Amen! I’m recently divorced after 31 years of narcissistic abuse, and I’m really enjoying my singlehood! I’d rather be single for the rest of my life than ever again be with someone who’s abusive and doesn’t cherish me. 💗💗💗
@brightlights9615
5 жыл бұрын
Pixie , Yes!!!
@rosaliesullivan4367
5 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!🤗❤🎉🙌 I finally got divorce from my abusive narcissistic husband after 28 years of marriage! I'm proud of you for your strength & courage to do so! I know all too well how difficult it was to finally leave! My divorce took almost 2 years to be finalized. He was allowed by the court & lawyers 9 months & 10 days to turn in his financial packet. It's wonderful not to deal with his bullshit on a daily basis.
@tinawalter8863
5 жыл бұрын
I divorced my husband after 35 year marriage. I love my peaceful life now. Learning to love myself again. He had me really messed up. I'm getting better every day. I'm now planning to move back to my family 3 states away. I'm excited about finally being able to be around them. He never allowed me to talk or visit them. I finally got my power back. He took it all from me in the divorce, but I have my mind and health back, much more valuable to me.
@rosaliesullivan4367
5 жыл бұрын
@@tinawalter8863 Congratulations on your new freedom!🤗❤ Proud of you! I'm working on my self love & inner confidence so I don't get into another relationship with an abusive narcissist !
@SA-wg5oo
5 жыл бұрын
I went through abuse too by a narcissist for 5 years it is so peaceful now. Being single is awesome.so peaceful 😍
@tonyathomas3158
5 жыл бұрын
The single life is a peaceful life. Enjoying loving me and it feels so darn good 😍😍Went on a nine hour shopping spree with my very close friends and it was amazing. Happy ❤❤❤❤'s Day to me 💋💋
@covergirl7086
5 жыл бұрын
Tonya Thomas that sounds pretty cool. ❤️
@jeffmcilroy7081
5 жыл бұрын
I went to my local bar to have a pint on Valentine’s Day.. the waitress who I’ve seen many times gave me a look of sadness that she felt bad for me.. I didn’t go because I was drowning my sorrows, I went to celebrate my contentment in being alone in a world full of people who are stuck in relationships they don’t want to be in.
@jeffmcilroy7081
5 жыл бұрын
I’ve been single for 10 years now.. I love it.. now that my kids are older there’s nobody to rob me of my time and energy.. I don’t get lonely , I get bored sometimes so I head out to the gym or go for a drive, whatever I want. Thanks so much for all you videos.. I’m a middle aged man who wishes I’d learned this stuff a long time ago, I’ve always been taught that being selfish was a bad thing but it’s not at all..your advice is very helpful in getting me to start enjoying my life again👍
@oceanenriqueplariza7393
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience Jeff! What else would you share for a young man half your age that you wished you learned many moons ago? Asking for myself and for a friend? haha
@nivsm7472
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, I m a lady but going to be in a similar situation very soon....I was apprehensive about life...felt good hearing Stefanie and very comfortable reading your message
@amayaraymond4486
5 жыл бұрын
Yay for the singles 🙌🏾😘
@StephanieLynCoaching
5 жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes!! 🙌💗
@sunnydaze80
5 жыл бұрын
I'm going to spoil myself. Spa day and relaxation.
@StephanieLynCoaching
5 жыл бұрын
Sounds amazing!! 💗
@teresagomez2109
2 жыл бұрын
I'm 56 and single for 6 yrs. Sometimes I'm ok with it. Other times I get sad.
@unleashingpotential-psycho9433
5 жыл бұрын
Keeping a positive energy is very important when you were single. 🔥
@StephanieLynCoaching
5 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@esmeraldamontenegro2969
5 жыл бұрын
For me it is a regular day. I will either go to movies or just go to a furniture shop and see how I can redecorate my house :-)
@beckyvegalifecoach2481
5 жыл бұрын
So For this Valentines day I got my nails done I am taking GG cupcakes to my coworkers and celebrating Valentine’s Day as a friendship day
@StephanieLynCoaching
5 жыл бұрын
Amazing idea!! I love it!
@covergirl7086
5 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Vega ❤️
@SalenaBoBena
5 жыл бұрын
Great idea! Love it!
@aida_amore
5 жыл бұрын
I've been single for 2 years. Took time to work on myself, but I'm over this. 😭 Being single sucks....plain and simple!
