I’m so sick of people being forced and controlled into these creepy apology videos.
@8Platinum8
11 ай бұрын
they aren't forced they love their money and are bowing down to their god
@gracejones2831
11 ай бұрын
they are all so afraid of being canceled.
@MJFish
11 ай бұрын
I agree
@MJFish
11 ай бұрын
@@8Platinum8They are “forced” in the way that, if the want to continue to make money doing what they love, they have to keep good public opinion. There’s nothing wrong with that. Drew has plenty of other pursuits that make more money than her show, so this really isn’t just the love of money. She’s a generational Hollywood personality. This is her life.
@juniormakovsky9206
11 ай бұрын
@Ms.Delphine1204 you are right. Its a symptom of the degeneracy of our clture😢 however, seeing the thumbnail with the title, i actually thought for a sec that Drew was redpilled and was apologizing for her knee-fall infront of Dylan Mulvaney
@therealJamieJoy
11 ай бұрын
Drew has a speech disorder, which is a lisp. This is why she lifts one side of her mouth more than the other. This gesture helps correct her speech disorder.
@heatherbryant4197
11 ай бұрын
I have the same thing! But it's slight and doesn't happen all the time. I was actually fascinated by Drew Barrymore when I was younger because I heard the lisp in some of her lines/roles, but not others. I also tend to have asymmetrical expressions where one side of my mouth goes up more than the other. I only noticed it when I got my first drivers license photo. I think because of the resemblance to contempt, people interpret my genuine smile as a snarky smirk. Do you think that's coincidence or do you think I've unwittingly changed the way I move my mouth to avoid the lisp?
@therealJamieJoy
11 ай бұрын
You've probably self-corrected. I'm surprised your family or teachers never recommended speech therapy?@@heatherbryant4197
@deanaburnham9571
11 ай бұрын
❤ Yes! People who have no speech path background do not know the impact impediments have on speech production and language processing. At her "why" she was looking for words. The giggle is laughing at herself I think. Not insincere. The host and analyst is not considering Drew's mild word retrieval issues. He's good tho! Very very. I enjoyed this!!
@tlcrobles
11 ай бұрын
I don’t have a speech impediment and the right side of my mouth moves the same way as my left…it just moves more than the left side does. I’m my baby pictures, it almost looks like an invisible string is being pulled to make my smile wider on the right side. I don’t think there is a disingenuous bone in Drew’s whole body! I never felt she was playing to the camera, at all
@RobbieJayOne
10 ай бұрын
Yes. She’s had the speech pattern and mouth asymmetry since she did ET
@sharonwilson8208
11 ай бұрын
When my girls were little, when apologizing, they had to say what they were apologizing for, and why they were apologizing. This way, they understood others feelings, and why something was wrong. They're grown now, and they, and their children, still think of others, and teaching their little ones the same. It teaches empathy and boundaries...and sometimes setting their boundaries, and expecting others to understand. Their are few arguments, many talks, and true relationships.
@sjwinklerart
11 ай бұрын
I wish I could get my own mom to do what you taught your girls ❤ you're a total hero! It may seem small to most people, but I increasingly think this basic skill is so vital to healthy relationships.
@sharonwilson8208
11 ай бұрын
@@sjwinklerart I'm no hero. I just believe in open communication. My girls could ask any question. If I didn't know the answer, I would help them find the many views to an answer. They all think for themselves, with their own ideas and views, not someone else telling them how to think. I'm quite proud of them. One is a geriatric nurse, one owns her own business, and one has her Master's Degree, and a published author, photographer, and poet. All so different, yet very much alike. They cheer each other on. To me, they are the heroes.
@steviebarrios5137
11 ай бұрын
I do the same with my children I tell them own your feelings don't ever let anyone tell you what your feeling is wrong
@thelittlelenora
11 ай бұрын
Will you be my mom?
@JohnDoe-bj7fb
11 ай бұрын
@@mewho6199 I don’t see her post as an example of that. If you re-read her post, she explains her children as becoming independent critical thinkers as adults. That claim gainsays your assumption she led them to their success and claims it as her own.
@lilnugget5961
11 ай бұрын
Drew always pulls her mouth at the corner to the one side of her face since she was 5 yrs old. She has always had a very very dramatic, expressive face her entire life. Its part if her charm and endearment.
@heatherbryant4197
11 ай бұрын
On the Stroop test, I actually did the second phase much faster. Initially, I was anticipating ignoring the words and focusing only on the colors. But when I noticed they matched in the first phase, it tripped me up and I took twice as long comparing the color with the word to see if they really all matched. In the second phase, after I saw the first two didn't match, my brain was more readily willing to discount the words, which meant I could simply focus on the colors, which was faster. 🤷♀️ I guess you could still explain that as incongruence slowing me down. It's just that my expectation was incongruent with the reality based on your instructions. It also reminds me of how when someone lies quite often, it makes me more willing to discount what they say... the incongruence (between their behavior and words) becomes so predictable that you form an expectation of incongruence... then your expectation of incongruence is incongruent with reality when you encounter congruence... lol
@glasshalffull7583
11 ай бұрын
Same for me 😅
@moonyfruit
11 ай бұрын
Same here! I did the 2nd one nearly twice as fast.
@sweber2067
11 ай бұрын
It was the same for me. I think it was the instructions. I was expecting to be tricked.
@sashaclark9448
11 ай бұрын
Same
@Callimoone
11 ай бұрын
Same
@celeste8157
11 ай бұрын
I really don't think she had bad intentions, and she's kind of puzzled why people can't see that. She's not trying to hide her contempt because she's an honest person. I'm autistic and I often feel that way when somebody doesn't believe me or thinks I would do something bad. I don't understand how they don't see that I'm not lying or didn't have bad intentions. If there weren't so many liars in this world, then maybe people wouldn't be so suspicious. Drew's a good enough actress to be able to put out a decent apology video even if she were lying, so this is just her honest response.
@MJFish
11 ай бұрын
I 100% agree with this
@actuallyterry
11 ай бұрын
I agree
@Lorian7748GenXr
11 ай бұрын
Right on! Best comment so far! 🏆
@monicapatton1405
11 ай бұрын
Agree
@felineoverlordservant2419
11 ай бұрын
I’m also puzzled why people can’t see that 😕
@JaneSmith0709
11 ай бұрын
Drew doesn't like fake people. She most definitely doesn't want to be considered one. She doesn't think she did anything wrong and doesn't fully understand why she's having to make this apology, that's why all the shrugging. She understands that she has upset certain factions of people, and, in typical people-pleaser form, she apologizes for that, but not for crossing the strike line. She believes her heart was in the right place when she did it so she's not sorry about doing it, but she IS sorry that she upset people, and that's what she's apologizing for. - That's my take on it.
@thesingerintheshower
11 ай бұрын
I think you summed it up nicely. 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌
@moonyfruit
11 ай бұрын
I totally agree!
@SinaloaTacos
11 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@helenaquin1797
11 ай бұрын
And she is definitely not contemptuous as her mouth has always had that quirk when she speaks..
