Glad you got that off your chest, and yes there are some slimy people claiming to be trans that screw it up for the others that just want to live a quiet life.
@staceylempiala3451
9 ай бұрын
Hey girl....keep speaking. As a woman I feel alliance/kin with you. And you have more supporters than you realize.
@xaneres1
9 ай бұрын
This question is easily addressed imo and is overcomplicated by activists. There's a concept in law of a 'legal fiction' and this is what transexual woman are (or should be). That is, transexual woman are for all practical purposes (minus a few exceptions) women. But a transexual is not the same as transgender and the definition of the former needs tightening and needs to be enforced. I rarely find natal females (even those on the 'gender critical' side) that object to transexual woman in female private spaces. Don't worry about what you say here, you are 100% correct and it's important people like yourself speak out more x
@gordoncarscadden6252
9 ай бұрын
There is no pleasing the gender critical types. They'll start with non passing transgender woman and then move on to the rest and even sacrifice some of their own who don't live up to their feminine standards.
@AddyVillimey
9 ай бұрын
Thank you for posting your view on this. I think you hit the nail on the head there. The trans community is being very aggressive trying to push their agenda and it's alienating people that would otherwise have no issues with trans people at all. The way people targeted streamers that played the HP game, the way trans education is being pushed on schools (yes that's a thing in my home country). If my son would come and say to me that he felt like he was more like a woman, i would 100% support him in any decision he would make. But i also don't agree with having education for 8-12 year olds about being trans, gender fluid or sexuality. Kids should get to be kids and i'd rather see them teaching tolerance and acceptance in general, there are lots of kids that get bullied in school and feel like they are different and don't belong without it having anything to do with gender. I was bullied all my years through school because i had undiagnosed ADHD and was emotionally vulnerable. We all need to try to look at the other side and put ourselves in their shoes or the world will keep going in the direction it is currently. You're incredibly brave for speaking your mind, thank you
@bepitan
9 ай бұрын
this thought process that you have is the most sane view on this subject ..i think you are spot on.
@ocdbrain
9 ай бұрын
I think intersex kind of makes sex a spectrum BUT it doesnt matter cuz we either see one or other. Its about ur looks. Ur white, right? Oh im not white im ____. Oh ok. All of it is bs to me.. its just another brain going oh you look like this so durrr. You feel strong discomfort about your sex? You know what ill take yall word for it. I have ocd so i understand what its like to not be taken seriously. No one believes ocd is real everyone mocks it by saying theyre so ocd. Thry dont understand it and dont deal with it. Im gonna be honest.. i wanna be a kid. Not cuz im creepy i just love the asthetic of being a kid being tiny.. having that cute voice.
@atro9379
9 ай бұрын
The mental disorder with some people who want to put all Human in one size. We are born different and each one of us have different tendency/inclination. Unfortunately, some of us are always judge one the book from its title. They can't see the inside. For example, if someone wants to be rich or wants to change his/ her sex people usually no you can't. This will not work or this not acceptable. The big problem is people they can't see the vision/ the heart/ the feeling/ the pain of that person. We need to educate ourselves how to live peacefully, how to accept each others without violation.
@Truscum_Tranny
9 ай бұрын
Thank you for speaking out on this! I'm a trans man, and I agree with everything you've said. Can't wait to watch more!
@grumpyrcc0on
9 ай бұрын
I agree
@PeiPeisMom
9 ай бұрын
I'm a middle-aged cis woman, and I have heard a thousand times about men claiming to be women entering women's restrooms, but I have never once been able to get confirmation. I honestly don't believe that happens; conservatives just want to think it does. I feel if you're not being respected in the most basic way, it's justified to insist loudly on your rights. But I also understand the temptation to mollify the fears of those who are both ignorant and potentially dangerous. The whole situation is going to be messy until it isn't.
