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@adolthitler
7 ай бұрын
It's not that we have low standards. It's rare, so it's a high standard. You won't get it easy.
@splouffy
7 ай бұрын
This may be the first, but you may be contradicting yourself. If you are raising your daughter to be extremely hypergamous, then you are contributing to the problem you identify throughout the rest of the video. Extremely hypergamous women are not successful because they are persistent and focused. They are just lucky.
@jasonyoung3690
7 ай бұрын
No.
@exsosus5002
7 ай бұрын
I ordered the Anti-aging a bit more expensive package, going to try it for 20 days and if I like it I won't unsub from the repeated monthly shipping.
@friedmule5403
7 ай бұрын
Are you sure that "high standards" is the right expression? Is it in my opinion not usable standards. 1) 6 feet + is just a number, as long he is bigger than her can she feel safe 2) 6 inch, a man with minimum 2 inch can make a woman pregnant 3) 6 figures is not even necessary to secure your life 4) 6-pack is in fact a sign of malnourishment High standards would be a woman who demands more of her partner than standard expected, i.e. higher education, higher time with the family, higher participation with house-chores, higher emotional intelligence and so on.
@manasseh7
7 ай бұрын
It’s like the saying goes. Today, Men have to work 5x harder than their grandfathers did for women 20x worse than their grandmothers.
@Bogm8
7 ай бұрын
Hoeflation!
@TrueHunter999
7 ай бұрын
Sad, but true. Stay strong borthers
@parnpichate
7 ай бұрын
Isnt it funny that this new post-modern liberal world, where women have more freedom than ever before, has created a world in which men would be better off paying for sex, than marrying?
@GaryBentlage
7 ай бұрын
Wow well said👍
@dimitrie17
7 ай бұрын
hoeflation
@redtiger7268
7 ай бұрын
I'm a bartender as a restaurant. I have lost count of how many times two girls have been sitting at the bar and some random guy pays for their meal and drinks without ever even speaking to them. That guy is hoping they will come over and talk to him but in almost all cases they just continue on their day and than leave without ever saying thank you. God I hate simps.
@zergslayer69
7 ай бұрын
men like to claim that women ruined dating, but I'd like to say simps are the ones that ruined everything first and everything crumbled afterwards
@BlaBla-jj6sh
7 ай бұрын
Well, those simps will have to learn the hard way or they will never learn. If that is with money, then so be it.
@fungidungie
7 ай бұрын
simps will never get ahead in this world, it is the devils playground.
@redtiger7268
7 ай бұрын
@@fungidungie I would argue this depends on the metric. Most "simps" I have ever met IRL are very successful in their jobs and would be considered in the upper 15% of income earners. They spent their lives building their careers and as a result have no skills with women. Thus they resort to leading with their wallets in order to get a relationship.
@florenbaron7111
7 ай бұрын
That's called female privilege.
@rajakghosh6602
7 ай бұрын
For thousands of years when men started earning, they wanted to settle down with a woman to start a family. Now when women starts earning she wants to be strong and independent.. Independent of men and family. That shows basic difference in our mindset and approaches.
@DionLYA
7 ай бұрын
Nailing it again, Raja.
@TheBazino
7 ай бұрын
Shows that women are not nurturing at all. Men are.
@knotengajin7359
7 ай бұрын
Those same “independent” women choose not to do the necessary jobs that keep society functioning thus remain dependent on the labor of men to maintain their homes, roads, food production, and every modern convenience. In many countries however, men are starting to opt out of the industrial grind as without the prospect of a wife and children there’s zero incentive to work oneself to the bone.
@neildepressedtyson540
7 ай бұрын
What are you talking about? Men have been abusing and cheating on their wives for thousands of years under the guise of being higher status. Literally RIGHT NOW you have flogs like Tate and F&F saying that women shouldn't expect a high value man to stay faithful. They have it as like a fundamental PRESUPPOSITION that men who are high value sleep with millions of women.
@dirtedeuce5936
7 ай бұрын
@@knotengajin7359facts. easy mode
@NGMonocrom
7 ай бұрын
Our standards are so basic because it's nearly impossible to find a good woman whose willing to give us just those basics. More?? That would be a delusional fantasy.
@markor2476
7 ай бұрын
I agree with you 100%. Problem is that most men also don't meet the basics for women. So it's a bit of a chicken and egg problem.
@moradtaouati5633
7 ай бұрын
If you are a chad, she will do that and more to satisfy you. Looks it's what it matters to them the most. 😉
@NGMonocrom
7 ай бұрын
@@markor2476 No, that is BS! You have a massive amount of guys who do everything! Put in a Herculean amount of effort, and the average woman doesn't appreciate it. It is not a two-way street. It is completely one-sided.
@markor2476
7 ай бұрын
@@NGMonocrom Effort doesn't matter. Results do. And most men fail to provide the basics to women. They're weak and poor. I'm as critical of today's women as anyone here but most guys are also failing. We need to shape up, grow a spine, grow some muscle and earn some wealth and then we can hold women to a higher standard too. I myself have to do this too.
@thereject505
7 ай бұрын
My most recent ex was that delusional fantasy. She was amazing, and now that I've had that kind of relationship, I don't want another because I know im never gonna find a girl like that again
@curtisdecoste9345
7 ай бұрын
Early in my marriage, I had to tell my wife that she was replaceable, and the door is right there if she wasn’t happy. Her nagging and negative attitude had reached a critical point. She almost immediately changed for the better, and that was over 12 years ago. Still together and still happy as a team.
@vernondavis561
7 ай бұрын
Well played sir. She was testing you.
@irfanjames6551
7 ай бұрын
If a person instantly changes after showing the door. How do you know its real. That's why I hate ultimatums, or tell people to change or else. People should change themselves, but if its over the clear Consequences, how do you know the change is from within, not just the thought of you leaving, and now they secretly resent you. Is my thinking Good or Bad? I'm 22 so I would appreciate your advice.
@Okunniger_Volker
7 ай бұрын
@@irfanjames6551they only resent you if you don't give them some attention here and there AND if they don't have to invest. Think of it like this, let's say you buy a old car, like a Datsun or the like, nothing special but kinda cool, you spend 3yrs working on it, rebuilding the engine, doing the body work, getting new tires ect, you invest your time, attention and energy in to it. Then one day you see a old mustang, camero, corvette or the like for a reasonable price, dosent quite need as much work, but you can only have one. Which are you gonna go with? The one you know and are familiar with and have invested time and energy in to to make it your own? Or the other one and start the process over? And if that transition was a risk? We come to love the things we put our effort in to and that is where we derive our self worth from. Women who put their effort into makeup and looks will value those things more than they value the man that falls into their laps. Women who put the effort into their husband, children and home while receiving a little attention and praise for their efforts (focus on efforts, not on them) are going to be a lot less likely to leave. But many many men have not done this, gen-x and boomers were massive simps partly because they could be, partly because it worked to get laid more than today and partly because they were raised in a gynocentric culture as well and didn't understand how destructive that undeserved and luxurious life of ease would be to a woman.
@extraspicywasabi
7 ай бұрын
😅😅 good work Avoidance is IMO the best strategy, they're a giant pita tbh
@oliversmith2129
7 ай бұрын
@@irfanjames6551 Sometimes you need a wakeup call. Fresh out of college on my first job as an analyst, I didn't behave professionally and PO'd my boss - showed up late often, ignored the rules, bragged about my college days/ skillset, etc. He didn't promote me (along with some other disciplinary reviews & stuff) while my peers got promotions on time. They even mentioned in my review that my skills were good but my attitude wasn't - rated 2.5/5. I learned my lesson the hard way, I was lucky to not get fired. I would have fired me if I was in my boss's shoes. I had two choices - 1) blame my boss (and I did for some time) and leave 2) look at what I could do better - my dad said at the time that if I don't change my attitude I'd face similar problems everywhere eventually I stayed and worked on my problems. My boss promoted me next cycle without me asking for it and we had a man to man talk after my promotion. Looking back, he did me a massive favor. I'm grateful for this lesson. I still work at the same company - got promoted 3 more times in the next 7 years - senior manager now - rated 4.5/5 this appraisal cycle. I'm managing a team of 7. My income is 4x compared to when I started. Instead of thinking what is owed to me, I focus on what's expected of me. I try to learn something new everyday and I always think - is this my best? Can I do better? I try to instill these values in my team as well.
