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@chideraeze9309
Жыл бұрын
Hmm relationship investment
@gf-bx6cl
Жыл бұрын
Hello from France! Sun and SUGAR make your skin aging faster there is studies demonstrating it. Thank for your advices one did really help me: Dividing myself in 2 the boss and the task archiver, since that I did get out of my procrastination!
@antikokalis
Жыл бұрын
My friend. sunscreen will probably give you cancer before sun will
@AKDisobey
Жыл бұрын
Oh, so familiar 😊
@alananalyst7795
Жыл бұрын
"A school education makes you a living, self education makes you a fortune" I take that advice
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@kyle7574
Жыл бұрын
Mid
@petemorgan5593
Жыл бұрын
sounds like Jim Rohn
@Josus
Жыл бұрын
this advice will be with me for life!
@bxsed
Жыл бұрын
university is the biggest scam of the last 2 centuries.
@Josh-ge1cr
Жыл бұрын
For a man, I feel like that late 20's into 30 is where we start to mature and really work on ourselves. For me, I was at my rock bottom from 25-29 as I worked a minimum wage job, had a gf that didn't have as much drive as me and we only saw each other as roommates, and had parents who were constantly worrying how I would live life. I studied my ass off during those years because I knew I was the only one who could change the course and outcome of my life. Now, I am a software engineer, making money my parents dreamed of and it's just the beginning. If anyone is out there, especially as a man, who is feeling alone and struggling, know that I've/we've been there and possibly still there, and it's okay. What's not okay is to push off that feeling of "I gotta make a move". Start today, right now. No excuses. We got this💪
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
I think there's alot of truth in that. People expect to have it figured out by the time they get out of highschool or college. Reality is, it takes MUCH longer.
@Karuska22ps
Жыл бұрын
Software engineering is easy af tho
@Duenaysoe
Жыл бұрын
Im turning 27 this April and I have nothing figured out 😭. Having midlife crisis.
@vincentkiplangat3216
Жыл бұрын
Did you go to college for your software engineering
@robertbray8881
Жыл бұрын
@@Karuska22ps if u have experience but as a beginner it’s far from easy
@matustapak8201
Жыл бұрын
Summary: 1. Start investing sooner both in your relationships and your skills 2. Stop telling so many lies 3. Skip college or at a minimum simply learn how to learn on your own 4. Cultivate your inner circle with intention and care 5. Put on that sunscreen I still highly recommend watching the video in its entirety as it contains valuable information and insights that cannot be fully captured in this summary You got this man..
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Great summary
@Bensnsnajebe
Жыл бұрын
*JESUS CHRIST LOVES YOU AND CARES FOR YOU HAVE A GOOD DAY EVERYONE*
@Neonb88
Жыл бұрын
@Darren yeah I think this is very dependent on details If you learn accounting or engineering or medicine or law or something, that's practical Even not learning something practical is fine, but I feel like a lot of people end up going to college just because it's what everyone else is doing
@adriangutierrez3196
Жыл бұрын
@@Neonb88 ur right i think it should start with highschool learning more practical self learning , philosophy and creativity , not even just financial literacy but just say hey its going to be tough guys after this, but you’ll be ok!
@seriussamIam
Жыл бұрын
I just turned 28. I needed to hear all of this. Thank you
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Awesome! I'm glad it hit you at the right moment.
@aarongaffney6466
Жыл бұрын
Hell yeah. Society expects us to have it all figured out well by the time we are 18 or 20, be in a good career and making tons of money. Especially now in the Instagram age, everybody thinks that you should have multi million dollar success by the age of 22 or 23! And they treat you like you’re nothing if you don’t. But I think it’s much more realistic to understand that we’re going to bump around a lot and go through some pretty tough times in our 20s, and often in our 30s as well!
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
@@aarongaffney6466 So true
@Conormcnproductions
Жыл бұрын
my 20's were empty, you can easily mess up or end up going down the wrong rabbit hole. I'm trying to make a good life in my 30s
@wiseman9959
Жыл бұрын
@@Conormcnproductions i'm also
@Alfred_the_doodler
Жыл бұрын
I related to this so much. My 20’s sucked, in my early 30’s now and doing a lot of learning
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Love to hear that, Alfred! Just imagine how awesome your 40s are gonna be at this rate! :)
@Conormcnproductions
Жыл бұрын
I am there as well and I wonder where people are. It just seems like a strange time of existence, we are all siloed away on our own. Everyone is in a completely different place. Friends I grew up with have a family of their own now. I'm single and in my own world.
