Love you more than ever Cheryl. You speak more sense than ever! I'm so bored with myself. I spend so much time alone, my body continues to be more painful and more useless, I can't drive much so I work less, I find new hobbies and passions until they increase my migraines or make me obsessive and sit too long etc. And increase my pain in other ways. I try so hard to get out in nature as you so often advise but my mobility but has got so bad and using my mobility aids have given me new problems. I've let go of so many people in my life who socialise by being physical: going out, walking, traveling on public transport, sitting in restaurants or cafes and being on seating that aggravates my body and debilitates me for a whole week from one afternoon of activity. It's improved things and I've got incredible close friends twenty and thirty years older than me, but they are comfortable in their own company and don't need to socialise as much as me, but I love being in their space NOT socialising with them. I love being in silence with them. It's so special. And coming together for food and afternoon tea. Whatever. We call it Chilling out, doing nothing in particular in the same physical place. But it doesn't happen often enough, and I'm in so much pain and it is so fucking isolating. I just spend so much time crying alone and it is maddening. I need to find more things to do that I enjoy that isn't agony to do.
@fightermma
4 жыл бұрын
Hello. I noticed you on here and you seem pretty cool. I am looking for someone to get to know. Building bridges is awesome. Having someone there for and you be there for them is something great. It's hard to get someone's undivided attention. A lot of people are focused on other things. To have a conversation where a person will talk and listen to you without doing anything else is quite rare in my personal opinion. I would like to talk to you. I hope I am not a burden to you. Can we talk?
@danielcasey32
5 жыл бұрын
Good word. Definitely for me. 8 Years ago i was going through a hard time in life and i watched a video of you talking about knowing what you want and how to attract what you want. It changed my life. Thank you so much Cheryl ♡
@boogaria554
5 жыл бұрын
So far, none of the things that you were saying really resonates with me completely. I was homeless at one time and I went through a lot of trauma, and I lost everybody in my life. So far I have not one single friend right now. I have let go of people and people have let go of me. I have gone to spiritual meetup groups on a fairly regular basis but have found that I have just not been in sync with the people at these different groups. I don't know if it's Los Angeles or what... And I get to the point where I don't want to return to the group because it doesn't feel good. It doesn't feel enjoyable or comfortable. I'm not comfortable with the people. Either they're cold or aloof or that kind of spiritual aloof La thing... I've tried taking yoga but I have fibromyalgia and arthritis and I can't keep up with the class and it's just too discouraging. So I have not been able to make a single friend as of yet. So I've been just trying to develop my relationship with myself. And feel the tremendous amount of loneliness and sadness. And grief. I go out and take walks and commune with nature and hug trees and work on relating in that way since I haven't been able to really connect with anybody here. My intuition also tells me that I need to move out of LA and move to Oregon. In the meantime, I have a therapist and I'm continuing to just develop the relationship with myself. But it's really heartbreaking and sad at the same time.
@dianagilbert8690
5 жыл бұрын
Yes...Movement is so very important for our mental health. Thanks for the time change reminder for England....going there next week!!! Cheryl, you are an inspiration to me because of your natural, effortless delivery of timely/timeless advice.
@shawn6306
5 жыл бұрын
I don't wanna be brave and i love being shy there is nothing wrong with being shy it's ok to be shy and yes i feel lonely but i don't wanna stop being addicted to social media because i love technology and love being addicted to technology ok i know everyone say that's a bad thing to be addicted i'm the only one that does see it as a good thing
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