@beepowers444
5 жыл бұрын
My separation was a week ago. This Valentine's Day I'm going to focus on me, I will treat myself well :)
@StephanieLynCoaching
5 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!!!! 💗
@calebkeegan3023
3 жыл бұрын
@@StephanieLynCoaching Ty Steph u have helped me thru a very rough time still goin thru it ty so much
@emave8694
4 жыл бұрын
I started to go places and do things I love alone. Hikes, travel, music events, festivals... Not depending on others in this is so librerating. And a great time for your inner thoughts, learning about yourself and meeting new interesting people. Yes, it gets lonely sometimes but the feeling of freedom is addictive. 🙂
@giuseppemilano2173
5 жыл бұрын
Well I realized I became kind of picky now I'm just being very careful cuz I don't want to go through the same experience that I did for 20 years I maybe it's wrong I don't know but I'm just like you said it's all about myself right now then I'll take it from there thank you Stephanie
@Thevortexway
5 жыл бұрын
I LOOOOOVEEEEE YOUUUU 🤗🤗💕 Seriously, I’m not single 💁🏼♀️ but you saved me from a narcisistic relationship I had with a family member. So thanks for that ✨
@StephanieLynCoaching
5 жыл бұрын
Love it! 👏
@maliayah8630
5 жыл бұрын
This Valentine's Day l will dance and have fun . I am self care this year . And also do you and your worth and your power come within yourself. 😚🤗😍 Happy Valentine's Day
@andidontcarelol
5 жыл бұрын
Yesss woman!! I really like someone at the moment, but I do wanna be single for a while. I want to know I’m ok on my own. I want to build my confidence and just fully love me. Because my last relationship was a mess. I had a child with him but he turned out to be a controlling narcissist that I completely lost myself and who I really am and want to be.
@calebkeegan3023
3 жыл бұрын
me too i hear u
@jamesegan9420
5 жыл бұрын
This is yet another amazing video, Stephanie Lyn is such an awesome value to the world of humans with all our mistakes. This video will immediately lift your spirits! She describes the great value of being single to work on yourself, maybe start a hobby, start a career, set habits. If you want to invest in coaching yourself as suggested, Lyn herself has a really good program of coaching in phone sessions, really valuable. Lyn is such a leader on this subject! Enjoy being single, enjoy dates, moments! True happiness is living in the moment!
@popples9644
5 жыл бұрын
You always make me feel so good! I was feeling a bit annoyed about Valentine's day, but now, I am appreciative of where I am right now because I'm working on myself.
@StephanieLynCoaching
5 жыл бұрын
😉❤️
@rodfrancis9160
2 жыл бұрын
I always have an Anti-Valentines day....
@qhammond1
5 жыл бұрын
She's right I'm about living your best life. If any of you ladies are interested, guys keep in tough with the fun happy girl. I've never not called that girl back because she gave it up too soon or she wasn't on my same page about something else in life. That really fun, positive, living her best life girl is irresistible if there is otherwise a mutual chemistry. That's me being positive. Happy Valentines Day to you all.
@bonkahermitakaintjudge9228
5 жыл бұрын
Important subject matter as there aren’t many people addressing the subject as well as reinforcing and validating those who want to be careful about starting a new relationship. Good stuff
@MariaJimenez-ye9sn
5 жыл бұрын
Wonderful speech. You are absolutely right!!! It's me, me and me time. And the funny thing is wherever you go or whatever you do, you think you are alone. And how wrong we are. There is always somebody else who is single too and you can end up having a great time and may be making a new friend a long the way.....
@nopcshere6097
5 жыл бұрын
I'm a man who has escaped a marriage to a narc wife and in-laws. Divorce is pending and I am slowly re-entering the dating scene & meeting women again, after a year of separation and rebuilding my life through re-learning some favorite sports & traveling, which continues now. Valentine's has left me depressed before, but after a year away from dating/relationships I am happy to start meeting women again. Thank you Stephanie for this video...it will help!
@Amandaandglenn2023
5 жыл бұрын
In the same boat mate. I'm worried that I won't let myself love again. Can't go through this again.
@nopcshere6097
5 жыл бұрын
@@Amandaandglenn2023 Glad you got out dude. I have met a wonderful woman so don't doubt yourself. You can do this too. There ARE good women out there.
