"1. Be a challenge, make him earn it every step of the way. 2. have a lot of self-respect. Always be your self-respecting, challenge-representing self all the time, no exceptions".
@Lili-vn5cq
5 жыл бұрын
Brian teaches women things that every mother should have taught her daughter from a young age.
@cynthiayakushev3482
5 жыл бұрын
Can't teach what you don't know. Momma suffered too because grandma got married at 14 and didn't learn either. Fortunately, she didn't marry again after widowhood. Oh, but my mother married 5 times, last guy, she married twice. I learned from them. A smart woman learns from other women's mistakes.
@chrissymataira
5 жыл бұрын
exactly !!!!
@Lili-vn5cq
5 жыл бұрын
@@rv1377 I learned one thing that brought a lot of success in my life is to be in love with myself. I do recommend you try that
@cynthiayakushev3482
5 жыл бұрын
@@rv1377 You might try a higher manifestation of abundance and love. Let your mind imagine it, let your heart feel everything you imagine. Talk to yourself the whole list of how it will feel. then go into public and watch what your energy automatically does for you. Feel your happiness of love inside, and your energy will exude it all around you. Don't ask anything from them, just feel their conversation and move on, go experience as many conversations as you can with others. Don't look for love, exude it and love will come to you.
@maribellasocrie
5 жыл бұрын
I’m agree with Lili; that worked for me. But was really difficult to love my self with truth.simetimes we are think, yes, I love my self, I’m a very nice person but we are just waiting something else. When I found myself and when sincerely starts to think in what I want (for real) not the average things, then, this guy came to.
@rebeccawilliams3671
5 жыл бұрын
“Don't let anyone treat you like free salsa. You are guac, baby girl. Guac.”
@gracechan3039
4 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Williams i love this. I also love guac
@ItsAsparageese
4 жыл бұрын
@@margaritam.9118 Guac is green honey
@Rancid-Jane
4 жыл бұрын
Ha, I despise both salsa and guacamole !
@starchildgoddess_3335
4 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Williams Lol!!
@tinasilvas2912
4 жыл бұрын
LMAO, that's a good one!
@amyjacquelineg.9541
5 жыл бұрын
Having good boundaries and self-respect are so important for a healthy relationship.
@Drayton627
4 жыл бұрын
Sad something so fundamental has to be taught to adults nowadays.
@Temanvideos
5 жыл бұрын
his voice just so calming
@HeiseiNiin
5 жыл бұрын
Honestly I listen to this channel for ASMR
@stephanieganowski
5 жыл бұрын
it really is haha
@tabatatee
4 жыл бұрын
Whisper to me dzaddzy😂😋
@vrobinson5100
3 жыл бұрын
My mother taught me well while I was a young woman. She told me this and more. She noticed that men were looking at me when I was too young to date, so she schooled me about men early on! RESPECT yourself! You make the choice of how it goes. You are the treasure! Thanks for sharing. My friends and I have a saying...You may be alone while waiting on the right one but, you are not lonely or desperate! Love yourself and the rest will fall in place! 😊❤️
@user-dp5qi8cz1n
4 жыл бұрын
Our emotions completely blinds us from thinking wisely .
@Freespiritedqueen
3 жыл бұрын
As an empath, why have them at all?🙄 They don't help put food on the table or pay bills, wtf?! I have come to understand what you said and had been rejected for the first time by a younger guy I fell in love with as a middle aged woman then realized he was trash. You can't turn it off once it is activated😔.
@kuluuthappa
3 жыл бұрын
@@Freespiritedqueen hhhh-hhh
@nickyclauchar1112
4 жыл бұрын
Men are so complicated all this makes me so exhausted.
@dsmusicbird
4 жыл бұрын
Seriously!
@Mistysfedora
4 жыл бұрын
👍
@nupurnpr1
4 жыл бұрын
Right?! And men cry that women are complicated ughh.
@denisewatford7072
4 жыл бұрын
@@astridkate5328 .
@moongoddess9313
4 жыл бұрын
He is just telling you to have some standards...its an important principle in life in general.
