The upbringing can vary too. I was raised (by a single mother) to provide, but definitely not be THE provider. It takes two to sign the dotted line, takes two to make a family, takes two to make a house a home. It’s a team effort and it should never be one sided; there needs to be a perfect balance. As a man of course I want to provide and be a leader, but it should never be at the expense of my own wants and needs unless children are involved. We’re adults. We can all get up and get a job or start a business. If I wanted to fully provide for another person, I’d rather it not be another full grown adult. For the girl though, yeah she needs to move on. There’s a difference between going through tough times and just being lazy/unmotivated/comfortable which the guy clearly is.
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