@cmsull3316
7 ай бұрын
Not getting fat seems very hard for these modern day women.
@palnagok1720
7 ай бұрын
...they are a side- chick to Ronald Mcdonald
@michaelreardon303
7 ай бұрын
I like this comment
@mikehawkins4752
7 ай бұрын
They are very lazy and have no discipline.
@sole__doubt
7 ай бұрын
@@mikehawkins4752 For sure, most women see discipline as punishment.
@honkytonk4465
7 ай бұрын
SAD diet - too much carbs and processed food and it's not just women!
@martinggale
7 ай бұрын
Knowing a man, some man, will be there to pick up the pieces almost no matter what a woman does makes women relationship risk takers. Men don't have that luxury -- nobody is going to pick up our pieces for us, and we know it, society beats that fact into us from birth. Women's behavior makes sense when viewed through that lens. She can throw herself at Chad after Chad hoping to land the big prize, because in the end she knows that even after she fails, after she's lost most of her looks and fertility, there'll be some man willing to take her. This dynamic explains almost everything in gender relations today.
@kojo2773
7 ай бұрын
Western men need to raise their standards. in muslim countries, if a woman is known for having premarital sex even once, nobody would marry her and she's bound to stay stingle for life. The same applies for divorced women. They're mostly looked down upon.
@vincezetti7216
7 ай бұрын
truth
@zeusx6479
7 ай бұрын
💯
@ronaldmitchell3665
7 ай бұрын
NO!!!… they remain alone after ruining themselves on the carousel!!!…
@allseeingotto2912
7 ай бұрын
@@ronaldmitchell3665That’s in no way true , the carousel ride can last well into old age .
@rajakghosh6602
7 ай бұрын
Men needs a supporter to be in his best and worst of times. Its in our genes to provide and protect our loved ones. Women ONLY needs men when bills has to be paid, a car has to be fixed, when trash has to be taken out or take care of a child who isn't his biological child. That's a bad deal. We are not Cashcows, handyman and stepping up to take care of someone else's child.
@jean-louislalonde6070
7 ай бұрын
Women love men for what they can provide, not what they want or work for.
@asura8495
7 ай бұрын
If the host has difficulties regenerating the blood supply the parasite goes looking for another host
@BlackCroLong
7 ай бұрын
I'm not gonna lie, looking an the girls at my campus, in regards to where this generation is directing the future, i've lost all hope. I'm 27 and despite being extremely fit and ripped, i never even had my hand held in life. I never let anyone close. And to be honest, i don't think i care anymore. It's over.
@gunfugames7430
7 ай бұрын
If you lack muscles or are extremely short like 5'9 girls don't care how fit and ripped you are
@dc1397
7 ай бұрын
@gunfugames7430 you're right. The male gymnasts have no game.
@edheldude
7 ай бұрын
@@gunfugames7430Your "extremely short" is the average in US.
@migjordanpayawal7856
7 ай бұрын
Who knows, you might find a girl that goes against the paradigm. Just keep your eyes open. If you don't find one like that, then oh well... you still win.
@crown9413
7 ай бұрын
Im in the same place, it not you it’s this society. Travel if you need to feel appreciated.
@montereypine4702
7 ай бұрын
It always amazes me that women don’t see this until they’re well into their 60’s and alone. I’m so glad to be born a man.
@edheldude
7 ай бұрын
The hardest difficulty setting but it offers a possibility for the greatest rewards.
@herbert993
7 ай бұрын
Amen to that brother!
@eQuariuz
7 ай бұрын
Gawd I thought it was just me that noticed that, especially lately. I've seen 45 to 60 yr old women trying to offer that to men now, but the men aren't biting and just want to hang with the fellas at the cigar bar or fishing trips. Real talk.
@albertwesker8883
7 ай бұрын
@@eQuariuzFacts. A coworker of mine in her 50s, divorced, overweight, covered in tattoos, previously in several abusive relationships, now tells me how she is ready for a nice romantic guy 😂
@DevPythonUnity
7 ай бұрын
@@albertwesker8883 they just want to ride for free on sombodys back
@The-Vitruvian-Man
7 ай бұрын
When normal women ask "is this what women fought for," they may feel to realize that it wasn't all women who led the charge for change, it was a minority of bitter, angry women. Often times, the minority of people ruin things for the majority of people.
@JasonlaroseLaRose
6 ай бұрын
Eve wanted to be like God (goddess) knowing good & bad. They are all daughters of Eve.
@michaelhurley5936
6 ай бұрын
Wife speaking here. Couldn't agree more! While I very much appreciate the progress made by the Suffragettes and the early feminists, I feel the current feminists have taken things way too far ... to the extreme. I feel they have now ruined things for not just young women (who I feel terribly sorry for) but for all women. And, of course, for you poor men. I'm approaching 65, married to the love of my life for nearly 40 years. I sorely miss the chivalry I used to experience from men (not talking about my husband). Toxic masculinity?? To me, it's INTOXICATING masculinity!! I love big, strong, masculine, dominant men who are respectful to women and feel the masculine urge to take care of them and their children. I, in turn, am respectful to them. It's rare that a man will hold a door for me these days (always did in the past), so when they do, I always say, "Thank you! You're such a gentleman." I love it when a younger man holds a door, and I hope my words make him realize that some women actually still appreciate the gesture (and see them as gentlemen). Hopefully, that will encourage him to continue being a gentleman. My husband has been the breadwinner for most of our marriage, and I tell him every day how much I appreciate the things he does for me (and us). I very often say, "You're so good to me". He loves it when I yield to him (not submit ... yield), and I try to yield as much as I can. He's a dominant man (which I love), but he's not dominating or domineering (which I wouldn't love). His masculinity brings out my femininity, and my femininity brings out his masculinity ... Yin and Yang. It may not work for some couples, but it works amazingly well for us. Mind you, it took a long time for us to work this whole dynamic out. I only wish I realized how important this dynamic was decades ago. We RARELY argue, and we laugh all the time, at ourselves and with each other. He's my best friend, my wonderful companion and lover, and I would be lost without him. I also still think he's gorgeous (at 66), and I tell him so all the time. Amazingly, we're still in love after all these years. Respect from both is so key, as is humor. Also, staying calm during disagreements, and realizing your partner is just trying to figure out the issue and your point of view, not trying to destroy you. Again, respect. Here's a tip for all you men ... when your woman is upset (whether with you or about something else), the absolute BEST thing you can do is simply to hold her ... soothe her, stroke her back, tell her you love her. And, of course, if you're the one who upset her, tell her you're sorry. It goes a LONG way toward making her see that you care. If you just stand there looking at her, not knowing what to do or say, she'll think you don't care. It may sound sexist, but women take great comfort in being comforted by the man they love, and they find great comfort in his big strong arms. Just saying ...
@JasonlaroseLaRose
6 ай бұрын
@@michaelhurley5936 Ahhh, the good ones are always taken.
@jamestrent-nw9zb
6 ай бұрын
Yes you are right, in fact there is a very bitter angry woman who works in the fruit shop near me who even makes the grapefruit taste sweet compared to her. I wouldn't say she's ugly, but when she returns to work after a day or two off, the mice throw themselves on the traps.
@jamestrent-nw9zb
6 ай бұрын
@Sam97-oi4vc Ha ha. The important thing for me is to find humour...even in this dark world we live in. Cheers!
@slydog81
7 ай бұрын
They all want a top quality man but few are worthy of that kind of man.
@Ceadus34
7 ай бұрын
Very very very few.
@im1who84u
7 ай бұрын
They all want an old fashion man with traditional values, but they don't want to be and old fashion woman with traditional values. They're not the kind of woman a smart high value man would want.
@BlaBla-jj6sh
7 ай бұрын
@@im1who84u That's what they never get. The women with 'high standards' rarely contemplate what standards such a man might expect in return. Narcissism princesses.
@jamestrent-nw9zb
6 ай бұрын
@@im1who84uVery very very few.
@B33ENN
5 ай бұрын
They don't know what a top quality man is, which is why they chase Chad/Tyrone on dating apps and get used like escorts but don't get paid. They think a top quality man is all looks and money, but don't realise those men will replace them with a younger model as soon as they age out of their prime, or have a life event that makes them too much effort to take care of.
