I mean ... the man is dead. You could just not say anything if you still jave negative feelings about it. It's valid to feel the way you do even after someone passes away. It doesn't negate whatever that person did. But if that bitterness , righteous or not is still in your heart then just don't post. Why even attempt the facade if you don't mean the condolences.
@RealRoyaltE
Ай бұрын
There’s no Kobe without his Dad. Thank you for raising a legend, sir. RIP Jellybean Bryant 🏀🏆🕊️🤎
@valenciawilson1414
Ай бұрын
Legend ? A idol ? Took all these oaths ect but wouldn't b couldn't acknowledge jesus
@tanya45096
Ай бұрын
I agree, I wished he and his wife would have written a book.
@creolelady4096
Ай бұрын
@@RealRoyaltE Exactly you couldn't have said it any better thank you so much for speaking the real truth. 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@TheAlavista
Ай бұрын
Right but that does not mean that Vanessa should not stick to the same script they lived by when Kobe was alive that’s what Jelly bean didn’t realize you didn’t get when he was here so what changed other than his unspeakable absence. Everyone should just Stick to the Script!
@kira-1111
Ай бұрын
@@valenciawilson1414 was he religious?
@k.a.w.5357
Ай бұрын
They weren't close. Her statement was very respectful. There's no need for her to pour it on and come off as completely fake and phony.
@spenser6353
Ай бұрын
why post anything?
@getreal3445
Ай бұрын
@@spenser6353 Exactly!
@ralphpinkins5619
Ай бұрын
@@spenser6353 bbecause then theyll criticize her by saying "why didnt she post anything about Kobes fathers passing"...common sense.
@2Kozy8
Ай бұрын
@@spenser6353 it’s her children’s grandfather she has to say something even if they weren’t close
@allybrosia3725
Ай бұрын
You don’t know what respect is if you think this was respectful. 😂it’s called passive aggression
@tonyfoster7210
Ай бұрын
She said Prayers goes out to the family. Lady you are his family . You have his grandkids. She needs to my it right. The grandma is still here. Bless Kobe's mom to be comfortably well off ❤
@ceel7068
6 күн бұрын
@@tonyfoster7210 EXACTLY!!! I HAVE TO PRAY REALLY HARD FOR MY CHILDREN. MAY GOD SEND THEM GOOD HUSBANDS AND WIVES WHO WILL RESPECTS U🙏🙏🙏
@patriciabrewer3338
Ай бұрын
No reason for her to post a phony statement. May he and Kobe Rest In Peace❤
@jenniferzaporta1422
Ай бұрын
Hey they did her WRONG SHE WAS KIND TO GIVE HER CONDOLENCES 🙏🏽 PERIOD U REAP WHAT U SOW
@Bria_White
Ай бұрын
No reason? She knows she would get backlash if she said nothing or stated something negative.
@nik-at-nite
Ай бұрын
It’s a lose-lose situation. Had she not said anything, she would be bashed and it’d probably be a headline. Now she says something and she’s still getting bashed. Idk why people expect her to be pleasant (more pleasant than Kobe) towards people that never liked her.
@valenciawilson1414
Ай бұрын
@@patriciabrewer3338 kobe n hell why do ysll say that when they take all these demonic oaths n thats his cold hearted preference
@mastinanagel380
Ай бұрын
@@jenniferzaporta1422 Agreed
@myharvey2692
Ай бұрын
It's the "our prayers go out to the family" for me. This means that she clearly didn't see them as family. It makes so much sense right now. Rip to Kobe and his father 🙏
@thenewbull00
Ай бұрын
He didn't see them as family anymore either. Why would she?
@chikire8057
Ай бұрын
That’s what I said!
@Reshaty
Ай бұрын
💯
@thecamiify
Ай бұрын
@@myharvey2692 I peeped that too
@yungken25
Ай бұрын
And so what she didn’t fuck with him they didn’t fuck with her and her statement was valid and real under those circumstances they didn’t speak when Kobe was here Kobe didn’t even fuck with his family cus they was selling his shit while he was alive y’all want people to be fake cus if she don’t say something then yall gone complain about that I never go extra about nobody who been mean to me from years
@RegardedONE
Ай бұрын
This is why social media is trash. Send a letter to his family or go to the funeral. That would have been more genuine. Rather than posting something on social media for a bunch of random strangers to see.
@ashj0
22 күн бұрын
@@RegardedONE except then, the public would be tearing her to shreds for not acknowledging” his passing. Who’s to say she didn’t do exactly that as well, anyway? We don’t know what happens behind closed doors. All we can do is go off what is shared publicly.
@doniarae-lee1203
22 күн бұрын
@@RegardedONE well said ppl post everything no room for privacy
@RegardedONE
22 күн бұрын
@@ashj0 well by her post I think it’s safe to assume she didn’t go to his funeral. It’s a Family matter that the public has No Business in so it doesn’t matter if she acknowledged him or not. But then she makes post like this and then leave it up to interpretation and assumptions
@RegardedONE
22 күн бұрын
@@doniarae-lee1203 Thank you. Especially on Family matters
@jessicavarona8099
11 күн бұрын
@@RegardedONE while I agree 100%, I can also understand the pressure as a public figure to post bc if she didn’t say anything, it would have been a problem. I’d hate to be famous
@pattym9133
Ай бұрын
Ppl are always gonna talk,you're damned if you say something and damned if you dont,she did what was correct,can't make everybody happy.
@natashamatlock2502
Ай бұрын
Her statement is as if she doesn’t hold the Bryant last name it’s addressing him like he was a separate family vs please pray for our family as we endure this loss
@jenn4393
Ай бұрын
🎯 like it or not their the grandparents of those children
@sbsk2526
Ай бұрын
they didn’t have a close relationship so yes they were separated family
@tabbylivvy
Ай бұрын
That part
@ta-shonstinson7114
Ай бұрын
I’m starting to think she sacrificed him for her own personal needs.
@HadassahNaomiC
Ай бұрын
Thank you
@maryjanesbaby9392
Ай бұрын
Silence is golden.
