First OP is literally so infuriating to listen to. She's was so delusional about her friend's and her part in the breakup. Her Ex dodged a bullet. Yikes!
@vanzy01
6 ай бұрын
💯👍🏿
@hhMexicanJoker
6 ай бұрын
I hate the gf that sides with an alcoholic over her bf....she's trash
@Only1199
6 ай бұрын
I remember st1 The fact that she refuses to count the amount of times she’s cancelled on both of them for the other person and says it was probably only a couple of times regarding cancelling on her bf leads us to believe it was more than just a couple of times likely a lot of times and she’s just saying things to deflect.
@vincentcleaver1925
6 ай бұрын
GF effed up. This was not the time to drop everything. Insensitive?! Priorities, and BF was not, clearly
@jonathanj8303
6 ай бұрын
I give it 3 months before the friend makes a play. Or at least sabotages every relationship OP has for the rest of her life. The timing of the fight between the Ex and the alcoholic was entirely intentional and it's purpose was to cause the breakup.
@dead_vibes
6 ай бұрын
You know he's gonna relapse when she finds a new guy.
@LunaP1
6 ай бұрын
Someone predicted "I give it a week that the bf breaks up with OP" and totally called it!😂
@hendrikworung1967
6 ай бұрын
It's funny when op said in the 1st story "of course I dont blame ex BF", and then said "but, (insert more blame)" Just date the friend already, and suffer.
@Maninawig
6 ай бұрын
Story 1: "Hey guy, I ditched my boyfriend to have a secret rendezvous with another man, AITA? .... Why are people calling me a bad girlfriend just because I won't leave the other guy?" Edit: the fact the friend threw jabs at the bf siggests he was expecting OP to give him a pity fck on her anniversary... yet she acts oblivious.
@behiyepalo2985
6 ай бұрын
maybe she actually did... f me or I will drink...
@dead_vibes
6 ай бұрын
Bro, Op 1 is so dumb.
@mandeemorris2835
6 ай бұрын
1st story . They are codependent . The alcoholic leech provides this chick with her desire to be needed and she is his future doormat gf . She asks ...where is the disrespect to my boyfriend?..... then she updates with the answer where yet again she prioritises her "friend"....seriously op is wilfully clueless.and i mean wilfully.
@JustinMcBride21x
6 ай бұрын
First story: the timing of that “emergency” was too perfect for it to be a coincidence. He had to have known it was her anniversary and pulled her away from her plans with her BF on purpose to break them up, and she’s naive enough to have fallen for it. Sounds like her BF dodged a bullet, and if she keeps entertaining this “friend” like this in the future, she’s gonna wonder why her relationships keep ending.
@godking
6 ай бұрын
Story 1 the friend is an orbiter and OP is naive. He is not a "friend"
@lindah3803
6 ай бұрын
Story 2: 1st off, OP needs to stop telling her family about her financial situation. It's none of their business. Anyone telling her to pony up, just keep telling them to pony up themselves.
@kamizakip9925
6 ай бұрын
Story 2 Oh man as an SMT fan, those damaged games were pretty much vintage right now. Heartbreaking
@scepticalhyenas5750
6 ай бұрын
That first story is wild. Every comment was like *Everyone on Reddit:* _"Hey so maybe the treatment of his alcoholism is something you should not go inserting yourself into and making yourself responsible for."_ And op is like *OP:* _"okay so yeah i apologized and took full responsibility for my actions. hmm. okay I agree. I'll set and stick to boundaries and stuff, I've just never had someone i care about deal with alcohol issues and i was a little naive. I'll leave his treatment to the professionals"_ ... *OP:* _"SO ANYWAY lol I spoke to my friend on the phone this morning, and even though he was very defensive, he agreed to meet with me to talk about the next steps for him finally getting help♡♡♡"_
@vanzy01
6 ай бұрын
😂
@Ravigyne
6 ай бұрын
Any man that prioritizes ANYONE over their SO, and any woman that prioritizes ANYONE over their SO doesn't deserve an SO. Plain and simple. The ONLY valid excuse is emergencies with FAMILY. Not boozer friends. OP was enormously disrespectful to her boyfriend and their relationship, especially since it occurred on their 1 year anniversary. For me there would have been no ultimatums or second chances, especially after finding out why. The door is that way, get your shit and get out, and don't let it hit you where the good lord split you.
@Maninawig
6 ай бұрын
Dunno why you had to break down the genders to repeat yourself, but I agree. I was susdl a few times myself and even then, I would never call a friend over on their anniversary. The friend showed jealousy, and by going, OP told him he had a shot. He measured dcks with her boyfriend and the fact he wasn't dropped confirmed she judged him the winner. Yet this only worked cause she didn't prioritize her BF over a friend.