@1Skeptik1
7 ай бұрын
Alexander is right! Men and women march to a different drum. Every young man would do well to listen and heed his words. I'm 72 years old and I knew none of this in my naive youth and my ignorance cost me greatly. "A man will sacrifice his life for his family, a woman will sacrifice her family for her feelings". Most women want to be brides, not wives, they are in the marriage and divorce for-profit business. Current divorce rates = 1st. 58%,, 2nd, 67%, 3rd. 74%. Marriage? Son, the odds are against you. At best you may be appreciated for your utility and at worst she will take you for everything she can get. (Me? Married twice, had one of each..)
@extraspicywasabi
7 ай бұрын
I'm 42, from the UK, the system isn't as bad here as the US but it's still 100% against men, technically not a widower because we never married, although this happened in May 2023. I'll never go back into the dating scene. I know what's out there, and what I have asset wise along with a generous kind heart, it's just not worth the risk... I'll buy it or go without. They're not worth the hassle.
@hillbillyintheasia6122
7 ай бұрын
passport bro,s
@nap871
7 ай бұрын
My hat off to you boomer. Most men of your age are utterly clueless. Your generation continue to carry the blue pill torch.
@brotherowl
7 ай бұрын
Until the moment she's bored of it.
@Zeus-dw1cx
7 ай бұрын
They say they aren't happy,then walk away with half of the assets and get Alimony
@allseeingotto2912
7 ай бұрын
@@Zeus-dw1cxtell me about it
@carefulcarpenter
7 ай бұрын
It isn't the beta male that is boring..... it is the attention span of the woman. She can"'t comprehend the detail.
@marknasia5293
7 ай бұрын
or doesn’t get her way, and decides divorce will teach him to let her get her way.
@HighHOPE36
7 ай бұрын
Until they get reminded of when Chad and Tyrone used to rail them , then hit you with the divorce papers.
@thelaggymonster
7 ай бұрын
We're past the point of asking whether it's worth it, we already know it isn't.
@danlambert1061
6 ай бұрын
Succinct, correct, and shows that for the next 20 years, our society will progressively decline. In my opinion, we have already passed the tipping point. 😢
@jamestrent-nw9zb
6 ай бұрын
There's an old Indian saying...woman who dances with wolves, cries with cats (I got that from an old Indian)
@Daniel1132Micah5
3 ай бұрын
, Truth
@michaellombardi5831
7 ай бұрын
VERY FEW MEN ARE MAD AT WOMEN'S " HIGH STANDARDS ". WE'RE MAD THAT THEY DEMAND THEM BUT POSSESS SO FEW THEMSELVES! THEY CAN LIST 100 THINGS A MAN NEEDS TO BE BUT ASK HER WHAT SHE OFFERS IN RETURN, SILENCE.
@MikeJones-wp2mw
7 ай бұрын
When I was 22 there was a girl I had known since we were 12. We would hook up off and on. One day we were laying in bed and she told me, "One day you are gonna make someone so happy." That was her way of telling me it wasn't going to be her. She knew I wanted it to be her. But I wasn't good enough, even though she thought I was going to be more than good enough for someone else. It was crushing to me. I didn't even say anything. She was truly amazing, I did feel lucky she gave me the attention she did. But something gave her the impression that she could do better than me, even though I made her happy enough that she thought that telling me that in the way she did was a compliment. Fast forward two decades and the last time I talked to her she begged me to be with her. I would rather be alone. She and I could have had a fabulous life together. What she traded that for is so miserable and pathetic I wouldn't want to share the details of it here. But it's hardly something unique enough that she would recognize it, or that any woman should mistake me for that guy they messed things up with. Hell, they messed up that guy, they ruined him for even a woman that would have appreciated him. After that I had a different attitude towards relationships. She was right, I made many women happy. They all betrayed me in the same way. But I was forced to give them the trust they didn't deserve up front simply because there is no other way to forge the kind of relationship I wanted without jumping both feet in from the beginning. You start out at 100% and you either keep it or you lose it a little or all at once. Where from the woman's perspective I would start at 0% and have to build the trust. Never fully able to get to 100% no matter what I did. And not being able to get to 100% meant that they always had a backup plan, always had one foot out the door. And eventually it is the existence of the backup plan that causes the entire trust situation to go through an inversion. Where I lost my trust in them just as they were testing me. They would do something to gauge my reaction, they would intentionally try to make me feel jealous or insecure. To them that proves something. But to me them making me feel that way is proof to me that I want nothing to do with them anymore.
@iamsyourdadi
7 ай бұрын
Damn bro...every young man's villain arc. Loving someone who cant love you back. Now i want to know what she traded a life with you for. Mine was an alcoholic married man
@Asto508
7 ай бұрын
I kinda had the same pillow talk with a woman that I really wanted to be with, but she told me in the same way that this is not going to happen with her. It was very painful back then, but after a few years I got over her. I'm still in occasional contact with her but all the feelings I ever had for her are completely gone now and I prefer being alone. I don't know in what universe women think that stuff like this is not going to hurt a man deeply.
@MikeJones-wp2mw
7 ай бұрын
@@iamsyourdadi She striped for a few years until she found a trust fund guy and sunk her claws in. Got pregnant as quick as possible. But his family put a PI on her and said no way. They basically took the kid away from her. But they paid her for it. Like a lot of money. She blew it all, went from shitty guy to shittier guy until she got old and her games didn't get excused anymore. The last time I saw her or talked to her I left her in the Omni Hotel downtown while she was begging me to be with her. 20 years ago I would have killed to hear her say that. Now, it's insulting. I guess I'm supposed to get some kind of satisfaction from knowing that. But what I really know is that she would do everything the exact same way, she doesn't wish she took me up on my offer back 20 years ago. She wanted to party and do what she did, or she wouldn't have done it. But she thought when she was done I would bail her out. I'd rather be alone.
@iamsyourdadi
7 ай бұрын
@@MikeJones-wp2mw Thats crazy bro. Wow. That's more damage than i even imagined. The expectation that you are going to save her is so insulting i dont even have words for it. I was told that and i was so mad i couldnt even think. Thank God i walked away. Cheers bro thanks for sharing. And good luck to you
@florenbaron7111
7 ай бұрын
You deserve so much better than that woman. She would have hurt you much more if she didn't leave.
@MrEdium
7 ай бұрын
NOTHING MAKES WOMEN HAPPY.🤯
@edheldude
7 ай бұрын
Give them nothing, then.
@asmyself4021
7 ай бұрын
@@edheldudeThis is the equivalent of "be yourself" BS suggestion.
@edheldude
7 ай бұрын
@@asmyself4021 It was a joke.
@asmyself4021
7 ай бұрын
@@edheldude Allright, sorry
@edheldude
7 ай бұрын
@@asmyself4021 👍🙏
@tubesurfer007
7 ай бұрын
That use to be the good idea but today's women is toast. No one wants today's woman. I'd rather be single.
@lucky7bolt456
7 ай бұрын
THEN DATE THE GENERATIONS FROM THE PAST YA GENIUS
@tubesurfer007
7 ай бұрын
A lot of them have been influenced by today's rubbish or the good ones are married. As you get older you're just better off single than wasting time searching for needles in woke haystacks.@@lucky7bolt456
@AnixCo1990
7 ай бұрын
As Paul Joseph Watson once said it all can be summed up in one word Hoeflation.
@zeusx6479
7 ай бұрын
@@lucky7bolt456 or just smash and dash and dont take the current generation serious
@Gigknskzkeu
7 ай бұрын
@@lucky7bolt456 neither do any of us really want to date someone's grandmother though.
@prima6170
7 ай бұрын
She wants a man that puts her in her "feminine energy" (Whatever that means), and when you are masculine like she wants you to be, she says *you're too controlling.* You can't win.
@apushman
7 ай бұрын
Had an ex that “wanted me to put her in her place/ keep her in check” as thats being masculine. Yeah, that was a lie. I got tantrums when I said No.
@decwow
7 ай бұрын
What it means is: Nothing. It's Tumblr-tier bullshit on par with "vibes". It's a verbal sleight of hand to distract you from questioning what she actually means, which is constantly changing and she will lie about anyway.