@rikeshiadavidson432
Ай бұрын
100% What do they say about being thought a fool, then opening your mouth and removing all doubt???
@zeemc2751
Ай бұрын
What she said was enough, it was short, and it wasn't cold. 👍 People need to stop trying to make something out of nothing 👍
@WrenfordDennard
Ай бұрын
Thats how the media is ,that's how they make money
@virgolionman7777
Ай бұрын
@zeemc2751 ALL that other stuff she said should've been kept to herself!
@Creole202YHWHwife
Ай бұрын
Up-vote, re-post - PERIOD
@I_identify_As_King
Ай бұрын
Well said
@blatabe
Ай бұрын
She should have zip it up.Why is she making a statement?She is not a nice person but she has children
@johnnyjackson5119
Ай бұрын
My mom said that...silence is Golden!! Sometimes less is more.
@ThePamelaJordan
Ай бұрын
She should’ve kept it short and respectful. “My SINCEREST condolences to my in-laws on the loss of my Father In Law.” … That’s all that was needed!
@traycee725
Ай бұрын
OMG! Kobe had been estranged from his parents because of how his parents treated his wife and their expectations that he support them financially. This has been going on for years. His parents mistreated Vanessa, never maintained a relationship with their grandchildren, stole Kobe's possessions and sold them for their financial gain. It is noit uncommon for family members to feel entitled to their children's money because of their fame, and family greed can destroy relationships. Vanessa owes them nothing, and may be supporting her husband's wishes by not supporting his parents. Vanessa has chosen to treat her mother in the same way. Truthfully, it's no one's business. This is just another example of the media wanting to judge what she is doing when she is simply upholding her husband's wishes. Beyoncé has done this with her Dad. Brittany Spears has cut out her parents. Janet Jackson refused to support her brothers with their financial struggles, and it goes on and on for a host of family members and the rich and famous.
@emerald14ful
Ай бұрын
Exactly!!
@illoneson.5218
Ай бұрын
Exactly what you do especially if you didn't really get along.
@Tiffany_3x
Ай бұрын
literally,, THAT was perfect 👍🏽
@glendakier9142
Ай бұрын
@@traycee725, saying all that to say nothing. May if Kobe had “HONORED HIS PARENTS” maybe just maybe he would still be here today. Scripture tells us in Ephesians 6:2-3 NLT, “Honor your father and mother.” This is the first commandment with a promise: If you honor your father and mother, “things will go well for you, and you will have a long life on the earth.” This is a promise you can stand firm on, and honor makes all the difference!
@moejay1031
Ай бұрын
He disrespected his own family and uplifted hers. I expect no more from her.
@alwyzbeenshayla
Ай бұрын
He did not uplift hers over his. Both of them had strained relationships with their parents and leaned on each other. I wasn’t even a fan of Kobe and I knew that. Yall be talking just to talk!
@jadeblackwell6227
Ай бұрын
@@alwyzbeenshayla people love to talk, because they know they are jealous that he married a Mexican woman.
@sweetp7090
Ай бұрын
I thought Kobe bought her mom a house??
@deed2157
Ай бұрын
@@alwyzbeenshaylaKobe bought a 3 million dollar home for Vanessa's mom which she sold. She even went to court against her daughter after he passed claiming Kobe promised to take care of her for the rest of her life. The case was settled later on. Kobe's mom wanted to buy a home and he offered her some money for the home but it was nowhere near the amount Vanessa's mom home was.
@chyeannevojet7664
Ай бұрын
@@jadeblackwell6227 What was there to be jealous of???She got the same bm that many bw get, the only difference is that Kobe didn't make her sign a prenup.. He cheated on her many times and Vanessa filed for divorce twice and of course finding out her husband cheated on her and was called a grapist🥴🥴😵💫😵💫 The relationship was messy
@dathoang2692
Ай бұрын
i just can't believe Kobe didn't leave anything for his parents. love or hates alway make sure they are well taking care of. family after all.
@lonnettebruce7791
Ай бұрын
Considering how they treated her, I think it was very respectful. Had she not issued a statement, people would still attack her.
@spenser6353
Ай бұрын
how did they treat her? we dont know.
@johnnyrivera3940
Ай бұрын
@@spenser6353 THEY TOLD KOBE NOT TO MARRY HER BUT A BLACK WOMAN
@cocoaxo
Ай бұрын
They told Kibe she was a gold digger and she wanted him for his money. They didn't lie, also Vanessa withheld the money Kobe left for his parents. She's a nasty witch
@titolopes8679
Ай бұрын
Yes man, you are enough fair to say that, I agree with you
@user-ne9qk2pe8e
Ай бұрын
@@johnnyrivera3940LIES!
@cheriamor
Ай бұрын
"Although the few time we spent were few" was the part that should have been left out. That was messy. RIP sir
@JPayne-ul4qd
Ай бұрын
What she said was sincere. The family had issues with Vanessa from day one. Where was the support for Vanessa when she stuck by Kobe's side during the one night stand turned to rape charge.
@savoyaepps646
Ай бұрын
AND the "I wish things could have been different" that preceded that was unnecessary as well. It was giving "shade" to me like slapping his dead face while saying I'm sorry.
@belinda6533
Ай бұрын
RIP Mr. Bryant. Yes the message highlights the reality of the relationship. No relationship.
@lkofie6670
Ай бұрын
Exactly... and it was frankly as courteous as it could be accordingly.
@LibraDiva5696
11 күн бұрын
I mean…it is what it is🤷🏾♀️
@jjwestcoast4654
Ай бұрын
I saw a video of Kobe Bryant himself saying his parents didn't approve of him marrying a latina woman.
@sunnyfish6984
28 күн бұрын
I pretty sure it didn’t have nothing to do with her race I think they saw her for what she was a gold digger
@charleslorenzodavis3387
28 күн бұрын
@@jjwestcoast4654 No, a gold digging , video Vixen he knew for two months. WOW!
@Xyz594
28 күн бұрын
@@sunnyfish6984 she gave Kobe’s parents millions after and during Kobe’s life she is far from a gold
@theofficialnikkisnews
28 күн бұрын
@@Xyz594 I’ve never heard that Vanessa gave Kobe’s parents anything.