@priscillapage61
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for a much needed positive spin on what will be my first Valentines alone in 19 years. This and your other videos have been such a source of help and comfort during the last couple of months.
@sharyalonzo7693
5 жыл бұрын
Love this message! Thank you! Happy Valentine's day everyone! Love yourself 1st! ❤️
@RedKevin02
2 жыл бұрын
So true video. This video speaks for me totally. It was the things I have been telling myself. I hope single men and women really listen to this. Thank you
@ap6252004
5 жыл бұрын
LMAO "OMG does he have a weird toe..." It's 11pm, my kids are asleep, and I'm laughing my ass off. Soooo needed that lol
@dianaboughner7977
5 жыл бұрын
👍💖Thank you Stephanie. Happy Valentine's Day to me, and you 💕💕
@huggingkarma
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this message. I’m going through hell right now❤️
@tatltael7258
5 жыл бұрын
I've been there too. You're not alone and you won't be there forever ❤
@StephanieLynCoaching
5 жыл бұрын
Couldn’t agree more with Cara.. “this too shall pass”
@amala1874
5 жыл бұрын
Sending love & light🌷🌷
@nopcshere6097
5 жыл бұрын
Have been there too, and escaped it. This too shall pass. You will one day be free of that hell.
@GK-jq7nc
5 жыл бұрын
Just be strong and stay healthy 💪better days are coming 🤗
@80808O
5 жыл бұрын
I have divorce mediation this valentines day :( . So horribly ironic. And it will probably be nothing but a waste of time, money and mental energy. I will try to do something for myself this weekend, though :)
@FlyWon
5 жыл бұрын
Almost 5 years single post narc. I have grown SOOOO MUCH! And accomplished and maintained many goals. Thanks fir this video Stephanie💕
@StephanieLynCoaching
5 жыл бұрын
You’re amazing 💗
@jondough679
5 жыл бұрын
Lets have some consideration for the new source on valentines day with the ex narc. Lmfao. Staying single for this valentines :) narc free. Yay!
@shellianne9615
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Stephanie! I’m still a work in progress but I can honestly say it’s taking me half my life to embrace self-love. Not in a selfish narcissistic way, but to make goals, be self-determined, change my thinking (from ruminating neg thoughts) and appreciate what and who I do have in my life. Happy Valentines Day!❤️
@AndreChaser
5 жыл бұрын
I love your videos! Thank you, Stephanie!
@wellingtonsboots2930
5 жыл бұрын
Coming from an abusive marriage Valentine's day is hard. I wish I had seen this video yesterday. But for next year's Valentine's if I am still alone it is totally doing me time!
@dawnturner7055
5 жыл бұрын
You really give us all the best advice!...❤
@divinedefiance7069
5 жыл бұрын
Brilliant! Thanks to you I vow to do something special for me this Thurs 😉 💚
@bksusmc
5 жыл бұрын
Preach! Yes, so excited with my new life.
@edwinasword8285
2 жыл бұрын
Yes newly singleness. Enjoying the peaceful and spending time with me. Allow me to do things I like to do. Am good to go and waiting on my other better half.
@jenniferboyce4305
5 жыл бұрын
Taking my daughter on a mommy-daughter date 😊 She’ll probably want Taco Bell, but that’s okay.
@covergirl7086
5 жыл бұрын
Jennifer Boyce ❤️
@brightlights9615
5 жыл бұрын
Taco Bell sound good!
@themacocko6311
3 жыл бұрын
@@brightlights9615 ...if you like cancer.
@makeupdarling6171
5 жыл бұрын
Hi, Stephanie! I wholeheartedly agree with you. It’s important to take time for oneself, especially after a breakup or a divorce. I’ve been watching several of your videos and I truly appreciate your advice and helpful content. Thanks for all you do! ☺️
@StephanieLynCoaching
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support!
@Wendywolf8
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I did exactly that, went out with a friend for a walk in the sunshine, picknick and dinner at her house. It was a really lovely day 😍
@ShawnySharesHair
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!!!😊😊😊😊❤❤❤ I needed this
@overdnet
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much! Wonderful advice. ❤
@leefroml.a.8679
5 жыл бұрын
Always healthy advice, positive vibe, and helpful guidance!!
