The pick me scene was necessary because it was the first time Meredith really admitted that she wanted to be with Derek.
@patty1247
Жыл бұрын
Yeah plus it wasn’t a true pick me girl situation. Pick me girls will side with misogyny or the patriarchy to make men like them. Meredith never did that, she was just asking Derek to give their relationship a real shot. It may have been cringey but it was honest.
@papatyalarim
Жыл бұрын
Yet stupid Derek picked his cheating wife over the girl she loved. Stupid.
@andreagolindano4420
Жыл бұрын
TOTALLY!! It makes me really sad that people who never watched/understood grey's anatomy do not get the true object behind this lines and this scene: Meredith allowing herself to be vulnerable and admitting her feeling for derek in order to allow herself to be happy (she was a person who always acted cold or like she didn't care). Expressing and embracing your feeling is also an act of courage.
@svvmaq_
Жыл бұрын
i feel like the whole of social media is just taking things out of context and reframing them into something else 🤷♀️
@mariahp.6993
Жыл бұрын
It was EVERYTHING!!! ❤
@jamescoleman6510
Жыл бұрын
Julia roberts in my best friend’s wedding is THE original “pick me” line.
@jordanbrock8199
Жыл бұрын
Haaa!!!! Yeah
@lexi219
Жыл бұрын
She was also an actual "pick me" girl, while Meredith wasn't. Julia Roberts' character was actively sabotaging another woman and her relationship while trying to be the fun, hot girl that steals her man.
@haleyadamic
Жыл бұрын
@@lexi219while looking down on the other girl for being too girly and not liking karaoke and such
@aliastar5616
Жыл бұрын
She said choose me not pick
@RoLee705
Жыл бұрын
@@aliastar5616same thing. It’s not worth nitpicking.
@TaniDeepavaliNawaz
Жыл бұрын
1 thing I appreciated about that scene was that she didn’t put down Derek’s wife Addison. She just asked to be picked. I’ve always interpreted “pick-me girl”-behaviour as more about “being better than other women” rather than just wanting to be picked by someone you are attracted to, regardless of what gender.
@kittycake713
11 ай бұрын
Yeah I liked it better when they were referred to as NLOGs (not like other girls) because it’s not about a girl being vulnerable about wanting to be accepted, it has more negative implications that the girl is actively putting down other women (consciously or not) to try to fit in with the guys out of a need for validation
@ghostbusterindisguise7623
11 ай бұрын
Yep. You got it. That’s what a pick me girl is.
@THEnicolelizabeth
11 ай бұрын
nail on the head
@msjeeperscreepers
11 ай бұрын
So true. I never felt comfortable with the current “pick me girl” meaning. Why is there no reference like this for a man if that’s the case? Valid point about the NLOG phrase being the original and better meaning.
@cynthiaholland13
11 ай бұрын
He had a wife and she's asking him to pick her??
@arosebyanyothername3012
Жыл бұрын
a pick me is when you bash other woman so men think youre cool and will "pick you" its when youre not being yourself and just trying to seem like a guys girl
@j69confessional
Жыл бұрын
Oldish millennial here! lol thank you for clarifying!!!
@Kaydeep94
Жыл бұрын
Perfectly said
@Prhmangel
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely! It's a girl that says, "I'm not like other girls, I can't hang out with girls I get along best with guys. I have all guy friends."
@Tumbledore84
Жыл бұрын
Ironically accusing someone of being a “pick me” is now the go-to slur used by women to bully and gaslight someone they’ve decided to ostracise from the group.
@libsybum3591
Жыл бұрын
Yeah like coming straight out and saying “pick me” actually isn’t very “pick me girl”. They try to hide that they want attention
@kyler8431
Жыл бұрын
The scene involved so much vulnerability and emotion for the character. It was great
@Urcinamongurl
11 ай бұрын
It was embarrassing
@krabiat
11 ай бұрын
@@Urcinamongurl That's the poiint, being vulnerable is embarrassing but you gotta
@jeremypan3709
Жыл бұрын
That scene was beautifully played and really is necessary to show Meredith's emotional state at that age. It's something that she'd never say or do later on as she grows into a mature and confident woman
@livgeneral6487
11 ай бұрын
She also was never vulnerable like that b4 and this was her opening up to Derrick to pick her. To give her the chance to be loved by him because for once she doesn't care how stupid it sounds she needs to show that she truly cared for him which shes never shown anyone that kind of openness before. It was a really powerful scene and yea as her character grew she probably wouldn't let her feelings have that much control over her again but it was a huge growth for her character to be able to show her love like that. Even tho people think ita cring i always saw it as so brave.