@justjosie8963
11 ай бұрын
right on
@nikkid4890
11 ай бұрын
Team Drew here. It’s clear she doesn’t think she did anything wrong, and she indeed did not. She doesn’t want to cause anyone offense and I think she also doesn’t like being bullied.
@ThatRedhedd
11 ай бұрын
Thank you! Drew is one of the genuine ones in Hollywood. I don't see how anyone could be mad at her. She's the sweetest!
@sharonwilson8208
11 ай бұрын
As a person who really has no idea what she's talking about, I'm very confused. Did she say something, do something, hurt someone, break her sobriety... I'm lost. This is so ambiguous. It sounds like those people who make false confessions for every crime on TV, even confessing to several crimes, including assassinations of important people. So, what did she do?
@Tiasung
11 ай бұрын
She had the audacity to want to get back to work because people relied on her show for their income.
@tiffanymichaels2429
11 ай бұрын
Continued with the show during the writters strike. People upset because they believe she should be supporting the actors and writters guild. Basically it's like, for example, a teachers strike. Any teacher who doesn't go along with the union and continues to work is called a scab. Drew Barrymore is viewed as doing that. As betraying the writters and colleagues by continuing the show. She felt it was important to continue with the show because there are other people this strike impacts financially. Not doing the show would put camera men, sound people, wardorb people, all the behind the scenes individuals brought on to produce a show, without a paycheck. She felt it was important for those who aren't writters to be able to continue to work.
@sharonwilson8208
11 ай бұрын
@@tiffanymichaels2429 Whoah, you should never cross a picket line. How egocentric was that statement?! They all know who's involved, that's the point of the strike. It's no different than the UAW. So Drew thought... could anyone be that naive? She's a member of SAG. It's basically a Union. I've not been in a Union, but I know people who have. I knew why there was a Union, why there was a strike, and why you don't cross the line, but join it in support. Dang, thanks for the reason of the video.
@brockmollett7393
11 ай бұрын
But she said in her video that she said that the show would go on and that was taken to be hurtful to people, it’s not who she is, and the show will be in compliance. I don’t know anything about the situation either. This is the first i heard about it. But we know it’s not about sobriety. She may have left out a full explanation for an apology but it’s not that hollow.
@ZombieZebra3
11 ай бұрын
She decided to cross the writer’s strike picket line.
@christinacarophd1544
11 ай бұрын
This is a great analysis of a complicated video. I’m wondering if you have watched videos from her talk show for more conversational baseline and not movies where she is playing a character? Also, I find women in general will demonstrate more reaction formation facial expressions (smiling when feeling something negative, giggling when actually feeling embarrassed, etc.). Do you consider gender specific differences in your analysis? I think we are seeing inner conflict. She doesn’t think what she did was wrong on the one hand. But she also may not have anticipated the anger, but more importantly hurt, that her decision caused. The “that’s not who I am” comment I think gives insight into her understanding she hurt people in trying to help others. Hence all the shrugging. She felt damned if I do and damned if I don’t. Maybe that is why there is so much conflicting signals and ambiguity.
@luminyam6145
11 ай бұрын
Agree, she still thinks she is in the right with her message but she is acknowledging that others don't see it that way. I see her as being very uncomfortable but believing in herself and her message. She is a "ppl pleaser" and I see that coming across in her presentation.
@HeavenlyPresley-Tonya
11 ай бұрын
@@luminyam6145 AGREE -- She is a People Pleaser She did have a traumatic childhood / growing up in her teen years and early adulthood --- therefore -- having CPTSD - Complex Post Traumatic Disorder -- It's Evident by her "Story" Her Life She lived!!!! CPTSD I have myself from Childhood Trauma from an early ago into even Adulthood -- Believe me People Pleasing is at the TOP Of behavior --- But there are so many MORE --- Insecurities -- I could write so much more on CPTSD --- I Adore Drew --- Your Behavior trust in people etc etc Develops when your a child and IF you were not nurtured / loved as a child - You feel you don't deserve Love You had no guidance / learning understanding early on - of Security -- ETC and that makes for a very complicate life of understand WHO You ARE --- etc I could go on and on
@judithtorres4409
11 ай бұрын
I fully agree with you. I dont see her smiles, nervous giggle, as signs of insincerity at all. and I also dont see her one-sided (asymmetrical) expressions as necessarily that of disgust. she has that peculiar rxpression and way of talking that other celebrities have in fact mimicked on talk shows
@Cat_Woods
11 ай бұрын
@@judithtorres4409 It's the apology part that is inauthentic. She believes it was okay to disrespect the writers' strike. I don't agree, but that's her opinion. Here she "deeply apologizes" but never spells out what she did and then goes on to justify it. So, whether or not you agree with her, her apology is inauthentic. She's talking out of both sides of her mouth.
@seedsoflove7684
11 ай бұрын
My daughter smiles nervously when upset. Odd, but that is her baseline. Also if drew just wanted to keep her show going to pay her workers, that makes sense and she should not have fake apologized.
@garethlohse9396
11 ай бұрын
Not for nothing but I saw a lot of what I do when I'm painted as being in the wrong even when I believe myself to be justified but I conceed that I'm not going to win the discussion and I want to make peace by reconizing the other party's point of view so that we can move on.
@garethlohse9396
11 ай бұрын
For example I would have that fast fade smile like her if I was trying to put on a brave face when something is getting to me more than I want it to. If I was genuinely upset while talking about my own ups & downs then you can be sure that I would be pulling the same facial expression. I smile at those moments so as to not loose to myself.
@latetotheparty184
11 ай бұрын
This situation is a classic " I'm sorry you feel that way about it." kind of apology. Good for all situations as it admits zero fault.
@alicelaybourne1620
11 ай бұрын
She doesn't think she was wrong, she IS sorry for how it made people feel.
@laurahompus
11 ай бұрын
Nothing wrong about that though. She had good intentions with putting on the show, and letting her crew get in the saddle.
@sandybeveridge5692
11 ай бұрын
I will be sure to use this template next time I need to apologise for something I don’t feel sorry for to appease those around me that are annoyed I don’t think exactly as they do! 😉
@sandybeveridge5692
11 ай бұрын
@@laurahompus 👍💯
@marydodsonmt
11 ай бұрын
I also have an unfortunate tendency to giggle inappropriately during serious moments, so I personally can't fault her for that. I did notice that she spends a lot of this video not looking at the camera, which makes me wonder who she was talking to. I keep thinking back to the previous WGA strike of 2007-2008. Jon Stewart was still the host of *The Daily Show* at the time, and he brought his show back before the strike was over as well, for some of the same reasons that Ms. Barrymore articulates. I remember that he got some pushback from it as well (Seth MacFarlane famously called him out for it). Unlike Ms. Barrymore, Jon Stewart stood by his decision and refused to apologize for it. It makes me wonder: Has there been more public pressure on Drew Barrymore now than there was on Jon Stewart back then, or was Jon Stewart just better prepared to handle it? And if there's more public pressure, I wonder why that is. In 2007-2008, social media was still in its nascent stages; is it that the Freelance Shame Squad is more organized now, and better able to apply more pressure more quickly? Could gender be a factor? Drew Barrymore is a woman and, not only that, a woman who became famous mostly for playing characters who were naive, fragile, or vulnerable. Does that make it easier to criticize her choices than it would be to criticize a man like Jon Stewart? Or do her critics feel that they have been holding back and not saying everything that they could have said for fear of the optics? This video raises more questions than it answers for me.