@Talismantra
7 ай бұрын
@@apushman that's what makes the "becomes a child with that man" part of the sales pitch just like a standard "genie wish" grift! I'm not convinced men want women who have to deconstruct their "masculine energy" in each interaction, let alone who will become a child... no thanks.
@spacecandygames7575
7 ай бұрын
@@apushmanwomen want a man who’s good with children. So it seems they become children in order to test it.
@chadplow824
7 ай бұрын
It means she wants you to smack her around a little bit, even if she doesn’t know that’s what she meant. I know it’s taboo to even suggest such a thing and that you’ll go to jail if you indulge her instincts, but that’s what men did to unruly women for millennia.
@JAdams-jx5ek
7 ай бұрын
As a man, I don't feel my standards are low, it's a 3 mark scale - Incredible, acceptable, and unacceptable. Incredible doesn't really exist. - Once you get to know them.... they show who they really are. Unacceptable is everywhere.
@onlythehocine
4 ай бұрын
That's a very accurate gauge!
@Melting_because_of_beauty
7 ай бұрын
Alexander grace you are one of the legends right now , deserves much more attention
@Taikutsuna1
7 ай бұрын
It’s like a cartoon I saw once where a woman in her wedding dress is devouring the wedding cake. Her bridesmaid tries to pull her away and she screams “I’ve been dieting all my life. I’m married now and don’t have to pretend anymore.” If you ever want to see a split personality, put a ring on it and it will be a completely different person after you marry it.
@SEASICK206
4 ай бұрын
Most of the time all you have to do is have them move in with you then give it a few weeks. I never made it to the marriage stage because I lived with them first✌️
@gardenlove7750
7 ай бұрын
When you finally find a good one - her friends spend all of their time trying to talk her into leaving you
@BlakeKasgaard
7 ай бұрын
That’s the worst, normally the sweet, easygoing, submissive ones are like that with her friends too, so she naturally ends up with a friend group of masculine, controlling women. She needs their approval, and once they see you’re a real man and threatening their control over her, they blackball you in the typical female character assassination game. I had one relationship end cus I went on vacation with the group, and one girl was cheating on her boyfriend, a guy I knew personally. She brought a guy home and was sitting on his lap, I was the only one who didn’t pretend it was okay, and the friends hated me from that day forward. Insane.
@grouchy88
6 ай бұрын
@@BlakeKasgaard oh no, big mistake. its not her wrongdoing when cheating, its obviously everybody elses fault, especially the guys that got cheated on
@warrenm-up4ox
6 ай бұрын
Yup. Exact same thing recently happened to me. All of her friends are hard-core feminists. They either have beta boyfriends or are single and very alone cause they can't keep a guy around. And her friends saw me adore of an alpha guy and because of their jealousy started to sabotage the relationship by saying I was controlling and insecure for setting boundaries. It hurt at first. But after a couple months I realized this was all a huge blessing in disguise haha.
@jamestrent-nw9zb
6 ай бұрын
Spot on.
@Wisdom122
6 ай бұрын
Sooo very true and sooo very sad !
@Canucklehead557
7 ай бұрын
I don't have a daughter, but if I did I'd tell she's lucky to have anyone to look after her and treat her with kindness. Don't betray that by running to the streets. Laydeez if you want a good man, stay off the streets, otherwise you get played.
@thomashenshallhydraxis
7 ай бұрын
I’ve stopped dating all together in 2020. Four years of peace. No fighting. I’m done with modern women.
@your_royal_highness
7 ай бұрын
I dated an Asian widow (kids were grown) for a year or so and she was sweet and kind. She was from a very traditional culture and for where she came from, she was “liberated.” I loved it when she said her mother’s advice before marriage was to make sure she gave her man an orgasm every day. Great advice! She was enthusiastic about it, too
@zergslayer69
7 ай бұрын
there's a rare breed, shame it only lasted a year
@your_royal_highness
7 ай бұрын
@@zergslayer69 I told her I was not going to be serious with her and was still looking and she accepted; but as typical they believe what they want to believe. There were some cultural differences, etc too. I found the person I wanted to have a LTR and she went hysterical. I think we spoke once after that and she said she thought we could be together until she went back to her home country.
@vannhantran547
6 ай бұрын
@@your_royal_highness at least you and her had a year of happiness
@patrickmarr7076
7 ай бұрын
regarding the benefit to hassle ratio of cooking: In my younger days, I was a local rock musician. In no other job since then have people given standing ovations for my performance. The closest thing has been when I cook a good meal for friends or family. People will provide huge amounts of positive reinforcement for even the most basic meal, as long as it's warm and tasty. Why women think it's beneath them to do what gets them the positive attention they seem to crave is beyond me. They could be rock stars in the kitchen every day!
@iamsyourdadi
7 ай бұрын
Very good point! But they were told its beneath them and they are better than that so.....
@ianclewer6684
7 ай бұрын
I’m turning 40 this year and I’m single, have been for years now. Years ago in my 20s I made some mistakes, I accept that I’m the master of my own destiny. However it is seemingly impossible to find a loving relationship now, I simply would like to be appreciated. Women expect everything and quite frankly it’s exhausting and emotionally debilitating. I can’t compete so I’ve given up, modern women are pond life, they offer nothing other than misery. I’ve accepted now that I’m unlikely to find a good woman as the good women are married or in relationships and have been for many years and will continue to be. The women left are either single because they choose to be, or because they’re insane.
@jyyyb
7 ай бұрын
Get a passport and try elsewhere, As above
@honkytonk4465
7 ай бұрын
Do you think every married woman is a good woman?
@ianclewer6684
7 ай бұрын
@@honkytonk4465 no
@caseydulgar7058
7 ай бұрын
You are talking about Western women. I agree with some of the other comments here. Many, many women in our culture have contracted a feminist mind virus. Not so much in Asia. Grab your passport. You will thank me one day.
@johnnywriight
7 ай бұрын
Mostly insane
@psluxton
7 ай бұрын
As a househusband, who gave up his job to take care of the house and our kid, I can tell you FOR A FACT that that is a very vulnerable position. I often think she's cheating, but that's just my negative thoughts and I squash them flat. I KNOW she isn't. That doesn't stop me having negative thoughts when I'm alone and miserable though. Also our future is in HER HANDS, so if she starts "lagging" or "failing" I get VERY worried. I CAN'T just start working and supporting us all by myself, not until our child is old enough to take care of herself. Thing is: I can deal with this situation much better than my missus. I'm mentally strong, while she had Post-natal Depression and was failing at motherhood and being a housewife. Swapping roles (her going out to work) was the best thing for her AND us. She has the feeling of being needed and having lots of social interaction, which is what she needed to get back on top of her own self again. I still worry sometimes though, and I have backup plans just in case things go south.
@alexandergrace5350
7 ай бұрын
Keep going brother, I admire your courage and support your decision. You sound like a great Dad :)
@knotengajin7359
7 ай бұрын
Odds are against you on the cheating issue. She has way more opportunity to cheat and is better at hiding her cheating. Also, odds are pretty high that she resents being the provider and thus resents you for not being a “man” which will push her to cheat and probably eventually divorce you.
@postmodernmining
7 ай бұрын
Ignoring your instincts is a really bad idea.
@geoffshaw346
7 ай бұрын
I'm glad you do,to protect yourself.
@psluxton
7 ай бұрын
Chill guys! My instincts tell me she isn't cheating, it's just bad thoughts. All's good in my world. I appreciate the warnings. 😁❤️
@willmitchell6521
7 ай бұрын
I work 50 hours a week in construction. Own money, meal prep, dishwasher, washing machine, auto vac, I hang with buddies each weekend, pron for the release. What is a woman good for.
@patienceobongo
7 ай бұрын
Nagging
@1rockscar
7 ай бұрын
Everything a woman “provides” in this mHOEdarn world… Can be outsourced
@DonGilbertoGuruledeNuevoMejico
7 ай бұрын
Chaos and misery
@yatessixecho1
7 ай бұрын
Absolutely nothing.
@chapagawa
6 ай бұрын
Well, I like the husband-wife dynamic and kids.
@lzl3lol
7 ай бұрын
Why does anyone give this grifting woman time ill never understand. I see her as the ultimate chameleon. I cant take anything she says seriously personally because to me, she's just grifting and saying what she knows her audience wants to hear.
