Don't get desperate....get active! Occupy until it's your time. Words of wisdom Tony 🙌
@8adassa
3 жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@lifestylology
3 жыл бұрын
My three favorite coaches: Latoya Okeia, Coach Rod, Tony Gaskins
@tiffanyjohnson4271
3 жыл бұрын
Yes I have been focusing on me during this time of singleness☺
@LatoyaOkeia
3 жыл бұрын
@@lifestylology thank you!
@concreterosepodcastyoutube4409
2 жыл бұрын
Love you Latoya
@Juju-gf3iq
3 жыл бұрын
I took your advice and my life started to change. Invested in myself, building a business, and eventually want to write a book! You don’t realize how many people you are impacting by giving us this advice.
@feliciadance1715
Жыл бұрын
Glorrrryyy! Keep being the vessel Tony. You are appreciated sir!
@alexisforteza_
3 жыл бұрын
Purpose partner over chemistry and compatibility. Take your future seriously!
@lakisha499
3 жыл бұрын
Compatibility is also very important
@cspann33
3 жыл бұрын
All are very important, but point taken.
@siennamillerbroadcast
3 жыл бұрын
True but ALL of thee ABOVE. You CANNOT leave out chemistry & compatibility when it comes to YOUR SPOUSE. If you ONLY have the 1st two, that's running a business not having a marriage. People too often underestimate those essentials. There needs to be a difference in what the person you marry holds and has that sets them APART from any other person of the opposite sex.
@lil.ms.j7156
3 жыл бұрын
No, all of the three.
@takoradavis6867
3 жыл бұрын
I recently left my ex bf because hes constantly unemployed and he felt like him paying 50 percent of the bills was too much for him.i refuse to take care of a man. He had to go
@user-xw9cz8fv3e
3 жыл бұрын
Especially if he losing his job aka income,an ladder towards an career more than once,I wouldnt either.
@brittanyb5942
3 жыл бұрын
Girl I've been in the same situation 🤦🏾♀️
@soulRegal08
3 жыл бұрын
Been there too
@disnalee
3 жыл бұрын
Wise choice for a better future
@lachibolala114
3 жыл бұрын
At least it was 50% of bills, i had to pay 70%
@youmatter2god552
3 жыл бұрын
I've been desperate for love my entire life. The truth hurts but it's also very enlightening. Just focusing on Self love and I pray that rest will fall into place🙏🏽🙌🏽
@marchellegodsangel9601
3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. I thought I was the only one!!!
@eleseclarke6038
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@joycewilson8546
3 жыл бұрын
You have true love if you have Christ, everything and everyone else is secondary. This is foe me too😊
@gdust6579
Жыл бұрын
me too im still worried bout ending up single and missing a guy so i dont want to meet any one new any ways. trying to find a way past the heart break and get up and do something. its hard cause ive had depression and people kicked me when i was down n heart broken by a guy earlier this year
@2cuteemari
3 жыл бұрын
I think a lot of us would like to fix all the problems with one particular person..but the reality is God has someone so much better than the one we are trying to choose. You shouldn’t have to jump over hoops with the one God has for you, things will just fall into place 💓
@lasheikatucker4598
3 жыл бұрын
Amen. If it's Forced it's you, if it Flows it's god.
@ncollins5557
3 жыл бұрын
Well said, " the one WE'RE trying to choose."
@nikkirowland
3 жыл бұрын
THIS!
@PriyankaGupta-ew1li
3 жыл бұрын
Hell Yaassss😍🤗💓😌🌸
@Ms_Mayberry
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this !!! I agree!!!
@ncollins5557
3 жыл бұрын
Tony reiterates over and over two main points. Create boundaries/standards and stick to them. Show you love yourself before attempting to enter the arena of companionship.
@cubanadelrey
3 жыл бұрын
I just finally walked away from an extremely cheap man. After not saying anything for two years and accepting the bare minimum, I mentioned that he was cheap. He got the audacity to get offended! I deserve more. Thank you Tony.
@shutit4024
2 жыл бұрын
Girl i had a guy that wouldn’t buy me a 88cent teddy bear from Walmart 🤦🏽♀️ I will never settle again he was cheap af wanting me to buy him things
@parasterling1139
3 жыл бұрын
🤣😅😂 “Baby don’ fell and hit her head and didn’t even cry.” This man makes Me laugh so hard.
