I rarely write comments, but I am so glad I came across this video which gives me the opportunity. I don't even know if you will ever see this as this is a very old post. Sink Reflections is the single most influential book I have read in my life. It became my coffee table book, and a reference book rather than a "read and put away" book. When I read this book, I was not in a good place and neither was my house. I changed on day one and started following the steps. To this day I no longer have CHAOS. I don't fear the drop by friend, and I look at life differently. I'm glad I have a chance to thank you personally. Thanks for changing my life. Michelle
@drpaddi
4 жыл бұрын
Michelle, Thank you so much for your sweet words. I sent them so that Marla can read them tonight. It will make her day. (FlyCrew Member, Paddi)
@snowflakeyflake5239
Жыл бұрын
I am literally in tears watching this. Pajamas & being dressed to shoes is paramount. I’m so glad I found this video. 💜
@nld410
10 жыл бұрын
I am so happy I found you. I am a new mom and I was going 3 days without a shower and staying in my pajamas until my husband came home from work. I'm embarrassed to share this, but it was my reality because I was sleep deprived and completely overwhelmed. I've been doing your babysteps for 4 days now and I feel so, so much better. I think you just may have saved my sanity and changed my life. Thank you, thank you. God Bless you.
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@nld410
2 жыл бұрын
@@carlosweaver1793 Ha! That was 8 years ago. A lot has changed since then!
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
@@nld410 Yes 🙌 we’re are you from my dear
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
@@nld410 How are you doing today? I hope all is well with you and your family…🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
@@nld410 Hello 👋
@crissieburdette4654
7 жыл бұрын
I see this is an old video, but I had to comment. This video nearly made me cry. You mean someone else struggles with feeling like a failure and gets overwhelmed just trying to keep up? I'm not alone?! I was surfing cleaning help, "how tos", and such, when I came across Flylady! You are SO right about getting ready, you just FEEL more human and energized. I saw comments about shoe-free homes, mine too, but I wear a pair of cheap $5 Wal-Mart shoes that's never been outside. I dub them my "inside shoes" it works. I Don't even leave my top floor until I'm ready and have made both beds (I've even told myself it doesn't have to be perfect) I can't have my coffee until I'm finished, my reward. lol It's surprising how much it helps, but it really does! Baby steps, until learn to fly... without falling on my face 😉 I thank you so much, especially sharing your story. You have a new loyal subscriber!
@digimom82
4 жыл бұрын
Yes, ONLY wear INDOOR shoes indoors, otherwise you track in all the stuff from outside
@shellyswanstrom1014
4 жыл бұрын
Crissie Burdette I love this idea! House shoes! We just got new carpet.... thanks!
@drpaddi
4 жыл бұрын
Crissie, thank you so much for your answer. It will help so many other families who don't understand how they can make it work. (Flycrew member, Paddi)
@SherryKWillette
4 жыл бұрын
Your an inspiration
@elisee3133
4 жыл бұрын
I am always falling behind myself.. but I’m slowly getting on track, one room at a time.
@amberautery978
4 жыл бұрын
You are an answered prayer! I got so much done in 20 minutes a day I almost cried I'm not used to that! I'm used to going in circles and not getting anything completed and it is so discouraging. I too suffer with depression and anxiety and I think this is going to save my life!
@MrHPOCD7
9 жыл бұрын
As a house husband I have struggled with self-anything... discipline, routine, starting, etc. ad naseum. Up to shoes does in fact excite both our dogs. I'm much less likely to fall back in bed (too often for the entire day). My wife works hard and long and provides for us amply. My imperfect execution of FlyLady's routines is changing everything! I enjoyed my professional career before and now I get a charge (blessing) when we spend time together in our increasingly warm and welcoming home. I never really got excited about the job title "house husband," so I made up a new job title for myself and she surprised with that embroidered on an apron. I am the "HearthMaster." Redolent of rich roasting meets, big fires, congenial mead, and of course my Red Wing shoe laces tied. FlyLady, you rock with sparkles!
@MissEnna48
6 жыл бұрын
James...I hope you read this even though it's 3 years later. :) But I think a good title is Domestic Engineer. My mom was a stay at home mom. My dad, who was the associate of an architectural firm, gave her that title :) It's a very important job/calling/responsibility.
