I totally agree with you. I always had a bit of a problem with the growth culture and the that girl trend because it implies that the present version of ourselves is not enough and needs to go through a series of society approved changes to be worthy of acceptance and success. I’m all for self care and doing the best for ourselves but I am also for loving, honoring and acknowledging the present version of ourselves because she’s already better than the past, she overcame a lot to be here and eventually she is going to grow into the next version at her very own paste. I also hate how this trend is self centered, superficial and materialistic. It’s about living in the same white and beige interiors, having the same cosmetic procedures, the same morning routine and drinking the same overpriced sugary lattes ( there is really a dialogue about how many pump of vanilla sirup is ideal😮💨) let me not start about the consumerism, skims/ lulu lemon/ aritzia athleisure clothes and Amazon store front. I also need to mention the self diagnosing with various mental health issues or overcoming a narcissistic friend, ex or family member. That trend is beyond problematic sorry for the long rant 😅
@amirah8896
9 ай бұрын
Great quote from this: “It is okay to lack in certain areas and still be the better version of yourself.” That is really empowering. We will never be perfect and chasing perfection is exhausting! Glad you touched on the consumerism because that has many varied effects including ethical and environmental. What are we chasing and at what cost? We are all paying the price engaged in that cycle.
@MuseSunflower
10 ай бұрын
Omg yes. Something that really helps is self reflecting on what’s driving my decision to do something Like am I doing it because it’s going to bring me joy, would I still be happy if I did this and nobody knew about it? Or am I doing or buying something for the approval of an external source, am I doing it to run from a bad feeling Remember that life is a journey. I don’t know anyone that did ONE personal development practice and had their life change to perfection within 24 hours. It’ll be a compound effect where we progress little by little over time. You will still fail, have set backs, grow and succeed… but one day you wake up and look back and see that you’ve come a long way even despite your imperfections. And yes you’re stilled loved throughout all of the process ❤
@khailariel
9 ай бұрын
Very well said, thank you for sharing!
@AmaraAnigbo
10 ай бұрын
Yes yes and YES! First off love your channel, and second, thank you so much for this. I have been thinking so much about this and even wanted to make a similar video because I am TIRED of seeing “how to reinvent yourself” or “how to become that girl” when God already calls us perfect and whole. I love this keep going girl!!!
@khailariel
9 ай бұрын
That part exactly! Thank you love ✨
@abkgg7
10 ай бұрын
Love love LOVE this perspective on the trending topic of “becoming her”, Khaila. So many valid points that I totally agree with. Keep being obedient and authentically walking in your calling!
@khailariel
9 ай бұрын
Thank you lovely!
@Isabiosola
9 ай бұрын
I absolutely love your vibe! You are one of the first KZitemr that touched my soul! Thank you! 🩵
@Orieji
9 ай бұрын
Keep uploading okay? You are beautiful ❤️
@myahkapri
9 ай бұрын
You started 3 months ago?? Girl it sounds like you’ve been at this for a year! I’m here for your journey 🥰
@dmvmeu7140
10 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness. You're so real. This video has sm HEART!! Subbed and glad to help you reach ur goals ❤️❤️❤️
@khailariel
9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for supporting!
@MJ-zl3qx
10 ай бұрын
Wow glad I came across your video. Great perspective!!! Excited to see what else you put out. Your channel is def gonna grow and be successful! Get it girl 🥰
@khailariel
9 ай бұрын
I receive it, thank you!
@shameikalhsmith
8 ай бұрын
I loved this so much !
@khailariel
8 ай бұрын
Thank you❤️
@goldentimetay
10 ай бұрын
Loved every moment of this conversation, Khaila! It comes right on time at a huge point of elevation in my life. ✨
@according2dawn
9 ай бұрын
Great content! I love your perspective on the topic. I just subscribed and I think I'm your 1000 subbie. So congratulations 🎉 on hitting your goal. Look forward to following up on this journey and see the amazing content that is to come.
@carls.b
10 ай бұрын
So glad I found your channel, obsessed with your energy!!
@khailariel
9 ай бұрын
Thank you, this is so kind!
@annitaylor5078
10 ай бұрын
im so glad i found your channel, thank you!
@QueenPoetK7
10 ай бұрын
Love your excitement ❤
@maryogunbanwo
10 ай бұрын
Loved this video can’t wait to see your channel grow ❤
@wellbycami
10 ай бұрын
I LOVED THIS
@khailariel
9 ай бұрын
So glad you did!
@noria_h
9 ай бұрын
i am unlocked now. wow.
@evrydae
9 ай бұрын
Would you be able to link the sermon you were listening to? Love your channel.
@shannonedwards8505
10 ай бұрын
Loved this video!
@khailariel
9 ай бұрын
I love to hear it, thank you!
@athomewithhollie
9 ай бұрын
I love this. I’m a social media strategist as well. Working on a brand of my own in a similar niche as your content. I would love to do cross collabs in the future. I’ll be reaching out!
@AmmyC88
9 ай бұрын
Excellent message, we are enough! God made us all uniquely us and we are enough! Can we strive to do/be better? Absolutely! I just subscribed! Let’s get you monetized! Looking forward to more similar content!
@susannahfriesenofficial
10 ай бұрын
This is such a great video! Sidenoteeee: Where did you get this mic from??🥰 I’m also trying to reach monetization status, those watch hours are the hardest to get!
@cinnamongirl7519
10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@raejohnson8433
10 ай бұрын
Subbie 597 get it girl! ❤
@khailariel
9 ай бұрын
thank you so much!
@nadirashields5357
10 ай бұрын
Hi this is off the topic but your teeth is really nice what products do you use
@SurjitDhiman-pi8ph
9 ай бұрын
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@Naomily
9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! This is a very very welcome reprieve from all the videos that are talking about “become that girl,” “reinvent yourself,” “disappear for a month and come back unrecognizable” (where did that one come from? No way did mass hysteria lead to many people coming up with that idea simultaneously), and all the other tips about making the coming year “your best year yet.” Aren’t we missing out on the lives we’re so fortunate to have now while we’re continually chasing the highlight reel perfection people are showing us as our supposed potential selves? Okay, phew. Rant over. Thanks again. Now I’m off to watch more of your videos. First time watcher, hope to be long term viewer. ❤
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