@hannahremmel9550
11 ай бұрын
Was wondering when The Daily Show would come in here. I don’t know if Jon Stewart is a part of SAG? At that time people definitely knew who he was, but it’s different here. If you don’t know who Drew is you’ve kind of been living under a rock. I think this whole thing has been way blown out of proportion. These strikes are obviously big for everyone involved. If she were shooting a film I would have way more opinions on her behavior. But she’s not. She has responsibilities to everyone on that set. everything and every job related to her show. As for gender, women can never win. If she made a video she was putting herself in the spotlight. If she didn’t make an apology she was wrong for making a video. I know this goes for men as well but not to the same degree. And social media DEFINITELY plays a role in all of this. If she takes it down it shows she didn’t feel responsible. If she kept it up she would be narcissistic. She’s between a rock and a hard place here. I think the real reason this is getting so much publicity is because it’s Drew Barrymore. Thank you for coming to my TEDtalk.
@marydodsonmt
11 ай бұрын
@@hannahremmel9550 Jon Stewart is a part of SAG. He went on record at the time saying that he took his role in the famously unsuccessful animated movie Doogal so that he could keep his SAG membership (and, therefore, his health insurance). Seth MacFarlane explicitly mentioned SAG and Jon Stewart's perceived disloyalty to it when calling him out back then. (I say "perceived" because MacFarlane certainly perceived it that way. I don't know if anybody else did.) I think you're right that both social media and gender are factors; however, I don't think that they carry equal weight, and I'm just wondering the percentage that each contributed, which may not be something that can be quantified and given an exact answer. Also, I do believe that there were other factors involved as well. I believe Drew Barrymore when she says that she didn't expect backlash from putting her show back on the air, whereas I think it's possible, perhaps even likely, that Jon Stewart anticipated the backlash and was prepared to answer it.
@debbylou5729
11 ай бұрын
I think it’s because people think they can behave however they want. They think if they’re louder, they’re more important. I don’t know anyone who cared that much about Jon Stewart. Now everyone thinks everything is their business
@justjosie8963
11 ай бұрын
It's simply that they didn't used to try to DESTROY people for excercising independent thought and actions that differ from their far left satanic cult logic.
@SneakySteevy
11 ай бұрын
4 components of a genuine apology: 1. Recognition 2. Responsibility 3. Remorse 4. Repair
@alicelaybourne1620
11 ай бұрын
Hmmm, sounds deep, but I would counter that you can be sorry for something you did, even if it was the right thing to do, so remorse and Repair are unnecessary in some cases.
@sandybeveridge5692
11 ай бұрын
@@alicelaybourne1620👍good point
@SneakySteevy
11 ай бұрын
@@alicelaybourne1620 so you are not sorry than
@t.nash8
11 ай бұрын
Pfft. Not all 4 all the time. I apologize quite often when I am not remorseful. Sometimes it’s just polite. Bumped you on the subway? Oops-sorry. Stepped on the cats tail? Oh baby, I’m so sorry. You didn’t do anything wrong I’m sorry I didn’t see you there you poor thing. I’m a terrible cat mama here. Let me give you some treats. Would you like some cat milk today you poor poor thing.
@SneakySteevy
11 ай бұрын
@@t.nash8 what you are describing is not a situation that require an apology per se. Those 4 are required when you have hurt someone that you care about.
@lizblock9593
11 ай бұрын
Spidey, just wanted to say how much I appreciate how you mime the expressions you are talking about. Especially impressive how you can do the expression while continuing the discussion. Good acting skills and good education skills!
@TheBehavioralArts
11 ай бұрын
Ha thanks! It’s a lot like I said about Drew’s life king career as an actress. My entire career has been on stage and tv, I think that contributes to my ability to be expressive with my face 😊
@ThatRedhedd
11 ай бұрын
@@TheBehavioralArtsI think it's likely "nature" rather than "nurture." You're naturally a "people person," and you probably do these things that make you a great communicator naturally.
@Lizzypoohxo
11 ай бұрын
She saying "i cant please everyone all the time so i had to make the best choice for the people who's livelihood depends on me".
@karbear04
11 ай бұрын
lol I went slower on the first set of words on the stroop test because I was second guessing myself wondering why they all matched properly. 😅
@shirminiabarnes6335
11 ай бұрын
Same here 😃
@Ms.Brightside77
11 ай бұрын
Yep me too. I had to think about what he said to do.
@jessicaibarra323
11 ай бұрын
Same I thought I was being tricked somewhere so was 2nd guessing myself lol
@mixedbag3682
11 ай бұрын
Me too. I got way further on the second part 😂
@princesscandlewax5170
11 ай бұрын
She seems authentic to me…her mannerisms have always been unique. I totally see where she’s coming from and I don’t have a problem with this. Thanks.
@superstormday993
11 ай бұрын
It's not an apology. It's a statement of intent.
@crisfield4364
11 ай бұрын
Yes, it seems like her own justification to me.
@ligairi
11 ай бұрын
That’s really well put
@sandybeveridge5692
11 ай бұрын
Good for her!!!!!
@BabsisHere
11 ай бұрын
She has had that mouth thing since she was a little girl. It’s pretty natural for her.
@thomasrios3913
11 ай бұрын
Yep. Like he said, it’s in her baseline.
@rainerblessing923
11 ай бұрын
Drew Barrymore does these videos (from home, without makeup) all the time on instagram. For me this is congruent.
@MJFish
11 ай бұрын
💯 agree!! She’s always been fine with being au naturale!
@YaSminCreaTes
11 ай бұрын
yeppp I have even seen interviews of her without makeup
@thomasrios3913
11 ай бұрын
I think you missed his point. He’s not saying it’s incongruent for her specifically he’s saying it’s incongruent for the public to see a celebrity like that which is why it signals red flags subconsciously. Wether it’s normal for her or not.
@ranaraeuchle6485
11 ай бұрын
I've been a teacher for 22 years, and so much of this video, so much of your analysis, is EXACTLY like my students when they get caught doing something wrong and then (and only then) do they realize what they've done. I find it really interesting how universal so many of these reactions are. Elementary school kids do the exact same things; the lip chewing, getting that glazed look while reflecting about what they've done, the little eyebrow pinches... it's all the same. Very cool.
@lesliekupchanko5001
11 ай бұрын
In the Garden if Eden, Adam didn't take full accountability for his role in eating the apple🍎 God was very disappointed in him. Besides, where was he when he should've been protecting Our Father's property from the snake/evil. Drunk? Sleeping on the job?
