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@chedysouilhi7408
10 ай бұрын
From one introvert to another i respect and admire your honesty , you are wonderful woman and i wish a lot more people would understand and finally stop judging introverts like us , what a cruel world we live in , anyway keep it up lana you are doing fantastic
@limwenredleaf
10 ай бұрын
Girlll, you should write a book!
@beautiful6423
10 ай бұрын
😔😌 We need to complete each other. We don't need one person to complete us. 😶🌫 The one thing we all have in common is we all have the capacity to love for the people around us.
@richardsmeele
9 ай бұрын
Commen? Friendliness is pretty commen in all beings.
@ryans6442
10 ай бұрын
The hard part about being an introvert is definitely finding a balance between wanting to be alone at times but not being lonely. It’s good to surround yourself with people that you love and genuinely want to be around
@michaelcueva530
10 ай бұрын
That's why there's merit in keeping at a distance people you find are not aligned with who you are and your values and keeping close your true intimate friends in a tight circle whom you find solace, and peace in. I firsthand have known hiw difficult it is to keep the former types of people at a distance especially if they think you're there friend when really you consider them only as a casual and civil type of friendship
@DTheHAge
10 ай бұрын
From talking to extroverts, especially the highly empathic ones, I can tell you that they have the same problem. Their balance is just one the other end of the spectrum. Like Lana said, it's a range, not black and white. Hope it feels good to know that we share this problem even with the "opposite" :).
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving
10 ай бұрын
As an introvert myself, I truly appreciate these life lessons, Lana! You are truly wise beyond your years. Love your inspiration and knowledge. It shows that even an old guy like me (62) I can still learn from those much younger. Keep being your awesome self!
@annaspeaks373
10 ай бұрын
For me it also took a while to accept that I am an introverted person. And my first lesson was to put myself at the first place and got as much rest my body and mind needs
@rahuldahoob
10 ай бұрын
😮
@Mr_Matrix
Ай бұрын
So many great insights Lana 🙏❤️ I realised that I’m an introvert in my late 40’s, and that explained a lot. Now I don’t punish myself trying to be more extroverted. It just drains my energy and it’s never worth it.
@r.e.keerthana
10 ай бұрын
Hey Lana, the major reason that i sticked to your channel and watch your videos regularly is your extremely soothing voice!!!!!!!!!
@vrsimages
10 ай бұрын
I believe the one thing in common we all have is that we have aspects of ourselves we don't like and are insecure about. The person filling the room might actually be really insecure and that's why they feel the need to have everyone notice them. Same for the person cracking all the jokes and the introvert person may want to be unseen because of those same insecurities. We all basically have insecurities we just react to them in different ways.
@raihana.onfilm
10 ай бұрын
Knowing my limits and empowering myself to say no has been game changing! Great video Lana 🧡
@maureenbouey
10 ай бұрын
If I understood your question correctly, the one thing that I think might define introverts or extraverts is whether they feel they charge their batteries through solitude or through being around people. I agree that it's on a spectrum but, like you, am grateful to know there are so many of us out there. You have such wisdom for someone your age; I really enjoy your content and appreciate what you share :). And, I have been wondering if you might consider posting more content on your life as a youtuber...some of the mechanics, tips and ideas...?
@bookdatewithyou6672
10 ай бұрын
I'm an introvert. And to answer your question : I think the one thing we all have in common is self reflection. We take times to think, during/middle/after the activities/events, about ourselves, the person sit next to us, the topic that touch our heart etc. And about wanting to be alone, I find that I like to have solitude in the middle of business lol...
@leonaagustin7418
10 ай бұрын
She’s back!! It hasn’t been a while but it feels like forever 🥺
@juricatomicic4829
10 ай бұрын
I think that one of the greatest ironies is that, when people are asked what qualities should leader have, they usually say the ones related to extroverts, but when asked to name some leaders, most will mention leaders that are actually introverts (both good and evil ones), and they will be completely clueless about that. Also, for those who are feeling bad about thinking you're boring, you are not obliged to entertain other people, and most importantly, you're not responsible for other people's happines.
@liarezabella
10 ай бұрын
thank you. this was so comforting to watch. never felt seen in so long. realized i just havent been accepting my way of being and i ended up hating myself. i feel better now~
@regulusthestar
10 ай бұрын
listening to you talk about "not being the loudest & thereby charming girl in the group" made me feel seen too.
@nihalhathaway4089
8 ай бұрын
thanks for the edit at 8:11 - I'm extroverted in a sense that I get energized by social interaction, but I'm not a loud person that would lead the conversation.
