us go to the vote everytime (worse, our youngsters almost never) that is why the house is so twisted. however not sure how is in your country.
@luxusken05
3 ай бұрын
"I'm not living for Japan" That girl spilled.
@Vivo119-jf4pp
3 ай бұрын
@GoralischeSSGreat replacement theory
@lilacghoste8366
3 ай бұрын
@GoralischeSSof course alt right wingers
@lordbigsnake
3 ай бұрын
@GoralischeSSso you actually wanted to work in a factory from the age of 5 till death make 15 babies and have those also work in factories from 5 till death. I rather go for actually living and have kids that also can live properly but you do you.
@lordbigsnake
3 ай бұрын
@GoralischeSS maybe it's time for you to leave la la land and come to the real world then.
@pagodebregaeforro2803
3 ай бұрын
@GoralischeSSaverage neonazi. Probably hide his views in real life but in internet wastes his little energy on trolling 😂
@NekoArts
3 ай бұрын
From the perspective of a foreigner who's currently pregnant in Japan; while money definitely plays a big role here, I also think that there's much more to it. Since becoming pregnant, I have more or less been treated as nothing more than an incubator for my child and I have faced a lot of bullying from doctors and hospital staff throughout my pregnancy. From what I understand after talking to other mothers (both foreign and Japanese), this is unfortunately not that uncommon and I think that that can put a big role in discouraging women from wanting (more) children. I know for a fact that it has definitely turned me off from the idea of having more children after this one because I truly don't want to have to go through this again. My daughter is due next month so now the focus has begun to shift from my pregnancy to the birth itself and that's an entirely different issue all on its own. Even my husband (Japanese) who's the biggest cheerleader for the medical industry was turned off by the whole experience when the midwife took us on a tour of the birthward a few weeks ago. After we left, he told me that he felt like we had entered a baby-factory where the focus seems to be more on just "getting it done quickly" than what is actually best for mother and child. My own feelings and wishes regarding my birth has been dismissed in favor of what is the most convenient for the staff and their routine and they have made no effort hiding that fact either. A lot of what is done routinely to women during pregnancy and childbirth (whether beneficial or not) are things that the woman has no say in and will be done whether she wants them or not (like episiotomies which are infamously common here). Questioning a routine or treatment isn't encouraged either, they just expect you to shut your mouth and do as you're told. Of course there are exceptions to this and there are hospitals and doctors that are absolutely wonderful and caring to the women they take care of, but unfortunately, my experience seems to be a very common one - especially if you happen to live outside of the bigger cities, like I do. And of course it doesn't end at birth either but the woman in question will still have to face other issues even after the child is born, especially if she happens to be a single mother. All in all, I have to say that Japan doesn't make it easy for a woman to become a parent, even if you put the issue of finances to the side. After having gone through this experience myself, I truly can't fault anyone for not wanting to go through it themselves, especially not if they plan on having more than one child as well. The way I see it, the subsidies and all are great, but if they want more women to want to become mothers then there needs to be a huge overhaul in how mothers are actually treated from the moment of conception as well. There needs to be support extended beyond the financial parts of motherhood as well.
@feylights166
3 ай бұрын
Not a mother, but I will add that, much as I love Japan, gender equality is definitely something they are behind in compared to much of the rest of the developed world. When a woman raises a child, she stops being an individual, and her identity becomes "mother". Even within couple dynamics, she stops being a wife and desirable, her identity that of the caregiver of the child(ren). This doesn't only happen in Japan, of course, but a number of gender issues (such as your experience with hospitals) are at play here.
@sirennoir258
3 ай бұрын
@feylights166 the change in identity happens for everyone. You turn into a mother. But the change doesn't feel like a burden after you get used to it. Everyone deals with it differently. But there is definitely the loss of you. At first you don't even notice it because once you give birth your entire world is centered around your baby. Nothing else matters. Your soul focus is your baby.
@sirennoir258
3 ай бұрын
Once the baby comes out you will be in a bubble for about a year. Only thing that will matter is the baby.
@gabriellarosendo6228
3 ай бұрын
I saw a Brazilian mom in Japan, she said she was so traumatized about the way she was treated in the birth, that she never wanted to be pregnant again…
@asdfghjjhgf
3 ай бұрын
I'm Japanese and I've never heard of a pregnant woman being harassed by a doctor or nurse in a hospital. If that is true, reviews of that hospital would blow up and even make news headlines.
@dchen1010
3 ай бұрын
it's not just in japan. Many developed countries are having this issue too! Inflation is one of the reasons why many families can't affford to have kids... rent prices, food, gas, basic necessities have all inflated, but wages haven't kept up.
@PROVOCATEURSK
3 ай бұрын
There is a certain minority in Europe that can raise 8 kids without their parents ever working. And the Amercans say those people are oppressed.
@Lubet0TheGreat
3 ай бұрын
What are you talking about? The problem is people don't have enough money? Then why the people in poorest countries in the world have the most children? There is a reverse correlation everywhere in the world, the richer the society is, the less children they have, so the problem is def. not a money one.
@reneeroesler9944
3 ай бұрын
@@Lubet0TheGreatPeople in poorer countries tend to have more kids cause they tend to be less educated and don't have free birth control or anything readily available.
@Raderade1-pt3om
3 ай бұрын
Japan is one of the most densely populated country in developed world and birthrate are falling in all of them but in western countries immmigrations fills the gap but local ethnic groups are on decline.
@Sakeus
3 ай бұрын
@@reneeroesler9944 That is not the reason. Having kids as soon as possible is natural, but in western countries we are taught that its a setback and your happiness comes first. And happiness doesn't equal having family and kids, grand-kids anymore. It means owning things, doing things. You hear this in the video as well. The instinct to reproduce is being pushed down, but it comes back with a revenge (especially for women). The increase of having a first kid past 35 or even 40+ is concerning. Birth defects are on the rise since people are having kids later and later.
@littlefish2124
3 ай бұрын
2:02 the lady I believe said it how it is. If Japan wants to address the problem of the declining population/ birth rate they have to improve the quality of life. doing so to create an environment where people can actually have children. along with what the points the couple with a child(ren) states, and the issues they have faced with childcare.
@MohdShabbiruddinKhan
Ай бұрын
But then how would the corporates make billions and have cheap labour?? :(
@Camcolito
26 күн бұрын
@@MohdShabbiruddinKhan Bingo. This is the logical question that everyone is brainwashed not to consider. Quality of life cannot improve without taxing the wealthy, which is taboo.
@DuoLingoJP_098
3 ай бұрын
As a japanese myself, l really wanted to have 3 or 4 children to help japan in these crisis and l really want to have 3 or 4 children in my own perspective,but the problem is l can't raise a child by my average salary and my boyfriend is just starting to work as an IT engineer and we're planning to get marry in this year.The only hindrance that me and my partner facing is the inflation...blame all in "inflation" and l know this is inevitable but l hope japanese government try to solve this issues,For example that decrease the tuition that many Japanese paying and all the essential items need to be revise the cost and instead to make more job why not enhance the quality of work more for a long term.
@JonathanAkiraFreudman
3 ай бұрын
Girl you are thinking too much about it. Just have children and the government will help you with extra money, so you can use them for children without using your own or your husbands salary.
@nienor1510
3 ай бұрын
I live in Finland, my husband and I have 3 children (hopefully another one day too), we really had to lower our expectations of our standard of living. We just aren't as wealthy as a generation as our parents were. That was a hard shock to take but we still have a good life. We live in a rural area of Finland, I don't think we could afford kids if we lived in the capital. When you are surrounded by everyone having new fashionable items and luxuries it's easy to become demotivated and overwhelmed but when you are out in nature everything seems more hopeful. Love from Finland, best of luck with your family!
@kayliu
3 ай бұрын
@DuoLingoJP_098 your suggestions are fair, but one of the biggest problems Japan is having is the government doesn't have much money in its pocket to do what you suggested. Japan is currently carrying a very large sum of debt, and there's very little the Japanese government can do to help solve the problem.
@Leto2ndAtreides
3 ай бұрын
@@nienor1510 You went directly to one of the main problems causing population decline... Big cities, too many other things to spend on. Humanity, it turns out, is really fragile - no better than most other animals that can only lightly handle disruptions to the environment before things start to go awry.
