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@Damion-
2 ай бұрын
Do fitness IRL streams
@mkcoollyo94
Жыл бұрын
Modern dating is such a mess. No one can be just be honest. Girls get turned off because the validation was instant and not earned. 🤦.
@rasheemthebestfirstone3274
Жыл бұрын
Well is over validation honest? Or needy?
@makolabel
Жыл бұрын
This isn’t just modern dating, I’m sure in the 90s instant validation would have turned a girl off back then
@makolabel
Жыл бұрын
@NrG33 yes, this is just female nature
@Liverpool-Thedirtyredteam
Жыл бұрын
I know it's exhausting!
@wayofthekodiak3118
Жыл бұрын
@@makolabel I was there and thats absolutely NOT the case. You could compliment girls without them becoming weirdos about it.
@shae.the.gymini
Жыл бұрын
Never once have I ever thought “this guy is lame for texting me after our date” 🙄 There’s nothing wrong with the man doing the follow up… either the woman or the man. Don’t follow this shit.
@gregDino32
Жыл бұрын
I agree 👍💯
@Goldton5
Жыл бұрын
We spend to much money and time. And some men open up car doors, you better send the follow up text. Just got you a free meal and princess treatment, that’s your job.
@christophernikita8372
Жыл бұрын
@@Goldton5don’t stress yourself out bro
@Goldton5
Жыл бұрын
@@christophernikita8372 thanks bro 😂
@SRK6IX
Жыл бұрын
Just because you're an outlier doesn't take away from what hes saying 😂🤦🏽♂️
@Acolyte7
Жыл бұрын
What a sad world we live in
@BenRobson123
Жыл бұрын
Fuck playing games. Fuck deception. Fuck these childlike standards. The dating scene needs more authenticity, vulnerability, care and less judgement. Start to take accountability. Dating will only get worse the more we continue to try hide behind these silly games
@eggscheese2763
10 ай бұрын
unfortunatelly my experince is that you have to. I made mistakes like this. The moment I steped out from the " I can replace you" frame to the " I like you wanna meet you more often" I always lost the girl.
@BenRobson123
10 ай бұрын
@@eggscheese2763 there are good, mature women out there. They wouldn’t respond like that to a message like that
@yunked
3 ай бұрын
Facts.
@gregc247
Жыл бұрын
I see both sides of this, if the girl is thinking the same thing and waits then you may have blown it for nothing, i think bottom line is if they like you and you messaged it wouldnt affect it
@swisdom9117
Жыл бұрын
True. It sorta depends on the type of woman. Personally if I went out on a date and enjoyed it and went back home and the guy didn't even text to ask if I got home safely (worse if I see him online) then I'd assume he isn't that interested in me. Then I'd overthink haha.
@jjjjz9811
Жыл бұрын
@@swisdom9117 yeah exactly if the girl likes u she lets shit slide if they don’t like u bcuz u sent a text after then they ain’t the one
@tiffxanax706
Жыл бұрын
Too many stupid rules these people make up. It don’t work that way just be yourself and go with the vibe. Stop overthinking every scenario and breathe 😊
@wayofthekodiak3118
Жыл бұрын
I agree with this. Overcomplicating the hell out it.
@gameon2000
Жыл бұрын
That's why you're on xanax?
@danielkissner4708
Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately dating is not simple anymore at least not in the states.
@ctony8089
Жыл бұрын
@hishenmathurin2844exactly. That attitude got me nowhere. I thought about shit for too long and nothing is just gonna come your way especially a female.
@Shark-hn4mv
10 ай бұрын
Obviously it works for him.
@azo5000
Жыл бұрын
I personally text her "Hey just letting you know I let out a massive fart when I got home" to have her very confused
@carrie.t.1111
Жыл бұрын
This is terrible advice. Women who value themselves don't chase. Its a mans job to pursue. I would be immediately turned off and move on.
