I’m a serial dater...Cocoa Puffs..Frosted Flakes..
@teerich2011
5 жыл бұрын
It's better than being a serial killer
@esperanzaruiz4782
5 жыл бұрын
New date every morning? Couldn’t be me, I’m in a cere-ous relationship with Cinnamon Toast Crunch
@toricow8573
5 жыл бұрын
That was corny. Corny Flaky.
@MikeBowShow
5 жыл бұрын
Do we give good dating advice or what?! 😄😄😄
@kdpc06
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, to be honest it was actually really helpful and it’s made me think a bit more on how to engage with people when dating. It was also nice to hear that I’m not the only who feels so pressured to couple up. Since all my friends have gotten married and I’m the last single person in the group it’s just painful when relationship status comes up because I get ganged up on.
@strom51
5 жыл бұрын
Phil actually giving good life advice for relationships and love
@HAlC-up4hm
5 жыл бұрын
Phil achieved level 10 dad in this lunch break. lol "I believe in attraction at first sight" "Yeah. That's like love-ish...right?" "OH GOD I AM SO WORRIED FOR YOU!"
@Yinyueify
5 жыл бұрын
“hey i like your photos” reminds me of “do you like messi” from kim bok joo 😂
@iwillgiveyouapassion4986
5 жыл бұрын
Man, if Wes DMed me about my pictures, I think I'd be too star stuck to even realize he was shooting his shot.
@societybye7166
5 жыл бұрын
Love what Wes said about some people don’t need a companion and are just satisfied with their friends and family and health etc. I feel the same way. Also for people who aren’t aware there is such thing as asexuality and aromanticism. People that identify as asexual don’t have sexual attraction for people so they may not like to kiss, hold hands etc. And then there are people who identify as aromantic who don’t feel romantic attraction towards people. They have no desire to date, get married etc. At the end of the day just live your life comfortably and by how you feel and what you want. Don’t let people make you feel weird for not wanting what’s considered the norm in this human life. We are satisfied with different things.
@magnolia3802
4 жыл бұрын
Glad asexual and aromantic perspectives are being voiced and included! When Wes was responding to Phil’s suggestion that all humans want companionship and implying a romantic/sexual partner is the means of fulfilling that universal need--- and Wes forwarded the case of people who don’t feel that need and can instead be happy with friends, family, career, I immediately thought of aromanticism too!
@magnolia3802
4 жыл бұрын
Something to add is that just because an asexual doesn't experience sexual attraction doesn't mean they also don't want to kiss or hold hands. Sure, they might not want to do those things. But plenty asexuals do want to, they just don't experience them as being sexual. For me, I'd say they fall more under sensual attraction (attraction to sensory experiences to be had with someone, ex. touch of holding their hand, sound of hearing their voice, etc.) and romantic attraction (attraction to romantic experiences to be had with someone, ex. expressing affection and/or commitment). I guess for sexual people they'd just have an added lens of sexual attraction through which they'd experience kissing or whatever else.
@JazzzyGee
5 жыл бұрын
Phil at 13:01 “But. You. Didn’t. Give me the time to develop my SOCIAL SKILLS.” 🤣🤣👌🏻👌🏻
@goteahue9260
5 жыл бұрын
"Just like love" Beautiful...just like Wes.
@victorli5156
5 жыл бұрын
Better to be single than to be with the wrong partner and a kid.
@waikayec
5 жыл бұрын
4:10 PHIL I'M WATCHING YOU
@chachieabara1635
5 жыл бұрын
waikayec Jenn was right.
@GurjotRandhawa
5 жыл бұрын
Ahaha I didn’t even notice until you pointed it out
@sweetheartycandy
5 жыл бұрын
Phil: i believe in attraction at first sight Leenda: that's like love-ish 😅😅 Phil: i'm so worried for you 😂 LOL Leenda's so cute
@cinnjotime3995
4 жыл бұрын
Asian guys are hot especially the younger-sh generation ... but I am a happy married woman to an asian man.. but if I was not.. y’all be in trouble
@kawaiiafangirl
5 жыл бұрын
Forever alone squad, where y’all at?
@ttrinh25
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the words of affirmation Wes @14:10 !!! very hard to explain this to your traditional parents and inquiring friends of when you will be partnered up
@houav.61
5 жыл бұрын
This was a lovely episode! Not just the topic but y'alls friendship.
@sungminkim2742
5 жыл бұрын
Oh my godd. Linda saying that attraction is the same as love as first sight made me HURT
@deem3365
5 жыл бұрын
Wes so smooth He doesn't even know he's hitting on the person.