@tonythaiger93
3 ай бұрын
Try Korea-many parents spend $1000-2000 a month on after-school programs per child. I really wish I'm just joking around.
@DarkSnake49542
3 ай бұрын
Ahah, his boss 'make a family, your productivity will rise, you will get a raise (not wage, just primes) and the boss will get a better position to get to the upper level'. Just excellent!
@VirtousStoic
3 ай бұрын
World has bigger issues lol frankly I don't care. And this video was brainless. Asking what 5-10 humans think doesn't represent entire nation it's called cherry picking
@MACTEP_CHOB
3 ай бұрын
Aha and when the kid will get sick, he won`t give him day off, bcuz `there`s noone to work anymore`
@terryevans1976
3 ай бұрын
Great interviews. The couple with the children was by far the most realistic. The impact of such a large population drop will be devastating. It will be even more so on a country like Japan that is heavily invested in a large social welfare system. Without new people paying into the system it will rapidly start to fail in various ways, e.g. the ability to pay promised pensions, medical care, childcare etc.
@PROVOCATEURSK
3 ай бұрын
The drop will not be devastating. The evil capitalists will just raise prices and taxes.
@AirbornSoul013
3 ай бұрын
100%, but- why tell dead people the future? They created and encouraged the situation they're in, with ample warning to change it
@ne_alexa
3 ай бұрын
Would you have a child just to overcome the population crisis?
@dansmith1661
3 ай бұрын
@@ne_alexa A crisis in a country that doesn't value children.
@cawheeler27
3 ай бұрын
@@ne_alexaFrom a selfish perspective, yeah. Those without kids will be the worst off. At least if you have kids you’ll have the possibility of having people to help care for you in old age, without them you’ll be left to die as the social safety net collapses. Most younger people aren’t thinking about what life will be like for them decades down the road, when the truly dire consequences of these choices start to play out.
@zorohunter3
3 ай бұрын
Guy at 0:51 trying to recreate quintessential quintuplets XD
@VirtousStoic
3 ай бұрын
He will never afford to give them the lifestyle they deserve. I never get the people who get more kids than they can afford to raise. And 2 parents can't raise that many kids. In the old days yes because the entire neighborhood raise the kids supported each other etc Thus the saying it takes a village to raise kids But with today individualism and isolation it's just unfeasible Therfore that person is actually hurting those kids by having so many
@Lianpe98
3 ай бұрын
@@VirtousStoic Don't judge people you don't know
@Cafeston
3 ай бұрын
Him wanting specifically many girls makes me slightly uncomfortable.
@Maityist
3 ай бұрын
@@Cafeston Would him saying he wanted 5 sons make you uncomfortable as well? How about if a woman said she wanted 5 sons, does that make you uncomfortable? Stop your pre-disposed notions.
@zeldasaurusrex1647
3 ай бұрын
@@Cafeston he literally gave a reason tho? why are u judging someone you dont know? weird that you think like that
@princessjello
3 ай бұрын
the mom with the husband speaking on the daycare fees really is just eye-opening.
@hildegardvonbingen9092
24 күн бұрын
If you think about it, people say the main reason they don't have kids is because they can't give them away to Strangers all day. Isn't that a much deeper issue
@trillstarman
3 ай бұрын
1. Increase minimum annual vacation off work from the minimum 10 days to 30 days-Parts of Europe have done this and saw birth rates spike as a result. 2. Strict fines to companies for every vacation day employees do not use. 3. Daycare for ages 0-5 fully paid for by taxes. *Bonus: - Raise the stagnant minimum wage - Health insurance paid at 100% for everything child birth related - Set reasonable and adequate immigration targets
@Elicynderspyro
3 ай бұрын
The government is currently giving fines for those companies in which employees don't take at least 5/10< days of annual paid leave. However, because people still won't use their paid leave days, some companies have a policy in which they randomly decide when to use their employee's days. So you might find a random day off in your shift which you really didn't need that much. That also affects those workers, especially foreign, that want to save their days off to use all together for a proper vacation or to go back home. Also, companies might decide to use only 5 days out of those 10 days and the remaining ones are left to be expired. Some kinder companies might accept their employees' request of not deciding their annual paid leave, others though look at the collectivity and refuse such requests. It's even worse than you might think.
@WindupTerminus
3 ай бұрын
Europe has all this, our birthrates are quickly approaching Japans levels (or are already there in some parts of Europe). What makes you think these things will solve the issue in Japan when it obviously hasn't happened in Europe? I'm also interested in where you're going to get all the money to do this, since you only propose things that will increase costs, but nothing that would increase revenue.
@asdfghjjhgf
3 ай бұрын
sounds like Finland but unfortunately, things aren't going well in Finland either.
@impressivedark2685
3 ай бұрын
In which European country has the fertility rate spiked? They’re all whining about constantly declining TFR. Even Hungarian tax breaks haven’t worked. Poland a super catholic country has a TFR of 1.10 💀
@kernelscout3077
3 ай бұрын
more taxes to pay lol. the problem is not financial, its cultural. even in the nordic welfare states population is declining. california recently raised minwage to $20 and 10,000 jobs were lost as a result. the problem is that we have a shitty culture that values short-term gratification, sexual openness, rising porn addiction and participation in sex work(only fans), women arent looking for long term partners because theyre being told they dont need that so its one night stand after one night stand, and men are being demasculated and convinced everything is their fault and, all with decreasing participation in religion affiliation and declining mental health. our liberalized culture is simply incompatible with a successful society. theres a popular theory about the life cycles of empires and what starts the decline is this "And what marked the penultimate age? Defensiveness, pessimism, materialism, frivolity, an influx of foreigners, the Welfare State, and a weakening of religion. To what did he attribute this decadence? Too long a period of wealth and power, selfishness, love of money, and the loss of a sense of duty." we have entered the "age of intellect" where we think we are smarter than everyone who has come before. if that doesnt describe our culture to a T then i dont know what else would.
@mztokyo7630
3 ай бұрын
Great interview with the follow up questions to their "ideas". The girl wearing pink had a lot of good ideas to tackle the issue. All economically advanced countries have fewer children because it costs a lot of money to raise and worry about children entering prestigious universities. So sad they are so focused on just a few schools they can't take the time to enjoy their youth. I think folks were happier when they were just farmers living in a multi-generational household. It was more physically demanding, but probably more fulfilling. No trying to *keep up with the Joneses* , just plant, grow, harvest, and repeat.
@tangerinetangerine4400
3 ай бұрын
No one is stopping you if you want that life.
@ruru7999
3 ай бұрын
note for team Asian Boss --> i think it'd be better putting the subtilte by the actual prices in yen. As viewer, we often try to compare between their expected costs and the average life costs in japan so it'd be hard if we read it in USD
@limterlam
3 ай бұрын
Precisely...
@hannah60000
3 ай бұрын
Plus, as viewers we are from all over the world. USD isn’t a reference currency for day to day activities for most people outside the US.
@matty6878
3 ай бұрын
im american but i agree. right now the yen/usd is going up and down. i can understand japanese enough to get the gist of it but if any were to use a frame of reference they may not acknowledge the price of inflation
@Skandinavisk
3 ай бұрын
Super interesting video! Being from Sweden, I have a hard time understanding the way Japan is approaching this. So, if I am understanding this correctly: 1. You pay for the delivery of your child. 2. You pay for any complications during delivery of your child. 3. If you have health (birth?) insurance that covers (hopefully) all of the above. 4. There is no roof on the amount you pay for child care. 5. There is no pressure on companies to provide good support for leaving to tend for your child, or for your return to the work force when the child is old enough. No wonder people are wary of getting kids. What about health insurance for kids, do you have to pay that from day one, or is there an age until the government covers for the health of your child with free health care?
@frankstrawnation
3 ай бұрын
The birth rates in your country aren't that higher and I suspect that if it weren't for the high fertility of immigrants, your country birth rate would be even lower than Japan's. People can complain about health insurance and daycare subsidies, but seems clear that's not the problem at all, because the countries that have more generous policies face the very same demographic problems.
