This is the type of parent I want to be. Patience makes such a difference.
@MindfulObservers
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@truehappiness4U
Жыл бұрын
Patience is a virtue
@dverygrateful1
Жыл бұрын
Practice it daily now. And remember no reason to get upset when learning or teach. Let them shoe you what they want. Never say no when you get bigger.
@ankitadobhal119
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely 😊
@aces8481
Жыл бұрын
and that's why we dwell in the youtube comments instead
@jamescantu4219
Жыл бұрын
The best part is Sutan passing over the tiny eggshell piece without looking. Knowing her mom is there to back her up.
@willwetherell7265
Жыл бұрын
Eggsactly!!
@yesman5489
Жыл бұрын
🖤🖤
@kezmallett916
Жыл бұрын
Love love that part... its like she's a surgeon n her mum is the assistant 😅
@joyjoyyy
Жыл бұрын
So true!!!!!
@krisgaines3661
Жыл бұрын
Yup, this girl is going to grow up with confidence through the roof because of this amazing support! 👏
@memkox
2 ай бұрын
As someone who grew up being yelled at for making mistakes and being rushed which makes me pretty anxious, this was so comforting to watch. You’re such a great mother
@Karen-rp3ri
19 күн бұрын
Yeah same being rushed just made me nervous and then you end up doing it wrong 🫤
@gmll79
14 күн бұрын
Relatable...😢
@renyh.4345
13 күн бұрын
this video got me teared up And then I see your relatable comment. I cried.
@jean-tatlock26
13 күн бұрын
And for that reason I disliked this video bcs she makes me jelly. I never have such a mom.
@Maxithicc
13 күн бұрын
@@jean-tatlock26 i didn't have such a mom either, so i understand how you feel But we shouldn't feel bitter and negative when we see new children being raised right with understanding and care, we should be happy that there are parents in the world who learned to raise children in a fair way! it's completely fair to feel jealous sometimes though, i'd be lying if i said i wasn't. But that's what therapy is for, to unpack these past troubles, to move on and live happily.
@ritukar8853
3 ай бұрын
"Don't rush" Her parenting is like lifted my generations of passing trauma it feels so light to watch her break the egg slowly and her mother patiently waiting...
@abnf-b7q
Жыл бұрын
The fact that the little girl didn't show an ounce of frustration whilst she was struggling to open the egg shows how positively your parenting skills are working on her. She didn't feel anxious or rushed because she knew she wouldn't be in trouble. You are raising a patient and collected toddler, which is quite rare.
@georgesaviour6974
Жыл бұрын
Yeah true. I usually get anxious and rush my work because my mom always got frustrated whenever I took extra time in doing any work. Sutan is truly blessed.
@ryuukakhadijah7766
Жыл бұрын
Exactly ❤
@strawberrylime33
Жыл бұрын
She'll probably grow up wanting to do things herself, confident that she can do it. She'll be able to try new things instead of saying, "Mommy, i can't, can u do it for me?" Just my guess, im no child psychologist. 😊
@jiyaissleeping
Жыл бұрын
Real 😭😭
@rae9882
Жыл бұрын
Very common in other countries. And I'm not just saying that. Not sure where you're from but as an American myself. I can say America is all about go go go, efficiency, the quicker you can finish the better. And this completely transfers to parenting often. I imagine in any country there are impatient parents. But a lot of others countries have a rich culture that value slow living to some degree. Countries where you walk everywhere. Countries that it's abnormal not to cook the majority of your meals at home. Countries where family time is valued. And if you think that's america, you're gravely mistaken(if you're not American and think that's the case.)
@clairebear-96
Жыл бұрын
The way she hands the little extra bit of shell over to mom without even looking, she knows her mom will be there, ready to help her 💛
@whodis2792
Жыл бұрын
My heart melted at that point. That's a true love connection.
@user-vm5qr1xr3r
Жыл бұрын
That’s how you know she will always be there to guide her
@whitneyd6827
Жыл бұрын
And the way mom just accepted it as if it was a normal part of the process made me smile
@lemonkitty8320
Жыл бұрын
+
@nabeelanashat2578
Жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Diane_666
Ай бұрын
The only "egg cracking challenge with kids" we need.
@ambercastro4391
21 күн бұрын
Why am I crying? My inner child would love to have you as a mother.. This beautiful child is so lucky to have her..
@tofubyul
Жыл бұрын
I feel like Moe's patience and love towards Sutan is undoing all my years of childhood trauma. 😭
@lintang790
Жыл бұрын
fr
@CuddlePhantom
Жыл бұрын
same
@holacomooduh
Жыл бұрын
RIGHT?? like i kinda cried too
@JasmineAndini
Жыл бұрын
I feel you 😭🫶🏻
@oren2338
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, this makes me cry
@lawnjeon3280
11 ай бұрын
The way her mom slowly breaks into a smile when the baby is progressing like it's the greatest victory ever. Absolutely precious.
@kutholohe7698
10 ай бұрын
Ppppppppp😊😊😊😅
@SylviaAlternate
10 ай бұрын
Yeah that was so wholesome
@mhiadollxx8888
8 ай бұрын
Yesss... that's how you teachh. Allow them to do it in their own pace
@DeliMeatTree
5 ай бұрын
She will remember that moment for the rest of her life.❤
@evakouts5301
Ай бұрын
This is a beautiful reminder to busy parents that are always rushing their kids or just end up doing it for them because they dont want to wait, or because they will make a mess. Kids need time and space to explore and to process new experiences. Bravo to this sweet mother for not hurrying her along. Thanks for sharing this beautiful video.