@russburkert3778
Жыл бұрын
Something you may have not considered is when you were in your 20's, the access to educational resources (such as Google, KZitem, and just the WW web in general) was vastly constrained compared to what we take for granted today in 2022. Today we have access to all the knowledge mankind has ever acquired literally in the palm of our hand that anyone can call up 24x7x365. Today's youth cannot conceive of how much time and effort and money it took in the 70's and 80's to obtain knowledge on any topic, and when you actually did find something it was more often than not out-of-date. But, even with all that learning power there for the taking, totally free of charge, it still takes a positive and proactive attitude and hundreds of hours of work and dedication and actual participation to obtain a payoff for the future.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
This is a great point. My dad and I talk frequently about the fact that if he'd had access to knowledge and resources I have back in the 80s, his life would've played out fundamentally differently. We're blessed to be living during this time and to have access to the opportunities we do.
@yangcoatienza3273
Жыл бұрын
Funnily enough even though I agree with this sentiment, I usually counter with the statement that the vast amount of knowledge available to my generation also makes it easier to get "analysis by paralysis". Before the internet age, the problem was getting information. In today's era, the problem is getting the RIGHT INFORMATION. Also, the technology in this generation also saps the attention span of the youth as companies make sure that their fancy algorithms make sure that you are glued to your screens. So yes, that does not discount the amount of hard, smart and consistent work to achieve certain things.
@russburkert3778
Жыл бұрын
@@yangcoatienza3273 I agree with your comments. The pursuit of knowledge in today's internet age means we also have to remain keenly aware of the non-stop onslaught of gypsies, tramps, thieves, and trolls coming for our money, resources, and security. That can be a challenge for sure, but rest assured it gets easier as you get older (and wiser).
@PerpetratorPulse
Жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyVicino but its also overwhelming, because theres so much stuff on the internet. very hard to filter the useful stuff.
@ponternal
Жыл бұрын
There is also a huge amount of distraction that comes with unlimited internet access. It can be hard to actually filter out the useful information and take action.
@rickyferguson7373
Жыл бұрын
As an 18 year old, would like to thank you for making this video so that others can learn from your experience
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@alisonlee8406
Жыл бұрын
I just turned 21 and honestly this video was exactly what I needed. Ever since I started college I've felt incredibly lost. It's like trying to get to a destination with no map and with everyone pointing you in a direction you're slowly beginning to realize is the hardest, longest route to where you want to be. My ahdh brain has been a scramble mess, but I've been slowly learning the game these past two years and getting more confident at it. The part about investing in relationships and cultivating your inner circle really struck a cord with me. Problem is when you realize all these important things extremely early on, you're thinking on a whole different wavelength than a large majority your peers and it can get pretty darn lonely. I don't think it's something talked about very often, but eh, honestly what do I know? I'm still figuring it out as I go. Keep the great vids coming!
@michaelgiunta6438
Жыл бұрын
I just turned 21 went to college for 2 years and felt this exact same feeling. So far ahead of everyone i was around and it’s so lonely. I ended up dropping out and could not be happier working a career in real estate with people 30/40/50 years old who want to help and think the same way i do.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate you sharing a part of your story, Alison. You're so much further ahead on your journey than I was at your age. That's for sure. I didn't start thinking about many of these topics until yeaaars later. Keep it up!
@benhartart9487
Жыл бұрын
I’m 40 and not finished with improving my life, I’m just getting started, not stopping to learn, grow, explore life from a perspective of wonder 😊
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Boom! I turn 40 in about a year. We're just getting started.
@LsxDean
Жыл бұрын
Subscribed just off this video alone. I’m 23 and I act like 43 is what people tell me. I care about my education in my hands, I work at a good job and department and learning so many skills alone in my 20’s while my “friends” are out partying and drinking and going to the club every weekend. I’m building the foundation of my life young so I can enjoy it later. Im investing 20% of my check and I have a 791 FICO score. Stay disciplined everyone !
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Awesome! Psyched to have you here!
@NextPiece_
Жыл бұрын
Great, hope the best for you 👍
@graham3400
Жыл бұрын
Don’t forget to have fun, maybe go out with your friends for a drink once in a while.
@Amethyst72893
Жыл бұрын
4 days after my 30th birthday I had to move into my pickup truck, similar to you wondering how the hell did it all happen. There’s power in hitting rock bottom, there’s no where to go but up. Thanks for your story
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
So many similarities in that story. I feel it, man.
@mashrurkabirnafis7934
Жыл бұрын
I'm nearly in my 20's and your second regret feels absolutely like me. I'm planning on facing and exposing my insecurities directly from now so I can change and get help
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Psyched to hear you resonated with the video!
@zainrahman3712
Жыл бұрын
I'm 17 but I find myself doing quite a few of these mistakes, I'm so grateful I stumbled on this video. Thank You!