@user-zo9ty4yn9y
3 ай бұрын
Literally the percentage of white people in your country is shrinking. I wonder if Sweden's 'white birth rate' is actually higher than Japan's. It's really funny how Westerners think that low birth rates only happen in Asia.
@m3gstarrr436
2 ай бұрын
@@frankstrawnationso what’s the problem ??
@tomasrocha6139
Ай бұрын
@@frankstrawnation Immigrant fertility isn't high enough to have an impact simce there aren't that many of them
@editfazekas3854
Күн бұрын
@@tomasrocha6139 Immigrants typically have 4-6 kids (Muslims, Africans), so even if only 10 % of the population comes from that demographic (it is true in Sweden) then it makes a big dent in the overall stats.
@CoffeeandCrochet
3 ай бұрын
13:20 wow that's was rivh of that dude's boss to say he should start a family knowing very well they aren't giving their employees a proper salary in order to raise kids. It irks these employers that the younger generation isn't having kids so they can't force them to work for unpaid overtime and threaten to fire them if they don't 🙄 People with kids are usually force to stay with a horrible job because they can't afford to leave but when you're single it's much easier to fend just for yourself.
@clanpsi
3 ай бұрын
That bit about daycare prices changing based on household income is phucking bullshyte. How could the government think that is okay? Especially with such a low ceiling ($60,000). Absolutely ridiculous, no wonder nobody wants to have kids.
@tman229
3 ай бұрын
It's ridiculous even before that. Pregnant women and their fetus are not covered by Healthcare, so you're paying that out of pocket in full. And pray there aren't any complications as the hospitals will take advantage and try to milk you.
@trawrtster6097
3 ай бұрын
@@tman229a good chunk of that can be covered by vouchers, which pretty much all municipal offices give out to pregnant women to help cover the costs of prenatal care As for costs associated with birth, there is more paperwork involved, but the local government will cover almost all, if not all of the costs associated with birth
@ANDIBO987
3 ай бұрын
The lady in pink said something that it is very true and most people avoid to put the finger on it: in 2024 the narrative is that having kids its an inconvenience and a pain overall. That your life ends and with such mentality people won't even consider it.
@TokyoTaisu
3 ай бұрын
Very true. She's quite smart and her suggestions make a lot of sense.
@a0me
3 ай бұрын
3:10 This is basically it. Raising children costs a lot, and parents don't get much help from the government to ease the burden.
@a0me
3 ай бұрын
@@dsn1460 Governments have an interest in fertility rates because they have significant implications for the country’s future, including its economic stability, workforce, and demographic makeup. This is their responsibility.
@bertr6741
3 ай бұрын
cost of living in Japan is high, the government need to address this
@a0me
3 ай бұрын
@@dsn1460 I don’t think you understand what governments are for… Taxpayers fund the government, and in return, the government is responsible for using those funds to improve the lives of its citizens and ensure the country’s overall well-being.
@Anon-tm3uh
3 ай бұрын
This is true, if I have children I want them to do whatever they want because it's my choice to have them. Otherwise I'd rather than have them if I can't fully provide whatever they want/need.
@a0me
3 ай бұрын
@@bertr6741 The cost of living in Japan is high only in relation to the stagnation of wages. But as you can see from a lot of the comments on KZitem and social media, the corporate media and governments have pulled the wool over the eyes of large swaths of the population and convinced them that it has nothing to do with money...
@chromatic2006
3 ай бұрын
The only reason that population decline is a problem is because we've built this economic system to depend on infinite perpetual growth, and have poor resources for taking care of the elderly. If the population were to naturally drop by half, the human race would still carry on. We aren't going extinct. In fact too many people can be a big problem. Let people live full happy lives, and the population will stabilize.
@evek1349
3 ай бұрын
Thank you, finally someone with common sense
@skunkjulio
3 ай бұрын
I encourage @Asian Boss to do a similar street interview in Sendai. When I lived there from 2021-2023, there were families and kids everywhere. I think the attitude is very different outside of Tokyo (IE: the rest of the country)
@ChickensAndGardening
3 ай бұрын
Also the town of Nagi in Okayama Prefecture where people are having 3-4 children because of generous benefits. The town decided over 20 years ago to make it a priority to encourage larger families, and they have succeeded. Now are being visited by delegations from all over Japan as well as South Korea, seeking to copy their approach. Hopefully it will succeed.
@natashadickson4819
3 ай бұрын
Good point
@marioh5172
3 ай бұрын
Also there are communities with great employers… lots of support for families.
@qawsedrftgyhujikolp1919
3 ай бұрын
Typically, a country's largest cities tend to have the lowest birth rates.
@707kuma3
3 ай бұрын
@@ChickensAndGardening I saw a Japanese couple who have 10 children on Instagram
@doesfireburn8532
3 ай бұрын
this whole dating/relationship/baby problem seems to be a trademark of our generation. In Germany it may not be as bad as japan right now but in a couple more years it might become as bad. What i also noticed is that the us is having a major dating problem
@nerd2544
3 ай бұрын
don't worry the increasing amounts of ahmeds and mohammeds in your country will raise your birth rates again 🤣🤣
@Foreignmonk34
3 ай бұрын
the problem exists in every developed country, and none has found an answer...
@anonomas6126
3 ай бұрын
Limited internet make people go outside to interact and meet each other.
@SpookiBunny
3 ай бұрын
@@Foreignmonk34 lack of community and high costs of living are the main issue. big cities put people in an environment where they're just isolated fending for themselves while trying to make a living and in developed countries with basic education that means people know not to have children in these conditions. meanwhile smaller cities care much more about the well being of their inner communities while providing a good life for much cheaper.
@anaana-ze8rd
3 ай бұрын
Germany and Japan are almost the same in size. But, Japan has 40 million more people living it. IMO, the problem is overinflated.
@SimonGrayDK
3 ай бұрын
4:59 jfc what a ridiculous system... so people drop out of the labour market because the increase in daycare fees is so much greater thereby systemically *increasing* prices for everyone while also not contributing to the tax base. Maybe the government should make the lower fee the fee that everyone pays...?
@Opblaasmaatje
3 ай бұрын
Works just like that in the Netherlands, probably also other european countries
@SimonGrayDK
3 ай бұрын
@@Opblaasmaatje In Denmark you get a discount on daycare when you have more children.
@WindupTerminus
3 ай бұрын
That's assuming the extra tax revenue you gain from factory farming your children so that the mother can work makes up for the problems that leads to down the road.
@justicedemocrat9357
3 ай бұрын
Absolutely ridiculous you want the government to raise my taxes to subsidise people's choice to have a kid? No way.
@dansmith1661
3 ай бұрын
@@justicedemocrat9357 Taxes are high enough despite crushing wallets. The welfare state is unsustainable by design.
@hvdiv17
23 күн бұрын
How do you think Rome really fell?😂😂
@bakerstreet101
3 ай бұрын
Most of the interviewees have very eloquent and thought out answers. Impressive.
@backupforthevideos3861
Ай бұрын
Here's how you fix the declining population, in general: 1. Fix socio-economic decline and inequality. 2. Fix jurisdictions and revise laws. 3. Revise and re-comprehend education as a whole. 4. Set strict punishments for bad work environments. 5. Focus on general mental health and the quality of the populace. 6. Destigmatize intimate relations and stop making people feel uncomfortable with it. 7. Provide future prospects and hope for better opportunities. 8. Fix the general lack of mutual respect between individuals of varying ages. 9. Hunt down those who try to exploit the youth for personal gain. 10. Cultivate a social structure that encourages resting and spending time with loved ones, rather than overwork. And so on... As you can see, this problem is far more multi-faceted than we'd like to believe, so simplistic solutions aren't going to cut it.
@csp6121
3 ай бұрын
Everything comes back to wealth inequality. Back when there weren't ultra billionaires and an actual middle class, families were abundant. Back in the 60's and 70's, a person with a high school degree could work in a factory and make enough to buy a house, two cars, support a family, and the wife could afford to stay home with their kids. Fast forward to today, we're up in arms about paying a $20 minimum wage when median rent has jumped up into the thousands. It doesn't matter how hard that Walmart worker or Amazon factory worker works when homes cost half a million or even a million+ depending on your state. We need to eat the rich. Getting wealthy is fine but nobody needs billions in generational wealth. Raise the taxes on rich people. Taking care of your grandkids is fine. But raise inheritance taxes so you're not creating a ruling class that stays in power for 10 generations. Build more houses. Create rules to make it more expensive for foreign ownership of homes. Encourage and subsidize fields like health care and nursing... more money in STEM... we don't need a gazillion English Literature or Sociology majors. And please give public teachers a substantial raise (along with higher standards to become a teacher) so we get the best talent instructing our next generation.
