Being alone feels great, feeling alone is the worst.
@sahilrana4014
3 ай бұрын
Great!
@heyitsmebil7068
3 ай бұрын
Real
@Ropemaxxerr
3 ай бұрын
The worst thing is when you invoulantarily isolated and you have all the freetime in the world but dont know how to use all this time that you have
@AshleighWheatley
3 ай бұрын
Yeah I hate feeling alone like no one understands you 😔😔 😔😔😔😔 my mother and my dad split up when I was a little baby 😢😢😢😢
@jarrettthe20-yearrecoverin35
3 ай бұрын
That is an ABSOLUTE FACT!!! 👀
@Jeremus717
3 ай бұрын
Solitude enriches us, loneliness diminishes us.
@antidepressant11
3 ай бұрын
Maybe but loneliness can increase our empathy for others' loneliness.
@yungmentalproblems
2 ай бұрын
@@antidepressant11or decrease. Some people think their pain is unique
@antidepressant11
2 ай бұрын
@John-PaulHunt-pv6ol your post conveys a dread of loneliness. To me anyway. Loneliness is inevitable sooner or later. Whatever we do don't become lonely? I think we need to learn from it when it occurs in life.
@TheDifferenced
2 ай бұрын
@@yungmentalproblems good thing you mentioned "some" or else I will disagree with you. You do not know what's like unless you've experienced it yourself since day 1 (literally DAY 1)
@Chill_Mode_JD
3 ай бұрын
“I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone” -Robin Williams
@jakesmith-bs4jd
3 ай бұрын
I’ve seen this quote a trillion times
@surfrescue3232
3 ай бұрын
And it’s not robin willliams’ quote .
@Chill_Mode_JD
3 ай бұрын
@@surfrescue3232 To the best of my knowledge it was a line from one of his movies
@Chill_Mode_JD
3 ай бұрын
@@jakesmith-bs4jd hope your day gets better
@jakesmith-bs4jd
3 ай бұрын
@@Chill_Mode_JD thanks you too
@Anthony-dj4nd
3 ай бұрын
There's a difference between being alone and feeling lonely
@genxtechguy
3 ай бұрын
I’m selectively introverted. Most of the time I am very comfortable being alone, but I have moments where I want to get out and be around others for a period of time … and then back to solitude to recover. It’s difficult to make longterm / close friends with this cycle. Most people need constant human contact, I don’t do well with that.
@Private36997
3 ай бұрын
Same…
@UnforgivenIV
3 ай бұрын
This is definitely relatable!
@aminisak9553
3 ай бұрын
Bro I’m exactly the same… my friends get it by now that I’ll just go ghost for awhile and then reappear when a feel like a need some social interactions… but my past girlfriends on the other hand could not deal with that type of cycle they always thought I was up to some suspicious activity.. and I kinda understand them.. it gets tricky sometimes.. still tryna figure out the right balance
@DanishFaultFinder1
3 ай бұрын
@@aminisak9553Girls needs their daily attention....So they can go get that elsewhere...I'm done and free....No longing for what used to be the opposite sex no more...Last encounter in 2018...Never again waisting my time on that/them...
@trialanderrorbym.f
2 ай бұрын
@@aminisak9553I'm sure u will find someone who understands u,just be upfront with them.
@jonpark5203
3 ай бұрын
I will take solitude(any-day of the week) as opposed to being around fake friends !!!
@FORTEtheSECOND
3 ай бұрын
This is an actual saying in Spanish: " Mejor solo que mal acompañado. "
@FORTEtheSECOND
3 ай бұрын
(apologies, I forgot to translate) _" Better alone than in bad company. "_
@gracesanity6314
3 ай бұрын
Embracing solitude saved me. I was so depressed and traumatized...l had to isolate. Healing began.
@WilcoxNotreallythere
2 ай бұрын
It really became therapeutic for me because I did nothing but try to better myself. While that was hard to see at the time blinded by suttle rage.
@farmersmith7057
2 ай бұрын
Me too.
@farmersmith7057
Ай бұрын
@@ChristineFisher123 same, but it’s always people who want an unequal relationship with me. I’m passive and open. That can work for like minded people, but other people really test boundaries on me over and over. I had some quite…narcissistic neighbors see me as a soundboard of sorts. It’s annoying. I value peace and quiet. I’d get my doorbell ringing at any hour (two separate, retired neighbors). One ended up spreading a rumor about me just because I wouldn’t be at his beck and call. Some people are just so restless. Solitude is my friend.
@godot9223
3 ай бұрын
"Being disgusted with humanity and distancing yourself because of that" hits really hard at home. I've never been happier ever since I made the decision to distance myself.
@patriciavandevelde5469
3 ай бұрын
My ex husband stole a lot of money lawyers took me for the ride of .y life etc..etc.. o more me and my 🐕 dog
@Herpetile
3 ай бұрын
@@patriciavandevelde5469bummer - sorry that happened
@Wuwei72-o5n
3 ай бұрын
You are part of that humanity 🙄. Don't let it become chronic, you may become disgusted with yourself.
@FredMaverik
3 ай бұрын
@@patriciavandevelde5469 ok?
@polythewicked
3 ай бұрын
I’m not sure I’m happier overall, but I am day to day because there’s no drama and backstabbing. I don’t go far out of my way for people only to find myself being used. But there are times I sure feel lonely overall.
@ENIGMAXII2112
3 ай бұрын
The older I grow, the more experience I get.. The more I avoid people. Just do not have the tolerance any more to deal with people. Solitude is a good thing that feeds ones soul well..
@mackbolan5126
3 ай бұрын
Yes. Avoid those who need to be 'dealt' with and surrounded yourself with quality people who have your back.
@trialanderrorbym.f
2 ай бұрын
@@mackbolan5126there's not a lot of them,that's the problem.