@justjosie8963
11 ай бұрын
@@lesliekupchanko5001 lol
@ericaelaine
11 ай бұрын
@@lesliekupchanko5001 Playing with himself instead of taking care of business.
@martharamirezdelacruz5106
11 ай бұрын
@@lesliekupchanko5001 Everything is blamed on Eve like Adam didn't have a brain to think for himself and make his own decisions.
@Body_auty
11 ай бұрын
Reading this was really cool! After having this experience, do you think it’s easier for you to tell which expressions we are born with vs. which are learned?
@EMurph42
11 ай бұрын
I feel bad for her, she’s been in the biz since practically before birth. So considering that, she’s more down to earth then the vast majority in “Hollywood.” I honestly feel that she had the best of intentions. I think she was thinking of the people close to her circle & normalizing life, not the big industry picture. It’s tough
@carolgilmour1165
11 ай бұрын
💯 agree
@thecinn06
11 ай бұрын
Down to earth? Whose. Hers….
@sandybeveridge5692
11 ай бұрын
@@thecinn06no, everyone’s
@ileanahernandez1709
11 ай бұрын
Don't ever cross a picket line,ever!
@sandybeveridge5692
11 ай бұрын
@@ileanahernandez1709 says who?
@its-MK...
11 ай бұрын
This sent me down a ridiculously long click-hole, and I'm now reading medical journals about the neurological differences between men & women. I guess this is what I'm doing today. 😂
@irenefranz4175
11 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@its-MK...
11 ай бұрын
@@irenefranz4175 Update: I guess this is what I'm doing this weekend.
@irenefranz4175
11 ай бұрын
@@its-MK... same here 😂😅
@BethFebbo
11 ай бұрын
When I first heard she decided to move forward, I thought, "The show must go on". She's a professional. She has goals, she's going to keep moving forward. It's business. I see her video as a lot of anxiety being masked. She's not comfortable in this video. As a woman, sometimes we get over explanatory. 🤷🏻♀️
@BethFebbo
11 ай бұрын
@@annemarson4144 it could be the fact I live in a "right to work" state and I'm pretty conditioned to dealing with crap. 😉
@lorib604
11 ай бұрын
Tired of watching celebrities apologize for stuff that is no one else’s concern.
@JohnDoe-bj7fb
11 ай бұрын
Ok. Great video, great comments. Here’s my contribution. If she was sympathetic to the workers who were affected by the strike she had 2 easy solutions as methods. Firstly contribute to the official strike fund, and secondly, set up an independent strike fund for those affected by the strike but unable to access the official strike fund. I am a union rep and was a picket line supervisor in the UK. My union has a strike fund - they all do- which is a pot of money put aside from membership fees that striking workers who are union members apply to and it gives a financial payment so your income is supported. Anyone can make a donation to a strike fund to be dished out as the strike is on and wages are affected. She could have then set up a separate fund for non union workers in her employ who were being affected to access. She would have been viewed pretty positively then! When a strike is on, its so important to show solidarity. It takes enormous effort to ballot, organise, rally and become an activist. And it takes courage. Striking is very exposing. It’s a significant event in her professional world, it is not an event she is distant from. She is an employer and businesswoman. Her show would have recognised the union. Politically, this is extremely serious as a statement and she can’t claim ignorance. Personally, for me watching this and listening to Spidey, I have dismissed it. It’s a very strange response to crossing the picket line deliberately and showing contempt for the striking workers and the unions who work for workers’ rights. Unions are designed to help and support working people, and the reps are all workers who volunteer as committee members for their branch. And, I can assure you, if people are at a point when they vote to strike as their last resort when all other avenues have failed and the talks have collapsed, it is a monumental decision. Then to rally and march and stand together on a line is utterly incredible. It takes enormous courage, solidarity and resolve. The resolve is one aim: to make it better for everyone. My union fought and won better pay and conditions for everyone at my workplace, that included all those who hid, crossed the line and the managers who fought us in the negotiations. Unless you are part of union activism you really have no idea what’s involved.
@yaelisme
11 ай бұрын
I’ve always thought she is one messed up person. Especially when she was on her knees in front of that man, pretending to be a little girl and threw all women under the bus as though we’re all nothing. It was an atrocity.
@jgw5491
11 ай бұрын
? What event was that? I'm not arguing that; I just don't know. Thanks.
@likewhaaaat
11 ай бұрын
@@jgw5491Dylan Mulvaney interview
@Lorian7748GenXr
11 ай бұрын
What man? Tbh, she's never had the chance to be a younger version of herself. Due to choices made for her, she was a 5 year old miniature adult. My intent isn't to attack your comment, moreso the narrative of her taking the easy way out & the rest of the criticism. But do tell, what's this situation you speak of. ☺️
@likewhaaaat
11 ай бұрын
@@Lorian7748GenXr again, they were referring to the Dylan Mulvaney interview.
@Salvger1981
11 ай бұрын
@yaelisme Exactly. That was soooo cringe and disrespectful for us women
@audrey5941
11 ай бұрын
“Hey, Grandma,can I borrow your kitchen? I need to make an apology video.”
@thomasrios3913
11 ай бұрын
Looolllllllllll Im dead
@TrijnieWanders
11 ай бұрын
It's like someone told her to do this, and it didn't feel right to her. That's the vibe I got.
@artifundio1
11 ай бұрын
Lawyers!
@joaquinmisajr.1215
11 ай бұрын
@@artifundio1… until we need one, no?
@ProgressIsTheOnlyEvolution
11 ай бұрын
Yeah that's what I was thinking too.
@artifundio1
11 ай бұрын
@@joaquinmisajr.1215 yes. I needed one, I am paying one. I still don't like them. The coldness, the pocker face, the lack of ownership. I don't take it personal, I understand it's their job. But I don't like what turns people into.
@fgoindarkg
11 ай бұрын
I concur. She looks very uncomfortable, and wants us to know that.
@calexxelac2457
11 ай бұрын
She wasn’t even wrong bringing her show back, of course the people in these strikes turn against their own people and add to the toxicity making them all look bad. Her show doesn’t need writers, so bringing it back with no writers is completely fine. The apology is fake because she knows she shouldn’t have to apologize
@reflectsonlife
11 ай бұрын
Her show had 3 writers on staff (and all 3 were WGA), so the show does indeed employ and "need" writers. I used "had" because those 3 writers handed in their resignations once the wga strike concluded, in protest of Barrymore's actions. That being said, I'm not sure if the wga strike demands had any bearing on the employment conditions for writers in daytime network programming, since as I understand it the strike was mostly about conditions for writers on streaming shows/films. This dichotomy might have been a factor in Barrymore's (temporary) decision to move forward with her show despite her writers striking.
@MultiChrisjb
11 ай бұрын
I recon just let AI do it for a while and then her show will be cancelled.
