My well qualified daughter took her own life two month ago, one week before she would start work as a lawyer after obtaining three degrees from a prestigious university in London, she left us notes about life being meaningless, how I wish she came in contact with the works of Dr Viktor Frankl and find her meaning/purpose, We love her deeply and she was only 23. Now, I am surviving by dwelling deep into Dr Frankl's works to rebuild my life. Emptiness is the worse disease today no doubt.
@krisi12bg55
Жыл бұрын
Keep being strong, brother! I hope you find something to stabilize your life!
@jungersrules
Жыл бұрын
I wonder if you know you're a very strong parent. I know some (maybe most) who can no longer function even on a basic level after the passing of a child. Maybe you understand the emptiness she was feeling. I need to realize that I don't have to do something noble in order to give life meaning. I'm doing work that I thought would make me feel better about myself because it's a good deed. But, I'm realizing I'm doing more self-harm by not exploring what interests me beyond just finding purpose. I exist. I don't have to prove I'm worth my existence. It's tough, though. I just don't see it most days.
@temlodge
Жыл бұрын
@@krisi12bg55 That’s how I found Dr Viktor Frankl.
@temlodge
Жыл бұрын
@@jungersrules You are absolutely right! After her passing my world collapsed on me and everyday I experienced emptiness besides grief, and I could imagined her struggle and suffering of emptiness. There is no need to do stuff to prove/justify our existence, but finding meaning perhaps is what our own life require of us, not other people.
@JohnDoe-ef3wo
Жыл бұрын
23 is so young 😔 😟
@MYwinters1945
3 жыл бұрын
"Imagine waking up every day to engage un activities you dont like in order to survive" my life described in a simple sentence.
@wayneroth8855
3 жыл бұрын
Maybe you would be happier living during the thousand years of feudalism. The standard of living was no higher at the end than at the beginning.
@mord0
3 жыл бұрын
Do something different then
@michaels2520
3 жыл бұрын
sorry
@infoharvester
3 жыл бұрын
@@mord0 you're a genius lol
@mord0
3 жыл бұрын
@@infoharvester 😂 I know it’s a bit cheeky but actually making yourself get out there and DO something rather than overthink everything really helps - it’s called behavioral activation
@Dacademeca
3 жыл бұрын
*"When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves." *- Viktor Frankl
@simpleguy4521
3 жыл бұрын
Beautifully put
@atlantis6855
3 жыл бұрын
Wack
@cia6880
2 жыл бұрын
He so strong!! 💯💯
@TouchOfMaddness
2 жыл бұрын
We xan change we rise up against our broken system and rebuild it brick by brick
@doxasophosmoros
Жыл бұрын
@@TouchOfMaddness bimbo
@francescomarzotto
3 жыл бұрын
"We do not ask life what the meaning of life is. Life asks us, what is the meaning of your life. And life demands our answer." Viktor E. Frankl
@krale9970
4 ай бұрын
Csnt understand , the message behind sounds like nonsense
@Ahnock
3 ай бұрын
@@krale9970 there is no underlying meaning to our lives, we weren't born with some nebulous purpose. living your life and finding your own importance that brings you fulfillment is how you answer the question of "what is the meaning of your life?"
@kennethalpvik7255
14 күн бұрын
@@krale9970 There’s another quote, similar to this one that puts it like this: “The meaning of life, is to give life meaning.” Meaning, it our own (each and everyone’s) responsibility to find and make your life meaningful. A good start is often by helping others, loving other people than (only) yourself. ❤
@cosmic2096
3 жыл бұрын
"Most people who experience midlife crises have spent their entire lives raising a family, or working in a career. They haven't had the time, or capacity, to ask the important questions in life. Eventually, something triggers the question, Is this all there is?"
@lancewhoha3659
2 жыл бұрын
I'm asking that question at 19. I think I'm coming up on the answer.
@flyingknee23
2 жыл бұрын
@@lancewhoha3659 I'm asking this question at 24.
@lancewhoha3659
2 жыл бұрын
@@flyingknee23 I hope you find it too man
@kerripendragon4888
2 жыл бұрын
Life is purposeless unless you want to raise kids with the right partner....or help the poor and orphans in some ways.... helping the weakest in society; the poor, the terminaly ill, the old, prisoners, the handicapped....etc. If you're not doing any of these nor raising kids in a loving relationship, then life is purposeless!!!
@TouchOfMaddness
2 жыл бұрын
When mortality rates were much higher and life spanns shorter women would be married off to bare children almost as soon as puberty the nature vs nurture argument is though. I sound like an a$&hole to say it but we shouldn't all survive we are saving and preserveing life's that will only suffer and wither
@behindthepie9430
3 жыл бұрын
“Death smiles at us all; all we can do is smile back.” - Marcus Aurelius
@rayamarante4768
3 жыл бұрын
As much into great quotes as I am, I'm shocked that I haven't encountered this one. Absolutely brilliant and great timing by you.
@andyt.80
3 жыл бұрын
Spoken in the movie Gladiator too
@rayamarante4768
3 жыл бұрын
@@andyt.80 Ahh, good to know (didn't see the film).
@namelessmonster4857
3 жыл бұрын
Death is only equal thing between humans
@musafir203
3 жыл бұрын
Nope. Marcus didn’t say it. Just a movie dialogue.
@wroanee
3 жыл бұрын
"He who has a 'why' to live can bear almost any 'how'." - F. Nietzsche
@konan8353
3 жыл бұрын
- Wroanee Faruque
@mEatToLive
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I was writing down this quote in my journal but I’d never seen Nietzsche written & so I had no idea how to spell it 🙏🏻😇
@wroanee
3 жыл бұрын
@@mEatToLive 😉
@thetruthwillsetyoufree9209
3 жыл бұрын
Nietzsche stole that quote from a TikTok Influencer!
@beatsbygoldfinger1924
3 жыл бұрын
amazing quote
@ghostno-jitsu7463
3 жыл бұрын
Its so easy to forget to appreciate having the bare minimum in life. I have a roof, food, a job, and people who love me. I am satisfied 😌
@anthonyarcanumsanctumregnu9551
3 жыл бұрын
That's all it's about Fam!
@iliveinsideyourhouse3943
3 жыл бұрын
I'm lonely and sometimes kinda sad because I don't have anyone I'm close to. I'm gonna pursue human connection and relationships, that's my meaning for now.
@ghostno-jitsu7463
3 жыл бұрын
@@iliveinsideyourhouse3943 godspeed to you my friend. You don't need a lot of friends just one.
@iliveinsideyourhouse3943
3 жыл бұрын
@@ghostno-jitsu7463 That's right, I just wanted one friend, but no luck so far, oh well, the pursuit of something meaningful gotta be hard.
@ghostno-jitsu7463
3 жыл бұрын
@@iliveinsideyourhouse3943 When I was a teen i had a dozen close friends. When I hit 20 I had 5 or 6. Now I only have two. Good friends that stick and you can trust are very rare indeed and worth the search.
@hellfrozen9971
Жыл бұрын
My meaning of life is self improvement,that's why I wake up full of motivation every single day,because I know no matter what happens I can always be better than the version of myself from yesterday and seeing years passing by I can watch and realise my own progress and how big of an improvement I get.
@marwanakkad6526
Жыл бұрын
This meaning does not fall under any of the three categories of life meaning that Frankel suggested. May I ask you how long do you have this particular meaning in your life?
@tedcleveland8488
Жыл бұрын
Idk why but that sounds so boring to me.
@brucesekliar5824
Жыл бұрын
better wrt what?? money, new task at job? new version of mobile? what??
@xibalbaNOW
Жыл бұрын
@@brucesekliar5824they go to the gym. It’s always the gym
@joerobins6069
Жыл бұрын
I agree with this, it’s not the sole motivation but I find it incredibly powerful. By reading stoic philosophy you can begin to live the best life you can, exercise, diet, these are all the pillars of a strong mind and soul.
