I love this advice...I've implemented these practices and I haven't yelled in 2 weeks. I haven't lost my cool and things get done
@hannahdeforest9148
4 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome. I was encouraged by these methods too. I am grateful for my mom and dad modeling many of these methods for me as a child. One thing I remember is that when my mom yelled or got angry in an unholy way, she was quick to apologize. She didn’t excuse my misbehavior, but explained that her reaction was wrong. That stuck with me. It was also a model for me to learn humility and quick repentance.
@charlenemartin200
3 жыл бұрын
That’s great! I’m hoping to change some things with this teaching as well.
@PCKA1987
3 жыл бұрын
That’s really encouraging. I’m a yeller by habit.
@heartofplaydoh7647
2 жыл бұрын
That’s so great to hear!
@BlessedMundane
2 жыл бұрын
@@hannahdeforest9148 I was raised in a house of yellers and was never apologized to so I learned to be the same way. Now that I know better and try to parent biblically I do the same when I lose it. I repent then apologize. It’s so hard to unlearn this behavior. But I’m chugging through. 😩
@MorenitaBonita19
3 жыл бұрын
My mom used to make us have quiet time and when we would argue, we all had to listen to classical music and take a nap lol it was very insightful looking back.
@shelbycurry721
3 жыл бұрын
Aww!
@ryan918lauren
3 жыл бұрын
That’s a great idea Canela!
@NA-et8jk
3 жыл бұрын
Lol amazing. Blessings to you and your fam
@kay22100
2 жыл бұрын
LOL I like this
@AnalystAyi
7 жыл бұрын
I lost my way... time to get refreshed by this video. #singlemom #trainupachild
@s2moore2
4 жыл бұрын
Praying for you tonight. God bless you.
@JSCDR
3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽
@JSCDR
3 жыл бұрын
God bless your efforts! 🙏🏽
@nickcatron821
2 жыл бұрын
Years later and even through death she is helping and encouraging young parents to this day, Her life, her daughter are in inspiration to us all thank you so much for wisdom and guidance. The testimony of this woman, the witness and sacrifices made for the furtherance of the Kingdom of Jesus is absolutely awe inspiring.
@Esther-xd8ix
3 жыл бұрын
I wish I could get my hands on a dvd so I can rewatch over and over again. I have a feeling “they” will start banning videos like this in the near future.
@visiontransformation
3 жыл бұрын
download it
@Odo-so8pj
3 жыл бұрын
Down load it.
@meglupo18
3 жыл бұрын
Me too. How do you download it I wonder
@runningriver3479
2 жыл бұрын
take notes! 💚
@karrindobbins2024
2 жыл бұрын
kzitem.info/news/bejne/2aiwtXehnHZefII
@rachaelmilne5574
2 жыл бұрын
So thankful to have stumbled upon this. The Lord is using it in my life right now❤️
@genevabaird3882
3 жыл бұрын
Please pray for my husband to read his bible it’s so important I’m a submissive wife and put the lord’s ways before my own but I married before I was truly saved.
@LeahC70113
3 жыл бұрын
Praying for you.
@rachellebrooke4614
3 жыл бұрын
Praying
@healinginhiswings2904
3 жыл бұрын
Likewise wives, be subject to your own husbands that even if they do not obey the Word they will be won without a word by the conduct of their wives when they see your pure and respectful conduct. It's a promise form the Word that if you are obedient to your husband the Lord WILL turn your husband's heart back to Him. Keep growing in your own faith and you will bear fruit as keeping with repentance. 💗
@rissa_creates6585
Жыл бұрын
Praying 🙏...don't ever give up
@hendlerumbaut4056
8 жыл бұрын
This is precious, biblical wisdom. What great maternal mentors Elisabeth Elliot and her daughter Valerie Shepard are! Sweet but strong.
@dinahfox3287
3 жыл бұрын
Please, if you are reading this and feel discouraged that you are not enough as a parent because your child has misbehaved or rebelled in some way then know that the most perfect Parent ever had His children disobey. If God allows us free will, then he does so at the risk of them actually disobeying. You are not alone...God is in your company...and He gave his life even to bring them back...he did not give up on us. And you can not control your child anymore than He controls us. God wants willing obedience and he will wait for it. Don’t give up, keep doing your best and leaning on Jesus. “He gently leads those who have young...”
@gloriack7976
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I was raised in a Christian household with modeled behavior and the whole nine yards. Somehow I became a very impatient very disgruntled mother of three that finds it incredibly hard to find the joy in motherhood. Grinding through into 7 years soon and we're doing so much better but struggles are real.