@SparkSphereIdeas
3 ай бұрын
I agree. The problem is the government is owned by those ultra rich. And any policies that the government try to do to shorten the gap of wealth will be seen as "socialist" by the people. it's because of US history as successful democratic nation. free market only works to a point, market can't grow indefinitely.
@VirtousStoic
3 ай бұрын
True but sadly will never ever ever ever happen. 0.1% of earth owns 99.99% of earth And the 0.1% of earth are more powerful than the 0.9% of earth. So much so that if the top 0.9% of earth and the 99% of normal humans combined they couldn't do anything against the 0.1%
@arisakawano6396
3 ай бұрын
Agree with most of this but there are not a gazillion literature and sociology majors. Stem majors are more popular than humanities anyways and I still think they are also important in order to make sure the technology we make is being used ethically and effectively. Also, people should be able to choose their majors how they want instead of being told what to study in order to appease the needs of a capitalistic system. In general more funding for education for sure though!
@csp6121
3 ай бұрын
@arisakawano6396 This isn't just the shortage of engineers. There is a shortage of health care professionals, yes? This includes nurses, doctors, caretakers. This will especially be important as the world population trends older and people live longer, with fewer young people to backfill. I would argue even teaching needs more teachers with STEM backgrounds because of the increasing number of complex subject matters, and the technical understanding to teach it properly. Everyone can choose their majors but we should have a longer term outlook. The government or corporations should incentivize and even subsidize the industries we need more people in. One of the criticisms in this video was that salaries remain stagnant. Eighteen year old college students have no idea how much income a family needs or how much money different occupations make. If there was more information and transparency about expected salary over time, it may encourage young people to prioritize longer term wealth and financial stability even if it's something "boring" like math or accounting. Can we agree that a good number of liberal arts majors choose their path not because of genuine interest, but because it's easier and less challenging? I want to remove these hurdles and get people into industries that are high paying and will need more people.
@iamnemoo
3 ай бұрын
Well pre-50's most people didn't make it to old age. Even your children had a high chance of dying. In the Victorian era babies had a 50% of surviving. Some countries celebrate a baby's first 100 because it used to be that babies had a 50% of making it that far. The baby boomers came and medicine improved so much now everyone is surviving.
@thereversepolarbear
3 ай бұрын
It's funny how all the men have such ambitions to have so many children to 'help society' - but they wouldn't be bearing the cost as much as the women. The Women are largely saying - no and for good reason. The men bare economic costs but state and maybe company pension contributions would still be paid - career advancement - pay rises - future earning potential is all largely maintained. The women seem to have to sacrifice fundamental personal financial security, stop working, and become completely dependent on the partner. Which is a very dangerous place to be. What happens if their partnership fails, what happens if they divorce and they become single parents - they may become extremely poor overnight? Or if they divorce later on in life and for the years of child care - their were no or not enough pension payments and their former husband has not made provisions for them, and in their retirement they are suddenly very poor. Actually this sort of thing has happened to women for millenia - but now women can much more easily protect themselves and choose a more economically secure life. Their is less cultural, legal obligation to marry and have children.
@lalchedi2328
3 ай бұрын
0:27 bro thinks his DNA is superior 😂
@WANDERER0070
3 ай бұрын
How do you know its not 😂
@duckmercy11
Ай бұрын
@@WANDERER0070 Because science says so. It's not the 19th century anymore, no one thinks that junk is legitimate except racists.
@tothemax0729
24 күн бұрын
I think your dna is inferior
@Wertyxl
23 күн бұрын
So wanting to continue your linage is thinking you have superior DNA? So do you think you're a dork weakling not worthy to continue your linage? 😂😂
@nopenot1310
5 күн бұрын
His DNA is of course precious to him.
@RedLion304
3 ай бұрын
Half the problem is people smashing themselves into densely populated cities because companies providing decebt salaries are sticking to said cities. Tokyo is overpopulated. Humans, like any other animal, are limited to certain environmental conditions to do well, and a densely populated environment almost necessarily means poor conditions for human health and procreation. GET PEOPLE AND BUSINESSES OUT OF TOKYO.
@Sisyanor
3 ай бұрын
11:58 I love how this woman talks and thinks this through.
@coutxxStatix
3 ай бұрын
I usually don't watch interviews because they're all sound bytes. This was well done and you asked actual thoughtful questions. Good video!
@nadialum8958
3 ай бұрын
in Singapore, mother's get childcare subsidy when they work. It is the opposite in Japan. That's why mothers not entering workforce in Japan.
@Shrey1g
3 ай бұрын
or you can say women that are not entering workfoce are becoming mothers, they chose rasing kids over being corporate slave.
@niello5944
3 ай бұрын
And it's worse than that too, because there are social stigmas on women working.
@thomasgrabkowski8283
3 ай бұрын
Yet Singapore’s birth rate is even lower than Japan now
@by-vs5dm
3 ай бұрын
2023 birth rate singapore : 0.97 japan : 1.21 I wonder why Singapore's birth rate is lower than Japan's.
@rubiesfame688
3 ай бұрын
@@by-vs5dmJapan is a country with a big population so there are people having multiple kids who make up for the ones that don't have kids doesn't change the fact that their population is decreasing
@0Flow0
3 ай бұрын
Help those who want kids and leave us alone who don't want them 👍
@savagesweetheart90
3 ай бұрын
♥️🙌🏻♥️
@mysterioanonymous3206
3 ай бұрын
Then cancel the transfer from young to old people through Pensions and Healthcare expenditure and no one would give af, trust me. The problem is that you people think you should get all that when you don't contribute anything. So better start saving up, will you? You're talking now but in 20y this will be a public, mainstream debate and there will be repercussions. I told you. Chances are you'll need a lot of support when you age so don't come crying with your broken hip and diabetes and whatnot. Because no one will give af. Just go through your savings, and sfter those 1.5y you go to the forest and compost yourself OK? Because the labour force, the children of today, don't owe you a f'in thing. They'll let your body rot in the streets and they're right to do so.
@qopiqq3629
3 ай бұрын
Only if my kids don't have to pay for your pension!
@ant7723
3 ай бұрын
@@qopiqq3629 Wow, never thought of it that way. It’s still weird to have kids just for them to feed you isn’t it?
@deadmoney5580
3 ай бұрын
@@ant7723 Not really.
@DidiOxijin
3 ай бұрын
I have lived in Japan for 10 years and I quit marrying and having a family because there are so many more issues in the society that discouraged me of raising a child here. Being a parent is already hard enough, thinking about what my child will have to go through was the deal breaker.
@orca708
3 ай бұрын
子供養うのにお金は必要だけれども、子供がいないと経済成長にも繋がりにくいし、年金は。。😢
@VirtousStoic
3 ай бұрын
Smart comment and so true. I don't blame japanese citizens I blame the Japanese government The government of japan doesn't care about it's own people. They pretend to but they don't They care to empty their wallets and overwork them. With gambling and hedonistic consumption I recommend everyone watch a video that explains the problems with countries with a very large aging population and a very small young population like japan and south korea. Because so many people seem to not realize the issue is so big [How the Coming Population Collapse Will Change Society Forever] KZitem Channel name @Moon
@LizLo2020
3 ай бұрын
My family went to visit Japan recently. I was surprised when I learned from our guide that certain services in Japan are socialized. i.e., the lower your income, the lower your rent, daycare, etc.. The parents in the video likely did some calculations, and found out that they would be better off if the mom had no income to avoid higher rent and daycare. I'm guessing what she was referring to as "part-time" work is a side hustle that would be off-the-books to keep the cost of rent, daycare, and other services low.
@ExpoPredzel
3 ай бұрын
Explanation, where you missed about "part-time". It's not off the books. It's official, but reduced hours. Full time in 1st world counts 35-40 hours per week. Part-time means you work less hours and get proportionally less pay. You aren't using your full potential, but have more time for another hustle or endeavours.