@Xyz594
28 күн бұрын
@@theofficialnikkisnews I have and remember it was online Kobe’s parents even auctioned off Kobe’s belongings because Kobe’s parents made unwise business decisions
@oneman5753
Ай бұрын
ppl just want drama. That was a respectful statement that focused on her late husband's love for his passed father. Thanks for the times kobe, and preciate you raising him Jelly b.
@sa6798
Ай бұрын
She knows she has the power, the control over the kids, the money I didn’t expect anything more from her. Cold
@dorianroy7866
Ай бұрын
@@sa6798 when are blk men going to understand that these other races of wen and men are just getting into families that have wealth to end up with it all. Wake up
@ebonyeverything2751
Ай бұрын
U don't know what they put kobe through that made kobe stop talking to them. But she does. Hush.
@sa6798
Ай бұрын
@@ebonyeverything2751 the man’s dad is dead you hush I’m not your child. I said what I said
@ebonyeverything2751
Ай бұрын
@@sa6798 u said nothing of substance. Naturally your type can't take quality advice smh. People like u should definitely speak less. Too much ignorance.
@aliciapinkcotarot
Ай бұрын
@@sa6798the man also died and she also lost her husband and child. Her and her mother-in-law have a lot in common now.
@ariamason9324
Ай бұрын
Parents were so right about her.
@joannwilson9097
Ай бұрын
Right about what she's a non black woman & disliked her for that
@katricewhywhy1888
Ай бұрын
Parents can usually smell a gold digger.
@annc6306
Ай бұрын
Definitely! She Got All His Money So she's Good and her latin family and community is good.
@antoinette9074
Ай бұрын
How you know? 😂😂😂
@saul9050
Ай бұрын
Unfortunately alot of blk men marry others and leaves all the money to them. Have their parents living in the house while their parents are homeless. This just shows kobe was like these other brothers
@ConfusedBinaryCode-fq4tr
28 күн бұрын
Many of us have issue within our own families so I understand it. She was respectful and concise in her thoughts.
@slycrook34
Ай бұрын
What do yall expect her to say about someone who didn't like her, didn't like her for Kobe and still didn't like her after Kobe passed? Even after all of that, Kobe's relationship with them was strained also and wanted nothin to do with them at one point. Considering what VB went through with the Inlaws, Kobe is gone the Grandfather is now gone...I think she kept it nice for her children's sake.
@spenser6353
Ай бұрын
his parents didnt have to like her. As long as they were respectful thats all they owed her.
@Traveler89_89
Ай бұрын
@@spenser6353they went even respectful. So what’s left genius?
@iseven608
Ай бұрын
🙄
@sharonshumpert1917
Ай бұрын
They didn’t like her for a reason. She estranged Kobe from his family. They knew she was a gold digger.
@mesister3862
Ай бұрын
@@sharonshumpert1917 Not true.... Vanessa was respectful about his passing. She doesn't owe him or her MIL anything.
@CoachCiCi
Ай бұрын
That statement is very cringe, she could've kept that because it sounds disingenuous 😬
@wsh415
Ай бұрын
Right!!! Because she basically said…”sorry to that man”
@nyahe3261
Ай бұрын
It’s real oh well
@keishav6630
Ай бұрын
Who cares!?
@isattathecreator
Ай бұрын
It actually speaks about how disconnected she was from them. The opposite of disingenuous
@talishaperry7380
Ай бұрын
During Kobe's service, she admitted that she was a "smart ass," and she sure didn't lie or disappoint.
@aleahrakeem
Ай бұрын
There would be no Kobe Bryant if it wasn’t for that man !
@glorymosbyfloyd3878
Ай бұрын
FACTS
@kimberlywilson422
Ай бұрын
@@aleahrakeem 💯
@woke9969
Ай бұрын
There's no way I could be that way unless some sinister ish happened we don't know about😢
@mustafashaqur9694
Ай бұрын
Poor take. Kobe didn’t ask to be born and he took his talent to the highest level. It was Kobe’s work ethic.
@derricktyler9635
Ай бұрын
@@mustafashaqur9694I don’t think so. You may have problems with your dad but there are still levels to this. If his seed was planted in his mom to make Kobe you still respect your mother and father regardless if you decided to do your own thing.
@a.wilhite4126
Ай бұрын
I've always thought she was cold hearted. Any time a woman turns a man against his entire family (especially his parents) is COLD BLOODED through and through
@tacticalmanagerbabymommaak5825
28 күн бұрын
@@a.wilhite4126 you mad lol
@sunnyfish6984
28 күн бұрын
Facts
@anasiaobioha2679
20 күн бұрын
Now she doesn’t even have a relationship with her own mother
@travishylton6976
19 күн бұрын
every thought maybe the parent own behavor turned kobe off you mtalk like parents do mess up
@tooneov
Ай бұрын
Yall are reaching for nothing. They had a terrible relationship with his father, she made a general supportive statement despite the relationship. There was nothing off the hinge in her statement
@destinydivine8465
Ай бұрын
Kobe's mom is beautiful.
@shaieresmirnoff
Ай бұрын
That’s his mom?! I’m looking up Kobe sisters trying to figure out who that is wow!
@andreasharrilafuma2019
Ай бұрын
Kobe's mom lost her son, her husband and one of her granddaughters. Kobe should've made sure that his children had a relationship with their paternal grandparents 😢 Please pray for Kobe's mom ❤
@glorymosbyfloyd3878
Ай бұрын
She has my fervent prayers 🙏🏾 Blessings Mrs. Bryant
@joystewart7862
Ай бұрын
That is why God cut is days shorter. He choose the witch over his parent who made him .
@TamaraGarrettAlpha
Ай бұрын
🙏💜
@terraldcosby4709
Ай бұрын
@@joystewart7862 That Common, In-laws Don't See Eye To Eye! Kobe Bryant, 20 yr. Successful NBA Career, in between Million Made, Why? Nothing Giving? Not Vanessa's Fault!