@ninakitchens5098
3 жыл бұрын
What a rare thing today to be raised in this most beautiful way. Oh how I long to grow in my parenting. To honor God with my mothering and homemaking is my ultimate goal. I am so grateful to God for showing us that this model truly works if we will just submit to Him throughout the process. ✝🙏♥
@mrsevergreentree
3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@shantiyah
Жыл бұрын
Pregnant with our 2nd child I'm super excited to obtain the knowledge and wisdom TODAY!
@TheMistysFavs
3 жыл бұрын
My then 15 year old daughter sang this at our wedding with our other then 4 blended children surrounding her. It was AMAZING! We raised 8 children, all adults, and still raising a 13 year old grandson.. I only wish my husband had kept growing in the Lord.. Please pray for Bud... thanks. God bless! I ADORE this woman!
@rachellebrooke4614
3 жыл бұрын
Praying
@rissa_creates6585
Жыл бұрын
Praying 🙏
@MoDrizzlee
6 ай бұрын
2024 and Gods word is still alive and breathing. I have just dived into Elisabeth Elliot and all her teaching. Thank you thank you. 🙌🏽❤️
@rebeccajlopez3189
9 жыл бұрын
very encouraging talk ❤ Im a young mother and wife and im embarking in the discipline journey with my 1 year old. I look forward to the fruit that obedience to the Lord will bear☺ Thank you for sharing these videos!💕💃
@monizoe3188
3 жыл бұрын
How desperately we need this wisdom today... I'm sending these videos to my engaged daughter and her fiancé. God willing they'll be a family after God's heart, unlike me who came to Jesus late(r). Blessings and love to you all in Christ Jesus Amen and forever Amen
@nancybaumgartner6774
Жыл бұрын
I had a wonderful mentor/ substitute mother who was a lot like Elisabeth Elliot. She is why I became a Christian .
@zerosparky9510
3 жыл бұрын
Thank God that Miss Elliot was able to share for many years. I would listen to her radio programs back in the day. One day I will get to meet her.
@bondwrite
3 жыл бұрын
Go to elisabethelliot.org and you can hear every talk of hers for FREE! It’s a fabulous site.
@ryan918lauren
3 жыл бұрын
@@bondwrite Thank you Janet! ✝️💕
@rissa_creates6585
Жыл бұрын
Some of them are broadcasted on BBN Radio. You can find most of them on KZitem also. The channel name is The Elisabeth Elliott Foundation. youtube.com/@TheElisabethElliotFoundation
@jerinethan
6 жыл бұрын
What a blessed woman.. What precious wisdom. I'm transported to a kinder, more beautiful time especially with the melodious background music.
@margaretnewton6409
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for advice that is never outdated, because it is biblical. Many families have become weak and destroyed because of not taking old fashioned advice. Mrs. Elliot's advice is highly useful, and ought to be considered, especially by those who have not had this family experience. Yet, would like to. For women without husband's, it is possible. My mother used many of Mrs. Elliot's childrearing suggestions of discipline, Bible memorization, devotions in our living room and money management. My father left while we were very young children, yet we had her Christian guidance. Of course, we were not altogether perfect. As teens we challenged her.. And, as long as she lived, we were never too old in her eyes to be scolded for our conduct according to the Bible. I am daily grateful to her. Train a child in the way they should go, (according to scripture), and they shall not depart from it. This is God's promise.
@tammyhollandsworth6783
11 ай бұрын
I yelled a lot when my children were growing up. I wish this had been a video I could of watched or learned from. It was hard to be a parent or single parent. I wasn’t raised in love so I believe it made it difficult to raise my own. My children are grown up now with their own children. I do love them so much and know from my mistakes even now. It does help to raise your family when your living for Jesus. I’m thankful that God listens to my prayers over my children and grandchildren. That is so important. Especially today. Too many families have struggled with children being rebellious and either running away from home or on drugs. 😢. Thank you for sharing this video. I will share with my children. 😊❤
@AlanaL3
6 жыл бұрын
This is exceptional:)
@deborahpellerito6117
3 жыл бұрын
I'm sad I didn't find this wonderful woman sooner
@rissa_creates6585
Жыл бұрын
That's how I feel...but better late than never
@pennyhouser4637
3 жыл бұрын
I have fallowed this dear mighty woman of God from 1965 when I read “ Through Gates of Splendor”. I was so touched as a teen in youth group learning about the strength and devotion to God both she and her husband Jim lived. A must read.