@draganafitness9824
4 жыл бұрын
Don't ask from a man to say that he loves you, let him show you .
@audi516
4 жыл бұрын
If he ask for time ...give him a watch!!! 😂😂😂😂😂⭐❤
@faraheluasghiri5738
4 жыл бұрын
Be sure it is a Rolex :p
@marylandwilliams7661
4 жыл бұрын
I was going to say Fossil.
@Freespiritedqueen
3 жыл бұрын
@@faraheluasghiri5738 nah sis...a mickey mouse one. Don't go buying or giving them expensive ones, we keep that kind the Rolexes!😁
@Rancid-Jane
4 жыл бұрын
Great points. If girls had strong support, growing up, they would become women who were strong like those you mentioned. Sadly, too many don't and arrive in adulthood; bitter, confused and weak.
@Freespiritedqueen
3 жыл бұрын
💯TRUTH
@karenwalkersginglass
3 жыл бұрын
My mother taught me that a woman is worthless without a man. Thanks, mom.
@Rancid-Jane
3 жыл бұрын
@@karenwalkersginglass Yikes!
@Freespiritedqueen
3 жыл бұрын
@@karenwalkersginglass so did mine...she said I NEEDED one🤣!
@Freespiritedqueen
3 жыл бұрын
@@karenwalkersginglass OH...you are most definitely NOT worthless😎!
@tayyibahyussoff5514
4 жыл бұрын
"When a woman is a challenge has a lot of self respect and very direct about her boundaries", the second he said that I couldn't help but smile i swear he was describing me... It felt so good to be appreciated for having those qualities instead of been constantly told that you think too much of yourself or you obnoxious etc . Thank You Brian
@Amysbiblereads
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you, following you I left my narcissist boyfriend and I have a date on Sunday with someone new! Thank you 💖💖💕
@espo1848
5 жыл бұрын
my daughter in law was narcissist marry for 4 months that is the end of his marriage.
@Amysbiblereads
5 жыл бұрын
@@espo1848 I hope you son finds the freedom he deserves 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
@MrsAngelLover
5 жыл бұрын
I once dated a narc too, leaving was the best thing ever. I am so happy for you and hope everything goes well with the new man.
@Amysbiblereads
5 жыл бұрын
Woohoo thank you xxx
@muffinsgow7229
5 жыл бұрын
How did your date go hun 💕💕
@adaariina7175
4 жыл бұрын
Let him invest on you ( Value ). Self love , self respect ( integrity ).
@amyb7823
5 жыл бұрын
I really wish I had seen this video in my younger years.(I’m not that old, 32.) I spent a lot of my 20s giving myself away to men very quickly, but it wasn’t because I was a “whore.” It was because I wanted them to like me. This video explains why every time I did that with a man, a relationship never flourished. I hope a lot of women see this video because women should know that they are valuable and worthy and shouldn’t give themselves away to just any man, especially if the only reason is because you want them to like you. Don’t do that. Love and respect yourself like this video says. Don’t give yourself away to anyone who doesn’t deserve you.
@posterb3962
4 жыл бұрын
your right,dear!
@Marychange
4 жыл бұрын
I ditto this, Amy. I didn't do "young" very well. It took a long time to learn. These videos by Brian are really putting things in perspective.
@toriyt2714
4 жыл бұрын
That should be added to the questions to ask yourself, am I doing this to get something or in other words make him like me. If you ask yourself that throughout it will help you keep the balance and healthy standards.
@vitalygolubchik1535
4 жыл бұрын
Haha, sure ,sure .
@veronicaalmeda8014
4 жыл бұрын
Honestly I think it depends a lot in the man. If a man hasn't had that many experiences at all, let's say less than three, and he likes you, he won't care if you give in the first week. But men who have been with plenty and you give it to him in that same week, they will treat you like every other woman before even if he likes you. It's weird. But it's the truth
@CourtneyIsGoblin
5 жыл бұрын
Wait, wait... HE WASN'T INVITING ME OVER TO PLAY MONOPOLY?!!!
@djw3707
5 жыл бұрын
I love this!