@RexMckinnis
8 ай бұрын
I’m 31, unhealthy, broke, depressed, still live with my mom, can’t find a job and feel like I have no purpose in life. Idk where my life is going and have no motivation. I’m more than scared for my future.
@Matteo342
7 ай бұрын
We are the same my friend. I’m 37, also broke, can’t work bc of multiple sclerosis, depressed and live home with my mom & sister. Just know that some guy has it just as bad if not worse than you. Just wanted to make you feel not so alone. Hope things get better for you man!
@RexMckinnis
7 ай бұрын
@@Matteo342 hey my friend, I truly mean this. I hope the universe has a plan for us for everything to get better. Much love homie! Please stay safe and let’s try harder this year and beyond
@stefaniratu6439
6 ай бұрын
I hope universe could help you
@James-qz5ny
6 ай бұрын
Could be worse, at least you don't have to deal with the veterans affairs for health care,,,,, it's crazy scary.
@harrybrown-r5p
6 ай бұрын
@@James-qz5ny could be worse is not a reason to not feel the pain you have I hope you get the proper care you deserve my mother and father dealt with the same god bless
@kilingkiling-tinybell
3 жыл бұрын
After failure in work and love, I have come to terms that, because I'm the only child, to take care of my parents when they are old has brought meaning to my life.
@dalpaengi
3 жыл бұрын
you’re honorable and I hope you receive an abundance of happiness
@Pedanticskepticism
Жыл бұрын
It will become your cage. When you can’t go out
@Pondapple
Жыл бұрын
@@Pedanticskepticism Maybe she or he can reframe it as a cage with doors and windows that let in the light of self respect, honor and accomplishment.
@kikaylopez2753
Жыл бұрын
That's beautiful but I do wish you a real love as well
@kikaylopez2753
Жыл бұрын
That's beautiful but I do wish you a real love as well
@avanschalkwyk5897
3 жыл бұрын
Im a South African student teacher, just read a psychology book speaking of Frankl, then the same day I finished it this video came out. After losing my mom to cancer, I found meaning in suffering through the stoicism that this channel provided as well as psychologist theories of Frankl and Maslow. If it means anything to the creator of this channel, you have helped me indirectly to build a strong mind. Dankie enkel ganger vir jou wysheid en jou raad.
@Buzzoit
3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry about you mom, mine also passed away to cancer. I try to carry the pain it sprung as care and kindness for other people
@avanschalkwyk5897
3 жыл бұрын
@@Buzzoit I am sorry to hear, healing takes time, some sooner than others, there is no rule to life. I coped with the fact that the pain of the cancer was gone. The suffering was not drawn out.
@salvadorramirez4114
3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear all this. I'm 29 and survived stage 4T cancer when i was 26. I lost EVERYTHING. Cars, my place, my fiance, muscles and hair. What honestly got me through it was finding GOD. Otherwise I would have been laying in that bed facing an abyss of emptiness. Shortly after I had family/friends pass from cancer. I was at peace and helped others feel the same knowing they were in a better place than we are.
@M3l_0N666
3 жыл бұрын
@@salvadorramirez4114 I find it funny that whenever someone is faced with a situation that pushes them close to the edge, whether it be death, going to prison or losing loved ones, that out of nowhere people go to find their strength, not within themselves, but from something like religion. Like why? Are you lacking so much inside that that you had to cling to the one familiar cli che that is the Bible? That it somehow holds the right answers? The secrets to morality? Strength? (funny enough but religion tends to Lead people to dehumanize others) Sorry to say but that ancient crap is pure hypocrisy. Instead you should've studied everything els, hell philosophy, something that gives you scope, inner wisdom, to make you realize that you had the strength to pick yourself up, that through your own free will as a person, and individual can chose to be who and what you are and how you go about life and interacting with others.
@salvadorramirez4114
3 жыл бұрын
@@M3l_0N666 🙄you'll see
@zenthegeneral
3 жыл бұрын
_Man's Search for Meaning_ is still one of the most happy depressing books I've ever read To turn disaster and horror into meaning is a super power all on it's own, and whether it's emotional resilience or mental gymnastics, it's a valuable strategy for going through adversity *"If you want to be a light for the world, you must be willing to burn." -Viktor Frankl* People who find pain in times of peace are pitiable, but by that token, people who find peace in times of struggle are admirable It really does come down to how one interprets the situation, rather than the situation
@Ragman312
Жыл бұрын
I wonder about that. If we have to create meaning for ourselves, then there's truly no meaning in the outside world. It's a product of our own making, subject to the corruption of our own human nature. This is evident through the expression of pessimism, yet true meaning is incorruptible. It must exist without rather than within the confines of our imagination. This is the perpetual cycle of evil and suffering that pervades over the world. We're caught in a samsara, a timeless loop, human history, a species doomed to live in the unbalanced twilight of god-like knowledge and animalistic tendencies. There's no example of a willpower strong enough to stave off the evil of the world let alone the sins we commit ourselves. How can we have a discussion of meaning without the mention of freedom as well? Freedom is an essential ingredient to the euphoria of meaningfulness. But I wonder, when people start going down that path, where does it lead. I assume the logical conclusion to freedom is something like nirvana, achieving a neutral victory through not wanting to play the game at all.
@patdaly4107
Жыл бұрын
Actually it comes down to the lucky and those who are misfortune However in my experience one makes their own a luck
@ssaleem2
Жыл бұрын
Wow, I read a lot etc and never stumbled upon this quote. It’s amazing. Thank you for sharing this quote and your insight.
@oORiseAboveOo
Жыл бұрын
@@haveagreatlife3973 Just a question, who is the “we” being referred to in that quote?
@mauriciofontes
10 ай бұрын
"People who find pain in times of peace are pitiable, but by that token, people who find peace in times of struggle are admirable". I think I understand what you mean, but stating this is passing some HEAVY judgement on a person going through pain. If we compare most of our lives with Viktor Frankl's or other survivors of extreme situations, naturally our "pain" will be almost nothing, almost laughable. But then you risk ignoring completely the struggles of daily life and alienating ourselves to pains and struggles most of our family and friends go through.
@alideep9656
2 жыл бұрын
I live in Syria and the living conditions in 2022 are so extreme, we are somehow off the grid, this video eases the daily struggle.
@James-qz5ny
6 ай бұрын
Love out to Syria❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@lawrencestoke
4 ай бұрын
🙏 Stay strong brother. Hoping and praying for peace
@Emmacita423
Жыл бұрын
I believe that my life’s purpose is my work as a early childhood educator . I know that work doesn’t always equal meaningfulness, but seeing those kids learn and grow brings me a lot of fulfillment. I feel lucky to have found that so early in my life
@Darkinse
Жыл бұрын
“Work a meaningless job to be able to buy stuff to feel less meaningless “ I am no martyr but even i know myself and other people
@ruthbennett7563
Жыл бұрын
I am at the end of my education career in the classroom. My body can no longer endure the work & my current job has been cut from my school’s budget (as I knew it would when I reached retirement). Making art with kids has given me meaning enough to get through the darkest periods of my life. I do not know how I will continue on without this daily affirmation of purpose. There is a dark side to the philosophy of meaning. What is to be done when you have been made redundant? Cut from the budget? Or, considered obsolete? Being unable to continue really makes me feel like I should be put down like an old workhorse. I had purpose which I no longer serve.
@lateonaname
Жыл бұрын
@@ruthbennett7563maybe if you’re retired and can afford to give your time you could volunteer an after school art club ? A couple hours one day a week? There could even be a small joining fee just to cover supplies 🤷🏻♀️ keep it laid back and enjoyable
@azanyahyisrael101
Жыл бұрын
@@ruthbennett7563That would be to keep going my friend. Good luck! 🙂
@UmbraStarWolf
11 ай бұрын
What is not meaningful to someone can be someone’s purpose. Everyone finds meaning in different things.
@Driscoc
3 жыл бұрын
Viktor’s book helped me a lot when I was in a dark place. I recommend it for anyone in a similar place.