@Raven-hairedSiren
3 ай бұрын
I luv how she let her go at her own pace instead of rushing her & jumping in to take over or "correct". She was able to explore & discover - learn.
@anonym7347
Жыл бұрын
It’s really sweet how she just patiently observes as her daughter explores and develops those fine motor skills
@AdeDueDamballa.
Жыл бұрын
She only observe after shes made sure shes got the camera on her daughter every time. This woman records her young daughter constantly for views, whenever theres a cute moment between her and her daughter her first thought is ‘let me get the camera youtube views are gunna love this’. She should give her daughter some privacy and just sit in the moment and enjoy her child without constantly needing to record it and post it online for views.
@optimumpride7057
Жыл бұрын
@@AdeDueDamballa.just get a life lolss
@Pinkrevenge101
Жыл бұрын
Who said constantly a lot of parents record n shes always been public eyes anyways
@chikizey4287
Жыл бұрын
@@AdeDueDamballa.ou know what doesn't lie? Her daugher's actions and body language. If she behaved differently with her when cameras are off, you could tell because the kid would constantly look at her, and maybe even would get stressed. But the kid is calm, doesn't rush, knows she has all the time in the world to figure things out, and doesn't even need to look at her mother to know she's there willing to help if needed, but without being intrusive. Also, she records videos about parenting so I find quite normal she wants to show the results with the kid instead of just saying how to do things.
@RachFromOH
3 ай бұрын
@AdeDueDamballa. This is the first video I've seen from this channel because it showed up in the section of suggested shorts. From the perspective of an adult that has no photos or videos from my childhood due to an unfortunate event, I like to set my phone up to record at random times so I can go back and watch candid moments of my kids. Uploading to YT is a way to document precious, little moments or maybe share with loved ones who live far away. Sometimes it's the only way I get to capture moments of all of us interacting together, whereas before I started doing that, I was always the one behind the camera. Try not to judge this content creator unless you know her thoughts and motivations behind every action she takes. 🙂
@sylvanian_taku
Жыл бұрын
Sutan is growing up to be curious and adventurous because her wonderful mom is allowing her to have room to discover things for herself. ❤
@Overjoyeddragon
8 ай бұрын
6500 likes and no comments? Let me fix that.
@wanishabir50
8 ай бұрын
only 1 comment?lemme fix that
@skyloose
3 ай бұрын
When I have children in the future, I also want to be like this. Because, when I was a child, my mother always said "It's just a small thing and you can't do it right. You're just a stupid person, all you know is to play and play" She always said that sentence many times and I will not do the same thing to my future children. And I love all your videos, you are so gentle and you are my inspiration ❤❤❤
@rueandaudi8168
2 ай бұрын
if every parent raised thier children like this the world would be so much happier
@NightSkyValkyrie
Жыл бұрын
I loved how focused she is and doesn’t get frustrated and give up. She just works on it calmly until she figures it out.
@Mynnia
11 ай бұрын
Don't we all until it's trained out of us?
@hallatipa4233
11 ай бұрын
Yes
@monicahonaker2224
11 ай бұрын
1,000 like and 3rd comment!!!! 🎉❤😊
@Aanya.s_mom
11 ай бұрын
Like mom, like kid
@florencef4416
11 ай бұрын
And she is not interrupted...
@mikaelastefkova
Жыл бұрын
I got anxious watching this, because my dad would have taken it from me and probably would have yelled at me in the process - you are an amazing mum, patience makes a world of difference 💗 You're so kind 🍀
@ajregalia1334
Жыл бұрын
I got anxious watching this as well and thinking about that made me very very sad. I could hear in the back of my mind my mom rushing me or insisting to do it instead and it makes me feel so...incompetent. Really sticks with you
@mikaelastefkova
Жыл бұрын
@@ajregalia1334 Sendin' hugs 🫂 I feel you
@CrystalRose1111
Жыл бұрын
That is really sad, I’m sorry for anybody out there with parents like this
@kanryuseizone8338
Жыл бұрын
Literally me when my dad teach me how to ride motorcycle lol
@stephanie-ed2247
Жыл бұрын
😢same here
@lenlen4388
2 ай бұрын
i learned a lot from watching Sutan’s mom alone, very patient and kind
@rueandaudi8168
2 ай бұрын
it's my moms birthday today and man i'm so lucky to have been raised like this. thank you.
@norahmanuel2397
Жыл бұрын
By allowing her to process and take her time to understand, this little one will have such a solid foundation. This was really beautiful 😭 and this is the parent I want to be
@Ri-77
Жыл бұрын
Same!
@lemonkitty8320
Жыл бұрын
+
@sakura.8138
Жыл бұрын
@@MilenaKoncarnope since she has a betterfoundation she will be able to cope with the worst circumstances.
@xotwod1253
Жыл бұрын
whats the point of teaching a child how to crack an egg at such a young age. thats total wastage dude and its pointless tbh. teach them how to eat not how to crack an egg. stupidity at its peak bro
@naolucillerandom5280
11 ай бұрын
@@MilenaKoncar That's why parents should do their best to prepare them. This kid looks like she has good guidance to eventually face the world.
@cherylwoodall2524
9 ай бұрын
I love how the little girl just blindly hands the mom that little piece. She didn’t even need to look bc she knew her mom would always be there for her.❤❤❤
@lijah7150
9 ай бұрын
😭😭😭
@cookiechachu
9 ай бұрын
Not always
@boyaka2010
9 ай бұрын
Yaa it's like she trust her blindly ✨ Wholesome ✨💫
@s.mohammad2360
9 ай бұрын
I noticed that too she's to adorable 😍🥰
@regulator9268
9 ай бұрын
That was the best lol. Just expecting her hand to be there.