@rchaelk2319
2 ай бұрын
@@trialanderrorbym.fthe thing I observed was: you find eachother eventually. But you don't go looking. You simply experience life while working on yourself
@Hartley_Hare
Ай бұрын
That's becoming my experience, too. I find being around people is increasingly becoming a burden.
@eddohan
3 ай бұрын
"I dont hate or dislike them, I just feel better when there not around" 😁 Charles Bukowski
@longwings2228
2 ай бұрын
Beautiful quote
@dani9196
2 ай бұрын
They're
@rishabhgautam2723
2 ай бұрын
True
@Leopar525
2 ай бұрын
They’re
@joannaedwards6325
Ай бұрын
One of my favorite quotes from one of my favorite poets.
@MsGechi77
3 ай бұрын
People talk too much. They tell too many stories to get attention. They drain my energy.
@aezzil3536
2 ай бұрын
Exact opposite for me. I have to try and start and carry conversations. Regardless of ending the convo in open-ended questions, it gets draining after you realize that people don't want to talk to you in the first place.
@aloksrivastava7938
2 ай бұрын
Stories are not a problem for me. Meaningless lying and pointless competitiveness are the real turn-off for me.
@zenosgrasshopper
2 ай бұрын
Some people blather on and on, which is annoying on its own, but when someone talks AT me rather than to me, that's the worst. I would like someone to talk _with._
@andrewe7379
2 ай бұрын
Same here
@Als749
Ай бұрын
❤
@seal_l_l
3 ай бұрын
I never feel alone when I'm with myself. I feel alone only around other people.
@Anita-rq9ev
3 ай бұрын
I feel the same
@FORTEtheSECOND
3 ай бұрын
I am creatively driven so there's a universe that unlocks only when given a chance to acknowledge what comes from within yourself.
@kerrysloan5842
2 ай бұрын
Same here
@ngocthamhuynh9966
2 ай бұрын
Chúc mừng bạn đạt được trạng thái không bao giờ cảm thấy cô đơn khi ở bên chính mình!
@seal_l_l
2 ай бұрын
@@MikeNolanMate I'm not a bro
@anitaheart
3 ай бұрын
I’m a loner and I love it. I actually thank God for it, it’s brought me huge spiritual growth and a totally new way of experiencing reality. It helped me realize that my purpose in life is actually NOT having a purpose: just being and allowing everything to be as it is, in total appreciation.
@mauricioramirez9744
3 ай бұрын
One of the best comments I've ever read.
@TheThora17
3 ай бұрын
I like that: the purpose of your life is to not have a purpose…
@MisterGames
2 ай бұрын
Ive been saying for years that we have only two purposes. One is to breed. The other purpose is to do whatever it is you are currently doing no matter how bland you or others think it is.
@trialanderrorbym.f
2 ай бұрын
@@MisterGamesamen to that
@notthatvashti8127
2 ай бұрын
I absolutely could not have said this better! Thank you!
@rahulradhakrishnan5591
2 ай бұрын
The more I try to socialize and talk to people, the more I realize how different I am from people around me. I can never find common ground. It's like I just don't fit in at all.
@SideB1984
3 ай бұрын
Embracing my autistic self at 40. 🙂 I've always loved being alone with my pets in nature. I never wanted to work, have kids, be married. I'm not here for all that. I tried, I got the degrees and worked in big tech, ran the triathlons and got the medals, married and divorced. I won a couple of discrimination cases and became a bit of a whistleblower, experienced all types of familial and institutional betrayal, religious trauma, medical trauma, hence the need for solitude. The weight of mischaracterizations has become too much to join in anymore. I try not to perceive myself through anyone else's limited reality. More time for art, being, preparing healthy foods, helping my body, reading and growing.
@rogerm3708
3 ай бұрын
No matter how much you succeed in being yourself, others are always trying to shape you to be, who they want you to be. I maintain just enough interaction to be practiced in it, to blend in with society. For me, socializing is an exercise for my mind, nothing more
@SideB1984
3 ай бұрын
@@rogerm3708 I like that. An exercise for your mind. 😊 Thanks for sharing.
@chrismay2298
3 ай бұрын
@@rogerm3708 Well said. Social experiments are good learning opportunities. They aren't allowed to occupy much space or priority though.
@Rose_Ou
3 ай бұрын
Same here. At 49 I'm done, I can't function among people anymore. So much trauma, so much shallowness, egotism and betrayal. I'm not interested in anything superficial, can't stand it. Nature and animals don't put on masks; most people are hopelessly predictable, traumatized and project their own insecurities on others and that includes therapists.
@jesusbaetana8993
2 ай бұрын
That's amazing, well done. Can I ask how you support yourself nowadays?
@kenamaro
3 ай бұрын
I find it more fulfilling and peaceful to observe people, rather than engaging with them…..I’ve eliminated toxic people from my life…. I stand stoic, and alone….
@trialanderrorbym.f
2 ай бұрын
Me too
@skeptickhan4239
3 ай бұрын
"Hell is other people" - Jean-Paul Sartre
@Und34d_R
Ай бұрын
When the common culture of the world is narcissism, ignorance, and greed, being isolated demonstrates values.
@Wuwei72-o5n
3 ай бұрын
No matter how much you give and sacrifice, everyone leaves eventually. You better get used to solitude, it is our true essence but you need hobbies like running, reading, gardening, etc., and don't just serve yourself, learn to serve your community, any gesture, no matter how small, whether it be planting a tree or cleaning a beach, can be anything really causes a positive impact, serve for the greater good, this gives meaning to your life and humility.
@shawnbottom4769
2 ай бұрын
Well said!