@calexxelac2457
11 ай бұрын
@@MultiChrisjb she doesn’t need writers at all though, especially AI
@calexxelac2457
11 ай бұрын
@@reflectsonlife it’s just that talk shows don’t really need writers. Yeah they can sometimes be funnier when jokes are written for them, but a talk show where two people are talking to each other, doesn’t need to be scripted. She can continue her show without the writers temporarily. Them resigning is just a butthurt move
@fgoindarkg
11 ай бұрын
Talk shows are all scripted. They pretend they aren't, but they are. Not one subject is discussed that hasn't been agreed to, and all of the talking points, and jokes are planned. Sometimes the host or guest will go off script, and it shows. Usually with an awkward pause, or a quick diversion.
@tashaawesome6297
11 ай бұрын
The exact things you described in Drew is the reason I couldn't get into her talk show. Also, the weird room she filmed in was all I could focus on😂😂😂
@johnwagner5061
11 ай бұрын
Why does she even have to apologize? People gotta work. Stupid a union says you can’t work.
@melindarivera6598
11 ай бұрын
Let me start by saying I do not particularly support Drew for many reasons, so this isn't me defending her necessarily. Just stating my thoughts I guess. I don't understand the backlash. Granted, I also don't fully understand unions nor exactly what is being protested. All I do know is that the reasoning she gave, that there are a lot of other people that are out of work right now because of this strike and they need to work, seems like a very legitimate concern and reason to go back to filming the show. As far as I know, she even cut out some sections of her show that the writers would have been involved in to continue to supporting them and their strike. So like I said at the beginning, I don't understand this backlash. But I usually don't understand the reasoning and opinions of the people on the Internet that are "screaming" the loudest. Even though they are a small minority of the general population, they usually get their way because they are the loudest, like the old saying goes, "The squeeky wheel gets the oil "
@rbr1170
11 ай бұрын
And unfortunately with the great majority of union-related situations like this, the people below who is by all standards "the reason for existence of such organizations/institutions" will suffer more than the people at the front saying everyone should sacrifice and are the ones who can go months to years not working. And by the end of it, those who sacrificed more will get less. Yeah, they will get something (and is why unions are still a thing and deserve some support) but significantly less than the very people who convinced them to sacrifice their daily living.
@mermaiddiyartist8119
11 ай бұрын
The workers on shows don’t make much. I understand her wanting to pay them bc that must be horrible on them. It’s also been rough on writers who don’t make much money. Definitely a hard decision in general
@ligairi
11 ай бұрын
You should read up on the labor movement in the U.S. and you’ll have a better understanding. She’s hanging her own writers and her fellow actors out to dry. She’ll be okay, she’s rich. But the strikes support those at the bottom. Look up actor Alan Ruck (Cameron from Ferris Bueller) talking about this specific strike. He explains it well
@melissasokol3127
11 ай бұрын
If she feels so strongly why not donate 50,000 to her union for hardship cases or help pay rent (a drop in the bucket for her. Or put her clout behind the effort. She sounds lazy, like she hasn’t studied unions. Ugh sad
@whisperedaria
11 ай бұрын
@@annemarson4144No, they won’t. You know why? Because the actors and writers all have the right to look for a new job and decide what they believe is fair compensation. If one person decides they can comfortably live on less, then that’s their right to go ahead and work. If Drew (or any person) weighs the 3 writers’ needs against the others and decides to keep working, then she has the right to do that! She shouldn’t have to APOLOGIZE for trying to do what she believes is right just because some crappy people believe their paycheck is worth 20 others.
@missfletcher24
11 ай бұрын
I am a person who speaks very animatedly and have been accused of being fake. It's fine. I get it. 😂 It makes me a great actress, and story teller!
@savage_optimist
11 ай бұрын
Girl, same 😀
@Misty-hl2qk
11 ай бұрын
I get the saying if looks could kill like when I'm not even in a mad or bad mood. On the other hand if I'm scaring certain people with my looks, I'm okay with that.
@katfromthekong414
11 ай бұрын
I just feel genuinely sorry for her.
@Snakerfriends
11 ай бұрын
For me the smile was not a happy smile but a smile out of just being uncomfortable. So it fades fast because there is no joy attached to it.
@garrettjones6793
11 ай бұрын
What does it say about me that it was significantly easier to do the second list of the stroop test? Trust issues?
@bessinadress
11 ай бұрын
I found that to be the case too!
@aweaver6895
11 ай бұрын
Me too!
@artifundio1
11 ай бұрын
Same..
@mary-janereallynotsarah684
11 ай бұрын
I also expected the words not to match the colors so when i saw they did I was so behind!
@aweaver6895
11 ай бұрын
Maybe it means we over analyze? I like the trust theory, too. I wasn't expecting the first group to be straight forward, either, so I was like, what the hell?
@susanwoodcarver
11 ай бұрын
You’re absolutely right. I had to Google what she was apologizing for. Thanks Spidey.
@latada6018
11 ай бұрын
I’m a huge fan of yours! I had no idea what Drew Barrymore was talking about. I just love and appreciate all your wisdom that you teach here on your channel 🙏🏻… I personally thank you for all you do to help us learn body language. Blessings and Joy 🙏🏻♥️
@Moon_salty
11 ай бұрын
No PR team, but she caught herself saying "we". If it was just her, there would be no, "we" or "us".
@DrugStoreGorgeous
11 ай бұрын
She wasn't saying she was complying with people who disagreed. During this video, she was saying she was still going to do the show even after the initial backlash. She's saying she's going to comply with WGA rules. (She has now decided not to film after the additional backlash after this video, which is probably why it was deleted.) Also, to everyone saying that they are sick of celebrities being forced to make these videos, no one is forcing them (outside of maybe their PR team). The public isn't asking for apologies after their actions/decisions, they are simply expressing their feelings on them. The celebrities are making these videos to save face with that audience and basically beg them not to stop supporting them.
@anastasiasem7557
11 ай бұрын
The era of apologizing...🤦
@thegatesofdawn...1386
11 ай бұрын
Why should she appollogize?
@Kiefsti
11 ай бұрын
The one thing I'm learning, is to trust no-one on either side in Hollyweird.
@MJFish
11 ай бұрын
I agree with the incongruous argument. But, when it comes to Drew Barrymore, she’s often seen in little or no makeup and very casual. So… I’m not sure about that feeling incongruent for her.
@robertmaloney1689
11 ай бұрын
Head shaking side to side is often used to claim that someone is lying. From this video I realized it doesn’t necessarily mean no. It may mean that the person is experiencing negative feelings because they are thinking about an unpleasant experience.
@TheBehavioralArts
11 ай бұрын
100% correct. We talk about this on the channel a lot. So many people think head shaking is instantly deception. It can be so much more. We often shake our head in disbelief too. This can even be a positive thing to suggest “I’ve never experienced anything this great”
@lezbeehonest0294
11 ай бұрын
As a child, I had a mug covered with words written as in the Stroop effect and I loved saying them out loud and how it would trip me up. Thinking back, it's probably why I was so comfortable doing it on your video, and also possibly one of the reasons why I have a bachelor's in cognitive science and am going into a field studying linguistics. I _love_ the way the language centers in the brain operate and trip themselves up.