@s.e.e455
11 ай бұрын
Even if you do become a mature and confident woman, I think having a moment of vulnerability like this is fine, so long as you recognize your own self-worth and are able to accept if the other person does not reciprocate your feelings back. It takes a lot of courage to be open, knowing that ultimately, what you say may not change anything. That to me is maturity.
@RebeccaEvans
Жыл бұрын
"I'm not like the other girls" internalized misogyny pickme is VERY DIFF from assertively admitting YOU desire a man and ask him to pick you. Two diff things
@MrEvldreamr
11 ай бұрын
Nah. Pick me is to women what simp is to men. There is the actually definition of what they’re supposed to be and then there are morons who throw the word around callously at girls who are tomboys and boys who are sensitive or treat women with respect
@thomasstone3480
11 ай бұрын
yeah i thought pick me was analogous to an nlog lol i feel like neither ofthem really knows the usage
@cherryfighters
11 ай бұрын
@@MrEvldreamr it’s a mix of both, a pick me girl is a girl who wants to be picked so badly that she puts down other girls to look better. A girl who simps is just a simp
@udontevenwannaknowbruv
11 ай бұрын
Pick me is also the girl who’s desperate for male attention though
@RebeccaEvans
11 ай бұрын
@udontevenwannaknowbruv which is WHY everyone is differentiating the modern Pick-Me from what the scene was in that show. They are entirely different--which is the point of my above comment you seem to have missed
@swimfastky1207
Жыл бұрын
One time someone said “Izzie is such a pick me girl!” And I was like “Meredith literally said ‘pick me, choose me, love me.’ Lol”
@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701
11 ай бұрын
not "literally"
@TheBrandiElizabeth
11 ай бұрын
@@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701well yes literally
@maddieb.4282
8 ай бұрын
That’s not what a “pick me girl” is though. Just literally saying “pick me” doesn’t make you one. It’s a pattern of internalized misogyny and bashing other women to make yourself look better to men. So no….. Meredith was never a “pick me.”
@TheBrandiElizabeth
8 ай бұрын
@@maddieb.4282 never?? Girl rewatch some episodes because yeah she grew but oh yes she was
@akshaya6770
7 ай бұрын
Izzie was a pick me. Especially with Callie and George.
@ValentinaVaVaVoom
Жыл бұрын
That's actually really beautiful. I can totally understand why she was hesitant to do that speech reading it on paper. But I have to say, I still remember that speech and being so moved by it because she fought for what she wanted she let the person she loved know that she wanted them in her life. I think so many women get used to trying to figure out how to play the game and not seem desperate or too needy or clingy that some of us forgot how to fight for what we want in a passionate, genuine and humble way. She played that speech beautifully and who would have thought
@colewood3297
11 ай бұрын
As I guy, I'd be pretty touched if a girl gave me that speech, although I may be biased because I have a thing for Ellen Pompeo. But more girls should express their feelings to guys that way I think, they'ed probably be surprised by the results
@s.e.e455
11 ай бұрын
I agree! We expect men to be vulnerable with women, but when men expect US to be vulnerable, we interpret it as desperate or cringy. I think being a “pick-me-girl” is someone who just says thing to get on a guys good side and appear more likeable, it’s something that teen girls will do. This scene isn’t the same thing, IMO.
@sarahdoanpeace3623
Жыл бұрын
They look even better now and it’s so good to see them together again!
@misosoupbowl
Жыл бұрын
Fr queens!
@peachipressboutique9032
11 ай бұрын
@@misosoupbowlyes it is, I was shocked to see them doing this interview.