@tatsumasa6332
3 ай бұрын
We are screwed from not screwing.
@Chaimaa-l3x
3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@happyleggo9904
3 ай бұрын
+ birth control, abortion
@realnapster1522
3 ай бұрын
Mostly inflation and high cost of living.
@matheussanthiago9685
3 ай бұрын
@@realnapster1522*price gouging and price gouging
@benfreiler4054
Ай бұрын
It’s definitely a complex issue. I ultimately believe that people need to be convinced to have kids and should never be forced to, but I also don’t think many people are thinking everything through. Many of these answers talk about prioritizing happiness and quality of life over quantity. I think many people underestimate just how much of our prosperity and quality of life is dependent on a healthy population size. How can you have any wealth and happiness if you’re elderly and have no one to care for you, no pension system because it’s collapsed, if your economy is not competitive? Japan may possibly be looking at a scenario where they will be much poorer, and not just on a national level. It’s difficult to prioritize personal happiness if you’re poor.
@exopotato9414
3 ай бұрын
I really dont get why the daycare would increase fees with income of Household , this is very wrong
@Ari-ju8ry
3 ай бұрын
I think one of the problems is that the truly magical moments with children happen in the privacy of your own home, in the most relaxed, least rushed time of day, when your children are in their element and you’re not stressed about their behavior. For us, that’s bedtime stories. And that’s simply never going to be filmed and shared on social media. But the sparks that fly in those moments, cannot be put into words ❤
@arisuatlast
3 ай бұрын
14:22 She gave an insanely spot-on answer here that will go over many politicians' heads. Declining population, and yet crowds are getting worse. We all already knew this but the gov't really needs to double down on encouraging investment in more sparely populated areas and do whatever it takes to undo hypercentralization. Right now only retail megacorporations like AEON are taking that responsibility, and we need something more meaningful than that. While Tokyo's density is managed incredibly well it's unsustainable from a QoL perspective and will continue to give people every reason to not start a family. Sure lots of people realize this, and small-scale machiokoshi efforts have been impressive, but as of now it's not nearly enough. When I visit rural areas they absolutely have the right mindset within the scope of what they can do, but Tokyo is just too powerful at the moment and is devouring the country inside-out.
@hildegardvonbingen9092
24 күн бұрын
Are people forced to live in Tokyo? I mean with all those excess death to live births shouln't there be like enough free Apartments?
@krizsz
3 ай бұрын
That dude that wanted 5 daughters, will probably have to settle for some sort of a anime bodypillow xD
@SamBassComedy
3 ай бұрын
i wasn't sure what gender that person was ! 🤣
@nawab256
3 ай бұрын
@@SamBassComedy it was pretty obvious what his gender was, but he wasnt fooling anyone with that wig
@coveruplies
3 ай бұрын
@@nawab256 that was a wig?
@nawab256
3 ай бұрын
@@coveruplies bro look at that hair and look at his face. dude was like 70 with k pop silky black hair
@coveruplies
3 ай бұрын
@@nawab256 I see it now....
@gotakazawa408
3 ай бұрын
Please note the following when watching these interview videos: It appears that they rarely, if ever, interview typical office workers from medium to large companies (referred to as "salarymen" in Japan). While the responses from the interviewees may be truthful, they do not seem to represent the majority in Japan.
@sss00004
2 ай бұрын
real
@editfazekas3854
Күн бұрын
Then who do they represent? Upper class or artisans?
@fdsajkl76
3 ай бұрын
The lady in pink suggested government propaganda haha
@asfsfas2435
3 ай бұрын
government propaganda doesn't even work in dictatorship nation like china
@grrumakemeangry
3 ай бұрын
Shes not wrong lol
@DmCNoki
3 ай бұрын
Most people I know who have children are happy. Showing this is not a bad idea :o
@user-gu9yq5sj7c
3 ай бұрын
When did she mention the government? Suggesting about influencers can just be with regular people and culture.
@GummyIsNotArtsy
3 ай бұрын
it could be an honest tv show im sure theres parents out there who like spending time with their children
@friedenstone9779
3 ай бұрын
My wife has pressured me on multiple occasions to leave my job in the US and find a position working a GS job in Japan in order to permanently move our family out there (she is Okinawan). She feels our daughter will be better off with childcare being much more affordable than what we have in the States. Watching this only reaffirms what I have already known. My wife is mistaken. Life in Japan would be much easier with my California salary. The average career opportunity in Japan does NOT pay California salaries.
@VirtousStoic
3 ай бұрын
U made a good call not going to japan it's decaying as a country Japanese pride patriotism ego and oblivious ignorance makes them not understand the economical implications of their hedonistic lifestyle I recommend everyone watch a video that explains the problems with countries with a very large aging population and a very small young population like japan and south korea. Because so many people seem to not realize the issue is so big [How the Coming Population Collapse Will Change Society Forever] KZitem Channel name @Moon
@VirtousStoic
3 ай бұрын
Japan is having a marriage crisis, young people arent interested in marriage, and some dont even date. People also dont want to have kids and a tradiotional life. There is a job crisis, many young men cant even get a job, and if they get a job it isnt well paying and sometimes isnt related to their career. In summary japan conservatism (closed economy and they are so resistant to change even in their own companies) and its government failure to help its citizens is breaking japan And japan is using gambling and media (manga, anime, music, etc) to distract and make money from its citizens without helping them have money in the first place.
@Colourisedspoon
3 ай бұрын
Your wife is not mistaken, Japan is much cheaper, you dont need californian salary to live a californian life in Japan.
@VirtousStoic
3 ай бұрын
@@Colourisedspoon u didn't understand a word he said at all. Read it 3 times lol
@erikad0511
3 ай бұрын
Life is cheaper there tho...The 1 woman said 3-4 bedroom for $1500 rent... you're not finding that in CA or anywhere but the south (maybe)
@thisdudesuxlol9669
2 ай бұрын
0:25 bro was excited
@michelleg7
3 ай бұрын
The thing is no one can really afford to have kids or live on their own with the cost of living in the world, it's insane how high the inflation has been. The cost of food and just things in general has been rough.
@VirtousStoic
3 ай бұрын
Trust me it's not inflation it's the greed of the elites. Covid was a reset to price change the earth making all humans salaries cut by 20-40% depending on ur relative inflation in ur nation. Don't believe go look at turkey inflation it's horrendous almost 50%
@shannongrossen8885
3 ай бұрын
@@Hu-5758furio_nuinand they realistically shouldn't, that's what we should all try to avoid
@oyuyuy
3 ай бұрын
Utter nonsense.
@oyuyuy
3 ай бұрын
@@shannongrossen8885 Why?
@paodbdauw
3 ай бұрын
@@oyuyuy Why? Because we are not as dumb as you precisely.
@nah131
3 ай бұрын
This happens everywhere in the world not just in Japan, I have similar thought with them as I don't want children, my country owns me nothing.
@mia3033
3 ай бұрын
Not as bad as japan. Its ppl's choice to have kids or not but if its down bad to japan level the country might collapse
@mannycalavera2335
3 ай бұрын
It is the same in my country. Cost of living has risen so much that regular people are no longer able to do regular things.
@shakirfoster9292
2 ай бұрын
Japan is too expensive to live ; and the Yen is too weak to even consider starting a family....
@Ulliam1
2 ай бұрын
Bro just say Capitalism, don't sugar coat it
@Katsura-San124
23 күн бұрын
Poverty never stopped people before, the only reason it does now is because we don't have proper communities, tribes.
@jinz0
3 ай бұрын
it's just selfish culture about clothes and holidays, but not once you are third world country full of 90 year olds
@PavltheRobot
Ай бұрын
I think a lot of young people are aware, but what are they supposed to do about it? You can't just force people to have kids 💀
@e-9227
Ай бұрын
It’s an infringement on human rights. It’s also stupid because they will end up paying more for a generation with psycholohical issues because they were born by people who did not want them.
@hildegardvonbingen9092
24 күн бұрын
Have unprotected Sex?
@Ignisan_66
15 күн бұрын
When things get desperate enough... In several decades when this problem is even worse, people and nations will resort to extreme measures just to survive. It's human nature.