@rjflores438
7 ай бұрын
Ive heard this woman say in the past that she will only be feminine for a very masculine high earning man. When he shows weakness, I guarentee that here feminine energy will start to be replaced by a more masculine side.
@dirtedeuce5936
7 ай бұрын
yea shes a woman
@Asto508
7 ай бұрын
Like everyone on social media. Gratz, you cracked the code.
@Okunniger_Volker
7 ай бұрын
@@Asto508grifting implies she doesn't actually believe what she preaches and just goes along with it for clout. Men cannot do this for the most part without facing backlash from society, so it's not "everyone on social media".
@Asto508
7 ай бұрын
@@Okunniger_Volker Did you just claim that men can't be grifters? Wow
@cfnaround1585
7 ай бұрын
You know what makes a man successful. When he doesn’t have to waste time at home worrying about taking care of the house
@CDRFINANCE
4 ай бұрын
I’ll live alone in a three bedroom house and honestly it’s not that hard. I spend a few hours a week on housework, what are women complaining about, it’s one of the easiest and simple tasks in the entire planet
@cfnaround1585
4 ай бұрын
@@CDRFINANCE it’s what they were raised with in their heads. Raised by women with no life purpose or understanding of what their work gets them. Just entitlement
@sandeep_k55
2 ай бұрын
@@CDRFINANCEthey're complaining that access to man's money and control is being restricted and questioned
@lugwrench9832
7 ай бұрын
"There are people in Europe who, confounding together the different characteristics of the sexes, would make of man and woman, beings not only equal, but alike. Both are degraded, and nothing could ever result but weak men and disorderly women." ~ Alexis de Tocqueville (1805-1859)
@airgin3000
6 ай бұрын
Is this a real quote???
@lugwrench9832
6 ай бұрын
@@airgin3000 Yes. Verbatim, real quote.
@swcrossii
6 ай бұрын
Fascinating quote - thank you for sharing 👊🏻
@andrewg2618
7 ай бұрын
I was married. Divorced 10 years ago. 45 now and living like a king. Boys, don't do it. I know the hormones tell you to do so....but don't. Live like a king...in peace. Sure, have fun...but then go home and relax
@thedalillama
7 ай бұрын
I got married at 37, thinking what could go wrong at that age and you couldn't have a complete life without marriage. What a mistake that was. Neither assumption was true.
@Jacob-py9mx
7 ай бұрын
Im 23 and finishing up my 4 year contract in the military. What should men do if they don't marry then? Just casually date and never live together?
@Zlotousty
7 ай бұрын
@@Jacob-py9mx just do what you want and you will be happy
@Jacob-py9mx
7 ай бұрын
@@Zlotousty I want to get married to a decent girl but everyone is saying that WONT make me happy
@Zlotousty
7 ай бұрын
@@Jacob-py9mxAvoid marrying young. Instead, explore relationships with various women and savor life’s experiences. Think about settling down with marriage only once you’re past 30.
@SuperdutyExplorer
7 ай бұрын
After my last breakup in 2019, I put my head down and started working on myself... the grind was hard, took a few years to see big results... last year I moved into a house after working on it with my dad. Then got the promotion to foreman at work. Got a newer truck and built the adventure rig I've dreamed about, traveling is my passion. I do love my job but it's hard... I think my job is a deal breaker for alot of lady's... I'm a blue collar asphalt paving foreman, so yes I make over 100k... but to do that I work from end of April to end of November, 60-90 hour weeks Mon-Sat... but then get to do as I please over winter! Work hard play harder!! I never order out, I cook all my own food.... just need someone to love me and help keep my busy life organized....
@Thetarget1
6 ай бұрын
Sounds like an interesting lifestyle. I can definitely see how it can be hard to build a family like that, but on the other hand, I also have friends who are sailors or married to sailors, and they are also away for long stretches of time. In the end you have to find a woman who is willing to accept that she will basically be alone for half the year, but then has a lot of quality time in the other half.
@roberthawkins3106
7 ай бұрын
Committing your life to a woman is the highest price you can possibly pay. Why not just pay a working girl to have fun, it's much cheaper. Men, do you really want to have a child which will almost certainly be weaponized against you? You'll pay for the child/children while the mother poisons their mind and traumatizes them for life. That child will also grow up in this world full of pain and suffering while they try to navigate the same growing problems we face now.
@timmcculty2320
7 ай бұрын
Women are and have been receivers. The difference between yesterday and today is that women went from receiving and reciprocating to demanding and deciding whether or not to reciprocate. Modern feminism told them that giving a man what he wants is restrictive and oppressive, they should get to choose what they give back. Then extremely selfish women said "I am the table" and decided not to give anything in return. They confuse being demanding with leadership, maturity, standards, value, and that's why they can still reconcile their claims of being strong and independent while also wanting all the traditional chivalrous treatment. In their eyes, they're still the receiver. Nothing has changed, in fact it got better for them, not noticing or caring that it got worse for men. They don't realize that men expecting a woman to do some feminine things is not as oppressive as women demanding resources from men with no reciprocation.
@Okunniger_Volker
7 ай бұрын
"I am the table" is transgender energy. I like my women without wood.
@florenbaron7111
7 ай бұрын
Well said.
@AbhineetAsthana13
7 ай бұрын
3rd girl cutting onions is capping hard. She was called out a while back. Her TikTok is full of that empowerment and independence content. People will say and do anything for those like and views.
@bfwebster
7 ай бұрын
My sweet wife & I are both 71, been married for 38 years, 2nd marriage for each, raised 9+ kids. We've discussed relationships for decades. Our basic conclusions are: A woman wants a man she can trust. A man wants a woman who appreciates what he does. There's a basic asymmetry there that I think is in line with your observation.
@patnor7354
6 ай бұрын
No. Women don't. If that were the case they wouldn't choose cheatin' Chads.
@Last_day_events
7 ай бұрын
"Never settle " That's the mantra in USA. I have heard it so often.
@FreedomTalkMedia
7 ай бұрын
Which is one of several reasons why the world is facing population collapse
@colin1657
7 ай бұрын
The real mantra is "You're not enough." It's the narcissist's mantra. They're running the government and the economic systems.
@chadplow824
7 ай бұрын
@@FreedomTalkMedia The first world where women are allowed to make their own (poor) decisions is facing population collapse. The rest of the world is not.
@cowboyofscience7611
7 ай бұрын
Blame Oprah. Back in the 80's, she told women to "NEVER settle!"
@paulsengupta971
7 ай бұрын
@@FreedomTalkMediaThe world is absolutely not facing a population collapse! It would be a good thing if it were, though through the birth rate rather than nuclear war or such.
@nashvillecruising7373
7 ай бұрын
It's time to test the women if they can't meet a guy's standards just say no and walk away
@cuppa_joe
7 ай бұрын
3:33 It's not necessarily that men don't want to be rescued in dark times or don't need to rely on others, it's that when it comes to men no one is there to save us so we have no other choice but to either sink or swim. Women on the other hand will almost always be able to find a man or an institution that will be willing to save them out of an incredibly bad situation when times are tough. I think we have also strayed away from brotherhood as a society today. We as men should come together and help out our fellow brethren when they are in need and my hope is that we see a bit more of that in the future.
@TheOne-pv4rz
7 ай бұрын
To answer your question, yes I would want my daughter to find the best man possible that will complement her, but I would also learn her to make sandwiches, be feminine, be agreeable and kind, be fun. Because that's what a high value man generally values in a woman. I'm the CEO of a company, I argue all day long (business related), I don't want to come home to a woman to fight/argue more or to make my own food. I can make food myself but if you as a woman want to be part of my successful life then you better bring feminine traits with you and support me.
@yalrdyknow
7 ай бұрын
Exactly. This is the way of life. I heard on Google or something that said that people will be single by 2050.
@MrEdrftgyuji
7 ай бұрын
Women are terrible judges of character. They will turn down the honest men with stable careers in favour of failed drug dealers who are constantly in and out of prison for petty crimes. If you want evidence, just look at how many single mothers there are.
@keithgibbons5765
7 ай бұрын
Being single = PEACE and no drama!