@pythonxz
3 ай бұрын
I grew up with family that judged me for everything I did. They told me that I would end up just like my mother, broke and uneducated. I was also told by teachers in school that I would never amount to anything because they thought I wasn't applying myself. It took everything I had to get through school, since I'm not that smart. That experience left me traumatized, on top of getting Lyme Disease, then cancer. My family (other than my mother) didn't care about any of that, and told me to man up. All they say is the usual nonsense about "pulling yourself up by your bootstraps". All of them are well off and always have been. They never lived paycheck to paycheck. When most of my own family has basically been spitting on me for my whole life, it's no wonder I don't trust people.
@ngocthamhuynh9966
2 ай бұрын
Khi bạn còn là một đứa bé thì trước hoàn cảnh hầu hết người trong gia đình đều phỉ báng bạn thì bạn bị ảnh hưởng sâu sắc bởi nó thì có thể chấp nhận. Nhưng khi bạn đã lớn, đã trưởng thành mà còn để cho tâm trí của mình vẫn y nguyên phản ứng trước các lời phỉ báng của người thân thì đó chính là lỗi của bạn. Bạn đã là người lớn thì tại sao bạn không chính là một người lớn trong gia đình không nói lời phỉ báng bạn. Tại sao bạn không phải là người nói sự thật cho bạn nghe.
@DanHammonds
2 ай бұрын
This video really resonates with me. I've become something of a recluse the past couple of years, simply because I don't relate to modern culture and society. I'm searching for likeminded communities and people I can share deep and mind-expanding conversations with (such as this), but most people perceive me as too heavy and a drag or treat me like the town drunk. I'm not feeling sorry for myself. I'm just struggling to find people I can relate to right now and not really sure where to find them.
@longwings2228
2 ай бұрын
Same here 100!!! I feel you man!
@Solitaryism101
2 ай бұрын
You don't need people. You don't need to find happiness outside yourself.
@marrlena947
3 ай бұрын
I'm alone most of the time. I find purposeful interactions fulfill my social needs best. Hiking in groups, classes, gardening with my neighbors, etc are fulfilling. I avoid loud music festivals, bars, coffee chats in groups of several people, noisy restaurants. I always feel lousy after these 'social' events and learned to say 'no'.
@rainmanjr2007
3 ай бұрын
Healthiest comment I've yet read.
@pythonxz
3 ай бұрын
I need to find opportunities to do the same. The only thing people want to invite me out to are bars and restaurants.
@showmeyourboobies
2 ай бұрын
People are strange
@His_Name_Was_King
3 ай бұрын
Deal with people very very lightly. Skillfull solitude is awesome with balance.
@SIERRATREES
2 ай бұрын
I love this.
@OllieSmiless
3 ай бұрын
Disappointment with human species hits home and hard.
@cgyh68748
3 ай бұрын
People are selfish in general, then bad people just do their thing until they think they will be catched
@nvmffs
Ай бұрын
@@cgyh68748 Even out of selfishness people should be helping each other out but they still don't . This isn't just selfishness. This is utter stupidity.
@Srvsnthkmr
3 ай бұрын
It's been 2 months since I stopped using social media. No one noticed my absence for the first week and after that two of my friends called and asked me about it, now I just send and receive Morning text from that two person and twice in a week we have little conversation which is meaningful. Now I feel good knowing that there's people who really cares about me and no matter what happens they'll stay with me. Most importantly now I'm not distracted by social media, I still use youtube but I only open the app when I get notifications from subscribed channels.
@surfside75
3 ай бұрын
Nice! We all should follow ❤
@Anson120
3 ай бұрын
These videos are a great self esteem boost for me. I have severe mental illness and many mental health conditions (neuro divergent). Never had a social life ever. No dating ever too. I actually believe society is learning, adapting, and evolving to be more introvertive and Asocial. It is happening very slowly. I see it everyday because I am the same way. I know what it looks like. It is just all a symptom of the real slowly worsening dystopia we live in. I would say buckle up my homies.
@cbrashsorensen
3 ай бұрын
Perhaps you are missing the point here? The problem just MIGHT BE that our society itself has devolved into a landscape of gossip, judgment, virtue signaling and all under the thumb of a growing Oligarchy. Being ALONE does not mean loneliness--except as an idea and concept perpetuated by society and perhaps KZitem videos that tell us there is something wrong with the person who actually "sees" and "understands" that society is a sick and growing sicker place? I mean....the problem is not ALWAYS the individual.
@flooferwoofenschnizz3858
3 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯Truer words have never been spoken!!! That’s where I’m at. I’m content with my kids and away from the ugliness that society has become. It’s really sad.
@MaxCadyS
3 ай бұрын
Ironically he paints the truth in a coat of irony in this very video
@chaddelong998
3 ай бұрын
@@MaxCadyS exactly. his brush with reality and pointed events and then dismissal of its grave influence is misguided. this is the problem with society, it wants to ignore reality, so it embraces the "everything is fine" house on fire. what disturbs me the most is people actually resent the truth, and openly chase comfort in the masses of ignorance. this is the letdown. this is why people disconnect. we have been programmed to accept "the downfall", so the downfall is protected.
@rainmanjr2007
3 ай бұрын
As a Taoist I think the individual is creating their specific Universe, or illusion, as a quantum particle (electron) immersed in it. That means that I've had to wade through the weeds of my ego, which determines how my society acts, and still do. As I become less sick, and more mindful, maybe society gets better but I most certainly find peace. I am no longer here for others and Tao doesn't hold an opinion about them. All life is of no greater importance than supposed death. Even if the illusion actually goes on, without us, its problem is overpopulation so death (at any age and for any reason) works out. Don't sweat it.
@StrategyCats
3 ай бұрын
The world seems like on verge of total doom if societies dont come up with UBI and medical solutions to deterioration of health caused by toxicity in the environment
@sleepyz2z2
3 ай бұрын
The desire to be like everyone else and fit in someday is what drives most of the painful side of solitude.
