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@elif8080
2 күн бұрын
Videolariniza Türkçe dil seçeneği ekleyecek misiniz?
@SolvitaLux
Жыл бұрын
I think an important point is that it is extremely rude to wave hands around in fast motions, as well as point with a single finger. If you are ever complimenting someone's skirt, for example, you should never point at it with one finger whilst exclaiming adoration. But with a single, gentle hand motion, palm up, directing toward's the person's clothes is a much more elegant way to attract attention to something specific.
@stylinson.9839
Жыл бұрын
I agree 👏.
@aditya_offi_cial
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely right.
@ayazukai2401
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ! I usually wave my hands around in fast motion , now I know not to
@alienlovescoffee9631
Жыл бұрын
that's right, but why do this happens? is it certain a reason why?
@Zombina638
Жыл бұрын
Eh, I disagree
@BeyondClaire
Жыл бұрын
This is going to be an odd comment, but I have noticed when I take care of my hands and have a beautiful manicure, my hand jesters are more feminine.
@gillianmaxted1856
8 ай бұрын
I find the same, must be psychological
@mariajosevarelamiranda6618
6 ай бұрын
Is because you’re more proud of them and therefore feel more comfortable and connected to your beauty, in my opinion, elegance is confidence in one’s beauty and worth
@Lanatunyc
20 сағат бұрын
Same to me
@taibaimran8857
Жыл бұрын
Jamila it would be really helpful if you could do a fast food etiquette for things such as pizzas, burgers, sandwiches and chicken wins since they are not eaten in formal environments. Thank you in advance!
@aaqilashaini5373
Жыл бұрын
I would also love that
@laurenlim9276
Жыл бұрын
Same here I would love it
@faridaidjeri8966
Жыл бұрын
Same here
@britiroy9758
Жыл бұрын
You can't eat street foods "elegantly". 😆😒
@alyzak.8997
Жыл бұрын
YES
@Productivity-st8sm
Жыл бұрын
I thought that my parents were particularly concerned regarding etiquette but then I look at her and realize how lucky I am
@feelgood5332
Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for the hand dangle explanation, which is very elegant and not used by many women these days... unfortunatly ! Let's use it more and become very elegant women, with the rest of your sugggestions of course !!
@writedanightaway
Жыл бұрын
i can really see why your name is jamila, you're indeed jamila :) thanks for the video. I'm glad that I found your channel, will be starting the elegance journey with you❤
@Luisa-cs2pd
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jamila for your awesome and helpful tips! This is more important than we realize and you are helping us understand this. I would very like if you could do a video with several different scenarios, so we can see hand gestures according to different situations - perhaps 1-2 min video of ie. when eating dinner, with a date, and another with friends. Also other videos with other scenarios ie in an interview, in a breakfast/lunch with boss and colleagues. Also a video when sitting in a meeting with colleagues (how to sit and hand gestures when talking but also when listening to colleagues. Also a video when being in an important meeting with clients. All of these is sitting down. Thank you again for what you share! 🌹
@Mushroom321-
Жыл бұрын
Yes!!!😮😮😊
@AlexandraAquamarine
Жыл бұрын
Your earings are always so elegant. It is interesting to see all your collection in the future video.
@user-yk9sk7pg6v
Жыл бұрын
i love the hand dangle gesture! - i was just watching an interview with actress monica bellucci and found something particularly captivating yet couldn't quite place it - as soon as you said 'hand dangle' and then showed the gesture it immediately connected! - she was doing this gesture quite a bit in the interview - i mean, she is obviously beautiful in numerous ways, but i do agree with you that 'hand dangling' is just immensely lovely - thank you, Jamila! interview: 'Malena - Monica Bellucci, Giuseppe Tornatore - Interviews' channel: la Bella Bellucci
@elainemarley5014
Жыл бұрын
you are amazing ! tank you for making me more feminine, i really needed your videos in my life.
@JamilaMusayeva
Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad!