@drpaddi
5 жыл бұрын
Dear James today someone else replied to the video of the FlyLady that you responded to. I wanted to say hello to you as I remembered your title HearthMaster. What a great title. I also wanted to see how you were doing with your routines and how you used them. (FlyCrew member Paddi)
@pixxa37
5 жыл бұрын
HearthMaster... What a beautiful title!
@wendettavaughnwanner3150
5 жыл бұрын
HearthMaster, what a beautiful description, and my nose wrinkled appreciatively as I could just smell the cooking from your use of the word redolent. YUM thank you.
@rsarahi14
4 жыл бұрын
I love it!
@rivers1anne
12 жыл бұрын
I love that you say to just jump in where we are. That makes it easy to get started without feeling like a failure. Wonderful. I've been flying for a few years now and would never go back.
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@kjirstinyoungberg7794
10 жыл бұрын
It is the 25th of April, not January, and 2:07 pm, not the morning, but I'm starting where I am today. It's not a pretty sight, but Marla, you are 100% correct, and I am W A Y overdue. Each day I would start and never finish. Each distraction took me from my goals. Two days ago, my writing partner dropped off the photos for our new book. Yes; it was 4:00 pm and I was back in my pajamas. (The ones with the Christmas stockings on them, because I'm always in pajamas. Tthey are cotton flannel, and since I'm allergic to nearly everything, I'd convinced myself that was all I could wear and still be comfortable, no matter how ridiculous I looked.) So today IS different. Today, I listened to this video. Today, I'm taking the Ritalin I'm supposed to take but never do because it makes me sweat. Today, I'm putting on a cotton turtleneck, a wool sweater, and yoga pants. (Hey; they're a baby step up for me; don't knock it.) My only lace-up shoes are Scottish dancing shoes, so I can't wear those, but I've got some Mary Jane Keens I promise not to take off. I'm going to join your Facebook Group and post a before and after picture of my kitchen, no matter how much it hurts. Today, I'm making a change. To you 17 people who voted this vid down; shame on you. You've obviously never walked in my bedroom slippers. Today, at age 60 1/2 I am making a change. Amen.
@suredeydo
4 жыл бұрын
I hope you're doing alright! Have you made good progress?
@tinahoward5931
4 жыл бұрын
Kjirstin Youngberg you nearly choked me with the turtle neck and WOOL😳😬 But I love your way of thinking and btw, you’re still a spring chicken& at the perfect age to get rid of bad habits & start doing things differently. Congrats & be blessed!❤️
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@Heyladybudget
7 жыл бұрын
You are speaking to me. I am suffering from depression and anxiety. There are days that getting started are a real struggle but having that morning routine really does help. Thanks for the good tips
@juliekostas7322
7 жыл бұрын
Jen Life wishing you good times ahead, dear. Fly Lady helped me get things in order. Good luck! 🌹
@barbaraevening3854
5 жыл бұрын
Try and think what caused the depression in the first place. When did it start? Is there anything you can do about it? The daily routine tips help but it helps to look at the big picture too.
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@happydays2300
9 жыл бұрын
I love this woman. This is fantastic. I have taught this as part of Feng Shui, even to men, lol.
@kellylaflash1016
7 жыл бұрын
talk about perfect timing. I'm soon going to be quitting my job to focus on getting healthier, getting my chronic health issues under control, and putting serious effort into organizing/ simplifying/ downsizing my life. This is such great advice. I lose so many of my days off now because I just never seem to be able to get started. And I mope around in my old grubbies that I slept in. My intentions are good, but my actions are not those which lead me down the path to success. Obviously, I need a new plan - and I love your advice :-)
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@torttia
11 жыл бұрын
I love you! My family is always calling me a hoarder and constantly give me a hard time about the clutter. Your positive attitude helped me to stick to it. Thank you!