@ske1etor914
9 ай бұрын
Very brave of you to weigh in on some of these very touchy issues... I love that you're speaking your truth from where you stand in your life. I guess the only thing I felt a little weird about with your conversation was all the emphasis on "passing.." While I do understand that we live in a world that does need to identify someone as clearly this or that quite often, I'd hope that we can get past this kind of thinking and not quite care if someone is trying to look female even though we can all clearly tell they were born male... what does it matter to anyone else really... the only concern then becomes that people that don't know you personally have no idea how to address you... some pronoun obsessed people would be much better advocates of the trans community if they didn't attack people for making an assumption that doesn't align with your inner gender. As a gay man, i have to still accept that this world is VERY much not built for people like me... I live in a city of over 45k people with 2 colleges and we have no bars or places to meet for same sex interests... if I go online or to any apps it's the same 100 people locally using the service as 10 years ago... I'm far from "happy" with were the LGBTQ+ sits if I had an end goal in mind... but this is a process... things like racism and homophobia/transphobia can't be lectured out of someone or fixed with legislation... you have to show people over time that you aren't something to be afraid of, that you're actually very approachable and are in most ways the same as everyone else... people are definitely missing the "approachable" part of what I see as the proper way to handle gaining acceptance.
@fujoshipeanut5074
9 ай бұрын
I used to have the same mindset as you, I understand that it would be nice if we can just help people understand and then they'll gradually come around, but in the meantime, there are people actively fighting against us, finding sneaky (and sometimes not so sneaky) ways to roll back our rights. It's terrifying to think that abortion rights are being taken away. Do we just sit around and try and softly convince people to legalise abortion while we let a whole bunch of people die from illegal unsafe abortions? The rights of trans kids to receive gender affirming care (which includes things as simple as social transition and therapy/counselling to, at the most, puberty blockers which are reversible) are being threatened. Are we just going to quietly try and convince people that maybe trans kids need _something_ to relieve gender dysphoria while trans kids deprived of even social transition or even just someone to _talk to_ about it are left to suffer in silence or kill themselves? Also, for some people, it doesn't matter how much we try to convince, they actively want to get rid of ALL of us. Binary trans people, gays, people of colour, etc. While we're trying to coddle them and mind their sensibilities, they're laughing at us while finding ways to make our lives hell. They will never understand us because they will never _try_ to understand us. They just want us gone. The best thing we can do is educate and legislate, and when we can't do that, we fight for our rights (though I'm not advocating violence) like we've always done. And I don't mean attacking people for getting a pronoun wrong by accident, of course.
@ske1etor914
9 ай бұрын
many of these are stances that are controversial even within the LGBTQ+ community... people are still learning the pro's and cons of transitioning prepubescents so to say that it's sneaky or an attack for people to be worried about children in a different way than one group is kinda losing the point. @@fujoshipeanut5074
@kylees6396
9 ай бұрын
As a gay person, I don't think its wise that kids be taught about LGBTQ in school. I doubt that the school system will do our community any justice, as well as lack of funding in plenty of schools is an issue. Which I thunk will likely result in lackluster education. I grew up knowing I was gay, I didn't need any teachers to lecture me on my experience. Plus kids have unfettered access to the internet, they know of our community anyway. What would curriculum look like for LGBTQ anyway? Just curious. Anyway, thank you for the video. I love hearing perspectives from all facets of the community
@kylees6396
9 ай бұрын
Also I feel that nonbinary isn't real, they're just referring to different personality types. That's my opinion, I could be wrong of course and I acknowledge that I don't know everything about experiencing gender identity issues
@michellous_luv
9 ай бұрын
I don't even begin to say that I know it all cause there's just too many things to understand. Nobody is perfect
@Shalanaya
9 ай бұрын