@aminahmad2595
10 күн бұрын
You people have no religion. Most religions encourage marriage and children to spread the religion. Eventually it is survival of the fittest. How genius are Japanese really. If they are going to die out the one thing ever species tries to avoid extinction 😂
@Naronaxie
3 ай бұрын
If they allowed us half Japanese people to have dual citizenship past the age of 22, I'd gladly come raise my kids there while my husband works remote getting paid in USD. I just want the option of being a citizen of both without renouncing my American citizenship.
@VesperJester
3 ай бұрын
Fleeing immigrants really are something. Why do you care about a country that you and your family abandoned just to live in the US? I don't understand the cowardly mentality.
@vegassincity702
3 ай бұрын
We don't want you here hafu.
@jayc33day
3 ай бұрын
@@vegassincity702ur def white 😂
@vegassincity702
3 ай бұрын
@@jayc33day so what.. Deal with it.
@jayc33day
3 ай бұрын
@@vegassincity702 deleting your own comment after you got called out 🤣
@MilkTeaASMR
3 ай бұрын
seriously great interviews and i love hearing Japanese spoken on deep topics in a natural way for listening practice. ❤
@mwittmann68
26 күн бұрын
Why do they look so Americanized/Westernized/Europeanized ???
@maestrofrags3436
5 күн бұрын
colonization and hiroshima...
@vihtahousu_404
3 ай бұрын
So the problem is that there are too many old people (pensioners) compared to younger, working people. In the old days, 10 children were made, and now those 10 children are today's pensioners. Modern people in civilized countries have less than 2 children. It is not the fault of us young workers that the parents of current retirees made so many current retirees. Today's retirees demand a "living wage" from the youth, even though the youth is not obligated to support them. I would have a solution to this problem, but it would not be to the pensioners' liking... This is the same situation in my home country as well as in Japan. More immigrants are being admitted to my country, most of whom are unemployed - in other words, this has not saved the pensions of senior citizens. It's just making things worse.
@WANDERER0070
3 ай бұрын
Bro Ive been working my whole life paid taxes and get good pension plus have enough savings,😂 everyone should do the same ❤
@d3tuned378
3 ай бұрын
It's not a crisis. The world is overpopulated. It's a "crisis" for capitalists, because that system expects infinite growth with finite resources and dwindling opportunities and quality of life for laborers.
@erickariuki6842
3 ай бұрын
People are living longer than before, that's the real issue
@editfazekas3854
Күн бұрын
I beg to differ and to stop using platitudes. The 3rd world is overpopulated. The 2nd and the 1st world is dying out.
@d3tuned378
Күн бұрын
@@editfazekas3854 Beg all you want. The world itself is overpopulated, and the '2nd' and first world are not even close to 'dying out' and wont be. Are you a bot for corporate interests? The only people who benefit from the continued pumping out of babies are those whose bottom line is tied to infinite, unsustainable growth (IE shareholders, billionaires). Capitalism is the notion that infinite growth should be sustained within a system that has finite resources. It's inherently untenable. Degrowth is the only option, and even then it's not going to completely save us from the horrible climate future we have in store for us. Nothing is going to get the plastic out of your soft tissue or your brain. You are either an agent for the billionaires or you're incredibly uninformed.
@d3tuned378
Күн бұрын
@@editfazekas3854 In addition, that's not what platitudes are. You're using that word incorrectly.
@imunknownsource8696
2 ай бұрын
The real problem= Overwork and high tax
@theinktician
3 ай бұрын
lol. There are actually way more females than males in japan. Japan has the 4th highest female:male ratio 😅
@Akira-o7t
3 ай бұрын
Yea thats true so the dude that said he wanted only daughters, even 5 of them and no sons is weird af
@qawsedrftgyhujikolp1919
3 ай бұрын
Women usually live longer than men. And the average age in Japan is...
@davidmella1174
3 ай бұрын
@@Akira-o7t bro get off of the internet are you seriously gonna antagonize someones "preference" like that and question their character (it wont come true anyway)
@realnapster1522
3 ай бұрын
They need to allow immigrants from India who are skilled and well educated. India has surplus of men. And especially skilled people who work in software. Japan can put compete US if they allow immigrants from India.
@hildegardvonbingen9092
24 күн бұрын
Yeah they have like excess elderly women who can't have kids anymore but receive 25+years of Pensions
@Lucky55Blue
3 ай бұрын
If the Japanese government truly wants the production of more Children, listen to women and help them have the benefits of financially raising a child conducive to their choice of parenthood. Because parenthood now is a choice and it has to be fully benefiting to both Men and Women if they will decide to have Children. Full daycare, work et cetera. Otherwise, people will look the other way and see the benefits of bachelorhood instead which outweighs the sufferings of parenthood. My Opinion.
@시청용계정-c1c
3 ай бұрын
If the Japanese government really wants to have more children, turn women into machines whose only job is to give birth lol. Yes, this is why the birth rate in Africa is so crazy high.
@natsuds1071
3 ай бұрын
While I agree, they also have to make it so the system itself discourages single motherhood.
@frankstrawnation
3 ай бұрын
Why people insist with daycare and subsidies if those policies never worked in any place?
@jayc342009
3 ай бұрын
It's a 2 way issue, in Japan there are men who hide away in their parents basements. If we encourage more women to have children, they are going to struggle finding men who want children too.
@Lucky55Blue
3 ай бұрын
@@frankstrawnation Because as shown in the video, Daycare cost money and Parenthood is a dismal prospect choice compared to being Single, Free and Individualistically independent. How to make Parenthood palatable??? It’s like climbing an uphill battle and not even a convincing one at that.
@OnePiece-yb2le
23 күн бұрын
Idk about japans laws, but first world countries with legal abortion and 'dangerously' low birth rates is such a ironic paradoxal situation 😂😂. I hear the u s. is going that way and they've aborted 63 MILLION babies🤦.
@SkySpiral8
3 ай бұрын
I work in childcare for mostly upper middle class parents. There’s no birth rate crisis when parents are comfortable enough to have a career, children, and afford childcare all at the same time. Heck, one of our kids was a frozen embryo once. You know how much that costs? The overpowered corporations making money off of underpaid labor are contributing to the struggles of middle class and lower. Don’t blame women for being “selfish” now that some finally get to do the things men have always been allowed to do-namely, choose our lifestyle.
@NowioFel
3 ай бұрын
All that brings them is 6 out 10 being on some form of anti deppressants and other drugs just to cope with reality. Meanwhile young mothers don't even need external vitamins because their hormone levels and life satisfaction is in healthy levels.
@SkySpiral8
3 ай бұрын
@@NowioFel huh? Anemia and depression is rampant among postpartum mothers
@NowioFel
3 ай бұрын
@@SkySpiral8 And those go away, if they even occur, after 2 to 6 weeks. What is your point, to deny happiness for decades for a potential depression of 2 months though which your husband and child will help you on every step?
@SkySpiral8
3 ай бұрын
@@NowioFel you are describing an ideal situation, not reality
@NowioFel
3 ай бұрын
@@SkySpiral8 not every place is as backwards in medical care and familial and community bonds as your place of residence seems to be.
@BrightElk
3 ай бұрын
Not Japanese nor do I live in Japan but it is extremely hard to find housing where I live in Canada at the moment. Housing has been extremely neglected here yet the government continues to complain about the low birth rate but instead of fixing it and making the country a pleasant place to live for the people who are already here they want to bandaid it with foreigners and look the other way. What will Canada do when they discover that the foreigners quickly run into the exact same issue and learn it’s not worth it for them to have children also? We need more space for our growing family but cannot find a bigger home because the vacancy rate in our area is .1%. Where would the baby go? We wanted to have more children but decided to get a vasectomy and focus on the one child we can manage. The government will soon have to learn that you cannot fix the population crisis with just foreigners. If Canada is a hard place to live the problem will only continue.
@marialanagoldsworthy8670
3 ай бұрын
This one kid in glasses thinks he can survive w a house and child at $38,000 USD ok my man good luck. His reason? Bc his parents survived on that. I think he’s a victim of hearing our parents generation say “back in my day…” He’s a “back in my day” victim.