@bigblue4579
Ай бұрын
@joystewart7862 so why were Gigi's days cut short? And all the other people? Yall just be saying stuff.
@jonathansledge5790
Ай бұрын
She's being cordial. There's no love between them. They treated her poorly while Kobe was with her.
@KassiaPoties
Ай бұрын
There is nothing wrong with what she said. She spoke well about the man and she was honest. No matter what she says or does, being Kobe's widow, people will always judge her.
@GabrielMedina-eq9je
Ай бұрын
What she said was honest and real people love to hate
@yolandaalcantar3413
Ай бұрын
So tru she was honest ppl will always Jude her no matter what
@TRIUMPHoverTrials
Ай бұрын
ABSOLUTELY
@ronniecarson8756
Ай бұрын
Kobe is the one who did not want his parents getting his money. While Kobe was alive he made that clear. They did not accept their daughter in law or his children. So asking for anything is a stretch. His parents should have loved their son unconditionally, but that never happened. They old enough to know better....
@PTsunami1
Ай бұрын
@@ronniecarson8756 You might want to do some GENUINE research before you stick your foot in it further............
@oko1526
Ай бұрын
Vanessa's message reflects their relationship. It shows that she doesn't regard herself as part of the family.
@evelynejeka7182
Ай бұрын
This the reason a well to do men should never marry outside their race especially Hispanic and Philippines who extremely racist towards black people.
@LutherPittman
Ай бұрын
@@oko1526 yep but holds his last name. That's crazy!!!
@rosheengreen295
Ай бұрын
@oko1526 yeah, that's the kinda vibes I got from it also
@hopelove1595
Ай бұрын
Vanessa's message shows she has class as she acknowledged her father-in-law's passing. She doesn't have to do any more than that. Her grace is apparent and shows me WHY Kobe Bryant loved 💕💕 her so much. She was a gem for posting the condolences. Many women need to take a lesson from her playbook and realize how many men of distinction and class think and what they seek in women. I'm so happy Kobe found love, joy and peace 🕊️ with his wife, Vanessa and their children. May God 👑 Almighty keep them all safe. May they thrive. May they grow in wealth, be in good health and have wisdom to share their time and space, only, with those who are WORTHY! Amen. 🙏🏾
@MotivatedSista
Ай бұрын
His parents didn’t want him to marry her and were against her their whole marriage. So I agree that her statement was classy as they were not close.
@jocobyjunious3518
Ай бұрын
My mama taught me that if you don’t have nothing particularly nice to say, to not say anything at all…
@ebonyeverything2751
Ай бұрын
What she said was nice, and authentic.
@arthurvaldepena4514
Ай бұрын
You guys don't get the Spanish culture there all Like that
@tanyalowe4892
Ай бұрын
My mother taught me the same thing. If you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all. She also said in the time of death put your differences aside respect the deceased.
@eugenaarnold3965
Ай бұрын
@@ebonyeverything2751She could have kept that negative energy.
@ebonyeverything2751
Ай бұрын
@@eugenaarnold3965 i didn't find anything negative about it. Everything in reality isn't all sunshine and rainbows. She simply said that she didn't get to be around him much, she WISHED it could've been different and she acknowledged that her husband loved him. That was respectful. If she would've just said something about loving it missing him it wouldn't have been honest, because she didn't really know him, and that part of kobes family would've dragged her for that saying "u didn't even know him, don't be phony now that he's gone", so she was honest and I thought it was the right thing to say. Some of yall just care too much.
@Marie0575
Ай бұрын
She didn't try to pretend that they were close. But she showed her respects, if she didn't people will still complain, if she posted a heartfelt one people will still say, they 2ere not even close. Respect to Vanessa, she does the best she can.
@saulrivera4028
26 күн бұрын
I mean she kept it honest and respectful what more do people want
@jaylalovelace
Ай бұрын
Yall can never make me like Vanessa.
@moriahabraham7537
Ай бұрын
NEVER!!!! She would not be a wealthy woman if not for Kobe , and His Mother and Father. (.)
@kittensmitten3287
Ай бұрын
Just typed this!
@magaritacorral6810
Ай бұрын
Who cares 😂nobody cares , she’s a millionaire 😂❤VB
@jaylalovelace
Ай бұрын
@@magaritacorral6810 take your money to hell with you. See what good it does for you.
@primeva7579
Ай бұрын
Yall don't have to. If she was blk yall would love her
@f3042
Ай бұрын
She did herself no favors with that statement
@giagia4631
Ай бұрын
@@f3042 and if she didn’t say something, you’d still be here with a negative opinion
@lk_c7214
Ай бұрын
@@giagia4631Better to say nothing than say something stupid and unnecessary.
@petertparker22
Ай бұрын
She wasn’t trying to do herself any favors. This is her acknowledging his death while staying real and on brand with the way she was treated
@robertjackson3779
Ай бұрын
@petertparker22 the statement summed up why they treated her the way they did.
@giagia4631
Ай бұрын
@@lk_c7214 like in your case right? 👀
@vanessam.w.4368
Ай бұрын
After losing a husband and a child tragically at the same time, things matter less! Her message was kind enough....
@nicoleday2305
Ай бұрын
She didn't know him. And it really doesn't matter what she said - yall would have complained anyway.
@charismao5515
Ай бұрын
There is no Kobe, titles or money without the sacrifice and love of his parents. There was never an argument around that. Shame on Vanessa for continuing to disrespect and alienate his entire family - all while her low life, greedy family has benefited from the riches
@bettyanderson4964
Ай бұрын
@@charismao5515 Amen 🙏 to that. Her low life mother took her to court to keep the millionaire lifestyle Kobe provided her
@paulacopeland8360
Ай бұрын
The Bryant family made a lot of sacrifices so that Kobe could succeed. This heffa is cold. What she gave out is what she will get back.
@leonietaylor7054
Ай бұрын
@@bettyanderson4964😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@darrylsmith-oy7vp
Ай бұрын
Not True!