@margaridasungoluiz7160
Жыл бұрын
My bow boyfriend actually texted me right after our date and we talked for hours, I was so happy that he texted me. I think if you ask someone out and you’re sure the person enjoyed your company as much you did, you can definitely be the first one to text after the date
@Rawyalty220
Жыл бұрын
What if you’re not sure they enjoyed your company
@TheHermit000
Жыл бұрын
We girls like effort ...ghosting after a first date is a big no no.. this will push me away.
@MedamineSlasla-su6mv
6 ай бұрын
Totally agree, ive been in many dates and i can guarantee you guys when the girl likes you she texts you first at least asking if you got home and she had good time, if she doesn't, just don't bother shes not interested...every girl who hasnt texted me when i texted her later she wasnt that interested and the one who were interested always texted...so please guys never ever text her after a date, wait for her to do so,even she wasn't that interested she might become intrigued so its a win win situation
@lejamesbron5880
Жыл бұрын
It's way more peaceful just being single if one has to resort to these childish mind games. Smh 🤦🏾 😂
@Vbnnghjjnnb
8 ай бұрын
Don't listen to him. If you like her tell her directly, doesn't matter on or after the date. If she doesn't appreciate it or doesn't like you back, at least you know where you stand, and you can move on quickly.
@lenaf443
Жыл бұрын
This is complete and utter BS that you're telling guys. They'll be missing out on so many chances, which they actually had.
@npcie117
Жыл бұрын
So what should they do?
@lenaf443
Жыл бұрын
@@npcie117 text 24-48 hours later. If you wait much longer, she'll perceive it as a lack of interest.
@biancabrooks9513
Жыл бұрын
@Rexell Bartolome text ask her if she got home okay? It's a simple opener
@angelg3642
Жыл бұрын
Nah, any man that is successful with women will tell you exactly that. I for once partially disagree with him since context of your relationship matters but for the most part its TRUE. Women get insanely turned off from such men, you say you don't but 99% of women get turned off and start losing interest after that. Men don't take advice from women on how to get women for a reason - you say 1 thing but then do another. Most of yall have no idea what you're attracted to.
@npcie117
Жыл бұрын
@@biancabrooks9513 That's a good answer
@jaykgatle
10 ай бұрын
Fellas, text her to make sure she got home safe
@sandwichsquad74
Жыл бұрын
Nah this is facts and I found this out on accident I ain’t even have to ask. I remember a girl asked me after our first date (my ex) to text her and let her know I made it back ok. I got home, rolled one up and jumped in the shower and changed into my pjs I pick up my phone from the charger cus I was about to text her and I already had two texts from her I said “ you was pose2 wait for me🤦🏾♂️” she said “well you took too long😭😭” high interest women always reach out first after the date cus she wants to make sure she’ll see you again. Also, y’all shouldn’t be texting girls at the beginning unless it’s to set up a new date and you should probably wait a week before you reach out to do so, don’t reach out to tell her you had a good time. Seems like you want it to work too much or you’re too invested too quickly
@liliana83181
9 ай бұрын
I usually let the guy text me first, when I don’t hear back til days later then he’s not interested.
@pugpiranha
10 ай бұрын
she ghosted on me now. luckily I don’t do stupid simp things after the date like you said. if they’re gonna go they gonna go. i have to always remind myself not to simping, ngl.
@jarodwilson5203
Жыл бұрын
Tbh most of the time if a date went well the girl will text you almost instantly that’s how you know she like you fr
@KingBurger404
10 ай бұрын
Completely incorrect. It’s incredibly feminine to not chase, not court, not act like a gentleman and deliberately leave a girl thinking she did something wrong. Actual secure men do this. Two insecure people pretending to be who they’re not sounds like hell anyway
@TheClayTaco
Жыл бұрын
This seems complicated *why im gay*
@leoarjuncrasto
Жыл бұрын
Fucking horrible. I was getting too attached..didn't want her to notice it. We been texting for like 2 months. I didn't text her back for 16hrs after the first date. It really hurt her. And since then she hasn't replied. I feel I really hurt a nice person's feelings. I should never take advice online. Should have just done what I felt was right. I can't live with myself knowing I hurt a nice person. I don't even know what to do, to even get a reply now.