@Just_a_Lad
7 ай бұрын
I'm a nerdy not tall introvert computer guy, so you can guess my success with women. There was one young woman who was into me, so I gave it a try, she was kinda cute, but when I got to know her I found out that she has a chronically bad breath, bad skin, autoimmune disease, she's very dumb, naive, super emotional, she's doesn't have any friends, she's dressing like a village girl , her perfume smelled like a toilet soap, but of those cheap ones , her hair was greasy and she couldn't find a job for months, meaning that she can hardly cope with her life. I tested her a few times, but apparently she doesn't want to change and she told me that she wanted someone to save her, to help her. I would have been okay with most of her problems, for a while, but having bad breath and skin and greasy hair , literally those basic things were a huge stopper for me. Apparently I don't want much, just some basics, but no , this is too much to ask. So of course I dumped her, she was too emotional about it, said that I'm like everyone else, etc. Jeez. And as I said I'm not getting girls often, but I prefer to be alone than to put up with this.
@johnsmith-ht3sy
7 ай бұрын
Get a passport, treat yourself to other worlds.
@caseydulgar7058
7 ай бұрын
Never put yourself in the position of being a savior to someone else. Only she can save herself, and she seems to have no interest in doing that.
@extraspicywasabi
7 ай бұрын
So, she had stinky breath, and you're just like everybody else? Meaning, apparently nobody else likes stinky breath either. And she doesn't want to change, and that's your fault. Lol
@johnsmith-ht3sy
7 ай бұрын
@@caseydulgar7058 Wise words, I was conditioned by Disney and Fairy tales when a small boy in the 60s to be a Knight and save a dame in distress. Harsh reality of the real world, taught me to avoid troubled people.
@Just_a_Lad
7 ай бұрын
@@caseydulgar7058 so true, I am not here to save anyone. Women want someone who's going to add to their lives, typically that's someone who already has it all, good shape, a house, a car, good job, money, etc. We, men should have similar high standards and should demand more. Unfortunately my brother married a damaged single mom who's not even pretty , she's even below average and she's regretting it now. The only good thing that came out from that relationship so far is my niece.
@sterlingdennett
7 ай бұрын
Oh, this BS about "men in their masculine energy" and how it "puts me in my feminine energy" is SO infuriating! Let's break it down. What she's REALLY saying is that the man has to "be in his masculine energy" - FIRST! THEN, she says, she can "be in her feminine energy". This is basically her saying "give me EVERYTHING I want, FIRST, and THEN I'll give you what you want and need". This is basically the Nigerian Prince Money Scam, applied to dating! "Give me a few hundred/thousand dollars, and THEN I will give you MILLIONS!" And if you pay it, you NEVER hear from him again. Similarly, if you bend over backwards to be masculine, she will NEVER give you anything in return - she will ALWAYS claim "you didn't give me enough, I couldn't FULLY relax into my feminine energy, you have to give me MORE next time - but don't stop trying, keep giving me more and more, I'm sure you will get it next time, just keep on playing, keep on pulling that slot machine lever!" This is LITERAL con artistry, and gambling, applied to dating, and NOTHING but! It will NEVER be enough for her...
@florenbaron7111
7 ай бұрын
It's yet another aspect of women's decisions that women blame on men.
@loveleyday
6 ай бұрын
I agree. It's obvious from the way she said it that she "resides in her masculine" most of the time. That's her default status. I'm not interested in breaking someone out of being a hardass by being a harder ass, especially after I come home from work where I have to be a hardass.
@firekestrel
5 ай бұрын
This is a good comment someone else wrote, which to me seems like being in strong masculine energy without falling for the scam: @curtisdecoste9345 1 month ago Early in my marriage, I had to tell my wife that she was replaceable, and the door is right there if she wasn’t happy. Her nagging and negative attitude had reached a critical point. She almost immediately changed for the better, and that was over 12 years ago. Still together and still happy as a team.
@nathanielacton3768
7 ай бұрын
Whenever I find a strong independent women who thinks she can "Do it all herself!". I always start at the same question. "Did you build your own house?' "No?" I did, I don't need another man to do it for me, because this whole house was built by me. (It's multiple stories). Self built crane, plumbing, electrical, data, solar system with starlink. The only tradesmen who came over were the concrete screeding crew and the electrician to do the certification. They stand on the accomplishments of men for EVERYTHING in their lives. Their buildings, their roads, their electricity their water and furniture assembly and delivery. The companies they work for and the phones and towers they use. Their computers and probably even their favorite bloody chefs because being strong and independent means they can't even feed themselves most of the time. These women then want to be 'wifed up' but have no qualities that pass the bar. Start with the basics woman. Build a house, solo with no help. Then tell me you are independent. These woman are bald faced liars.
@1rockscar
7 ай бұрын
I get your point, but.. Must have taken you a long time to fell, mill and plane all those trees for the 2x4s. How long did it take to harvest the horses to make all of the glue for the OSB? Mining, smelting and pulling all that copper for the wiring must have taken years. How did you make the drywall? Oh and the tar for the roof, did you dig that up and process that too? As a fix&flipper… I appreciate your effort. Many other men helped you without ever seeing your face. No one does anything completely by themselves.
@Okunniger_Volker
7 ай бұрын
@@1rockscarI'm not understanding your point. OP points out that the "strong and independent" isn't actually so independent and your response is to say "ok but you're not independent either." I'm not sure you understood his point, it seems you still have some gynocentric conditioning to deal with.
@DarkGodSeti
7 ай бұрын
That is a pretty extreme. Ok I bet majority of "independent men" can't do the same. I assume you made your own computer, electric generator, your own internet, language, clothes, cars. wait you build you own 5g tower and cell phone too, damn. i also assume you made the roads to your place as well as made the pipes, wires, etc for your home? I'd assume so, otherwise independence you claim is a farce... Or do you claim work done is your because a man did it? i'm guess you put your own cable under the ocean to use your internet too, and made rockets to put satellites in orbit. (believe it or not... women are in those profession, and they can even vote now!) I bet you create your own photons as well, why rely on the sun, nature, or lights. If you can MAKE subatomic particles!
@tommiller7177
7 ай бұрын
I think the point this man is making is that he did a huge amount of work to build himself up to be desirable in the eyes of a female. But a female that is "good looking" or pretty, can walk outside and get a boyfriend.
@nathanielacton3768
7 ай бұрын
@@1rockscar Inadvertently, you exactly made my point. I'm building houses. I'm building banking and insurance systems. I'm building tools for others to use, sharing knowledge and using what other people produce. What you don't see me saying is the people I depend on don't even need to exist. n terms of independence and self sufficiency and self reliance I'm probably at the extreme end (yes, I grow a good portion of my own good too), however I'm not going to walk around like an imbecile saying that the people I depend on might as well stop existing as we see with the people that are the of independent and strong.
@hottuna7
7 ай бұрын
It seems that "modern" women overlook the fact that, if they are a stay at home wife/mom, everything they do whether it's cooking, cleaning, etc., *they* also benefit from it, not just their spouse.
@j.p.5716
7 ай бұрын
And they would have to do it for themselves if they lived alone.
@chillwave8809
7 ай бұрын
I can understand women having slightly higher standards. What I don’t understand is having standards that are completely unrealistic.
@user-og6hl6lv7p
7 ай бұрын
You'd think with birth control being widely consumed that their standards would drop since they do not risk pregnancy anymore. Turns out altering their hormones made their standards even worse.
@chillwave8809
7 ай бұрын
@@user-og6hl6lv7p sex was seen as a treasure or a bonus for being in a relationship, now it’s used at any point in time.
@mickydee1289
Ай бұрын
I have watched multiple of your videos now and I have to say : You put so much valuebale information out in one single Video. All of your Videos together are truly a gift for men. They encourage me even more to develope self love, compassion and kindness towards myself first , before even thinking of getting a women in these difficult times. I wanna make sure that I can be on my own and not depend on a womans attention. Thanks a lot from Germany! Oh, and i saw some of your Videos are filmed in from Perth. I lived there for a year in 2007 and miss it eversince
@ronmexico5908
7 ай бұрын
If you’re a happy healthy person you don’t focus on small requirements from someone else. It’s not a relationship then. It’s a transaction
@b-art6098
7 ай бұрын
Cooking and cleaning for modern women is like showing a crucifix to a vampire. My grandmother in her village needed to go to stream and carry buckets of water for cooking and cleaning. Jeez, nowadays you put already stuffed chicken in the oven, turn on the Roomba that cleans the house and put later on the dishes in the dishwasher. C'mon it's not "slaving" away your life, the bar is so low nowadays that is almost a zero.