@olivier-pierredebelmont.3630
3 жыл бұрын
Ok...thanks! 7years in the Thai jail did not help me to be happy.
@jetgamez643
3 жыл бұрын
I started reading Man's Search for Meaning 3 years ago but only read half of it, thinking I should start reading again
@GaminGawdess
3 жыл бұрын
Yes it is a must read I loved it
@LeoRex13
3 жыл бұрын
Same... his name came up a few times in my psych classes, but years later I was handed his book &... yeah. Good timing on that one.
@amazingsupergirl7125
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve had it on my physical TBR shelf for a couple of years. I think these comments will get me to read it. So many books! ❤️🤟🏻
@robertbarney8635
3 жыл бұрын
When told to pursue my dreams, I did! I immediately went back to sleep.
@chinoh3498
3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@queenaqueen7269
Жыл бұрын
🤩🤩🤩
@celloviola110
Жыл бұрын
Haha.
@kellerkind4510
7 ай бұрын
The one thing that keeps us humans going is the fear of death, so ask yourself what is death. The fear of God is the beginning of all wisdom. Don’t fear the one who is able to kill the body, but fear the one who is able to kill body and spirit
@IbarraAlejandro
4 ай бұрын
@@kellerkind4510 It all depends on what we think and believe some ppl didn't fear death they ain't coming back to the living world 😅
@lecomtedeneuch9994
Жыл бұрын
I always struggled with this since an early age. This is why maintaining relationships with friends, disappointing relatives and family was really frequent in my life. I observe. I exist. I survive. I fight. I never lived. Never really enjoyed something. Each day now is a struggle for hope to bear on. Already attempted to take my life twice. Reverted the effects of the poison twice but the second time it almost killed me. Dark thoughts won't leave me be. I attempted to reach out for help but nobody understands or helped me. I'm all alone with my mind and I really won't be able to fight the urge to just vanish away.
@SamuelBlack84
Жыл бұрын
I choose to turn my pain into hate against those who cause me such sorrow. Finding meaning in life doesn't always involve doing something good
@jasonlockhart5633
Жыл бұрын
Innerstand ❤ you're not alone
@jasonlockhart5633
Жыл бұрын
Innerstand ❤ your not alone
@mariamoon2527
Жыл бұрын
Sorry you feel so low. Please try to be kind to yourself. See the child in you that has been hurt and abandoned by others and show compassion to yourself because that part is still wounded inside you. You deserve love, acceptance and understanding.
@churpina
Жыл бұрын
Seek help my friend. A psychologist is great when you cannot understand what youre going through
@jannetteberends8730
Жыл бұрын
A Dutch philosopher once wrote an essay with the title: be happy that life has no meaning. That was such an eye opener for me. And indeed, I’m very happy with that fact for decades now.
@harshkanoongo1640
Жыл бұрын
Baruch Spinoza?
@324ywo
Жыл бұрын
May I know where u found the essay? So I can read it too
@jannetteberends8730
Жыл бұрын
The philosopher is Jaap van Heerden. The text is in Dutch. I couldn’t find it on internet anymore. It used to be there because I have a download.
@jannetteberends8730
Жыл бұрын
@@324ywo the first time I read it was in a Dutch paper.
@acidset
Жыл бұрын
That title makes me think of the fact that at least there is no one set meaning for everyone, and any can be given and be shapen by the person. I'd be curious to explore more about that.
@bad_money
3 жыл бұрын
Life has no meaning. Each of us has meaning and we bring it to life. It is a waste to be asking the question when you are the answer.
@mohamedaminebenlehmar9724
3 жыл бұрын
That is the implication of denying God and his revelation. Total darkness and meaninglessness.
@tiggerknowsbest6817
3 жыл бұрын
@@mohamedaminebenlehmar9724 Quite the contrary in my opinion. I find it to be total lightness, there is nothing anchoring you down with true nihilism, it's just you and infinity.
@uchicha666
3 жыл бұрын
@@mohamedaminebenlehmar9724 and you call yourself a free thinker. Can you enlighten us then and tell what's the meaning of life, good for everone?
@Turnitupluber
3 жыл бұрын
Random
@lindajoyrainbowneal5609
3 жыл бұрын
@@mohamedaminebenlehmar9724 ... yep, u sure said it correctly ... by throwing God away, that unfortunate person hits the trashcan ... (-_'|
@cmcn1434
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve lost the ability to walk and know this video to be very accurate in my life. Thank you so much for this 💓
@shinigamikurosaki5417
3 жыл бұрын
Even if you lost the ability to walk, you can still move forward as a person. Though you became different, there are always people who suffers the same as you. Even if you find yourself to be the only person to suffer the way no one had, you can set example for others. Everyone has different path in life. Some has similar path or get your path intertwined with others. Perhaps you have a path which is special and unique and rare. Till the end of the journey, you must grateful to your life and the achievements you had in life.
@ArianSaeedi
2 жыл бұрын
Keep going mate❤
@miradinoh8577
2 жыл бұрын
If I could donate my legs to you I would
@JohnDoe-ef3wo
Жыл бұрын
Let's try to make it through this thing we call life. 👍
@erikaugis1
Жыл бұрын
🙏
@Vishal_.
3 жыл бұрын
“He who has a why to live can bear almost any how”. This is the 🔑
@dlloydy5356
3 жыл бұрын
Really took this one on board. Frankl was an outstandingly strong human. His outlook on life through horrendous experiences is the finest example of the human spirit & ‘grit’.
@hbhargavnaidu6025
2 жыл бұрын
"Finding something to live (and even die for) transforms a meaningless, hopeless existence into a life worth living, regardless of any circumstances" - Viktor Frankl
@DominiqueFrancon
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this powerful video. Many years ago when I was having the pity party of the century, a friend of mine suggested that I read “Man’s Search For Meaning.” Reading that book changed my attitude forever. Attitude is everything.
@Ry-fw6or
Жыл бұрын
I just ordered 😊
@Hoonters-goona-Hoont
3 жыл бұрын
"Devoid of meaning and faith that things could turn out more favourable, our bodies and minds begin to wither as we have lost our will to live." You can see it after every crisis. Mental suffering in it's many forms both intrinsic (Post-Trauma, Depression, etc.) and extrinsic (Acute Trauma, Stress, being in a bloody concentration camp) is one of the strongest indicators for cardiovascular, musculoskeletal oncological and autoimmune disease. Being dead inside can be taken a lot more literally than just having a bleak state of mind. Every single person that made it out of these horrible camps and managed to hold out at least another decade or two is a goddamn miracle of willpower.
@SamuelBlack84
Жыл бұрын
I'm sure a big part of that willpower came from hoping they could put a bullet in the guards heads
@K2llerTV
3 жыл бұрын
This is my MOST favourite Video of yours! I loved reading Viktor Frankls "Man´s search for Meaning". Keep up the crazy good work. Thanks for this amazing Video 🖤
@Einzelgänger
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Kital, that great to hear :)
@sinnsage
3 жыл бұрын
same
@colinsmith1288
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes there is no purpose to life if people around you have taken it away from you. Children in particular who are horribly abused and ignored by society are such people.
@MrTakadatsu
3 жыл бұрын
To be honest i only was happy when i was free. No job, no repetitive days, all that time for myself, struggling to eat. But man..there was no clock in the morning, no stress, i had little but i was happy. Fried eggs tasted better, even free food from others was a blessing. But my ego took over, i found a job and i consider myself a slave. Sure now i can eat what i want, i can buy clothes, and pay some bills. But deep inside, im sad. I wanted a relation, but i cant connect, they are all the same, they want what they are programed to want. And now i have a choise, to sacrifice my freedom and try to play this society game, or to Live as my soul dictates me? Cuz in my wet dreams, im alone and hungry on a bench, almost dead but with a big smile on my face, knowing i lived the way i wanted.
