just wanna let you know. I'm ~20 years old and also have a hard time with loneliness and friendships. I really struggle talking in groups so uni was a difficult time to make friends. I also lived alone for a long time and felt incredibley lonely. I hated myself that I couldn't make any friends. but that just wasn't true. I did make friends, eventually. I started to think "fuck it. what do i have to lose?" and just started going to events and talking to people. being open to so much that I never would have let in. guess what? went to a uni event after a long time and was in a group and really struggled talking. felt like I was back at square one. but I know I have achieved so much. and even if I "revert" I need to remind myself how far I've come and that I can overcome this. I have before, and I can do it again. I used to research how to make friends and how to talk. and hell, sometimes I'm okay with not talking or being lonely!
@whaleshark6285
3 ай бұрын
Watching this video felt like the 3 am conversations with your friend. The pouring of the heart and the lost of words to end your sentence. I've never felt more related to this video than the millions of others. There is so much life to live. Turning to a permanent solution for a temporary problem would be a waste for the years you've already lived through. If you leave yourself open for others, then people will enjoy themselves around you. I struggled with loneliness in highschool, but kept trying to talk to new people and join clubs. Eventually, I found a group of friends in the last months of senior year that I still talk to years later. Perseverance made us so you can never give up.
@Anonymous-xq9et
3 ай бұрын
such a good video format. I wanted to record a video in the same way, just relaxing gameplay with a commentary on a specific topic/story, but never had the courage to upload it to the Internet. I really enjoyed this.
@minitired
3 ай бұрын
I used to feel scared to upload this type of content, because I didn't know how people feel, about my sad or not happy stories. I even thought people would say I am a copier but this type of content has been here before. After some time of me testing this type of content I got rid of the feeling of being scarred because there were so many people that enjoyed my stories about life. When making these videos for you guys it made my mental health better after talking and hearing your stories. I saw it made you guy's day so I kept uploading. When making a video sometimes it can get scary or posting a video most of the time it gets easier after a couple uploads. If you really wanna post this type of content though and also there isn't any harm to making these videos but make sure you don't share too much.
@thebigbreh_
3 ай бұрын
you dont need to fear anything my man, youre a well spoken, well intentioned guy. i hope you find the people meant for you in this life, or atleast learn to love your own company. god bless you brutha❤.
@RingerDay
3 ай бұрын
I love your sincerity man, keep up the good work!
@asherurmom539
3 ай бұрын
Idk how to put this into words but this was like the exact thing i needed to hear right now thank you.
@real4kGaming
3 ай бұрын
I love your content and you just seem like such a good person to be around. This video feels like I'm having a real conversation and feels semi personal, kind of like that one friend you tell everything. Great content and I hope you're doing better
@SireRaMessiah
3 ай бұрын
I have lost so many friends. It's to the point where I don't try to look for friends anymore, I don't even like people anymore. All I can say is focus on yourself, there is no people you can truly call friends.
@minitired
3 ай бұрын
I think I can agree to focus on yourself most of the time but there's no people to be there as your friend. I think it's important to have friends and be open to a random even the bad ones, because no matter you'll always find the bad ones. Sometimes friends will find you if you are open to yourself, but there's always people that have something. if you find the right people even one that's okay because life is a bit unsatisfying. I have good friends online and I call them my family, because I care a lot about them and they care a lot about me. I sometimes feel really lonely because I can't hangout with them while I'm at school. Right now i know I don't know what situation you are in but sometimes we just need to hang there much longer.
@George_1791
3 ай бұрын
I've been struggling with friendships too. And if you ever want any friends again: could I be your friend? I hope that doesn't sound creepy or anything : )
@minitired
3 ай бұрын
Sure, also you're good it sounds fun.
@littlegreenplanet
3 ай бұрын
thank you for the video and i hope you have a good day and night
@RuadhanSeaver
3 ай бұрын
This is such a good series!
@mika-fw5vc
3 ай бұрын
U R AWESOME
@minitired
3 ай бұрын
NO U R AWESOME! You literally made my day : )
@Totikfr
3 ай бұрын
Sub five men are invisible
@B21-R
3 ай бұрын
If you don't mind me askin, how old are you man?
@minitired
3 ай бұрын
I'm 15 years old. Why do you ask?
@B21-R
3 ай бұрын
@minitired I'm asking just for the mindstate you know? Just making some comparisons with my life. Not that much difference though.
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