@kwvzbnshwnskeb67
10 ай бұрын
Your videos are like a letter from Best friend, also having to listen to your calm voice it's like a nice ASMR. I appreciate your efforts
@sainspired5332
10 ай бұрын
I've always thought I was an introvert but MUCHH later in life like a TIDAL WAVE I felt a MAJOR shift mentally..I foundout I have autism. Wanting to stay home, do what interest ME is a must...all else makes me feel uneasy but I'm happier now than I've ever been, KEEPING IT REAL!🔥💯🙌 Love your wisdom and insight, SHINE ON☀😊✨💫
@timbennion7079
10 ай бұрын
There's nothing wrong with you, Lana! There are many folk just like you and I'm one of them too. I've turned my energy towards learning to play the keyboard. Introverts like to be creative without drawing attention to themselves. I expect that, like me, you are more comfortable in your own space rather than feeling a need to seek out the company of other people. This is not to say that you don't want friends, but would prefer to have one to one friendships and not a whole bunch of them!! If I'm with more than three or four people at any one time, it can be overwhelming. Also, I know what you mean about feeling exhausted after being with other folk. Keep doing what you are doing. I think you have worked things out very well for yourself.
@mariarusso2531
10 ай бұрын
To answer your question : I think the one thing we all have in common is that we are trying our best, in order to accept ourselves, on an ongoing quest to happiness. I wanted to share one thing about introversion that stood on me. Modern society makes it sound like a label, I had once a family doctor (who died) saying that I had "to cure my introversion". Sometimes we think we're introverted but we're actually just in the wrong place (the part of self-isolating)
@aayush4675
10 ай бұрын
Hey ! Currently I'm preparing for NEET exam in India as I want to pursue the medical field. I'm in 12th class and I think that from the time I started for this preparation I'm like getting detached from my school friends. Am I getting introverted or it happens with every busy scheduled person ?
@thinkingbout
10 ай бұрын
@@aayush4675I'd say it happens to every busy scheduled person and doesn't influence how introverted or extraverted you are. Introversion is a dimensional personality trait you are born with and keep your whole life. Dimensional in this regard means there is introversion on the one end and extraversion on the other end of a spectrum and most people fall somewhere in between leaning more introverted or extraverted. So a busy learning schedule shouldn't change something about your introversion or extraversion. It just can tell you something about how you handle such a situation considering as Lana said that every human will miss having social contacts at some point. Good luck for your exam!
@AyMuchacha
10 ай бұрын
*It's difficult being an introvert but you just have to do what makes you happy even though some people won't understand it.*
@devil_fairy
10 ай бұрын
I just wanted to say you are wrong about one thing, you are definitely a ray of sunshine, from the way you smile to the way you talk, you are definitely one!
@eddymauricioachoyhernandez514
10 ай бұрын
Hello Lana!!! I consider myself as an extrovert, always was like that. And people who knew me at younger age agree with that. But with the maturity I turn that into introvert. I feel more comfort being that way. Why, because the most of the cases it let me have the control of my life easily than if I look extrovert. Sometimes, I got in a group of people and I don't say almost nothing, I just enjoy being silent in the bottom of the room watching what the others do. Not participating except necessary. You said that your voice seems monotone but in my humble opinion your voice, how you pronounce is one of the reasons I'm here. Your tone and the words you use are very attractive. If you share time with yourself and you learn how to behave with the most important person in this world (that means YOU), I believe that once you are with the other will be something special, I bet it will be. And yes, Lana we need people because we have interactions and those affect our world but I never feel out of context. I managed to find ways to not be glue but swimming around. I have hard times also, I'm human being not a superhero and I don't pretend being one. Have a wonderful day Lana!!! Bye!!!
@chedysouilhi7408
10 ай бұрын
2:10 Skillshare recommendation 3:41 unfavorable enviroment 4:49 learn your limits 5:21 communicate your needs 5:35 be yourself 6:21 don' t use labels as safety blankets 7:29 don' t self-isolate 7:57 don 't generalize
@blueberrie1317
10 ай бұрын
It's ok to feel boring. I feel the same way. I no longer want to feel the pressure of bein the funny one. Sometimes it's fun to be entertained by someone else rather than being the entertaining one.