@nikosalexopoulos6542
2 ай бұрын
Man, we humans are strange creatures
@manufacturedreality8706
3 жыл бұрын
We are constantly searching for meaning, especially these days, because we are NOT free. If we were, finding meaning would easy.
@henryjohnson-ville3834
3 жыл бұрын
I agree. That's why I'm throwing whatever I can into crypto. Hopefully it succeeds and I could quit my wage slavery job. I rather be anxious and bored in my million dollar home than depressed that this is my life till retirement when you do have money but your body hurts and aches.
@queenaqueen7269
Жыл бұрын
@@henryjohnson-ville3834 yes
@mraviteja22
3 жыл бұрын
He who has a why to live can bear almost any how - this quote really changed my life.
@antoniodg2673
3 жыл бұрын
Your seeking of happiness, creates sorrow. You're seeking for meaning, will create more lack of meaning. I've learned to embrace my meaningless life, my sorrows, and my death, and through it all, I've became alive without being happy or having meaning in my life.
@tamerlane1
3 жыл бұрын
Acceptance works like magic
@Biconnecc
3 жыл бұрын
Your*
@True38
3 жыл бұрын
I think some of the best things you can do in life is just to continuously challenging and improving yourself through hard work. Overcoming challenges and obstacles is very satisfying, at least for me. That, in it sense gives life meaning. To strive for something, to set a goal and achieve it. It's all about the process, not about losing or winning. I've probably lost more than I've won in my life, but once you win and get that good circle going, life is pretty awesome! Also, yes life is pretty much meaningless and whatnot, but look - you have to do something either way. You don't need to start a big family unless you want to but you have to work one way or the other. So why not just go for the best and biggest things in life? Is it really better to settle for less, get lazy and do nothing? That's not very meaningful. I say; Work hard and play hard. Most people do neither so that, at least for me, gives me a big advantage. In fact, it's ridiculous because I can never get a normal job again because of my qualifications, and even when it comes to relevant jobs, I get the same old "your overqualified" feedback. Oh well, I have my own businesses as well so I'm good :)
@yorgouh3296
3 жыл бұрын
... Until tomorrow, where you'll fall again in the trap of existential suffering
@JaysonT1
3 жыл бұрын
@@yorgouh3296 Then you accept again.
@joelbelmonte1383
3 жыл бұрын
Dear Einzelgänger, anytime I watch or listen to a video of yours I feel like getting a total new perspective on things, so my mind strongly calms down (irrespective of the topic). Many thanks for your great work!
@Einzelgänger
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, that’s good to hear.
@lorenzrosenthal119
Жыл бұрын
@@Einzelgänger Yes from me too: all your videos I've watched have been very profound and well-made. Thank you! I think you are helping a lot of people. Greetings from Germany.
@Elena-oq4sz
3 жыл бұрын
He was the best philosopher ever, after everything he went through.. a magnificent person. I wrote an essay about him..😊
@lover5012
3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes i still struggle to find meaning. But after I read a text on the topic, hypothetically inspired by Marcus Aurelius, I now know. I wanna live life according to my own beliefs and values. Sure there may be some specific things I wanna do, but I found the above to be more fulfilling. Why struggle day after day to find meaning based on external circumstances? Either to build something, achieve something, support something etc. No. I rather define some basic values like "to be honest / grateful / dedicated and committed / helpful / not taking back my word / doing the best I can despite what I have" and apply the above, to each and every situation I come across my life. So in the end, I will have a meaning regardless where and what I end up doing.
@007lutherking
3 жыл бұрын
Hmm. So basically you're saying that you're embracing your good side, but you haven't realised/actualised your bad side. You are not aware of what the highest possible good looks like and you should know that that to live is to sin and each of your actions will still be tainted by a hint of your own darkness and to have absolutely no reason to be good unless you believe in god then you're just being good bc you don't wanna go to hell. Stop self shackling yourself with the curse of embracing your good side if you haven't unlocked its full potential yet. Be normal, do what appeals to you, chase your anxieties be naive, see where that takes you..
@lover5012
3 жыл бұрын
@@007lutherking @Clarence @Clarence Am i subduing my bad side, while i am trying to live an ideally life filled with only good things? If I understood that correctly, then, it seems I once more need to re meditate my "subconscious", my actions. Cause indeed, each action may be "tainted" like you said by darkness. Like where there is dark there will be light as well. If I deny to embrace my other side as well, then how can I be whole; ⚖️ Sometimes people are not seeing a situation, an act, as clearly as it may be. Other perspectives are always welcome. Thanks for your opinion.
@007lutherking
3 жыл бұрын
@@lover5012 the only way one can live without darkness is to stop existing. If you choose to live then you get to decide how much darkness you're willing to embrace and if you're gonna be embracing darkness anyways.. Why not go all the way?
@TheEmster2011
3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@justincrabtree6748
2 жыл бұрын
Powerful words💯thanks for sharing
@error-4057
Жыл бұрын
This is fcking bathling to me to watch this video on this day. It´s the anniversary of my suicide attempt last year, after thinking about suicide from Age 13 - 27 on an almost daily basis because of my upbringing. Live was meaningless and i just wanted to escape from this constant pain. I was ready to die for years on end. The only thing keeping me alive was the compassion i still held onto for the people around me. Because i didnt want to spread my pain to my loved ones. But last year i cracked. Im not gonna go into details but i aborted my plan at the right time and saved myself. Well i ended up in the hospital and there i found out that the Mental Health System in my country is all about making money. And i was back at it again thinking about the end. Yearning for it. But then i realised that at the end of the end i wanted to die because of the world around me and my standpoint towards it. And thats when i realised that the world around me is not gonna change. The people around me wont change. The only thing i could actually change and have any kind of Agency over in my life was my own inner world. My Thoughts, my Emotions, the way i react to the world and the people in it. So i made a decision for myself. Im gonna retreat mentally and emotionally from the world and from my point of view only give 10% of myself to the world. To give myself the necessary internal space to able to work on myself and hopefull find my own reason to stay alive and keep on going. Not really changing anything in my day to day activities. Just detached from the world and its currents that used drown me everyday. Funny thing is no one really noticed. I still acted the same way towards others but my inner world had changed drastically. After a couple of months i had done so much internal work that almost every major "mental & emotional scar" i received up till this point in my life simple by being there for myself. Should someone be interested in how i did it. I basically sat myself infront of a mirror and started talking to myself about the things that hurt me most in my live and just let it all come to surface and let it sweep over me.Which i had never alowed in my life up until this point. But seeing the pain i had held onto all my life right in front of my own eyes. It broke me. I always felt all that pain inside of me without actually seeing it at face value. But that was necessary for me to be able to actually feel compassion for my self for the first time in my 27 Years on this planet. And from there on out i just raced through those really heavy painful emotions and memories that i never thought could be healt. But now i sit here only one year after finally going my own way in life and being there for myself like i used to only do it for other people. Let me tell you all this pain and suffering was worth it. Because without it wouldnt be the person i am today. And after years of hating myself and wishing for my own death to eliviate the pain for myself and the perceived burden i put on other people simply by existing. Which is actually funny because i did nothing else than sacrifice my own Mental and Emotional Well being to help others with there own sorrow without wanting anything in return because i thought that that was my only reason for me being alive. To be a useful tool that gets discarded the moment it is no longer useful. But thankfully I can finally say i found peace with myself. So now i am at a place of mind where there is no more need for my live to need a meaning. There is nothing left for me to do on this journey. No grant goals to achieve or certain postions i want the hold. No just being alive and enjoying the journey towards my natural death is more then enough "reason" for me to be alive. Just enjoying the little everyday things that occure in a human life span. No longer chained by my indoctrination imprinted by the world. Finally free. Walking my own way till the end and embracing the end with peace in my heart. Hope this little rant can help a poor sould out there. Stay safe everyone and cut yourself some slack. We are all goin to find our own way. Everyone in his own time and place.