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@Dulce-cm2kx
4 жыл бұрын
Omgosh. Flylady I am so lucky to find you! I often heard about you but didn't know you had your own youtube channel!! I need as much help as possible. Thank you! 🙌
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@paulnagel5846
5 жыл бұрын
Im inspired anew everytime i watch this.This women transformed my life when i had no hope.I read her book when my 4 year old was in Hospital and i had a special needs baby.Plus two very difficult teenagers.Now allmost 6 years later,i still apply her ideas,use her calendar and tools.They are the best!They just dont wear out!.
@drpaddi
5 жыл бұрын
Hey Paul. Thank you so much for your kind words. Have you watched FlyLady live at The FlyLady on Facebook? We love to have you join us someday. (FlyCrew member Paddi)
@tammmygraves4317
3 жыл бұрын
Love this story ❤💕 getting dressed to shoes fix your hair and face!! She's so right !!!
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@fishingpinky3165
5 жыл бұрын
WOW...I just found your videos last nite and binge watched several. I feel so good about myself 24 hrs later. I got out of bed last nite and "cleaned my sink". So good to wake up to a clean sink. I did what you said...Got up...showered, made my bed, Laced up my shoes (well thats a fib...I live in FL so I put my buckle sandles on), put on make up and went out to lunch with a friend. It turned into a day of shopping, fun and laughter. If I had not seen your mentoring...I would have sat home all day in my pajamas, stuffed my mouth with junk food and felt sorry for myself. THANK YOU! I will be a forever listener.
@lucerolaura89
4 жыл бұрын
You have such a beautiful soothing aura. You were meant to inspire. Keep being beautiful.💛💛💛
@principeturandot4593
8 жыл бұрын
I've been doing this for a few years now... And whenever I get a little sidetracked or slip back into the abyss... I return to these videos. And it works! It is doing simple, practical things to start changing your thoughts that in turn affects your feelings. Thanks again!!! Appreciatively, Jonathan
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@gremlinjerky8462
3 жыл бұрын
I just found her but I love this woman. It’s official ❤️
@tgawron2233
Жыл бұрын
I am so happy to find the flylady! I wish I found this years ago. I'm 66 and just retired I said I need a cleaning routine. All these years I would clean but it would be a all day project that left me angry in a bad mood and I never felt like the job was done. I have been deep cleaning as well as doing daily tasks and decluttering. It's a work in progress but my house looks clean. I have an old acrylic sink that doesn't shine but it looks clean. I'm so happy I found you even if i'm late to the party! I love the flylady💗
@MsGinahidesout
11 ай бұрын
Marla, your system changed my life. Then, 4 years ago, my husband of 33 years left and I too became very depressed. I restarted your system yesterday and I'm enjoying looking at my clean, shiny sink!
@sandradow1783
2 жыл бұрын
I found Fly Lady during pandemic!! Thank you for your life-saving routines!
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@manifestdigitalagency
4 жыл бұрын
Flylady, you are awesome, you are the Queen Bee of all organisational methods and systems... each one I've seen takes at LEAST one idea from you! You were the first one who "helped me" with my organisation back when my first kid was born (2008) and until now I found no-one better, Marie Condos and all!
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@patriciaferrari3781
8 жыл бұрын
Your videos are a godsend to me! I have depression and fibromyalgia. My sink looks like your bad examples or worse! Sadly, my apartment looks the same! I continue to watch your blog for encouragement.
@mommy2kdk
8 жыл бұрын
I am with you! Fibromyalgia is hard! Still learning to live with it, depressed also. Sink, kitchen, house is a mess. Gentle hugs!
@TheMorningtrain
8 жыл бұрын
Please consider Lyme or other tick borne infections, like bartonella as a possible cause for your Fibro. I've seen so many people recover from Fibro once they treated bacterial infections like Lyme and Bart.
@mommy2kdk
8 жыл бұрын
ansteystreet1 Definitely not lyme for me. Been tested, plus wrong season when i got sick. People don't recover from Fibro. They may put it into remission, but they don't recover from it. Some people can put it into remission and others can't. Also Lyme symptoms are very similar to Fibro, can't speak for the other, so it was possibly a wrong diagnosis. That is why Dr's try to carefully diagnose Fibro and make sure it isn't 1 of a million other things. lol
@TheMorningtrain
8 жыл бұрын
As long as you're aware that 1) A negative test doesn't mean you are free of the infection, testing is not reliable so it's often a clinical diagnosis 2) some patients experience a delay in symptoms thus it can appear years or months after initial infection and 3) bartonella is a separate infection, with different testing and treatment. Good luck and best wishes.