@azraelmariani1110
5 жыл бұрын
Courtney Shatley 😂😂😂😂😂
@stephenridley1153
5 жыл бұрын
But he IS going to teach me how to play backgammon!
@TheFactsofLife237
5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@bleumoccasin316
4 жыл бұрын
Laughing
@LuckyBambi777
3 жыл бұрын
It's sad that my parents keep telling me that I should obey and do whatever they want me to do. They always tell me that how bad I am and always see the good things in others, the result is I have low self esteem. Even though I'm good looking and have many boys chase me, I don't know how to value and love myself. I tend to sell my self short because in the bottom of my heart I don't believe I deserve better. I ended up being with people who didn't love and respect me, it's just the reflection of how I feel about myself. I've learned it the hard way. P/s: Dear me, I'm sorry that it took so long but baby I love you, you deserve the best and never let anyone make you think differently.
@azizahkastari299
4 жыл бұрын
Stay classy and never accept mediocre behaviour from men. Self-respect makes no room for bs
@Freespiritedqueen
3 жыл бұрын
👍🏽💯💯👏🏽
@jenniferjuneau7329
4 жыл бұрын
"He thinks getting her companionship requires a thumb and writing one simple sentence". Wow. Just, wow.
@kritikajeffrine5274
5 жыл бұрын
I got my husband tht way and must say it worked. I just let my self run on my own rules, definitely not rude but the self respect worked for me. It really works no matter how u look no matter how beautiful or not so beautiful u r but darling ur self respect definitely works.
@screenwritingbeast
4 жыл бұрын
kritika jeffrine
@Sue6420
3 жыл бұрын
How do you run on your own rules without appearing rude?
@adrianavilchez2706
2 жыл бұрын
@@Sue6420 good question. I would like to know too …. Cuz then you would come across as a bitch no?
@smarts1212
2 жыл бұрын
@@Sue6420 by being assertive instead of negative and aggressive.
@smarts1212
2 жыл бұрын
@@adrianavilchez2706 by being assertive instead of negative and aggressive.
@Bakerygo
5 жыл бұрын
Women don't believe me when I tell them that men like challenges. I hope they will believe this video. Everything said in this video is true and I've seen it happening!
@adrianavilchez2706
2 жыл бұрын
Can you give examples of these challenges??
@eliseenglish5315
4 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh! Everything I’ve heard since discovering you on KZitem, (and buying all your Audible books, so far), is already making massive changes inside of me. Not being taught to value and respect myself growing up, (in fact quite the opposite!), I never knew how to do that. I tried and tried to, but I couldn’t do it. I didn’t know how. I just felt like I was as worthless as a piece of garbage. What you are saying seems to be like the mirroring that a healthy father would do to his daughter to teach her to love herself and to truly believe, deep in the core of her being, that she is beautiful and a deeply valuable human being, who can believe that no matter what anyone else says. Wow. My insides just resonate so deeply and feel so nurtured by hearing this stuff. It’s like an old, hard, dried out sponge having water just poured out all over it, saturating it with nurturing life. Like a dead flower coming back to life and blooming. Thank you!
@Fiiii4567
3 жыл бұрын
@ Elise English such a valid and beautiful comment.. I hear you completely 🤩😍
@jodij9257
5 жыл бұрын
Never respond to low invest
@santiagoscho5693
3 жыл бұрын
In short, if he is doing level 1, don't give him level 10! 1 deserves 1
@Freespiritedqueen
3 жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽made that mistake, never again!
@KiahLopez
4 жыл бұрын
Brian you're honestly so admirable. It's crazy how I sometimes sit back and already know everything you're explaining in these videos but still hearing it from another person is so powerful. When I watch your videos you really make me so confident in my choices. It's hard to explain and put into words. Sometimes in a hard positions you know your standards but I guess at times you can question them and watching your videos always remind me how important it is to never doubt your intuition.
@AmandaStefanin
5 жыл бұрын
I love this! Thank you for the reminder to not fall into the needy trap. I started doing everything with my guy as I started falling for him and he started pushing me away. I saw your videos and reversed it, and let’s just say we are very happy now!!
