"To walk into rooms, and to not judge yourself any moment" I NEEDED THAT.
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
whew, you and me both! total game changer 🤍
@christinamarief
Ай бұрын
-meet inner child -see yourself without judgement -see if you’re holding on to any stories that are not your own -listen to your body and body’s intuition -no second guessing -ask yourself questions
@aamariwoods4009
20 күн бұрын
Yesss
@lyannguyen10
2 ай бұрын
this video is exactly what i needed. for anyone reading this who is on some sort of healing journey, you're not alone! you are the most kind and beautiful human being on this world
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
🤍 You are an embodiment of love! Healing in togetherness
@danimoonie
28 күн бұрын
❤ Thank u
@odettreverol
2 ай бұрын
I sometimes question why I crave deep connection and why sexual tension is my go to rather than truly understanding a person and connecting with them for friendship. Then I realized I didn’t allow myself true friendship because I had nothing else to offer because I didn’t believe enough in myself to be interesting. Do I even find myself interesting is the true question and why seek validation from the people around me when I can feel that for me.
@Isustainallthispain
2 ай бұрын
omg i feel this so heavily
@pollyj2902
Ай бұрын
i feel this so much
@Elena-iy4wg
Ай бұрын
are we like- the same person? :’) felt this deeply
@Therealbihcookiie
27 күн бұрын
Same here and I remember one time being like … why do I want sexe why do I’m okay to have sex with random people …. What’s unheald part of me is triggered …. But after this make me remember SA as kids by family … and know I’m like ohhhh myyyy …. So everything was just because of one things that I never speak about anybody ( cause I will be a liar…. I was the pretty liar as a kids ) and now I’m lost because of my inner child going ’ crazy in my head… she scared of everything and I need to reassure her/// but me tooo I’m scared yall how to do
@maritzarivera2554
2 ай бұрын
“I am. Right now. That is enough.” LOVE THIS
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@maritzarivera2554 You are so perfect as you are 🤍 Thank you 🤍
@arsema11.11
2 ай бұрын
"I feel the most love by my self"🗣️🗣️
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
🤍🤍🤍 no one can love you better
@bernadettemclean5238
2 ай бұрын
I’m 21 and still at home and I feel like I can’t be myself my whole life I’ve been told and grown up to live a certain way which is really what I like and I feel it’s stopping me from being my own person
@nontelovogliodire
Ай бұрын
this is exactly me! I am actually in therapy even tho i am still home, it’s a slow process, but we can do it
@miro4106
2 ай бұрын
I CAN BE MAGNIFICENT AND A WORK IN PROGRESS AT THE SAME TIME!
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
Yes, exactly!!! ✨✨✨
@Blkbutterfly7
2 ай бұрын
"When i meet my quirks with love, rather than judgment " 💖🪄 yes !!! 🙌🏾 That was my turning point. When the "your so different" comments made me see all those quirks were things i didn't see anything wrong with, and never wanted to change, I felt like I'd won at being me. Blessings to all the beautiful souls embracing being fully themselves ❤.
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
Yes!!! You are so inspiring 🤍 thank you for embracing all of the beautiful parts that make you, you.
@nancymiranda8392
Ай бұрын
this gives “oh i love being a woman!” vibes and i love it
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
Yes yes yes ✨ basking in this energy every day of my existence
@711PARNAERUE
2 ай бұрын
2021 I was so in tune with my authentic self, but I allowed things back in that got in the way of that. I’m learning that authenticity is a lifelong commitment!