@KingsguardRP
7 ай бұрын
Nothing more annoying than a person who thinks and acts based on emotions trying to compete with you for a leadership position despite not knowing how the world works. It's akin to an inexperienced co-pilot competing with a veteran pilot over how to navigate the plane to reach a destination. The annoying part is being fully aware that if the plane were to not make it to its destination, the co--pilot will put the blame firmly on you. Miraculous recognition of authority only happens when there is blame to impose.
@Okunniger_Volker
7 ай бұрын
It's like arguing with children. If you can help it, don't do it.
@Dru2maBoii
7 ай бұрын
The only thing that stops men from getting what they want/need is their belief that they can't have/don't deserve it. Lack of confidence in yourself produces certain characteristics that tend to lead to certain results. If men saw themselves as valuable as they truly are, they would require much more for themselves, thus raising the standard of everything else around them.
@montereypine4702
7 ай бұрын
Have you ever tried telling a woman that they are not up to your standard? I have, and the emotional outbursts are ridiculous
@Dru2maBoii
7 ай бұрын
@montereypine4702 if a woman can't respect you enough to control herself and listen to you, she doesn't deserve to be in your life. A woman can never do what you don't allow. Adopt a zero tolerance policy for women and their disrespect. You have to know you deserve better than that, and make her prove it, or drop her. Simple
@andrewg2618
7 ай бұрын
@montereypine4702 you don't tell them. You show them in your behaviour. You don't give them the time of day.
@neilmccabe172
7 ай бұрын
I'm going to disagree. This "having confidence in yourself" claptrap doesn't work unless you're good looking, rich, charming, talented or whatever. Confidence should only come from knowing you have the ability!
@Dru2maBoii
7 ай бұрын
@neilmccabe172 What you're referring to is pseudo confidence. Fake it till you make it. I'm describing building yourself into something to be proud of. Creating the very circumstances that would lead to the success you desire. Hard work provides results that provide genuine confidence.
@Novaximus
7 ай бұрын
I feel like the number one thing that a guy needs to do in a relationship is exercise his ability to say "No" to her. If you can't do that and she throws a fit and runs off or makes a huge fight of it then you've got to nip that in the bud. And I don't mean just to say No in the respect of being unreasonable or overly selfish but start saying No because it's both sensible and it's your personal preference on things you want and don't want. You have to walk your path wether she follows it or not. Women will lose respect and love for you if you don't.
@davidronin1536
6 ай бұрын
I think this is the most important short presentation you've ever done. Thank you.
@beachbum5118
6 ай бұрын
years ago I married a girl with low esteem who told me she wanted to be a homemaker and mother. After a few years I kept building up her self confidence and commenting on her average looks being special until one day she told me she was too good for me and then I lost my home, more or less lost my son for years, and got to pay child support for years. After thinking about this I realized that I could have just had sex with her for a while and then moved on with my life. This was in the old days, now it seems like women can't wait to have sex with lots of guys. I should have been a young guy now and avoided the mirage (oh sorry, marriage) that I found myself in.
@maximuscomfort
6 ай бұрын
beachbum, it seems to happen often and thus lightens the shock of female nature like a MFer.
@istoppedcaring6209
2 ай бұрын
those particular women like lot's of sex with the same 5-15% of guys, many women are reasonable but society has gotten crazy, do you know why Harvey Weinstein's judgement is being overturned? Because it was all based on "believe all women" and wouldn't you know it it's the same with trump's conviction for an offense neither party can even date properly or explain properly and Trump even states that he doesn't remember ever meeting his accuser. But he was convicted years after it had in fact aged past the statute of limitations oh and a legal principle states that you can't retroactively change the law but that didn't matter to these people, they are not here for fairness, they are here to satisfy grudges
@trog.lodyte
7 ай бұрын
"You go girl!" , but I'll be staying right here with my dogs, peace and freedom.
@pp-bb6jj
7 ай бұрын
It's ridiculous that men want 5 or 6 things from women that are relatively easy and women don't know or don't care or don't want to do those things. But they complain. If we had on the male side 5 or 6 things women wanted from men absolute majority of men would do those things. And we would be happy that we know what they wanted.
@avengemybreath3084
7 ай бұрын
They do. Big D, perfect body, 6 ft+, high income, high status. That’s only 5 things!
@Okunniger_Volker
7 ай бұрын
They know, but to them they see it as getting the best deal. "How can I do the least and get the most" this is in their eyes, a "good" man.
@1bizjets
7 ай бұрын
We have low expectations because we are working with what's available.
@Foxstab
7 ай бұрын
Most men (and I do mean MEN) just want order, peace, stability, and security (in the house). Most women want chaos, discord, disorder, intrigue, flux. Mundane routine bores them, drives them mad.
@DaniTorresOfficial
6 ай бұрын
I don't want a women to be at home cleaning the house, cooking, blabla. I want to do those things... TOGETHER in like half the time, and having a good time meanwhile! Then go out, enjoy life and supporting each other in achieving our life goals. It's easy.
@theresa78201
3 ай бұрын
Best comment here...Also, it is becoming increasingly difficult for a family to live on the income of just one worker.
@DaniTorresOfficial
3 ай бұрын
@@theresa78201 Exactly! And running OUR home together just grows the bond between us!
@Davidrnsnmbrs
7 ай бұрын
It's not even just the tests. It's the useless tests after you've already failed but get tested anyway. Not tall enough, not a big enough Johnson, not a big enough salary, not enough friends. "He just has to have that masculine energy." Bullsht. Let's fix that. "He needs to have that true masculine energy while also being the picture of physical perfection. Anything less than the body of Adonis, and we're just deciding if he's good enough to kiss our feet."
@michaelammons2350
7 ай бұрын
Why would a highly masculine guy kiss her feet that's a sub behavior. A highly masculine guy would have her kiss his feet. Women fail to understand what high confidence brings is a man that knows his value and doesn't lower himself treats himself as high value and has clear and strong boundaries.
@Davidrnsnmbrs
7 ай бұрын
@michaelammons2350 Yeah, it's me exaggerating what they want, not a suggestion. Remember, too, they can't differentiate what masculinity is until it's shown to them, and what they think they want vs. what they actually want are all different. Inside a woman's mind, it's entirely possible to have a highly masculine man and someone who will kiss her feet.
@TheSirse
7 ай бұрын
My wife was the "sTrOnG iNdEpEnDeNt" type when we met. I liked her and kept chipping away, until we finally started dating. Eventually she saw what I was about, and today she chooses to be a traditional wife. I do the hard stuff, she keeps the house in order. She is much more relaxed and happy instead of the highly strung emotional wreck I met all those years ago.
@VersionBest
7 ай бұрын
Not to mention their friends are constantly in their ears giving them bad advice and telling lies about their boyfriend or husband. Women are like this. They would rather sabotage their friend's relationship than see them happy. I've seen it happened from a third person perspective and I've had it happened to me. What did I do? I just got exhausted and gave up on her for believing her friends over me.
@kristianniss5201
7 ай бұрын
I do not think those standards are low. If that was describing a man I'd howl with laughter, but we're talking about women here. The basics is very high end for a woman. If you find a woman that does the basics you've found a top 20% woman.
@andrewpinkham9904
7 ай бұрын
Wow you nailed that. Women have never been more unpleasant.
@durango.j-onez
7 ай бұрын
What a good video mate! Shows how we need balance on earth - Yin and Yang I think im seeing things trend slowly back into balance, thanks to articles and videos (like yours) sparking conversations on this topic
@markaurelius61
7 ай бұрын
Why do you have such a concern for a daughter but not a son? These days the man is taking a much greater risk in entering a relationship than the woman.
@Qaldar
6 ай бұрын
You missed his point. The whole video is about men and sons. He was making an illustration to help men put themselves in a woman’s shoes to show that certain aspects of their nature is warranted in the right context.
@kellyroach9528
5 ай бұрын
You’re channel is excellent and your advice is spot on !
@zukodude487987
7 ай бұрын
I dont see the point in being masculine. Even if it guaranteed you a woman it doesnt mean you are better off. You are still a punching bag only loved under the condition that you manage to be useful and she can decide whenever that you are an abuser/toxic and take half your stuff. The issue is that relationships are not fair and puts a lot of risk on you with nothing equal value in return.