@bluaurora8635
Жыл бұрын
Are you guys still happy? I have been a little needy, and trying to impress him kinda by cooking for him, giving him massages, etc., but I’m trying to pull back and wait for him to give instead of trying to please him. Hoping I can switch this.
@graceannneri6216
5 жыл бұрын
Now I know why my bf chose me over prettier women out there. I remember he said that I am respectable and I respect him. :) Thank you Brian for this video. Your tips are all true when it comes to relationship. Of all love and relationship coach I have watch online, you are the most straightforward and realistic one. :) continue to inspire women all over the world. ♥
@user-ww6pj4vk6p
5 жыл бұрын
I don't usually leave comments on youtube but I just had to. Thank you so much for doing what you do. You have such a wise and beautiful insights regarding humans' minds and behaviours. Your words always speak so much truth and wisdom. Your voice is always calming and reassuring. You have no idea how powerful your words are, they make us so much stronger and wiser mentally, emotionally. They strengthen our faith in Ourselves again. I'm sure you have changed so many lifes for the better. Thank you very much for Empowering us all women. I truly appreciate all your effort and everything that you do.
@Marychange
4 жыл бұрын
I ditto this to Brian. I couldn't have said it better.
@annefelice4791
4 жыл бұрын
Well said. Thank you.
@PatriciaJKamel
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being such a great influence .
@PositiveMommaLife
4 жыл бұрын
I love this message. All of this is so important. I have friends do the opposite of this and are miserable and depressed. Keep the self respect high ladies because we have to live with ourselves and self love is so necessary.
@kathy-leew3989
4 жыл бұрын
Amen on the standards! My date and I are currently a bit very busy and we don't communicate as much because of our schedule (I am in class when he is free and he is working when I am free, it's a bit hard) Yesterday after 4 days of no calling, just a bit of texting, he asked if we can talk on the phone. I was busy trying to catch my train and I was not about to wait 1 hour for my next one so I told him "I am running to my train, catch you later". He said "see you later". When I got in my train I asked how long he would be awake in case we could talk but he said "I don't know". Obviously I was a bit displeased and just responded with "let me know as soon as you know". He immediately responded with "tomorrow, before noon?" And I responded with a simple "we will see". He called me today and we had a normal conversation, no passive aggressiveness, no shade, nothing. Just two people talking about their days, some plans for the future and how we missed eachother (and he initiated the "I miss you")
@wshelby83
2 жыл бұрын
I hope everything worked out between you two
@giseleasseo9829
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Brian, always very helpful! Stay blessed!
@pnkcloud
4 жыл бұрын
Geez, I am going to watch this a couple dozen times to thoroughly wash my brain..it so needs this rearrangement. I was imagining myself as the goddess you were describing and it definitely feels attainable even amidst the pangs of doubt. I have been her before, with this one guy I reeally liked. For about 2 weeks I was all sass, from that clear place of knowing-not trying for his sake, or at least I thought. And then, I reverted back out of some desire to "seize the moment" (fear of abandonment) because he was so strongly coming towards me. I fell for the bedazzlement. Oh brain 🤔😂
@1LaOriental
5 жыл бұрын
YES! So true Brian. Women have more power than they think over men. I LOVE this. ♥️♥️♥️
@mistynight123
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for these brilliant videos.
@barbilove1698
5 жыл бұрын
Always be a challenge 👍 make him earn every step of the way. Know your worth. Communicate it. Know that there are many men out there that would fight for your time & attention. Show your standards always. Do not fear being called "high maintenance" by your crush 😁 let him feel like a man, fighting for the relationship. If I have a ton of self-respect, what would I do now? Ask yourself...let thinking override feelings (my paraphrasing 😄)
@rosejohnson5963
3 жыл бұрын
He is so real and humbling. Great Guy.
@susanmalombo8284
5 жыл бұрын
Do men like Brian still exist?
@nuheilah2970
5 жыл бұрын
Ya'll give this gentelman a medal
@suzp8627
4 жыл бұрын
Nohaila Eyas'sb 🥇
@monalizasayon6874
5 жыл бұрын
Been watching videos like this and you gave the most mature advice so far. Thanks! I needed to hear this.
