I wasn't bullied at school, but I was excluded. It hurts. I never liked activities where the teacher let us choose our own groups.
@NiceOCGuy1981
5 жыл бұрын
Oh man, I remember this. I was always the weak link in these groups because I know I wasn't wanted.
@missyuu9348
4 жыл бұрын
Me too... :( Please make it random or the teacher should choose partners
@Eric-ys8do
4 жыл бұрын
same, IglooDweller
@hannahscott6604
4 жыл бұрын
exclusion is bullying. It is just one form of it.
@TheINFJChannel
9 ай бұрын
I'm soooo late to your comment so my apologies for chiming in....but I just had to say that I absolutely dreaded lunch. Just the thought of sitting alone or with people who actively ignore me in a room full of the entire grade gives me flashbacks 👎👎
@richardhu3774
5 жыл бұрын
As long as getting used to it, I feel nothing, but someday when I suddenly think of it, I start crying.
@blacksocial99
5 жыл бұрын
Richard Hu Same
@ABelfakirVlogs
3 жыл бұрын
same happens to me mate..
@ccs1229
2 жыл бұрын
Aw, me too. Virtual hug to you
@Lildeesz
5 жыл бұрын
I can relate to this so much! I truly put myself out there, try to engage with people, converse & be as genuine as I can be. But for some reason, people never seem to interact with me first. They easily start a conversation with the next person, can talk with each other for hours and hours. And this honestly shuts me down, makes me feel smaller and smaller.
@starcatcher3691
5 жыл бұрын
I am sorry. You sound like a good person.
@kevinalachat4173
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@lilianapapp6731
2 жыл бұрын
I feel totally the same.
@G8000........
Жыл бұрын
Ignore and move on, you aren't small
@rural_girl555
6 ай бұрын
same here im sick of being the one who must always participate and talk to ppl first while nobody ever talks to me first
@smantalks
6 жыл бұрын
When I feel excluded, I use it as motivation to do something either empowering and or beneficial. Pain propels me to greatness.
@NiceOCGuy1981
5 жыл бұрын
That's good.
@starcatcher3691
5 жыл бұрын
That is good!
@shellcshells2902
4 жыл бұрын
I love this!
@TheThrivingLady
4 жыл бұрын
Love this!
@varunbarma2067
3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful way to live
@supermelodia
5 жыл бұрын
It's not a matter if it hurts, this brutal behavior will destroy your professional life, they will do everything to make you quit, get fired, become mediocre, etc. So don't quit, and the less you speak the better and do your work and make a journal, document everything and take legal action.
@chelseyrueth6872
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for bringing awareness to this! It is definitely something I have felt, and lived with my whole life. It is painful, but it takes courage to feel that pain and it makes you stronger. It makes you want to make sure other people don't feel that way. And the people who we think may not feel this way, we're probably totally wrong. Thank you again.
@TimberedSplash
5 жыл бұрын
Chelsey Rueth Great point you made. And what’s even more difficult is talking about it. People don’t put themselves in the person’s (who is feeling this pain) shoes when making an observation. They will often accuse the individual of being too sensitive, or taking things too seriously. Then will advise such individual that he or she should not worry about it and get over it. But people cannot just switch their emotions like that.
@JennaCiela
5 жыл бұрын
Seeing people and bringing them into existence...that is so powerful! I know that the pain of feeling insignificant and invisible has made me treat others that way unfortunately
@goldiebarofhyruchew7884
5 жыл бұрын
I understand. I did the same thing because they are doing it to me. But yes it's not right. Let's change it
@ciialhynat2568
Жыл бұрын
Watched this talk some years ago and it helped me so much to pinpoint the exact thing that was making me feel bad in social environments: The importance of being seen. The "I see you" message that is introduced here is huge and should be a common therapy method. Just stumbled on this talk again after years and I'm surprised it only has about 600 likes. More people need to see and understand this talk!
@copypaste3526
4 жыл бұрын
I was excluded by my own family as well as at school and by most other people. There was nothing weird about me other than not playing those power games most people play from a very young age. I still don't get why the social environment needs to be such a permanent warzone.