@palnagok1720
7 ай бұрын
Get out of America and the west
@lasermaxx4695
6 ай бұрын
Incredulous, to be expressive of disbelief. Thank you for that word ❤
@BruceKarrde
7 ай бұрын
1) Be cute enough so that I'm attracted to you. 2) Be supportive enough so that I can trust you to take care things on your own. 3) Be healthy, so that our kid doesn't have to spend his life without a mother. 4) Don't test me every day, because I don't want to deal with your insecurities every day and every hour. What is worse for dating is that in my experience, whenever I see a woman I dated before with a new guy ... he's rich. It just sucks, because no matter the salary, they'll always find someone wealthier.
@florenbaron7111
7 ай бұрын
Most women are para'sitic.
@SonsofIssac
7 ай бұрын
I did time in the military so I didn’t get to college until my late 20’s. I saw all these young chicks just out of high school wearing pajamas to class, literally like they just rolled out of bed. Slippers and all. It’s crazy
@TheLostODST
7 ай бұрын
Men don't expect more because we are logical thinkers overall. We dont expect what we know don't exist.
@SIgor420
6 ай бұрын
Dude, you are opening my eyes on so many levels. I am 35 and nothing from what you are teaching here is somehting I knew until now. So much more htings have sense now, daaaamn. Thank you man. Hopefully I can use this to make things easier for myself and future partner.
@pwalker1360
7 ай бұрын
For women, masculine energy is ... money.
@EC-yl7xk
7 ай бұрын
No money is needed to survive. It has nothing to do with gender.
@ArthurZ-nj8hh
5 ай бұрын
After watching this video, my advice would be: 'Be compassionate towards people who deserve it, set boundaries... and put yourself in a position that other women around her want you; and she will always know about it (because women always do)... and she is yours forever (if you want to)... because, if you put yourself in this position - it is ultimately becomes your choice (but remember - 'be compassionate to people who deserve it'... and if she is deserving it - she is the one for you. :)
@iamtesting3824
7 ай бұрын
The biggest problem is the lack of understanding of men by women.
@MartialistKS
7 ай бұрын
The woman in the last clip is so full of bs. Imagine as a man telling women "I have an alpha masculine side, but I only give it to women who show me their feminine side first. Show me a truly demure, feminine women and watch me become a true alpha who can take charge and make her feel safe" and expecting that to land like it's a good thing. It's a very childish attitude. It's a mirror of "I'll apologize after YOU apologize" or roughly 'I'll do what's good for the relationship after you do it first' - that kind of attitude doesn't create anything healthy.
@vvolfflovv
7 ай бұрын
All I ask for is someone who is honest with me, affectionate and thin. I'm 43, 6ft, zero health problems, have a stable job that won't be replaced by AI. Am I asking for too much?
@Roqjoru
7 ай бұрын
I appreciate your channel and your candidness, so much to glean. I enjoy the mental stimulus. Scenerios... A Women Selecting... 1- Father, grandfather, uncles vetting incoming prospect... interview. 2- "Women picking (selecting)" while predator men are working at deceiving her, her not being a man, how would she know his mindset and game(s)? Like you presented daddy investing 20yrs, does he have to stop investing? Can he continuing, is that ok? I continued to invest in her... the unworthy ran and the "right one" married her.
@philipgmetcalf
7 ай бұрын
Notice that no-one uses the word LOVE anymore. Marriage has just become a business transaction, that women can end when they wish to upgrade to the next sucker to take them on.
@dennisboyd1712
6 ай бұрын
She's right!
@axl1002
7 ай бұрын
My ex wife "I want you to work and I to spend"
@fairhall001
7 ай бұрын
Imagine if she said,"I want you to work and I to save"
@axl1002
7 ай бұрын
@_zantetsuken_ Yeah, she believed she is my pimp.
@FreedomTalkMedia
7 ай бұрын
I've never thought of calling it a pimp. I have heard women describe the pimping role though. They would go to social mixers, for example, and network to get their man a higher paying job.
@BBQDad463
7 ай бұрын
The characteristic without which the others do not really matter is desire.
@darkgardener9577
7 ай бұрын
Why are our standards so low? Beggars can't be choosers.... when trash is all you've got, you get used to it. On the upside you don't get very attached and have no problem tossing it on the curb where it belongs.
@eisernherz3929
7 ай бұрын
16:02 that part is kinda disturbing... why is turning into a child a good thing for the woman and the relationship?...
@axl1002
7 ай бұрын
Her daddy is a pedo?
@Okunniger_Volker
7 ай бұрын
Women are the recivers, in relationships they receive gifts and services, in the bed they are the catchers. By nature they do not want responsibility or obligation, they see their fathers (if they had one) as the ultimate man until another comes along and takes up a similar role. Equality is a flase god.
@LydellAaron
7 ай бұрын
It's what they are exposed to, as they grow up, which will affect their outcome. I am seeing it in real-time. As a father, I would teach her to manage her own life independently, and also how to discern people and partners. Pros and cons of parenting, so she could make an informed decision, and also understand how to take accountability and plan for the risks. Women who label themselves as kinda-like-an "alpha" and needing a greater alpha are red flags in my experiences. Do marriages with that type, have longevity, meaning after the children are grown?
@Agynessdin
7 ай бұрын
Greatly on point, thanks for making this video!
@khadyadjisall5708
7 ай бұрын
Some of their standards (if not the majority) are way to high, I do not understand how they can even say it out loud! I am glad I was raised by reasonable people who did not gaslight me telling I was a princess or a queen.
@Okunniger_Volker
7 ай бұрын
Their "high" (I'd say delusional) standards seem to coincide with if they had a father or not. If they did they are more logical and understand the world better, if they did not they are more prone to antisocial behaviors like promiscuity.
@khadyadjisall5708
7 ай бұрын
@@Okunniger_VolkerMaybe. I grew up with both parents thank God, very traditional but let me pursue my own interests. I know my dad loves me and respects me, and so do I, but he never treated me like I was some miracle princess. The most important thing a parents can teach his daughter is being in control of their feelings and emotions, be functional adults that can manage their own stuff. I feel sorry for all the girls that did not grow up with a good stable father figure.
@Okunniger_Volker
7 ай бұрын
@khadyadjisall5708 I agree, I think it's equally important for both boys and girls to be taught how to control and manage their emotions and how to respond to negative things in a way that is healthy, since that is a learned thing as well and unfortunately not taught very much. The struggle girls face in the west is the mass appeal to them, so long as they debase themselves. And for boys their struggle is to live according to principle and virtue and not debase themselves as well. The standards for popularity and morally inverted and its only long after this causes suffering to a person that they realize they shouldn't have caved unless they are taught.
@agoogleuseranonymous2658
7 ай бұрын
This is the thing. Men aren't frustrated nowadays with just women having standards. Everybody does. But like he says in the end it's them having completely delusional standards. Like it seems every woman I see also IRL has probably like 100s of dudes around. Or at least always something going on(married, kids, a dude). They also seem to be more bitter these days. It's as if social media/online brought the worse of the worse in that aspect. Not only it exploded their options, made them delusional. But also more bitter in general. Like most women these days seem to have 0 respect for an average guy she meets.
@dendennis3053
7 ай бұрын
I really hate the words, alpha and beta, reducing men to these terms.
@dendennis3053
6 ай бұрын
@theactualdoomslayer Cool!
@jaydabelliou3186
7 ай бұрын
I vary my support for women from 0 to 100 depending on their behavior and value provided. They’re free , to act like they want. No arguing, no complaining, no demands , no problems at all.
@deepthought708
7 ай бұрын
I clean my house, do dishes, and get my laundry done. Takes me about 2 hours per week. Ohh and add my yard and repair work and its 3-4 hours a week of total housework. If a women, modern appliances, cannot do this and have plenty of time on her hands for herself, she is lying.
@waynekerr4220
7 ай бұрын
“If it is to be, it is up to me”- my mantra these last 20 years or so
@kinsellakp
7 ай бұрын
You are being way to generous to women here. They need to spend their time making themselves worth saving. Because they definitely aren't now.
@ryankc3631
6 ай бұрын
2:15 - A girl like that is like finding a unicorn.
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