@jeffreyd.4878
4 ай бұрын
I don’t know who you are but I’m proud of you. I’ve never had any suicidal thoughts but I constantly wonder when my last day will be and how. Growing up I never got to express myself and whenever I did I never felt like I was heard. So I’ve always been closed off to the world because to me it felt like I wasn’t even there. Luckily I found someone who helps me feel heard and cares for me. I don’t depend on anyone for happiness as I can make myself happy. I for a time got really sad because my life just seemed to be full of work and I didn’t have time for anything else and it was hard to plan around my time with loved ones. Now I have all the time in the world and ironically my loved ones don’t. It’s funny isn’t it? You think when you finally reach a place you’ve been yearning for the grass would be greener. But I’ve come to realize that the grass is only greener where you water it. Cheers to you for still living in this world. If there’s an end anyways might as well stick it out and see as much as you can. No need to rush what’s already coming for us all.
@redsheep276
6 күн бұрын
Your story made me realize what's even more to come in this seemingly stagnant world in the perspective of others, I saw something from you that would help me remember a bit of my reasons for me being what I am made of today. It's such a relief after all those enduring years you have to go through and finally knowing peace on your own, that is worthy to be proud of, indeed.
@DepressionTalks1
3 жыл бұрын
If you are reading this, please know as long as you're still breathing, you still have a purpose✌🏾❤️
@jenster29
3 жыл бұрын
We're all breathing. We don't all have or know our purpose.
@DepressionTalks1
3 жыл бұрын
@@jenster29 I don’t believe that. That may be naive of me, and that’s okay. Whether someone feels like they have a purpose or not, or doesn’t know their purpose… I still choose to believe they have a purpose within them that will add to their own happiness. I will help people smile and believe in themselves with that as much as I can 😄
@billjones642
Жыл бұрын
that man was privileged enough to be able to become a doctor, which allowed him to find meaning inside the concentration camp. what about those who came from already broken lives, born into poverty or disease, now faced with the prospects of that hellhole? harder for them to find meaning. surviving was ultimately down to fate, even one's own personality is profoundly shaped by the experiences they had growing up which is a matter of fate.
@dazwischen5072
3 жыл бұрын
Dear Einzelgänger, I have been watching your videos off and on for some years now.. (this is my first comment) You have created a very unique place here on KZitem, sharing your profound and wise thinking, through the thoughts of others. Creating something new of old wisdom, how beautiful. 😍 I thank you dearly , especially for this video, which will be one of my favourites, to listen to again and again. And to send to my friends. Thank you ever so much, keep up the good work! 🙏
@LetsReadPodcast
3 жыл бұрын
Great vids my dude
@Einzelgänger
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@michaelbishopp7758
3 жыл бұрын
I got a lot from this one
@SocietysWriter
3 жыл бұрын
👀
@jorjeyyyy222
3 жыл бұрын
Yowww I lovee your horror narrations💯💯💯💯🌟
@noellthomas381
3 жыл бұрын
Hey Let’s Read, love your channel and all that you do. Stay happy and healthy
@everettedl
3 жыл бұрын
This is really similar to not doing something and it will happen. You're so focused on something bigger that the smaller thing happens automatically. The funny part is, by that time, you no longer care about having the smaller thing. Life is so funny sometimes. Great video man.
@tamaratzarina7183
3 жыл бұрын
After all, love is the meaning of life. Love for loved ones, children, animals, nature, the sky, the sun…When the heart is filled with love, you can overcome anything❤️We need to learn to love more.
@Munkaa
3 жыл бұрын
So true!
@True38
3 жыл бұрын
Sure, just make sure you get paid for it :)
@tamaratzarina7183
3 жыл бұрын
@@True38 Poor guy :( you don’t know how to love. I recommend you this book - Thomas Jordan Ph.D. Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life. Good Luck 🤞 😌
@kerry_runs
3 жыл бұрын
Love will fail you, then what is your purpose?
@tamaratzarina7183
3 жыл бұрын
@@kerry_runs dear, learn to truly love yourself first, then love will never fail you, because self-love is a gift that continues to give🥰
@toreaman
2 ай бұрын
*_He kept his faith when fear was crippling most_* *_And saved his soul when hope was all but lost._* *_He showed us Meaning is the key to living_* *_And healed our world from senseless holocaust._*
@bookaworld9784
3 жыл бұрын
I watch you everyday. You have helped me look at life differently. Before was in a dark place and was very unsure with alot of things. You have helped me think differently. Thank you. Awesome videos. Sending love from Canada.
@n0madfernan257
3 жыл бұрын
at one time i've thought that if someone would just die it would end their suffering and pain. but then i thought, life is meaningless, we put meaning to it.
@sampetrie340
3 жыл бұрын
Perhaps. Or perhaps existence is full of meaning, which we don’t always perceive, and our task is to tune into it.
@SamuelBlack84
Жыл бұрын
If life had a meanibg set out by some higher being, then I would demand for that higher power to tell me straight. I'm not playing life's games or jumping through hoops to attain some pathetic awareness. I want to know right now
@eduardgut5664
3 жыл бұрын
After every time I watch your short videos, I have to spend hours, sometimes days to contemplate on the thoughts and ideas you introduced me to.
@strong.a.b.
3 жыл бұрын
That is just what I needed to watch. I had a big existentional problem, kinda get stucked for a while. Now I feel much better. Like you have unlocked some lock in my soul. Thank you for the big work. I'm glad that you here. Keep going! Wish you the best!
@asmiiii3
Жыл бұрын
This is so true. My life felt pretty empty and meaningless when I had no real purpose engraved in my head. But now, after focusing on my career and work, I finally know what I want to do for the world and for myself before I leave this world, and waking up everyday, knowing that I am a step closer to achieving that through my own efforts, is the most relieving thing ever. Thank you for the video. Love this channel so much!💕
@Lordbobomb
3 жыл бұрын
I used to be in a situation where I felt my life had no meaning, I turned that view from negative to positive. It's honestly great having a boring and mundane life! I don't have to fight in wars. I have a small group who I converse with when they feel like it. When I'm bored I just enjoy that I can be bored. When I go to work even when it was flat out terrible I just think; eh it's just a few hours. And then my life got some excitement. Got a new job, a loving Fiancé and it feels just as great! I learned how to be alone, bored, and without meaning. The best thing you can honestly do for yourself is to learn it as well. The excitement is nice but so is being without it for me personally. Sure it sounds awful. But for all the stints of excitement, temporary thrills and fleeting satisfaction you lose, you gain long term happiness, peace of mind and stability for yourself. Hell maybe even this could be a meaning / goal for your life. Who knows?
@hissyfitz7890
3 жыл бұрын
My partner & I have been labeled as ‘boring’ … keeps the dramatists at bay. 🤭🤭🤭
@Lordbobomb
3 жыл бұрын
@@hissyfitz7890 Me and my fiancé are wanting the same thing, just have things be boring and peaceful and hopefully have people like that stay away.
@hissyfitz7890
3 жыл бұрын
@@Lordbobomb - Wish you well on your search!
@Lordbobomb
3 жыл бұрын
@@hissyfitz7890 And I wish you the best as well!
@hissyfitz7890
3 жыл бұрын
@@Lordbobomb - Thanks! Living the dream we could never have imagined! ☺️
@tamerlane1
3 жыл бұрын
The goal of life is to live. Living means enjoying, sharing good things, prospering and growing. Live without living is not better than death.
@AB-wh5rr
3 жыл бұрын
The meaning of life is to find your purpose, the purpose of life is to give it away
@MrJamiez
3 жыл бұрын
But In the end it will be meaningless.
@nvmffs
2 жыл бұрын
@@MrJamiez Only if we make it meaningless. If you only drink and party then yeah, it'll probably be a wasted life.
@grahamdugan
10 ай бұрын
Wise words that I’m sure could be of great use to the suffering children of Gaza, Yemen, and North Korea.. I know I should be grateful not to have been born in those places, but the gratitude seems to do little to help me through each miserable day.
