not to be creepy but I kind of freaked when I realized I had a nap on the rock right behind you.
@lightningbug6234
8 жыл бұрын
really? xD
@ashrivera8432
9 жыл бұрын
Honestly I forget you're trans halfway through your sentences and am just like wait... Why is he giving me ad-... And then the realisation comes.
@chaoticfanboy47
4 жыл бұрын
He passes soooo well
@travis9135
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I hate summer most of the time, because it's harder for me to pass, but these tips help. I haven't been able to go swimming with my friends in a long time, so I'll have to check those swim binders out.
@WestCoastElements
9 жыл бұрын
Straight As a Rainbow I hope something works for you :)
@kelceyfirth
8 жыл бұрын
ᒪOᐯE Oᖇ ᑎᗩᗰE
@duncankelly6479
8 жыл бұрын
Your voice is amazingly deep
@daneekaplan4284
9 жыл бұрын
As always you share great info for those struggling to start their transition. I love your favorite option. It's so awesome to actually see your friends being so supportive. I know they have been there for you but it see it is powerful.
@WestCoastElements
9 жыл бұрын
Danee Kaplan Thank you :) I appreciate them so much, they've been great with all of this.
@OleoBlog
9 жыл бұрын
This is a really good vide :D At first I was scared to go swimming because I dreaded wearing a girls swim suit, but now I wear a rash vest with swimming trunks so I go to the pool feeling well happy :)
@WestCoastElements
9 жыл бұрын
OleoBlog Awesome!
@v.c.4861
9 жыл бұрын
You are GORGEOUS Brenton!
@ashton3460
9 жыл бұрын
Benton
@pandareading
9 жыл бұрын
I live in a place where it's summer everyday and I hate it
@kryldon8146
9 жыл бұрын
Hey Benton, I am biologically a female, but I have just recently begun to suspect that I might be transgender... I hadn't really heard the word until recently, but as I looked into the definition, looked back on my younger life, I realized that I felt that I identified with it. I'm pretty young though, so I'm not totally sure what to do about it. I feel kind of confused, and I'm not sure how to tell my parents... So I was thinking that since you obviously have experience with this, I watched a few of your videos, I wanted to ask you if there was any advice you could offer me. I just feel confused, lost and a bit scared, so.. Yeah. I guess that's it. I'd really appreciate any feedback. :)
@squirtkdw4766
9 жыл бұрын
Same for me!
@healzombie1565
9 жыл бұрын
Same since 3yrs old
@crazylahlah
9 жыл бұрын
Same here
@thundercat287
9 жыл бұрын
shadowhowler I just want to say, there are non-binary genders out there so you don't have to be 100% male. I'm not 100% male so try looking into other genders also. I'm more transmasculine so putting an example out there.
@jensenabramson6234
8 жыл бұрын
Well just start experimenting. Like with clothes, hair styles, all that stuff. And if it feels natural, you could be trans. But you can also be a tomboy. Where you want to dress like a boy, but still like being a girl. But also just give it time. It will come to you one day
@caitlinthecreep
9 жыл бұрын
your videos are all so helpful for me as im just starting my transition. keep making awesome videos :)
@becks13x
9 жыл бұрын
Great video! Tomorrow I'm actually going to Vancouver! It'd be pretty cool if I ended up just seeing you some where randomly :)
@WestCoastElements
9 жыл бұрын
I won't be in the city :(
@becks13x
9 жыл бұрын
Oh okay :( Well I'm not exactly in Vancouver. I'm in Whistler near creek side.
@kainovember
6 жыл бұрын
You pass so freaking well. Dang.
@britishcat17
8 жыл бұрын
I'm hopefully going to get my hair cut (short) on the second to last day of school; and I might ask for the swimming binder for my birthday! Excited!!
@noone3104
6 жыл бұрын
Omgggggggg you re-uploaded the vids! Love ya so much!!!!!
@Rockasaur275
9 жыл бұрын
Dylan's laugh at 0:21 hahaha
@devyns6466
6 жыл бұрын
You can actually wear a binder that is one size bigger than your usual size when you go swimming and it works pretty well
@surajprem1802
9 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your vids Benton, you are an inspiration to many like me (:
@devon_eggproduct
9 жыл бұрын
when i go to the beach, i wear a gc2b tank top style binder. it does make me a little dysphoric about my waist but once i get in the water i have no problem!