@Terrydon
Жыл бұрын
Bro I'm 17 and the friends I have is focused on girls and parties I don't think that's a great thing I don't know if I want to cut them off
@heavenlypath1065
Жыл бұрын
Don't kill yourself you won't be perfect
@novakov7412
Жыл бұрын
@@Terrydon enjoy being young tho lil bro
@DPAE-xc4ph
Жыл бұрын
@@Terrydon I’m 22 and currently regretting not partying and having fun in my teens. Don’t make the same mistake I did. You’ll never be young again and you may not see your friends ever again once they start getting jobs or go to university, so enjoy it while you can. That being said, don’t do drugs or drink excessively as that may hurt your future.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Psyched you found the channel, Zain. Listen, you're young, so don't stress out too much about making the wrong decisions or doing things you'll regret. Life is long and you've got time to figure it all out. Don't be afraid to get out there and make some mistakes!
@MilesLeslie
Жыл бұрын
As somone who is entering their 20s I appreciate this video! I especially liked how you touched on investing in your learning and picking up skills outside of the college setting!
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, brother! Glad you enjoyed. Hope it serves you well in the coming years!
@rmalsen3052
Жыл бұрын
I'm 30 and still live at home. I lied a lot to my self, but I am fixing myself. I made a few of the mistake you made and I'm now learning to copy-write too. I read 50 pages a day on writing and write 1k+ words a day. Been doing this for a week, and I enjoy it. The last few months so many part of my ego died, and I've come to realize and overcome so much trauma and defense mechanism and self-delusions. I have no network and for the first time since a decade I feel really lonely. Like I feel it physically. But maybe I'll make something of myself, although it's rough to believe with my track record.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
There's always time to turn it around, my friend. You got this.
@byson8628
Жыл бұрын
I hope your doing okay my guy stay strong
@nobody-vw9ci
Жыл бұрын
Im 20 and i need to change my life soon
@chingchingbling2145
Жыл бұрын
Hey man, I'm turning 31 next month and on the EXACT same boat! Ego, self delusion, defense mechanisms and justifications. Let's do this and turn things around.
@rickjames4031
Жыл бұрын
No better time than now.
@adityarajpusavale2546
Жыл бұрын
I'm in my mid twenties. I can relate so much man. The thing about lying blew me away. I have lied so much over last 3 years. Also the relationship investment thing is so true. I need to work on this. You are a true gem to share this. Thank you Anthony!
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Youre not alone. We've all been there, man. Thanks for being here!
@adityarajpusavale2546
Жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyVicino Means a lot!
@mariob.4163
Жыл бұрын
Wow man, I'm 18 and the idea of wasting my 20s as always scared me. So far I've never found a video which explained the whole picture and not just one part of life. Thank for making this now I know what to change and what to keep doing.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Glad you found it valuable, Mario!
@thewewguy8t88
Жыл бұрын
For me the idea of wasting my 20s never seemed like it was a thing and now that I am 35 honestly I don't feel like I wasted them per say but it's hard to explain I feel like a lot of stuff that happened in my 20s was nessary to help Me become the person I am right now and to be where I am in life.
@thewewguy8t88
Жыл бұрын
Also a piece of advice I have for is no mater how hard life is for you in the moment unless it kills you. Permentally disables you in some way or puts you in jail/prison there is always hope for you to improve your life no mater what life throws at you. Good or bad.
@saugatjarif8272
4 ай бұрын
@@thewewguy8t88thank you ❤
@StrongBoyzz
Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I’m 25 and I’ve been feeling really down lately but this really did help! One thing for me is I’ve always been rushed in life, told that I don’t have time I need to figure it out in my 20s so I can live the rest of my life financially free but hearing your story is inspiring.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Nah, don't let anybody stress you out and feel rushed. One of the mottos I live my life by: "Never rush. Never be rushed." Slow is smooth. Smooth is fast. Just keep moving forward, brother. That's truly all that matters.
@kozinoart
Жыл бұрын
I love that you just give a genuine advice here that is not just about making money, but also taking care of yourself. I wish I’ve learned some of these things in my early 20s, but itself great that there is information like this out there now and next generation can use it 😊
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Thank you! If this can help just one 20 year old feel slightly better about where they are in life without feeling overwhelmed or like they're falling behind, then awesome! Mission accomolished.
@keiseanb1
Жыл бұрын
Man you don't understand how much this post resonates with me. In my early 30s now and have so many regrets with going to college and wasting away my 20s. Been working on building up some dreams of mine and wished I did this sooner. Thank you!
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate you, brother. THanks for checking out the video and letting me know how much it resonated.
@davidpaim6077
Жыл бұрын
I am 23 and want to thank you for this video... if young people really really really listen and take it in we can save ourselves alot of time and grief
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that, David. Thank you!
@davidsonchima
Жыл бұрын
Bro you’re the most transparent guy on YT rn for being this honest especially the #2, I could totally relate, I’Preciate this. I just sub
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, brother. I really appreciate the kind words and support!