@shounaksanyal5875
Жыл бұрын
I am an introvert and I suffer from extreme social anxiety. I am at uni and have to stay for 2 years here. Every small bit of interaction gives me panic attack. I can't afford therapy and I have presentations to give, people expect me to attend gatherings in college communities and groups and I feel helpless. I have contemplated dropping out, worse committing suicide. I can't take it anymore. Doesn't feel any less than living in a prison because my mind makes my body numb and paralysed with fear. But this degree matters a lot to me, and I will try my best to endure. Because this degree is worth all this pain. Life has to be worth all this pain. When life throws me a bunch of lemons, I can atleast make myself a lemonade. Thanks Einzelganger, you are my only small hope of life and I kid you not. If I graduate without killing myself I will owe it all to you.
@FutureMindset
3 жыл бұрын
It's important to realize that we humans have been dependent on meaning for most of human history. It's a survival mechanism that exists in the brain because a life with no meaning isn't inherently worth living for. As a result, for some people, its religion, God, family, community or whatever else you can think of. But it's when we create meaning in our lives that we then find something to live for and are able to go through whatever life throws at us. It is meaning that gives us a reason to keep on going, especially when times are hard.
@kaiimendoza
3 жыл бұрын
His book Man's Search for Meaning is one of my favorite. It changed my perspective about life.
@Youtubeuser10873
Жыл бұрын
He talks my heart. My heart is physically aching. All i want is to quit living because it’s not my thing. I’m not like other people I don’t have a dream or desire for living. When i try to open up to my parents they tell me I should pray it out or it’s evil eye or some shit..
@globalheartwarming
Жыл бұрын
Anyone else you can open up to?
@nooneofimportance934
Жыл бұрын
Find peace within now.
@Youtubeuser10873
Жыл бұрын
@@globalheartwarming you
@Youtubeuser10873
Жыл бұрын
@@nooneofimportance934 found it thanks
@globalheartwarming
Жыл бұрын
@@KZitemuser10873 Try a therapist or counselor or a crisis line.
@Config2025
8 ай бұрын
No friends, no someone to talk to, is also a factor of emptiness. The only thing i can think of, is that, when i'm gone, all of these nonsense will left buried in this world, while my sould and spirit is ascend to idk..
@logicake
Жыл бұрын
When we are no longer able to change the situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.
@moonbeam54321
Жыл бұрын
we all have something in common for clicking on this video, we are all figuring it out, together. Find your community and find meaning. Good luck on your journey ❤
@WtfYoutube_YouSuck
3 жыл бұрын
My problem with depression was I knew I had no meaning in life and I knew I was responsible for creating my own meaning, but I also went down the rabbit hole of no-self, and could not see any meaning and reason to try to create it. All was futile and pointless, and I was aware I was broken. Too tired to generate meaning and invest in myself or others. No desire to improve to get better at anything. No joy. No end of suffering. No ability to seek happiness because nothing outside myself can make me happy and I couldn't generate it from within. Seems like I was trapped in wrong view...because things both exist and don't exist...things have meaning and are meaningless. It was a perspective shift I needed. Also, lots of drugs.
@hissyfitz7890
3 жыл бұрын
It is few who know the feeling of being completely defeated; then reborn only to repeat the cycle.
@tommym321
3 жыл бұрын
I’m just too fucking tired. And I don’t believe.
@WtfYoutube_YouSuck
3 жыл бұрын
@@tommym321 I quit drinking hard a year and a half ago, thinking it would improve things, but it just made me experience the suffering "raw"...been trying to find a reason to keep going all this time...head full of SSRIs and other brain drugs. Riddled with chronic fatigue. Since nothing outside myself can make me happy, I feel it is a choice I must make for myself to just "be it". I do feel happy when I embody some selfless thing, like helping others in need, mentoring, ect. but I'm codependent, so living for others means I'm putting myself second and focusing solely and narcissistically on how others perceive me...which is exhausting. Tommy, I recommend writing down your values...what matters to you. What is the best version of yourself? ...then take a small step each day to become more that that person you want to be.
@justincrabtree6748
2 жыл бұрын
Wow that's deep. Thanks for sharing! Hope you can find true happiness 🙂💯
@chipfgc1984
2 жыл бұрын
@@WtfKZitem_YouSuck I think the reason depression is such a hard thing to overcome is because, when all hope of life is gone you lose the want for things to get better. To the extent that even meaning itself feels pointless. But I have to say it's been sometime since I've seen such profound ideas articulated as well as you have put them here, I resonated with every word you spoke. Thank you for sharing your story, hearing similar thoughts I have entertained be put into words help me to better understand my own deeper thoughts. Well done for inspiring others and hope you can find the peace and happiness you deserve :)
@TheDhammaHub
3 жыл бұрын
Life goals are so simple, yet so powerful. If you have 2 hours for a task and someone distracts you, you lose a lot of time relatively speaking. The same time loss is insignificant compared to a bigger goal
@saberserpent1134
3 жыл бұрын
"We no longer have need of others. Any relationship can be replaced by a keystroke. I had gotten bored of a world like that."
@21stCenturySpaceOdyssey
8 ай бұрын
Ok and what happens when one cannot find any meaning? Some people decide to exit this world in what us “sane” individuals don’t understand. About ten years ago a good friend called me up-we hadn’t talked for a while-chatted for about 15 minutes then that was that. About a week later he walked into the woods with a piece of rope and never walked out. He had no history of mental illness. There were no drugs found in his system. He wasn't suffering from any terminal illness. He left no note. His apartment was clean, and his finances were in order for his age. Again, no “rationale” reason us “sane” people understand. After talking to his parents, my best guess was he had simply reached his “expiration date”, i.e. had his fill of the Human experience and wanted to move on. Yes, it's not the normal arc of life, but it happens, and others have to respect this, pure and simple.
@Duske3000
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. In suffering do we truly find ourselves. In suffering do we rethink our purpose. There is beauty in life, even when there's suffering.
@SamuelBlack84
Жыл бұрын
The suffering of my enemies is what gives me beauty in life
@liafuentes326
3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful video! Sharing a piece of bread with the people in need can indeed give meaning to your life.
@muneebkhan7465
Жыл бұрын
I have watched numerous stuff on existential issues on KZitem but i can say with certitude that this video is immensely important because of its pragmatic content,easy to understand philosophy without beating around the bush. Highly obliged to this channel🙏🙏🙏
@cccc2740
Жыл бұрын
i have been suffering from this feeling since my childhood days, from standard 1 or 2....yes, kids too can have this feeling..and my life has been a very testing journey so far just due to this inner feeling of world being meaningless....i am 35 today, and spend whole of my life torn between social life and this feeling of meaningless....dont know how long i can carry on...
@chigoville2660
Жыл бұрын
woooa are we twins? I'm 35 and mine started way too early in my teenage days....I just don't wanna give up but seems like I'm being sucked into the void of emptiness slowly each passing day.
@freakymeltdown1
5 ай бұрын
You're not alone. Many of us are! That's why we resonate with this 😊
@gwyn.thomas
3 жыл бұрын
The singularly most important 15 minutes I have encountered for the longest time. Thank you.
@陳慧懿
Жыл бұрын
I understand the importance of being positive but my problem is that I would want to vomit whenever I hear something TOO positive.
@andreicojocaru5256
4 ай бұрын
Same here
@AGR96
11 ай бұрын
I can't describe how well and mindfully your videos (and particularly this one) are put together. You are wonderful! Thank you!
@Einzelgänger
10 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@Corpus_Callosum
3 жыл бұрын
"If there is a God, He will have to beg my forgiveness." - found written on the walls of a concentration camp during WWII by a Jewish prisoner.
@MikhaelAhava
3 жыл бұрын
Lol rip.
@FilipinaTalks
3 жыл бұрын
What does that mean
@MetalHeart678
3 жыл бұрын
Q: "Why do bad things happen to good people?" A: You don't get to decide which things are bad or which people are good.
@FilipinaTalks
3 жыл бұрын
@@MetalHeart678 wait a damn minute. That actually makes sense.