@RoadToStrength-nv8ei
10 ай бұрын
Just based on this paragraph I already know why she didn't text you back. If someone likes you waiting 16hrs is not a reason to completely cut you off. You exude desperation man she can sense that. You were probably mr nice guy the entire date and she was turned off by it. You need to be less desparate, show interest but play it cool and if she doesn't want you move on.
@heythere-y6h
Ай бұрын
no guys DO NOT DO THIS! Big no no:( it will make the girl insecure
@ShrektheOgre4real
Жыл бұрын
This works to an extent. There have been recent cases of rapes going on around my city. You can text her post date to ask if she got home. There is a median between caring about someone's safety and not letting them breathe. Be the gentleman you'd want your mom, sister, grandma to have.
@OminousIllustrations
9 ай бұрын
which city?
@ShrektheOgre4real
9 ай бұрын
@@OminousIllustrations my bad, albuquerque, New Mexico.
@blizzred2143
Жыл бұрын
Women play so many games and are so dishonest that there has to be specific strategies and tactics for simple stuff is absolutely insane 😂
@renegadezen7841
8 ай бұрын
There is a lot of bad advice on these quick dating vids but this is not one of them. This is absolutely correct. Never text the girl after the date. Maybe if a few days go by you can...
@Ant-speakingfacts
Жыл бұрын
It really sucks putting in too much work just to raise a woman's intrest and nevertheless getting intimate
@Mojokiss
Жыл бұрын
after i get in my car to drive myself home - "hey i made it to my car safely"
@Beingsprout
Жыл бұрын
Okay I kinda agree with this one only because of the fact he said high interest women will text you 1st, & yeah for me as a women that has been true.
@hdhejejjwjw
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for great advice, Austin!
@benjaminjones4008
Жыл бұрын
Had a date on Sunday and sent one of these messages. Thought the date went really well then she started getting cold over text and avoided my next link up request.. Hate modern women
@RC-ud4qo
2 ай бұрын
If a guy isn't texting first, byee!!!
@estherdmees
Жыл бұрын
As a woman here: This advice is the worst. Guys don’t listen. It is such a turn off if a guys doesn’t take the masculine initiative to let you know he had a nice time, instead of waiting for her to do it. Just a big turn off, period.
@jinxjinx2027
Жыл бұрын
Right on time had a date last night
@AS-pug
Жыл бұрын
How’d it go?
@edwardbedeau9391
9 ай бұрын
No matter how well you play the dating game at the start of things. Eventually, she's going to meet the real you. So, if you're planning on taking things further than just dating. Trying to be someone you're not is going to work against you. There's no shame in being a genuine and caring person. I've never heard a woman say they want a man who isn't caring or pretends to be who they're not.
@ellisjackson3355
Жыл бұрын
Definitely don't ask "when can I see you again?"
@bednoises6391
Жыл бұрын
Don't EVER come off as needy to her. Women swear they want nice guys but dry up as soon as he acts weak.
@dinguswiffle1866
10 ай бұрын
She texted after the first date and we kept talking for a few days after. Even a happy birthday wish, now nothing at all for 2 days. God damnit man, why must they be so complex. Very frustrating I thought we were really going somewhere as we clicked so good.
@mizrizz84
10 ай бұрын
As a woman that’s bullshit! The man should be the first to text back and I’ll be waiting on them even though I LIKE them ALOT. The woman is the sunflower, the man is the bee and is to come to the sunflower. This shit advice will have women run away from you
@minaben2689
3 ай бұрын
Okay princess 👑
@alexfitzpatrick8341
10 ай бұрын
I usually tell her “feel free to text me whenever”
@timothyjoseph3867
Жыл бұрын
Utterly exhausting.