@thewesleychan
5 жыл бұрын
Yeaaah. There's probably a different word for that lol
@xyz-pg3zd
5 жыл бұрын
It's so subjective. Everybody has different needs and are at different points in their lives. But some good advice here and do what works for you. Have to try, and see (date, socialize, etc) what you're ultimately searching for.
@stellagu
5 жыл бұрын
12:12 What was that pause before Mike said "Girlfriend"? It looked like he was gonna say "Boyfriend" lol BTW I'm not judging, just stating my observation.
@dreamxpaili
5 жыл бұрын
i obser ed the same thing
@caffeinatedx
5 жыл бұрын
I noticed that too.
@dulche5087
4 жыл бұрын
Oh.. Yeah.. Looks like and sounds like twas what seemed like he's supposed to say. 😩
@onedollah
5 жыл бұрын
i love Linda!! She's someone who really likes and cares about the Asian Community!
@KienTran
5 жыл бұрын
Man that’s totally the experience. “No dating till you graduate, get a job, buy a house!” Then suddenly it’s non stop suggestions about my parents’ friends’ daughters.
@pipsplace9072
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Wes for pointing out that you don't need to be in a romantic relationship to be happy. As an aromantic, I have no interest in dating or marriage, but that doesnt mean I cant have meaningful connections and relationships that are just as important as romantic ones. Marriage is a social construct!!
@jasonle6840
5 жыл бұрын
Lmao 4:09 look on the right!
@lalakoaiko
5 жыл бұрын
ah wes described exactly how i feel. i’m 25 but not really interested in dating nor do i have the urge to get married because i’m already happy with my life and just being around my friends and family. i don’t want kids either so i’m really glad my parents support how i feel and don’t pressure me into marrying and having kids.
@xeax-r5l
5 жыл бұрын
even though this was one of their longer lunch breaks, it went by so fast :/
@Iamatomto
5 жыл бұрын
omg i really loved that bit when Phil was talking about parents and when Wes was talking about singleness!
@jasminejelly6882
5 жыл бұрын
I’m at that point of no dating until you finish college/university
@Valentina-jc7wr
5 жыл бұрын
You know what, just bless WongFu. Watching their videos is like having best life teacher, makes you rethink stuff and also about these lunch break series, it feels like sitting with friends and having really great and important talks, cos not always we have that chance but it feels so good and healing, that’s just how it feels. Thank you, WongFu team! More more great projects and ideas!
@estellelopez6682
5 жыл бұрын
"LinkedIn" lol ....too real
@annahi017
5 жыл бұрын
Watching Mike Bow wanting to start eating but waiting for the right timing.. 😅
@RoyalGaming420BlazeIt
4 жыл бұрын
Beauty attracts Personality makes them stay
@jacquelinisidro1931
5 жыл бұрын
Wasn’t Wesley in a long distance relationship?
@sandyl6633
5 жыл бұрын
Jacquelin Isidro he was but they’re no longer together.
@caffeinatedx
5 жыл бұрын
I think Mike actually deserves a No. 1 fan of Wong Fu award.
@RealSoccerFreak
5 жыл бұрын
13:31 that's so deep Phil
@bwingbwinggwiyomi
4 жыл бұрын
I've had sooooo many crushes, no dates, but bc of that now I'm like Linda.. Tryna find that perfect middle, it's so bad lmaoo
@mancantchew
5 жыл бұрын
I feel like if you have a problem with your SO liking photos and/or leaving comments, that's just a sign of insecurity/a shitty past. If you fully trust them, there shouldn't be a concern about something as pervasive as that
@justkeepsigning5032
5 жыл бұрын
Was hoping Mike would pull a Phil (from the end of the previous video) and say "by the way this is my girlfriend Linda" loool
@applejacks0711
5 жыл бұрын
Loved the convo :) def think that as you get older, too, there’s more self-acceptance of who you are as a person . While those societal pressures are still there, you develop the confidence to just be like: “nah, I’m good, thanks.” :)
@mags787
5 жыл бұрын
12:55 Leenda: don't date during college but why haven't you found one yet Phil: you didn't give me the time to devELOP MY social skiLLS relatable
@jshen5377
5 жыл бұрын
YAY! Extra long lunch break video to eat my lunch with AKA longer break for me too!!!😄 look forward to these every week!!
@safirazuidveen1837
5 жыл бұрын
Be patient guys, you will all find the right one for you! For me, being single has taught me a lot about myself. Made me realise what I actually wanted and that I needed to work on aspects of myself. And that is okay. Because our timeline is different from others, doesn't mean that something we've failed or something. We are on our own path living a beautiful life.