@kkso3318
11 ай бұрын
My trauma radar is going crazy here. Drew has always had a VERY expressive face. And her expressions don't always match the situation. Here, she is very much reminding me of someone who is trying really hard to blow a whistle but knows that if she blows the whistle, she will experience a backlash so severe that she cannot be direct. Spidey, you kept stating that if she's not going to say what the details are, why make the video... I think there's something going on in the background that she really wants to say but can't. She sounds like someone being controlled by a harsh or dangerous person...
@bcastle2397
11 ай бұрын
Drew's body language is probably more difficult to read. She was an actress right after emerging from the womb. I'm not sure if SHE even knows what is real emotion and what is acting. ...but Spidey--you are the BEST!!!!!
@Nicole_Riviere
11 ай бұрын
This feels so insincere and disloyal. Thank you for analyzing
@JaneSmith007
11 ай бұрын
Cancel culture (the miserable, entitled people) to me is like having a best friend that you have watched time and again go to extreme lengths to tear people down. You love them for the attention and praise they give you, but are afraid of them also because you know, the first mistake you make, you could face their wrath just as others have. Drew tried to get out ahead of this, but as always, it was too late and the people do not forgive so quickly. I honestly believe if she just stayed quiet and continued life as usual, the situation would have faded pretty fast. As mom use to say, "Just ignore them." Does she really owe anyone an apology for wanting to get back to work as soon as possible so that others could also work and pay their bills? No... So looking at this video, I see a woman apologizing the best way she knows how to appease the audience, but in her heart, she is not sorry because she has reasons she just can't blurt out. I am glad she deleted her video... It's like, well if this wasn't good enough for you, then you get nothing!! People need to stop the "stinking thinking" that they owe the entire world, that has nothing to do with the situation, an apology. It's gross.
@sandybeveridge5692
11 ай бұрын
Agree 💯
@courtneyd9438
11 ай бұрын
I would never apologize. People need to stop this madness. Not just with DB but all the social media backlash for any little thing some people don’t agree with.
@reflectsonlife
11 ай бұрын
I agree with your conclusion that she took the lesser of two evils. In terms of formulating the delivery of an apology, I feel that the "statement of intent" portion should be more towards the start of the delivery. The second half can then be the apology portion, or the "people who think what i did was objectively wrong won't change their minds so this isn't for them" portion can go on the 2nd half. Instead, she reversed the order, which only makes her sound like she's being either defensive or manipulative or stalling for time or all 3, and it's certainly confusing for the listener. Actually it would have been better if she had worked with a PR person (or even just a friend who's objectively better at PR than she is) to get this strategy and delivery right.
@andyschool
11 ай бұрын
Love how you pointed out why this video just didn't mesh. Sentence/statement analysis spot on... explains why we can tell she is surely excluding herself from the company/audience she's addressing. Btw, your hair looks great, Spidey. Hope you're happy w it, too.❤
@heatherkerr2147
11 ай бұрын
One thing I noticed was that the expressions she makes that draw us into her romcoms are expressions that make us see her as cute. (Expressions that convey an "aw shucks, little old me" feel.) In the context of an apology, these same expressions feel odd and misplaced. We're not wanting her to be cute here; we're wanting her to feel strongly and sincerely apologetic.
@theresamc4578
11 ай бұрын
Muscle memory of the adorable little girl actress?
@jodrichy
11 ай бұрын
I don't think she thinks she was wrong for doing what she did. I think she was just apologizing for making people upset about it.
@Libby9968
11 ай бұрын
The Stroop test reference was such a great analogy! I see these used in neuropsychological testing in brain injury to assess processing speed and selective attention, and seeing it here to demonstrate our difficulties with incongruity in social situations makes so much sense. That selective attention that makes us think twice when things feel ‘off’ is illustrated beautifully by your choice! The test highlights executive dysfunction which, in brain injury where the prefrontal cortex is compromised - it’s why people with elevated difficulties here struggle with social cues!! Great analysis with a juicy splash of the science I enjoy in your content @spidey, bravo!
@jeffrecrowley
11 ай бұрын
Great comment!
@shadesofgray5476
11 ай бұрын
I'm beginning to think apology videos are a bad idea. Just putting yourself out there to be overanalyzed, rejected again, picked apart. I like Drew Barrymore. She seems very sincere and has a conscience. Everyone makes mistakes and has lapses of judgment. Celebrities are just so much more visible when they screw up.
@mainstreammutant
11 ай бұрын
I got the vibe of "im sorry if the way you took my actions hurt your feelings" she never said "im sorry that i disrespected my unionized workers." "Im sorry that i didnt have workers solidarity" it was "oops im sorry that you were so offended. I didnt think anyone would notice" I just want to add that I really like Drew Barrymore and i dont believe she was intentionally disrespectful of her striking workers but i think that because she is wealthy and has been her whole life, she may not realize the positive impact unions have for laborers. Strikes are supposed to be painful and youre not supposed to break them just because you thought people needed a laugh. Obviously i have no idea if thats how she feels or if thats what caused her actions but just my guess after the actions she took
@jadebel7006
11 ай бұрын
And what about all the camera ppl, sound people, assistants and all the hundreds of ppl working on the show that want to work to feed there kids?
@KarensOpinionsMayDiffer
11 ай бұрын
Totally agree with the first paragraph.
@whisperedaria
11 ай бұрын
Yeah, no. If my “union,” which I joined to protect ME, is striking over something I don’t think is actually an issue, I have the right to think for myself and go ahead and work. If you take that as a sign of disrespect rather than disagreement, that’s on you.
@ladyt4219
3 ай бұрын
I don't take the .2 seconds to like many videos on KZitem. . . I think I've liked every one of your videos I've watched because as a behavioral analyst, you really go in depth and explain and then you always make it clear if it's your unbiased opinion or if it's speculation or whatever it may be. You are very clear and very in depth and every time I just feel like you deserve the like. Thanks for what your doing man. 😊
@ladyt4219
3 ай бұрын
I'm going to add to that, that I learn a lot from you and I often find myself using the things you explain in my daily life and conversations. Even including on myself. For example, Sometimes I catch myself thinking, I did *XYZ* and why did I do that? Am I more nervous in this situation then I'm initially recognizing? Regardless, thank you for your addition to the world. People appreciate you ❤
@nkansahlive
11 ай бұрын
Do the Jada smith interview
@michaeldonovan305
11 ай бұрын
For the Stroop Test, I'm a slow reader so I was faster when I knew I didn't have to read the words and only recognize the colors.
@drdebocherry
Ай бұрын
Everyone has many complex reasons for doing what they do, the point 👉🏿 isn't her excuse for violating her professional organization's picket line, it's her lack of character & honor.