@liamjohnson3247
Жыл бұрын
You can't regret the person you were. I see my past as my old self. That old self birthed the new me.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Interesting perspective. I'll have to chew on that.
@ennardthefuntimepuppet6456
Жыл бұрын
But your new self doesn't have a longer lifespan
@sexymary
Жыл бұрын
Well said .. I like that Zen approach..
@sexymary
Жыл бұрын
@@ennardthefuntimepuppet6456 that doesn't matter. What really matter is you was reborn into a new you.
@ministarbox9942
Жыл бұрын
I loved my 20's. I spent it all on partying, girls, friends, movies, etc. I was so carefree and loved every moment of it. Career and money be damned. Now, in my late 30's, I landed a job with great pay (~300k). And building a side business as well. No regrets whatsoever.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
That's awesome. Congrats!
@losronin3875
Жыл бұрын
Badass!
@sexymary
Жыл бұрын
You';re living a badass life.. lol
@isaiahadebayo
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I had a wasteful past especially in my late twenties but I see the world differently now. I am now on a mission to help younger people make good decisions for their lives. Thanks again
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
I love it. That's an awesome mission. Go get it.
@heisenberg8083
Жыл бұрын
I'm gonna be 25 this year. Last year was my toughest year yet, but now my mind is now the strongest it has ever been. That's why i'm up at 2 am improving my knowledge.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
I love to hear it. Just imagine where you're gonna be in another year of hard focused effort.
@heisenberg8083
Жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyVicino yup, I start Gym later today.
@desb3459
Жыл бұрын
Holy shit, how do you get up at 2am?
@Abhishek-in4vc
Жыл бұрын
"Courage is a muscle use it or lose it"
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Truth!
@johnpetermwangimukuha
Жыл бұрын
Genuine 👍💯. Just turned 28! You're so real. I have known what you're talking about since 23rd ish. I have been working very hard coz I have seen what you're talking about in my peers. I had to change lanes and it felt lonely for years and seeing this, I can relate. Thank you G!
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, brother! Glad you enjoyed!
@emretasdan3525
Жыл бұрын
This is one of the most eye opening videos i've ever watched in this platform and i'm lucky to watch it at 19
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
I love hearing that. Thank you!
@chrisvarelabenitez4690
Жыл бұрын
Wow… life & social media are fucking crazy!!! Whenever we think about something, it magically appears on the internet. Just turned 25 & been going through life. Taking these words to heart. Thanks, bro.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
That's awesome to hear. Glad the universe brought this to you at the right time.
@Yourfriendmegan
Жыл бұрын
I’m 29 and just figured out all this stuff this past like 8 months. I never had a plan or clear goals. I got married in my early 20s and have just been riding my husbands coattail while I figured stuff out. Last summer I grew tired of being stuck and making the same mistakes and jumping from job to job that I decided to go to college. Although I think college is a scam, it’s helped me tremendously with my self esteem, making clear goals, and being completely honest with myself. I’m sad that it took so long to get myself going, but so excited I’m finally going in what seems to be the right direction.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
That's rad you were able to get those thngs out of college. Truthfully, I got a lot out of college as well (just not in the form of my degrees/traditional education). :)
@eldadkhusa1450
Жыл бұрын
Wow to be honest I’m impressed with this guy’s content, I’ve watched and listened to quite a few influencers, content creators and etc yet most of them seem to sugar coat things however it’s nice having someone around who’s going to tell you the honest truth even though it’s hard and a bit tough to swallow and do the actions
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Much love, brother. Glad you enjoyed and got value from the video.
@eldadkhusa1450
Жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyVicino Thank you Anthony please release more videos your content will be much appreciated
@YerrNYC
Жыл бұрын
With wisdom comes the growing acceptance of who you are and what doesn’t work for you. One year of pure focus can trump five years of “fooling around” as they say. Which is really just learning lessons. Invest always.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
100%. If people could just buckle down and focus hard for 5 years, they could live the next 40 in any way they choose.
@HOPP750
Жыл бұрын
As I turn 40 there is so much value in this video I can't even begin to describe. Keep up the great content!
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@AlbertKimMusic
Жыл бұрын
I just turned 21 today, this video is a good reminder. Thank you
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday, Albert!
@N-DOP
Жыл бұрын
I like that the sunscreen advice isn't a metaphor for something, but that he really wants us to look out for our skin :D! Great man!
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
I'm a simple man just trying to cover the basics. :)
@RealXFool
Жыл бұрын
My 20s I spent in addiction, depression, bad decisions. Life gets better after 30.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
It truly does. Glad you made it through those rough times.
@jakebyee
Жыл бұрын
"Not wearing more sunscreen" has earned you a like good sir lolll great content keep it up!
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Huzzah! Thanks, Jake!