@naturallyfree01krj50
3 жыл бұрын
Tony, please don't EVER stop the way you deliver your videos. In the mist of the TRUTH we need some laughter, especially with all that is going on in the world. 🤣
@Dr.Elaine1
3 жыл бұрын
“That’s what you have to ask yourself, is his personality... worldview...outlook on life...situation going to affect or impact the quality of my life?” TG
@Mirror_My_Ambition
3 жыл бұрын
This is the ABSOLUTE TRUTH. ALL of these things will affect and effect your ENTIRE LIFE, present and future.
@bc1248
3 жыл бұрын
His personality and worldview is meaningless, bcuz that’s just empty rhetoric that swings like a pendulum. Making sense when he speaks and demonstrating the opposite. Guys are notorious for that. So don’t go by that. What’s going to affect your life is the way he is. The decentness or bs he’s about, and getting yourself involved in.
@talyshahickerson7281
3 жыл бұрын
Yessss! Great advice! This was the very question that led me to end my last relationship. Thank God for growth, wisdom and discernment. I couldn’t give it a year and the 5 months I did stick around was too long lol
@Dr.Elaine1
3 жыл бұрын
@@talyshahickerson7281 2GodBTGlory! Yes! Tony gives us great questions to ask!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@talyshahickerson7281
3 жыл бұрын
Yes Dr. Elaine! 🙌🏽
@nedramitchell6116
3 жыл бұрын
Yes ladies! It's time to stop settling. Get someone you can go on all the adult Roller Coasters with. 😂. Naw, I'm joking, but on a serious note. Don't let a temporary feeling of loneliness, become a long-lasting problem of stress. Be Blessed.
@samonecharisma3043
3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@tiffanysimms4454
3 жыл бұрын
@@samonecharisma3043 and Amen🙏🏼
@cocoj2252
3 жыл бұрын
I go to a different gym every week just to run in to my husband lol 😂 and I go at different times. He gonna see me!
@stephanietinoco1565
3 жыл бұрын
This is so funny because it’s so relatable 👀😂
@KnowYourWorthPodcast
3 жыл бұрын
Lol me too sis and they are in there too looking good. 😀🥰
@cocoj2252
3 жыл бұрын
@@MichelleG333 yes. They at every location lol gotta which it up.
@09rew
3 жыл бұрын
Wow
@chitown7110
3 жыл бұрын
@Bree C To be honest Sis, it doesn't really matter where you meet a man. So many people are negative about online dating, but look how many millions of women are suffering or dead who have met men the old fashioned way. Just because you meet a dude at the gym, at church, at the library, at the club, at the park don't mean he is any better.
@annickcharles3406
3 жыл бұрын
Bro Tony has so much Godly wisdom and is a real comedian. He said baby hit his head and don’t even cry 🤣🤣
@cocoj2252
3 жыл бұрын
Lmao I feel so bad for laughing at that.
@nijay8267
3 жыл бұрын
@@cocoj2252 me too!!
@roja_xo5527
3 жыл бұрын
@@cocoj2252 god forgive me 😭
@kikic7637
3 жыл бұрын
@@cocoj2252 same🤪😂
@naturallyfree01krj50
3 жыл бұрын
I'm at work listening to the video, IN TEARS, laughing.
@calesiamorehead275
3 жыл бұрын
You and that purse Tony! You killin' me ova here. 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
I start dying when he gets it out😂🤣!!!!!
@besetfree0473
3 жыл бұрын
Is it just me? It seems like common sense but I’ve missed this understanding my whole life. I think parents need to talk about these things with their kids and teach them. I was NOT taught!!! But I’m teaching myself now that I know I’ve been doing things wrong.
@chrissy1448
3 жыл бұрын
Yes a lot of parents don’t talk about this stuff. I do with my daughters though.
@paulinaordonez380
3 жыл бұрын
Chrissy i’m so happy to hear that don’t stop! My parents definitely didn’t taught me but i’m learning along the way!
@rosemarie5489
3 жыл бұрын
My mom had an arranged marriage that turned violent. Her parents on the other side, wanted to marry her off as soon as possible, no matter with whom. And I would say there are so many women who don't have the knowledge, because they had none to teach them as well... We are blessed to take the information now...