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
This is so true, it’s a constant practice because so easily external forces can creep in and impact how we show up. I’m sending you love on your journey as you continue to make the return 🫂🤍
@711PARNAERUE
2 ай бұрын
@@sakaessentials 💙💙💙
@bernadettemclean5238
2 ай бұрын
I’m going through a stage atm where I’m finding myself again as I lost myself for a while and I’m loving it but in some parts of my life I’ve realised I’ve grown and changed so learning to accept that I’ve changed too
@clemywolf
2 ай бұрын
you talking from your soul is such a gift! i'm definitely on the journey of falling in love with me and who i'm becoming, your words are so helpful
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
Thank you from the bottom of my heart, I am sending you so much loving energy as you continue to run towards yourself! 🤍
@sammie0936
2 ай бұрын
this felt like a warm hug in the rainy weather. you gave me so much insight and i think this was the sign from the universe because not only am i doing an assignment on identity but i am also trying to focus on my inner child. trying to love myself and be forgiving. trying out things i have always wanted to do. thank you so much saka, love you 💓
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@sammie0936 🥹 I am so grateful this filled your cup, all I could hope for. I know little you is thanking current you for your intentionality and embarking on this journey back - of course and always, love you 🩷
@wendyferrergonzalez3103
Ай бұрын
I'm just starting that journey, it's gonna be hard and it's gonna be lonely, but it's also gonna be worth it. Thanks for making this video and sharing your experience. Sending you love from Cuba ❤
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
@@wendyferrergonzalez3103 Yes it will be so worth it, I’m sending you so much love right back and support along your journey. You got this ❤️
@sophieb12325
2 ай бұрын
You are a light. I'm grateful you exist and give your gorgeously authentic energy to others this way x
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
🥹 I just want to hug you, thank you so much. I’m so grateful you exist as well and that our paths have crossed, thank you for receiving me 🤍
@yayaari97
2 ай бұрын
I resonate with your story so much! It has taken quite some time for me to finally return to who i truly am, pre-societal, communal and familial conditioning and influence. It has been so challenging but so incredibly fulfilling and it has literally shifted my reality. Can’t wait to continue watching you flow through the rest of your journey 🤍
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
This is so beautiful to hear! It is quite a mountain to climb but oh so liberating, I'm proud of you for making the return. Thank you for your presence 🤍
@lucyharrison7358
Ай бұрын
Girl! You got me sobbing 😭 this was beautiful ✨💛🫶🏻
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
@@lucyharrison7358 🥹 Thank you so much! I’m sending you a big hug
@suzanne8024
2 ай бұрын
You speak my language when no one around me does ❤ these reminders are so important, I could listen to you like a podcast. Can't wait for your future videos ✨
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
I’m so grateful we have crossed paths 🦋 thank you so much, this means the world to me 🤍
@lees971
2 ай бұрын
I can’t tell you how much I resonated with your words and story. It’s like everything you said had happened to me over the past six months and I realise it’s all a part of the journey. When at the time I felt so lost, random and messy like you said. Shifting from a place of self hate to self love. Your words really helped me understand what I’m going through, and myself and my true inner worth. And gave me great tips for what’s to come 😊 thank you so much. You are incredible!
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@lees971 Wow, I’m sending you a big hug. It is so comforting to know that we are not alone, that our experience is shared. I am so happy to hear that this impacted you the way it did, thank you so much for your kindness and sharing your experience with me! 🤍
@Deepakshi222
2 ай бұрын
Whenever i wonder about something, or need an clarification the right videos always shows up. Thank you universe and Thanks to your video!.
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
Of course! 🫂 Universe is truly always working for our highest good 🤍
@grinchysej7835
19 күн бұрын
I’ve been living in the same town for my entire life and I’m moving soon to a completely different area. I’m so excited bc I feel like I’ve changed and matured sm but not been able to rly show it and this relocation will let me rly bloom! This video is exactly what I needed, you’re so wonderful Saka! Thank you :)
@sakaessentials
18 күн бұрын
@@grinchysej7835 Oh my goodness, I am SO excited for you! Liberation is right around the corner 🤍 bloom like the flower you are. Thank you so much for your kindness, it means the world to me. Sending love :)
@inesvitoriapenteado4199
Ай бұрын
Wish you had a podcast! so lovely to listen to you while sewing.
