Yes I agree. These techniques can help in any relationship dynamic.
@andreaguzy8174
3 жыл бұрын
I'm a therapy intern and recently started seeing couples. This was really helpful for learning some fundamental communication skills I can be using in sessions. Thank you!
@monicaburtonlmft7230
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting. I am glad this can be helpful for you and your practice. Take Care 😊
@zuverlassig2jl
4 жыл бұрын
This is a good formula, but it's also important to understand none of this matters unless both people are interested in saving the relationship. If one isn't, it's best to just walk away after detaching yourself and accepting the end. You know. These revelations take 2 to effect the relationship between the 2 in a way that means staying together.
@monicaburtonlmft7230
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the response. While it does take two to work on the relationship it’s good to know tools you can bring the the table. Both of you knowing how to communicate effective is a good step towards improving the relationship.
@luvsadam2009
3 жыл бұрын
@@monicaburtonlmft7230 being able to communicate effectively also helps if couples decide to end the relationship to be able to co-parent or maybe maintain a friendship.
@NoRegertsHere
3 жыл бұрын
These apply to all relationships, not just romantically. Workplace, friendships etc. Learning the communication skills helps set boundaries and avoids being hooked in to a cycle of drama
@Solutions3000
2 жыл бұрын
@@NoRegertsHere : Yes. Thank you.
@SusanaXpeace2u
9 ай бұрын
and sometimes, in the case of a mother and adult daughter, my mother claims she doesn't want to lose me but she will *not* have the one conversation we need to have. It's been nearly 4 years since I raised it, tried to raise it I should say. She feels entitled to give me the silent treatment because in her mind she's protecting herself from my ''aggression'' as she sees it. She wants to bring me in to her distorted reality where all of my faults are tailor made to disguise her shortcomings. Ie, it's not that she doesn't have the patience or the empathy to listen to me, oh no no no silly, it's that I am sensitive. There are hundreds more of these examples. If I were less damaged I'd just give up. And she hasn't given up on bringing me back to heel where I say sorry for not accepting that I am ''sensitive'', ''emotional'', ''paranoid'', ''aggressive'' ''insane'' ''detached from reality''. I'm all of that apparently. If I can accept that and say sorry mum, all will be well. But yet she believes that she is interested in healing our fake relationship.
@chitchats29
3 жыл бұрын
Awesome explanation 💚💚💚
@monicaburtonlmft7230
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Glad it was helpful
@chitchats29
3 жыл бұрын
@@monicaburtonlmft7230 life changing!
@monicaburtonlmft7230
3 жыл бұрын
@@chitchats29 I am glad to hear!
@deepheart2416
2 жыл бұрын
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@blunttalkingoffspring
Жыл бұрын
❤Thank you for explaining that to us. I appreciate it.
@monicaburtonlmft7230
Жыл бұрын
You're Welcome ! I am glad it was helpful.
@brianallemang2187
5 жыл бұрын
A very good topic and your explanation was in great detail. Very well done. Thank you!
@monicaburtonlmft7230
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you and I’m glad you enjoyed the video 😊
@thatgaltabitha
4 жыл бұрын
I just found this video because Kati Morton mentioned this topic in one of her more recent videos and I decided to search KZitem for more information about it. I’ve already subscribed because it looks like you’re kind, well informed, and have made a lot of content on a lot of other interesting topics. Thank you for making this video, I will definitely be watching some of your other ones in the near future!!
@monicaburtonlmft7230
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words. I appreciate that you subscribed and will continue to watch. If there is a topic about relationships that you are curious about let me know. Take Care
@martinburrows6844
2 жыл бұрын
I'm studying diploma in counselling U.K. this is really good to integrate into group and team work.
@monicaburtonlmft7230
2 жыл бұрын
Hello and good luck with your studies! I agree that is can be integrated into more than just romantic relationships: Work, friendships and even parenting.
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