@beam3036
Жыл бұрын
made my plan at 16. 21now and can say it working out better than expected. All faults were worse than expected but through problems come solutions which comes chance which comes cost. You will be your best self when prepared
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
That's really awesome to hear!
@AlexIambroszki
6 ай бұрын
"Learn how to learn". What a beautiful idea and simplistic concept to achieve wealth and success. Thanks!
@AnthonyVicino
6 ай бұрын
Glad you liked it!
@kenya1067
Жыл бұрын
I'm 29 and really spent my 20s working and trying to make sure I didn't go against my family's wishes. Just work sleep repeat. I'm trying to break out of that. I really hope younger people are more bold about what they want actually going for it, never letting anyone talk them out of their goals.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
A lot of people are chasing their parents dreams, not their own.
@iam_topg
Жыл бұрын
This!!!!!
@canvas11xD
Жыл бұрын
Another thing I learned also. Is the longer it takes for you to do something. The harder it becomes to do it.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
So true!
@carmenfelix1413
Жыл бұрын
I'm 25. This is the type of content I've been consuming for a year now... and it's a life changing game, This is a great video. Thanks 🎉 I love SS😂
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@hansvagen6078
Жыл бұрын
19 turning 20 in 3 months. Thanks for this.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Happy early birthday, Hans! Go crush your 20s!
@jimsully9851
Жыл бұрын
Your point on college is very true. University has this toxic effect of making people believe they will automatically be set for a great career. Reality is most degrees are a total waste of time except medical, engineering etc etc… I’m an example of this where half a decade of my life was wasted in one with another half a decade wasted afterwards. Easy to say now with hindsight I guess.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Truth. Thanks for sharing your perspective, Jim.
@Lalo_011
Жыл бұрын
If you're young please listen to this genius, he took all of the words I have been preaching to people I care about out straight out of my mouth. We live in a world with countless opportunities but all we have to do is research and ACT! Good luck in your journey it is a process but one that will benefit yourself, those around you, and future generations!
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, Eduardo!
@lazvegaz
Жыл бұрын
I'm 50 and I'm still full of regrets of the life I've been living. Now, I'm just trying not to have any regrets of the afterlife I'm gonna be living in.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Today is a new day. You got this!
@joejohnson8966
Жыл бұрын
My man. I spent over 5 years daily improving my situation. Now I’m healthy and am slowly living the life I want. I regret most of my life but now I can begin living it to the best of my abilities. I know how hard it is to go through life and to have regrets but fixing the situation slowly means that your experience of life will improve. Now that it feels good to be alive those time seem like a distant memory. The same will happen to you too.
@chriskoay1038
Жыл бұрын
Time flies so fast. I feel 25 but I'm turning 27 now. It's almost March. Crazy
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Just wait til you turn 35 and still feel 25. It's a trip.
@Handle6278
Жыл бұрын
Man my first job I got when I was 23. I know that was crazy but my work ethic got the attention of an engineer who needed help. (I was going to school at the time for engineering). The job is amazing. I'm an engineer now for the US government. Best job anyone can ask for. The dream everyone in my town wants and here I am.. now that I'm here I realize this isn't what I want. I'm 28 now. I am about to start my own business and hopefully I can pour all my energy into it and see it flourish. But everything this man says is true. Only reason I'm at where I'm at is because all the engineers I work for taught me things. My circle was strong. They're all millionaires because they have the side hustles. Sometimes I think about being 28 and getting older but I'm on my way. Just have to do what you have to do.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Nice, Ryan. You're on the right path, brother. Keep it up!
@desb3459
Жыл бұрын
Wow the Minneapolis intro to this was awesome, so nostalgic as I was out there on an internship when I was 19 and now live in England at 23
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Very cool! Psyched you enjoyed that intro. I love this city.
@NoName-zb1gm
Жыл бұрын
I think most people waste their 20s and some 30s. I know when I was young I thought if a person worked hard they got good raises and promotions. I was naive about that. I was helping my parents financially and never thought they would be held against me. I thought people would think it was the right thing to do not take advantage of me acting like I don't need the money.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
I think we all have to learn the "hard work doesn't = money" lesson the hard way!
@Majthoub
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Anthony ! 100%
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
My pleasure, brother! P.S. Good looking channel you've got there. Impressive!
@marcophilips4703
Жыл бұрын
Dude!!!! You’re a good story teller 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 great job.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Marco. That's one of the greatest compliments I could receive. Truly!
@Loewe8
Жыл бұрын
I came here thinking it would be one of thousands, but it was actually good, down to earth type advice i can relate to. Thanks!
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@amiryoutube.
2 жыл бұрын
Some great insights given here and I definitely do have my fair share of regrets in my 20s as I am 29 now. I know I can still go and accomplish my goals. See you at the top brother! ;)
@AnthonyVicino
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! Appreciate you being here for the journey, bro.