@darrylsmith-oy7vp
Ай бұрын
Not her doing! If only Walls could Talk..... Mother will be Mother no matter what! If Kobe chose NOT! To stand and CORRECT the behavior....stay outta it!👍
@lk_c7214
Ай бұрын
This irks me to no end, Vanessa shouldn’t have said anything! Nobody asked or needed her unnecessary statement. I feel awful for Mrs. Bryant as she’s lost her son and now husband, and I hope she has a true support system around her that will help her through the grief she must be dealing with. 💔
@tbikes6581
Ай бұрын
@@lk_c7214 Ikr? Part of her statement could have been directly addressed to Kobe's Mom, since she is the current grieving widow, and was married to Kobe's Dad Joe Bryant at the time of his death. She made reference to her father in law; she should have mentioned her mother in law and sisters in law who are the closest living relatives to the dearly departed. That would have only been correct and right.
@thecamiify
Ай бұрын
and grand-baby
@mariahsantos66
Ай бұрын
@@lk_c7214 Vanessa can say however she feels . Just because someone is dead Don’t mean people Must speak highly of them ..!
@magaritacorral6810
Ай бұрын
They loss a grand daughter too
@lovejones92
Ай бұрын
If she didn’t say anything at all people would say she’s disrespectful so obviously this is a lose/lose situation for her. What she should’ve did instead of this is have someone from her PR team (if she has one) write something more heartfelt for her. This statement she put out sounds like she’s sad, but she’s not grieving sad which is why she’s being cold out for being a tad bit cold and I personally agree with that.
@cryptjoi9194
Ай бұрын
She is what Kobe wanted.. she is what he was.💅🏾
@Wintersoldier7
29 күн бұрын
She was polite and kind about man who hated her and hurt her husband deeply. What did ppl expect?
@Bantuheritage
Ай бұрын
Gurl! That’s your daughters’ grandfather. Cold AF!
@Joy-sp3il
Ай бұрын
@@Bantuheritage tha children is growing up to treat her just the same. Don't test these children they are a different generation
@Bantuheritage
Ай бұрын
@@Joy-sp3il indeed. That’s really sad
@user-tg1kj7qi9s
Ай бұрын
So what?
@jazzip
Ай бұрын
@@user-tg1kj7qi9s broken person
@SpoiledLocGurl
Ай бұрын
Did they even deal with the kids? Being grandparents by blood don't mean shit.
@kblive30
Ай бұрын
It is cold because she is cold. She never cared for his family. That’s why she treated them so poorly during Kobe’s funeral.
@veronicagates6779
Ай бұрын
Know the history...his parents, especially his mom, didn't care for her at all....
@pinkladybugbug3273
Ай бұрын
Know history Vanessa has always been disrespectful even towards her own mother.
@joannwilson9097
Ай бұрын
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯@@veronicagates6779
@joannwilson9097
Ай бұрын
@@pinkladybugbug3273 her mother was greedy
@monica2520
Ай бұрын
@@veronicagates6779 there was a reason? that the Bryants did not care for vanessa?. Smh
@feliciaecheverria
26 күн бұрын
She made a respectful statement in spite of them not liking her.
@BigRedd1124
Ай бұрын
She keep it respectful not matter what has happened.
@larondalewis4320
Ай бұрын
It would’ve been warmer to say, “please keep my mother in law and our family in prayer as we mourn the loss of my father in law” or something like that.
@CammiKatt
Ай бұрын
Doesn't sound like she's mourning 🤷♀️
@javetteknight9343
Ай бұрын
@larondalewis4320 unfortunately she wasn't mourning the loss. She probably posted the comment
@peapod6747
Ай бұрын
Why lie? They clearly didn't like each other and had no relationship. She seemingly didn't talk to the dad while he was alive. That doesn't change just because he's dead. 🙄
@grichkatayou7558
Ай бұрын
@@peapod6747 people always want to lie to themselves… they weren’t there to tell than man to respect his own son (a grown man) choices and have a relationship with his grandkids… you know the Important stuff But they want to tell her to pretend , for the sake of what ??? 🤦🏾♂️
@iceman1272
Ай бұрын
Well that mourning part will sound fake because everyone knows they didn’t have the best relationship. I think she put it well because I feel she knew Koby would want her to at least say something as his wife.
@MJ-kj8fs
Ай бұрын
So it sounds like her kids didn’t even have a relationship with their grandparents ~ that is sad.
@texan903
Ай бұрын
Reports at the time of Kobe's passing were that he and his parents had been estranged for many years, so it's natural that the senior Bryants had little relationship with Kobe's children. Vanessa's relationship with her own mother has been checkered at best.
@lawandascott4897
Ай бұрын
You are correct
@magaritacorral6810
Ай бұрын
And that’s Kobe and his Parents fault , Not Vanessa , so stop tripping ppl , RIP🙏🏽🕊️
@heathab...._-_
Ай бұрын
@@magaritacorral6810EXACTLY
@BabyGirlTiny
Ай бұрын
@@magaritacorral6810nope it’s Vanessa and Kobe’s fault
@mariamarroquin9298
26 күн бұрын
They were not close. She was honest and respectful.
@normabracey6794
Ай бұрын
Her statement sounds cold to most people because she really didn't know what to say but felt she had to say something for the public's sake. She was only cordial with Kobe's parents before he died, and when Kobe died,she had no relationship with Kobe's parents at all.
@iam1remnant
Ай бұрын
That was a letter from the Kobe Bryant estate- they were NOT family.
@Shortie320
Ай бұрын
Not only that, it's a damned LIE!
@donna5790
Ай бұрын
Where are they supposed to be a Pittsburgh company that's the best they could do sometimes it's best to keep your mouth shut because this is a state has no decorum Grace or etiquette
@kevinharris3993
Ай бұрын
@@donna5790Vanessa has no decorum. She is just a beautiful looking "gold digger" which is how Kobe Bryant's parents viewed her. The way Vanessa treated the parents at Kobe's funeral spoke volumes.
@Jawvis
Ай бұрын
She didn’t claim to be family. She gave her condolences to them
@annafiorentin7120
Ай бұрын
@@Jawvis She did say the passing of my father-in-law. That right there I made her family
@tyheitastewart7571
Ай бұрын
Making it about her instead of Mr Bryant . She could have kept that comment about this being different to her self .