@HalleyCookie
6 жыл бұрын
patricia ferrari Omg. I also have anxiety, depression and Fibromyalgia. I believe it was caused by many years living with hypothyroidism. It's been a struggle because it's like your living with an invisible disease that nobody can relate too. You get judged by people and life just passes you by. I was given cymbalta but I had a really bad reaction to it. So I started eating better, drinking green tea, and light exercise and I feel an improvement. Just starting to drink green tea was an improvement. I hope this helps. Wishing you all the best.
@vintagelifelover
8 жыл бұрын
WOW! this is so true I have been doing these things the past month or so. Get up b4 my family. head to the bathroom brush my teeth hair etc.. After that I get dressed in my gym clothes that I picked out the night before. I have found that if I try taking the kids to school & return home my house traps me.
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@JoyThirsty3
11 жыл бұрын
Can't Have Anyone Over Syndrome--I love that! It is chaos!I've lived in CHAOS for so long now, I'm not sure how to break the habit. I'll try, though. Torrin Paige and her vlogs clued me in on FlyLady.
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@Jean-ni6of
3 жыл бұрын
Marla, you are timeless. Thank you!
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@justinadiaz5246
4 жыл бұрын
I needed to see this video tonight. I have been in my pajamas for days and my house is a cluttered mess thanks to depression and drinking to much...im happy I found your channel tonight. I couldn't sleep
@rebaseymour1810
6 жыл бұрын
This video has Great advice! One of my favorite phrases is...If you keep doing what you've always done. You'll always get what you've always gotten.
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@deborahjabara2614
9 жыл бұрын
you are so cool! You remind me of Kathy Bates in Fried Green Tomatoes!!
@thebudgetbee9694
4 жыл бұрын
Or "Jo" on "The Office"
@SonshineLady7
4 жыл бұрын
I've thought Marla resembles Kathy Bates as well.
@lizabethma6363
11 жыл бұрын
Marla Cilley (Flylady) is such an inspiration! She has helped me change almost every aspect of my life into a more positive one. From my house, my outlook, my way of handling stress...next is my car. For new flybabies just starting out...dont attempt the whole routine! Do the three basics. Sink, shoes, swish&swipe. When that becomes second nature, add one more habit, like laundry. You build up. Also, these are adaptable. She swishes in the am, my friend does that at night. :) good luck!
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@kimandmikedial9582
5 жыл бұрын
2019 and just got your latest book! Every woman needs to listen to this video. I am so excited to start your system, thank you!
@judyrobertson9479
4 жыл бұрын
I think I was meant to find you today. I'm retired, 245 lbs more than I weighed when I was preganant! I'm wearing sweats I have worn for 2 weeks day and night non stop. When I worked I was an excellent employee. I got raises and promotions and complements on my organizational skills. I can't do anything unless I have got to answer to someone. Thank you, I will try. You have been an inspiration to me.
@carolynrice7757
2 жыл бұрын
I totally understand you
@barbarassmith159
2 жыл бұрын
Count me in!
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@jenniferchase4310
5 жыл бұрын
Wow! Talk about me here! You were speaking directly to me! I'm new to your channel, this being my first video. Thank you so much for putting this together. I struggle with chaos, I have a 3yr old and I always feel drained but noticed as you were talking I've been up for more than an hour and Im still in pj's on the couch!🤦♀️ I'm staring at my messy living room that's got toys scattered from TV to couch. I've got lots to do today and frankly didn't know where to begin. Thankfully I cleaned the kitchen last night so i didn't have to do it today. I'm now hopping up and taking a quick shower and putting my shoes on. Let's see what happens! This could be the game changer I need to change my life!😀 ❤️
@drpaddi
5 жыл бұрын
Jennifer, we will have a show today at 11 ... soon and another one at 3:00 Eastern time. Hope you can join us for one of those shows. Hugs to you and the 3-year-old too.