@matthewscott1091
4 ай бұрын
I get why Ellen Pompeo didn’t like the idea of that scene because she didn’t want to add to the idea of the “desperate woman” but that’s so not how that scene came across in the end. *It’s so vulnerable & real.* Because no matter your station in life, how much money you have, whether your male or female, gay or straight, at the end of the day we’re all just people who desperately want to love & be loved in return. I think that’s what comes across so well in Meredith’s classic “Pick me” scene. 😮
@user-ec3rm9wr1n
Ай бұрын
They do that hypocrisy 😂😂😂😂
@ClassicalCassie
3 ай бұрын
I loved that scene. It showed Meredith’s true feelings for Derek and vulnerability.❤
@arcadion448
11 күн бұрын
And then Derek chose Addison, never quite understood that choice. But must be a plot line.
@ClassicalCassie
11 күн бұрын
@@arcadion448 I think he did it out of duty and guilt. He wanted to stay committed to the marriage, but he fell in love with Meredith.
@pattyrech4471
3 ай бұрын
Every time I watch that scene I cry like a baby, so many emotions well up.
@juliamillikin118
Жыл бұрын
I’ll never forget this scene. I think I went through a whole box of tissues
@rachelk_10
Ай бұрын
i was crying so hard when derek said "well she's my wife", which is near this episode if i remember correctly, like i was sobbing my face off when he said that. LIKE DEREK WHYYYYYY
@RiverPond11
Жыл бұрын
Seeing it all click on Katherine's face 😂
@kristadawson9859
Жыл бұрын
I love Katherine's honest reaction!
@lb1798
3 ай бұрын
I didn't think Katherine was still close to any of the cast of GA. It's nice to see😊
@beckymarie4936
5 ай бұрын
This scene was Hugely pivotal for the show. love it! Best show ever!!
@LesleyCruz
Жыл бұрын
I spent too many years as a "pick me" girl, regrettably. I wished so hard for them to see i had value, that I was worthy. Pathetic really. I cant force anyone to feel something they never will.
@Sophie-nx7ii
11 ай бұрын
There is nothing pathetic about wanting to be picked.
@kaliced9588
11 ай бұрын
I’m sorry you went through that, but just to clarify, they’re using the term wrong lol A “pick-me” girl refers to the type of girl/woman who tears down other girls/women to try to make themselves look better to men. It’s not a kind natured or giving woman/girl who simply wants her love reciprocated :)
@KurosakiLuvar01
11 ай бұрын
They usually do come back around anyway. It’s always after you moved tf on and they know that shite. That’s why they swing back around to try their luck. Assholes 🙃
@oddphasing
11 ай бұрын
Honestly that scene didn’t feel like “pick me girl” energy. She was just being vulnerable and honest about her feelings towards Derek
@annipsy2185
Жыл бұрын
It was so sweet and vulnerable the way she said it
@NoFirstNoLastName
6 ай бұрын
Katherine when it hits her what it means cracked me up!
@ellalynntaylor
3 ай бұрын
haha fr
@rachelbutler790
Жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t say Meredith was “begging” in that scene. I’d say she was always a tough woman with walls up, and she finally let her guard down and showed vulnerability to the RIGHT person. Not just any person. It’s important to be vulnerable sometimes, but only with someone who can be trusted with that vulnerability. Not just anyone.
@happyluuv
5 ай бұрын
Amen!
@ThePrettiestDogs
Жыл бұрын
I miss them on Grey's!
@Lisa-co9ng
Ай бұрын
Merideth wasn't begging. She was being vulnerable for the first time in her life. And it helps cement the line when she says "You chose Addison. I'm all glued back together now. I make no apologies for how I chose to repair what you broke. You don't get to call me a whore"
@Ch-ch-ch-chia
4 ай бұрын
Lmfaoooo " I didn't know what that had meant because my daughter had said it to me"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@serenequeen8973
11 ай бұрын
I think a pick me girl is the type of woman who pretends to absolutely adore everything a guy suggests, even going as far as to change who she really is and even METAPHORICALLY throws other women under the bus to avoid the attention being diverted from her.