@sumanamukherjee9668
10 ай бұрын
Thank you babil, for being yourself. All my life I have struggled to fit in, I am same age as yours and I completely get the feeling when you say ' you know how I am' . I always felt so different and sometimes I tried to buckle up and be very much of today's time but then I couldn't be that for very long and struggled internally, it's beautiful to see someone who is very much fine being himself
@JamilaMusayeva
10 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@aanchalmishra56
Жыл бұрын
Jamila, I am an 8th grade student and my classmates look up to me as a good public speaker. I regularly watch your videos and learn a lot from them. Thank you very much!
@terrig7006
Жыл бұрын
Good for you! I hope you continue leading the way with grace and confidence! I, too, love public speaking, but didn't learn that skill until I was in my mid-20's. Before that, any presentation I had to do at school scared me to death! It's good to become skilled at this at a young age, it will help you in so many ways as you grow up. Best to you. 😊
@yashirajepateriya4201
6 ай бұрын
You are indian even im in 12th and want to become a. Good public speaker at school
@emmar3035
5 ай бұрын
Impressive! Some people don’t think adherence to proper etiquette is important. However, it shows confidence and self care. And others notice! Good for you!
@nowa1277
Жыл бұрын
a beautiful blouse
@lolabrini3758
Жыл бұрын
ikr!!! i want to know where she bought it
@ezelgozel826
11 ай бұрын
woow ,Jamila, it's my first time in your channel,I wish you the best🇦🇿 I feel prouded for you.great content❤️🙏
@kirtimalik1557
Жыл бұрын
Even as a kid , i always thought that pointing at something with a single finger was just too intense and it just felt uncomfortable. So, everytime i wanted to bring attention to something i would do so by put my palms facing up .
@LUCAandLUCA915
Жыл бұрын
WILL YOU PLEASE DO A VIDEO ON HOW TO GET OUT OF THE CAR AND GET IN, SUV'S and SEDAN SIZE PLEASE :) THANK YOU
@franciscajauregui6022
10 ай бұрын
Thank you ,I have social anxiety cause I’m 5’9! And big hands not petite but not like huge either. So feline hand gestures are crucial for me. I feel so aggressive at times I don’t even like my hands . When I do manicure them I love my hands but I do have hand insecurities. I overcome them with weight loss . Right now I’m a little overweight.
@Jega_Designer
11 ай бұрын
hi miss jamila i will try to practicethe hand clasp and tap the fingertips as my gesture after this, thank you for the lesson
@mansoor3159
Жыл бұрын
Hey! Jamila I really really love your contents so so so much and this video is so so helpful to me in my life you are my inspiration and I wish you reach 800K Subscribers very very soon!💓🙂💫
@motherisntmurderpodcast
9 ай бұрын
I'll be doing more of these hand exercises to loosen up my fingers and wrists and create that softness that makes the gestures easier. Thank you! ❤🌹
@meeimounasidi3096
Жыл бұрын
أتابعك لأتذكر أهمية أن أكون كأنثى ناعمة وراقية مثلك على صعيد المظهر والشخصية
@paradiseagencyusa
Жыл бұрын
Best etiquette 😍
@K98vd04
Жыл бұрын
I love hand creams for it's scent, but I tend to sweat a lot after applying them.
@NoName-zb1gm
Жыл бұрын
Hi could you make a video on how a man and a woman should cross the street but not just the traditional manner where the man offers his arm. How about if a man wants to take the initiative and protect his lady while they are crossing the street. This is someone I know casually so grabbing her hand like we're a couple is not exactly what I'm looking for. Thank you.
@Sunshinechicc
Жыл бұрын
I am NEW HERE . LOVE YOUR CONENT
@Keezyii
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate the fact that you mentionned natural nails, thank you your content is very informative and educational 🫶🏾
@GracefulLiving1
Жыл бұрын
All your videos are very good
@spw947
11 ай бұрын
Does Niles know that Mares has her own etiquette channel?
@GNR143
4 ай бұрын
Thank you! this was really helpful!
@JamilaMusayeva
4 ай бұрын
I'm so glad!
@mariaene2444
Жыл бұрын
I really need to know where is your Top from I adore it
@itim1234
3 ай бұрын
6:59 Amplify your saying by hand gestures ❤
@rebelhawk8368
9 ай бұрын
you are so sophisticated
@Tranquil_tunes-FRS
9 ай бұрын
I really appreciate what you are doing
@JamilaMusayeva
9 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@indrabrewer2036
2 ай бұрын
When at a dinner table, during coffee, is it acceptable to have your chin on your hand as you are listening to your dinner partner?