@NightinGal89
3 жыл бұрын
Preach
@onthearth1
3 жыл бұрын
Because status and dominance hierarchy is something prevalent in every strata of our society!
@2davivadiva
3 жыл бұрын
And look how unhealthy most people are in society
@_JESUS_is_GOD_
3 жыл бұрын
People hate when you dont chase after a piece of cheese on a stick like they do.
@Love_Moleboga
5 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this talk as I've experienced rejection and exclusion for a long time in my young life. I appreciate this. I just need to correct the South African isiZulu greeting as it was incorrect - I'm from South Africa by the way. The greating is pronounced sa-woo-bona (sawubona) not sawabona. And the response is not sikhona. After sawubona, one asks 'unjani'(singular) or 'ninjani' (plural) which means 'how are you?'. Then the next person(s) will respond by saying 'sikhona' meaning 'we are here' or 'ngiyaphila' (singular) or 'siyaphila'(plural) meaning 'I am alive' or 'we are alive'
@mrraider1518
4 жыл бұрын
Lebo Keratilwe Makokga lol
@thalyasalazar3323
4 жыл бұрын
Awesome, thank you 🙏🏽
@nhlanhlam9857
Жыл бұрын
I was just about to write this😅 And as another South African, I second this👆🏿 Oh, and I guess I'm years late...
@dianerose7631
5 жыл бұрын
my brother and his fiance are leaving me out of their wedding party has hurt me. I am groom's only sibling. He talks to me but they left me out. Not nice. If i see direct exclusion from photos and directly they dont let me in a single photo while mom and dad are, i am going to lose it.
@like90
6 жыл бұрын
I've rewatched this again because the first time around I started crying. Awesome talk!
@ronnatimpa4312
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for letting me know. Means a lot!
@TheUnknown-vg1zx
6 жыл бұрын
And then the second time you started laughing
@stobbinsboy
3 жыл бұрын
This Lady is really something. Smarts, looks and a huge, brave heart. I don't know how or why she does it but she's my new hero.
@kerrimeberg6743
2 жыл бұрын
This was excellent! I took notes and I am actually going to try and put these things into practice in my daily life . I really believe I'll be happier for it and I could make an impact on someone's life for the better!
@melaniewalker2246
9 жыл бұрын
Amazing! You rocked this talk!! I'm so proud of you.
@CogSciEso
6 жыл бұрын
Awesome message, deserves better audio.
@rachela3380
2 жыл бұрын
Oh it’s not just me. That’s good
@poonamthakur4120
4 жыл бұрын
I can totally feel the pain it broke my self confidence
@deborahthomas-nininger6167
8 жыл бұрын
Awesome information - thank you, Ronna for sharing your wonderful insights and perspectives! Powerful stuff!
@insaniacgaming2009
3 жыл бұрын
I never realized that but it's been like this since I was younger
@rubidirrojnamcha8470
4 жыл бұрын
Women suffer more by social exclusion. I'm happy to see that more and more awareness are coming in general population in this regard. This is a global pandemic. This knowledge must come to the third world countries as well. The developing countries are working hard, trying to reach a standard goal, people wish to up level their lives but with difficulties like this it's hard to reach anywhere. Most of us are completely unaware of these traits and wandering blindly, have no clue what is happening with us.....🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@marshamarshamarsha4567
4 жыл бұрын
I had pretend friends at home for many years. It was terrible. But, really it started in my home and family. So, more than likely, I gave out a really bad vibe every where I went when I was young. It's still terrible.
@1FLEXAHOLIC
6 жыл бұрын
Exclusion is a virtue
@ceason01
8 жыл бұрын
Wonderful and meaningful talk. Thank you for reminding via LinkedIn. Rockin' it!
@nathanielwilbanks3734
8 ай бұрын
Welcome to every waking moment of my entire life
@_JESUS_is_GOD_
3 жыл бұрын
Going tru this at work, perpetuaded by the manager. Wow. When Jesus said they will hate you like they hated me... It resonates
@Darci3333
Жыл бұрын
I feel this way all the time at work church everywhere....😢
@shanefistell8890
6 жыл бұрын
Excellent talk.