@pdm8446
Ай бұрын
“We hoped things would’ve been different” in my interpretation is that they hoped he would have survived the stroke*** and not passed away from it!
@georgeandy6923
Ай бұрын
@@pdm8446I agree with you 100%!! I think that is exactly what she meant!!
@spenser6353
Ай бұрын
@@pdm8446 I dont think so. i think shes saying she hoped their relationship would of been different. because she followed it up with the times we spent together were few
@Diamondjf3
Ай бұрын
She spoke what she felt. Period. Leave her alone
@cole8165
Ай бұрын
She can’t manufacture feelings that are nonexistent. And her comments were respectful.
@missj8145
Ай бұрын
No public comment would have been better.
@joiisler8986
Ай бұрын
Yes it could have. She can afford better PR, if she cannot muster the right words.js
@XaraK1
Ай бұрын
Y'all would've eaten her up for saying nothing. She and Kobe were all the way wrong for how they did his parents, but she was never gonna win no matter what she said or did in this case
@LadyAngela678
Ай бұрын
Exactly
@iriemo721
Ай бұрын
No it wouldn’t.
@natashaholiday7298
Ай бұрын
@@iriemo721 yes
@vernellreese3664
Ай бұрын
Thank you as Kobe's father for having us enjoy his talent and you and your wife as his parent's. May you rest in peace .😢
@GLRWIN
25 күн бұрын
At least she acknowledged. She don’t owe them anything
@gregorygause1427
Ай бұрын
No matter what,and how she feels.The kids will be close to their grandmother,no matter how she distance herself from Kobe’s parents. May Mr.Bryant Rest in Peace.
@2facetwin315
Ай бұрын
Even if we don't get alone some things should be kept in the family. Share love in the time of need. Remember yall all lost someone special. RIP
@ministrydiva
Ай бұрын
He should of married black.
@ritawallace-reed7500
Ай бұрын
Kobe's parents knew. He should have listened to his parents.
@kinte1870
Ай бұрын
@@ritawallace-reed7500 She did Kobe no wrong.
@poohwilliams4544
Ай бұрын
Facts 💯
@greez847
Ай бұрын
She didn’t do anything wrong. She was Kobe’s and Kobe was hers. The parents didn’t agree, oh well. Romeo and Juliet anyone???
@jayfrommeloworld1526
Ай бұрын
@@greez847 broad was a video vixen
@barrythompson7651
Ай бұрын
An honest and succint statement. Not overdone or meant to convey a relationship that was not there. Very appropiate in describing her relationship with her Father in Law
@lawrencejohnson1099
24 күн бұрын
He should support his son no matter what!!!😢😢😢
@blackcherry6877
Ай бұрын
We all can see why Kobe's parents never wanted him to marry her.
@nik-at-nite
Ай бұрын
This would be a poor example lol. Like what do y’all want out of this woman? If she hadn’t said anything you’d still be saying the same thing
@teatime635
Ай бұрын
Yes, he REALLY messed up not listening to his mother and now look 👀🤷♀️. If he had married within his own race things would be COMPLETELY different in the family dynamic and the kids would have a close strong relationship with their grandparents 🖤.
@blackcherry6877
Ай бұрын
@@teatime635 Agreed💯
@KenyaG.
Ай бұрын
And that warranted his parents to try auctioning off his memorabilia decades ago. However they felt about her, doesn't excuse their behavior towards Kobe trying to get money out of him.
@Mystique-lu8ed
Ай бұрын
@@KenyaG.Thank you! Yes. People are ridiculous! Not only that how about when they sold his ring? Unless that's what your talking about. It was said that it really hurt Kobe. Csnt believe some fools recently made videos making it seem like they had to recently sell his ring because they were broke. Which is bs. They sold his ring while Kobe was alive. I read so many comment bad mouthing her. They believe anything they see or hear on line.
@gillianfate5549
Ай бұрын
That statement is cold. The kids miss time bonding with their grandfather. May he RIP and hopefully father and son bonding now
@BertasBabyBoy
Ай бұрын
If she doesn't say something, it's cold... She says something, it's cold... 💔
@nathanscipio6148
Ай бұрын
That statement was real. It's no secret there was issues between them and even at times between Kobe and his parents. It's no need for her to post something fake and she probably does wish their relationship would've been closer, especially when all of them were alive and well.💯
@lizzasanzio9679
Ай бұрын
I can’t get over these women that marry our sons…our sons are who they are because of dedicated mothers and fathers they had. They should be thanking us for the successful man they married…instead your causing rifts… my condolences to Kobe’s mom and family
@teatime635
Ай бұрын
Our sons need to start listening to us when we tell them to stay within their own race. Kobe mother told him but he did not listen and now look .
@joannwilson9097
Ай бұрын
@@teatime635 is 2024 you can't help who you fall in love with why color has to be an issue we can't make that decision for our sons and I have a son myself maybe if they were more warm and welcoming to Vanessa they wouldn't be going through this rift today
@lizzasanzio9679
Ай бұрын
@@teatime635lol 😊it’s not so much the race I have a problem with but the kinda of female that feels he no longer has a need for his family that all help to mold him into the man he is or was … just makes me sad … my nonno used to say you only have one mother and no one can replace her.
@BeautifulLosses
Ай бұрын
Because he was married he was supposed to cling to his wife. Whether the mother or father liked his decision on who he married his wife and children became his family. His parents were no longer his immediate family.
@jenc8953
Ай бұрын
I can’t get over mother in laws that meddle in their adult son’s business and marriage. They think because they birthed him, that they have a free pass to disrespect and control his life forever.
@_Aimeesjourney
Ай бұрын
Yeah, she didn’t have to say it like that SMH
@andre-zx7qe
Ай бұрын
Stop it, they disrespected Kobe, they are not poor innocent victims, and I am just glad my parents weren't like them
@rhondaabugg305
7 күн бұрын
Her condolences should have been delivered in person or a private message. NOT publicly.