@joannaedwards6325
Ай бұрын
Saw this great bumper sticker..... SUCCESS IS HAVING YOUR OWN APPROVAL
@shanee4191
3 ай бұрын
Though it was crafted to cure loneliness the deadly Social media is making it worse... Thank God, I'm away from it.
@aquariusthompson8212
3 ай бұрын
How are u away from social media but commenting on a social entertainment platform?
@shanee4191
3 ай бұрын
@@aquariusthompson8212 KZitem is a platform where creators share knowledge and art through videos, emphasizing content consumption. Unlike Facebook and Twitter, which prioritize real-time personal interactions, KZitem stands out as a content-driven platform rather than a traditional social network. However as I see it Everyone has their own perspective. So for me watching some informational videos or news isn't social media, where people strive to be like someone and live a made up life, that's what I meant.
@joel_kcah
3 ай бұрын
@@aquariusthompson8212youtube isn’t necessarily a form of social media
@LEOAUNIT33N
3 ай бұрын
@@aquariusthompson8212owned
@ENIGMAXII2112
3 ай бұрын
@@shanee4191 Very well put...
@bigdave6390
3 ай бұрын
Same thing day after day. Year after year. Decade after decade. I've been outcast, pariahed, and anathemaed. (If those are even words.) They don't even know me. They don't even try to get to know me. Just contempt and exclusion. This is my path since childhood. Brought on by years of every abuse you can name since I was born. I really like your channel. It's about the only one I can relate to. Seclusion has been the best thing for me. I am very spiritual. EVERYTHING you mention, I go through. I'm old and there weren't things like this when I grew up. It was all confusion and stress. Thank you for sharing your insights. They help save lives.
@showmeyourboobies
2 ай бұрын
You dont know me but i just wanted to say you are special and may god bless you with the love you deserve
@SIERRATREES
2 ай бұрын
Spirituality is a wonderful thing and a source of strength.
@SuperDavensuziyoutub
3 ай бұрын
I have outgrown the "need" and certainly the want to be around people. It's not them, it's me and anything but a dark reason. I decided I had had enough of the mind games, bad behaviours and disrespectful behaviours of just too many others. Sadly, often from family. I can choose friends, and good friends are better than disrespectful "family".
@normanosborn1277
3 ай бұрын
Then, it's them, not you. Stop giving them a pass.
@SuperDavensuziyoutub
2 ай бұрын
@@normanosborn1277 I have never given them a pass. But I continued trying with others, until they too took took the piss. So I have now decided to be ultra selective.👍
@BestOffer-ii9ny
3 ай бұрын
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
@user-nh5ze8hq5e
3 ай бұрын
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
@user-nh5ze8hq5e
3 ай бұрын
Is he on instagram?
@MohamedZaitoun-mh9ht
3 ай бұрын
Microdosing helped me get out of the pit of my worst depressive episode, a three year long episode, enough to start working on my mental health.
@Somusicais
3 ай бұрын
Can dr.porassss send to me in UK?
@DanHammonds
2 ай бұрын
For some people. I had some good experiences, but also some bad ones that left me feeling much worse. And one experience that triggered a period of dissociative disorder and months of panic attacks where I thought I'd literally broken my mind beyond repair. Tread carefully with psychedelics and anything that presents itself as a quick fix or magic pill, especially if you're in a fragile state of mind.
@TheBonsaiGarden
3 ай бұрын
I found that after the social distancing of the Covid pandemic, and not having to be around people I neither like or respect, my tolerance to them is far less than before. In general, other people are idiots. As George Carlin said, think about how stupid the average person is, and realise half are more stupid than that…
@FORTEtheSECOND
3 ай бұрын
I agree wholeheartedly. Silence is truly bliss when compared to the 24/7 inane noise of a "social circle" .
@DanishFaultFinder1
3 ай бұрын
Yes GC allso opened my eyes....God bless him...He died back in 2008...Amen
@mauricioramirez9744
3 ай бұрын
Obviously you are not any of those people.
@1greenMitsi
3 ай бұрын
@@mauricioramirez9744 are you low key calling him an idi ot?
@Michael0663-qo4wx
2 ай бұрын
Being intelligent and educated is very isolating. Most people will seem very dull and predictable.
@Ajaylomash
3 ай бұрын
Alone is what I have, Alone protects me.
@TwoDudesPhilosophy
2 ай бұрын
There's a difference between being alone and feeling lonely, and that difference is very crucial.
@andrewe7379
2 ай бұрын
I inevitably became tired of people
@sebastianosuch273
2 ай бұрын
I used to think I love being alone. You're never truly alone if you spend your time all day in front of your phone or computer. When I tried to stay away from the internet, I learned it's certainly beneficial, but not easy. Facing emotions that I normally didnt notice. Some of us think we are lone wolves, while in fact we escape reality, and even ourselves - diving deep into youtube, reddit and other distractors. It's a low quality life.
@kittuojha
2 ай бұрын
I do the same but I don't think it's a low quality life. I think I'm more of an observer than an engager. I still have two good friends to talk to sometimes. I also think that it's more to do with the bend of mind you have or some mental issue/illness because by default we're primed to integrate in society right from childhood. e.g Buddha became a loner, left his kingdom and roamed around alone for 6 long years, because of his detached mind. In mental health issues case what you say becomes true. KZitem, reddit, video games etc become a distraction away from the mental pain which may result into a low quality life depending on the level of pain.
@rabronin
3 ай бұрын
You're right, solitude shouldn't be a means of becoming a worse person.
@skeptickhan4239
3 ай бұрын
“To live alone one must be either a wild beast or a god.” - Aristotle.
@ngocthamhuynh9966
2 ай бұрын
Vậy thì theo bạn thì người viết nội dung cho kênh này là dã thú hay là thần thánh? Đối với tôi thì nhìn đúng như thật người viết nội dung cho kênh này là con người như bao nhiêu con người khác nhưng có ý thích, ý thức muốn ở một mình.