@arosefortes6507
11 ай бұрын
Haven't watched her apologize vid or all of this video yet. But I've noticed as what I believe my understanding that when she talks about something uncomfortable, embarrassing or emotional ... she smiles. Almost like, are they going to believe me? Before she even gets started or disconnected to feeling and words. She's ALWAYS done this. To what degree idk. Also, this is Her show! She's not the camera guy, the light person..... so on. So she understands they're upset and already know crossing a picket line is a problem before she does it, but It's Her show. She's doing what she has to do. And she's sorry everyone is upset but she doesn't have control over how they feel! Since when does anyone have control over how anyone else feels? She's a person first!! She'll have a huge sigh of relief when the strike is over too! Then they can go on to the next thing I guess! Lol. 😂 I'm glad I'm way over here in Nobodyville Indiana!
@madonnasanta6794
11 ай бұрын
Why dont these stars just come out & say 'I am unapologetic. I did what I did. I dont care". Its just easier
@lorendafox2616
11 ай бұрын
Im dyslexic so the test result i was opposite. I was faster one the second one.
@LilyAmongThorns
11 ай бұрын
I don’t believe her apology was aimed at the people she thinks she hurt (faceless, unnamed, and union organization, etc) but was aimed at her fan base which she hopes will side with her, the “little guy” in this situation, against the big groups and union that have self interests that hurt the little guys.
@TrijnieWanders
11 ай бұрын
The video has 2 parts. The first one is not thought out very well. It feels like she felt forced to do this. The smiling is to mask the real emotions. Many of us do this. If I listen to her voice, which has a tremble in it, she is very emotional. Also, take a look at her nostrils. It seems she is trying not to cry. In the break between, she seems to have had a conversation with the "non PR machine" person, whom she is looking at all the time. I feel like part 2 is the explanation of why she wanted to continue with her show and still stands by her decision. We see a more confident Drew. Probably because this is the message she (herself) wanted people to understand. The apologies toward the union and writers guild were genuine, but the apology for the third she decided not to mention, or forgot. When I heard of the strike and that Drew still wanted to continue the show, I thought that she could be more loyal. Hearing her reasoning I gave it some more thought and I get it. The strike went on for months and a lot of people are involved with the show. The decision to keep it going, didn't just involved her.
@GemmiRise
11 ай бұрын
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do an interpretation of EUGENIA COONEY & HER MOM DEB. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE! i believe, as do hundreds of thousand of other ppl, that there is something sinister going on there. A cpl yrs ago she admitted that she had an issue w/ a*orexia, but now claims there's "nothing wrong", she's "fine", etc., and her mother agrees, yet she only weighs (my estimate) 70-80lbs. Eugenia is 29, still lives at home, doesn't drive, only hangs out w/ her mom, doesn't leave her room, and streams nearly every day (for hours at a time!), w/out so much as taking a sip of water. Please! She has 2+ million followers & we wanna know what's really going on! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!
@sandybeveridge5692
11 ай бұрын
If she doesn’t feel she has done something wrong, she shouldn’t be forced into saying sorry. Force me to apologise when I’m not sorry - I won’t mean it, so pointless 🤷♀️We are living in a time where we are not allowed to believe in what we believe in, let’s quit trying to uniform and herd people!!!!!
@thatswhatshesaid14
11 ай бұрын
After watching the Orville episode with the apology tour, that's all I can think about when I watch videos like these. Will she "die" or will she "live"
@JulieWebgirl
11 ай бұрын
The backgrounds of all these "non-PR" actor apologies remind me of the "AI" generated backgrounds of a lot of photo editing software where you can actually tell it what you want. I'm going to tell the one I use I want "actor apology peasant room" and see what happens. As far as behavioral stuff, two things occur to me, now that you've done so many analysis on actor apologies (and really interesting analyses for the record!) It seems to me that there needs to be more studies done STRICTLY on actors because they have such a different baseline when they are speaking to a group, that needs to be taken into account and it would be helpful to have specific data on them. Secondly, (and Spidey I think you might do consulting with actors for roles?) actors could really improve their craft if they studied behavioral science. In fact, I'd love to know who has and if they've won more awards for their roles. Anyway, I have a really hard time seeing Drew as anything other than the result of being a child actor in Hollywood. She's how old now? And she is surprised that she got flack for deciding to go against a strike. Sorry but your red-eyed crying face and shack background aren't enough for your actions here. *shrug*
@tonybriarstone2285
11 ай бұрын
Personally, I don’t think Drew Barrymore was wrong. If those who support the writers strike are mad, too bad. She is not required to join them or even support them. That is a personal decision for each person to make. If you don’t like her decision, then that is your problem, not hers. No one is required to agree with or go along with anyone else. We should support everyone’s freedom to choose for themselves what to support and what not to support. We are not robots. We all have the right to make our own decisions, even if others do not agree with them.
@savage_optimist
11 ай бұрын
I just adore Drew Barrymore as an actress. I grew up feeling like her genuinely sweet, often awkward, undeniable intelligence reflected what's inside me too. To be fair, I have no idea who she is off camera but I hope she had good intentions for crossing the picket line. Shouldn't have happened, regardless
@bionda470
11 ай бұрын
Maybe the shrug when she says i want everyone to know my intentions could be "i have nothing to hide"?
@kimjackson1052
11 ай бұрын
There's a study I read a couple years ago, that may actually be part of the Stroops test, that in the first part had the participants read the colors like you did, Spidey, then they take a step back & repeat the test & the step back literally "rewires" the brain to respond quicker & more accurately. I don't remember the percentages, but it was a marked improvement. Anytime I'm struggling, or I see someone else struggling I do this or suggest this & the clarity that comes is very calming (at least to me bc I feel more positive & capable moving forward). It's impressed people as well bc they found it "so awesome", etc. & helpful. On a funny note, in the movie "Fever Pitch" with Drew & Jimmy Fallon, & Jimmy's character points out (as something he likes about her) how Drew's mouth is 'crooked' sometimes when she talks. Drew is only about 4mos older than me & I've noticed that crooked smile my whole life. It's an endearing Drew quality 😁 Ironically, my husband does the same thing & it's soo cute (even sexy🤭)! Thanks for another great video Spidey! Have an amazing day!
@Mchelle021
11 ай бұрын
I wonder if she is "acting" throughout or if we are seeing more of her personality, which is more of her throughline as an actress. I'm not sure that she is always a great actress in some roles versus a legacy actress who takes roles that fit her personality and desire to bring pleasure to people. Pleasing people, making them feel happier, seems to be a high value to her (from interviews I've seen, her show occasionally, she is super effusive and focuses on bonding with everyone). She says she weighed her decision out, choosing to please the largest audience and take care of her own, so to speak; it is her higher value. I had no idea what this was video was about but when she started out discounting the purpose, I thought it was going to be a fail because it was almost a psychological set up that she communicated. Initially, she may be also telling herself, processing for herself, that she isn't going to be able to please some people. Given her position, I think she does internally stand by her decision, she didn't need to make the video. It isn't valuable to people and especially to the larger audience who are so keen to discern authenticity. It might have been helpful for her to talk through this decision more with people who know her well or perhaps she just needed to have this experience and grow from it regardless. I suspect she will. She did say she has gone through tough times, she knows how to survive and learn from the struggles she has created for herself. It is helpful to have knowledge of this woman's history to understand her personality and choices. Younger folks might contextualize her differently than older ones, or those who've chosen to follow her, who have seen her grow up on screen. I really appreciate Spidey as a teacher. Just excellent and so balanced and he never offers absolutes, but gives reasoned opinions.Thank you, Spidey, for your videos!!