@michellegarcia9785
3 жыл бұрын
We are so blessed to grow up in the generation imagine the ignorance from past generations and arranged marriages or abusive ones. Bye
@ladyb3796
2 жыл бұрын
@Joyful n Blessed Agreed. My mother knew better and still didn’t teach me. I was thrown out there and got a lot of bad results. Totally preventable.
@TheOmegaGamer339
3 жыл бұрын
I love Tony’s delivery.....it’s ridiculously funny but so much truth in his message.
@rolandasturdivant
3 жыл бұрын
Omg. Thank you for this video. This week a guy asked me if I wanted to smoke with him. I responded by saying “no I do not smoke”. I told me friends about it. They told me that I should be more open and that my standards are too high. They also told me this is how young men ask girls out as an attempt to get to know them better. When he asked me this question, I was immediately turned off. I know my worth. This was confirmation. Thank you so much. Have a blessed day!
@Saysometh1N
3 жыл бұрын
That’s right Sis! I would have been turned off too.
@dh5573
3 жыл бұрын
I’m 420 friendly. But if a guy asks if you want to blaze with him at his place, that’s not “how young men get to know people”, that’s a booty call lol.
@fredajohnson506
3 жыл бұрын
Amen i don't blame you don't lower your standards for anyone
@allainsasha
3 жыл бұрын
As a weed smoker this a ploy to get you on your back ‼️‼️‼️
@ysmithriley
3 жыл бұрын
@Rolanda Sturdivant YIKES! The comment "Your standards are too high" coming from your friends makes me wonder what kind of character their husbands and boyfriends have.
@peaceful_and_blessed2879
3 жыл бұрын
Why is my baby so calm? Knocked out for hours! Contact high! 😅🙏🏻
@tiffanymccarthy9219
3 жыл бұрын
This is so true, I refuse to settle again. And"yes" they are out here,and I'm waiting for my king.
@kokoluv21
3 жыл бұрын
Male, 3rd leg and heartbeat 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
@mizzannabella
3 жыл бұрын
😞
@absterama
3 жыл бұрын
I died 😭😂🤣
@aghomablessing2506
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@sarahmitchell4010
3 жыл бұрын
You know, since I started listening to your messages, I learned so much. I’m dealing with a serious break up. He was coming in and out of my life. Now I have had the strength to leave, to no longer initiate contact. This message here, has me happy about the standards I’ve created. I don’t need no man playing those games!
@youmatter2god552
3 жыл бұрын
I'm going through a hard break up myself. Hang in there and just know GOD has someone better for you 😁🌼
@Uncensoredwithsevynk
3 жыл бұрын
Amen sarah
@Uncensoredwithsevynk
3 жыл бұрын
I am going through the same.
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
@@youmatter2god552 I’m in the same club. It’s no joke!!!!
@decoloniz_afro
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@LocoMocoLala
3 жыл бұрын
Man Tony said “if he can’t get on certain rides, then that MIGHT effect your quality of life” whaaat 😂😂😂
@reginagee9064
3 жыл бұрын
Tony had me HOLLERIN!!! That was too funny he can’t get on a roller coaster cause he too short and the look on Tony‘s face like what 🤣🤣🤣
@bbstar2254
3 жыл бұрын
I literally lose it every time he grabs that “purse” 💀😂
@adaiyah-zerahbahtyahudah7860
3 жыл бұрын
That purse is a cord...lol
@eleseclarke6038
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@JasmineSlater.
2 жыл бұрын
That took me all the way OUTTTT!!! 😂😂😂
@robinrobin9173
3 жыл бұрын
It was the earphone purse for me. It's official, Tony you're a comedian. When's the next show, cause I'm buying tickets? 😂
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
The earphone purse hurts my stomach every SINGLE time. I just can’t😅😂🤣!!!
@prettygirlprogression
3 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha so funny!
@letlhogonoloramaboea1661
3 жыл бұрын
Man that cracked me up!!! 😂😂😂
@beautifully_sonflower9965
3 жыл бұрын
Tony needs his own tv show so he can reach the masses. Thanks for all you do Mr.Gaskins!
@stargoldqueen5894
3 жыл бұрын
Never compromise your self-love and self respect!