@sophianachtigall3598
Жыл бұрын
I have mastered my hand gestures for sure, but I do need a reminder to use hand cream. I do not like sticky feeling on my hands, especially if I will shake hands with someone. So I use cream only at night. Any recommendations for a nonsticky cream?
@celesteroberts7743
Жыл бұрын
Vaseline (brand) Fragrance free non greasy lotion
@Rikapaprika
Жыл бұрын
You can try putting the cream only on the top of your hand. The inside of the palm doesn't get that dry anyway and not having any cream there can reduce the stickiness of your entire hand (I don't know it I explained it well) 😃
@Carolina-rd3gh
Жыл бұрын
Some people take the dainty jewellery to an extreme to the point where it doesn’t look like jewellery and looks like a scar on your skin instead. This is a good example of necklaces that look so thin that look like a surgery scar.
@elizabethmeghana9614
Жыл бұрын
Hey Jamila, nice to see you too. I address public a lot, I'll use this video. Book time, need books recommendation. I enjoyed atomic habits thoroughly.
@JamilaMusayeva
Жыл бұрын
Thank you! Check out my book playlist as well as my book club on Patreon.
@elizabethmeghana9614
Жыл бұрын
@@JamilaMusayeva Thank you
@princepengkapogian
Жыл бұрын
your voice is so relaxing!!
@bhumikakumari9861
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much....😊
@kesayangantuhan8164
Жыл бұрын
I love your voice 🥺
@92hikhik
Жыл бұрын
I find it difficult to use my hands because they look huge and not feminine :(
@Rainynightstories
Жыл бұрын
You're gorgeous.. a little bit of baby hair would look so adorable,❤️
@archieascent4748
Жыл бұрын
Goodness my KZitem recommendations have gone crazy. Right before this one, I saw a video on Hong Kong’s horrible living conditions : kzitem.info/news/bejne/qIGsr6R3hIKJg4I and here I am hearing someone talk about hand etiquette’s and how important it is to use a hand cream and I am so put off by this, with no disrespect towards the lady. The world is definitely a cruel place, so for heaven’s sake’s guys please live your life decently and stop worrying about things which are irrelevant. The biggest etiquette of all is to treat yourself and others kindly.
@think-and-check
Жыл бұрын
Why this lady doesn't put her hands to rest for a second or two? It's a bit annoying when someone have their hands in constant mowing especially when that person is next to you or opposite you. Imagine a company of people where everybody is moving their hands like this, non stop, while being absolutely convinced they are nothing but elegant. So crazy...
@hooriaahmed09
2 ай бұрын
I don't know why but i become aggressive some times when i am using my hands😅
@Meowqitergwqdghhr
Жыл бұрын
Pleassee answer this or anyone what is I have one hand what shall I do
@vasarecta05
18 күн бұрын
Rule no. 1:: have pretty hands 🙂
@Ritu-cw8ub
Жыл бұрын
How to sit straight like you...without being restless
@JamilaMusayeva
Жыл бұрын
Practice it ☺️
@boifavour1720
Жыл бұрын
Wow
@mariavittoria4624
Жыл бұрын
Could you add subtitles in english? Kisses from Italy!
@Phoenixrising9602
5 ай бұрын
Please tell us where you got the top
@shaikjabbar6035
Жыл бұрын
Mashallah
@ivykaneshiro1107
8 ай бұрын
... I unintentionally did that-
@Evelyndiggs91907
5 ай бұрын
Jamila, I love your tips, they are so on point and well informing! I think your voice needs a bit more strength, surety, and sincerety! Your voice lacks strength in the back of the throat wjich makes it kind of raspy which is not a very good ring for etiquette! I mean this very respectfully! You do a great job otherwise and it might just be that way as English isn't your first language!?