@Nadiacahyanig
6 ай бұрын
Glad to hear when you said finally seen, because that’s whay I felt when I watched your video back then
@sarathguttikonda4065
10 ай бұрын
i myself didn't accept my introversion but acted as an extrovert and acted way too much now i have been battling with depression since 4 years because i lost my head and now at my darkest times now learning about who i am. I learnt no need to act i can be myself
@AlexaFarron
10 ай бұрын
Thank you for your endless hard work 🤍
@hnnhml
10 ай бұрын
uuuh theres the new backgrouuuund 😍 i cant wait for the home tour (which i hope we'll be getting soon) also wonderful video as always
@DC-no3vi
10 ай бұрын
When I was young i thought something is genuinely wrong with me until i fount out beeing an introvert is a thing. After that it was a lot easier to accept myself as I am.
@r.e.keerthana
10 ай бұрын
We all add value in our own little way -wise words
@Champingcom
10 ай бұрын
Thanks Lana.....I love and appreciate every bit of you!
@tstcikhthys
10 ай бұрын
Thank you for talking about what introversion / being an introvert _actually_ means instead of this nonsense that's so common where people think introverts are anti-social or shy or what not.
@sunsetlover4526
10 ай бұрын
I have always been an introvert. Maybe because I was always hated in highschool that it made me enjoy my company. But the moment I left high school I became more like a social butterfly yet still enjoyed spending my Fridays alone watching my tvshows in my room and wearing headphones to feel disconnected. The more I grow up, the more I meet people who want to befriend me and the more my introverted friends are waiting for me to come to lunch break or parties so that they feel more comfortable meeting people. I would say I have outgrown myself and now Im the last one finishing my lunch because Im talking all the time and making jokes to make people more comfortable. So when I tell people that I used to be introverted no one believes me. Im 27 now and I am still a bit introverted. For example on the weekend, I need one day of being completely alone. Guess I am an introverted extroverted??
@meisha_jean
10 ай бұрын
I'm soo introverted haha people always assume at first glance that i'm mean or cold, but when they take time to get to know me, they discover that i'm not at all those adjectives. When I was in middle school i got bullied several times bc i didn't know how to make friend and nobody talked to me in my class, or else toxic girls would try to befriend me (in order to "use" me lol), and i was incredibly ashamed of my introvertion my whole school years. Now I'm in senior year of high school and i've learnt to embrace my introversion, and to not try to be someone i'm not. Plus, i've met my best friend in sophomore year and she's also introverted (less than me though!), so she's literally the only real friend i have in school and i'm super satisfied about this.
@thescallytrader
10 ай бұрын
I like the sound of your voice. It is one of the reasons I watch/listen to you. Have you cut your hair. You should do a video on your hair.
@mahamathaggarsaleh3808
10 ай бұрын
Thank so much Lana to share this part of an introvert and more blessing
@letterbox203
5 ай бұрын
Being an introvert has its challenges, but also its privileges! Welcome to the club!
@SebasMainerProUniversi
10 ай бұрын
I appreciate your lessons, for a while I was so introvert, but step by step get out my comfort zone and I tried communicate my mindsets or my needs to people around me and people starting coming to me and I to them. Now I have a lovely social circle and have friend so wonderful I can trust on them. My advice is you try get out your comfort zone and live experiences with new people
@doctorlovera
10 ай бұрын
Big problem with this video. No one has mentioned it in the comments, so I will, no matter how much I hate being "that guy". - The lack of footage of the colors of autumn at Stockholm is excruciating. I mean, you are so cute and everything, your new place looks beautiful (congratulations), and the interior design skillshare class works; but for us, the intertropical people, a few frames of the Swedish autumn forest is not enough. We want more. I hope this gets fixed in the next video, otherwise my "like" will be missing. (imagine a frowny face trying to look like being serious about not giving you a like). Great video. 🙂👍 Just remember 🌲🍁🐕
@shreyastaware
10 ай бұрын
I've been an introvert a large portion of my life -- but when I spend time around people for some amount of time: I switch roles and become an extrovert. Then when the social environment disappears, I get back to being an introvert. I have stopped my introvertedness to be a hindrance to my social life, but then again, there are some inherent traits in me that just don't work the way I want things to be.
@markdhananjaya5663
10 ай бұрын
Is that one thing the desire to feel understood and cared for?