@AR-ip5gg
3 жыл бұрын
Everytime he says okay now let me get my purse!!!! 😂😂😂😂 Tony thank you for all u do 🙌👌
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
I wait patiently or not for when he gets “the purse”😂🤣!!!!
@sandrasalinas9787
2 жыл бұрын
I’m working on my health, career, saving for my condo and would like a family but I’m 42 years .. sometimes I just want to give up. I’m still single because of my values and standards not my preferences… if my preferences were more important I would have settled for anything a long time ago as long as he has a cute face.. definitely do not want that!!! It’s been so challenging but God gives me strength to endure this time of waiting.. 11 years abstinent and 7 years praying for a spouse. It’s discouraging..but I have trust Jesus and his plan for me!!
@blackgira7056
Жыл бұрын
Act like you already have a husband is key. Know that he’s coming and he will.
@sandrasalinas9787
Жыл бұрын
@@blackgira7056 thank you 🙏 so much sister.
@lzsunshine
Жыл бұрын
You go girl!!! So proud of you! Keep your spirit high! God will honor you!
@nattywho
3 жыл бұрын
This is so true...we have to stop settling! I refuse to do it and I have a cousin who’s married and they tell me all the time that I’m looking for perfection and I’m really just looking for what I need and what I’m attracted to! They always try to hook me up with his friends, who don’t exercise, smoke cigarettes, drink a lot, don’t live near me, etc. I don’t think I’m being picky, because I can’t stand smoke of any kind, I stay active, I’m a very moderate drinker and I want my guy near me! My cousin is a vet, who suffers from ptsd and drinks heavily, but he does handle his business and he is very good to his wife! I tell him all the time that it’s rare, but I believe it’s because he loves the Lord. I don’t want any of that stuff in a mate and I tell him all the time that he is fortunate to have a wife that is willing to deal with his issues! Im too old to be dealing with a bunch of crap, that I personally find unattractive, so I’m not settling...period!
@ysmithriley
3 жыл бұрын
I "LOST IT" when he said your guy's singing might sound like someone DROWNING A CAT! 🤣
@casshaircare
3 жыл бұрын
Never settled for less than I’m worth... have high standards n morals period ...enjoyed the message
@Sirchingsince
3 жыл бұрын
I am 33, single with no kids. I want the same. There is a 34 year old man, divorced with 8 year old twins, who is interested in me. The biggest red flag for me is that he is bitter towards his ex-wife and paints her as the devil incarnate; and himself a wounded angel.
@Crystal-dr2xi
3 жыл бұрын
Don't believe him. He's angry and bitter because she left and wouldn't put up with his nonsense. Keep it moving especially, if he's openly sharing about her. Most men won't and don't do that he's hurt and needs to heal and take responsibility for his actions/inaction. Live for you.
@samonecharisma3043
3 жыл бұрын
Grab that purse & Run💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
@Sirchingsince
3 жыл бұрын
@@Crystal-dr2xi Thank you! A word is enough for the wise.
@Sirchingsince
3 жыл бұрын
@@samonecharisma3043 Thank you. It's settled.
@sadeegreenTV
3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@veronicakimbrell8256
3 жыл бұрын
“He tired of the eviction notices every other month”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
@JasmineSlater.
2 жыл бұрын
If you stand for everything, you’ll fall for anything. It took some heartache, but putting those standards, boundaries, and deal breakers in place was the most important thing I’ve ever did in my life! Make the Lord your hubby, you won’t regret it!! 😎😂❤️
@ivelispena9697
3 жыл бұрын
“Unless he can’t get on certain rides.” 🤣🤣🤣. I love the way you tell it like it is!! Those sarcastic comparisons makes one reflect!! Keep doing God’s work! You are excellent!! God bless you!!
@Dorian_Gray123
9 ай бұрын
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
@glendanesmith
3 жыл бұрын
This is some real stuff here Tony!! It’s a lot of grown girls as well!!! We all have to be willing and learning to grow 💯
@mariagrady8425
3 жыл бұрын
Tony your character acting is leading you to part in a movie.
@juanitabryan4291
3 жыл бұрын
Tyler Perry needs to put him in a few films 🙂
@TiaraByrd88
3 жыл бұрын
The baby done fell and hit her head and didn’t even cry 😂😂😂
@amberclare86
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@tiarachiffon8131
3 жыл бұрын
I’m dying! I literally scream when he said that! 😂😂
@iscelaarias3957
3 жыл бұрын
It sound super funny...