@MettleHeartsSlay
Ай бұрын
This is who he chose. She has always been like this so his fans shouldn’t be surprised at this point. I feel so sorry for his mom, the real Mrs. Bryant. ✨🩷🙏🩷✨
@McStrokeAvision
Ай бұрын
As a fan I don’t care that’s their business not mine
@glorymosbyfloyd3878
Ай бұрын
Indeed, Indeed I'm praying 🙏🏾 her strength in the Lord
@TheSpiritRoom23
Ай бұрын
Right! But no one hold men accountable for their choices accountability is only for women.. apparently🤦🏾♀️
@lkofie6670
Ай бұрын
"The real Mrs. Bryant"? Kobe isn't and wasn't exactly a Saint, not to mention what she had to endure as MRS. KOBE BRYANT from not only her in-laws but likely her side of the family as well, who may have suddenly saw her as their meal ticket... and then you've got public scrutiny from tabloids and platforms like these alike. I honestly don't think she can win for losing. Even if NOT Vanessa, people tend to look at wives who are in comfortable positions that's not even a fraction of how Vanessa's life is set up with such disdain, skepticism, and scrutiny like they're enemy number one over the man CHOOSING THEM... It sounds like other people's problems, NOT hers.
@TifBo
Ай бұрын
@@McStrokeAvisiona fan with no integrity.
@Decorum.n.Decisions
Ай бұрын
Kobe set the tone. Seems like a appropriate response from her. RIP to Mr Bryant (dad)
@TheSpiritRoom23
Ай бұрын
I agree… where’s his accountability.
@lkofie6670
Ай бұрын
AGREED... EXACTLY.
@QueenOfKings0402
Ай бұрын
Yep he picked her and feed the fire and look who is let behind. Honor your mother father for your days will be long.
@chaasadbanyahawadah5471
Ай бұрын
Kobe set the tone. But people are saying she's a gold digger smh
@DuskyJewel
Ай бұрын
💯. The all wanted him to marry a preference and they all got their wish AND the consequences 🤷🏿♀️. Never liked either one.
@Rbhawk3rd
Ай бұрын
They need to leave this woman alone. They bash her because she allegedly wouldn't give his parents money. She's raising kobe's kids. That's her only responsibility. It was Kobe's responsibility to him his family up before he died. Not hers. There has to be a reason he didn't. If she said nothing, people would still have shit to say.
@user-ne9qk2pe8e
Ай бұрын
The only people worried about that girl giving Kobe’s mom money is Us!…she would rather be broke then to ask that trick for anything!!!…Kobes relationship with his parents was strained Bc their son was blackmailed into marrying Vanessa by her family…she was 16 sleeping with a 21 year old man….her mom was going to file statutory rape charges if he didn’t marry her…his parents begged him to fight the blackmail but he didn’t want the whole mess to become public so he folded!…they begged him to make Vanessa sign a prenup, and she refused and he just let it slide…I can imagine how his parents felt…
@getreal3445
Ай бұрын
Leave her alone why?! no one likes her
@sunnyfish6984
28 күн бұрын
Or maybe he thought he would out live his parents like most people
@mimi7434
Ай бұрын
If she would've been disrespectful, people would've had something to say. She was honest yet respectful and people still have something to say. Had she not said anything at all people would talk. Why not just leave this woman alone and let her handle familial affairs as she sees fit without interjecting critique where it's not needed?
@janicewhites7350
Ай бұрын
Yes. Vanessa's condolences are cold. Why is it on social media? This sends a message, " Don't ask me for nothing & we are not close".
@debeenanderson6834
Ай бұрын
We all gonna leave all the earthly things one day money cars house we're only here for awhile
@stacyjackson1850
Ай бұрын
I don't feel Vanessa was being cold. I think she was being honest. if she hadn't said anything at all social media would still have something negative to say. 🤷
@CustomFitted
Ай бұрын
@@stacyjackson1850 These people are uber judgmental as if they're perfect. That's one of the things that sucks about social media.
@jirzygrl
Ай бұрын
@@stacyjackson1850 true, but less is best, especially if there wasn’t any real connections between them, besides the grandchildren.
@catherinewindsor1654
Ай бұрын
Harsh.
@teresagreen1166
Ай бұрын
I just hope the father & mother have all the blessings of life for having such an amazing son 😊
@xan8185
Ай бұрын
It wasn’t cold. It was honest. If she would have said we loved him dearly xyz ppl would she was fake. If she only said our heartfelt condolences people would be like “that’s it?” And now she’s being honest and still sending her condolences and people still got a problem. People always got something to criticize. Vanessa did just fine.
@LoskiWay
Ай бұрын
Can’t blame no one but Kobe. His parents deserve better. I can fall out with my guys but never my parents.
@lchenderson423
Ай бұрын
That lady gives me Larsa Evil Witch Pippen vibes
@sylviaboone5557
Ай бұрын
😮 Venessa !! He was Grandfather to your children ! ⚫️ Condolences to the Bryant family. 🕊🕊♥️🙏🏾🙏🏾
@simplyandoime7344
Ай бұрын
She exposed her mind. She didn't see them as part of her family. Just as K.B.'s parents.
@nenala7684
Ай бұрын
Bingo! She was trifaling from day one! The MOTHER SAW RIGHT THRU HER@@simplyandoime7344
@MSTOYA
Ай бұрын
Vanessa is not going to answer you 😂
@mayaakagbd
Ай бұрын
She was much nicer than what I would have been. He and his wife were rude to her for decades. She said what she said respectfully.