@JT0007
2 жыл бұрын
I had a unique experience. I was the short poor kid who was excluded, but I was also the best athlete. They picked me last but they knew what was coming.
@acildamasonzander9917
Жыл бұрын
I recently told a long-time friend (26 years) that their actions make me feel marginalized. I told them I'd no longer invite them on activities--but, I'll be receptive if they reach out to me. I've already planned to replace that time with others.
@gaebren9021
6 жыл бұрын
the sound is very soft.
@Stinkwolff83
Жыл бұрын
I can relate to this, family, friends, society, “princess dark cloud” was my nickname, from a young age. My defense mechanism was to exclude myself. I really wish i could hear what she was saying!!
@jeansaben9954
3 жыл бұрын
I was never picked, could so relate
@shanefistell8890
6 жыл бұрын
Poor quality audio.
@raghuramb4687
6 жыл бұрын
thankyou so much
@leejay1101
5 жыл бұрын
There is and always has been a hierarchy. Being at the bottom fucks people up but there has to be someone at the bottom. The best you can do is not rub it in the face of the weak.
@sprinkelle1165
3 жыл бұрын
Ikr... but u know what feels good. When you leave and theres a new person at the bottom and you watch them struggle 🙃
@PeteS_1994
2 жыл бұрын
Weak in what?
@-.-_123
6 жыл бұрын
Excellent!
@OmgLoLw2gLuvUidkROFL
5 жыл бұрын
How are you is another way of saying hello in America. It's not to be taken literally. You know that if you're American.
@magnefficientgaming4327
4 жыл бұрын
lol i'm curious as to what made you make this comment lol
@Xenlacasa45
2 жыл бұрын
@@magnefficientgaming4327 rebelliousness
@CopperheadAirsoft
6 жыл бұрын
Intelligent!
@marantan4715
4 жыл бұрын
Why is the sound so silent?
@emmanuelponce9151
4 жыл бұрын
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@tayllasa2296
6 жыл бұрын
What is with the audio???
@highfunq2863
4 жыл бұрын
definitely hurts.
@JasonBrown-hv2ir
4 жыл бұрын
sourboner from my African land!
@onespiritawakens3529
5 жыл бұрын
I was always the first one to be pick wym I never got called except soccer when I lost my self.
@goldiebarofhyruchew7884
5 жыл бұрын
The audio is soooo low T.T
@wrenegade6283
5 жыл бұрын
Maybe, oh I don't know, turn up the volume...?
@goldiebarofhyruchew7884
5 жыл бұрын
Low quality audio, nothing to do with the volume. I even had my earphones. The message is so powerful it deserves better Audio
@tez4066
Ай бұрын
Im watching this video for my studies, the module is about systematic racism and here i am watching a wealthy looking white woman talk about exclusion lol
@burnttoast1076
Жыл бұрын
If I say hi to people, they barely say anything back, so it’s hard to believe they want it.
@hannahscott6604
4 жыл бұрын
I love her shirt :)
@FreeLoadersMC
4 жыл бұрын
i cant hear at all, very soft video!
@usportraits2429
6 жыл бұрын
TMI
@sueware8377
2 жыл бұрын
The audio is terrible...could not hear you. Please re-record.
@cassk3364
5 жыл бұрын
My husband has been throwing himself gender reveal parties.... i found out by a mutual friend....
@mermaiddiyartist8119
5 жыл бұрын
Cass K wait. What happened?
@archerx68
5 жыл бұрын
get rid of the Gotdanm ad's!!!!!
@RS-ov2st
4 жыл бұрын
Not helpful. Too much babbling.
@derekpascal3749
2 жыл бұрын
too loud
@EeFynf
8 жыл бұрын
valid points. However, I get a patronizing feeling when a grown woman, a professional, in front of adults can't say the word fuck...
@Novapsihoanaliza
4 жыл бұрын
Just pathetic.. Go home and read Levinas, or Kohut, or Husserl, anything. :(
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