@Erixecomel.
Ай бұрын
Her mother's smile made me feel like I was very proud of my daughter😢❤🎉
@geraldinevillegas1990
3 ай бұрын
I was so hot tempered, but after I watched Kimono Mom channel I gradually changed and appreciate my little daughter. Thank you for sharing your love.
@aprajita_12
Жыл бұрын
If only this type of support could be given to each child in our society. This is sooo precious I can't 😭
@burbuvs8911
Жыл бұрын
The world would be a better place for sure 😭
@neek01
Жыл бұрын
Doesn’t work because in 99.9% of families both parents have to work so they don’t have as much time for the child
@warlitalifestyle9256
Жыл бұрын
Maybe if you only have one kid and you can focus only for her to train anything with more patience.
@haldouglas4773
Жыл бұрын
@@warlitalifestyle9256it's fairly easy to do so with multiple children. maybe people too dumb to parent one shouldn't have any.
@kissxla1111
Жыл бұрын
@@burbuvs8911 The world would be so health rn if that happened
@hamcakes
Жыл бұрын
It's very emotionally healing to watch someone be patient and such a loving encouraging parent.. I lacked this as a child, and struggle to re-parent myself or have any patience with myself as I learn. you have a beautiful soul and are an inspirational human. you're a wonderful mother but that obviously comes from being such a genuinely wonderful person. really, thank you both. you're precious beyond words. thank you for your videos.
@PandorasExecutioner
Жыл бұрын
Oof i felt that. I struggle to have patience for myself too.
@samiahakhter648
Жыл бұрын
i got kinda emotional too
@brownmonkey86
Жыл бұрын
I can relate 😢
@minalove6582
Жыл бұрын
That's so sweet, your post. Also, such a simple point but profound nonetheless, “a wonderful mother but that obviously comes from being a genuinely wonderful person” yes! I agree. The best gift we can give ourselves and others is Kindness. I'm wishing you and anyone else who views your post so much kindness. 💗
@thekpowe1
Жыл бұрын
Wow...I never thought about reparenting MYSELF and teaching myself to be gentle, patient, loving and kind to MYSELF. I lacked a loving, gentle upbringing...mine was chaotic, abusive and just unhealthy. So, I turned into an unhealthy person who dislikes themselves. I hate that I don't have a gentle, loving, kind, supportive person in my life, but I guess I can be that person to myself. Thanks.
@kayleslielouise1180
3 ай бұрын
That was a whole process 🤣 It’s so cute to watch little ones, and even try to remember when our motor skills were terrible and still developing. I wish more parents were patient and kind.
@Alejo.Berrutti
Ай бұрын
Thank you for being like this. My inner child needed to see some good parenting. ❤ I think I'm still a child sometimes.
@rjkurtz
9 ай бұрын
THIS is how to teach. You let them figure out what they can, and you guide when they can’t do it alone. Well done mom!
@rjkurtz
8 ай бұрын
@@karagumruk7330 actually, this teaches basic coordination and measuring skills. It teaches multi-tasking, following directions, and allows the child to take part in creating something special. It is 100% necessary for both little boys AND girls. I have been cooking ever since I could walk. At 6 years old, I was literally cooking full meals for my family.
@rjkurtz
8 ай бұрын
@@karagumruk7330 a lie?! LOL Have you ever watched Master Chef Jr? Some of those kids are as young as 5! I am the son of a black woman who fiercely believed in teaching early on, the skills one needs for independence as well as service to those you love. It was not a lie, it was 100% fact. Just because simple minded individuals (such as yourself) cannot fathom six year-olds cooking meals for their family, doesn’t make you all of a sudden right and myself wrong. Look at the 5 year-olds in Mexico who literally are working full time jobs to help pay bills for their families. Kids are often as smart as we let them be. Yes the egg is not a toy. I don’t recall seeing the little girl playing with the egg. I recall her cracking it to make a meal with her mother. Seems like she gets it and you don’t. Eggs are eaten by humans just as they are eaten by animals.
@techgaming4601
8 ай бұрын
@@rjkurtzBRO IDK YOU ARE OLDER THEN ME OR NOT IDK BUT WHAT I WANT TO SAY IS I AM REALLY PROUD OF YOUR MOM!!! YOU TOO!! I REALLY WISH YOUR MOM TO BE HEALTHY ALWAYS!!! She really raised soo welll!!!
@mvpgale
8 ай бұрын
also teaching your kid that their are tasks that need to be done that they don’t want to do. as someone who works w 3-5 yr olds is terribly hard getting them to sit bc they only do what they want at home.
@rjkurtz
8 ай бұрын
@@mvpgale exactly! There aren’t enough PARENTS teaching at home. Teachers are meant to ASSIST parents not the other way around. Learning is supposed to be primarily found in the home.
@letiziapapadia8578
10 ай бұрын
She's not stepping in nor letting her by herself. She's on her side supporting and believing in her still. This is a super mom❤
@michellet_thatsme
9 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@danx9194
9 ай бұрын
You only praise them because they have quality and are white chinese, there are a lot of videos of children doing stupid things and you don't say anything
@StrayMoth
8 күн бұрын
This made me emotional 🥺 Your gentle parenting amazes me If I ever should have kids, I aspire to be like you
@CarbonatedMochiii
20 күн бұрын
This is so refreshing to see :) When I was younger, around 8, I remember helping my dad bake something. He yelled at me for not being quick enough, and I ended up dropping a cup of sugar all over the floor in my panic to rush and help. I still remember how I felt to this day- I was terrified and in tears, knowing how much trouble I was in. I wish my parents had been more like this.