@andrewentwistle3386
6 жыл бұрын
You are so handsome! I'm very jealous of your voice and how well you pass but I'm also very happy for you :)
@lunathepotato2398
9 жыл бұрын
i just came out that i was trans and thanks for this vid it kinda helped!
@FrAMeBiRdeR
8 жыл бұрын
I stopped swimming at the time I got my period for the very first time because I hate it so much. Like everything about it. I used to love swimming but getting my period really destroyed it all. That's also one of the reasons why I really want to get on testosterone, I want to start swimming again. But thanks for the tipps, I'll try some of them some time. :D
@failingatlife594
8 жыл бұрын
Wear a tampon to go swimming
@lonesome__queen1964
8 жыл бұрын
i shaved my hair but i look feminine as hell :( i can't get any binder because my mom think it's a phase
@raymondfine7491
8 жыл бұрын
i had mine sent to a friends house, if you have a friend you can trust you should ask them about it
@lonesome__queen1964
8 жыл бұрын
yes but not everyone have money for a top surgery and i'm just 16 so my mom will never accept. binders are a good alternative
@wingardiumlachancla9078
8 жыл бұрын
Use sports bra, buddy :)
@aaronrogers8478
6 жыл бұрын
Flowerian it doesn’t work that way. And what the hell is wrong with your channel you have naked people on your banner
@cedieryanmatugas881
9 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the tips.God bless you :)
@jasmineramos7401
9 жыл бұрын
Hello Benton love your videos!!!
@suzannedebeer4521
8 жыл бұрын
YES! I'm not the only one!
@snifferdogx
5 жыл бұрын
Could he possibly be any more adorable.
@ItsEGG
9 жыл бұрын
Awesome video Benton! I was just wondering where abouts did you get your glasses from? (odd question I know). Thanks :)
@WestCoastElements
9 жыл бұрын
ItsEGG I think I got those at Walmart actually! haha
@xxaannddeerr6354
8 жыл бұрын
This is amazing! Thanks for the tips!
@spazzy12663
9 жыл бұрын
loooove your vids benton!
@WestCoastElements
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@thecomedyclownfish1731
9 жыл бұрын
Any advice for coming out as trans to my parents? I told them I want to dress up in boys costume for Halloween, and my mom...isn't thrilled...I know my parents would never hurt me, so my safety isn't in danger, but I'm scared of how my parents, especially my mom will react. Whenever the subject arises, they freeze and don't talk about it much. I plan to come out fully after asking them to experiment with calling me a male name and using male pronouns. I'm not questioning any more, but I do want to ease them into it. Help!
@Cabellasupsnowmobile
9 жыл бұрын
What I did is I did not say mom im trans lets go get a haircut and everything. What I did is I said mom could we maybe see a gender tharapist I just have questions i need answered.
@AnnissaSaverina
8 жыл бұрын
You are my Favorite KZitem Channel :)
@batya9927
9 жыл бұрын
i cant wear flip flops cuz i have abnormally short toes :(
@TnDon
9 жыл бұрын
Good video from you and your CREW.....Lindsay, I would suppose. You folks just have a good time up there in beautiful BC This begs a question and I hope this question doesn't cause (or trigger) a problem for you. Do you have any definite plans to have top surgery? Maybe you've answered this question in another video, but I haven't been able to find it. Sorry if you think this is too nosy.. I'm sometimes too nosy for my own good. Cheers!
@WestCoastElements
9 жыл бұрын
TnDon Thank you! As for your question, I don't have any plans yet, but hopefully soon! Doctors/referrals are very slow.
@TnDon
9 жыл бұрын
Benton I forgot that you're in Canada and subject to their referral system. I would suppose binding is one of the most bothersome practices that a transitioning person has to experience, BUT you should be thankful that you don't have huge moobs to deal with. It's surprising how I have to continuously remind myself that you're a trans person because your outward appearance and mannerisms are so masculine. Your deep voice certainly helps that impression and your facial features are purely those of a male. Just some observations from me...worth about 2 cents (US). Topless seems like a great practice when among good friends of either gender. Thanks for answering my question and have a great week in that beautiful place!