@whiskersonkittens2379
7 ай бұрын
Imagine having Meredith grey as your mom. What a legend to have Ellen as your mother. She seems like such a wonderful person on and off the show.
@genieinabottle2819
Ай бұрын
God they're beautiful!
@soumiam.5037
Жыл бұрын
That wasn’t embarrassing it was courageous!
@ABCDEFG12163
6 ай бұрын
Oh she was down bad in that scene 😭😂
@PalakPatelHada
Жыл бұрын
I start watching Greys and I stop living in my real world, that’s how I am attached to the show.
@missimtrying
4 ай бұрын
I rebuke this narrative. If she’s being labelled as a pick me, fine but she’s a pick me for herself. That monologue is just as much for Derek to know that she’s all in and it’s for herself too. Meredith has low self esteem due to her mother but in that moment she rises above it and is saying that she’s good enough to love and that her love is good enough to give to him. She was in love. If anyone is the pick me it might be Addie. Her intro scene is iconic but she looks down at Meredith and is like oh you’re the floozy screwing my husband when her husband is in Seattle after she’d been screwing his best friend. Anyways, I will always love that scene cuz it’s not about Derek, it’s Meredith realizing 1) she’s worthy of love and 2) she is ready to love.
@hannahdavis5679
Жыл бұрын
Two beautiful women they've become and have always been ❤
@sunfirefire45
11 ай бұрын
A pick me girl would never say 'pick me'. That scene showed that she was straightforward with her romantic feelings whereas pick me girls are not.
@murphymassey9058
11 ай бұрын
Miss Ellen just because your character literally said "pick me" it doesn't mean mean it was "pick me" girl behavior oh noo💀
@ellalynntaylor
3 ай бұрын
it was a trend on TikTok of that sound and now ppl think of that sound when referring to a pick me girl so yeah her character started the trend
@samevans1289
11 ай бұрын
That's not what a pick-me girl is tho. That's just someone being vulnerable and genuine about what they want and hope for.
@ElanaVital83
11 ай бұрын
It's evolved
@0802alexander
Жыл бұрын
Confesing love is never degrading or makes you less than.
@91toinfinity
Жыл бұрын
It depends on how you do it.
@0802alexander
Жыл бұрын
@91toinfinity it's sad that you think that
@91toinfinity
Жыл бұрын
@0802alexander no it's not. I've desperately confessed my desire for a man to stay and it turned him off. It is degrading when you choose to love someone before you choose to love yourself.
@91toinfinity
Жыл бұрын
@Givebackthescarf oh please. Most people don't even know what true love is. If you truly love someone, you let them go. The woman in the video clearly has an attachment. That's not love. Attachment is why people find it hard to let go when someone chooses to leave them. The video is about "pick me" women. My personal issue is very relevant because society teaches us to love selflessly while we lose ourselves in the process. So many women fall into this trap. It is not love. It is unhealthy codependent attachment.
@0802alexander
Жыл бұрын
@@91toinfinity about to delete my initial comment
@MetalShowgirl
11 ай бұрын
Who's going to tell them that the term "pick me" has been around for over 50 years (possibly 100) and originally had nothing to do with "girls" but rather a -certain- racial minority's disdain for other members of said racial minority who believed in doing whatever it took to become the racial majority's pet and be considered "one of the good ones"? Now, we refer to this behavior as "respectability politics" but back in the day, in talking to one another we referred to people who dumbed themselves down and did their best to turn people who didn't believe and behave in the same way for the comfort and appreciation of the racial majority into villains, "pick-me's." About 10 years ago I started to hear, same minority group, talk about the women who behave in a way that degrades or stereotypes other women of their minority group for the attentions of males of their minority group as "pick-me's". Of course, less than 5 years ago the zeitgeist of mainstream pop culture decided that it was time to subvert the meaning and purpose of the term and apply it to something completely different. Funny, words have a history before you even say them. Crazy, I know!
@GB-TX
11 ай бұрын
I need to know their entire skin care routines, and make up ASAP!!! Holy crap, they both look amazing. Bravo to their teams.