@spenser6353
Ай бұрын
shes nobody. she just lucked up and married an nba player
@TheLabelle26
Ай бұрын
Came from a dysfunctional family and caused chaos in a beautiful, educated, classy black family
@sunnyfish6984
28 күн бұрын
@@TheLabelle26facts
@stlopez17
29 күн бұрын
Better than being fake! I found it respectful and in good taste
@clampgod8563
Ай бұрын
Kobe wife divided the families...... Still in her condolences , she's dividing the families again......!!!!! Rest in peace.... Mr Bryant....🙏🙏🙏
@creolelady4096
Ай бұрын
I grew up with Joey in Philly he lived two doors away from me. In West Philly. And with Pam his wife too. I know both families very well. I hope she lets her children attend his funeral even if she doesn't. I want to see what kind of woman she really is. Rest in Peace Joey. You were always a nice person. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😢😢😢😢💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
@joiisler8986
Ай бұрын
Why should the children be unnecessarily traumatized by enduring the public scrutiny that will accompany their attendance at his funeral? Especially the younger ones, who barely even knew him. They should show their respects privately. Let people who knew JellyBean celebrate their loved one’s life. js
@nik-at-nite
Ай бұрын
“I want to see what kind of woman she really is” is a weird statement. Kobe didn’t even have a relationship with his own parents and left them nothing in his passing. But we’ll still speak highly of him and expect Vanessa to treat Kobe’s parents better than he treated them. That’s wild.
@maryjanesbaby9392
Ай бұрын
@@nik-at-nite Kobe Bryant’s parents don’t even like Vanessa or their children.
@nik-at-nite
Ай бұрын
@@maryjanesbaby9392 Exactly. And, as a man and a husband, Kobe made the choice to protect his marriage and his family. When you get married, your spouse comes first. So I’m not mad at Kobe or Vanessa.
@poeticlovee
Ай бұрын
@@joiisler8986to pay respect. That simple.
@AnthonyWilliams-xz4di
24 күн бұрын
She spoke what she felt
@DeniseMitchell-ok1fp
Ай бұрын
She is keeping her distance. That is a direct dig to Kobe 's mother.
@teliciahodges3093
Ай бұрын
That's not cold, it's genuine. She basically said 'we never really got to know him.' That's fair. She was not his friend, but wished his family her condolences. That was nice all things considered. I see no pettiness there.
@sbsk2526
Ай бұрын
and why did she not make any effort to “get to know him”? (her father n law, and grandfather to her children)
@teliciahodges3093
Ай бұрын
@@sbsk2526 Her issues with him had to do with her man. Her man vented that he had issues with his parents. His life is over now, so why would she still have an issue with him? Initially she was just supporting her man's wishes like any good woman would. Whats so devious about that?
@labrennawalker2219
Ай бұрын
May Kobe, his daughter and his dad all rest in peace 🙏🏾
@glorymosbyfloyd3878
Ай бұрын
Yes Lord ❤️
@ELmasDuroChamp
Ай бұрын
If Kobe loved his father so much she should help his dad in any way possible to get him the best doctors and care, sad story/situation 🙏🏻 condolences
@VickiewithanIE
Ай бұрын
Kobe's parents helped make him. They deserve respect.
@Nyammings
Ай бұрын
'Have children so they can take care of you when you're old.' Right.
@victoriaparker-mothershed9427
Ай бұрын
@@Nyammings they didn't have her. She's their daughter in law. Sad but
@donc2490
Ай бұрын
@@Nyammings Ummm... no.
@Nyammings
Ай бұрын
I'm talking about the child they had.
@kasmirsdaughter6211
Ай бұрын
You have no idea how self centered you sound.
@donc2490
Ай бұрын
Incredibly, the following view seems to be less popular: You have children because you love the person you have them with, and you believe their addition will enrich your family line and your life. You believe that in some way, their existence will have a positive net effect on society. You have them TO GIVE THEM a chance to build and experience a wonderful life--the greatest gift God and the Universe can give. By extension and in general, YOU should live well, aim to make wise decisions, work hard, and organize your own life/lives to support and "take care" of yourself WITHOUT your children. This does not mean that your children do not help you or, at minimum, assist with important decisions. It does not mean that if your children become immensely successful, they do not help or share with you. The parent-child relationship may determine whether or not there is any connection. But I do not agree with the mindset of having children to "take care of you". I understand the sentiment being expressed, but I think it sounds selfish. I believe that you focus on loving and doing the best you can for your children, and then they will, in turn, love and do the best they can for you. But you do not have them to take care of you. I respectfully say "No" to that statement.
@user-od2tg1mh9p
Ай бұрын
They always say if you don’t have anything nice to say just be quiet! RIP
@GoddessKelly
16 күн бұрын
Not everyone gets along with their in-laws and I think her statement was perfect. It was short, sweet, respectful and to the point.
@leesteal4458
Ай бұрын
He died young. My condolences to his family and loved ones.
@gaylahall2880
Ай бұрын
She said what she felt in her heart, if she hadn’t said anything at all, people would say something negative about that. This is a case of you are dammed if you do, or dammed if you don’t situation. 😔
@nyreebyrd
Ай бұрын
Men… if the women you are with doesn’t respect your parents , and she claims to love you, ask yourself this question; “ how can she love and respect me when she doesn’t love or respect who raised me?”
@lkofie6670
Ай бұрын
... too much sentiment. If the parents are not/were not receptive to her and did not acknowledge or respect her as THEIR SON'S WIFE from the beginning to the degree that they had a strained relationship with their son, how should she truly feel? Eventually, she'll choose to be indifferent but cordial at best. Her love for her husband has nothing to do with his parents or anyone else's feelings. THEY love and want to be with each other and respect each other and that is the bottom line. No one should feel the need to do or be more than they should for sentimental sake "because that's his father... because that's his mother." She frankly said it as it was in the most respectful way considering the actual circumstances.
@truthbringer-6748
Ай бұрын
@@nyreebyrd Kobe's parents sold his memorabilia and sued him. You don't have to respect those people. They seem very manipulative, there's a reason Kobe cut them off.
@spr6986
Ай бұрын
You must not know the history of Kobe and his parents
@virtuoussoulhealer3644
Ай бұрын
He taught her how to treat his family
@smoothhand7960
Ай бұрын
@@nyreebyrd however if you don’t respect who your son takes as his wife, that just like disrespecting your son choice . Father my have, mother my have God bless the child who has his own…period
@mz.martinez1619
27 күн бұрын
It's short but sweet. Nothing wrong with that. ❤ everyone always has different reactions.
@israeliteservant4523
Ай бұрын
She ROTTEN to the core and this symbolic gesture mean squat to her actions....
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