@Ravigyne
6 ай бұрын
@@Maninawig I did so because some people need the distinction. I would rather catch some shade for distinction and repetition than some of the other forms of shade that can be thrown out of either ignorance or willful stupidity and refusal to understand the broad strokes of some statements.
@Maninawig
6 ай бұрын
@@Ravigyne understandable.
@Îmńøtgłîtćhėd
6 ай бұрын
*“Don’t Let It Hit You Where The Good Lord Split You”* THATS A New One! 😅
@Ravigyne
6 ай бұрын
@@Îmńøtgłîtćhėd It was something my grandfather used to say and has come in handy a few times.
@John.Philip.Tan876
5 ай бұрын
1st OP was infuriating. Reading her story made me realize that even her subconscious was suspecious of the "friend" Glad the internet, her brother and her inner voice got through to her though even though it was waaay too late.
@DarthP1kachu
5 ай бұрын
1st op.. is not only codependent with her "friend" she also have quite the "i can fix him" complex
@josephwilliams2406
6 ай бұрын
OP 1 is so dumb, people tell him to cut this idiot off. She instead decides to get more involved and find him help, how can she be so dumb. Might as well go out with this friend of hers at this point
@vzzx8102
6 ай бұрын
story 1: her friend provoked her bf and she choose him. thats just crazy
@hashakahwantstorepent.4176
6 ай бұрын
The bf dodged a bullet .
@ronnieferguson9337
6 ай бұрын
That ole “they’re family” line, really grinds my gears! Family DOES for each other, PERIOD! It doesn’t matter whether she would’ve paid OP the money back or not! OP doesn’t OWE anyone in their family anything, based on the fact that they’re family!
@jacearmor5274
6 ай бұрын
S1: YTA. It's too bad OP realized the truth too late. S2: NTA. No one else is obligated to pay for your aunt's college except herself. Help is given freely not demanded.
@pearbear6418
5 ай бұрын
Story 1: "I'm not blaming my ex and I take full responsibility, but he's the one who issued the ultimatum." So you're blaming him? "He didn't give me a chance to show growth or change" The kind of change he wanted was for you to cut off the toxic alcoholic and you refused, so no he didn't need to "give you time" for something you weren't going to do.
@cnvdh3514
6 ай бұрын
Followed story 1 on reddit from beginning to end OP is delusional AF about her relationship with the alcoholic, found it hard to believe she wasnt screwing the dude behind her bf's back. Even her brother called out for treating her bf like trash.
@arjundhaliwal8853
6 ай бұрын
First story: girl gonna end up with a lot of cats when she’s older lmao what a disgusting gf
@CG-yb6zj
6 ай бұрын
That is a disrespect to the hypothetical cats, as she'd likely find some excuse to not care for them and cancel important vet visits to take her friend to other events
@LunaP1
6 ай бұрын
I'd feel bad for the cats.
@uwetheiss970
5 ай бұрын
"The emergency message had not much detail". Yeah, but even without much details the first OP ditched her BF in an instant. She is so deep in delululand.
@ianblack3634
6 ай бұрын
The bf in the first story dodged a fkin bullet,she obviously has a thing about her friend,she wants to "fix" him and would always prioritise and make excuses for him.Too bad they broke up though,after some years,there would probably be another reddit post from the bf this time,about his wife cheating with her alcocholic friend,maybe a child that's not his too...
@josephahrens862
6 ай бұрын
Bro respect on this dudes gaming collection
@calebtsai3015
6 ай бұрын
Op from story 1 should just cut ties with every man on earth and get with her "best friend". "i cant cut ties with him" says a lot when your future partner is on the line here. Terrible. They deserve each other. Hopefully nobody will be hurt by either one of them again
@dontaejones7419
6 ай бұрын
4:47 "What I will say is that the emergency message I got from my friend at the time didn't have much detail, so I didn't know how serious it was." But she was willing to drop everything over it, tho.
@tigrexkiller1548
6 ай бұрын
Story 1 kinda shows why i disslike AITA. As an example: 1) i torture puppies and kittens in my spare time. AITA? OR 2) My family treats me like a slave and i said i dont like it. AITA? Its like people cant see if they are being mistreated/ mistreat others
@haydenknight3700
5 ай бұрын
Former alcoholic here. Now if that person was in recovery I would understand, but that guy wasn’t. He was/is a current user. You going over there just tells him he’s more important and he can use that card all the time. Then you again don’t stand up for your boyfriend and by not standing up for your boyfriend you are really showing everyone how important the drunk is and how much you don’t care about your boyfriend, they aren’t or shouldn’t be equals.
@RedneckSwede
6 ай бұрын
If you prioritize a friend over your relationship. Yeah, no. You don't deserve a relationship.
@a_paradoxfunction4156
5 ай бұрын
OP-2, your aunt is not your child, and you are not responsible for ensuring her future or providing for her. There are options for her to complete her education, from loans, saving her money. The fact that she doesn’t want to choose those options says a lot about her commitment.