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
@@inesvitoriapenteado4199 Ah, I love this! I’m going to start a podcast in the near future 🤍
@kirstymimi459
2 ай бұрын
Literally relate to so much! Especially about having to dim my light around others. I am also on a journey to my authentic self and I’m so happy I’m evolving with other spiritual souls around the world x
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
It brings me so much comfort knowing that this is a shared experience and we have such a loving community to evolve with 🤍 I hope you continue to share your light with the world!
@c3mone04
Ай бұрын
I could cry, this is exaclty what I've been searching for. Sending you so much love-- thank you !!
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
@@c3mone04 🥹 I’m so grateful this found you, I’m sending you love back tenfold!
@danielahernandez7432
2 ай бұрын
this video was sent to me! i went to get a pedi today and i was deciding what book to take and something told me this one book but i decide to grab a different one that i was reading earlier that day. the book the universe was leading me to read is the one you’re holding in your thumbnail! ❤️
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
Wow this is amazing, how magical! Definitely a divine read, every page has been so transformational 🤍
@LilacMoon1919
2 ай бұрын
What’s the book called?
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@LilacMoon1919 Women Who Run With the Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estés - 1000/10 recommend 🤍
@MashuduMugwedi
Ай бұрын
I loved your video so much, just exactly what I needed❤. Finding the real me and doing what I love and not worry about how others will think of me
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
@@MashuduMugwedi Thank you so much, I feel so full knowing this filled your cup 🤍 sending you much love on your journey beautiful!
@BennettYancey
28 күн бұрын
My experience validates something you mentioned. As much as I miss home and everything associated with it, leaving home (in 2019) has been HUGE for me discovering who I am authentically. I lament leaving so late, but I’m convinced that it was the best move for me. Thanks for this video!
@sakaessentials
27 күн бұрын
@@BennettYancey I am so happy for you, leaving home isn’t always easy but the liberation of finding yourself is well worth it ❤️ thank you for sitting with me!
@Tanarashanell
23 күн бұрын
I needed to hear this, Thankyou for making me feel safe and less alone in this confusing time 🫶🏼
@sakaessentials
23 күн бұрын
@@Tanarashanell 🫂 Hugging you in spirit, I got your back angel
@sonyav2307
16 күн бұрын
Oh my God. I saw my favourite book in the thumbnail and I clicked on it. Beautiful video!!!
@sakaessentials
16 күн бұрын
@@sonyav2307 Ahhh you have immaculate taste in literature - thank you!!! 🫂🤍
@samscreapaper526
2 ай бұрын
Thank you❤ I think stop juding others is a big step. When im arround others who judge, it makes me insecure. I love thinking: thats intresting, good for them! And then you feel more safe to be yourself ( for me ) ❤
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@samscreapaper526 Yes! I love this, this is such a huge step. When we are in constant judgement of others, simultaneously we are in judgment of ourselves. I like to think that way too or in other cases, acknowledging that that’s just where they are on their journey. Thank you for being a light 🤍
@samscreapaper526
2 ай бұрын
@@sakaessentials thank u for your amazing video
@ta.selmamoureuse
16 күн бұрын
I cannot express how much I loved this video
@sakaessentials
16 күн бұрын
@@ta.selmamoureuse this made my entire day, thank you so much angel 🤍
@ChocoBunny
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for posting this. I'm trying to find my authentic self.
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
Of course, I’m rooting you on as you navigate the journey 🤍
@maiaautumne2167
2 ай бұрын
Love this, I’m going through this right now, i realise I don’t really know me, now I’m single, kids have left home etc I’m left with me and questioning what I like and who I am. I have worn so many hats since my late teens mother, employee, sister, partner but never truly me. I’ve left my career recently and gone back to uni to go for the career i wanted, I’m also planning on taking a solo trip somewhere where I can be me but I’m actually anxious to do it. Thanks for this ❤
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this with me. Wow, it sounds like such a powerful transition period to rediscover yourself after years of fulfilling so many roles. I think it's natural to feel anxious, but it's also an exciting opportunity to explore who you truly are and what you genuinely enjoy! These are such courageous steps towards your authenticity. I hope you are gentle with yourself as you navigate this path. Sending you so much love and light
@maiaautumne2167
6 күн бұрын
@@sakaessentials❤
@mehtaptufan6184
Ай бұрын
I love your videos so much. Thank you so much for this, it was much needed. Your words resonate with me to the core. I am grateful.