@BabaYaga-rh1vk
Жыл бұрын
I am 21, and I have already made some very dumb decisions already. Instead of looking back and beating myself up about, the only thing I can use them as is learning lessons. This video really hit home, I feel very lost with so many things, as when it comes to a career should I go to school and where to take my first steps. I'm slowly taking my first steps, to change everything. And I can see things are starting to improve, I most definitely will keep watching.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Don't look back and fixate on your mistakes. Just keep moving forward
@LoversIncMusic
Жыл бұрын
Never regret anything, just see every "failure" as a lesson learned = )
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Truth
@cameronhughes9707
Жыл бұрын
Your story is one i needed ot hear. I am 23 and somehow was feeling like my life was over for one reason or another. Hearing how you turned yourself around in your late 20s really reoriented my perspective on how much I needed to have achieved by this point. I am better off building every day than worrying about whether I am too late or not.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
I'm psyched to hear that, Cameron! Thanks for sharing.
@cameronhughes9707
Жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyVicino thank you. I just went and bought some suncream hahah. I also really appreciate a certain authenticity you have. For me, it comee from how you wear the difficulty of your achievement on your sleeve. Your journey has taken its toll on you in a good way and you don't hide that. Please keep being like this!
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
@@cameronhughes9707 I really appreciate that, Cameron. Took me a long time to realize people often get more from the vulnerable parts of our stories rather than the stunning victories.
@operationrandom
Жыл бұрын
I’ve actually never related to a creator this much. Thanks for this; subscribed and following you and your journey
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Psyched to hear that, Derek. Truly thankful to have you here!
@bean2636
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, i needed this.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@Je_suis_Jefe
Жыл бұрын
Hitting the gym consistently but don't over train. 1hr a day/4 times a week, jogging 1-2 times a week.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Avoiding overtraining is key
@sanjayshah4372
Жыл бұрын
Kudos to you for being refreshingly brutally honest about your past ! And good advice given!
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that! Psyched you're enjoying the videos.
@worldview2888
Жыл бұрын
I ALWAYS love and appreciate such content
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!! GLad you enjoyed.
@simmysimmy229
Жыл бұрын
this is great! im 20, and this is life changing.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Awesome to hear!
@nedkulic2164
Жыл бұрын
Anthony thanking you so much for sharing, My son is 16yrs old and I have been planting Personal Development from the age of 14yrs. Today his mindset is incrementally changing, this video is a Gem so down to earth experience which I know he will resonate with. Thank you again its Brilliant! 🤜💥🤛 Ned 😊👍
@weirdbuggames
Жыл бұрын
this is one of those fatherly advice i never got to have growing up without a dad.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Glad it served ya, brother.
@EmmaHames
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing these. I felt like I “lost” a lot of my twenties due to a prescription medicine (taken as prescribed) which was slowly poisoning my brain (and body). 10 year injury in total (so far). And it’s so easy to look back and feel regret, anger, longing. But there’s still the time ahead. There’s still so much to be grateful for, and I feel very lucky in many ways. Not everyone makes it past their twenties. Not everyone has freedom. I think reflecting on past times and recognising our regrets also helps set the compass going forward too. So to anyone reading this who’s maybe felt regret…perspective and gratitude can be real game changers in finding peace, and finding the right path forward for you.
@AnthonyVicino
2 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful, Emma. I dug into a bit of your content recently. Love the message and your willingness to share your story. Thank you!
@EmmaHames
2 жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyVicino Thanks Anthony, much appreciated!
@alwafialnaib7054
Жыл бұрын
Seriously, this is good knowledge. I rarely commenting.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment! Psyched you enjoyed!
@niqnact1121
Жыл бұрын
They can’t be a waste if your here now, becuase if you had been comfortable. You wouldn’t have worked to change the uncomfort
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Very true. In reality, I wouldn't go back and change a thing.
@KaizenIrorita
Жыл бұрын
I came across of your videos when I'm now learning the path to achieve the financial freedom you have now. These video's are motivating and inspirational. I'm now 20 and hope to achieve a lot in the next few years to come. Love from Japan.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for checking out the videos! Love from Minnesota!
@AlbertKimMusic
Жыл бұрын
Skipping University is a good idea if you’re only planning to go due to your parents or you just feel you have to follow the system. But, if you are craving for that education in a skill set you already pursue and love, it’s worth it 1000% It’s about the intention
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Intention in everything is what matters most. You are correct.
@-lord1754
Жыл бұрын
Yep. It doesn't have to be the strongest love ever, just something you feel confident about and that actually benefits you.
@piewert787
Жыл бұрын
I’m currently stuck in the post-college bubble waiting for it to pop. It’s a torturous spot to be in.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Interesting. I hate waiting.