@bobby24love
3 ай бұрын
This was really good and interesting. Thank you so much! I love Japan and I hope to return to visit in the near future.
@LetsGoforDabash
3 ай бұрын
I m not even against people's choice to stay childless but this is not the real problem The real problem is people's unrealistic expectations for partner n government's ignorance on financial crisis on people for raising the kid 🤔
@demin789
3 ай бұрын
The girl in pink is killing me "news about birthrate are always bad so maybe we should watch something happy on tv" lmao. She is everything.
@nopenot1310
5 күн бұрын
Bread and circus
@uncoverjapan
3 ай бұрын
Have a kid so you'll work harder for me 😂
@nah131
3 ай бұрын
have a kid to serve them as consumer and worker
@Akira-o7t
3 ай бұрын
Basically what Japan wants from its citizens yea lmao
@chrisel4349
3 ай бұрын
I mean maybe that’s what his boss meant, but it also could have been some well-meaning advice. Having a sense of purpose in life is important.
@uncoverjapan
3 ай бұрын
@@chrisel4349 I imagine he meant it provides a sense of purpose and pushes you to achieve more in life rather than something malicious or ill-intent.
@keyth20
3 ай бұрын
Boss: 😈
@eliasjessop1883
3 ай бұрын
The general sentiment is that people dont think that having a family can bring happinenss. The over emphasis on work leaves little time to enjoy what makes having a family so great, and when they already know that they're happy spending money on luxury goods, it has to be hard to imagine that the trade of luxery for a family is worth it. I do think that many people are mistaken on the costs though. Or at least not percoeving it correctly. That 130,000 or what ever cost of having a kid is likely through their life time. If you split that up across 18 years, its around 7,000 a year which should be within budget for many people.
@ShaiyanHossain
3 ай бұрын
Lol thats assuming you get paid well enough, most people arent, and your kid doesnt have special needs and/or interests. Many peoplelive paycheck to paycheck already, and dont have much to spare beyond that.
@frenchalien9108
3 ай бұрын
Even in first world countries people are paid minimum wages or worse. With the cost of life they go into debts. Prospects to rise children are really bad when just the rent and food cost are unbearable.
@coastcity7029
3 ай бұрын
Is it people, or mostly women that think that? 🤔
@eliasjessop1883
3 ай бұрын
@@ShaiyanHossain yeah, but you forget that Japan ranks among the highest for spending on luxury goods. of course, there are plenty of people that aren't making enough money. it's silly to say otherwise. Notice in the original comment I say "for many people" meaning that naturally there are those that don't fall into this category of being able to afford it. but once again, there are many people that make it work on smaller salaries, it all depends on what your priorities are.
@SK-lt1so
3 ай бұрын
Then you pay?
@pratosaurusrex1128
Ай бұрын
Seems like Japan and South Korea are the canaries in the coal mine. It’s interesting to hear about daycare in Japan. In the U.K. to put 1 child through daycare full time is the equivalent to around 80% of the average persons pay before tax. There is government funded assistance to lower this however it doesn’t make financial sense for the average couple to do this, even with the assistance. My wife and I make it work by putting our child in daycare 3 days a week and get help from my parents the other 2 days. Even then the average payment per month with assistance is 62% of what we pay for the mortgage.
@Katsura-San124
23 күн бұрын
Letting randos raise your kids is a bad idea.
@davidigra
3 ай бұрын
No need to reinvent the wheel, for a nation with a population in decline it's a matter of changing policies and creating opportunities for families. Provide childcare, care for women and subsidies for families. The hard part will be finding political consensus to implement such changes.
@fayelis
3 ай бұрын
yeah thats obviously not going to happen easier to just allow immigrants
@6ghastlyghoul9
3 ай бұрын
@@fayelis politicians don't reinvest funds derived from taxes into society. they pocket them
@Chango150
3 ай бұрын
No subsidies no please, we already have enough countries going bankrupt due to so much subsidy policy
@MACTEP_CHOB
3 ай бұрын
@@Chango150 What is your solution ?
@Roaming725
3 ай бұрын
Yeah, the issue is that old people have control over creating policies and they don't care to invest in the future that they will not be alive for.
@David-ue7vv
3 ай бұрын
0:40 creepy!!! He wants to live the anime in real life 😂
@ELMATITV
Ай бұрын
Yes!!! Disgusting
@nytexRa
2 ай бұрын
Before people get in relationship without much considering financial situation, emotionl & physical comparability. But now work pressure don't let them spend time, expensive to look after children & their education or fail to understand pressure of partners in work raise misunderstanding among them. To have mental peace, it's being more suitable to remain single.
@Meow3431
3 ай бұрын
I think in todays society raising children isn't seen as something admirable anymore. The mother is supposed to do it on the side while working etc. Yeah... I guess this is a deeper rooted problem many developed countries are facing
@AmandaComeauCreates
3 ай бұрын
I wanna be friends with the lady who said that although her country is in decline, she will prioritize her own happiness. Its a breath of fresh air to hear someone less patriotic and attached to the idea of 'nation' over self, and it heartens me to know that most of these people recognize the gross income issues associated with the population crisis.
@jayc342009
3 ай бұрын
Come to the uk, plenty of us have given up and hate our country and politicians
@matheussanthiago9685
3 ай бұрын
@GoralischeSS nation simp
@shamicentertainment1262
2 ай бұрын
Yeah sort of. If everyone has that mindset than civilization as we know it is over. so idk how good of a mindset it actually is long run. Selfishness has it's place, but if we want a modern society to keep functioning we need enough people to maintain it
@TheAntinowherelane
2 ай бұрын
Yeah she was a real one. Best responses in the interviews tbh. Coming out with that うるさい about her dads opinion was hella honest and open. Respect.
@wilnur4846
2 ай бұрын
jew detected
@a.b.j8259
2 ай бұрын
Now.. i realised, i am very happy.... I didn't born in Japan... LoL 😂😂😂 Their mentality is weird...
@cstpa1
3 ай бұрын
lol the barbie girl said i dont give a F
@andrewcrane5105
3 ай бұрын
I love how forward and easy the second guys way of thinking is
@fion3943
3 ай бұрын
The basketball cap guy is a narc lmao, thinks his genes are special and way of thinking? Yeah guess he doesn't know that everyone has their own thinking, no one is gonna be a clone of him
@Endrance88
3 ай бұрын
No country can escape late stage capitalism.
@MrDanisve
3 ай бұрын
Unless they socialize the stuff we need to live. Capitalism works great in markets with flexibility. If dishes become too expensive, i will start using leafs. However, i cannot choose out of housing. Or choose not to eat cause i think its expensive. And that can be exploited.
@alfonsjones5798
3 ай бұрын
13:20 this is interesting. As a man in germany, my boss would never asked me, if i want to have children or somthing like that. With close colleagues its different, but the boss oder Supervisor? Not really. I think women might experience this more often
@AidanK_ART
2 ай бұрын
I’m from Russia, and our government does a lot to ensure that people have children. It seems to me that they even do TOO much 😅 preferential mortgages, benefits to mothers for each child born, maternity capital, free kindergartens, free schools, free universities, free medicine, endless benefits. This pisses me off hahaha Because it is paid from budget money, from taxes, which are also paid by childless people, like me. I don't understand why I should support other people's children. But this is a system in Russia - all the money is for motherhood and children. I wouldn't be surprised if they introduce a tax on childlessness soon lol
@Олег_Евсеев
2 ай бұрын
Зато более менее держим показатель рождаемости. Иначе скатимся в помойку как все страны G7
@НиколайАлександров-э4я
Ай бұрын
Потому что Россия пережила несколько сильных демографических провалов, за последние 100 лет их 3-4. Хорошо что существуют все эти льготы и пособия, т.к. устойчивая демографическая ситуация - залог выживания государства. Если рождаемость не превышает смертность, то единственный выход - это мигранты. Но как мы знаем это не всегда работает.