@teelin7746
10 ай бұрын
She learned so much more from just that extra minute her Mom gave her, than she would have if she was rushed! ❤
@WatchFelineSpine
9 ай бұрын
❤️☺️
@labmeeting
9 ай бұрын
Mom is learning about her daughter the entire time too
@ravindrakumarsinghal432
9 ай бұрын
@@labmeetingh
@RajvermaIITB
9 ай бұрын
bro got silver play button in comment
@wyett123
9 ай бұрын
Exactly. She was examining it. Seeing how it worked.
@safeenabbasi
11 ай бұрын
she handed over that small piece of shell to her mom like a doctor asking his assistant to hold tools for surgery 😂 so cute 🥰
@teeforever1
11 ай бұрын
Ikr 🥹🫶🏽
@emansobhy4382
11 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯😅😅😅😅
@user-un1tn1ts8g
11 ай бұрын
ㄹㅇ
@zapdosxy1781
11 ай бұрын
Shes doesn't miss details, little protagonist
@peterngeti9755
11 ай бұрын
So relatable!
@vedantdivate3603
14 күн бұрын
The way she is observing and learning is so wholesome 🎉❤
@dehaviland7645
2 ай бұрын
Beyond awesome to see little ones exploring and learning. Did this with my son when I was renovating our kitchen. He would help me hold and I would prepare nails for him to hammer. Took forever but it was so worth seeing his face... 😊
@ashahren85
Жыл бұрын
If only my father have this kind of patience, I think I will never having a mental breakdown every time I heard his voice.
@keysburntgucci9016
Жыл бұрын
Me with my brother
@Prajna710
Жыл бұрын
Same
@ruksanam.k8376
Жыл бұрын
Thats true. same situation. We feel a shock when we hear their voice.
@dizzydizzy01
Жыл бұрын
*have
@dizzydizzy01
Жыл бұрын
*hear
@JadetheGoober
Жыл бұрын
the fact that her little focused face held our attention shows how easy it is to be patient with a learning person.
@peggedyourdad9560
11 ай бұрын
Honestly, this feels like watching someone play a video game that I've basically beaten or someone starting a show I've already finished. It's just fun to see them figure things out for the first time.
@MonicaChampion411
11 ай бұрын
You are right, I have to give myself a little bit of credit regarding patience but I was a little anxious 😂
@lamaharezka
Ай бұрын
The best part of this is finally somebody recognized this song 🥺
@nicklausb
3 ай бұрын
Lol. What we have grown to find mundane, these little sprouts find so novel and such an adventure. And they're so cute, too!
@sophialorain3057
Жыл бұрын
It’s so heartwarming to see her mom just let her daughter sit in her moment of curiosity. There was no speeding up the process, no grabbing the egg from her, no telling her she’s not doing it a certain way. She just let her daughter have her little moment to crack an egg how she wanted to at her own pace and that was so sweet ❤
@rayrayrayrayray79
Жыл бұрын
The mothers quiet smile when she figures it out is so heartwarming. I've watched this 10 times just to watch the mother smile with care, pride, support and love.
@yapsonark407
2 ай бұрын
5 months later and I still can’t stop smiling. I wish I had parents who would let me discover as a kid.
@youdontneedmyrealname
2 ай бұрын
The patience of the child is also very key in this exchange.
@tvxn4
10 ай бұрын
She’s the mom we all need ❤
@fashion_of_design
10 ай бұрын
We already have ❤
@testing123.
10 ай бұрын
Ikr, this was healing to watch lol
@yugamiryuuko3650
10 ай бұрын
I remember when my mom told me to crack an egg. I was 5 and I remember it as a scary experience. Cracked it but yolk fell out I mean a little bit and she got so mad. She never let me do that after that.
@MansiVerma-pl6xo
10 ай бұрын
It would be better if we say she is kind of a mom that we have to be....❤
@stobit.
10 ай бұрын
Nah i already have one so there's no need 🫶🏼
@sarahahmed4870
4 ай бұрын
For children that were raised being yelled at for every small mistake this is comforting to watch. We never realized that patience was a choice our parents never made.
@vough9542
2 ай бұрын
It sucks when I remember those times, you could wish you have a patient parents. If I became a dad I'll be more patient to my kid
@questions_answered
2 ай бұрын
You need a rich parents only then they can be patients, @@vough9542
@mykaia
2 ай бұрын
forever grateful that i never went through this. my heart goes out to you guys
@Cloudy-rain8
2 ай бұрын
@@vough9542 The profile does not suggest that🗿
@Alegriacaptions
2 ай бұрын
Awful parents need to learn the whole body of a kid is developing. The brain, even if it was at an adult's level, wouldn't be able to keep up with the size of everything, the muscles growing, the center of gravity changing as the kid is growing very fast... It's easier when you're a late teenager or an adult, your body barely changes and you already have life experience.
@xenorayy
Ай бұрын
I was cheering for her the whole video, little Sutan is so amazing! Such a joy seeing how patient her mama is with her.