@SmartStart24
Жыл бұрын
I love knowing she fought the monologue lmao I feel you girl
@christinacanto3740
Жыл бұрын
The scene was brilliant. She is a woman on the cusp of a brilliant career and still what she wants more than anything is to be loved. It’s real…
@allibaba711
11 ай бұрын
The scene still gives me chills, so I stand by it. It's definitely embarrassing but in that situation it was beautiful and vulnerable
@necilya
11 ай бұрын
They didn’t even have to show the scene. I remember it as if I was there. 😂
@missi844
7 ай бұрын
It was done so well. The vulnerability. It's just a beautiful scene.
@leticiamanzano6339
9 ай бұрын
I don't consider that line as begging but rather bold to say it and not regret it.
@revinaque1342
Ай бұрын
That scene resonated with me so hard that I literally brought a video of it to a therapy session
@Gingerm0nster
11 ай бұрын
My favorite part of this is when you can see the gears turning in Katherine’s head and then she says “OH MY GOD IS THAT WHAT THAT MEANS?!” I cackled
@Knightowl1980
Ай бұрын
I understand actors expressing conflicting motivations for their character but the character was young of course she’d beg to be loved it have the character a starting point and a place to grow to: to her own detriment really.
@thePribs
Жыл бұрын
I miss these two amazing ladies on tv ❤❤
@moonstruck3454
3 ай бұрын
It hurts me that her daughter called her that and the moment she realized what it meant, Katherine Heigl couldn't help but cry.
@areefsaba
Ай бұрын
Pick me choose me love me…I cried during this scene😢
@ScorpionFlower95
11 ай бұрын
Someone please tell them that the term "pick me girl" isn't a positive one
@oneilljryan
Жыл бұрын
So great to see them together.
@HH-kg4fq
5 ай бұрын
Sooo iconic
@evolutionofwords
Жыл бұрын
I still don’t know what a pick me girl is. All these people keep changing the definitions. I don’t think they even know at this point.
@alwayscommentrarelyreply
Жыл бұрын
your comment and your username go together so perfectly
@rimun5235
Жыл бұрын
I thought a pick me was someone desperate for male validation, but the comment section is adding someone who degrades women which is confusing. I have definitely seen pick me girls who don't degrade other women, but will go above and beyond for male validation.
@Hi-vr3kd
11 ай бұрын
@@rimun5235i think its a combo referring to people who degrade other women or make fun of "girly things" for male validation. the ppl who seek male validation without doing this arent technically pick me girls theyre just a little desperate lol
@capriquarius9861
11 ай бұрын
@@rimun5235so desperate for male attention and validation they will do anything, including degrading other women... kinda ties it together maybe 🤔🤷♀️
@catandrobbyflores
11 ай бұрын
From what I can gather it's to try to get an unobtainable guy to pick them. Or use it to put down another woman who seems better than them. Example: any annoying side character in a romance show/novel/movie that tries to throw a monkey wrench into the two leads relationship.
@Sleipnirseight
11 ай бұрын
So the concept of a pickme originates - as so many colloquialisms and slang do - from AAVE (African American Vernacular English). From Jay Queen for _Medium:_ "The term “pick me“ was coined by Black women. It is an AAVE term that we direct at women who exhibit misogynistic behavior with the intention of getting the attention of men (at the expense of other women)." Important to understand the phrases and terms we use, to use them correctly, and to understand their cultural significance 😺
@yusefnegao
11 ай бұрын
You seem insecure when you have to state every term or slang you have created in the English language that comes from England no other group does that
@kiamaria331
11 ай бұрын
Perhaps because no other group is as influential and as imitated when it comes to pop culture and yet so discredited, disrespected, and dismissed. Chew on that.@@yusefnegao
@mandalynn185
11 ай бұрын
Oh yeah. Gotta use them correctly. God forbid we use slang in the wrong context. God might smite us all.
@rewdskwid
11 ай бұрын
Yall just invented everything now, huh?
@Aacccchhss
5 ай бұрын
Chandler Bing says the "pick me" line to Janice in season 3 of Friends!!! That was in 1996!!!