@lyriclove6732
9 жыл бұрын
I think these are really great tips. Ignore my very feminine username (damn being in the closet) but I am ftm trans as well. I don't want to call you out, you don't have to say, but I can't tell if those were scars on your arm or the way the light hit your arm and it was just hair. Sorry, I'm curious -Kamden
@lawyerLoke
9 жыл бұрын
That place looks awesome! Y_Y man i wanna go swim. I would really like to know how to keep looking flat even when the wind blows right at you. No matter how baggy a shirt I wear if the wind comes you can just see it all.. but maybe there is nothing to do about that..
@jenniferhernandez2013
9 жыл бұрын
Honestly, Benton, your amazing! im so glad your open. im also trans and i make videos as well. i was wondering if you can maybe check it out and give me some input. preferably my timeline video. i know we may be considered the same but we arent. your completly different. your life in transition is way different from mine. you have your seperate struggles and if you dont mind i would love to exchange some words with you!
@minagray5
9 жыл бұрын
you are my hero ! are you coming to vidcon ?
@liamjake1208
9 жыл бұрын
I heard somewhere though that the swimming binders don't really compress that well...? Is that true?
@Sutherlandkids
9 жыл бұрын
So your favorite Lake isn't Qwilleran Lake?
@Btrfan409
8 жыл бұрын
Sadly I'm not able to get any kind of binder or wetsuits/those shirts for a few reasons so looks like another summer of no swimming. Haaah.... :c
@JaredNotJerrad
8 жыл бұрын
Couldn't swim for a year, and now that i have a swimshirt, people laugh at me .-.
@Amoodz
8 жыл бұрын
thanks pete
@hemligtkontoanonymous6474
8 жыл бұрын
Hey there Benton. What to do if you cant afford binders or wanna hide the rest of your body, like shoulders and hips? Which summer clothes can pre t people buy? Is it normal to wear for example a big rain/summer jacket?
9 жыл бұрын
Hey Benton! When I were my white underworks triple binder under a white t shirt it shows trough.. Any tips?
@danielsilasguy3172
9 жыл бұрын
A grey binder tends to not show up as much, don't really know why but in my experience it just does😋
@cerriwddynrose-knowles7100
8 жыл бұрын
all i do for swimming is wear boys swim trunks and a loose tshirt. i have my hair cut short so that helps too. its just hard cause i dint have any money fro a binder so when im walking around and stuff you still see my breasts and its really hard to live like that. but i get asked my gender alot because ill wear a pink shirt a black sweater and khaki shorts and you could only tell im a girl by my breats. but i also sometimes have a bulge so taking the bus is always an adventure as people never know what to call me
@frickingoblin5940
8 жыл бұрын
I really want the swimming binder but my mom and dad don't know I'm trans yet and I'm not old enough to buy things off line
@heyitztylerrxd4704
8 жыл бұрын
same here I had to go round tons of shops yesterday finding a bikini because my mum wants me to wear one when I'm swimming. I tried to find one that made me look as flat as possible but it was really hard to find one.
@andrew6994
8 жыл бұрын
I can't buy a binder either but what I do is I have a cami turned around that has a band built in bra thing and I put it over the nipple where it compresses the most then I fold it to add more compression if you don't have one you can do baisicly the same thing with a to small bra that kinda compresses I hope this doesn't confuses you but I have a reblog about the first one on my tumblr blog ftm-tips but I think this makes sense
@nymphicide
8 жыл бұрын
not old enough? just lie
@ahhhmhm9086
8 жыл бұрын
Take cash and buy a visa. Use the visa online and ship it to a trusting friends house (: Hope it helped!
@courtney1762
8 жыл бұрын
you can get a sports bra (the ones without the things that support your breasts) and wear it backwards!
@clawsproductions582
4 жыл бұрын
Please tell my why before I realized I was trans I thought I had broad shoulders and big arms but now I’m just like oh god oh no why are my arms so small I look like a girl oh god
@dolphingirlrocks
9 жыл бұрын
I'm from bc and would love to go there! Which lake is this?