@marinaostroumova8643
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks, this video just boosted my confidence back as I was about to loose it! Back to normal now. Cheers!
@emilywilliams7432
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, this is exactly what I need to hear right now.
@MK-zo3zk
4 жыл бұрын
Excellent! I've been telling my kids this for years!
@dawghi
5 жыл бұрын
Totally makes sense! Thank you!
@priyak2575
5 жыл бұрын
You are the best sir! I owe you... God bless you.
@sylvier333
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brian. Just in time. Très apprécié.
@zemiyac.2949
4 жыл бұрын
I seriously want to see a video with you and Matthew Hussey. You guys taught me so much. Thank you!
@kerrypatrick1255
5 жыл бұрын
You make so much sense. Thank you
@Love-qd8hk
4 жыл бұрын
Now I watch all your videos Brian. 😁 I feel like were talking in person and you're giving me lessons. Your voice is so comforting esp what im feeling right now. You gain a subscriber 😊
@dawnag7526
5 жыл бұрын
great advice Brian, thank you.
@eldamjanovic5989
5 жыл бұрын
His voice is so soothing, I want him to read me a book and or sing a song to me. His partner for sure is blessed with someone this relaxing. Sigh. I love the sound of his real name though, I wonder where it is from.
@sjgbrighton
3 жыл бұрын
So helpful as I am working on improving my boundaries. Thanks ☺️
@CailisCritterCrib
5 жыл бұрын
Now I know what I've done wrong, oh... my entire life! And I've already sworn off men a few years ago because I got tired of being hurt. Thank you for sharing your knowledge, I'm sure you've helped so many people. God bless you.
@raaven3690
4 жыл бұрын
Brian what you’re saying is so hard when you are so into the guy but it is still so true what you are saying. You have opened my eyes. Thank you
@sarahstrong7174
5 жыл бұрын
Hi Brian, Thankyou for sharing this valuable information.
@jasminej6281
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this and reminding us even when we catch a feeling we still need to remind ourselves not to make it too easy for him. Bit hard but it's worth it.
@raqhitawilliams6069
4 жыл бұрын
I have watched 3 of your videos today. They were very effective in helping me to understand where I have been going wrong. Thank you for your gentle delivery of the facts along with clear examples. Many talk about this subject but they are just not believable. Thank you again Brian Knox.
@multifandomxedits7815
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I needed these tips.
@Align45
6 ай бұрын
This is excellent- thank you, Brian!
@user-nm1ch3hg2z
4 жыл бұрын
You don't need to thank us for watching... We Thank you!! for all of this important and crucial knowledge that you share so simply with us!! Really helpful.!!
@texaseregistered3463
3 жыл бұрын
I love his advice that I press the 👍 button, watch his videos to the end and watch all his ads plus bought his book on amazon. That’s how I appreciate his wisdom🥰🙏
@B-londoner
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brian. It is great a channel!
@gracechan3039
4 жыл бұрын
Maybe I’m just listening to this at the perfect time but I this is the best relationship advice I’ve ever heard. I watched all my videos and you helped me get my self esteem back
@susan8sul
4 жыл бұрын
I love you Brian knox . you are such a genius. thank you for your wise and informative videos
@violet6848
4 жыл бұрын
Omg you are really the best. I fell for a “low investment, inconsiderate punk” 😶 never again
@zoraidacastro5403
2 жыл бұрын
JUST ONE???
@marzac9508
3 жыл бұрын
I always love your videos. Thank you so much!!! These are really valuable lessons...
@conejita71mx
4 жыл бұрын
Brian, congratulations! This is by far the best video i've watched in years regarding to relationships. I thank you so much and appreciate the effort you constantly put in all the work you do. You give us the tools to build amazing relationships and to always show that we respect and love ourselves above anytbing else. I've improved so much my behavior in general and definitely my love life has changed for the better since i started watching this kind of videos. God bless you Brian... 👏👍
@joynieves8697
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Brian .. You always speaks the truth .. I heard this kind of advice from my grandma its classic but never gets old.. Now , I am happily married with my husband.