@takimush7135
Жыл бұрын
I loved the scene, there scenes in Grey’s Anatomy. that to this day still get me so emotional. Such good writers, creators, producers, directors, and especially the actors on the show the original cast will never be forgotten in my memory.
@soydolores6653
11 ай бұрын
Every time I see this video I cannot help but think that's not what the pick me girl concept involves
@theresea.k5749
10 күн бұрын
Ellen’s voice sound so different from the first couple of seasons
@acesang7017
Жыл бұрын
I can’t even tell ya how much I love grey’s! I have watched the series dozenS of times start to finish. I think the cast and Shonda Rhimes is boss AF. The real world issues being on the correct side of history and get tackled no matter what is what makes this series such an iconic gem! I’m in the middle of season 19 until I restart it again. ♥️♥️♥️
@Derek.Duquesne
10 ай бұрын
A pick me girl is someone who puts down other women to try and get men. Not someone with a crush. Just putting her feelings out there.
@neiya8862
11 ай бұрын
That scene was so romantic to me. Love doesn’t have any pride, it just is what it is.
@cjlouis04
11 ай бұрын
That is NOT the definition of a "pick me" - a pick me girl is a girl who makes fun of the "other" girls because she is "SOOOOOOOOO NOT LIKE THEM" - she's the "cool girl, who loves hanging out with guys because she relates to them so much more than those annoying girls" thus making the guys thing she's the girl they want to be with.
@MiaGraceMusicPH
14 күн бұрын
The Pick Me scene here wasn’t done in a demeaning way, so I think it’s an elevation of how most people see it. Maybe to some it could be a form of desperation, but in this context, it’s bravery. Then Mer wasn’t picked, and that’s more courageous because it was a sign that she fought at least. Pain is always an evidence of having loved something or someone.
@Clintsessentials
18 сағат бұрын
Agree
@alexiscarte5044
11 ай бұрын
They look so amazing. Older in a way that adds to their beauty
@jessih980
11 ай бұрын
the way she said at the end „cause my daughter has said that to me“😂
@savannahjones299
4 ай бұрын
There's nothing wrong with wanting to be picked. Everyone wants to be picked by someone they love. the problem is is when you want to put other women down to make yourself look better.
@user-fm8zv8if9k
11 ай бұрын
That’s not a pick me . A pick me is a yes girl . So someone who wears makeup till she hears her crush say they like natural girls . All of a sudden they bash girls for wearing make up . And are natural in his company .
@vviviianaaa_
5 ай бұрын
suddenly got flashbacks to the "pick me, chose me, love me." 😭😭
@shirenenadasen3257
Жыл бұрын
Awesome scene....shouldn't be embarrassing coz your were fighting for your love...❤ i was very emotional watching this scene
@jackiecasey8221
Жыл бұрын
It's nice to see these two ladies speaking so candidly and respectfully after everything that went down with Katherine.
@niaselah3348
11 ай бұрын
It's not what it means. The scene is completely different. She's not begging there. She's standing up for herself. She's letting him know she knows her value and what she deserves. Pick me girls is changing yourself to be approved by males
@littlelambinparadise
Жыл бұрын
I like that they were paired together. Don’t feel like they’d talk if they weren’t
@shirinsakhuja6309
10 ай бұрын
The thing is it changes the texture of intentions with how it's delivered like Ellen did and Julia did in Notting hill. This isn't a woman being desperate for a man but this is a woman asking the man she loves in front of her to chose her for all the right reasons because she is choosing to fight for both of them in that moment, not asking a man to just chose her out of choices but listen to his inner voice and choose their love because she knows from every fibre of her being they are meant to be together.
@jones2277
10 ай бұрын
you can't beg or shame someone into loving you.
@nb1393
Жыл бұрын
That’s not pick me, pick me’s are women who try so hard to be different from other women, bash other women in front of men. Or call herself ugly to be complimented. A pick me will never ask you to to pick her.
@corrinnesnyder
11 ай бұрын
they both look so beautiful here!!