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
@@mehtaptufan6184 Hearing this truly pushes me forward 🥹 Thank you, I am incredibly grateful for your presence here, sending you so much love 🤍
@earthlinglarissa
2 ай бұрын
So many things you said resonated deeply. Such wise words, I would read an entire book by you! Looking forward to seeing you grow on KZitem, thank you for this message
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
This is so incredibly kind and made my heart explode! Thank you so much, I am so grateful for your presence here 🤍
@eggtarte8974
18 күн бұрын
you are officially my comfort youtuber 😭
@sakaessentials
17 күн бұрын
@@eggtarte8974 I’m squealing 🥹 love hanging out with you
@TheJadaDiaries
2 ай бұрын
Thank you sooooo much!!! I needed to hear this!!! 🥺🤍
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@TheJadaDiaries Of course!!! I am so glad it found you, sending you so much loving energy 🤍
@soniadelatorre5700
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your loving words, vulnerability and all that you are! This video is a gift for us all. 🫶🏻🎁✨
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@soniadelatorre5700 Thank you for this message, it made my heart explode! 🥹 sending you a big love hug
@SamirahElhadi
13 күн бұрын
I very much loved this video and opened my heart to
@sakaessentials
13 күн бұрын
@@SamirahElhadi I am so happy to hear this, thank you 🥹
@GratitudewithGracie
2 ай бұрын
I’m automatically just so excited to hear you speak. I love your poetic Intro and I just wanted to say great job! Excited to watch more ❤
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
Wow thank you, this is so sweet and made me smile 🤍 i’m so happy you’re here!
@trystann599
Ай бұрын
Such a beautiful truth! Loved this video, it found me exactly when I needed it 🥺 it’s okay to evolve and change is what I needed to hear
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
@@trystann599 🥹 Thank you, I’m so happy this found you! I’m sending you love on your journey 🤍
@judyeffendi2421
21 күн бұрын
I love this ! Youre so well spoken
@sakaessentials
20 күн бұрын
@@judyeffendi2421 Thank you Judy! 🫂 You are so so kind 🤍
@marisolcarlos1367
Ай бұрын
this literally changed my life within a few seconds, thank youu
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
@@marisolcarlos1367 My heart is overflowing hearing this, that’s what I’m here for. Thank you for leaning in
@sl7shed
2 ай бұрын
We’re the same age and I’m feeling the same way. It truly feels so good to not be alone
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
It really does 🤍 It’s such a relief that we can hold space to talk about it and support each other instead of navigating it alone
@eirawinter2107
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video, it spoke to my heart and made me happy and relieved, I really feel closer to finding my spark again. Actually expressing gratitude and accepting help was very hard for me in the past, but since you mentioned the inner child, it feels ironic that gratitude and acceptance was something I was great at as a little girl. I was extremely curious and admired anyone that crossed my path, so I just wanted to tell you that it's really admirable of you to be able to find your true self and in turn help others. It feels like a gift, you are really cool.
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
@@eirawinter2107 Wow, thank you so much for this message and your kindness. This made me so emotional, I too have had those “aha” moments when you realize all that little you embodied, that somehow got lost in the journey of life. You are on your way and I couldn’t be happier for you. Sending you all of my love and empowering energy as you ignite your spark again 🫂
@KieranTDavis
17 күн бұрын
Love this! Ur Energy!!!
@newegirl
2 ай бұрын
this is beautiful, you're beautiful! Thank you!