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@shawnakay9013
7 жыл бұрын
OH man someone recommended these videos to me and I'm crying because the thought of putting on shoes seems so impossible right now and I didn't realize I was in this bad of a place
@basketofdependables4244
5 жыл бұрын
hey shawna i hope things are going good for you now. are ya still doing Flylady?
@izabeau1953
4 жыл бұрын
You are so right , fixing how you look is so important. It gives confidence , you can go at any minute, and you feel old. I am 66 years of age, and since I am 14 years old I take cake care of myself every day. I never go with out make up or fixing my hair , and have decent cloths on. Every day I put my make up on as if I am going out. Only when I am ill I don’t but that is rare....
@donnacox7397
7 жыл бұрын
I have had huge lifestyle changes after hurting my back and my daughter suffering a total breakdown and having to become her carer and it has totally impacted my motivation and energy levels. Your channel is so REAL. It's like sharing daily struggles with friends. Thank you
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@sus1142
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this sweet and lovely video.
@tinahoward5931
4 жыл бұрын
OMG! Ditch my PJ’s AND wear shoes? Ugh! I’m moving out of a tiny house into a real home again & actually can’t wait to start doing all of this!!!
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@Mrs.AD0099
5 жыл бұрын
Its now Thursday, June 20th, 2019 and every word in this video is still completely relevant. Smart lady. The running shoe tip works..iv done it 😊
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@wendycol8354
4 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful view from your kitchen! Well time to get up and get dressed... To my shoes!
@GradKat
4 жыл бұрын
I love her!! She’s so wise and her advice is excellent.
@MeredithWaters
10 жыл бұрын
I've been positively impacted by FLYing for some years, through a move, an an overseas assignment. My husband now helps me make the bed as soon as our feet hit the floor - and he looks for the purple rag at the sink! I can't remember the last time I was sidetracked on some crazy project around the house. It's because we are organized and decluttered. This used to kill my focus. Perhaps you will talk about this. Another problem is that when I used to get up, I used to have a cigarette, and it was always a problem if I had my bathrobe on, and there were workers or people around, to go outside with chicken hair. But now after 30 years I quit smoking. I think I was able to because of a true self-love that bloomed in me due to FLYing.
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@MeredithWaters
2 жыл бұрын
@@carlosweaver1793 I am "safe" back in the USA, I hope! Lol My home country. I lived all over the world, in Southeast Asia and the Middle East due to expat assignments and the military. It is funny, but I was originally born in the Philippines as my father was an AF pilot there during Vietnam. We lived in Key West when first moving back to the States. What a small world. Peace and blessings Carlos 💞❤🕊☀
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
@@MeredithWaters thank you so much 😊 I hope we can get to know more about ourselves if you don’t mind plz….🙏🏻🙏🏻
@Momo.monster
9 жыл бұрын
You know that hit the nail right on the head for me. Here I am sitting here in my sweats my hair not taken care of my makeup not on and all that. I'm gonna go get dressed! Thank you Fly lady I think I need a good swift kick in the tush to get me started and you just gave it to me. I feel so embarrassed!
@lavenderware6279
3 жыл бұрын
I don't wear make-up since I became an adult. I am now 55 and still doubt feel the need. I wash my face and brush my teeth, get dressed, a comb my hair, but I do not wear any shoes unless taking out the trash to the compactor (1.5/10 mile) or have to walk or ride farther than that. I have athritis on tge top of my right foot. Being barefoot feels better. I ditched bras since I retired 6 years ago. My home is decltured and cleaned except for the cabinets in the office (nearly there), since I started fluttering on August 1st, 2020. I love you, Marla.
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@imeldapearce
6 жыл бұрын
I love how sophisticated your visuals are getting. I am getting off some psychiatric meds now and your habits are more important than ever!
@makeupjunkiemegleigh3967
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Marla. This video met me right where I'm at. Depression is no fun, that's for sure. I suppose I'm a master at hiding how I really feel most days. However, after watching this video I have decided to take back my life and get things done. I never really thought about getting dressed to shoes before so I look forward to doing that!