@PettyStreetKev
Жыл бұрын
This izm finna have her runnin back for more jack🫡💸
@ALL_ME_MEA
9 ай бұрын
PURE TRUTH
@osadebedivine5523
9 ай бұрын
Thanks, bro will try it out.
@lovebehindthescenes
9 ай бұрын
This is next level weird advice! Traditionally it’s always been you know a man is interested, if he follows up after the date. Hmm wow
@aeucdbim
10 ай бұрын
Or tell her to text you when she’s home, you’re doing your job as a masculine leader making sure she’s safe and she also texts first. Double win.
@sarilove123
10 ай бұрын
what is this game playing smh. I (and the women I know) always appreciate when a guy texts after the date or the next day to say they had a good time. If a girl wants to see you again, she's likely already decided that- a delayed text isn't going to change her mind 🙄
@Alejandra-by5lf
Жыл бұрын
So toxic. Please don’t do that
@THEEMPIRES_SHOW001
Жыл бұрын
That's facts G
@BrandinRrr
Жыл бұрын
Good thing women usually text me post date
@joeyalvarez98
Жыл бұрын
Austin bro if she didn't like you then why did she go on the date with you in the first place 🤷🏽♂️🤔? 🤣
@rgkgoobaet7934
Жыл бұрын
Is it okay just this text? I always text “did u make it home safe?” An after they replied I just don’t text back at all anymore
@mikalajonez
Жыл бұрын
trust me boys watching this.... this is not good advice. if you like her show it. if she doesn't like that? she doesn't like you. and i promise you i wont text a man if i liked him or not if he doesn't follow up immediately/next morning
@novarem9828
9 ай бұрын
If i followed this advice i wouldn't have gotten a second date
@absolutrudy
9 ай бұрын
What brand is that black shirt from it’s hot!
@Gliss_Bliss
10 ай бұрын
Hmmm…as a woman, I prefer that he follows up first. Lol. Shows that he’s assertive and knows what he wants and isn’t about to play games in order to be with me.
@鋼然
10 ай бұрын
I mean you can ask her to message you if she goes home safely. If she is not interested in you,she wont make the first move.
@keepitabuck9961
11 ай бұрын
Big facts let her text you first and even then wait the next day
@MisterH1992
10 ай бұрын
This is just straight up playing games. Just message or call your date afterwards. If they respond back then they are interested. If not, then move on.
@Sandrahans
Жыл бұрын
That’s bullshit as a girl I would feel I’m not needed
@natanbrew5071
Жыл бұрын
Never tell em you like anything you do with them 😂😂😂😂😂
@adrianewilson8821
10 ай бұрын
HE'S THE TYPE THAT WOULD LOSE A GOOD WOMAN SIMPLY BECAUSE HE THINKS THAT HE KNOWS WHAT ALL WOMEN THINK. OH DEAR😁
@tbjb009
Жыл бұрын
I agree with this 💯
@ImmanuelBlack
Жыл бұрын
that shirt fire though
@armandelezi8449
10 ай бұрын
If you are an attractive guy with option's it doesn't matter if you text back or not.... I mean his advice ain't bad but common it's like taking advice from a trust fund baby how to get rich
@CindyWalsh-k2o
9 ай бұрын
Nah … that’s completely wrong. Women wait to hear from a man.
@hemzatefili1203
Жыл бұрын
That really childish if you decide to meet with a woman you are willing to text back firstly and make sure she got home safe and that is a strong man who cares and have action. You’re not here to play mind games with a women nor for experience. You’re a man that nobody tell what need to be done period
@gingerfellah5665
10 ай бұрын
This just sounds like manipulation. If you like a person show enthusiasm and if you don’t get it back you move on. Having a nice date then being made to feel anxious and unsure and concerned will make you lose interest real fast.
@Hunter-op3dx
9 ай бұрын
Old fashioned women want the text. These modern girls like these chlidish games
@michaelblackson2006
9 ай бұрын
What if a women tells you to text her when you get home?
