The first podcast I heard from him was magnificent I can only recommend if your having kids listen more to him
@joseacrossley4790
Ай бұрын
Yes! Finding ways to help kids work with their anger & other emotions *IN* relationship - absolutely.
@magicbindi
Ай бұрын
Yes!!!
@PoliticalLifePhilosophy
Ай бұрын
I love this video. Your channel is similar to mine. We should talk
@user-mj1sc3nd7x
Ай бұрын
I think he didn’t get the message 😂
@makisxatzimixas2372
Ай бұрын
This pre assumes that punishment is going to shape their character. I dont know if that's true, espcially at such a young age. Bryan caplan has an interesting take on this.
@JoviBootlegs90
Ай бұрын
Why so tired mr Mate?
@khadijaomer1261
Ай бұрын
I'm pretty sure you mistook JP's point on this one. JP meant actual bad behaviours of children. We don't need spoilt brats who have not learnt to respect boundaries and tolerance of other people. Raising your kids to learn when to go and express themselves and when to stop is so important.
@bradyprice4001
Ай бұрын
When you are angry, people don’t want to talk to you. That’s true. The inability to control your emotions in the presence of others does not lead to a positive result. Teaching children to withdraw, take a break, and get control of yourself is a useful skill.
@joseacrossley4790
Ай бұрын
That's why we teach kids how to be present with their anger in relationship by mirroring "oh yes, you're REALLY angry right now. Hitting is NOT okay, but let's stomp our feet together." And yes, sometimes taking space is okay too, but inviting that as ONE option is different than isolating kids when they are feeling big emotions. The ability to control our emotions in the presence of others develops by being in relationship with each other in a healthy way with big emotions. This is different than adults taking space.
@bradyprice4001
Ай бұрын
@@joseacrossley4790 That's a good explanation that taught me something. Thank you.
@joseacrossley4790
Ай бұрын
@@bradyprice4001 you're so welcome! :)
@teodorpetkov5854
Ай бұрын
Jordan spoke about temper tantrums, not just being angry
@alvodin6197
Ай бұрын
Same thing applies. Temper tantrums are s normal part of young child's development. If you punish kids or give them "time outs", you are sending the message that they have to suppress their emotions, instead of being regulated and calmed down, which is what an adult should be able to do. You don't have to agree with that, but Jordan Peterson is still wrong. No need to defend him, he has duped you for millions of dollars for his bad parenting and life advice.
@Frodo1000000
Ай бұрын
Jordan throws temper tantrums all the time during debates. He doesn't follow his own rules. He's full of anger whenever someone doesn't agree with him and keeps speaking in an elevated tone of voice as if anger was a valid argument.
@Frodo1000000
Ай бұрын
@@alvodin6197prolly his "advice" stems from his own inability to regulate emotions.
@First.nameLastname
Ай бұрын
Wrong
@Medietos
Ай бұрын
Don't take JBP's words out of context, please. He does not mean real anger but bad behaviour and in inappropriate situations. And anger tantrums and resentment disturb, damage and weakebn organ functions, Mate didn't mention that...Anger outbursts are not good for the heart, Liver etc at all.
@alvodin6197
Ай бұрын
You don't understand anything about psychology, just shut up and educate yourself. "Inapropriate behavior" doesn't mean anything, and you didn't listen. An angry child acting out, isn't "inapropriate behavior", but you don't understand or accept that, because you haven't studied developmental psychology.
@MudThought
Ай бұрын
temper tantrum often because child emotions are surpress, so yes it could still applied.
@483920478
Ай бұрын
This is ridiculous....When people cant control their shadow side then they will never be accepted by others.
@joseacrossley4790
Ай бұрын
That's why we teach kids how to be present with their anger *in relationship* by mirroring "oh yes, you're REALLY angry right now. Hitting is NOT okay, but let's stomp our feet together."
@noellundstrom7447
Ай бұрын
GAGAGAGAGAGGAGA
@483920478
Ай бұрын
@@joseacrossley4790 Jordan Peterson doesnt say to hit your kids...but to simply remove them from the situation
@483920478
Ай бұрын
@@joseacrossley4790 also i agree with stomping together...when my son gets angry i get angry with him but its not so easy to do that if hes fighting with another kid....I cant also get mad at the other kid and being angry doesnt give kids the right take that anger out and project it onto others...
@alvodin6197
Ай бұрын
Can't you try to learn something before pretending like you understand things that you don't??maybe read a book on child developmental psychology or any view that is perhaps different than a Christian, Western, authoritarian point of view? Perhaps you could learn something. A CHILD ACTING OUT LR BEING ANGRY ISNT A SHADOW trait. It's a normal fucking part of brain development, and no it's "bad behavior". Children learn to regulate their emotions when their parents got their shit together. If you look at Petersons family it's obvious his daughter is a nervous wreck, suppressed, afraid to have any opinions. Obviously she grew up with a raging father. And for being "accepted by anyone". Most people I know don't accept Jordan Lobsterson, but who cares who accepts you, are you a child?
@fiachoconnor
Ай бұрын
Sorry lads. This guy is ludicrous. JP spoke about hitting children in his book? And mate misconstrues anger and tantrums? Mate hasn't read the book and if he had he can only be intentionally strawmaning. I'd love to see mate talk a 3 yo down while I the height of a tantrum. Nope, sorry guys, this lad is full of it.
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