@JamieAsareZiegler
10 ай бұрын
7:56: I would humbly suggest that "that one thing" is our common humanity, our identity as noble beings - those things that are innate to humans that make us unique in the animal kingdom. But KZitem comment sections are not a great forum for ontological investigation and I just deleted about three paragraphs. Here's a quote instead: "Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms-to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way." ~ Viktor Frankl
@BrownieEXE
10 ай бұрын
I love the part when you said that "knowing about yourself makes your world bigger"... Oh and the last thing you said should be framed idk about you guys
@ayeshallastname6225
10 ай бұрын
oh yayyyy love you lana came at the right time LOVE YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@lostsoulSHB
10 ай бұрын
Everyone is either an introvert or extrovert. It simply comes down to how you feel after interacting with other people, if you feel tired after interacting with other people then your an introvert else a if you feel normal or re-energized after an interaction your an extrovert. But like you said their is a broad spectrum of people within these two groups who display both characteristics. An introvert can feign being an extrovert around people but feel tired after the interaction. Doesn't mean they are extroverts but simply introverts with good social skills and cues and vice versa. And when you find yourself being an introvert and sometimes still feeling normal or even better after an interaction, you have to self-retrospect over multiple scenarios of this experience to see whether if you were an extrovert all along and just had really bad social skills and cues.
@Robbiee3344
9 ай бұрын
really liked this video keep em coming!!
@indigo_diary
10 ай бұрын
This was really comforting ❤
@darkmxk
5 ай бұрын
I actually really like her voice.
@RaphaelAvant
10 ай бұрын
I would think the one thing that all introverts have in common are the limited endurance social interactions. I think introverts could only handle a few hours of socializing before they have to recharge. Even if they enjoy spending time with people.
@dahlia5017
8 ай бұрын
I just feel so confused about me I don't want to be alone but whenever i'm with people I just feel I don't fit( tbh slowly I think im just being too much on this situation)
@risingland9443
10 ай бұрын
Lana pls be back with your podcast i miss your presence there so muchh
@bogdanzrazhevskiy5855
10 ай бұрын
5:53 As for me, you have an amazing voice, Lana ❤
@shabbirhussain8198
10 ай бұрын
Great video ❤❤
@angeltiwariii
10 ай бұрын
getting excited to change into PJ's and cuddling with blanket is no embarassing it's heaven for some people and we should be happy that we tend to seek peace when the outer world just fake parties and things that is just outer fun and no inner fun!
@Matranus
10 ай бұрын
Everyone got a heart... But someone heart it's more sensitive and more gentle one...
@zaurbalakisiyev2938
10 ай бұрын
Vlog videos pleasee❤❤❤
@nehapatil9082
10 ай бұрын
Heard this somewhere as to the ways to define an introvert and this one's the easiest, find out if you gain or drain your energy whilst being around people.. Drain - prolly an introvert Gain - prolly an extrovert Again it's a spectrum so there can be exceptions..
@jimdonlan9398
9 ай бұрын
I never thought of it that way thank you 😊
@carlasidawy2434
10 ай бұрын
You are an amazing person❤️❤️❤️
@almanaiqbal6392
10 ай бұрын
Wow. This is mindblowing.❤ Make a video on your yoga journey.☕
@mattw-cx50
10 ай бұрын
I think one thing we introverts all have in common is that we need some alone time to recharge our mental and emotional batteries. Whereas extroverts prefer the opposite to recharge.
@khatira2701
10 ай бұрын
oh how I can relate💕 thank you Lana!🌹
@Mariammia77
10 ай бұрын
I wish I had a sister like you🌸
@TheSpecialAviator
10 ай бұрын
Great video! Lana
@lillianedwards11
9 ай бұрын
A need to keep a certain amount of space reserved for internal reflection, calculation, emotion Maybe related to lack mentality we think we’ll run out of stuff if we let it all out there 😂
@Alexe_arte
10 ай бұрын
It’s strange because in my work there are nice people but also too extrovert and as an introvert sometimes I get overwhelmed, sometimes I can’t work fine, sometimes I get to worry too much about what are they thinking about me or if they are thinking about my mistakes, I changed to another place but the same job, I feel fine, sad because now I lost those friends because I can’t see them but I’ll get over it
@SENZABeotos
10 ай бұрын
I thought I was an introvert for 30 years, until a few months ago I have realized that I am actually an extrovert.
@Ridi009
10 ай бұрын
Mother posted!
@enxhil9955
10 ай бұрын
Like the old times 🫶
@sashapsh
10 ай бұрын
My essential lesson and understanding myself as an introvert: pick good unity and good division and reject bad unity and bad division. Notice I’m only “not introvert” or perfectly fitting in a good unity. In good division one side will obviously witness me at least on the bad side as potentially introvert but it might be also perceived extravert especially if I lead the split. Rejecting bad unity and bad division is definitely where I’ll be perceived as an introvert. Like I won’t follow any crowd I really disagree for the sake of socializing, no thanks I don’t mind crowds or socializing but I have to see myself as part of it otherwise why be there. As far as rejecting bad division, I’ll also probably be perceived as an introvert when there’s division and arguments about trivial not important at all matters among a group, yeah no thanks I’ll either leave both sides or try to talk some sense but I’ll probably leave both sides sooner than later and again be perceived as an introvert.