@tayebahmed7726
2 ай бұрын
No. Not alone but feeling solitude, I think the best opsion.
@imulippo5245
3 ай бұрын
I was around friends at the day when i turned 21 at late 90's and i felt alone as human can ever feel because i was lost in myself. I didn't knew back then that being alone is what forces you to think by principle, not by popularity. When your mind flies, your body will follow.
@prabhjotsingh426
3 ай бұрын
Your philosophies are influencing my life strangely immensely.
@Desperate4Freedom.
3 ай бұрын
I am alone and love it 😀 ❤️. City's and people are too difficult to cope with. Being alone makes me happy, free, energies
@williamramos3350
2 ай бұрын
My reasoning for isolation and disconnection from society is being overloaded with ignorance and toxic people. Their bs as a whole. Being constantly treated like I have no worth. I am truly over it all. This is not going to change a damn thing around me. But at least I can exist on my own terms.
@Solitaryism101
2 ай бұрын
Right on!
@JasonBrown-zp8tx
3 ай бұрын
I agree with you if the society is healthy. If a man wakes up in a place with really low divorce rates, lots of happy children running around, happy women who love family. In that case, yes, he's his own problem. Maybe he should do some therapy, go to the gym, be social? But, if he lives in a place where his chances of getting a date are maybe 1 in 5,000 on dating sites, talking with women is probably legally dangerous, everybody gets divorced, women don't have children, and women never settle down with just one man. In that case, no, society is broken. Nobody can fault a man who won't play a game when he can't even get a small win. Nobody should ever put up with that kind of misery. it's just the way America is right now. Yes, there's other countries to visit. So, there's no excuse sitting around and waiting. Things aren't getting better, they're getting worse. It's basically one of Dante's circles of he11
@blacksootohmy
2 ай бұрын
People are two faced. And it's personally difficult for me to find genuine people. So I've been happy to leave people at arms length. I've gotten my peace back and I don't have to invite anyone in my life. So I really can't complain
@StrawIsEpic
3 ай бұрын
My biggest issue with much of the world is how a majority of what there is on social media and the news are complainers and people in an endless rat race while making it sound like you're a loser if you don't burn yourself out gaining things to impress other people
@stephoso
3 ай бұрын
No, they want you to participate in the mass psychosis so that they can continue the charade. Anyone who steps out of line is labeled unfavorably.
@Stoitism
2 ай бұрын
A thing about doing deep inner work and moving towards genuine authenticity is that you begin to see how those around you are living inauthentically. And it becomes increasingly difficult to be around those people no matter how much you love them. You feel like you're interacting with shadows moreso than real people. I don't blame people for living that way as they don't know any better in the same way I didn't know any better when I was that way. Facing the deep and hidden parts of yourself to wrestle them into the light is difficult and it can be a harrowing thing to undertake. So I understand why people avoid doing so. To my mind, a particular kind of existential solitude is part of the journey towards authenticity. It is unavoidable.
@lundsweden
2 ай бұрын
I got sick of the pretense that is present in a lot of relationships, how people are usually impressed by superficial stuff, it just gets too much. Who wants to participate in this farce?!
@gracesanity6314
3 ай бұрын
The older l get l find long conversations draining.
@longwings2228
2 ай бұрын
Me too
@thatotheruniverse
3 ай бұрын
After the pandemic and all the manipulation and deceit from society and the spinelessness from the huge majority, its a true gift and pleasure to live in solitude. Drift as far away as possible from the toxicity... and thats not only those safe and effective snake oils.
@garyhynes
3 ай бұрын
Yes and Einzelganger travelled after everything settled down and said the world wasn't as bad as he thought. But a society that can be turned off at any moment is a toxic one, and those of us who didn't get to spend the whole thing alone on a mountain have a more direct experience of how nasty and unreliable people are.
@Wuwei72-o5n
3 ай бұрын
1000% agree. I think that was the worst thing about the plandemic, you can expect those types of acts from the criminals who govern us but the majority of the people behaved like real cowards.
@thatotheruniverse
3 ай бұрын
@@Wuwei72-o5n And still head stuck in the sand like an ostrich... 4 years down the line and too scared to ace the fact they were bamboozled to a point where even Lucifer feels jealous...
@normanosborn1277
3 ай бұрын
@@Wuwei72-o5n Most people are sheep.
@simpelminimalistischleven
3 ай бұрын
It definitely crushed my last bit of faith in humanity. How could they be so blind... I now live on the edge of a tiny village, where the phone signal is weak. I try my best to be kind to most but there it ends. Very happy to live in solitude 🤍
@majicogarcia8417
2 ай бұрын
There's nothing more annoying than somebody asking " how are you?😀" While casually passing them in the hallway. As if they actually care. It's as if you are being forced to respond with " i am doing good, How about you?"
@ghostcircuitry
3 ай бұрын
Cvd was a wake up call. I always leaned towards being a loner but after seeing how the majority of people handled the situation, turning into rabid zealots of the government and pharmaceutical companies I said enough. I refused the injection and in the process lost my job, got absolutely demonized and outcasted by “friends”, family and co-workers. The things they said and the way I was treated for having a different point of view..these people are not the same species as me. I’m not saying one is better than the other but we are so fundamentally different that changes had to be made. I now see most people as animals. They have their own instinctual behavior, they can be nice or not so nice to interact with but we will never be the same and never be able to interact on any level than surface level. I went through a brief grieving period when I realized this. I’ve since healed and have gained a whole new clearer perspective of the world around me. I’m just passing through, everything around me is colorful static. I’ve been liberated. Once your eyes are open , there’s just no way to unsee it.
@Ojasglow
3 ай бұрын
💯♥️🙌
@ronaldmcdonald9322
3 ай бұрын
Good for you not taking the jab, most people are an NPC.