@Sam-pl3yd
5 ай бұрын
Yes Stephanie 💕I have learned to follow in my own footsteps and it’s my time to live laugh love ❤️ me set goals and with no fear ❤️
@teresagomez2109
2 жыл бұрын
I listened to your video yesterday. This morning, I got dressed cute. I went to the car wash and it was 50% off any wash. I went to get pizza. A guy opened the door for me. I was singing along to Jennifer Hudson, Spotlight. I love myself.💗💗💗
@nuradam916
5 жыл бұрын
Love love love thisss!!! Thank you Stephanie for sharing such beautiful and empoweringg messages ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@daleblack3229
3 жыл бұрын
I just ended a 20 year marriage full of abuse and emotional neglect and yeah I got Christmas presents from her I got birthday present I got a Valentine's Day whatever but it didn't mean anything because she didn't love me and didn't value me so I get what you're saying. At the age of 25 I got married to my first wife three kids 11 year marriage ended had a six-year break with a girlfriend and got married to a different girl for 20 years with a stepdaughter and one child so basically for the last 31 years I've been raising wives and kids and now after my youth has been spent I'm trying to figure out who the heck I am
@Lily-hu5oy
5 жыл бұрын
Always so much healing to listen to you. Thank you so much 😍
@gabbiefulton8604
5 жыл бұрын
I am going to do a yoga workout / mediation session, next do massages on my neck and shoulder then I am going to do a home spa day with candles lit up, eat my favorite foods and really enjoy eating and I am going to watch all of my favorite romance movies and then recite positive quotes to myself.
@StephanieLynCoaching
5 жыл бұрын
Um that sounds amazing!!
@cheenee61
5 жыл бұрын
You are helping me so much right now ... thank you for these videos.. you have a big heart!!!
@saschaspring2198
5 жыл бұрын
You are beyond fabulous.....thank you for this; your words are the wind beneath my wings ♡.
@thomascoulston1431
3 жыл бұрын
Valentine’s Day? Smile and be happy. Maybe do song 125. I’ll try not to sound like you too much but it maybe too late.
@DL-vibes
3 жыл бұрын
I am new to your channel and have been binge listening all morning. These are such great perspectives and I am so grateful to take away from each video. I felt stuck and listening has helped me.
@katelynnawisitt
3 жыл бұрын
Being single for 3 years, I'm looking for advice as people who have been in their alone time for a while! Love your channel!
@jbui3344
5 жыл бұрын
I cannot stop hitting the like button! Thank you very much! This video gives me a new valuable insight. I’m gonna start changing my thoughts and take control of my life.
@NKRAIEM
Жыл бұрын
Youre amazing! Thank you!
@marina_remember7117
2 жыл бұрын
Nice video!! Did all the steps, then met my boyfriend, was being picky but he seemed amazing.. 4-5 months down the road he started some abusive behavior.. then I was "stuck" with him for more than a year and now I have to start over.. Whats frightening to me now is to have the same experience, have my best single life and then meet a covert narcissist (that I dont notice to be one at first) and then everything s fucked..
@Zanzabar5
5 жыл бұрын
Stephanie you are an angel sent from heaven.
@sheen0212
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Stephanie, you are awesome!!
@adifoodies2871
5 жыл бұрын
Really good advice. Thanks.
@Lpetq
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support.
@minshweyi6468
3 жыл бұрын
I just watched 3 of your videos. Wow. They are all helpful and awesome! Thanks a lot! This one is also supportive and enjoyable, especially for a fresh single in 2021! Keep up the great work. Wish you be more healthy and happier in 2021! Cheers!🥂
@go-goakins1489
5 жыл бұрын
Happy Valentine's Day Stephanie lyn! Your utubes rock👍🌹
@estherkuria1507
5 жыл бұрын
single and proud
@jaimiemainberger5039
Жыл бұрын
Wow wow ! Thank you this was a great video!
@creator2149
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much. I have some things I can do to go out and grab some joy. Some weight has been lifted. It means a lot to me.
@karisajohnson081
5 жыл бұрын
This video is EVERYTHING! I’m recently single and I was already thinking about what am I going to do for Sweetest Day which is in October here in Michigan. Thanks to your video I’m going to be so darn selfish! Hello Singleness
@user-er9bc1kb3c
7 ай бұрын
Your very clever I love your explanation!❤❤❤❤❤
@9488amy
Жыл бұрын
I wish I could afford a sesh! I love what you say!