@queens9805
3 жыл бұрын
😭😂😂😂😂
@jeneciagallimore7096
3 жыл бұрын
Real talk tony never settle with a man who does not shows the quality of a good man
@abif9716
3 жыл бұрын
Your videos have really helped show me my part that I played in accepting men that didn't even come close to my standards and what I needed. I will make better choices purposely.
@disnalee
3 жыл бұрын
Women overlook the little stuff this stmt is so true
@Classynfabolous005
3 жыл бұрын
Yep until you annoyed AF then you see everything
@prettyperry2413
3 жыл бұрын
Baby Don Fell And Hit Her Head And Didn’t Even Cry 😂😂😂
@queens9805
3 жыл бұрын
😂😭😭😭😭😭
@Shanice1
3 жыл бұрын
Me and my ex had different beliefs. I grew up Christian and he was into the New Age Movement. 3+ years in and now out. I hope God change his heart someday.
@GoodGrief101
3 жыл бұрын
You are always right! I’m always evaluating my life. Whose in it, what I’ve allowed, what I’m still allowing and how to move forward. Tony has helped me get it together. He might be a relationship coach, but I’ve gotten a lot more out of the video’s. Thank you for all that you do and be blessed.
@rosemarie5489
3 жыл бұрын
Recently, having to see almost all of my friends and cousins settle for someone (except of one), I was wondering if my standards are too high. However, what I expect from a man is also something that I offer.... That's why I should just be patient and keep myself from getting desperate... I am almost 26 and till now, I managed to stop myself from getting desperate enough to settle... I hope God gives me patience to wait for His blessing.
@sarahmitchell4010
3 жыл бұрын
Ya, just be patient and grow independently. Don’t waste no time. The right one will come along
@rosemarie5489
3 жыл бұрын
@@sarahmitchell4010 Being singe has one huge advantage, that woman, who are in a relationship/marriage with the wrong one, don't have: Being able to go straight to our future husband as soon as we see him. We don't have to deal with a break up, with jealousy and harassment from a crazy ex or go through a divorce.Nothing like this, no... We go straight to our future husband!
@tibermontgomery7735
3 жыл бұрын
OMG TONY!! You summed up EXACTLY wht I just did w my ex who ended things & I said move out (was living w me paying no bills) & he was shocked I said move out cuz u ended relationship. I’m setting boundaries & standards now cuz fundamentally we weren’t compatible (he cheats, lies, don’t take care of his kids, smoke mj, & bounces jobs - I don’t). I’m not perfect by no means but he only brought his presence so I wasn’t alone. Getting used to that now cuz no extra self induced pain for me. Thanks again Tony.
@tfa4782
3 жыл бұрын
This guy cracks me up, "listen to this 3 more times" kkkkkkk
@abundancereign2287
3 жыл бұрын
Not " why my baby so chill ? " 🤣🤣 Tony!!
@favor9163
3 жыл бұрын
The smoking part had me hollering cause it’s facts I’ve seen this. These are facts
@chrissyw7208
3 жыл бұрын
Listen to this 3 more times to get your hour!!!! Toni tone tony!! I cannot with you!😂😭
@MichelleNagir
2 жыл бұрын
😂 He’s too much!!
@samonecharisma3043
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony for this topic. Covid quarantine caused many people to engage with people that were not up to there standard causing a lot of heartbreak. But the message is clear, brand/body/business. Thank god for healing. Ladies love yourself always
@DD-mg2se
3 жыл бұрын
If I didn't know how to get my purse..I sure do know how to get it by now..that getting my purse actions gets me every time 🤩😂
@jam1369
3 жыл бұрын
You are a master at saying things that are important in a way that we can understand and remember it. Love it!
@Bookwithmikk
3 жыл бұрын
It was the high off contact part for me🥴😭😂😂😂😂
@brandinicole4349
3 жыл бұрын
Tony Gaskin you have truly helped change my outlook regarding the way I see relationships, men, and who I give my time to. I watch your videos everyday while I’m working. Thank you 🙏🏾
@KK-bq3ns
3 жыл бұрын
I love Tony's purse😂!! Nothing but pure gems here!!