@Sara-lt9tl
3 ай бұрын
I am sorry that you faced so much hostility for simply having an opinion. While I did get the vaccine, I am critical of hostile individuals who labelled anti-vaxers with negative terms. The interesting thing is both sides saw each other as hostile and a threat (physical or ideological) and i think both sides lacked a bit of logic and a lot of empathy for the other side. I guess what I am trying to say is, fear of the unknown can drive people out of their element and I choose to believe that hostility was a product of uncertainty. Under normal conditions, people seem to be more reasonable with their ideologies. While fear controlled both sides, I don't think losing respect for the other side was justified. I hope that your experience doesn't continue to make you feel a certain type of way about people. I hope you form meaningful connections with someone. The one thing I admire about some people is their courage in forming connections with the complete awareness that these individuals might fail or disappoint them, they make that leap of faith. I am convinced there are people worth taking the risk for. I wish you all that is good.
@mauricioramirez9744
3 ай бұрын
I have a family to support so I got vaccinated to keep my job. I do often wonder if that was the right choice and what implications to my lifespan it may have made. I sometimes do feel like a coward for having complied. But despite everything I put my trust in God and in Christ Jesus, no matter what happens, it's going to be ok.
@FlamboyantArt
2 ай бұрын
In my 42 years of life and after divorce (15 yera4s of marriage), i learned one most important thing. People are full of shit and waste of time and energy. I rather be alone then waste my peace for someone who dont even appreciate me. 💯
@patinsley
2 ай бұрын
Better being alone, than wishing your were alone.
@rolandberger7493
3 ай бұрын
If I wanted to know what normies think I would watch the news. No need to socialize with them.
@realdoomsdaybeast
Ай бұрын
I've gotten so use to being alone, that being around people is unbearable.
@Solitaryism101
2 ай бұрын
I'm American, so my comments are from the perspective of being here (in California). First, we don't have a "society" that I am drifting away from. America is not a society by definition, it is a random collection of strangers. Second, the "downsides" you mention about "drifting away from people" only exist when people refuse to put in the work and they fall for the whole notion that "you need people." The beauty of living in the 21st Century is that you DON'T need people. You don't need friends or neighbors for anything because everything is now transactional. Your survival is not dependent on being in a group. The media is behind a lot of the negative stereotypes of loners because the true loner who has done the work is a VERY powerful person. The mantra of "man is a social animal" is pounded into our heads along with the negative stereotypes for a reason: to get us to want to be a part of a group because groups are easier to manage. How do you manage "loners" who exhibit high degrees of individuality? You can't. To take a phrase from a cheesy bumper sticker, "it's like herding cats." Being miserable alone is NOT the default and one can live a fulfilled life without having any human contact. I've been doing that for 8 years here in a major US city. I have accomplished more in those 8 years than I could have ever dreamed of, and have had a thoroughly enriched life as a result of embracing solitude. Like I say at the end of my videos, "Be happy alone."
@joannaedwards6325
Ай бұрын
Lots of pretty good writing here in this comment section. I enjoyed reading yours. I suspect many so called "loners" are creative writers & poets. I know I am.
@she_wizzdom4410
12 күн бұрын
Hello, I truly admire people who are able to embrace solitude and grow in it. Is there a particular perspective/philosophy that helps you enjoy your solitude? I have tried and tried to accept being alone but I always end up feeling empty and depressed which is also why I become overtly dependent on people and also have abandonment issues. I truly wish to embrace solitude because there is no peace without it.
@joannaedwards6325
11 күн бұрын
@@she_wizzdom4410 Here in KZitem you will find answers to your questions about how to enjoy solitude. Any Stoic Philosophy Michael Mirdad Talks Any Wayne Dyer teachings Any other Spiritual teachers who teach you how to LOVE and FORGIVE YOURSELF...... Once you awaken to THE TRUTH of who you are you can really ENJOY YOUR OWN COMPANY. You (just as you are right now) are a truly loveable, holy, powerful Spiritual Being....part of God... an integral part of the Universe....SO.... knowing how wonderful you are you will be able to not worry about being alone. Other people's opinions of you won't matter. You will then use your new found freedom in using your solitude to work on your personal and Spiritual growth. It's a truly wonderful adventure to NOT NEED OTHER PEOPLE constantly around just to feel comfortable. ❤ ✌ 😄 🙏 🕊
@ponyboygarfunkel1675
3 ай бұрын
I am an old loner. I often wonder, have I separated from the herd by choice, or has the herd culled me from the group? C'est la vie.
@chrismay2298
3 ай бұрын
As someone who's had the same thoughts often, I've come to the conclusion that it's both and mutually beneficial.
@8__vv__8
3 ай бұрын
You weren’t born separated from the herd. Society is a game, little bit like chess. You can start playing again at any time, but be prepared to lose most of your encounters in the beginning. If you don’t enjoy playing for its own sake, you probably won’t get good at playing society.
@ponyboygarfunkel1675
3 ай бұрын
@@8__vv__8 >"ou weren’t born separated from the herd."< I have not suggested that. >"Society is a game,"< Perhaps it can be viewed as such, but my aim is consistency in thought and deed, for my own selfish sake.
@ngocthamhuynh9966
2 ай бұрын
Không ai tách ai hết bạn à. Thật tiếc khi bạn vẫn còn trong trạng thái tư tưởng cho rằng ở một mình là cô đơn. Cho dù có ai tách ai thì cũng không hề quan trọng. Ở một mình mà còn cảm thấy cô đơn, vậy thì khi đối mặt với cái chết khi bệnh chắc bạn còn đau khổ lớn. Tôi mong ước cho bạn tư tưởng được biến chuyển qua trạng thái tuyệt vời như trong video diễn đạt cảm giác tự do tự tại khi ở một mình.