@WestCoastElements
9 жыл бұрын
dolphingirlrocks Lindeman Lake!
@xonx3056
9 жыл бұрын
I don't know if I'm ever going to fully change my gender or even try to appear as male... I might be agender... but I would never have that flipflop problem since my feet are so big for a female (see why I don't feel like a female... :D) that I already buy my shoes from the male section...
@jesse.m.m.6433
6 жыл бұрын
Hey,weird question. Did you ever sack yourself? Like by accident
@jacksonnovotny6331
9 жыл бұрын
Im doing this with my tanktops thank you!
@xsacurra3854
8 жыл бұрын
Or then just put swimming shorts on and not give a fuck
@xryptiid
8 жыл бұрын
+xsacurra I only swim at the pool so I'd get the life guards telling me to put on a shirt :(
@wingicecream7125
8 жыл бұрын
Id be too scared of judgement.
@B3eau16
9 жыл бұрын
Benton is that Johnson Lake? I know you're from BC around where I'm from :p
@WestCoastElements
9 жыл бұрын
Beau Stark It's called Lindeman Lake!
@mattlovesgaming2654
8 жыл бұрын
good advice
@jasmeenfayez
9 жыл бұрын
can someone PLEASEEEEE tell me where this was filmed ??????
@WestCoastElements
9 жыл бұрын
princess Jasmine Lindeman Lake, B.C. Canada :)
@jasmeenfayez
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you sooo much 💗🙈 you're so lucky you get to live somewhere so damn beatifull
@plateschaser45
8 жыл бұрын
Are you considering the possibility of a Top Surgery?
@redactedredacted5955
8 жыл бұрын
wait, i dont get what the tank top trick is for, i dont think you said. is it to bind or???
@cyv5082
8 жыл бұрын
This might be a bit late but he said it is for when tank tops are droopy under the arm/armpit.
@jakef7717
9 жыл бұрын
Under 301 club, how tough are ya?
@lightningbug6234
8 жыл бұрын
I went swimming... without any floaties -3-
@duncankelly6479
8 жыл бұрын
@Benton Thx
@alexzandercastillo8053
8 жыл бұрын
can you do one for all the seasons
@emibeautyguru6221
9 жыл бұрын
love your videos!
@WestCoastElements
9 жыл бұрын
Emi Beauty Guru Thanks :)
@paulofcabo1224
Жыл бұрын
Well wats men a emisfer mind or pinus
@lucasrixon7936
9 жыл бұрын
love you
@AlexCruz-pp2xw
6 жыл бұрын
I really need ro do the tank top tip but idk anynody that can sew it for me oof
@mattlovesgaming2654
8 жыл бұрын
hi benton
@Colormebadd17
8 жыл бұрын
instead of a wetsuit just wear the binder meant for swimming and an under armour shirt
@CharlieNameless
9 жыл бұрын
You're so cute. This is the first video of yours that I see and I'm already in love. Wish you cool things! I'm subscribed.
@seaweedbrain009
8 жыл бұрын
You're very cute
@alisaschtorm9928
8 жыл бұрын
Реально круто)
@dennismosher5454
8 жыл бұрын
Can you not swim shirtless?
@wingicecream7125
8 жыл бұрын
you CAN but trans men have titties, and they don't want to.
@dennismosher5454
8 жыл бұрын
What about if you had chest surgery?
@alexzandercastillo8053
6 жыл бұрын
Typically A Hobo That Lives In Ya Bathtub you can't until at least 6 months and even then not for very long
@izi7080
6 жыл бұрын
Alexzander Castillo Top surgery lasts forever. I don't know what your talking about.
@ItsBoneless
6 жыл бұрын
you can’t in america cause it’s against the law
@shadetreader
Жыл бұрын
The only part of my body that I actually like is my hair lol
@sxm_tamika6619
8 жыл бұрын
Interesting video.... Cute guy :)
@paulofcabo1224
Жыл бұрын
Why is trans cooler
@eanross3583
8 жыл бұрын
You look so much like my brother lol what.
@GayFrankenstein
9 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the tips.
@Colormebadd17
8 жыл бұрын
instead of a wetsuit just wear the binder meant for swimming and an under armour shirt
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