Being betrayed by the one person I thought I could trust (the woman who birthed me), has led me to not want any type of personal relationship with anyone but the Divine Source of my Soul’s Creation. My entire birth family are detached, immature and emotionally unavailable. By the way…those frames look sooo good on you.
@reg8297
5 ай бұрын
My family was the same
@reg8297
5 ай бұрын
To this day I'm 50 years of age I'm barely able to cope I can barely breathe I feel constant defeat terror loss after loss denial of loving relationships I just don't know how to heal I'm lying in bed as I type this barely able to breathe feeling intense rage towards my mother and her sorry does nothing the wounds are so deep
@mac-ju5ot
5 ай бұрын
As the kids in my fostercare use to say," Save the drama for your mamma". It's why I stayed working with them as long as I could.
@Mindset973
5 ай бұрын
tamara, you are the truth and nothing but blessing your way!!!
@TherapistTamaraHill
5 ай бұрын
💖🙏thank you so much. Amen and I receive. Blessings from God for you too!
@RashadRoss-cv2pu
5 ай бұрын
Great work keep it up 💪🏾🙏🏾
@TherapistTamaraHill
5 ай бұрын
Thank you😊 💯
@taliajournee212
5 ай бұрын
Wow, another great video! I had no ideal the brain changed in the way that you can feel more when you are older. This is exactly what I've been going through. I see where the issues in my family of origin directly linked to how I see myself. Also, the way I relate to my siblings has totally changed. This should be spoken about more. Thank you Tamara.
@Andronicus2007
5 ай бұрын
Thank you Tamara for sharing your knowledge with us all and being a caring person as always!
@TherapistTamaraHill
5 ай бұрын
🤗❤Thank you! And you're welcome. It truly is my pleasure. Glad to have you on the channel.
@plumedescaraibes4536
3 ай бұрын
Thank you very much. I can totally relate to what you said in this video. I'm 33 and I'm struggling with complex trauma. lived with a very disfunctional family in which i was put in a role of a mediator very young so I feel like my childhood was robbed to me. I can barely remember what happened to me but I feel very strong emotions sometimes. So weird... Now I feel so exhausted that I'm taking medication. It's so true when you said that it can be more difficult to deal with all these memories as you grow older. Sometimes I'm struggling getting out of bed, I procrastinate a lot feeling totally hopeless. Don't know how to cope with all the piece of the puzzle that I find every single time I see my therapist. Life is so though for people who have complex ptsd. Everything is a struggle for us. It really feels like a rough path with brambles all over the place.
@emmjay551
4 ай бұрын
Thank you for that opening. Its true, its true, i barried things so deep it came up like flash backs 20 years later, i struggled to recognize face and push through but im still hanging on by a thread trying to claw my way out. Its insufferable.
@TherapistTamaraHill
4 ай бұрын
Yes, you're welcome. It's important indeed. I'm sorry you are going through this.
@Gotteskind17
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for everything you do ,for your time and all the free content you provide.Thank you for your care.❤
@TherapistTamaraHill
2 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! And thank YOU. ❤
@calebereid
5 ай бұрын
Thank you for this content, it is huge. I have definitely been avoiding and pushing healing away.
@fairygurl9269
5 ай бұрын
Thank You ✌️
@TherapistTamaraHill
5 ай бұрын
You're welcome 😊
@illuminationgoddess3
5 ай бұрын
I’m attempting righteous anger but my natural state keeps over riding.
@jasminegreen6597
2 ай бұрын
I just discovered your channel and I am So thankful, You are amazing. Thank you !
@TherapistTamaraHill
2 ай бұрын
Welcome! So glad to have you and thank you!!
@peterstaker3230
5 ай бұрын
This video was very informative! Thank you! Do you have any tips on healing CPTSD?
@TherapistTamaraHill
5 ай бұрын
You're welcome!! Thanks for watching.And I might post some this coming week.
@shaunhamer4262
5 ай бұрын
Hi Tamara ❤
@TherapistTamaraHill
5 ай бұрын
Hi Shaun Hammer! Thanks for watching!
@jamesMcdonald-m7z
2 ай бұрын
Just subscribed to your channel recently Tamara( your content is so insightful and educational) appreciate the great work that you do and how many people that you are helping out 🙏🙏
@TherapistTamaraHill
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much ☺ Welcome aboard! I hope this channel continues to be helpful to you. It certainly is a staple in my professional growth through learning from everyone here.
@Andronicus2007
5 ай бұрын
I'm not sure if I really relate to trauma getting harder as I get older. For me, as a child or teen, I didn't know it was abuse, I internalized a lot of blame (with parents encouragement to do so). As I got older, I started to realize what was going on. At first this realization was difficult, painful. But after Many years the pain has dulled to some degree. Any trauma I experience as a 50 year old now, I don't take so hard anymore- I've been there. I know now how to make boundaries, nurture myself (and others). My self esteem is pretty good these days, it was very low due to abuse age 7 until I was in my 40s. Am I the only one who feels this way? Am I just kidding myself? I don't think so. For me the trauma of childhood/teen years is still with me to some extent, but it's better than it used to be.
@ShepherdsTable1156
5 ай бұрын
Great video, I saw your other videos on stalking and would like to know if you could do videos on ex coworkers stalking and why they cant move on in life and stalk every where the person will go like shopping, doctors office, and just about any where the person being stalk may go. The person being stalked could care less about them, have no concern of them only that they are secretly showing up in their lives with other people also they have incorporated to stalk, secretly violating privacy, once at previous job and still trying to do the same after a period of over four years. Not being someone ever to have had any relationship at all only a previous coworker.
@SouthernBelle85
4 ай бұрын
Would love to hear more about dark relationships
@takyrica
Ай бұрын
Sadly I live with someone who thinks they are “healed” from trauma, meanwhile it’s showing up in their behavior every day. They have biases and fallacies in their thinking ALL the time. I know we all do but its extreme. The impact of childhood trauma is not something you can write off as being in the past. It takes LOTS of intentionality and acknowledgment for THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. But personality disorders are making that impossible for this person 😢
@Jam-m7m
5 ай бұрын
Hi everyone
@atomz1154
5 ай бұрын
A carryover from yesterday’s content, can you please use psychopaths/psychopathy as an example in today’s video?
@DamienBender
4 ай бұрын
Can you do a video going into the topic of slander in a family?
@thereugo8900
4 ай бұрын
Tamara, I just sent you an email.God bless you!!!!
@TherapistTamaraHill
4 ай бұрын
💖🤗
@TheWannabmodel
3 ай бұрын
How do I cut off my sister but still be allowed into my nephew's life? Me and my sister haven't been the same since 2022 after a big argument. We cool again then blew up again last week as she gets defensive about certain topics. This isnt the first time and I'm tired of off and on. She used to keep him away when upset but allows me to play with him when I visit my mom's. My fear is once she leaves out of state or enters a relationship, she wont let visits happen. How do I prepare...
@paultusun48
5 ай бұрын
❤
@ndubuezeezeigwe9286
4 ай бұрын
Are You in NYC? Do you do online? Do you take Fidelis?
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