@Hope_Ostin
Ай бұрын
Все эти льготы и бесплатные учреждения полностью невелируются низкими зарплатами. Да, я ничего не плачу за садик, школу, универ, но я так же ничего и не получаю. Половина или больше зарплаты уходит полностью на аренду жилья и коммунальные услуги, оставшееся нужно как то распределить на еду, цены на которую постоянно растут. Мед услуги некоторые бесплатные, но их качество оставляет желать лучшего и лекарства и процедуры в любом случае нужно оплачивать. Такими образом не остаётся никакой возможности копить на собственное жилье, даже на первоначальный взнос по ипотеке, а ежемесячный платеж даже по льготной ипотеке в два и более раз выше арендной платы. И конечно же ты не можешь ничего откладывать на старость. Вообще ничего. Тут уже проблема не в том что возможность иметь детей у тебя появится только к 35 годам, а в том что без жилья у тебя никогда не появится такая возможность.
@Katsura-San124
23 күн бұрын
Keep your culture alive. Do not let in immigrants.
@editfazekas3854
Күн бұрын
Other people's kids will pay your pension, so don't feel sorry for the amount taken from your tax for their birth and education. The parents will sacrifice their time to raise them, not you.
@tc2334
3 ай бұрын
The couple with the pregnant woman seem so cheerful. :)
@denny.dagger
3 ай бұрын
If only there is a thinking to prioritize individual happines rather than national interest, and this kind of thinking exists 80% in a group of population. I can't imagine what would happen next. Didn't she realize that she can be happy because the state guarantee her security from criminals. The state gives freedom to her to enjoy her life and do whatever she wants under law protection. Yet she doesn't even care the interest of the country. I feel so bad to hear it
@dracoazur
3 ай бұрын
Another issue is the centralization. Everyone wants/needs to be close to Tokyo. There seems to be a lot of rural areas with low population in Japan. Decentralization surely should help.
@frenchalien9108
3 ай бұрын
1/3 of japan is empty because there are just no existing jobs available in these places. So the life cost and competition becomes utter madness and concentrated around mega cities such as tokyo
@ShiruSama1
3 ай бұрын
The pink girl has a point... Just make people think kids will make them happy. SNS propaganda. Could actually work. Isn't that what spyxfamily is about?
@U-qho
3 ай бұрын
You do know that Japanese media had already tried this method, massively promoting this type of video, if you’re a Japanese person, out of 10 shorts video, you are likely to get 2 video about children.
@ShiruSama1
3 ай бұрын
@@U-qho wow I had no idea
@leilegion
3 ай бұрын
The endless rise of living cost will make any educated people to reconsider having kids. The stress level of working long hours is draining and many would rather use their free time to be FREE, be left alone and enjoy life instead of going through another set of stress. People are just trying their best to survive. The investment in building a family is too costly as well. And the fact inflation will continue in the next 10 years, would you want your child to suffer as you have suffered or suffering? If you have any heart or conscience, you wouldn't want that for the next gen.
@nah131
3 ай бұрын
anti natalism is getting more popular
@phoenixastra4429
3 ай бұрын
People are homeless why do we care about repopulating? If anything it should be the opposite, trying to not have kids everywhere! There's so many homeless, foster kids, etc, or kids born and have terrible lives bc they struggle and their family is poor, have bad lives and grow up poor struggling traumatized and get sick and disabled. It's honestly better to have a small population--at least for a while. More homes will be avail, more jobs will open up.
@MishClauw
3 ай бұрын
would be funny to see a japanese politician react to this
@Akira-o7t
3 ай бұрын
Agitated politician noises
@ShaiyanHossain
3 ай бұрын
japanese politicans dont care because these people aren't the ones voting.
@asfsfas2435
3 ай бұрын
don't think it's just a Population Crisis, is about having more old people than young people, less labor in workforce. And lower GDP that kind of stuff
@Galleno_1918
3 ай бұрын
That's the definition of a crisis.
@VirtousStoic
3 ай бұрын
@@Galleno_1918 yup check my comments on the video people don't like the truth and get triggered
@lizzyisbored9882
3 ай бұрын
I mean like having more kids can cause expential growth and may cause the opposite problem of not having enough living space. As you said the reall issue is too many old people and that's because those old people came from the transition of maternal and natal helth care meaning less women and less infants died. Before pregnancy related care and birth control the strategy was to get pregnant a lot and hope half the kids live.
@ImpeRiaLismus
3 ай бұрын
"I want to pass on my DNA to future generations." Lol. That is such a selfish and dumb reason to have children.
@Vic-ek1fv
3 ай бұрын
The lady in white has it very clear. She knows that if she has children, her life is over. My cousins in South Korea say similar things. When a woman has a child. she lives only for that child. She cannot get promotions at work. She cannot go out once per month to have lunch with friends. Men provide and that's it. They work 8 to 10 hours, but when they get home, the work is done. A mom in Japan works 24/7. No wonder they don't want to have children, they gain nothing from it
@sirmister9099
3 ай бұрын
teaching english in japan and learning about the lives of stay at home moms there, you are completely wrong. they go out daily to cafes, fitness clubs, english lessons, and even have time to meet their boyfriends while controlling their husbands paycheck, giving him 20 bucks for lunch and pocketing the rest for themselves. japanese men are tired of being used, thats the problem.
@nathanielmills4678
3 ай бұрын
Depends on each woman's values. Some value career, some value raising a child. Life being over for one having a child may be life just becoming interesting for another.
@Vic-ek1fv
3 ай бұрын
@@sirmister9099 Girl bosses
@Vic-ek1fv
3 ай бұрын
@@nathanielmills4678 I’m sure that it is interesting and rewarding, but it carries a great cost. And more women don’t see that cost worth it anymore
@jjb2655
3 ай бұрын
Japanese and South Korean men definitely work way more than 8-10 hours a day.
@isamujarman
3 ай бұрын
Such an insightful interview of Japan's current state - especially coming from the people themselves. General take was for the Gov't to better the quality of life (higher salary, better health insurance coverage, etc.) which in turn could address young people to reproduce and reinstate familial values
@frankstrawnation
3 ай бұрын
Those things cost lots of money. The government can give that to the people, but the taxes will become a enormous burden to these very same people. With high taxes we have high cost of living, which is an obstacle to people create their families.
@NovaLyceum
3 ай бұрын
In these situations the onus or burden tends to fall on women. So, I have a better question. Once an artificial womb is created how many men would choose to be a single parent and raise a child? 🤔
@NowioFel
3 ай бұрын
Well, all statistics point to single parent dads raise children that do not get into crime or night work... so the consequence of choosing AW would lower crime and degeneracy. Lets introduce that tech to Chicago, Portland and other crime havens.
@xVongolaXth
3 ай бұрын
You can see this problem in many countries nowadays. Like.. "back then", one person, primarily the man was able to work and to have enough money for the whole family. Now the family shifts toward equality, which is good but it feels like in terms of living costs and how to cover them, this equality is a MUST so that you can have a family. Everyone needs to work for them to be able to cover the rent costs, the food costs, the school costs.. and so on.. Everything got expensive fast and most can't even afford own houses or apartements anymore. If you're lucky and you inherit a house then you can smile.. but not all the time because nowadays the houses can be fairly old and need to be upgraded which is very expensive too. I see this problem primarily in countries that are strong economy wise. They struggle to hold down the living costs which then end in the thought: I can't even afford a family, why go for it then? Plus obviously the change in opinion in newer generations. My mother got me with 17, fairly young.. back then it was relatively "normal" to get a child younger.. But now? They go to school, then study, then work and then they're 30++ ... Weird world haha.
@시청용계정-c1c
3 ай бұрын
No, I don't understand why people make excuses. We want to do more than just raise children. In the past, a woman's role was only to give birth to children. Women today have a choice
@natsuds1071
3 ай бұрын
@@시청용계정-c1c imo they have even less of a choice, Now It's A Necessity to do all of that if you wish to provide a good quality of life for your children and even than it's hard to find someone, date them long enough to know them well enough and by ++30 age it's gets harder to have children.
@SpScarletSpider
3 ай бұрын
@@시청용계정-c1c And sadly, nowadays they make the wrong choice.
@jayc342009
3 ай бұрын
@user-mv5bd4lx4u statistically most women do want children, they tend to leave it later nowadays
@MrNote-lz7lh
3 ай бұрын
Well double the workforce and you half both the wage and housing supply. Globalism just made it worse by mass immigration and shipping production into cheap countries.
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