@ServinDeniz7367
5 ай бұрын
Kas azeri dilinde alt yazi qoymagi nezere alsaydiniz(
@faceluckcell9484
Жыл бұрын
god blest hand maCure. hand ELegantLy. hand '' daUn puLus '' adorabLe ,,,,,my hand hand jamiLa BH
@marcwright4790
Жыл бұрын
Your lotion is scented. Not flavored. Flavor is what you taste with your tongue. I see people who’s first language is not English misuse these words often and wanted to point this out to you, with respect.
@Essemm52
5 ай бұрын
….and if you use English, rather than American English, it’s ‘flavour, not flavor. 😉
@marcwright4790
5 ай бұрын
@@Essemm52 yes. American English is different, but they are the same word with the same meaning. Flavor and scent are two different things. Non English speakers, whether they are learning American or British English, seem to have a problem with mixing up flavor and scent. Likely because the original terms were intertwined in Latin and medieval French. But that is not the correct modern usage of flavor/flavour.
@Essemm52
5 ай бұрын
@@marcwright4790 The word flavour can also be used in relation to the character of something. So not only to do with taste.
@Yvonne60945
4 ай бұрын
Working as a ESL in law, I tell my colleagues "listen to what I say, not how I say it", And "don't correct me while I speak, but after the question round." With upmost respect ❤🎉 ESLs, I just gave you ammunition. Go out there, talk and use these two sentences. It's ok to mess up.
@GVanSteph
4 ай бұрын
I did the same mistake in the past and a beautiful soul pointed this out gracefully. Till this date I am grateful to them as it makes me feel slight better for knowing the difference 😊
@shagnn
Жыл бұрын
her voice is so soothing omfg I'm addicted to it
@Pakistanimulhida-yu5mo
7 ай бұрын
Do u think it’s her real voice? I think they edit it🫢
@kornelijak9107
5 ай бұрын
She has indeed a beautiful voice. The soothing part comes from the way we speak and it can be learned like, for example singing. Slow and clear is easy to listen to. Try to listen to someone talking fast (and sometimes loudly). Personally, it stresses me out and it makes difficult to follow them.
@Julia29853
Ай бұрын
Your abbreviation is disrespectful and not elegant! Especially for religious people
@ZoeZebra10594
Ай бұрын
@@Julia29853 agree
@duaaaweidah7567
Жыл бұрын
am I the only one who puts her on 1.5 play back speed!!?
@ACherree
Жыл бұрын
Oh my... I have OCD and I wash my hands with soap multiple times/day and I only moisturize my skin twice a day: in the morning and in the evening after taking a shower. Yes, my hands are dry, dehydrated, and flakey 😞
@thekingsdaughter4233
Жыл бұрын
I wash my hands a lot, too (related to caring for children, pets and plants). I wouldn't know where you live, but here in the US, a hand cream called "Working Hands" by O'Keefe was a lifesaver for me. You only need a small amount and it is quickly absorbed (so you don't leave greasy handprints everywhere). Haven't found anything better; it makes such a difference. The first time, I found it in the home improvement section! 😄 Neutrogena makes a good one, too (supposedly developed for Norwegian fishermen); but maybe only in Europe. The formula seems to be different and less effective here.
@PhilosophyWithLilly
Жыл бұрын
I also wash my hands too much!
@ACherree
Жыл бұрын
@@thekingsdaughter4233 aww, ok. Thank you so much for your suggestions. I currently live in Indonesia. It's not about the formula, but it's about my lazy self, cos whenever I apply the moisturizer I need much more water and soap to sanitize my hands properly. Thus, I only moisturize my skin twice a day, in the morning after I wake up and in the evening before sleeping. I also have a toddler and unfortunately I'm currently a single mother. I need to find my way to achieve that feminine energy, so I can take care of myself properly. God bless you ❤
@Arshikaanwar
Жыл бұрын
Hahaha this is a big pblm. I also make sure my hands are clear
@KhushbooSharma-hb9zw
Жыл бұрын
I have ocd too and i wash my hands often too, and because of soap i have itchy pimple like buildups😭
@ananyaanil1691
Жыл бұрын
Hello Jamila! I would suggest you to keep the flowers behind you as the bright contrast creates a distraction and it takes focus from you. Great video!!
@mariannaoosthuizen9639
5 ай бұрын
Hands should never come in front of the face while talking to someone. It's a distraction.