@jackiecarter3268
5 ай бұрын
Story 2: Go on a trip you've saved for...and help your aunt with any left-over funds. You souldn't have relayed the information to her given by your dad and uncle.
@DisappointedButNotSurprised
6 ай бұрын
She knows she's taking the piss & keeps coming up with excuses to keep that jerk in her life. She really seems to think she can change him and that she did nothing wrong. This won't be the last relationship she sabotages for someone who wraps her around their finger and refuses to get help. "But...but we have the same friendship circle!" Bla, bla, bla.
@Gilhelmi
3 ай бұрын
The EA story: Those games are thousands of US dollars. But if the OP has to import them..... it could easily be over 10k. (I don't completely understand how import tax and international shipping works, but I assume that it is expensive.)
@jackiecarter3268
5 ай бұрын
Story 1: You threw the relationship away.
@heyyitsjanea
6 ай бұрын
so yes. it could’ve waited another day.
@ZedBeiFeng
6 ай бұрын
She showed him her priorities if that were me I’d break up with her.
@ZedBeiFeng
6 ай бұрын
She needs to get with the friend and stop wasting people’s time with her bs.
@GrimmjowJaegerjaquez1003
5 ай бұрын
7:57 the OP needs a reality check, I just want her to know I hate her with every fiber of my being. 9:30 you’re a monster at best 9:47 I’m glad he dumped you 11:01 I hope the ex finds someone else BETTER than you 12:46 he didn’t have a choice, nobody GAF if you’re hurting 13:17 I hope your ex acts like a bird in a tree over your car 13:46 whatever happens to you is too good
@cherilynlarsen8104
6 ай бұрын
First story: OP misplaced loyalty, huge blind spot, enabler, feeling self righteous about "rescuing" the alcoholic, minimizing behavior, and huge denial, and not taking responsibility. Go to alanon and learn about alcoholism
@joebarbara3310
4 ай бұрын
Friend wasn't sorry at all he didn't feel bad at all he did that exactly so that he could have you to himself I would almost bet I mean 99% that he wants you to himself either romantically or he just doesn't want you to think anybody cause you're not there to cave To him I know that I have been in this situation where the girl lies with prioritizes everybody else but you your boyfriend is the best thing he could by getting away because if you weren't willing to put the relationship first So it is 100% you are at fault it is your choice and you did this you allowed your friend to manipulate you into something that was absolutely no purpose Guarantee if you just didn't want anybody else to help you
@GMWILD87
3 ай бұрын
Story 1 she'll be single for a long ass time until her and the friend finally fuck because she's so lonely because no guy wants to stay with her and hate her friend.
@Jack-pm1ve
6 ай бұрын
Are you his AA sponsor or his sobriety coach? Let's put it like it really happened your friend had a fight with his father decided he wanted to get laid called you and you distracted him, and now you just don't want to own up to it!
@vincentcleaver1925
6 ай бұрын
Volume!!!
@jetset808
6 ай бұрын
She's testing him. she wants to know if he will fight for her. but girls do that because it allows you to manipulate someone who is trying. Then when guys are like this isn't worth it they spin it into a victim story to tell the next guy to get sympathy
@joshuawells7415
6 ай бұрын
That or she's genuinely too stupid to see that her "friend" is actively sabotaging her relationships cause he wants her to himself even if it isn't in a romantic relationship.
@lisaclark7810
4 ай бұрын
S.1. You're an idiot huh. Your "friend", isn't your friend. If he was he wouldn't have called you over knowing that you had plans that night, if anything he could of just said, hey, can we get lunch tomorrow I need to ask your advice on something nothing big. And he wouldn't of started an argument with them boyfriend either. He has a crush on you, and is doing everything his power to control you. He is an alcoholic my brother is, anything sets him off, he lies, starts arguments, gets in your face plays the victim very well. And everything is everyone's fault but his. He's a good person but sucks when drunk. You need to set boundaries with him. If he's a true friend he will listen to you. If not he will say I can't believe you're doing this to me, I thought we were friends I have been there for you I need to drink and it will be your fault. Or kill himself. Is also what he might say. Then you tell him doesn't go both ways we have both been there for each other, you know it isn't my fault but yours but find excuses to drink and I am tired of the manipulation either grow up or we aren't friends anymore and walk out. And don't answer his texts, emails calls nothing til he knows after a week you call him and see what he says. Then you will know if you're still friends or not.
@Emil_LLscpfan
6 ай бұрын
Day 138 of commenting to help secretvoices
@toniirion5225
5 ай бұрын
Dear Mr. Narrator, please learn how to pronounce. Thanks.😊
@niteninja0133
6 ай бұрын
First story- she will always have a hard time keeping a Bf, I'm sure this isn't the 1st time
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