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@swapnav10
2 жыл бұрын
This video has been posted before 10years but I got to watch it only today and the point of getting embarrassed to open the door was a goosebump moment of the phase which I am going through these days.Hats-off to your suggestion ladyfly👒👒👒i am out of words to appreciate you.Thanks and it means a lot to me🙏
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@marydrummond5451
5 жыл бұрын
I found you Fly Lady and I want to thank you for being special and taking care me . Shine my sink . Set out my clothes . And pre set coffee and breakfast . Make my bed . Bathroom to potty. Take Thyroid pills h2o hour wait to eat or drink . Bathroom to shower and shampoo , personal stuff , dry off , dress to lace up shoes . Brush my teeth , Comb my hair face on . Swish and swipe. Open all windows to air out the house (? About hour ) even in the winter ... as long as no wet stuff is coming into the rooms. Load the washer . Timer on coffee. and Crockpot breakfast oatmeal ready at this time . Breakfast . Computer check what you are doing or the information you have for us Fly babies . It’s only me , myself and I . So lunch is salad and soup or grill cheese and soup . Or left overs from the night before . Crockpot meals . So easy . Monday ~ Hour Home Blessing . Tuesday use to be free day but plan and play .this next one is hard for me Wednesday anti-procrastination day...oh my but I do have a list of honey do things for me ... pick one and work on it till it’s done . Thursday ~ errand day library , post office , bank , shopping with a list , beautyshop, garage to check out Car and visit my friends and help them out . ( makes me feel needed and loved .) Love this one Friday Clear out Car and fill it up with gas . Clean out my purse . Date night ( something special for me ) like Girls night out . Take my grand babies out on a date one at a time . Movie , art class and wine , bowling . Saturday Family Fun Time . With my family that’s grown and the kids . Church at 3:30pm for 4:00pm mass . Sunday renew my spirit day . Talk to God , Meditate. And rest and relax . Something else is hard for me drinking h20 ... working on that . Zones . And I lay out my clothes for the week on Sunday afternoon and fix my pill box . That’s all because I was a mess and found You . Love you Fly Lady 💜👸🏻🧚🏼♂️
@gina_dee.1111
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting Marla. You have given me a place to start. This is life changing for me and so simple. ❤❤❤
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@kimmimcknight3417
3 жыл бұрын
I love your books, i was a flybaby before (and somehow i wound up deleting your emails--don't know why or even when!!) and i have a few of your products (control journal, rubba scrubba, both feather dusters, and couple of other things). My issue is because of fibromyalgia, i'm very limited in what i can do at any given time; my body gives out on me with little to no warning. I may have to take your stuff & modify it somewhat for my situation. (I don't bathe at night, i shower in the morning WHEN my body's not screaming in pain.) But i'm going to be optimistic about what i CAN do! Thank you, FlyLady, for always being there for us!
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@jagibaba
11 жыл бұрын
I love your advice, thank you so much. Where I live we never wear shoes in the house, even when we come to visit or in school, we even dress differently at home than when we go to work... but yes, I get the point. Getting dressed and taking care of your hair and make up makes all the difference in the world.
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@PeenkCupkake
12 жыл бұрын
I love watching your videos. They motivate me to get up and start cleaning up. My home is a mess and what I did as soon as this video was over, I went to my linen closet, emptied EVERYTHING out and re organized it. Thank you so very much for taking precious time from your life an showing us how to keep organized or like me, thankyou for motivating me.
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@Melody-en6xn
2 жыл бұрын
I like this beautiful polished look on you. That haircut and style is the most flattering to your face! I hope you do this again.
@ninak8506
4 жыл бұрын
God clearly knew I needed this message today.
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@rlb3726
4 жыл бұрын
Dress, hair and make-up looks really fly.
@lindyholland3273
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Marla!!! These are fantastic tips x
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@debraspurlock4219
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, just what I needed .Blessings for all your shared hope.
@houseofzubias9443
4 жыл бұрын
Good luck to you Debra. ❤
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@kkapalko
10 жыл бұрын
Thanks Fly Lady got thru my first weekly blessing, except for where the kids were, school off....will pick it up tomorrow.
@helenruth5024
3 жыл бұрын
It is so nice to have found you! I have implemented this tips and anxiously await to hear more! Great job !