@Mary-pg1rf
Жыл бұрын
Your videos never disappoint me, Jamila 🎉 Although hand gestures are important when we are delivering a speech, I think it's essential to control the amount of gestures we do and try to have delicate movements as possible, otherwise we can make the other person feel nervous or distracted by our hands. It happens to me a lot, maybe because I'm a highly sensitive person, that some people who are very frenetic and exagerated with their body language makes me feel a little bit of anxious.
@fearlessali2852
Жыл бұрын
Most of the people don't follow ettiquettes and manners at all.They are even mannerless and rude without even knowing and realising about it. That's really awkward, anxious and disturbing for well behaved and we'll mannered people who are highly sensitive.😊
@ishagaur8046
9 ай бұрын
I respectfully want to ask you why we need to look more feminine while having a conversation? 😊
@PhilosophyWithLilly
Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness! I was just searching “elegant hand gestures” the other day. Very timely! Thank you
@ccway7
6 ай бұрын
I can't take her speaking/voice
@Oogshsjsiwijnxhsj
5 ай бұрын
Yeah same
@jayadrew9530
Жыл бұрын
skip to 10:47 to see the actual thing. everything is a waste of time
@bunnylover1340
Жыл бұрын
I think hand gestures are important to an extent but over doing it would be distracting.
@rahmakareem4888
Жыл бұрын
def agree with u , I use alot of gesturing when im speaking to clients. It really gives sense of security to the client cuz it gives confidante and in charge vibe, therefore they will trust you more.
@PassionPno
6 ай бұрын
This really depends on which culture you’re from. Gesturing a lot is seen as unrefined and lowly educated in my culture.
@AnushkaDubey-zx5dc
Жыл бұрын
what about females with short and thick fingers and small hand like me? I hate my hands
@marisagonzalez1543
5 ай бұрын
Just like her (the lady in the video)
@tinylittleshort
9 ай бұрын
I don't know if it's still part of your etiquette that you speak too slow and soft. I can't with my patience with the next word you are about to say. 😅
@workharder2715
6 ай бұрын
i speed the video to hear her talking in a normal base 🥲
@rahafmasa6774
Жыл бұрын
but but but what if you don't have elegant-looking hands!! (my insecurity)
@lindybright1938
4 ай бұрын
I saw a lot of positive comments, and some very rude comments, but the best one was from an 8th Grader, thanking Jamila who showed genuine appreciation. Great video, btw! ❤
@JamilaMusayeva
4 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@Amalliz
Жыл бұрын
مهم ايديك نظيفة واظافرك نظيفة .
@biblicallyaccuratecockroach
Жыл бұрын
Many times, I believe, the problem is that people overthink and obsess about details, when if they just ignored it and let their hands just be, they'd most often be fine. It's an art, not a science, every one has their way of communicating, some are more reserved, others are more expressive, what's important is that we understand each other. In my martial arts class there's a student I often train with that's a bit of a perfectionist, and obsesses about the tiniest little wrong thing, and the more she stresses about it the worse the whole sequence becomes. That's the point when I say a stupid joke to make her laugh and relax, and have her do her next attempt while she's still talking, and often it goes better because she's not as tense and just lets it happen. We've been practicing for long enough that her body knows what to do, it's her head that gets in the way. If you think you're doing something wrong, sometimes the answer is to think less, and just do. Let things happen. Find your flow and learn to go with it. I promise you're not as inept as you think. "Oh, but what if I embarrass myself?" It's never going to go as bad as you think. And if you never fail, you'll never succeed; it's called practice. You weren't born knowing how to walk, were you? I don't know when this rant became a pep-talk but here we are. You'll do fine. Think less, and just do.
@louiseleilei
Жыл бұрын
Silently cries in my skin asthma for 15yrs now,my hands are so ugly.😢
@anye76
Жыл бұрын
As I'm watching this, I'm being reminded fondly of ballet classes from my childhood. I think that's where I learned how to hold my hands and gesture. Very grateful for this video, thank you 🌷
@mariannaoosthuizen9639
5 ай бұрын
Hand gestures are difficult because of different cultures. It's better to use much less than too often
@maily3243
Жыл бұрын
I'm a female but my hands (& feet) are big width & length😂🤣) & not feminine to begin with so I always try to hide them. Doing these gestures would emphasize this even more. Especially when I am presenting something, it always draws attention to my hands & people look, so I try but not easy to hide. I think I will try moving more subtley &slowly.