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@newegirl Thank you so much! 🤍🫂
@lvdl6052
2 ай бұрын
I am also on a journey to rediscover myself and you are truly a great source of inspiration with such a beautiful aura around you and so much love to give to yourself and others. i'm so grateful that I have the opportunity to meet you and learn more about myself, thankyou for your love and light
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
This made my heart burst. You are incredibly kind and loving, thank you so much 🤍 I am equally so grateful we have crossed paths and that we can continue this journey together
@lvdl6052
2 ай бұрын
thankyou so much 🥹 ✨✨🩷 Keep on going with this beautiful channel. one love 🫶🏻
@yuyu0091
Ай бұрын
Thank youuuu🤍
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
@@yuyu0091 🤍🫂 you got this
@aliciaslices
2 ай бұрын
Turning 21 soon and as an older sister THANK YOU for sharing your experience 💞🙏🏽
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
🥹 So happy to share! Sending you early birthday love 🤍
@kolbyy3539
2 ай бұрын
definitely appreciate this i've definitely been going through the same thing as well just really getting to learn myself and know that things are going to happen and i'm going to make mistakes but its how i look at it and like how i become a better person and giving myself that space to learn and explore with compassion. loved this video!
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@kolbyy3539 Yes exactly, I love this - it sort of feels like a first dance with yourself but over time, you get better and better at just being you. I’m sending you so much good energy on your journey and I’m so grateful you resonated with this, thank you! 🫶🏾
@TemiloluwaAjayi-xq2ku
Ай бұрын
I swear its not easy ...people will really hate you and it can really become toxic
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
Yes for sure! While you’re learning so much about yourself, you’re gathering even more information about those around you. It makes way for people who will fully love you for all that you are 🤍
@eiselelua
Ай бұрын
thank you for sharing yourself with us ❁🤍
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
@@eiselelua Thank you for your presence and holding space for me to share ♥︎
@chychy27
Ай бұрын
i hope one day i can see my true self in all spaces
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
@@chychy27 You will 😊 i’m sending you so much support and love as you navigate the journey
@chychy27
Ай бұрын
@@sakaessentials aw thank you i appreciate that very much 🫶🏾
@Carole-s7b
Ай бұрын
I’m 67. Do I like apples or does my mom like apples was so simple but sooooo eye opening. A question we all should ask ourselves. Bravo 🎉
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
@@Carole-s7b It’s truly the simplest questions that can lead us to profound realizations! Thank you so much Carole, sending you my love! 🤍🤍
@Richgirlshana305
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this . I was just saying this about myself I don’t know who am I and I want find my own authenticity.
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@Richgirlshana305 You will find it! I’m sending you love while on your journey
@niamhaliceverity22
Ай бұрын
Just subscribed from this video alone! Adore EVERYTHING in this
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
@@niamhaliceverity22 Eeeek 🤍 thank you angel, so grateful you’re here!
@niajahdine
2 ай бұрын
thank you for sharing your heart, I really needed to hear it all. 💗
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
thank you for receiving me 🤍 i’m so happy to hear this was helpful
@nhlalirose
2 ай бұрын
I loved this, this is so phenomenal!!! Can you please do a detailed Q&A get to know me video, so that we can connect more with you!!! ❤❤❤ You gained a new subbie here!!!💞💞
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! 🤍 Yes of course, would absolutely love to. I’ll plan a video for it 🫂
@clairesnoeij1157
Ай бұрын
Thank you for this video ❤ this is so helpful in a time were I feel a bit lost
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
@@clairesnoeij1157 Of course, I’m sending you loving and supportive energy as you return home to yourself 🤍 you got this
@user-km7tp9si1f
2 ай бұрын
The book in your cover photo - Be Here Now - literally one of the DOPEST finds!
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
Right?? Hands down one of my favorites ✨
@DAClub-uf3br
Ай бұрын
Sounds easy when you say it.
@fatimazahra76039
2 ай бұрын
love love this! I resonated with your story so much so happy you're fully embracing yourself xo
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
I’m so glad it resonated with you! we’re truly in this together, thank you 🤍
@klovessunsets
2 ай бұрын
I love this!! Thankyou for sharing❤
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
I’m so glad! Thank you for hanging out with me 🫶🏾
@capricornreform
Ай бұрын
This was such a good video.