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@Dr.JulieJames
4 жыл бұрын
I do not wear shoes in the house and believe in walking on the ground to ground myself & connect with Father God but i do start my day with my clothes on and spend about 1hr each morning doing studies for school, then walk my dog and I divide 2hrs of housework or gardening each day, then shower and get dressed in my office clothes, and go to my home office ( work for hubby) and put in at least 7hrs. I have had to learn discipline but still find myself needing help getting it all done each day. I can get disorganized very easy and need inspiration so i check out YT ladies and glean new ideas. Thank you flylady i look forward to your inspiring way of mastering ones home.
@drpaddi
4 жыл бұрын
Hi There, If you are having trouble getting sidetracked may I suggest that you get some inside shoes just for the wearing in the house. You would wear them when you wanted to stay focused and get things done quickly. Give it a try and let us know how it works for you. The rest of the time you can connect with Father God---- What a lovely idea. (FlyCrew member, Paddi)
@victoriat.8564
Жыл бұрын
I am going through this now. Thank you!
@sisterg7061
3 жыл бұрын
Love you Marla!! This is all still so true and needed today!!!
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@shannontipton3511
4 жыл бұрын
So glad I found your channel!
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️ all over the world 🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@papermason
11 жыл бұрын
It's amazing how even the smallest changes in habits can create big changes in life!
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@maryviti6799
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Ms Cilley, Stumbling across you on “Utube” has made my day! You have pretty hair. Feel like I’ve reconnected w/an old friend😀. Oh gosh NOT the dreaded “tie shoes”😜. Trying to get “back on track”. Forced myself to go back to PT which MAKES me exercise every day and low & behold FEEL BETTER😉! Thank you for ALL the HELP you give me. It’s supportive to know your not alone in this walk thru life. Sincerely, Mary🍀
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@KH-nf2kc
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks God You exist! and that I have found You!
@richvanatte3947
2 жыл бұрын
This is the first Flylady video I’ve seen. I already maintain a clean home and always looking for something new to shake things up as my routines were getting boring. Great ideas I’ve seen on your website. I’ll be checking in from time to time. Now it’s time for me to hunt for spots on the floor and wipe them out ->
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@halisonarias75
12 жыл бұрын
Gracias tus palabras me dieron ese impulso y energía que precisaba para ponerme de pie cada mañana y atar mis zapatos. un abrazo y mil gracias desde Uruguay
@Smead
12 жыл бұрын
Great tips Fly Lady - thank you for posting!
@gracefrazer4110
7 жыл бұрын
I've just come upon your system. It sounds very intriguing. I can relate to your mental status you speak of in this video. It is where I am at. Today is Sunday, I'm watching your videos and getting inspired. Half of my kitchen sink is shined so far
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@giamalak1543
8 жыл бұрын
hi, flylady....ur ideas was what I needed all along...I can't tell you how much difference the shiny sink hs brought upon...I ws always lazy, tired n unorganized, in my pyjamas looking like a zombie with 3 little kids n a hubby who is very neat... iam doing ur babysteps n hopefully will make it a habit...can't thank you enough..
@jrdaz44
4 жыл бұрын
Just found you!! And found this video in 2019!! This is so true!! Get up, wash the sleep out of your eyes, get dressed with shoes on and take on a day!! Have you read the book "the one thing"? Great self help book about focusing on 1 thing at a time until it's done.
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🙏🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@irenegutmann2661
11 жыл бұрын
I've been flying on and off for years - my house is sooooo much better. But now I'm really focusing on it for lent and it's so much fun to see it all come together. I too love the "You are not behind. Just jump in where you are!" God Bless all of you!
@jennyrhodes476
4 жыл бұрын
Very motivating
@rosalynnecole23
Жыл бұрын
Ive never seen this video. Thank you Marla!
@a.aviles5026
8 жыл бұрын
You made so much sense, it made me take a look at myself in the mirror, and realize I need to make changes within myself. Thank you for the positive attitude and energy your putting out there.
@emmarose4234
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been a FlyLady fan for years. My mom introduced me to her, probably accidentally. I love your accent, ma’am!