@sebastienseb919
3 ай бұрын
One of the most adorable child. ☺️☺️☺️
@0kieD0kiee
Жыл бұрын
This is amazing to watch! She’s not ignoring her mom or not understanding what her mom wants, she knows what she needs to do, but she’s also learning so much and exploring the egg and figuring out the way the shell breaks and what the membranes look like, she’s exploring! I remember being little and being so fascinated by eggs, their shells and how if you were gentle enough you could peel an egg shell off of the membrane and see the yolk through it. Amazing that she gets to grow up in such a patient environment that lets her discover things at her own pace
@DJackson52985
Жыл бұрын
This was my thought, as well. I love the way Sutan is given time to examine the egg. She is discovering so much about the world, and everything is new for her young mind. Moe is such a great parent for giving her that time to just explore what she has in front of her. The world moves fast. Let's just slow down.
@rootkite
Жыл бұрын
Beautifully put, I agree ❤ This is an inspirational moment. Imagine if we could reignite that inquisitiveness and trust in adults who have lost that childhood curiosity.
@X0___ChatGPT____0X
Жыл бұрын
@@DJackson52985If I'd understood that when I was still a young, I wouldn't have become so anxious.
@Naturemagick9
Жыл бұрын
😊😊😊🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤❤🎉
@zanaros2606
Жыл бұрын
Maybe she doesn't understand any concepts of social pressure yet. Many kids are quite innocent like that, until they grow up and learn about the many subtle expectations and pressure forced upon them, everywhere around. Or when parents and other adults get mad or impatient and lashed out at them, etc. That's when most people lose part of their own innocence, lol. And eventually become just like every other adult.
@Tpayne22
11 ай бұрын
Telling a child “you did it!” is such joy for them ❤️ so important for their emotional development
@sarahbasto6520
11 ай бұрын
Só nice that the mom let her took her time examining the egg.
@zxnnightstalker2289
Ай бұрын
With that kind of parents, kids will be able to achieve soo much success later in life.
@merichinwo
3 ай бұрын
It’s amazing to see the curiosity and discovery process of that child. She’s super intelligent for cracking it in half!
@echostarpals
9 ай бұрын
This made me tear up. She clearly feels no anxiety around you and knows you'll be there for her 😢❤
@manifestoh
8 ай бұрын
Why would she feel anxiety???
@micabryant4513
8 ай бұрын
I know right!? Lol
@Total303
8 ай бұрын
@@manifestohBecause my parents yell at me if I don't get it done faster not about eggs but about every other thing they tell me that I incapable of simple things and that's why I try to do everything as fast as possible to get away with all the yelling that goes. I'm old now but I will have these emotional scars forever i guess 😢
@harumaru9609
8 ай бұрын
That's sweet that they don't know why a child would be anxious in this situation, lol. ❤
@douaemili308
8 ай бұрын
@@Total303oh i feel u , im sorry about what happened , i can relate and i understand when u say "maybe i will feel it forever" , but believe me healing is possible , u can seek professional help or u can can try to do it yrself even if it's a bit hard , just don't lose hope about living ur life the way u are supposed to live it , as who u are with no fears from the past 🫶🏼
@savedbygrace.slowedreverb
11 ай бұрын
I like how patient the girl is too. She's comfortable figuring things out with the parent with her and isn't getting stressed or rushing the process.
@lightsinthesky4989
11 ай бұрын
That's what it looks like when your parents don't jump down your throat after every mistake
@Fatcatinyourarea
10 ай бұрын
Children’s attitude reflects parent’s attitude. The mother did a great job🎉
@itz_ash4272
10 ай бұрын
Complete opposite to me, I’d start sweating over something I’m probably done something a dozen times before if my mom is present
@captlanc
10 ай бұрын
That’s because her mom didn’t stress her. You would take your own time figuring things out if they haven’t got an authority figure waiting to jump at their every mistake.
@captlanc
10 ай бұрын
@@itz_ash4272It’s not your fault. It’s your mom’s. But it becomes our responsibility to undo our parents’ conditioning for our own sake. It’s not fair but life hardly is.
@photokheechnewaali
13 күн бұрын
her patience level!😭💗
@quietone748
18 күн бұрын
I was smiling the entire time. It's like watching my son all over again when he was that age. You are such a good mom, letting her learn by experience.
@andysavvy
9 ай бұрын
She is just so genuinely curious and engaged with the egg and the process... soaking it all in. Children are so beautiful. And I LOVE seeing people share gentle parenting like this!
@soupingg
8 ай бұрын
exactly!! its such a beautiful thing to see young children find out how things work and accept them ❤❤
@glenn6583
8 ай бұрын
Very cute little girl, Mom too😊
@jennpipp26
8 ай бұрын
It’s not gentle parenting. It’s just being a mom, which requires patience.
@kraftylefty6559
8 ай бұрын
This video shows so much. The mom teaching her daughter to do things on her own, but the daughter can still count on mom being there for her. The focus and determination to finish a task without getting frustrated or asking for help at such a young age. Using only as much instruction/help as needed, not too much or too little, and the praise at the end. Love it
@themindsidea1127
8 ай бұрын
She wasn't focused bruh.. Her attention span on opening up the egg was like .3 seconds. The cool thing was the level of mum's patience.
@PetersonLuciano
5 күн бұрын
This connection between mother and daughter is lovely 😍
@Ur_fav122
2 ай бұрын
Her voice is so soft and gentle it makes me cry 😭
@bell-collector5772
Жыл бұрын
Aww you can see the curiosity and thought process in her face. She’s learning and she’s trying her best. You are an amazing mom. She’s gonna grow up to be a wonderful women with a mother like you 🩷 Edit: the moms smile and nod when she finally got it was so wholesome
@Xead_pool
11 ай бұрын
Nothing matters bro In the end all your curiosity dies.....