@MedamineSlasla-su6mv
4 ай бұрын
If she asks you to that, shes interested
@BB25_25
Жыл бұрын
Stupid advice, if you liked her and felt a vibe then text her.. doesn’t matter who texts who first, it’s how honest you are about meeting again, don’t be ambiguous and just let things hang.
@kommentatort3496
9 ай бұрын
fuck that...just dont play games...if she likes you, you can text her first...doesnt change anything
@n.m.3760
Жыл бұрын
So many contradictory advice when it comes to dating. Like no wonder modern dating is such a shitshow.
@antonettesmith6688
9 ай бұрын
I’m confused🤦🏽 some coach say a woman should not text or call so the woman will know the man is into her , then now the man should not call what’s the matter with you people stop confusing everybody.. I believe a person should follow their own minds and God and their instinct’s.. SMH
@liberalartsguy2982
10 ай бұрын
selling popcorn to those reading the comments
@nuraxgaming6601
9 ай бұрын
yo thanks ill need some for this one haha
@melissazaccagnini2567
10 ай бұрын
Wrong wrong wrong!!!! I will not text the guy first If he says text me when you get home, he gets a 2nd date if he doesn’t say that it’s an alert for me to pay attention I’ll text say I got home & thank him again but that’s it It’s the guy that has to reach out initially
@kellydasa4885
Жыл бұрын
Bad advice The women can think he didn’t like her and depending on her she might not ever reach out and both loose the opportunity when they really liked each other just for playing games masculine men should always come to a woman
@KevanKChannel
10 ай бұрын
My man took his PHD in Tate university. The golden rule of Tate
@V_II_IK_I_IN_G
7 күн бұрын
Fuck all this! If you have a first date. The courteous thing to do is to message her… Ask her if she got home safely, thank her for a good night and if you want to see her again, say, we should do this again sometime… nothing more… stop the games, stop the bullshit. Just fucking be real.
@alijahcordova8359
Жыл бұрын
Always let the woman hit you up after the date and if not you move on to the next one
@priscillaguzman1743
4 ай бұрын
I’m glad I don’t date. Too many mind games. If you both like each other tell each other show each other. It’s not rocket science. But I guess dating nowadays is just trying to bag as many as possible not looking for a life partner.
@joepic85
Жыл бұрын
When I don't text after the date its radio silence. They never say anything. I'm not sure Chads should be giving advice
@piyushmore1166
Жыл бұрын
WTF Dates, You lay the pipe in the first meet, if it’s a no, move on.
@punkt7752
Жыл бұрын
Y’all playing too many mind games to get some cheeks smh
@cloudperson28
9 ай бұрын
this is not good advice? i’m a woman and get hyped when a man asks me to go out again!
@RC-ud4qo
2 ай бұрын
Stupid advice, this is why guys think they are "being ghosted" if you are being feminine and not chasing or texting you want the girl to chase and be the masculine. It will turn her off. GET ADVICE FROM A WOMAN not some random dude
@diegomauricioquintanilla3489
9 ай бұрын
So if she texted me right after the date, is she interested. Should I answer or take my time responding her message ??
@ThistleRealm
Жыл бұрын
It was probably more of what he did wrong after the date....which was taking the advice given on this video lol
@gameon2000
Жыл бұрын
true 100%
@themoneyman5129
Жыл бұрын
Bro text her “ Did you get home safe”. Or make sure you take her home.
@wil_L
Жыл бұрын
So if she doesn't text you back first then don't follow up?
@TiffTalks-show
8 ай бұрын
This is playing games. I’m glad I’m focusing on myself because this is a mess
@kwabena787
Жыл бұрын
If you aren't exceptionally attractive as me😂😂
@wintermelon4020
Жыл бұрын
Damn what happened to the human race
@brianalonso9188
Жыл бұрын
I know bro. It’s like we’re all playing mind games and can’t be our genuine selfs. It’s all about leverage
@Ant-speakingfacts
Жыл бұрын
It's polluted
@wayofthekodiak3118
Жыл бұрын
@@brianalonso9188 Fuck that im being myself regardless. We're experiencing a social collapse.