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@63zLauren
12 жыл бұрын
i can't wait till tomorrow. Day 1
@smarttube654
11 жыл бұрын
Interesting to hear you talk about being frumpy, Marla. What attracted me to get sidetracked by this video was how great you are looking. That colour really suits you too.
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️ all over the world 🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@angy47777
11 жыл бұрын
We have a no shoe policy because my husband works as a diesel mechanic. My twist on this (until we get house shoes) is I make sure my socks are on. I had a real bad habit about not being ready to go anywhere because I had no socks on to put my shoes on! It works for us and I feel more productive knowing I won't have to rush to put on socks! :)
@calisongbird
5 жыл бұрын
You can have a separate pair of shoes that are designated only for in the house.
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@serenesongs
4 жыл бұрын
I have always heard about you , didn’t know it’s a program or person...... it’s both! You are absolutely adorable and sincere . I subbed and want to watch lots of your videos .
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@kathleenj1158
2 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this. Thank you! ☺
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️ all over the world 🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@THEKITCHENCEO11
7 жыл бұрын
I like Flylady's honest words. I give honour for her experience and truthful words.
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️ all over the world 🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@karimabenbakhti9656
3 жыл бұрын
Very Interesting .... I love this !!! 😍🥰
@aproverbshome173
2 жыл бұрын
Thank You for this amazing video.
@mountainviewvintage386
4 жыл бұрын
Omigosh this popped up on my feed. Look at you!☺️
@deborahbailey292
4 жыл бұрын
Love you . MARLA!! MY MOM Loved you . You hel8her alot. 😇
@lyricflower6265
6 жыл бұрын
Great video! You are so encouraging!
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@southernoregoncatmom6519
4 жыл бұрын
I loved this!
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️ all over the world 🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@linjubar
5 жыл бұрын
Flylady, you look younger than you looked 10-years ago. You look fabulous!
@freshstartgreencleaning
8 жыл бұрын
Need this reminder sometimes!
@chrisadams1379
4 жыл бұрын
This is my first video, of yours....guess what...you are going to change my life
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️ all over the world 🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654
3 жыл бұрын
I started shining my. Sink two weeks ago. It’s infectious. I want to do more!!!
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@shadforthw3535
8 жыл бұрын
I live in Japan- the shoes indoors will be a problem. Maybe if I buy some strictly for indoors....
@sophiefoss6153
7 жыл бұрын
I had the same problem when I lived there - I think wearing room slippers is still pretty helpful and makes me feel more 'mobile'.
@lifetomeorg
3 жыл бұрын
I bought a pair of shoes just for inside the house- I never use them out.
@Nyx773
5 жыл бұрын
SUMMARY [with my opinions]: 0:58 Get TREATED for mental issues by medical professionals [medication alone is not enough, COUNSELING is the most proven method - support groups are also helpful. The more mentally healthy a person is, the easier it is to deal with difficult/unpleasant tasks] 1:50 GROOM and wear CLOTHING that boosts your mood [If > A cup, be sure to wear a supportive BRA as it will help protect your back from strain/fatigue] 2:30 Wear SHOES [that are designated for indoor use only] to help feel energized [with proper arch support and cushioning to lessen/slow muscle fatigue and joint pain], plus it signals to your brain that it is "time to do something". 3:35 To reduce the number of decisions that are needed in the morning: Choose your clothing the day before Post a reminder note to get dressed 3:54 Get out of bed 15 minutes before others in your house [including pets] to give yourself an head start 4:13 Get fully dressed before coffee [and anything else including lounging, internet, texts, morning news, phone ...]
@heidiroberson4925
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@marytredinnick3366
3 жыл бұрын
This was helpful! I needed to see this today. Thanks
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@carlosweaver1793
2 жыл бұрын
👋 i hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity love and peace 💞❤️🕊️🕊️ all over the world 🌍 I'm originally from Canada currently living in Key West Florida☀️☀️☀️and you where are you from if i may ask?💭💭
@mbaker1960
3 ай бұрын
I agree on everything except wearing shoes in the house, unless they are only worn inside…I do have a pair that I wear only in the house. Thanks for the motivation, though!
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