@Carmen0777
Жыл бұрын
Excellent topic Jamila, Body Language is very important tool to use it correctly I’ve read Joe Navarro book The Dictionary of Body Language I recommend it to everyone, you can learn a lot from his book and also you can watch his interview online. Thanks Jamila
@qed456
Жыл бұрын
I find it startling the number of people who cannot use their hands correctly in company. Many people are overly quick and jerky with hand gestures that shocks their company especially men to ladies . Also the number of people who point at another is shocking as this is so rude and shows a lack of class. Hand gestures should be slow and occupy the smallest space possible to make it.
@FeminineBliss
Жыл бұрын
The way you effortlessly guide us through each gesture, providing practical examples, is incredibly helpful! 🥰🥰Moreover, I must say that you, as the author of this video, have a natural talent for presenting information with grace and poise 💫✨ I look forward to practice these elegant hand gestures in my own life! 💃💃
@JamilaMusayeva
Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much!
@gazalakosar2325
Жыл бұрын
thanx jamila
@gazalakosar2325
Жыл бұрын
thanx jamila.
@StylingPrincessM
Жыл бұрын
is your knit from Khaite? the design looks very familiar, but i can't remember where I've seen it before 🤔
@NorahsYarnArt
Жыл бұрын
It’s funny that you mentioned the dangling hand pose-it’s actually a very beautiful to portray hands in art usually with the middle and ring finger close together.
@chrissiec2123
Жыл бұрын
I liked the finger touch and wrist dangle tips the best because I've never heard of them being used as hand gestures. This was a great video, Jamila! Thank you very much!
@NicoleCB
Жыл бұрын
I like the hand dangle! Does anyone know the difference between the gesture with the fingers tips touching, showing trustworthiness and openness, vs the hand steepling that is a power move and is considered to be rude if done by a subordinate?
@Gesundheit888
Жыл бұрын
2:32 they don't feel comfortable "disposing" their hands??? I bet that's true!
@sophia-tn5ff
Жыл бұрын
😭😂
@pushmeetkaur1793
Жыл бұрын
Please show us something about your clothing sense its also very much elegant and in everyvedio please mention your. clothes brand that you wear
@t.yasmine6639
Жыл бұрын
Can you make a video about poses for photos? 😊
@skywa7183
Жыл бұрын
I think u need to keep the ads to the end cuz I almost always lock ur videos but hearing the book ads I move on to another. I know Im not alone.
@pushmeetkaur1793
Жыл бұрын
The top you are wearing is from?
@shooter7693
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, my hands always looks so stiff in photos 😂
@suchi_277
Жыл бұрын
Hi Jamila, thank you so much for this informative video. I do have a question regarding touching the fingertips with each other as you mentioned as your second last point. Wouldn't it block your face from viewing especially when the elbows are on the table? Thanks again for your inputs.
@AmandaBabyyyyy
Жыл бұрын
This is a great point, I noticed as well! In addition to the hand movements themselves, it’s good to also be mindful of where your hands are in relation to your face, as blocking your mouth when you’re speaking may subconsciously come across as you have something to hide. Just something else to consider! 💜
@Gigi-ni1cf
Ай бұрын
Maybe better to label your videos as western etiquette… in eastern culture a lot of western etiquette is seen as rude and vice versa.
@ntokozojiyane3415
Жыл бұрын
I actually never ever thought about the importance of hand gestures ever. Great video, now am wondering what i have been doing with my hands all thia while. Thank you so much. Lots of love 😍
@whatarewedoinghere5335
Жыл бұрын
Thankyou for this Jamila. I LOVE YOUR DRESS 💙
@sunray9941
4 ай бұрын
Sorry to point it to you, but you are showing too much chest bones. Speaking of an etiquette, it should be obvious to you. Little bit more coverage on the shoulder and bust area would look much better on you.
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