@bell-collector5772
11 ай бұрын
@@Xead_pool that is so true. I hope life doesn’t mess her up too. She’s so innocent and cute
@Xead_pool
11 ай бұрын
@@bell-collector5772 yeah she actually is ....
@jenniferrue7929
11 ай бұрын
You are kindness itself
@Everyoneisanartist776
11 ай бұрын
Curiosity and discovery! Extremely healthy for both the young and old.
@JoJam95
8 ай бұрын
I can still remember being a small child, and always feeling so flustered when i tried something new because of how my parents would react. She isn't flustered or frustrated or anything. She's just learning how to be a person. This is the type of parenting every child deserves, and the world would be a kinder place if we all got this. You brought me a little peace today. Thank you❤
@krokodildol492
7 ай бұрын
I also didn't learn a lot because of my parents' reaction. They very often focused only on what you couldn't do, even if you did it for the first time. As a result, they got mad and said they would do it for me themselves. Success was very often ignored, and even if you do something 99% perfect, they will pay attention only to the 1% that you did not succeed.
@FireandIce-eh7mx
7 ай бұрын
I'm 17 still I feel pressured while doing something in front of my parents 😂
@zimkitasundu-vumazonke1694
7 ай бұрын
@@krokodildol492last sentence is too real💀💔
@krokodildol492
7 ай бұрын
@@zimkitasundu-vumazonke1694 When I hear that I'm not the only one with such a problem, I feel a little calmer because people understand the problem. It often happens that there will be people who will say that you exaggerate, whine about trifles, invent. And in general, you can't talk bad about your parents. It's so infuriating. Sometimes it happens that a person tells that his parents beat him as a child, and people on the Internet are divided into two camps, those who feel sorry and those who eventually say that that person is ungrateful, because these are his parents, and they should be respected. I apologize for the imperfect language.
@Bubbleseatfish
7 ай бұрын
@@krokodildol492felt that in my soul
@CuddlePuddle282
19 күн бұрын
Watching this showed me the effects of my upbringing but also the progress of my healing. I felt my anxiety bubble up but a reminder to be patient she's learning calmed me down. ❤
@blockyquasar
Ай бұрын
I died from the cuteness when she gently taps the egg and checks if it cracked 😂. What a gentle girl.
@jazmincastellon6628
11 ай бұрын
We forget that children are constantly seeing things for the first time. She’s just exploring the textures and cracks of the egg. This is cool and fun for her. Love that mom gives her time to do that 🫶
@gutsfinky
11 ай бұрын
Agreed! And that's the wonderful thing about being a kid, isn't it? Something that we tired, jaded adults forget. Everything is so much bigger, newer and more exciting when you're little. So grown-ups need patience. 😊
@lovelifenotloathelife
11 ай бұрын
Have you ever spared a thought for the incarcerated mother hens in dark filthy windowless factory farms who would never get to see, nurture or teach their unhatched baby chicks?
@dontshiptaeandjkoriwillsen6296
11 ай бұрын
@@lovelifenotloathelifewhat?
@lovelifenotloathelife
11 ай бұрын
@@dontshiptaeandjkoriwillsen6296 Google the lives and fates of abused chickens on this planet. You will soon understand what and why
@Kariahthebiologist
11 ай бұрын
@@lovelifenotloathelife if you’re implying that egg (and others sold in stores) are fertilized eggs containing undeveloped chicks, you need to read/do your research. Think before you speak. FYI, laying hens at commercial farms, sadly, “ have never even seen a rooster [before in their life].”
@fleurelise997
11 ай бұрын
This is how critical thinking ability develops in children. They need time to investigate and process what they're observing. Mom's doing such a fantastic job with her little lady here ❤❤❤❤
@alanamaharaj
11 ай бұрын
Abs love this response!
@mmwoodcockart
11 ай бұрын
Yes! I was looking for a comment like this. Often parents rush the process not allowing children to analyze what they are interacting with/doing, or parents do it themselves!
@sarahwieland3243
11 ай бұрын
I am such a helicopter 🚁 mom, and always swoop in to “fix” something rather than have a learning process take place. U r so correct, just allowing children to explore and experience something for themselves and on their terms can be the biggest learning experience of all ❤
@injunicecream
7 күн бұрын
the way she does everything calmly, processing everything and discovering how to do it is so beautiful 🥺 it's so sad that we lose this innocence and curiosity over time, we are always in a hurry and we forget that if we continue living life in a rush, in the end we will realize that we didn't enjoy it the way we should 😔💕
@rjb6327
2 күн бұрын
Mom letting her figure it out on her own. Best way to teach. Beautiful little girl.
@Lady-Y
Жыл бұрын
As someone who’s mom would have for sure just screamed at me “no, you idiot, do it like this” I’ll admit I got weirdly emotional watching this
@ajregalia1334
Жыл бұрын
Not weird, I felt the same thing. Like that my childhood was littered with moments where if I didn't do it right I wasn't given a chance or given guidance but rather made to feel like I wasn't doing it fast enough. That I wasn't doing it good enough. That there's no time for me to make a mistake and learn at my own pace. I felt anxious cause I was waiting for the mom to take the egg out her hand, and unpacking that feeling...hurts
@kimonaNo1
Жыл бұрын
Same here
@sunshinegirl1655
Жыл бұрын
Sorry that you all experienced that. 🫂 ❤
@benda777nba
11 ай бұрын
Ugh same! I remember one time she told me to go season the rice (without any guidance) so I went and added so much seasoned salt. Then when she returned she got so mad and called me idiota...now at 30 she wonders why I dont want to cook with her😢
@MarinaAlexandra0314
11 ай бұрын
Same
@flowersmoke
10 ай бұрын
everyone deserves such understanding, motivating, kind parents
@tabaxikhajit4541
9 ай бұрын
The mother is even more adorable than the little girl, because it takes so much character to be patient and supportive like this. Her parents must be so proud.