@anointedstilettos
3 жыл бұрын
That cell phone charger purse though 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
@ediipooh1991
2 жыл бұрын
“Unless he can’t get on certain roller coasters” 😂😂 I lost it there. Tony, you’re amazing and love to watch your content! Thank you!
@cynthia59665
2 жыл бұрын
God made a land-full of men and Women not a hand full you the truth 🙏♥️
@wendywilliams3962
3 жыл бұрын
The purse 👜. The rollercoaster 🎢. I cannot. I love this man. Get on bout your biznisss!
@athompson8232
3 жыл бұрын
Great message!!!! Don’t ever compromise 🙌🏾 Tony took me out with the baby done fell hit her head and didn’t even cry because of the THC and CBD. And then y’all can’t get on a rollercoaster 🎢 😂😂😂
@glittertheentertainer
2 жыл бұрын
“You spraying perfume, when he can’t even smell you” I’m so 💀
@KatrinaJTnea
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for continuously pouring into your viewers
@kikic7637
3 жыл бұрын
"Baby done fell, didn't even cry"😩🤪🤣 I know two people that settled and is dealing with some of what Tony is talking about...let's just say they are both in lonely marriages.
@LifeCoachLi
3 жыл бұрын
On time Brotha Ton 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I’ll wait for what I know exists. God does all things well and surely there’s a king that I’ll be suited for. Until then- B/B/B 🤯💪🏽💰🤞🏽🙏🏽
@Tlittlet2
2 жыл бұрын
Hey said the baby hit his head and didn’t cry 🤣🤣🤣 the baby high🤣🤣🤣. Tony you always bring a good laugh
@shereewhite4828
3 жыл бұрын
As for me: No stand-in's, fill-in's welcome! If I'm bringing something to the table, he MUST DEFINATELY bring something to the table as well! Morals, values, Christianity, compatibility, good work ethics, great conversation, quality time, trust, faithfulness, physical attraction, are things I will not lower my standards on, point blank perioddd! I'm not looking for perfection, because there's no such thing as a perfect man. If he's willing to accept my flaws, I'm willing to accept his.
@salomeyul
3 жыл бұрын
You are that big brother God sent me since I don't have one. You changed my life, thank you, Tony 💓
@angeliajohnson2365
3 жыл бұрын
Omg i can't not believe with this person just asked me. I've only known this person for 3 months and he just asked me to co sign a car loan for him. How fast should I 🏃♂️.
@state7736
3 жыл бұрын
Very.....
@ysmithriley
3 жыл бұрын
@Angelia Johnson Like YOU about to beat another runner across the FINISH LINE when running 🏃 a MARATHON! 🤣
@overcomerbtbojesus
3 жыл бұрын
@@ysmithriley 🤣😂🤣😂
@hymnodyhands
3 жыл бұрын
Ma'am, run SO FAST that you can reverse the orbit of the world and time itself and go back to where you met him and grab yourself so you AND past you can run TOGETHER!
@CP-go1lz
2 жыл бұрын
@13:25 Earbuds for purse & getaway office chair😂 That was good Tony! 🤣
@sleak2702
3 жыл бұрын
This is so spot on and I am busting up at the possibility of his height only messing up the quality of your life if you love roller coasters!! 🎢 😂
@queenofthesouth4205
3 жыл бұрын
Tony and that purse!!!!🤣🤣
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
It slays me😂🤣!!!!!!!!