@peziki
5 жыл бұрын
You are so good at descriptive euphemisms.... very humorous and enlightening. You make me chuckle and have a great manner of delivering the point to your discussion. Many thanks.
@vannamich79
5 жыл бұрын
Brian thank you so much for this advise
@chosenangel7997
4 жыл бұрын
That is the same advice my mom gave me. You are so good!
@spacecat6252
3 жыл бұрын
Where are these guys who wrestle tigers and spend an entire paycheck to fly to see me? Haha 😂
@adrianavilchez2706
2 жыл бұрын
They don’t exist 😂😂😂
@lgreene9608
4 жыл бұрын
Great Lesson Learned. Thank you!!!
@josephinekomen9473
Жыл бұрын
The BEST advice ever, thank you Brian.
@heatherparent3156
4 жыл бұрын
Excellent Video Brian.
@nataliatothemoon
4 жыл бұрын
The way you lay it out clear as day is the best way to convey these crucial guidelines to our life
@amyb3585
3 жыл бұрын
Brian, you give such valuable, reasonable, understandable information in all your videos. What you talk about should be put into middle school curriculum and taught to ALL girls BEFORE they start getting in relationships with boys. If I had know even a fraction of this 20 years ago I could have saved myself a lot of heartache. I’m so happy to have discovered you...better late than never. Thank you for enlightening me and so many women. Lots of love to you 🥰
@connienamutebi9451
4 жыл бұрын
love you Mr .NOx....thank you so much...love your videos...
@NarsPisces
5 жыл бұрын
Really needed this, thank you💗
@chhavinet
4 жыл бұрын
Thankyou Brian! You have been a great help.. understanding relationship games... plus your presentation... your voice is simply great 💅
@BCCanadaRes
4 жыл бұрын
I ❤️ your videos. You have such a unique, communicable, deep way of getting your message across. They make me GET IT. And such important content. You're helping the world to value and experience true love. Very admirable.
@nancykline9281
3 жыл бұрын
You are helping me soo much ! Thank you for sharing your gift !😘
@barbaratucker2924
4 жыл бұрын
I love your videos! You are a great coach!! Especially this video
@INFJparadox
4 жыл бұрын
Just discovered you and really loving the material you are presenting! You're a very wise soul :) ~Blessings
@gilliansanderson4830
4 жыл бұрын
Watched quite a few of these videos. Brian is definitely the best! Sent from UK
@fatmaibrahimaboelelaibrahi6840
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brian good advices
@EAO-ql8hk
5 жыл бұрын
Extremely helpful 👍
@lpprince777
5 жыл бұрын
I'm in a relationship for about a year now it was very deep until I forgot myself to please his bossy attitude it didn't serve at all. At the moment when I understood I have to be the first priority I become a challenge again. Thank you Brian for making this video it helps me a lot about the confidence I have to acquire to save my relationship.
@lanka8786
5 жыл бұрын
I love you so much... such awesome points...i've seen several of your videos.. you are one of the best out there... all the best!
@juanitadolen1033
4 жыл бұрын
You r the best I have ever heard... thank you so much.... this is really how it is !!
@fortunejoke9594
5 жыл бұрын
What a powful insight I got here!!! Love u
@raludana4453
5 жыл бұрын
Love this video.Thank you Brian,i will follow your advice😊
@lulugigi5312
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Brian 😊😊😊 your advices are great
@verigabs
4 жыл бұрын
Great advice! Thanks
@alexawilsonartvideos
4 жыл бұрын
Great advice, thank you for this!
@MMmM-xf4xq
Жыл бұрын
Great advice. Love your videos ❤
@grethelp9637
5 жыл бұрын
Your advice is amazing 👏👏👏thank you Brian Nox
@fussballnot
4 жыл бұрын
This is the one male with advice for woman I really really like. Not at all condescending, doesn't try to tell us we need to contort our lives around the eccentricities or egos of men...quite the opposite, he guides us towards valuing ourselves. Thank you Brian Nox!
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