@ayeshaibrahim2024
9 ай бұрын
It’s just one video! 😂
@tabaxikhajit4541
9 ай бұрын
@@ayeshaibrahim2024 Thank you. My heart was breaking today for so many things in the world, but you reminded me this is what we live for.
@Sisima13
9 ай бұрын
And this is why I’m not a parent 🥲 I wouldn’t be able to give this type of patience to my kid and it breaks my heart to know that I’d be a horrible mom
@tabaxikhajit4541
9 ай бұрын
@@Sisima13 You might be much better than you think! There are books and videos that can help with skills, and you might be surprised how much the love you can have for your own child will inspire you to succeed for them. But you know yourself best. Parenting isn't for everyone.
@shaniahobbs
2 ай бұрын
These are the people who deserve kids😢😢❤❤❤❤
@angel-san5161
2 ай бұрын
This angel's patience is everything 😢❤
@natalie9884
8 ай бұрын
Put me in tears. Couldn’t imagine growing up with that patience, nurture, and support
@Valleyskies655
7 ай бұрын
YAAY❤😊😂
@pandaemily7763
7 ай бұрын
@@beerussolos1063thats why you should have as many kids as you yourself can take care of lol
@GarfieldWantsChcolateMilk
6 ай бұрын
Same. I have tears running down my face out of, honestly, jealousy. I’m so grateful Sutan can live such a wonderful life and I’m proud of her mom for being so kind!
@CognitiveDissident.
6 ай бұрын
Maybe you can use this inspiration to be patient with your parents? Give them the benefit of the doubt, and remember we all do the best we can with what we know at the time.
@itsawildmaki916
5 ай бұрын
@@GarfieldWantsChcolateMilkand @nathalie, I hope you're both doing okay ❤️🩹.
@joetheseventeenth
Жыл бұрын
this is such a different environment than i was raised in. i wasnt abused by any means but to have such patience with your child is so amazing. i wonder how things would have turned out had my parents had more patience.
@user-rx7uh9mg4f
Жыл бұрын
If we didn't have such parents, we should be that parent for our future kids. Break the cycle!
@catie7466
Жыл бұрын
same! my parents were very loving but they definitely rushed me through tasks and took over if i was taking too long or doing it wrong. they'd usually make fun of me for not knowing how to do something instead of teaching me or just letting me try my best. i didn't learn how to tie my shoes or put my hair in a ponytail until middle school. i didn't learn how to cook basic meals until i was an adult. when i got to college, i had to put a lot of work into trusting myself and not immediately seeking help/validation from others.
@SHINeeWORLDDDDD
Жыл бұрын
I wish the same.
@balinesecat54
Жыл бұрын
Same Here …
@stephenho5272
Жыл бұрын
Uncle Roger approves her egg cracking technique 🥰👍
@user-ji7eo8xd3x
22 күн бұрын
She is so focused, taking her time, exploring with her hands. This is adorable
@DevikaLakshminarayanan
3 ай бұрын
the mother has all the patience i need in my life tho...
@emelianemone777
11 ай бұрын
why am i crying over a little girl managing to finally crack an egg?! such a sweet moment.
@jyostnabenparmar1783
11 ай бұрын
Same gurl😭😭
@laurincurtis6163
11 ай бұрын
I’m TOTALLY crying 😅
@din11dm
11 ай бұрын
It's the music
@labullo79
11 ай бұрын
Ikr?!
@sarahmiller3200
11 ай бұрын
The Lumineers will do that to ya 🎶
@little_mimi7
Жыл бұрын
The way she's turning it around and and looking at it from every angle, trying out different things to figure the egg out. So adorable. I'm literally in tears. ❤
@cannablissdreams
11 ай бұрын
me too!! I'm crying!! but.. whyyyyyyyyyyyyy???
@evalorraine8
11 ай бұрын
and the way mom lets her ❤
@4544kk
11 ай бұрын
She just made a core memory!❤
@emilylindley3299
14 күн бұрын
I remember the first time I saw this it really mad a difference in my heart and furthered my patience with my toddler.
@jkimball7093
Ай бұрын
I'm smiling through the whole process! love it. She's thinking her way through it!!
@ily.soph00
Жыл бұрын
my dad would literally say “hurry your ass up and crack the egg or i’ll throw you off the balcony” 💀
@kashishsharma7225
Жыл бұрын
Lol😂 same 😂
@janieb1439
Жыл бұрын
@@kashishsharma7225 Not Lol! So sad! Violence in education is terrible and so destructive. Unfortunately most of us had to through this.
@TRINACOLADAA
Жыл бұрын
I haven’t laughed this hard over a comment in a long time 😂
@spookyumi
Жыл бұрын
I'm really sorry you had to go through this!
@xotwod1253
Жыл бұрын
whats the point of teaching a child how to crack an egg at such a young age. thats total wastage dude and its pointless tbh. teach them how to eat not how to crack an egg.sttupidity at its peak bro
@foreverPriscilla
10 ай бұрын
i barely had the patience to finish this video 😭 parenthood terrifies me
@reaganjaegan
10 ай бұрын
I'm looking forward to being a parent and even I could hardly wait for her to crack the egg...