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
@@capricornreform Thank you so much ❤️
@FemmeFatalePod
2 ай бұрын
This is the first video i found of yours but I love your insight! You have such a talent to putting these experiences into words!
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
Wow thank you so much! I’m so grateful this video found you and that it resonated! 🤍
@bernadettemclean5238
2 ай бұрын
Loved this video I fully believe everything your saying is correct I’ve spent a lot of time alone and so had a lot of time with myself I used to hate that but now I don’t and I also have made some more friends ands it’s been great and things are falling in place in my life but it was only when I started to accept myself all parts and accept the season I was in and now my life is so much better but to get there you have to be willing to find you and change your attitude towards life
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@bernadettemclean5238 This is so incredible to hear, I feel like embracing all of you opens up an entire new world and it’s so beautiful to hear how this is happening in real time for you. I’m rooting you on and sending you so much loving energy 🤍
@caitlowen
2 ай бұрын
LOVE THIS.
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@caitlowen Thank you!!! 🤍 I’m so happy you do 🥹
@umedemarej
16 күн бұрын
Keep going!
@sakaessentials
16 күн бұрын
@@umedemarej 🥹 Thank you for this, I’m sending you so much love
@umedemarej
16 күн бұрын
@@sakaessentials our teacher is most silent during our tests in life; you got this. I see it.
@sakaessentials
16 күн бұрын
@@umedemarej keeping this message close to me, you are an angel
@user-yx2sb2kp6g
Ай бұрын
"Unbottifying the self"
@thekhadejah.j
Ай бұрын
Omg Sakari !!! We went to elementary school together it’s nice to see you’re doing well. Loved this video definitely subscribed.
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
@@thekhadejah.j Ahhhh hi!! 🫶🏾 this made my day, so nice to connect with you again. I hope you’re doing well and thank you so much for joining 🩷
@Jiminsboost
2 ай бұрын
This came at the right time wow thank you 😮❤ and new subscriber I really did enjoy this content.
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
I’m so happy to hear this, thank you for landing here with me 🤍🤍
@breoshawilliams6656
2 ай бұрын
So beautifully said ❤️, currently in this same space and soo appreciate running across this video. Wishing you the best on this journey!
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
I’m sending you such a big hug and so much love as you navigate this space 🤍 thank you so much! 🫂
@briaa3204
2 ай бұрын
I love this video and your vibe happy you came onto this platform ✨🫶🏽🌸
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
I appreciate you so much, thank you 🥹🤍
@lubnamohamed6113
2 ай бұрын
I love your content. Thank you!
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
so happy to hear this 🤍 thank you for your presence 🫂
@Trynafindmyniche
2 ай бұрын
Wow i loved this video so much a tear fell out my eye
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
🥹🫂 sending you so much love and a big hug, I’m so glad it resonated
@allmylovemish
2 ай бұрын
feeling the same way at 25!