@disciplesoftheking
3 жыл бұрын
So many gems in this so much to treasure and hold close
@aleksandra81931
Ай бұрын
Beautiful ❤️
@lightoftheworld77
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you Janet for these wonderful videos! Its such a blessing to listen to Elisabeth Elliot!
@bondwrite
9 жыл бұрын
You are SO welcome!
@s2moore2
9 жыл бұрын
Janet Wismer THANK YOU JANET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! These videos are a treasure!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@lindanobetsiki
7 жыл бұрын
Janet Wismer, is this video no longer available?
@ladiosaladiosa1610
8 жыл бұрын
Mother and daughter amazing women ❤️🙏🏽❤️
@voiceinthesert
2 жыл бұрын
This is the way parents used to raise their kids almost 60 years ago. Vey strict and traditional.
@christalzerr4551
8 жыл бұрын
These videos are a treasure. Thanks so much for sharing!
@saramations
3 жыл бұрын
>peaceful cheesy song >spanking Wow that went from 0 to 100 REAL QUICK
@TheMistysFavs
3 жыл бұрын
"Peaceful, cheesy song".... Did you LISTEN to it? ARE you are believer on Jesus Christ? If not, seek His Salvation now, as Christ IS the ONLY way to Heaven and His return for we who are His own is imminent. This is excellent advice. I believe you may be a teen who has lost her way.. I pray that you seek Christ while there is still time and we are still under GRACE for the forgiveness of sins.
@tammyhollandsworth6783
11 ай бұрын
What a lovely couple and children/family.
@haliebook7095
5 жыл бұрын
So glad you took time to share this video still filled with timeless wisdom! Thank you!
@sunshinerays4324
3 жыл бұрын
Such a wonderful blessing! I love these videos
@loriblakely6228
3 жыл бұрын
Treasure, pure and simple and truth.
@ablaagouze9135
4 жыл бұрын
Pure wisdom from God.
@1loveisraelites848
6 жыл бұрын
No way I was watching last night and it’s not available today!!!!! So sad!
@ambrosefenner7669
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you....these messages are so precious..
@GuadalupeRodriguez-xo7pw
4 жыл бұрын
Janet Wismer@. Thanks God I have seen part 1 and 2 these last two days. I will always remember Covid 19 lockout for the blessing of hearig this. I am a grandmother that applied most of it. But new generations with so much worldly influence have a hard time to keep focused. I need to pray more.
@bethanybaldwin6029
8 жыл бұрын
I love the great wisdom of Elisabeth Elliot. I listen to gateway to joy online at bbn. Thanks for sharing these videos.
@AnnieKopf
8 ай бұрын
What precious, precious videos! I treasure these close to my heart. Thank you for sharing them
@teresabalboni7080
7 жыл бұрын
love having these glimpses into EE and her legacy. The music is beautiful, too! Thank you !!!
@shantiyah
Жыл бұрын
I love quiet time! It's beautiful
@mercifullove8246
2 жыл бұрын
What an amazing father . What a true blessing. Oh what an amazing mother !!!
@thesisterhoodhub
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing these videos! 🙏
@jeanturnbull5
3 жыл бұрын
Truely wonderful teaching.
@jocelynegacuma4296
3 жыл бұрын
🎀🕯️ Thank you for this inspiring video. It's a good example about how families should be like with God. Tough deciplinary life is a good source. God bless Elizabeth Elliot for her dedication to God and her family, I think it's an aspiring and a dedicated story of wisdom. 🕊️☁️ God bless
@shirleyjaggar2815
3 жыл бұрын
Oh to have had that teaching when I raised my family.
@ThePriscillia28
4 жыл бұрын
Thank You for sharing this video. 😊
@gganha
4 жыл бұрын
this is wonderful, im impressed.
@mariami2670
Жыл бұрын
This is just wonderful🥰❤❤❤
@MsPinkan3
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, than kpu, thank you very much for sharing this, Janet Wismer! It's blessed my family and beyond.
@AG-kr1my
Жыл бұрын
These videos are so helpful to me as a young mother. Thank you for sharing! :)
@Winterbee14
3 жыл бұрын
👌🏻 beautiful video
@nanetteros7982
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for putting this on KZitem. These materials are such a blessing.
@Richesfam
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing
@allthingsconsist1742
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this!
@stephaniedegange2737
3 жыл бұрын
i remember listening to Gateway to Joy for about 15 years.