@stayhungry1503
Ай бұрын
its fine bro just dont come crying later and expect anyone to care about you. you made your bed, now sleep in it, alone, forever.
@stephoso
3 ай бұрын
Upon traversing the winding paths of existence, one inevitably encounters the stark truth that allegiance rests solely within oneself. Humanity's essence is cloaked in self-interest, veiled even in those adept at its concealment. To deny this intrinsic selfishness is futile, forever striving to transcend the bounds of our mortal nature. Instead of swimming against the relentless current of a river, it is wiser to embrace the inherent currents of our being, shedding the facade before it morphs into our demise. I penned this in my journal after my existentialist awakening.
@1greenMitsi
3 ай бұрын
the self interest part is spot on
@ChristinaMaynard-ij6ld
2 ай бұрын
There is a small yearning sometimes for company, but when it arrives then the flight response kicks in shortly after the interactions take place. Then the reminder of the comfort in solitude sets in.
@jasminvomwalde7497
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for being a voice of reason and discernment 👍🏾
@fugazishoegazey648
3 ай бұрын
It sounds like the potential dangers highlighted are not with solitide but with joining certain online and irl subcultures. Finding our people as philosophical types is just a bit more difficult.
@_vofy
3 ай бұрын
I see other people regularly but my insides seem to only grow darker.
@panzer7948
3 ай бұрын
I'm like this after my mother died I became even more distant from people, due to bad experiences, falsehood, betrayal and the like, I know it hurts me but I can't connect with other people anymore I tried every way but I feel too tired, no I hope to have a partner but many of the people I liked have already died and that is very sad because I didn't ask for any of this and I didn't want to stay like this
@jacobsmith1105
3 ай бұрын
Im sorry sir may your mother forever Rest In Peace may you find peace.
@dorksplorer
3 ай бұрын
I pray you find kind, loving people to connect with. May you find your peace. 🕊️
@panzer7948
3 ай бұрын
thank you for your kindness
@panzer7948
3 ай бұрын
thanks
@FORTEtheSECOND
3 ай бұрын
I am just a stranger but if I lost someone as important I would be in a rather similar place. Not sure if this helps, gentleman, but music can make for great company. I spend a ton of time alone (working) and its company has hardly ever failed me.
@drew-shourd
2 ай бұрын
Great video Lone Wolf, we are blessed. I am 58 and since I was a kid, I have had the ability to connect with many groups of people, but, at home, I would get in trouble on purpose, so I would be sent to my room to get away from my toxic family members. I now still have the ability to connect with multiple groups of people, and still VERY much enjoy being alone, which is why I live alone, with my cat. Yet, I am turning into a racist, which race am I seeking solace from?...the human race.
@deadandburied7626
2 ай бұрын
Nothing puts you off people, more than people.
@joannaedwards6325
Ай бұрын
The more I know of people the more I love my cat.
@benniehehe
2 ай бұрын
I dont like to use the word alone ; I prefer by myself ❤
@kastenolsen9577
3 ай бұрын
I find the bulk of society is not worth knowing. A handful of true friends who will not judge but accept who you are is worth more than all the gold in the world. THANKS to the few friends I do have, less than a handful.
@L6FT
2 ай бұрын
Beautiful nuanced narrative. I get pretty discouraged with people and their egoic behaviours. It's not that I prefer solitude, more that I prefer good company. I use my solitude and grief to research how to come to terms with my inner hurts/traumas. I think about what behaviours I wish others to display and thereby develop my principles to live by, and test them when interacting in the world. I do my best to treat others the way I want to be treated, and extend that to myself, not letting my own boundaries be crossed, calling people out when they speak or behave degrading, letting them know that I'm not doing the same to them, and the situation would get highly uncomfortable if I adopted the same behaviour. This has worked so far. Principles I've realised to live by are Virtue, which is ultimately striving to be Truthful and Compassionate. We are all damaged, we all have inner children/ egos knowing this and being more Curious strengthens Patience and Grace.
@joannaedwards6325
Ай бұрын
Enjoyed reading your well worded short essay. Thanks
@josephang9927
2 ай бұрын
I just remind myself that I never really had a chance. People don't like me so much and I don't feel like going out as much just to feel rejected again and again.
@wayne2104
2 ай бұрын
Wow, this is a meaty serving of critical thought on the individualistic society in the age of social media. I'll need to rewatch this one several times and digest over the coming days. Thanks for producing such thought prokoving material.
@WES__LEY
2 ай бұрын
People are so hypocritical and 2 faced it’s better to be alone .
@kuso_oni
3 ай бұрын
Yay, I needed something to watch.
@MJA5
3 ай бұрын
I live alone and I prefer it.
@danthemansmail
3 ай бұрын
I consider myself as a sane man in an insane society. Isolation is imposed on me because I cannot even begin to relate to anyone I know. It's like being in the Matrix. I didn't choose this life, it seems to have chosen me. We all have our cross to bear and this one is mine.
@adnanferdousleo9528
2 ай бұрын
Same thing has happened to me recently. I don't want to be around or deal with people anymore
@elizabethk3238
2 ай бұрын
Love, love, love my own company.
@stefant5958
2 ай бұрын
Solitude to me is recharging my battery because I let people arround me drain it, but don't know what to do with it. My interrest are so different from the people arround me. Frankly, I really like to socialize with people, but not if it is about gossip, hate or things that don't go the 'right' way. Not that I don't want to talk about it, but nowadays these are the only subjects people around me are still talking about. Talking about the things that are 'wrong/right' with their lives. I'am a highly empatic soul, that absorbs emoitions far more quickly and unconsciously, maybe that is why I avoid people. I rather talk about hobbies, music, sports, nature, traveling. Things that bring me joy. Let us share more things that we enjoy! It will make our days so much brighter! I guess people get we get stuck in solitude for a reason, that we need to learn someting from it. We cannot bypass it with our minds, we have to 'live' and experience' it. To learn beign authentic.