@TomorrowsVibes
10 ай бұрын
8:25 I think it's rather a scale. The more introverted someone is, the more energy it costs to socialize and the less energy is gained by socializing. While if someone is extraverted, that person probably gains more energy by socializing instead of losing it. So the common trait is that generally introverts lose energy socializing instead of gaining energy from it
@firdose45
10 ай бұрын
I always hated myself for being introvert because here people value being social and you come across as weird they can't understand how someone can be at peace living like that. From my early teens i always wondered why i am like this being compared with my siblings, and not talking in groups or when met bunch of people getting called silent to hating why you can't be friends with everyone and everyone dont like you i realised lately to accept myself and its ok to have less but close friends and tell people who u are before they tell you who you are
@jarrettscherrer2189
10 ай бұрын
Higher understandings and higher educations, regardless of introversion or extroversion, dictate who it is that we are and who it is that we become. The fact is hardly complex: we know what we want and we know what we require. Anything less is unacceptable.
@deaudwinhall8572
10 ай бұрын
I agree to everything you said
@FARFROMWEAKfanx
7 ай бұрын
Love from india
@angeldeviljihan4468
4 ай бұрын
Sometimes i wish i was an extrovert.My boyfriend's family didn't like me cause i am not outgoing and friendly so we ended up breaking up.
@xnavxox919
10 ай бұрын
you have billion dollar smile
@MS-ns4ki
10 ай бұрын
I miss being one and having someone who also didn’t need everyone’s attention. I lost hope now .
@ibrahimlovesblink
10 ай бұрын
I have a question: Are you from Lebanon?
@rahuldahoob
10 ай бұрын
From America surely....
@danielvargo7331
10 ай бұрын
Don't feel bad about that 🙂👍❤️😘, I'm exactly like that 👍❤️😘😘☺️, I would rather be alone with someone I adore than a crowd of people 👍❤️😘😘, your absolutely gorgeous 🤩🥰🥰 sweetheart 💕
@oskyuro1326
10 ай бұрын
☕.. JUST prioritising the peace of mind, having control over my personal tiME, and SIMPLY being mE !!! 😂😂😂
@rahuldahoob
10 ай бұрын
Are you a woman??
@siddharthkulkarni5532
10 ай бұрын
Happy Diwali 🎇🎆
@rahuldahoob
10 ай бұрын
Too many fireworks for an introvert! Even in London
@edwinman592
10 ай бұрын
Always giving us great advice Lana, thank you
@DK-th5nt
10 ай бұрын
For me quiet women with interesting personality are way more charming than the loud ones.
@RussomWeldemariam-r1i
8 ай бұрын
Lana olweyis I love you much
@JacobCarlson-uq1my
10 ай бұрын
Wow ,so nice to watch this. I think I might be an introvert. Maybe if I meat a beautiful woman like you someday, it would be better chances of having a good connection/ relationship.
@inesds2848
10 ай бұрын
Have you considered making a discord server?
@deborahostmo
10 ай бұрын
What are your thoughts on Personality test ?
@jboughtin7522
10 ай бұрын
That one thing we have in common: hmmmm, like chocolate?
@Hans_Eriksson94
Ай бұрын
I’m an introvert
@roses9715
10 ай бұрын
#gazaunderattack 🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸
@crsxlndl3555
10 ай бұрын
The struggle to be an introvert is pursuing a career in marketing 😢
@CaptainSteve777
10 ай бұрын
Good stuff. I am much the same
@NestorMora-v7q
10 ай бұрын
Nice Vídeo!!!! , ❤
@999sk09
7 ай бұрын
I am also an Introvert😔😞😢
@user_vitaly_mr
5 ай бұрын
that's okay 🙂👍
@nishchay-y7x
10 ай бұрын
Happy Dipawali
@rahuldahoob
10 ай бұрын
Too many fireworks for an introvert.. Even in London
@LuzVelascoOropeza
10 ай бұрын
Virality is no longer a thing? why?
@AbdulHafeez-my3pd
9 ай бұрын
Very nice madam
@JacobCarlson-uq1my
10 ай бұрын
❤
@Gasta.v592
8 ай бұрын
Hi I'm intovert person .I'm shine other's people iWant alone . I don't know' but i want to be alone 😅i just want peace of mind ❤😊
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