@brianalonso9188
Жыл бұрын
@@wayofthekodiak3118 I agree with you
@jjjjz9811
Жыл бұрын
@@brianalonso9188 if u can’t be urself don’t waste ur time if a girl likes u she lets shit slide
@vonkunstler884
Жыл бұрын
Guy’s dating coach: “Don’t text HER after the first date” Girl’s dating coach: “Don’t text HIM after the first date” *guy and girl never see each other again*
@Beingsprout
Жыл бұрын
😅
@terriwilliams6816
Жыл бұрын
Exactly it’s these games right here why I don’t even bother with dating right now
@why1513
Жыл бұрын
We live in a society where people don't give each others attention to get their attention.
@Insight-music
Жыл бұрын
Dysfunctional power play games that lead to nobody feeling fulfilled in the end. Dating is shit in 2023. Any man with common sense would see it as a lose lose situation
@1bosstv
Жыл бұрын
A pokemon battle where 2 Dittos will just endlessly transform. Impressive.
@JoshuFoFo
Жыл бұрын
Stop overthinking it. Play your card and be willing to cut your losses if things don’t go your way. The world is full of ppl. Just say “her/his loss” and continue your life. Don’t get hung up on “this is the one, I need this one” just keep it cool
@angelg3642
Жыл бұрын
Quality > quantity. Any rational man would want to hold the nurturing and peace giving woman with no past rather than a girl that brings drama and was ran through. If there's another it doesn't mean it's the same quality. Can't blame men for not having the "well I'll just move on to the next woman, whatever" mentality. Especially in today's day and age where almost every man and a woman is a terrible partner due to internet,feminism, simp mentality etc. Stop overthinking it is a terrible advice... Unless you have no self respect and would settle for a used 304
@goatpower321
Жыл бұрын
@@angelg3642 this is for advice just after the first date.
@Mountains4ever
Жыл бұрын
I agree. Overthinking will kill it. I started seeing a girl who is WAY out of my league. Im just an average looking man with an okay job but I took my shot anyway and she said yes and we’ve been out 4 or 5 times now. I called/text her the next day after our first date and she loved that I did that. Trust your instincts and go for it. If it’s who you are and they reject it, then they are not worth your time to begin with.
@weyjosh5213
Жыл бұрын
wrong advice
@chanellove3482
Жыл бұрын
🙌🏽
@VernellWatts
Жыл бұрын
I usually tell them let me know when they make it home
@Eli9mm7
Жыл бұрын
Always thought that's the best trick for them to text you first
@Eyeinthesky7
Жыл бұрын
And when they don't
@VernellWatts
Жыл бұрын
@@Eyeinthesky7 then oh well, on to the next girl
@Eyeinthesky7
Жыл бұрын
@Vernell Watts it hasn't even been 24hrs
@VernellWatts
Жыл бұрын
@@Eyeinthesky7 did she text you yet?
@lilgobbledygook9462
Жыл бұрын
Honestly I think every girl would appreciate a message after the date or the next day. If you ended the date in the evening, check she got home okay, don’t play games, don’t waste her time, be a grown up and step up if you want to see her again. You can always say you had a nice time, wait a few days then ask if she would like to schedule the next date.
@arianaheisholt4764
10 ай бұрын
Thank you for being a grown up man!
@GreatTaiwan
10 ай бұрын
@@arianaheisholt4764 more like a simp
@gailainsley6939
9 ай бұрын
Right. Il forget him if there is no text immediately after. Il block him the next day. Who’s got time for it?
@unexpected8166
9 ай бұрын
then your dating pool must only consist of low value guys@@gailainsley6939
@strikesouthtrap
9 ай бұрын
@@gailainsley6939what if he asked you for the first date? Shouldn't you text him or call him for the second one? Id like your opinion on that
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