I"ve been needing to watch this all week. I've been in a real bad place after the first date ghosted me. In just a few minutes you helped me realize the things that i need to be focusing on. Thank you, Blaine and Merry Christmas. You're an absolute treasure.
@GuiZeitounlian
Жыл бұрын
#4 is pure gold. I used to believe all justifications and promises and words. Now I mainly look at behavior and, although I still am a bit too keen on believing, this has saved me a lot of time. Keep the videos coming, Blaine ❤
@DatingByBlaine
Жыл бұрын
Awww. thank you!!
@tinynudges
Жыл бұрын
I think the main difficulty is keep approaching and iterating it since rate of rejection is at least 50% and rejection hurts. With that said thank you for helping us coping with this
@aleestuuh
Жыл бұрын
Get comfortable with rejection. You can't improve upon what you are too afraid to practice
@DatingByBlaine
Жыл бұрын
I agree with Alister :)
@tinynudges
Жыл бұрын
@@aleestuuh I've never said I'm too afraid to approach and of course, you can't be good at basketball if you don't play it. I just expressed what I think makes approaching not so easy to master. I think everyone can become good at it and thanks to Blaine the path to follow is very clear to me.
@OrionJJA
Жыл бұрын
Working on oneself as a man is pretty good idea until you are over 40, if a man wants to have a family, it's best for multiple reasons that the woman is max 35 yrs old. So the age gap widens every year(from 35)and time will crush you if you take "time out". I feel like after my 10 year relationship ended and 1 year or recovering from it, i have no chance for a family or future. Basic things are ok, i'm good looking guy with a great smile, i go to a gym, have a good job and i have no fear of approaching anyone. Things that worked in dating over a decade ago don't really anymore i.e. not playing games, being honest. Also clubs and bars are pretty much the only places to meet women, try to approach any women in a grocery store and it's like she's a deer in headlights :D I don't even know why i wrote this, maybe just to vent and trying to accept that there is no time anymore and thus, no hope. Your video is still good regardless.
@Horror_Film_Aficionado
10 ай бұрын
PICK YOURSELF UP keep trying no quitting
@matfly4832
Жыл бұрын
Yep, the 2 times rule! It may seem harsh, but it saves so much time, as well as self-respect! Messes up twice --> who’s the next lucky girl then!
@KyleConnell-if3zn
Жыл бұрын
Wow those were some great ideas to think about! I agreed with most but not necessarily with Blaine's characterization that if you are not having success dating, it it because of a lack in mental health, happiness, or career. I know plenty of people who make six figures, have a balanced and healthy life style, and see a therapist yet still struggle with dating. Like anything in life the reasons vary by person and are multifaceted. I know some that live in a more rural area so the dating pool is smaller. I know some that have a kid so that shrinks their dating pool. I know some that are in military or travel a lot for work. I know some that a deeply religious which shrinks their dating pool. There are so many more factors that go into successful dating than just those three. I agree they are extremely important, but not a cheat code. You could be the richest, most level headed and outgoing person and still struggle with dating.
@Aditya_shenoy
Жыл бұрын
#3 worked 10 out of 10 times for me! Thanks Blaine
@DatingByBlaine
Жыл бұрын
Glad you know what works for you!! Happy to help :)
@plamencho111
2 ай бұрын
Thank you, Blaine! You such a beautiful and wise girl❤
@jmuscara68
Жыл бұрын
Great video and advice. Thank you.
@DatingByBlaine
Жыл бұрын
Always happy to help!
@Grumpyoldgeezer
5 ай бұрын
Cheat codes? Just be rich and handsome
@Saleh27-o1q
3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@_Trakman
Жыл бұрын
so if you strike up a chat with a women and it bombs out - do you shout "well, it's YOUR LOSS!"