@noway2708
2 жыл бұрын
I ball my eyes out hearing this, I know my own failures
@tiarasiobhon
2 жыл бұрын
This was a answered prayer
@bukky8231
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I am comforted
@graceobike2770
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this, I love this, it's very helpful
@janellestoermer5479
5 жыл бұрын
Valerie has a beautiful family. I'm guessing this was filmed in the early 90's? I am happily married to a godly man, but we haven't been blessed with children (yet). I am, however, a 5th grade teacher in a Christian school. I'm curious as to how some of this could be used in that arena (obviously, not the spanking, but other aspects addressed in this and part one).
@Odo-so8pj
3 жыл бұрын
I've seen it modeled and had to model it with very difficult children. Don't raise your voice, get angry or react emotionally. They feed off it. Set consequences and follow through always.
@justbeyou5863
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video 💝💝💝
@ShushLorraine
4 жыл бұрын
@28:03 - Not 2 Thess 3:10, though that is about working, but she's quoting 1 Thess 4:11.
@eileenkobashi1494
4 жыл бұрын
Where is part one?
@rachelrusso3123
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for uploading!
@servantrose
2 жыл бұрын
at some point this type of information will be outlawed, 2 year olds doing chores and disciplining with pain lol, it's so politically incorrect but it shows how much standards have changed. we have strayed so far from the Bible, responsibility and close-knit families.
@alexemery6587
2 жыл бұрын
1 Thess 4:11 (not 2 Thess 3:10) is about working with hands etc.
@dianathomas2674
2 жыл бұрын
I thought my child was disobedient. The "behavior", constant moving and such, didn't make sense to me. Never once a normal temper tantrum, but more or less constant screaming. It turned out to be autism. I truly wonder how these things were dealt with in a "peaceful home" back then.
@buu.888
2 жыл бұрын
Well obviously there wasn't as much knowledge on the subject back then. People can only do what they know.
@user-ln6pu7kq9j
7 жыл бұрын
When was this film made? Thank you for the upload!
@robinadams6614
4 жыл бұрын
VHS released in 1994
@baus7
3 жыл бұрын
@@robinadams6614 visit? Does that mean there is more to this?
@whiskersredwood7903
3 жыл бұрын
As a mother, I am SO far off this mark.
@adriennelarue465
3 жыл бұрын
Same here...
@andrewb6742
3 жыл бұрын
😊 we all feel the same. But it's never too late to get started with God's help 👏
@deborah3912
3 жыл бұрын
This seems like a fairy tale to me...I grew up in a very ungodly home. I struggle with my heritage even though I am a Christian.
@simone7106
3 жыл бұрын
Possible for you too love! God loves you and through Him everything possible
@malibudolphin3109
4 жыл бұрын
Video starts at 2.47
@laceyanderson2827
7 жыл бұрын
When trying to view "A Peaceful Home 2," I am receiving an error message that says " This video is not available." I would really like to view this content, do you have another was of accessing it or helping me to be able toView it here? Thank you!
@bondwrite
7 жыл бұрын
I'm watching is right now. Am not sure why you cannot access it. Try clicking here: kzitem.info/news/bejne/zYNm05d7h4mcoKw
@lindanobetsiki
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you this link works but the current one also gives me the same error :)
@mikkipace2840
2 жыл бұрын
This new generation needs to hear this, there so sensitive, childish, immature and vulgar. They lacked proper punishment and discipline.
@bilbobaggins4403
2 жыл бұрын
I was kept in the dirt basement in a cage and fed raisins by granny. I turned out fine.
@edithvanderbol4839
Жыл бұрын
That this still is practiced…….😮
@leilanilamberts8681
2 жыл бұрын
I want to strongly encourage every Christian parent to read Jesus, the Gentle Parent by LR Knost
@bilbobaggins4403
2 жыл бұрын
You have to make a child cry?
@bilbobaggins4403
3 жыл бұрын
I was impressed Val when you hit Theo with the golf club I noticed your calm cool demeanor.
@sueupham2519
3 жыл бұрын
How was Rachel Saint related to you? Inlaw or aunt
@liliantomazia6638
4 жыл бұрын
Coloca legenda em português por favor
@feeneeminers8862
2 жыл бұрын
Outdated advice on physical punishment- if you visit violence on a child, he will be violent right back. Very glad that the UK has classed this as a crime
@Trump966
Жыл бұрын
The degenerate behavior of youth in the U.K. is proof that your "law" is not working.
@bilbobaggins4403
2 жыл бұрын
You may cry quietly. 🤣🤣🤣
@bilbobaggins4403
2 жыл бұрын
Sit up straight and make sure your clothes match.