@nelizajoey26
2 жыл бұрын
thank you very much for all the tips. I learned alot.
@user-er9bc1kb3c
7 ай бұрын
I love your education ❤❤❤
@blessedblessed7009
5 жыл бұрын
My daughter wanted to be my Valentine's 💖 so we going to have an awesome day together imma make her spaghetti just enjoy each other company count our blessings
@covergirl7086
5 жыл бұрын
Blessed Blessed ❤️
@gabbiefulton8604
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for creating this wonderful video and giving me some tools to use
@malaanand7229
5 жыл бұрын
Such an inspirational advice... Love you.
@lanavoliladygagu
2 жыл бұрын
You're genious!!!! Thank you
@Godlywoman88
5 жыл бұрын
I'm okay so far today, however, Valentine's hasn't always been easy for me not just because I'm single but it just seems like a reminder to every relationship that didn't work and every heartbreak. I will go to ans ok niles event after therapy tonight. Not so that I can get a man, but just so that I can be social and not moping around the house. I also bought myself some chocolate covered strawberries and will hopefully get to pamper myself over the weekend. The romance part of my life has been very hard along with working on childhood traumas, but I look forward to more alone time. I want to travel more, get my health in order (mentally, physically, emotionally), move in a few months, and just start over.
@Nadiahope7
5 жыл бұрын
Yes! I have got to a place now relationships are more of a risk than being single because I'm so happy single. I'm healthy, developing myself career wise & have great friends & family so either someone amazing shows up or I'm good.
@philliphaylor1590
3 жыл бұрын
You are amazing 💕
@sylviakivuva8365
4 жыл бұрын
This video is really helpful for sure
@bababibi7546
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@momentsofserenity234
4 жыл бұрын
Awesome video !
@sunshinedayz7032
5 жыл бұрын
I wish I had been single! Lol My ex narc (I broke up with him a month ago) came over, we had dinner. He was angry with everyone in his life and vented on and on about it. I was nervous the whole time. (knowing that the anger was going to get turned on me at any second) Sure enough as soon as the last chocolate covered strawberry was eaten, I got verbally attacked with hatred and anger. I refuted his attack and remarks. He stormed out of my house and ignored me for 5 days. I was NOT going to contact him. I was done if he did not come forward. He did contact me, finally. No apology for his behavior, only for walking out. I should have ended it then. (Or many other times before that!!) At least I am free now. Next Valentine's day I will buy myself pink roses! 🌹🌹🌹
@thomaspeterson5693
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. You get more beautiful every day. I can't wait until tomorrow.
@nivsm7472
3 жыл бұрын
Super likes...thanks a ton my dear Stephanie
@audioeins
Ай бұрын
no one owns me, and i do what i want :)
@chennis134
2 ай бұрын
I'm a 31 year old guy who's never been in a romantic relationship. I'm going to start therapy within the next week or so. I want to be happy being single, and not fear possibly being alone for the rest of my life
@savannahaucoin2423
4 жыл бұрын
Great advice !! Me and one of my friends are going to hang out at her house and cook and make drinks ! ❤️ Good friends are the best !!
@lisar5349
5 жыл бұрын
I can't help but like every video!! ❤❤
@speedsterspeedy2146
5 жыл бұрын
Coach, Great direction and inspiration. Motivated- thanks
@revolutionismyname8226
5 жыл бұрын
if I met you tomorrow, I'd never want to be single again. You're intriguing. But I'm healing right now, so I'm not healthy at this point in my life. Happy Valentine's day though! 😁
@SF-pm1ov
5 жыл бұрын
Epic advice! And timely! Just what I needed, thanks!
@MissDetox
5 жыл бұрын
Please upload your therapy sessions on Podcast. I would love to hear your shows on the go..😁
@mirtarifenburg9621
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@covergirl7086
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Stephanie.. I loved it❤️
@lenaleong4894
3 жыл бұрын
Thank u much appreciated
@sandraknapska5138
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video
@jonathanvermillion7263
5 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️well said
@jordonwest8294
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you sooo much, Stephanie, for all of your great insight and coaching. I was moving on, after a horrible marriage... and about to sign divorce papers...then found out my soon to be ex has cancer, and wants my support. I have my own place, and our finances our seperate, no kids..and was so enjoying getting my life back...but I really feel pulled..like I should help him through the chemo, etc. Do you have any suggestions on how I should handle this situation?
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