@yogidemis8513
11 ай бұрын
Her contract allowed her to be put back on air then she had the right too. Getting sick of people trying to control what they want other's to do and then force them to apologize for keeping her employees paid with a job just because other writers didn't like the deal they were getting and got greedy, want more which will end up screwing everyone over. This force apology and cancel culture needs to stop.
11 ай бұрын
I like her. I strongly believe she is a good person.
@ThatRedhedd
11 ай бұрын
100% agree! She's genuine and a truly sweet person!
@kathleen7849
11 ай бұрын
I've been thinking there is something going on with Drew for a while. There is a sadness or a fakeness showing through. When she was videoed dancing in the rain and laughing, I didn't see someone happy, to me it looked forced and sad. When she does that thing where she gets on the floor on her knees in front of someone to show how connected she is to me, that looks overdone and her schtick. Then she was interviewing Biden and I thought, why would the President want Drew Barrymore to interview her? I wonder if she is 'free'.
@cristinamesae.1250
11 ай бұрын
It’s so rare to see her in a controversy! Great video Spidey! Love the game but didn’t do very well on the second slide 😂 Have a lovely day/night/afternoon everyone!
@TheBehavioralArts
11 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it 🤗
@TheShink
11 ай бұрын
Incongruous... Dude , Hollywood is built upon the suspension of disbelief
@laurahompus
11 ай бұрын
I have no idea what the situation is about , but this is what I'm getting from it all. She did something that upset other people. She feels bad that other people got hurt by what she did. She wants to "accept responsibility", recognize the fact that people were hurt,. She wants to make clear that this is not what she intended. She did not do what she did to hurt people, but just to go on with her life. She isn't sorry for letting her show go on, when others felt like she shouldn't. That is not what she's apologizing for, and I give her major kudos for not letting herself made to feel bad about choosing to do what she did. She didn't expect that choice to get that much effect, and she feels bad that people are offended or hurt by her decision. I find it strong and convincing. Peopl WANT hurt to feel sorry for letting her show go on. People WANT her to say it was bad, and that she SHOULD feel solidarity or whatever. People WANT her to live by their standards, and she isn't giving them that in this video. That's not disingenuous, it's just people being disappointed that they are hearing what they wnat to hear. Drew feels bad for people feeling hurt, she didn't expect that, and THAT is what she takes responsibility for, wants to make it right, wants people to feel better. But she can't please every snowflake and that's okay.
@whisperedaria
11 ай бұрын
I was a member of the teacher’s union for years, because they claimed to be protecting my interests. Know how many times they actually went on strike for something that improved my life or that I believed would improve the lives of my fellow teachers? 0. ZERO. Know how many times they actually protected my interests beyond a paltry, “If you get sued we might protect you if we agree with everything you’ve done over the years” or “here, have a 1% raise when the district will give you that much for seniority?” NONE. I would gladly cross ANY picket line of theirs. People should not have to bow down to the union if their conscience or common sense tells them it’s the wrong thing to do.
@kananiwolf256
11 ай бұрын
Question: Drew Barrymore’s facial features are quite asymmetrical compared to most people. I noticed her body is at an angle to the camera. Does this factor into her ability to communicate? I would love the community to hear your thoughts. BTW, I enjoyed your video. Especially the way you engaged the audience with the color/word mind twist. I had fun! Thank you again for a thoughtful presentation!❤
@vickiwood9192
11 ай бұрын
Drew inherited the asymmetrical lines around her mouth from her great-aunt Ethel Barrymore. Ms. Ethel Barrymore's mouth lifted more on one side as well.
@thesholovepodcast
11 ай бұрын
She’s a Pisces ♓️ we’re very emotional lol I subconsciously giggle when I’m not wanting to be seen as a threat.
@judemorales4U
11 ай бұрын
I don't know... She sounds and makes facial gestures like I do when I make an emotional video. I might be the only one but I believe she is trying to make an apology. I am also judging her words and how she delivers them with real time thought. It's a sensitive act. I buy in.❤
@gfitfitnessstudio
11 ай бұрын
I want to know who she’s talking to…she’s not looking at the camera.
@Rhanyra
11 ай бұрын
I have borderline personality and it just doesn’t click with me. To you, showing multiple emotions is a sign of deception. To me it’s just a Tuesday. My moods change in an instant.
@NoxCattus
11 ай бұрын
I get lowkey triggered when a person (normally my partner, tbe) says "nothing I say will make it okay" cause it feels like I have been pre-judged to be closed minded. My kneejerk reaction is if you truly believe that then why bother even apologizing.... Going back to video now 😅
@sozayas
11 ай бұрын
I agree with you in the interpretation of the first sentence. For me this is or not the way to start and apology.
@ThatRedhedd
11 ай бұрын
It literally means, "I acknowledge that what I DID was not okay. Nothing I say will make WHAT I DID okay. What I did was wrong. ....also, I am sorry for what I did."
@mikgandii3897
11 ай бұрын
I did the color test and the second one I could say colors faster than in the first one. In the first one I was trying to check if the word is the same as color. In the second one I stopped reading the words, by focusing on just a part of one letter in each word.
@Kknightstar
11 ай бұрын
I believe she doesn’t want to hurt people but she doesn’t quite get that she has a platform and what she does matters in this nutty world.
@tkjohnson6599
11 ай бұрын
To me, Drew has always come off as having some nerve issues on one side of her face. One side doesn't move as much as the other does.
@amyschmelzer6445
11 ай бұрын
I agree. I think her face has become more lopsided as she has gotten older too. She and I are roughly the same age so I have been watching her movies since I was little. I don’t remember noticing it as much when she was in her 20s as now in her 40s.
@quiltybee
11 ай бұрын
If I pause and didnt finish the first one-does that mean I have trust issues!😂😂
@echosketching7895
11 ай бұрын
Spidey… Where does that ladder lead? I spotted it and now it’s the only thing I can think about.
@mommyhatesguns
11 ай бұрын
Spot-on, as usual Spidey. From the video it does seem like Barrymore is certainly distressed at people’s reactions - but it seems like she either doesn’t truly understand why what she did was wrong, or she just doesn’t want to admit it. Though the aim of the video seems to be her taking responsibility for her actions, she doesn’t.
@shellbell1974
11 ай бұрын
Always love your videos…I get so much out of them! Thank you for the time you take and the details you explain to educate us on your craft!!!xoxoxo
@Sadie-Rochelle
11 ай бұрын
Spidey : read aloud the color only , not the word. Me : **removes contact lenses** 😂
@TheBehavioralArts
11 ай бұрын
Haha that’s the secret to the strip test. Blur your vision and just name the colors you see. Well done
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