@merlinsteele6840
2 ай бұрын
Thanks, I need to consider this more, as being alone may be comforting, but not as fun as it used to be.
@leannekerber3045
3 ай бұрын
I can completely resonate with most of your video. As my spiritual journey brings me deeper and deeper into myself I feel less connected to the world around me including the people in it.
@azzedinebou
2 ай бұрын
I spent a lot of time alone , had no social media . It can be good . But it really does have a dark side . People romanticize solitude .
@stayhungry1503
Ай бұрын
I just wish people could be consistent about it. But most arent. Sooner or later they come crying about how lonely they are, or that they need help, when theyve put in absolutely zero effort to form any meaningful connections with anyone else for decades. They want the cake and eat it too.
@SideB1984
Ай бұрын
@@stayhungry1503 miserable soul!
@yungg5703
Ай бұрын
Being alone feels great. I never felt lonely but simply peaceful.
@Dianoskilicious
2 ай бұрын
My favorite youtube channel, thank you for your work!
@kmlgraph
2 ай бұрын
Beware of confirmation bias. Seeking out information that confirms our existing biases rather than seeking out all sides of an argument, topic, or problem.
@Unknown-bq8tv
2 ай бұрын
Your voice is calming i can hear you talking for hours
@gabrieljordan8015
2 ай бұрын
Finally had a day off work. I decided to work on my social anxiety. I went to my nephews soccer game and then took him McDonalds afterwards. It was a good start to learning to socialize again.
@Contribute_TakeCare_Learn_Play
2 ай бұрын
I hadn't been so isolated. I'd now probably value a car, going on trips and whatever else people on Facebook post. Now however I'm studying philosophy, based on a bachelor on top of work on my own. A life's purpose. If studying and learning. Thanks to turning of regular tv and letting isolation and KZitem lead me to a fulfilling life. (Lucky me that I have enough self aware and insight to not go along with dark ideologies and maintain balance)
@willusmaximus6985
3 ай бұрын
When you're alone, you're all one. Love your videos, man. Keep doing what you're doing. From a fellow part German loner.
@pedroparamo7351
2 ай бұрын
"People are people" (Depeche Mode)
@Infinite_Speck_Of_Dust
3 ай бұрын
The solitude that Schopenhauer and sartre talked about, being your true self, i really believe that. Some of us - most of us - live lives defined by others. That was always extremely unfulfilling for me. I enjoy interacting with other humans in small doses. But yes, we take on other people's...souls, mannerism, energy, or whatever. Solitude purifies that.
@NimrodtheWHM
3 ай бұрын
I've struggled with this for a while. I know I just don't mesh with the larger culture but it's not fun to realize you just don't fit in. The echo chambers I deal with in groups are horrifying at times, but I am constantly aware that if I'm only ever conversing with myself in my head I'm not much different from them. It's a fine line between healthy and unhealthy, especially when your reasons for pulling away are largely estrangement to the culture you live around.
@themplanetz
3 ай бұрын
Not fitting for me is where all the fun is at.
@pebblepicassos
3 ай бұрын
This is a VERY niche perspective. Perhaps the video underestimates the critical faculties of many people who choose to be alone. The reason we choose to be alone is of course the vital element which could have been explored further. I am an artist and most happy when quietly acquainted with our creator. Too many social interactions are exhausting for introverts.
@Luckystoic
3 ай бұрын
If you’re reading this comment, it’s too late, you’ve already been immensely blessed with an abundance of love, wealth, luck, health, joy, and whatever else your heart desires!! I’m so proud of you for surviving everything you’ve been through. This is your sign to go after what your heart most desires for the highest good, it’s your time....
@h3kam
3 ай бұрын
I live alone in solitude most of the time but when I'm with my friends they are the more radical ones.....
@Sara-lt9tl
3 ай бұрын
I think self-isolation and socialization can cause someone to be radical but in just different ways. In self-isolation, there is no other reference point or viewpoint but yours and in socialization, people who go radical tend to associate with people who share similar beliefs. Non-radicalists tend to understand the need for diversity of thought and naturally attract different viewpoints or might I say "accept the need for different viewpoints".
@Vapourwear
3 ай бұрын
I tell people I’m a “radical Centrist.”
@macmarles3243
2 ай бұрын
Lucky you have friends. Some of us aren't and will never be that lucky.
@stevenc6705
3 ай бұрын
Don’t let being alone mostly turn into a big pity party. That’s very corroding to the human condition. Spend time outside of yourself. Help others who need help. Seek giving of oneself away until you don’t exist anymore.
@vivvy_0
2 ай бұрын
become a doormat
@GreenGrass-xq6xy
2 ай бұрын
Relax, you are on the right track ... Keep moving
@heatherrogers548
2 ай бұрын
Thanks! I just wrote my manifesto but it didn’t send! Haha. Seriously, I appreciate your words more than you know. Thank you for sharing your insights and for introducing me years ago to Schopenhauer.
@TheDoomer666
2 ай бұрын
I never thought I'd appear in an Einzelganger video (or a reddit post of mine), yet here we are lol
@joannaedwards6325
Ай бұрын
Those were YOUR shelves of stocked up tuna cans??
@Bathing.in.Emptiness
3 ай бұрын
There is a big difference between aloneness and loneliness. Loneliness is a horrible feeling. Aloneness by choice is absolute bliss! I'm retired with no family, and divorced after being married for 32 years. I've eliminated 100% of my social media, other than KZitem. I can go three weeks without speaking to anyone, other than the cashier at the grocery store... by choice! 🙏🏼😌✨ 🚫 people 🚫 drama 🚫 bullshit
@stevenc6705
3 ай бұрын
Ah humanity, best consumed in very small doses and keep at arms length. Always wear personal protective gear, don’t feed nor put fingers near mouths.
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