@elmamay1012
2 жыл бұрын
Tithe isn’t for this dispensation
@camilacunhaabreu
7 жыл бұрын
It's not available anymore =/
@bondwrite
7 жыл бұрын
I'm watching it right now on You Tube. Try: kzitem.info/news/bejne/zYNm05d7h4mcoKw
@bondwrite
7 жыл бұрын
Actually, it's still there: kzitem.info/news/bejne/zYNm05d7h4mcoKw
@camilacunhaabreu
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you, but it still appears "this video is not available". Don't know why.
@camilacunhaabreu
7 жыл бұрын
May you share it somewhere else? I'd be so thankfull :)
@RepentfollowJesus
4 жыл бұрын
@@camilacunhaabreu try it again. I'm watching it.
@sistahlamb
Жыл бұрын
Interesting video, does have some helpful information, but parts of it seems staged and contrived. Valerie(Elisabeth’s daughter) looks here like she’s about to pass out. Extreme Christian fundamentalism puts way too much in women unnecessarily.
@emilywalton4105
Жыл бұрын
Maybe she was nervous some people don't like cameras. This isn't christian fundamentalism it's bibical parenting. So many children are out of control even in christian homes.,
@istandwithgod2011
3 жыл бұрын
Can't say I agree with the spanking though I never have. Putting your kids in a cupboard and not allowing them to have their emotions is probably why the church has so many emotional issues. Correction bis needed but some of this I think is a little bit out dated, although the principles do still apply.
@tarawash3356
3 жыл бұрын
I feel like the point was is don’t let your emotions get control of control. Emotions are there and we recognize them, but we can’t let them control you. A person who lets their emotions get out of control is a miserable person, I’ve been there. Crying is good, but when your sobbing loudly for hours? That’s not good.
@apracity7672
2 жыл бұрын
Are you a Christian?
@bilbobaggins4403
3 жыл бұрын
You need to be quiet and cheerful. Right
@bilbobaggins4403
3 жыл бұрын
Ooooooo Elisabeth teach me about spanking. Lol
@bilbobaggins4403
3 жыл бұрын
We are robots 🤖 no one is ever angry and we speak perfectly at all times.
@deborah3912
3 жыл бұрын
It does seem unnatural...these people are perfect, except they can't be.
@bilbobaggins4403
3 жыл бұрын
@@deborah3912 🤣😃exactly
@deborah3912
3 жыл бұрын
@@bilbobaggins4403 Watch Valarie, The Legacy of Jim and Elizabeth Elliot on this same channel. Valarie is really honest about her life. She admits what she is truly like. I am impressed and thankful because she doesn't come off as robotic but as a real human that's a sinner.
@bilbobaggins4403
3 жыл бұрын
@@deborah3912 Interesting. You know Jesus never referred to us as sinners.....just lost.
@deborah3912
3 жыл бұрын
@@bilbobaggins4403 Well I for one know I have sinned greatly and have fallen short of the glory of God. I was once an occultist and drug addict and more. I struggle with my Christian walk and heritage but my God's grace I know I am forgiven.
@Adriana-vp1rm
3 жыл бұрын
Boys shouldn't clean. U can show them how to fold socks the right way and how to shake off, (outside or out of the window), their bed covers, and how to separate clothes, which should be shaken off dust and hair outside too, for washing. That is it. Men are to be doing things greater like fighting evil in society, not have their time waisted splitting housework. Is wife's job!
@elizahamilton2691
2 жыл бұрын
Um but if they never get married?
@jenreads5682
2 жыл бұрын
Or if his wife becomes ill or injured. He certainly can do somethings
@sakuraesther6309
2 жыл бұрын
I disagree .Nowadays boys are not working in the farms and they are just playing videogames .How is that setting them up for the world .Grow up .Men can help around too .It wont hurt and Women too are being hurt by society so ....
@aremedyproject9569
4 жыл бұрын
What gaslighting bs!!
@reneea.6727
3 жыл бұрын
Uhh
@user-ko2tu3ss3o
3 жыл бұрын
Erika, this is not gaslighting. This is parenting with love. Blessings to you and your health struggles.
@stephaniedegange2737
3 жыл бұрын
Remedy Project...I am glad I was not your daughter. Your attitude is very sad!
@jenreads5682
2 жыл бұрын
I would have thought the same thing 3 years ago. Then God gave me a new heart. I don't think an unregenerated heart would understand this parenting.
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