@MetalHeart678
3 жыл бұрын
@davy boy We wouldn't be looking for cures if there weren't illnesses in the first place. Looking for cures develops scientific research (which btw I'm in no position to define as good). So, no, I wouldn't really define illnesses as bad.
@deejayjuicebox7623
3 жыл бұрын
I'm alive because I was born. I'm still here because I haven't died yet. Its really that simple. There is no meaning to life, no purpose. Simply since we can conceptualize our morality; we overthink everything, adding meaning to useless shit.
@yorgouh3296
3 жыл бұрын
Easy to understand, almost impossible to apply to everyday's thoughts - you still have to deal with existential dreads
@JaysonT1
3 жыл бұрын
@@yorgouh3296 Stop dreading them.
@sashabenariel1
3 жыл бұрын
“If the universe is meaningless, so is the statement that it is so… The meaning and purpose of dancing is the dance.”- Alan Watts
@someonesomeone25
3 жыл бұрын
Yet something within senses so.wthing grander just out of my reach and craves something deeper without knowing what it is. I have never been able to find or create a compelling meaning or purpose for myself, yet still I crave them and cannot stop no matter how I try.
@MikhaelAhava
3 жыл бұрын
Nihilism is a thing I guess, depends on philosophies of the people.
@just_me6128
8 ай бұрын
since i am a child and since i can remember, i have always felt that life has no meaning, i have never wanted to exist and i have always tried and thought of ways to take it away. and today that i am an adult i live an empty life, as i have always lived it i have a house, i have a car now i have been unemployed for two years and the only reason why i am alive is because my parents still exist otherwise i would have already finished it.
@elvia7064
6 ай бұрын
You've saved me today. A sincere thanks to you for bringing this topic into light. ❤
@resyahusaini6641
Жыл бұрын
I already keep a drug to end myself about a week, because I feel empty inside. I binge everything that I know it will ruin mysel, but I feel like I can't stop. Today I accidentally slit my fingers while cooking, I feel something from it. I feel pleasure by hurt myself. wanna do it again so damn bad right now, because the pain feels bigger than my wounded heart. I feel so depressed after I'm bed ridden, now my physical health is improving but my mental state is messed up. no one notice and I'm to scared to admit my mental problems, because everyone suffering after my dad passed away and my illness that take a lot of money. At first I want to search, why I feel relief while slit myself. But my rational mind search this instead. I pray for myself and all the people who also suffering to find their own mean of life and happiness. that we get a better and bright future full of meaningful happiness.
@Quarzsx
9 ай бұрын
Don't kill yourself
@cameronpavelic500
Жыл бұрын
“Do we choose a destructive, nihilistic path?” It’s questions like these that make finding one’s purpose so confusing, because everyone has a negative opinion on lifestyles they deem unworthy of living. Who is to say a nihilist is living a “destructive” life when there is no one answer to the meaning of life? No matter what life you live, there is always someone out there to put it down.
@bondpaz
3 жыл бұрын
I read Victor’s book and met him. He was such a brilliant man. Great video. ❤️
@Tya2019
Жыл бұрын
Happy for you ☺️ 💐🤍🤍🤍🤍
@shawnsh
Жыл бұрын
book title please?
@bondpaz
Жыл бұрын
@@shawnsh Man’s Search for Meaning
@dreamtube3433
Жыл бұрын
How old are you? And where did you meet him?
@bondpaz
Жыл бұрын
@@dreamtube3433 I’m 58. I met him in Texas. He was doing a book tour and signing. I was only 13. He spoke at our school. I never forgot.
@sreeharsharaveendra289
8 ай бұрын
Love is the highest purpose, it's the highest form of purpose. How does love look to you? Something I'm learning about and Viktor Frankl is providing me a door, but the path is for me to pave. Guided by the meaning for the purpose of love, I'm sure I can stay alive even in the most hopeless situations.
@ahmadkazemi8728
5 ай бұрын
I heard on a documentary that creatures of earth many times have been mass extincted and replaced by new creatures over time. It's almost our turn to say adios to all these joy and happiness and treasures and blessings.
@jn48-sc5ei
5 ай бұрын
So until that time comes, let's be thankful for what we have and try to do good things. (And let's hope we still have enough time left 🙄) Adiós!! 😉👍
@irhamsyah8991
3 жыл бұрын
The purpose of life is to be defeated by greater and greater things. ~Rainer Maria Rilke
@agathafry4233
3 жыл бұрын
...”Just keep going. No feeling is final.”
@trujilloroldancarlosarturo4281
3 жыл бұрын
thats like fucking dark souls game jajajja
@magnamia
3 жыл бұрын
How pleasant this all sounds, and yet how distant! I understand there's value in it, but at that torrid low point of deep loss and suffering, everything within revolts against letting in the light. The body sags against dragging its own weight, the stomach tied in a thousand knots and a wrenching tightness sitting dominantly above. It takes enormous effort to even move. One just needs to wait it out. Yes, please take help. But the suffering usually has its own incubation period. Staring into the abyss or just perhaps the blank slate of a ceiling, one just needs to wait it out. But you will never be the same after this experience. I would like to think that such extreme agony then is both a curse and blessing of a guest .... one who doesn't believe in feeding you the pink candy of optimism..but also one who never leaves without rewarding you richly for putting up with him. Yes, I would like to think so. But what do I know? For he has still not left my side.
@yebro4636
3 жыл бұрын
My creative writing professor would have had an orgasm reading that comment
@Reree-gz5bg
3 жыл бұрын
@@yebro4636 🤧🤣
@LahLahMan
3 жыл бұрын
Trying to figure this out in my late 30's, feels hopeless sometimes.
@King12Daniel
3 жыл бұрын
It's never too late. Life can change for the better within seconds.
@deuxquatresixhuit
3 жыл бұрын
I get it. But giving into the hopeless feeling means you're likely making two false assumptions: 1. You know what's going to happen in the future, and 2. It's going to be shitty. Stay open, my friend. Daniel's right, things can change in ways we can't predict.
@AlbionRising
3 жыл бұрын
When nothing works, try being of service to others. It could be from feeding the hungry, to even being an ear to someone close to you. That will already work, and then you'll be encouraged to do something creative. When I'm down, helping others gives you the biggest boost of meaning. 😁
@JaysonT1
3 жыл бұрын
I started at 32. I have had several times feeling the same. It is a process and a journey. Pain is the work. Without suffering, there is no change. All things are as they should.
@amazingsupergirl7125
3 жыл бұрын
@@King12Daniel Or it can become disastrous in seconds
@mj8495
9 ай бұрын
This is why some people are so susceptible to manipulation via religion. “Religion is regarded by the common people as true, by the wise as false, and by rulers as useful.”
@gaoexkaiser
4 ай бұрын
The issue with the train of thought of anything and everything can be labelled as "what is the point". It is very challenging to give meaning to a simingly meaningless existence. But one thing is for certain, emotions flows to a person's state every living consciousness second. I chose to observe it, instead of labelling or making it a problem to be solved. Trying to understand my relation of the self to the world around me. There is no concrete solution or answer to this dilemma but there is truth to looking at the compassion and love the world has, the self in relation to the pain and suffering the world brings, and giving a purpose on the present moment not the future nor the past. There is another perspective to this discussion the philisophy of death or non existence, it give value to the short breath, the limited time we have here in the living world. I for one am stuck as well even now, there might be the time where i physically give up but i choose not to give up on my own conscious self. It is the only constant being i can trully trust with genuine certainty, this is not my physical earthly self but the voice in my head, the me that defines me.