@KwanFung
5 жыл бұрын
12:38 damn you can feel the heaviness of Linda's voice
@kirawrxD
5 жыл бұрын
I JUST SAW LINDA ON MIKEY CHENS CHANNEL! Wow she’s popping up everywhere I love it
@kericwu
5 жыл бұрын
She's blowing up alright! Proud of her! I've watching her since she started
@trudytriad4574
4 жыл бұрын
Dude on the far left is that guy that will give you some real advice and truth, even though it's unsavoury. We all need a friend like that.
@janidang90
5 жыл бұрын
THIS...just this... thank you WongFu, Mike Bow, Leenda Dee!!! I needed this
@yeeleng6449
5 жыл бұрын
So is Leenda’s name spelled Linda or Leenda?
@janikami21
5 жыл бұрын
Loved this episode of Lunchbreak! what Phil said at 11:18 was gold, also at 14:45!
@beepbeepcasucha
5 жыл бұрын
Phil talking about how parents put pressure on us to get our lives in order before they're gone made me so teary because it's so true.
@Aznlollipop
4 жыл бұрын
I loved this episode of Lunch Break! You guys should have Leenda and Mike on more! They're amazing
@chachieabara1635
5 жыл бұрын
Damn I wish this was longer. This is soooo relatable
@only1cookiemonster
3 жыл бұрын
Linda s like so beautiful
@Jenoblade
5 жыл бұрын
Damn bruh this episode hit me hard, I relate to Linda about parents pressuring you to get married and having kids and it's because of that I'm scared of growing older when I should really just enjoy and live my life the way I want to. People around me are having kids and it makes me feel uneasy all because my mum is constantly on my back about it. Anyway, I'm glad you guys express that it's okay not to pursue that life choice, it brings me a bit more comfort
@kericwu
5 жыл бұрын
I felt like love at first sight was a thing when you're young because my first love was like that 😂
@julzamidala2865
5 жыл бұрын
It's really great to have been able to see Phil grow more comfortable talking about the feels when things get real over the last few years.
@chriscostello7759
5 жыл бұрын
there's this girl at school that ive been meaning to ask out but i get super shy around her...thought about asking her to coffee..any advice?
@dossieranddragon2757
5 жыл бұрын
Do it. Ask her out. You are young, you need to practice. Even if you are shy, you still need a certain amount of comfort or confidence. You cannot get the experience if you don't do the work. But it's also hard to say, not knowing your exact situation. If you can have a casual conversation in a school setting, that is already a plus. If you have had almost no interaction with this person beyond "hi," than your job is a lot harder. There has to be a certain amount of rapport and familiarity with you. She has to be comfortable with you. Which means you have to be comfortable with yourself first. If she at least laughs and smiles around you, that's a positive sign that it is possible to escalate the interaction to a coffee, tea, or dessert date, etc (it's helpful to know what she likes. Maybe she likes Spanish churros dipped with sipping chocolate or gelato). And the key to being comfortable is to not have any expectations, or attachments to the outcome. Attachment is the vibe of neediness and fear. The most desirable, attractive people are not needy, nor weak. Have fun, whether you are compatible or not. Just remember, as you get older, you're going to meet more and more women. Work on yourself, improve yourself, get more experience. There will be a point where you don't have to chase dates, you will attract it. Effortlessly. It will just happen, as you mature into a person that people find fun and safe to be around. Then you'll have to choose between 5 different girls. But it starts with the first step. It starts with gaining experience.
@chriscostello7759
5 жыл бұрын
@@dossieranddragon2757 thanks for the advice
@JezzWat3vr
5 жыл бұрын
Linda is more comfortable on Lunch Break than JustKiddingNews!
@rachelmazazumi625
5 жыл бұрын
If Mike isn't coming with the shirt sorry, but I don't want it. (Real reson I'm not getting it, hood cost to much here.)
@bibno9308
5 жыл бұрын
This lunch break launched me into a lunch break binge instead of studying for midterms,,, sigh *_____*
@strom51
5 жыл бұрын
saaaame
@caffeinatedx
5 жыл бұрын
I Just freaking turned 20 and my grandmother wants me to date someone. I have hypertension because of that.
@JLF909
5 жыл бұрын
No one's even going to mention that squarespace totally took Ryan's "woof" idea to link all your social media?! 😂
@peacelife
5 жыл бұрын
Haha since Linda knows the group she is more laid back and comfortable here than JKnews
@iiaaannnn
5 жыл бұрын
"Haven't had lunch for a while" ㅋㅋㅋ
@chinesesogood
5 жыл бұрын
Proud of Linda who went to the same highschool as I did.