@melvaspence17862
3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad that I'm listening keenly. I've already married to a man who is all wrong for me, and he will continuously tell me when he's in the midst of fighting me like a ghetto woman, that I think the grass the greener than him, that getting divorced again at my age people will laugh at me, he tells me all sorts of things that I know are not truth in me or about me. I still have mixed feelings about divorcing him, as he wants to go for counseling but doesn't have the money to pay for it, and isn't offering to pay anything, but consistently talks about going for counseling. I'm learning, do much listening here
@sarahmitchell4010
3 жыл бұрын
If he wants counseling he needs to take action, y’all don’t want anything to get worse. And don’t let him put things in your head. Take care
@melvaspence17862
3 жыл бұрын
@@sarahmitchell4010 I'm not accepting his insecurity on myself, I have to be strong and pray plus speak truth into myself, thanks
@eio1148
3 жыл бұрын
Never be afraid to leave a situation that isn't elevating your spirt. An insecure man will tell a woman anything when he has a QUALITY woman.👀
@melvaspence17862
3 жыл бұрын
@@eio1148 I do recognize that when I have said okay you need to leave, he then cries like a baby and begs me not to leave him then the cycle starts all over again once he feels comfortable, like we're going to work it out. Nothing changes, only married 16 months. Sad
@eio1148
3 жыл бұрын
@@melvaspence17862 I was married for 3 years and quickly realized that it was a mistake. Grown boy unwilling to compromise, participate in counsel from our pastor at that time and last but not least...cheating. I didn't care about what others may think, my peace of mind was priority. I decided to leave. I struggled for a while, but it was worth it THEN rather than lost years and struggling later.
@lindalovehearts
2 жыл бұрын
Needed this marijuana high baby contact laugh😅😂😂😂😂 im hoping to come in more contact w men who actually dont enjoy smoking weed. 🙏
@winfridahbanda5739
2 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅😅 I like the humor in the examples. Very true
@SS-in1ts
Жыл бұрын
One of my favorite videos of yours. 💯 thank you and for no filler!!!!! And thank you for adding your comedy 🤣🤣🤣 I need to give you a call come tax season haha
@reinaquisha9418
3 жыл бұрын
I'm loving all of these videos and Q&As. This is indeed a blessed tribe 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@t.michele3282
3 жыл бұрын
My Lord! This was my conversation with a guy yesterday. He thinks we would be fine with different lifestyles. Of course he would, he would be one benefitting on a come up with me, but I would be the one unhappy. I can wait to receive what I need and want. I've been alone this long...a little while longer will not hurt!!
@terry21651
3 жыл бұрын
Baby hit her head and didn't even cry..Oh my goodness....Speak wisdom and truth
@old2068
3 жыл бұрын
Help for young adults deciphering inner voice versus intuition
@kuwrabsyktv7674
3 жыл бұрын
Right on time!! Thank you Tony ♥️
@RubyRoxxie
3 жыл бұрын
Amen to that title!!! 🙏🏽💯
@visibleinvisible4809
3 жыл бұрын
Another awesome video, thanks for posting this !
@SheilaB729
3 жыл бұрын
Tony is such a blessing! Ty for all that you do!
@mtorchia24
3 жыл бұрын
Love these short videos.
@lieketsengsenatla7832
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr Gaskins!
@KnowYourWorthPodcast
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly great short message we appreciate you TG. 🤴🏾
@dn-cp6sh
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Tony for giving us hope with these messages. It is very much appreciated.
@Longliverey
3 жыл бұрын
Right. On. Time 👏🏾 thanks brother Tony
@mindblowin6141
3 жыл бұрын
Message ABSOLUTELY hit home. Thank you!
@sherthomp3058
3 жыл бұрын
Some women need to understand that having a man in their life is not always necessary. I remember when n my mon and dad seperated, my mother spent the rest of her life as a devoted christian and intercessor. Some wonen need to get married to Jesus and leave men alone.
@latrecelockett4930
3 жыл бұрын
That’s what I was thinking I got Jesus I don’t need no man
@en1575
3 жыл бұрын
I took out the battery 🔋 of my biological clock. 😂
@angelshevell
3 жыл бұрын
Thank You Tony for being so Honest❤
@TheSalimahsuperstar
3 жыл бұрын
This is perfect timing
@besetfree0473
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Tony
@jazzibutterfly3749
3 жыл бұрын
Love this message
@KimmyGize
2 жыл бұрын
I love you brother Tony!!! OMG!!! I literally laughed out loud in my office, when you said the comment about him being short and not being able to get on the rides!!! I am 5’11 1/2 and that so tickled me! Thank you for teaching me so much about men and relationships. When I quote you to my friends, I refer to you as my “brother!” 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
@hypnotqgreen
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the sale on your courses. I purchased the love & relationship ones that I hadn’t bought yet. I’m one of the single mommas that you’ve helped out tremendously and I pray you receive 100 times back the blessings you’ve given me with your videos. I would have remained broken and not been on the path to healing had I not come across your videos 6 months ago.
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