@dianewinters8628
10 ай бұрын
Memorable
@avsha1533
11 ай бұрын
except the difference is nowdays being a “pick me girl” usually means you are putting others down, exaggerating, or trying to make yourself seem a certain way for others to appeal to you. merediths scene was so vulnerable and beautiful
@thecuntyone
11 ай бұрын
i stand by and defend meredith every time this comes up. MEREDITH WAS NOT A PICK ME. yes she literally said it, but meredith was always a girl's girl at heart. and i dont think a real pick me would ever straight up say it to the guy she'd be jokey and mean to him
@hateme2202
11 ай бұрын
That scene is SO relatable. Everyone just wants to be “picked”
@JasonRalicki
Жыл бұрын
Yep… love that scene!
@lgarza186
Жыл бұрын
The fact that her daughter is calling her a pick me is funny af
@RTCPhotoWork
11 ай бұрын
That's not what the "pick me girl" is, though. It's the label for the girl who is always like that with everyone. They're usually the "I'm not like all girls. I'm different" girl.
@klundyates1
11 ай бұрын
Pick me girls are the "I'm not like other girls" of the naughties
@RoyGBiv-lc8tv
Жыл бұрын
The term “pick me girl” is used differently in the online space. It refers to a woman who promotes the redpill ideology.
@Maximusworld-g1h
Жыл бұрын
Miss them together ❤️
@eveningstar8581
11 ай бұрын
Ellen is 53 with and her oldest is 14. Katherine is 44 and her oldest is 13. I'm 41 and my daughter is 23. Loads of girls I knew were parents at my age or earlier. I'm most definitely not saying go be teen parents but it's slowed down a lot. Which is a good thing.
@ShadowSonic2
9 ай бұрын
Wait, you had your kid at 18?
@shibear19
11 ай бұрын
I thought a pick me girl was a highschool thing. When a girl tries hard to act like the kind of girl that boys like. For example, trying hard to get attention, saying they’re not like other girls, etc. didn’t know it came from this!
@skylersreborns4397
5 ай бұрын
That part of greys is my alarm sound
@hallaja8338
4 ай бұрын
Ellen seems like a good person!
@Sophie-nx7ii
11 ай бұрын
I honestly do not see anything wrong with a girl being a pick me as far she's not largely degrading other girls. I mean, some girls prefer staying around boys, same thing with guys who prefer being around girls. It doesn't always mean they hate other girls, they might just really like male company. At one point in a woman's life, she'd have to actually admit that she needs a male presence in it. And to be honest, I'd rather be called a pick me, than be in a toxic female friendship. To my fellow pick mes out there, forming hard girl won't get you anywhere. If you want someone scream it with every air in your lungs, "PICK MEE!!" Everyone else should just stfu.
@PsychicRenegadeTarot
Жыл бұрын
I don’t like pick me’s, but sometimes you gotta fight for what you want. ❤
@Psychology_hub12
Жыл бұрын
then it's not a pick me girl
@chickennoodlesoup3301
11 ай бұрын
There should be no but. What is to like about a girl who craves MALE validation of all things.
@PsychicRenegadeTarot
11 ай бұрын
@@chickennoodlesoup3301 I said not a pick me hun. More like when pick me’a try to upgrade to home wrecker- defend your person from them. When I was young I hated competition in love & would walk n let them have them. Then I realized ppl are vile and will take everything from you if you let them. Fk that- fight for what’s yours. 🔥🖤
@mourningst5r
11 ай бұрын
There's desperate (unhealthy), then there's healthy energy you put into smth you want.
@sheilan6959
Жыл бұрын
No Ellen, that's not a pick me girl. A pick me girl is someone who will do anything to be liked by a guy, mostly like putting others down or do things to get guys attention. It's not a girl that actually says pick me.
@wildcraft8143
11 ай бұрын
This scene is everything 🖤🫶🏻🥺
@sleepymeimei
11 ай бұрын
Yeah actually telling someone to pick you isn’t being a pick me. It’s when women try to be one of the guys and bully any girl that might come into the group and steal the attention away from her. Also they “hate” being girly and doing girly things because they’re “not like other girls”
@ezre
11 ай бұрын
This scene will always make me cry
@mimir1885
10 ай бұрын
I dont think that's the actual reason for it but I like it
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