@kericwu
5 жыл бұрын
Hahaha she grew up in the same city as me as well
@boredstephanie
5 жыл бұрын
Leenda thinking being really attracted to someone at first sight is the same as love...oh no xD
@benjimw
3 жыл бұрын
Love at first sight? I say yes, it does it exist. From the first days I saw my now-wife online, I thought she definitely was cute. Almost as soon as we started talking (with Google Translate's help, mind you--lovely language differences), I knew she was the one for me. But y'all are absolutely right that true love is a continuing process, something that needs care and attention like a young plant. My parents always told me that marriage isn't easy but that it's incredibly rich.
@kyoko703
5 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha! Leenda's answers were a trip, LOL!!! Time to slide into her DM's. LOL!!!
@xangraneko2290
4 жыл бұрын
This was quite informative. I feel like I understand Linda's position a lot since the points she puts out really can be like what I'm going through. I really enjoyed hearing everyone's opinions, especially Phil's. Also, the way Phil mentioned the social skills part--yep that's also me too. Didn't get enough social skills to actually understand dating.
@mind_palace
5 жыл бұрын
17:21....wow, some honest truths there
@caprobatica
5 жыл бұрын
ILLUMINATING!!!!! Thanks so muchfor sharing these highly relatable and entertaining insights!! Really enjoy each of your inspirational personalities and please keep shining!!! By the way, did somebody mention a possible Lunch Break spinoff called "Wes Happenin", hosted by Wes? LOL.....Just an idea! With Gratitude, Largy (The AcrõGecko)
@ato5037
5 жыл бұрын
Wait, people actually stalk potential BFs/GFs on social media? I don't do it. I'm too lazy. That's a waste of my time and effort! If I see a girl that looks pretty/cute on social media, I'm like. "Oh, she's on here too"; and then I don't do squat. Hahahaha.
@millienexu5684
4 жыл бұрын
Ofc sliding into the dms work when ur Mike Bow *hint hint* 😂😂😂
@ladymex07
5 жыл бұрын
Love is like a plant you assist it in growing when you water it and give it sunlight.
@braceface813
5 жыл бұрын
I absolutely loved Leenda's honesty!!!
@yanzodadon
5 жыл бұрын
Leenda out here breaking hearts I reckon
@Ezero8
5 жыл бұрын
I use DMs like how Wes uses it too lol, so not for hitting on people.
@thewesleychan
5 жыл бұрын
Chan Fam
@sherriberri
4 жыл бұрын
All I see is that ㄅㄆㄇㄈ. Taiwanese food? lol
@ilhuicatlamatini
4 жыл бұрын
Wow, thanks y’all. This was super helpful and I wish I’d found it sooner! Subscribed! 😊
@k07385
5 жыл бұрын
Mike, I have a friend that's single :D you could totally hit her up in the DMs haha
@since_6592
5 жыл бұрын
Phil is next level relationship counselor!
@bindu996
4 жыл бұрын
I would've thought it's worse to like photos of girls he knows irl rather than flirtng with models he'll never meet
@TeamPlasmaSC
4 жыл бұрын
My Ex-Gf went through my Facebook timeline and confronted me on a girl who posted on my wall along the lines of being excited to hang out with me (that day). This happened in 2018. The post was from 2010.
@ankyanku425
5 жыл бұрын
So happy to see Leenda on lunch break!! Also, I ship Leenda with Wes and Mike. Is that wrong? 😂
@ymLee6891
5 жыл бұрын
Love how Phil just took a steak piece from Mike! lol.
@cloud.l.l
5 жыл бұрын
I stopped watching a video to watch this. PRIORITIES!
@LPSawesomnessProductionsTM
5 жыл бұрын
We need a lunch break podcast 🥺
@karstenberning
5 жыл бұрын
Wow! Linda is amazing! So much cool emotions :D Linda please do more vlogs
@AlexBobalexRavenclaw
5 жыл бұрын
Wow. This was a really mature conversation. Good answers.
@robinchan4801
5 жыл бұрын
i love wong fu so much, i get introduced to such fun creators, i did not know who leenda was now im binging all her videos😁
@honeykai8274
4 жыл бұрын
More dating advice videos! Especially for singles trying to enter the dating world!
@kkz201
5 жыл бұрын
Sounds like Phil is a married old man...
@thantzweaung9080
5 жыл бұрын
4:11 Phil is sneaky.
@mohmmednour3217
5 жыл бұрын
You guys should really have Year of the Ox on lunch break
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