@tube_trance
Жыл бұрын
1. Make a healthy family for yourself (spouse and children). Make this your top priority. Don't put it off to your 30s. 2. Establish self-care practices to sustain you through the ups and downs of life (physical, mental, spiritual practices). 3. Develop discipline (set short-& long-term goals, learn to persevere). Apply discipline to your finances & all life matters. 4. Make a lifelong habit to help/give/be a good example. Think of all the ways you can contribute positively & then just do it! 5. ENJOY your life, appreciate the simple things & the big things. Experiment, live & learn. Laugh a lot! ~ ENJOY LIFE!
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
A pretty solid list overall.
@jf8188
Жыл бұрын
having a family this young should not be a priority. In my opinion you should work and build up yourself before you take care of others. How can you properly help/raise a child when you can’t even help yourself?
@ernestorodriguez5242
Жыл бұрын
Why shouldn’t I wait to get married and have children until I’m 30?
@yeshakadmasu4392
Жыл бұрын
I dropped out of collage 8 month ago and life really feel boring and lonely. But this video just describe my early 20s mistakes i made in collagein 12 min except sunscreen my skin is the sun screen. This just become my top 5 youtube video of all time. THANK YOU
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
That's so awesome to hear! Thank you!.
@simonburgess5968
Жыл бұрын
Very good advice. However never bum lick to get in with successful people. They see it straight away and will either dismis you or use you!
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Truth.
@gymgurlgainz
Жыл бұрын
great video man! took this to heart
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
I'm psyched to hear that.
@timmymccann3432
2 жыл бұрын
Good stuff !
@AnthonyVicino
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Timmy! Super psyched to hear you enjoyed it.
@timmymccann3432
2 жыл бұрын
I can’t see your channel not blowing up! Great stuff ! P.s. I sent you an email + dm on Instagram . Like you said , trying to cultivate my circle haha .
@kevin4209
Жыл бұрын
This really helped me today man. I really appreciate your content.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing that! Made my day!
@sipsi1995
2 жыл бұрын
So, my situation right now is as follows. I am Venezuelan, 27, i have a computer science degree, I came to the states about 4 years ago. About 2.5 years ago I got my work authorization. I feel so behind to other people my age, I know I shouldn't compare myself but I did waste a lot of time while being in Venezuela, although. I studied English and completed my degree I think I could have learned or do many more things. However, the situation over there didn't help much that is why I am here. I was able to start a 65k/year job about 1.5 years ago with my degree. Waayy more money that I thought I could even see or think of while being in Venezuela. However, I feel like trapped in this cycle of get paid, "save", pay credit card at the end of the month then have about 500 left. And the cycle repeats. I pay all my expenses with my Credit Card though. I will love to break that cycle somehow and actually open a food truck or anything within the cooking area since that is something I love to do and everybody I ever sold or cooked something for have told me I am a great cook. Long story short, I think I make decent money living in Tulsa, OK but can't seem to be able to save up to start a business. Sorry for the long message, but i started typing and it helps to type stuff out to not feel frustrated lol. Any help or pointers will work, thank you to anybody that took the time to read this.
@AnthonyVicino
2 жыл бұрын
Dude, what a badass story! Forget feeling behind other people, you're crushing it. Seriously. When I was 27, I was making $40k a year in the bay area. It sucked! First thing that stands out to me is you're making $65k /year while living in a relatively inexpensive city (Tulsa). This tells me you've probably fallen prey to lifestyle creep (or you've got a bunch of kids you didn't tell us about). If I were you, my first step would be to ruthlessly cut expenses. Second, I would take on a side-hustle to start generating more money. Your goal is to save as much as possible on lifestyle and then invest that money into learning and growing your skills. If you want to start a foodtruck, maybe start by going to farmers markets, or sporting events and have a food cart. Figure out a cheap, delicious, easy to make and transport snack/meal and then get out there and start selling. I got a friend who did this with a hot dog stand. He'd sell hundreds of hot dogs at sporting events, concerts, etc.. If you want it bad enough (and I think you do), you'll find a way to make it work. Now get to it!
@sipsi1995
2 жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyVicino you are right, I have fallen into that I guess, because I have no kids, I live by myself in a not so expensive apartment, 1000 a month with water, electricity and the rent itself. I do help my family back in Venezuela by sending money but is not a huge amount. I will go for those steps then, I did sell food from my apartment for about 10 month and it was great lots of people but then I was afraid of taking the next step of a food trailer and kind of let it go even though I loved it. But yeah, I will follow that and report back in a few month for sure I have sat down and already made a budget I guess that is a good starting point.
@AnthonyVicino
2 жыл бұрын
@@sipsi1995 Sick, dude. Sounds like fear and expenses are the biggest things holding you back. The good thing is, you're 100% in control of both of those.