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
It’s so comforting to know that we all can relate so much
@celinejb9107
2 ай бұрын
i love this sm , watching this healed apart of me
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@celinejb9107 thank you, wow, I’m so grateful this was healing for you 🥹🤍
@celinejb9107
2 ай бұрын
@@sakaessentials would you mind if I ask you for some advice, im currently a bit lost in my healing journey and I would love to just gain some insight from you
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@celinejb9107 I don’t mind at all! Dm me on insta
@clovergirle
2 ай бұрын
I'm going through something like this now and I didn't even know it until I found this video and it planted a seed in my brain. I realized that I am almost completely unable to give my thoughts on something before I know if I'm "correct" or in agreeance with the views of my respected family or friends on the topic who would validate my perceived "correctness". I always want to be right SO badly. My one question is about when you discussed your desire to be honest without filters, second-guessing or people pleasing, I feel that doing this might make me unintelligent and selfish? I feel that if one were to act in this way, they would be making statements without thinking about whether they're truly valid or not and can come off as thoughtless, uninformed, or blatantly incorrect, maybe even selfish in times, only looking through their own, probably narrow, lens. I'm probably misinterpreting what you're talking about because I am SO stuck in my needing-validation stage. Edit: I also feel that perhaps a one true self might be a fallacy and we exist in many realms depending on the situation. Maybe we have many sides of our true self that cant always be expressed all at the same time depending on the person/situation. When you discuss "dimming your light" maybe you shouldn't be too hard on yourself, we can't expect our coworkers to see the same side of us as our close friends and I think its harsh to critique ourselves too hard on that. Now that I type that out, I do reminisce on all the unfulfilled experiences I've had and exhaustion from feeling inauthentic in workspaces. Not sure exactly how I feel on that front (we're workin on it! lol)
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
Hi! Thank you so much for sharing this with me and I'm so honored that my video could plant a seed for you. I completely understand your concerns about wanting to feel validated, I feel it's a natural human inclination to seek approval/alignment with our social circles and expressing yourself honestly, without the need for external validation, can def feel daunting. When I talk about being honest without filters, second-guessing, or people-pleasing, I don't mean to imply acting without thought or consideration but rather finding a balance between having the courage to express your thoughts/feelings authentically, while also remaining respectful and mindful of how they might impact others. Not being selfish or uninformed but being genuine and developing the ability to trust yourself and your intuition. I agree with you that we are multifaceted beings who express different parts of ourselves in various contexts! It's normal (and often necessary) to adapt to our surroundings and the people we interact with. However, I believe there's a difference between adapting and feeling compelled to dim your light or suppress your true nature. The key is to find ways to honor your authenticity even in environments that might feel restrictive. You’re doing amazing work by being introspective and open to growth. I hope you keep exploring, questioning, and being kind to yourself along the way. Sending you lots of light and love on your journey!
@yuka3322
2 ай бұрын
You have a really nice and beautiful vibe❤ sending you love and support
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🫂 so kind, sending you so much love right back 🤍
@user-dc3jq3od7g
Ай бұрын
Beautiful video ❤
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
@@user-dc3jq3od7g Thank you so much ❤️
@TheWellnessAbbey
2 ай бұрын
Profound reflections and life lessons. Thanks for sharing x
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, I’m so grateful it resonated with you 🫂🤍
@mtomazp
2 ай бұрын
Saka this is beautiful and much needed at the moment ❤ Can you share some shadow work prompts and questions that helped you?
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@mtomazp Thank you so much 🤍 I’m so glad it resonated with you. Yes of course, I’ll gather those and share them soon!
@mtomazp
Ай бұрын
@@sakaessentials brilliant thank you 💕
@clairearagon
2 ай бұрын
Love this video ❤ I’m on the journey to embodying my authentic self as well. I used to feel scared being in solitude and now I feel the most at home in solitude and the most love for myself. I find it hard to balance finding that time to connect with myself in a relationship. 😅 it’s only when one of us is traveling that I feel like I can fully come home to myself and just be me. I have a fear of being seen & at the same time I like attention 😂 I’m working on letting my partner see all of my different parts. But it’s hard for me to kill the part of me that cringes at myself, so I’m working on that. Thanks for your video 😊 much love
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@clairearagon Thank you so much 🤍 I completely see you, I live with my partner as well and have to be extra intentional about making time for my solitude! I went through my own journey in feeling comfortable showing him allllll of my parts too 😂 I am rooting you on while you navigate the journey
@clairearagon
2 ай бұрын
@@sakaessentials OMG 🥹 thank you for replying! I just found your channel I would absolutely be so grateful if you made a video on that. I feel like there’s isn’t much content on how to navigate it in a relationship especially one that allows you to grow and shine that is healthy.
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@clairearagon Of course! I’m so glad we’ve crossed paths 🤍You’re so right, I actually had been reflecting on this theme so I’ll be sure to plan it sooner than later
@kimmyy8376
2 ай бұрын
I have similar feelings about truly finding myself without any limitations but still finding it difficult to get out of my bubble. I understand that this is all a learning experience and I have to have patience with myself. Thank you for sharing your story !! Would you be able to share any books you've read that has help you have a better understanding?