@_Trakman
Жыл бұрын
if your confidence was "OFF" - how do you "learn from that"
@angeldiaz762
Жыл бұрын
Obviously if some random girl in public is rude to me and makes me walk away, I think about it for like ten seconds, and go to someone else. I'm no longer thinking about her the next day; why should I? I feel like some of the points you make in your videos need to be developed further to include situations where you've already met the women, or you have to be around them, not just "random" ones we choose I had a girl not so long ago call me "ugly ass" when I approached her and I just laughed in her face because of how ratchet she sounded and loud she was being. I called her an "insecure little shit" and she got off the train just to get away from me. Point number 3, put yourself first, this is good advice. However, I'm wary of falling into the trap then that "If you're not getting results, it's because you're not interestING enough" is... the default reason? I don't believe that about myself. I already tried the "adding things to your life just to add them" strategy, and it doesn't work, because they're not things I'm actually interested in and it ends up feeling like pretending. I hear all the time that guys have otherwise great social lives, but with women and dating is the one area where they are in just constant drought/games/texting buddy/no dates. And it annoys the shit out of us to hear "Oh well if you just meet more people/do more" when that's literally what we've been doing for years.
@exploration-pioneer
23 күн бұрын
Quote..Teach a person how to make a fire, and they might remember. Show them how to do it, and they will stay warm for a night. However, if you teach them the principles of making a fire, they will be warm for life.❤️💯
@joesielskisr4911
Ай бұрын
I like a younger lady a few buildings away from me but I am nervous,I shake when she talks to me
@anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470
9 ай бұрын
I'm not going to smile without a reason
@karamojo5618
10 ай бұрын
As an Italian guy who I man, and who really can appreciate the beauty, the senso of feminine in a woman, I think you Blaine are one of the most fascinating girl I ever seen. your content is interesting and very well done. Maybe have the chance to woo you Blaine...❤️😁
@anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470
9 ай бұрын
Between 20 and 35 laughs at 37 years old
@hull5768
3 ай бұрын
I see she keeps her ex-boyfriend on the wall
@exploration-pioneer
23 күн бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@evanlarson5853
6 ай бұрын
Its not even worth the risk.
@spontaneousbootay
4 ай бұрын
You're worth it
@JosephVespa-tk3wq
Жыл бұрын
Wow don't get drunk in that room
@mailtofranky
Жыл бұрын
youre the smartest :) thanks for helping out men all over the world! :*
@DatingByBlaine
Жыл бұрын
awww. it's my pleasure :)
@NumenMelodies
10 ай бұрын
I am from india
@TonyMcIntyre-cn5to
Ай бұрын
So pretty and yet soo smart. I feel disconbobulated. You partñer isaaa fortunate man❤❤❤❤Tony
@mohannedselim7878
Жыл бұрын
#3 is one of the best advice out there 🙌
@JosephVespa-tk3wq
Жыл бұрын
LoL
@chrismcalister4428
4 ай бұрын
Mob style= Money over bitches😂
@toscabrutus1781
29 күн бұрын
Goeie Video!
@JoeJoe-rt1fk
Жыл бұрын
The older I get the more I'm learning that less is more and this includes keeping my circle ⭕ small 🦐. Someone once said "Joe I only have three people who if I was stranded that would come get me!". Stay consistent!
@spontaneousbootay
4 ай бұрын
Insecurity is a huge thing, but the trick and fact is that you are good enough right now. People get caught up in bettering themselves which is great, but it doesnt change your inherent worth. The issue is casting judgement, the ego's way of separating you from the moment to maintain an illusion of safety.
@makeyourmark00
Жыл бұрын
#3 Chase your purpose and women will then chase you naturally.
@TheRiddl37
Жыл бұрын
Wait, if Emilie in Paris dies you can replace her. that's cool
@LIESFORYOU
Жыл бұрын
hey do you edit your own videos ?
@مهدیغفاری-غ9ح
5 ай бұрын
We living in iran and we don't have bar or brothel here
@dennisjames6753
Жыл бұрын
These are great tips. I'm pretty good at the eye contact and smile.....lots of practice. I like the second tip: don't let it get to you if she's not interested. I tend to believe if she's already married or has someone then it's not really rejection, it's inconvenient timing. These videos are getting me excited for someone new to come into my life.
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