It is not important with regards to homosexuality, but rather gender, because little children are already forced to accept theyre boys or girls, which is an abuse, to better understand the whole picture I'll quote what Deleuze said many decades ago in "The Interpretation of Utterances": "There are not two sexes, there are n sexes; there are as many sexes as there are assemblages. And since each of us enters into several assemblages, each of us has n sexes. When children discover that they are reduced to one sex, male or female, they discover their powerlessness: they lose the machinic sense and are left only with the signification of a tool. And then a child really does fall into depression. They have been damaged; their countless sexes have been stolen!" (n is a symbol in mathematics for natural numbers). Then I'll quote Wilhelm Reich's "The Mass Psychology of Fascism" - "Suppression of the natural sexuality of the child, particularly of its genital sexuality, makes the child apprehensive, shy, obedient, afraid of authority, “good” and “adjusted” in the authoritarian sense; it paralyzes the rebellious forces because any rebellion is laden with anxiety; it produces, by inhibiting sexual curiosity and sexual thinking in the child, a general inhibition of thinking and of critical faculties. In brief, the goal of sexual suppression is that of producing an individual who is adjusted to the authoritarian order and who will submit to it in spite of all misery and degradation. At first, the child has to adjust to the structure of the authoritarian miniature state, the family; this makes it capable of later subordination to the general authoritarian system. The formation of the authoritarian structure takes place through the anchoring of sexual inhibition and sexual anxiety" Sexual repression stems largely from religious and conservative background, which stood behind Nazi Germany at the time. This is just a little point I made for those who believe Nazis were in any way open minded leftists or socialists with regards to sexuality or gender. See why they dont want children to know about LGBTQ, it is systemic, it is part of the way how to suppress humanity through our natural sexual energy which our gender identity expresses itself through. The body is the material vessel for the different spectral apparitions that can embody it. It's no surprise the social machine has to mark similar bodies in similar ways to justify the categorised social disciplining of minds that occupy them. The body may be stuck in historical, material forces and causality that engender certain physical attributes and abilities to its beholder, but the beholder so far as considered to be the radically dual subject-mind that emerges on the substrate of object-body is still radically free to manifest itself in the social world only limited by the possibilities of cultural animations, avatars, multitude of personifications that exist in the social-symbolic space, and is the space where categorisation, domestication happens, an exorcising of virtualities, a reproduction of the binary world, that then discipline-interpellate the subject as an organ in the social order in its proper place.
@LindaMayKallestein
9 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. It couldn't have been easy. I can easily get behind you 100% on your thoughtful and nuanced opinions on these matters.
@TheNeonRabbit
9 ай бұрын
I definitely understand your "Won't transition if I can't pass" standard. That's pretty much my situation. I'm over 6' tall with a stocky build and very male facial features. I'd never put this criteria on another person but I'd simply never pass as a woman so I'd feel and look ridiculous trying to. I'd come off as a lost Monty Python sketch or worse. As much as it pains me my options were "man up" or be hated & mocked so I've had to just bite the bullet and prioritize what society wants me to be over what I know I'd rather be. Maybe in the next life....
@ocdbrain
9 ай бұрын
Dude those retro games make me wanna marry you.
@michellous_luv
9 ай бұрын
haha right!!! love collecting. I don't know if you've seen but i did a room tour of all the games and systems!
@filter021
9 ай бұрын
@@michellous_luv How about some game streaming?
@BobiBamlett
9 ай бұрын
Thank you speaking out
@berthzy537
9 ай бұрын
I am not trans, but female 22. I think this is so important, for everybody. Real trans people and us "born in the right body". The movement has really pushed this too far, and are not only ruining the lives of trans people, but also us. You can't get accepted or supported if you force someone to see your point of view, that's called narcissism. Which (I am sorry), I think a lot of the people presenting as trans/fluid/queer/a lot of pronounces are. But if you are rational, like you are, that's the biggest clue that you are a real trans. I am really glad that you are passing and that you feel comfortable living your life like you were supposed to. Thanks for great video.
@fujoshipeanut5074
9 ай бұрын
I'm pretty sure if black people never forced whites to see them as real humans, black people would still be considered sub-human in the western world. If women had never fought for their rights, they'd still be seen as property. Fighting for rights is not 'narcissism'. If queer people had never fought for their rights, she wouldn't have even had the ability to transition and live the life she's living now! And genderfluid people, non-binary people, and gender non-conforming people are among the people that fought for those rights.
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