@aaaaaaa4821
Жыл бұрын
Maybe try renting out a food truck for when special events are in town or surrounding areas maybe even for the weekends park your truck or cart in front or across from night clubs goodluck
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
@@aaaaaaa4821 Love this idea!
@chrisruel7088
Жыл бұрын
DUDE!.... gaaaaaawd. thank you man. ur a legend.... I'm turning 30 this year.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, brother! I really appreciate it. Welcome to your 30s!
@nathangilles2839
2 жыл бұрын
This is good 😊 I’d like to talk sometime about your systems
@AnthonyVicino
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Nathan. You're gonna want to check out the next video we're about to drop which dives a lot into the systems that've helped me most.
@khinwaiwai7590
Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate I’m in my early 20s and I use to listen seb and you giving me so much energy then follow young ppls.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
That energy can be a great thing! Use it.
@godfrey.ndlovu
Жыл бұрын
I'm exactly in the same spot as you were.. I'm currently enduring all the regrets you're mentioning.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
I empathize, man. First step towards correcting the issue is to become aware of it, so you're on the right path.
@projecth3620
Жыл бұрын
On a binge rn!!
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@mygoodlife204
2 жыл бұрын
About living a lie - it's because we were told to "fake it till you make it!"
@AnthonyVicino
2 жыл бұрын
That's a huge part of it.
@JumpRopeVeteran
Жыл бұрын
Great video. Thank you for sharing. I share your sentiments. 💯
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that. Thanks for checking out the video!
@nenad6742
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Anthony, I love your videos, notifications on :) I'm a Crypto Technical Analyst and I would love to learn more about copywriting, and content writing. Do you have any advice? Thank you for the work you do.
@AnthonyVicino
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being here, dude! On the copywriting front, there are two people/resources I found a ton of value in: Sean Vosler's Increase Academy: increase.academy/ Neville Medhora Copywriting Course: copywritingcourse.com/ Beyond that... the simple truth... Practice. Lots and lots of practice.
@nenad6742
2 жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyVicino Much appreciated 🙏
@JuanyJuanes
Жыл бұрын
Dude I’m glad I found your channel. Can relate to you- I am in my 30’s and having gone to college and the degree I got (and spent the rest of my 20’s using) was barely enough for a living.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Really psyched you stumbled onto the channel!
@Bawkr
2 жыл бұрын
Wish I would have saved a lot of the video games I've played for later, not all of them though. World of Warcraft, should have quit when everyone else did that's for certain. Could have put that into making money and friends as well. At the same time I really like where I'm at now I have a good way forward selling online right now. Definitely agree, salads are so important and for those of you who have a decent sized belly cutting refined carbs out completely for awhile and then never eating a lot of them will be a big help as well as sugar. Also if you can eat them, eggs are a lot higher in protein than meat.
@AnthonyVicino
2 жыл бұрын
Dude, I played a toooon of video games when I was younger. Loved it, but it really didn't move me forward in life. I put games down a couple years back (ended with Destiny), and it's been one of the best decisions ever.
@Smoothie782
Жыл бұрын
Every time I click on a video of the genre I lose interest within the first couple minutes but this video has quality advice. Great job!!
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for giving the video a chance!
@TheVillyham
Жыл бұрын
Great video. I’m 23, got a job at a big 4 accounting firm currently studying for the ACA, I never went to university, I joined straight from school on an apprenticeship. I always worry whether I’m improving on myself at a good rate, but for me it’s taking everything into perspective, and as long as I’m making steady, sustainable progression of my career then I’m not doing too bad for my 20s.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Congrats on the job. That's awesome. Sounds like you've found a great path forward for ya. Keep going.
@sh-oo4wm
Жыл бұрын
ur content is so good
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, brother. That means a lot.
@frederikstach9046
Жыл бұрын
Wow, 07:05 - 07:15 is so good damn true. My whole situation right now. I am not learning something serious neither earning money...
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Glad that resonated!
@Skoony_
Жыл бұрын
I’m about to be 21 may 8th, 2 months from now, I needed to hear this! Stay woke and keep grinding the hustle stay motivated lets goo 2023 !
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Awesome! Happy early birthday
@KrisSamuel
Жыл бұрын
I just turned 30. Listen to this man.
@AnthonyVicino
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the vote of support, Kris. I really appreciate it.
My pleasure, Lemzo! Congrats on the upcoming birthday!
@Dolly_Rose440
7 ай бұрын
I am still in my teens🥺, and I have a lot of things to learn. Even I want to make a video " My teenage regrates... " 🙃.When I get a bit upset in my journey, I watch you and your videos, it completely lightens me up and makes me start again. You are really amazing.
@AnthonyVicino
7 ай бұрын
I love, love, love hearing that. (Really wish I was still in my teens). Oh, to be young again. :)
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