@Thedesertguy75
Жыл бұрын
For me it started around 40ish when I no longer recognized myself....I felt nothing.... I had experienced so much in life, more experiences and geographical changes that I thought were possible....though this filled me greatly when I was younger, something changed and became off....I valued simplicity and freedom for a long time but I couldn't seem to get excited about anything anymore....work didn't interest me, money did mostly nothing, it's like I had become numb to it all....now 48, I'm still stuck in this meaningless limbo of self....what the hell does one do? I traveled slot before, lived in countless towns and some countries, tried so many different occupations, some were fun others were death.... I hate feeling stuck,trapped. So I never married or had kids, could that be what's missing? Something outside myself? I don't know...but I'm not having fun and desperately want to again. Life used to be so exciting for me....I'm thinking with tech and smartphones has something to do with it for sure, not just me....
@digitalsublime
Жыл бұрын
Time to go intrinsic vs extrinsic as motivation. But I get what you're saying, same here. We get numb, and callous of heart, difficult to feel, but feeling caring is weakness and troubles, so we are conditioned not to feel. I would love to have an answer, but I just take whatever is in front of me that I can work on and go for it. If something is lacking, we must give it to others, easier said than done.
@kayokk-
3 жыл бұрын
Everybody, please recognise, this is exactly what animals go through. They have one portion even worse than the ones at the concentration camp, they cannot communicate their feelings at the time or even after. Corvid 19 has shown us what isolation does. Everybody, please take heed, whenever you can help and free a sentient being and let it live its life in full potential, please, do it, God bless you and may the universe give you the strength to alleviate suffering wherever you may find it. Amen 🙏🏼
@nigelpagnan6873
8 ай бұрын
This video blew me away. I never really looked at life and one’s meaning that way before. Also the analogy on the concentration camp prisoners mindset on potential meaningless can be present with similar characteristics in people of more western society today was outstanding. The ideas that lead to our consumerism blocking out our questionable purposelessness. I believe now and everyday I am in a search for meaning but within that sense find meaning to waking up with a smile everyday, even when not smiling I still feel an eagerness to get to tasks I set for myself. This video really spoke to me and it makes me think that I may already have a purpose I can’t describe in words because the past 2 years I have seen tremendous growth and improvement within myself physically and mentally and only the pursuit for that until this day. It was never in a sense for others but ultimately because I want to. On days when the motivation would be tough I noticed I admired doing activities like reading, learning to write more, study of personal wellness and finance and fitness. All topics people similarly strive for I can imagine but this video has opened my mind that I know within all these things and more, I’ve never quit and it was more than the reason of “because I can’t be mediocre” but rather “ I don’t want to stop doing these things” I believe now I enjoy more than I imagined
@user-fi4pr
4 ай бұрын
It's ironic how I never thought I would care for someone, and here I am head over heels with the sweetest being, hopelessly in love. Potentially seeing him is what gives me hope and meaning to live every day.
@dominiquejasperson900
Жыл бұрын
This is the most important and meaningful channel on the tubes! Thank you for doing what you do. Grief and bereavement, especially, are the burdens we all need help and guidance to traverse.
@skythil_731
3 жыл бұрын
I’m a nihilist but I still believe that life is beautiful
@ceban9014
3 жыл бұрын
Life sucks
@ninakoinz8477
3 жыл бұрын
We all live with our contradictions.
@kylewood9078
3 жыл бұрын
I call folk like us 'optimistic nihilist'
@bhuvanchandra2848
3 жыл бұрын
Then you are an absurdist.
@drakuslavic7611
3 жыл бұрын
@@bhuvanchandra2848 yes, we are children of Nietzsche raised by Camus.
@MindsettoMastery
3 жыл бұрын
Those who have a 'why' to live, can bear with almost any 'how'. - Viktor Frankl on Friedrich Nietzsche
@staylo4033
3 жыл бұрын
That’s actually a quote from Nietzche
@ADI-xp4qe
3 жыл бұрын
@@staylo4033 lmao, real smooth. These self help groups had made this a business.
@Edgar-Friendly
3 жыл бұрын
@@staylo4033 But lived by Frankl.
@Diana-gt1rv
3 жыл бұрын
This video is awesome. The purpose of life is love.
@miradinoh8577
2 жыл бұрын
I just dont understand why I am being forced to live another 60+ years with lots of trauma ahead of me when I can just die now without putting myself through even more pain than what I’ve already experienced. I dont wanna live in this terrible society where My rapist walks free but I am being punished for speaking up. I dont care anymore
@rojosombrero3608
3 жыл бұрын
Watching both '300' movies led me here. I have always lived life seeking for a purpose worth dying for, but am only met with shallowness, fear and egocentricity of man who have lost the will to live, but relinquished all of the energy of their life into preserving whatever miserable endeavour they are enslaved to.
@StefTapes
Жыл бұрын
So terrible. Many of us are in the same mind state. Probably my mind is just opening now after watching this. Either we live for ourselves or for others. Life is just to be happy. Meanwhile living a life with purpose keeping us to drive throught sufferings trying to do only good for ourselves and others.This is what we exsctly have to do. God bless whoever reads this and give you peace in mind and heart. ❤
@stillbeingcharles
3 жыл бұрын
While seeking to deepen my consciousness over the last year and discovering KZitem as a useful portal, your channel and its contents have provided an abundance of insight for which I am grateful. No doubt massive effort and consideration go into creating your beautiful videos, however the works flow with apparent effortlessness, grace and humility. All efforts to create and share your existential insights are greatly appreciated, and the ripples produced are spreading far and wide. Thank you.
@richwilson7507
3 жыл бұрын
I agree. I suggest you to check Pursuit of wonders and Exurb1a's channel if you haven't yet.
@dareleven
3 жыл бұрын
well said
@Mugairyuiai
3 жыл бұрын
I needed this, I am getting more nihilistic by the day and I don't like it, time to push through, without pushing. Thank you 🙏🙏
@konan8353
3 жыл бұрын
I picked up a few hobbies and I'm excited to wake up in the morning, I have no time to dwell on anything existential (needlessly and painfully). Activities where doing it, in and of itself, is enjoyable, are the best. I love being on my longboard. I can skate with friends, or alone, and I can improve within my chosen discipline endlessly. If I so desire I can get competitive, or I can keep my progress to myself. Find something you enjoy.
@Mugairyuiai
3 жыл бұрын
@@konan8353 Thanks Konan, there were a few pursuits I enjoyed, unfortunately I let them slip due to a series of painful life events that unfolded over the course of the last year. Some I am still trying to come to terms with. However, I have moved forward over where I was a few months ago. Not a lot, just a bit, but I'll take it. Wishing you well 🙏🙏
@frankbooth8003
3 жыл бұрын
In the heart of every road to meaning, according to Viktor Frankl, it seems there was some other humans involved. In all 3 reasons: 1 Caring, 2 Loving, 3 Suffering, for somebody else... In these times of independence and isolation, meaning in the modern world, is steadily getting harder to find.
@SamuelBlack84
Жыл бұрын
And, most people are happy to live lives devoid of meaning with nothing but empty, tedious frivolities. Their minds become so oppressed that they welcome it for an easy life. They become zombies
@Phoenix.Sparkles
Жыл бұрын
@@SamuelBlack84 Pretty sure most people seek meaning but have no choice but to become zombies if they value food and a roof over their head
@furanduron4926
5 ай бұрын
These days working 8 hours a day is just enough to survive. Not to live.
@celpabedn
Ай бұрын
The biggest suffering is the weight of years, and the feeling of shame, guilt that you cannot apologize to oneself, growing daily more and more!
@tabularasa_br
3 жыл бұрын
This channel is one of the things that have kept me going even through the darkest times. I must say it saved my life - many times already!
@tabularasa_br
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all you've done. I can assure you your work is crucially important for hundreds of lives
@houndsaregreat
Жыл бұрын
I get that basically everything boils down to willingly taking on life's suffering but that doesn't make life's suffering hurt or sting any less. And in my experience the accumulated suffering of life starts to feel like an unbearable weight on your shoulders as the years go by. I'm just tired of the suffering either way and just ready for it to be over. Like holy shit. I don't think the next days suffering and willingly taking it on could ever provide me with motivation to keep going or a purpose of any kind. If life's purpose is suffering then just kill me already.
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