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this, I see you 🤍 it’s definitely not a walk in the park so i’m celebrating you for showing up for yourself and embarking on the journey! Would absolutely love to share some books that have helped! I’ll reflect on this and compile a list for you 🫶🏾
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
Hiiiiii 🤍 I was reflecting on the books I’ve read within this realm that I believe impacted me the most and I’d say Women Who Run With the Wolves (pictured in the thumbnail) and The Courage to be Disliked! I have a long need-to-read book list so I’ll make a video on good reads eventually as well 🤍
@katheriner3121
2 ай бұрын
love this💗💗
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
I’m sending you so much love 🩷 thank you
@TyraMudiwa-le3js
2 ай бұрын
This made me automatically subscribe 🩷🥺
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
This made my heart so full, thank you for being here 🥹🤍
@Zarahsz
Ай бұрын
I am very lucky to start my morning with your video🩷
@sakaessentials
Ай бұрын
@@Zarahsz 🩷 You made my morning, thank you so much for being here
@missamsalah8913
2 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤that help me ❤❤❤
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
Sending you a hug, I’m so glad 🤍🤍
@divinegoddessalchemy
2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🦋🤍
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
🤍🦋 sending you my love
@EugeniaTheMuse
2 ай бұрын
Thank you
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@EugeniaTheMuse Thank you for being here 🤍🫂
@Ravereport_
2 ай бұрын
Love this 🥰
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🤍🫂
@louloudelaney9764
2 ай бұрын
I would sing to trees alongside you
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
🥹 Hugging you in spirit, this is a love language
@shaunye6017
2 ай бұрын
Could you make a video about how to get back in touch with your inner child? I wouldn’t even know where to start
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@shaunye6017 Yes absolutely! I’ll plan it for an upcoming video and update you on the community tab when it’s up 🩷
@manlike_x
2 ай бұрын
You’re so beautiful
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@manlike_x Thank you so much!
@cloudgworl
2 ай бұрын
hi ! thank you for this video
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@cloudgworl Hiiiii 🩷 Thank you so much for watching! This is such a good question - I had to begin with remembering her and I spent a lot of time in therapy practicing this but you can do this on your own as well. Sitting with yourself and going back as early in your life as you can and walking with her through her experiences. Once I felt close to her again, I was able to open up a conversation with myself which now involved the present version of me and my younger self. It’s definitely an inner knowing/feeling because she is you, it’s just that you’re channeling an older version of yourself if that makes sense? Let me know if it’d be helpful for me to make a thorough video on this topic! I’d be happy to do that as well 😊
@cloudgworl
2 ай бұрын
@@sakaessentials thank you ♡ i'll try to do this. i also like doing things i know my younger self would enjoy, like watching the barbie movies or tinkerbell hahahaha. a video would definitely be useful, yes please !!! thank you for replying 🥰
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
@@cloudgworl Yes! That’s such a sweet way to love mini you and of course, always
@rayneMasilela
2 ай бұрын
New subbie ❤
@sakaessentials
2 ай бұрын
soul friends 🤍 i’m so grateful!
@jemimaeden
2 ай бұрын
True identity is found in being a daughter of the King of Kings Jesus, new age and all of that can not satisfy as deep and save your life and soul as Jesus can 🤍 I tried it all, its self centered and leaves you empty over time. True love and identity.. oh my days its so beautiful, He is so beautiful.. Jesus really is the answer. Yet to all who did receive him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God (john 1:12)
@Siena.robby.-.-
2 ай бұрын
Try finding your identities through Jesus❤
@Blkbutterfly7
2 ай бұрын
That's very vague
@jenshirah
2 ай бұрын
Not helpful.
@Vic2Vic
Ай бұрын
@@Blkbutterfly7it’s not vague it’s simple. And it’s not simple He is the answer to a lot of your questions. I kind of want to say all of them
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