@ezinnepearl
9 ай бұрын
Like I almost took the egg from her through my phone😂😂
@belindaagbloe5378
9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@loveonlytee483
9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@gardenersdelight7479
9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@Doing..nothing07
24 күн бұрын
You know what! Something just healed in me after watching this video. Save it for after. It's so precious✨❤️
@Shivanikumari-cy5po
Ай бұрын
Her focus can help me crack any kind of issues 😭💯
@the_aesthetic_addict4894
Жыл бұрын
This made me 😭😭 because it reminds me how we have to remind ourselves not to rush in life and to believe that we can do everything
@juhisuryavanshi577
Жыл бұрын
Damn what an insightful thought!!! 😮
@igbesiaye
Жыл бұрын
Literally my mother must have snatched the egg out of my hands and pushed me out to nowhere 😂 (Edit:-This is the first time i got so many likes just by admitting the truth)
@halimede
Жыл бұрын
Me, I’m your mother 🙋🏽♀️😂
@calliopeshif7581
Жыл бұрын
@@halimedeI know this is a joke, but I feel like that's really not something to be proud of 😬
@halimede
Жыл бұрын
@@calliopeshif7581 Meh, wouldn’t say proud. Just realistic. The first step is admitting you have a problem after all. Edit: btw I do not actually have children bc I know myself well enough to suspect I wouldn’t be the best 🤷🏽♀️ I am however, a loving and patient aunt 🥰
@babybluehashyo
Жыл бұрын
I am that mom lol. Dying on the inside and wanting to snatch the egg, but if I agree to let my kid help I stick to it and take a few physical steps back to panic where they cant see me lol
@samirabarra6324
Жыл бұрын
Same😂😂
@ghost3lite216
17 күн бұрын
Watching her do stuff is just the best. Kids are so great.
@RandomChick666
2 ай бұрын
This made my heart so full. I never got this as a child and it's so comforting to watch ❤
@mrsB0915
4 ай бұрын
“Don’t rush. They can do it.” This is going to be my new motto as a mom to two small children. I love this. In the moment it’s so easy to forget how new the world is to them and how magical something as simple as cracking an egg can be.
@ahhwe-any7434
4 ай бұрын
I let my baby experience soda from the cap. ..she really likes soda!
@AaravArya000
3 ай бұрын
Sounds fun, wanna marry me.
@ExplorerXyz-om6mz
3 ай бұрын
My mother cannot understand this,for the first time I tried to fix cylinder with stove she was scolding Why I don't know . And snatched away the cylinder...😢It has always been liike this,she told me drawing is a waste of time,then complain why I can't make Rangoli ? She prohibits me to sing and listen to music and then says you don't even know lyrics of Bhajan. She doesn't let me talk to my friends on phone or any other way and then complain why I don't know to interact to relatives. Nowadays,she is not letting me study at nights ,and in future she will complain why didn't I get nice job?😢😢
@saumyamittal1927
2 ай бұрын
Should be the motto for adults too!❤ The word's too harsh!
@dopiepanda
2 ай бұрын
@@ExplorerXyz-om6mzAnd now you know everything you can do different when it's your turn ❤ Keep your head up
@naolucillerandom5280
11 ай бұрын
I was so proud of her when she finally figured it out 😭 Wish everyone had parents this patient and caring.
@Forever4God
11 ай бұрын
I more than likely would have taken the egg and finished the job ages ago... great VN patience shown here for real
@isabel-qh4bn
27 күн бұрын
I just realised now that patience makes such a difference and i actually cried here cause i got yelled whenever i make small mistakes and i love how this mom isn't running out of patience for her daughter❤
@nabeehakashif
13 күн бұрын
Moms like this are biggest blessing from God
@avi.a.
Жыл бұрын
Patient parent and patient child is the calmest and best duo ever❤️
@yolandaC3403
10 ай бұрын
I am guilty of being impatient at times. This is a good reminder. This totally warms my heart! 🤗💞
@jess4DC
10 ай бұрын
Same here
@ashbashas
9 ай бұрын
Me too, but my kids at this age could crack an egg, leaving no Shells with my less patient teachings. 😅 it's the parents teaching kids to read and don't give the time and patience when most needed that drives me crazy.
@joybishop3751
9 ай бұрын
me too..
@maggiev9247
9 күн бұрын
I love her patience. 🎉❤ this is how you teach! Love from NY.
@mnhakimi
2 ай бұрын
she grows so fast, thanks father and mother for colouring this artist that can cook for her family too later. may the One bless your family ❤
@laniedobransky3411
Жыл бұрын
its so sweet how the mom smiled when the daughter so carefully broke the egg apart its so beautiful to watch such an amazing mother daughter moment like this TYSM FOR 3.6K LIKES 🤍🤍
@dianabrennan8856
9 ай бұрын
This honestly made me cry because I wish more parents had this kind and nurturing attitude towards their kids
@Live_reactionary02314
9 ай бұрын
Actually the kid tested my patience
@GiovannaArancibia
8 ай бұрын
@@Live_reactionary02314 my dog tested my patience ! I am ready for kids 😁
@Mood_21
8 ай бұрын
🫂🫂🫂Don't worry friends, we can create good parents in ourselves for our children in the future
@CutieARMY123
8 ай бұрын
Same 😢
@tiffanybrooks8765
3 ай бұрын
I can’t get over how adorable she is
@unmasflojomidgewidge
10 күн бұрын
It’s so easy to forget the simple moments in life and take our time here on Earth for granted. This one minute video of Sutan exploring her curiosity and improving a life skill is so important and moving. So many people out there have broken relationships with their parents or have even become that agitated or rage full parent and need to see something this so bad. What you have with Sutan is extremely beautiful. Please never lose sight of these moments.
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