“Her baby just had a baby” that’s so cute 🥹 And true, honestly. Unless they were being jerks about it I’d let my parents and mother-in-law see the baby when they could
@kc2pix
11 күн бұрын
When I got home from the hospital, I was having big feelings and all i could resolve it into was "I want my mommy". My husband helped me call her, and we arranged for a visit the next day, because I felt secure and respected enough to drop the "No Visitors for a Week" rule we were intending on going with.
@queerlemons1919
3 ай бұрын
For anyone who is about to have a baby, after you have that baby it’s not about “letting them see the baby” it’s about wanting them to see the baby, because if you don’t want them to see the baby right after you get home then they can wait a few days or however long you need them to and if they can’t that’s on them not you so don’t feel bad about saying no they’re going to have to wait because it’s not about them it’s about you and your baby
@westdellarosecreations9827
3 ай бұрын
Thank you! And it's also okay to want EVERYONE to see the baby! In our family, everyone is called and literally about 30+ people come in and out throughout the day within minutes from having your baby. We are so excited to show our family their newest member that they are expected to love, protect, and help care for. Not all families are like this though
@penelopeslays
2 ай бұрын
@@westdellarosecreations9827 As long as the baby is given time to rest!
@InkFiCTi
Ай бұрын
@@westdellarosecreations9827that sounds so amazing for your family, I see no problem in it as longa s the mother is fine with it and by how it sounds you make it also about the mom not just the baby, which most the time people don't, they just want to see the baby and disregard the mother or her wishes. It should be about the mother giving birth to the wonderful baby and them being born, not just the baby being born.
@victoriawilliams6156
24 күн бұрын
I love her words and her delivery
@brittanykessinger7783
4 ай бұрын
As the human who actually attends to new moms, my choice of words when told to boot these people is " Out! Now! Before I call security. "
@Saliacha
Ай бұрын
New parents must be lucky to have someone like you:)
@kaitlynlowery
3 ай бұрын
Literally so done with my in laws. They went behind my back and told my husband it’s their baby too bcs they are the grandparents. Like oh hell naw you ain’t ✋
@amy010276
3 ай бұрын
I swear the delusion with the father's parents is so strong these days. It's like they see the grandchild as their do-over kid.😂
@jeremiahgabriel5709
Ай бұрын
Children aren't property or possessions. And I wish waayyyy more ppl realized this.
@AW611
7 күн бұрын
I hope things are better and that they have changed and learned to respect you. I hope also that you have support from your husband.
@kaitlynlowery
4 күн бұрын
@@AW611 unfortunately not it’s a no for both. It’s a complicated situation one minute he supports me, then he switches up so idek 🤦♀️
@AW611
2 күн бұрын
@@kaitlynlowery I’m so sorry :( that is a tough situation to navigate. I do hope it gets better!
@sentientdumpstersludge
5 ай бұрын
Girl, your comment section is always so toxic. I guess you piss off all the right Karens.
@Boogerpickerr
Ай бұрын
100% a hit dog will holler, and she drove into a pawn.
@samr6222
Ай бұрын
Getting to see a brand new baby is a privilege. I've been so lucky to be invited to the hospital to see a new baby twice, and I couldn't believe 1. That mom was up to entertaining guests and 2. That they let hold their brand spanking new human being that they just finished making. I cried both times. That's a whole new human who with an entire life ahead of them
@trikitrikitriki
4 ай бұрын
My mother in law wanted to see my sister's baby right after they brought him home. Like, this isn’t your daughter! You are not related to my sister in any way! It's weird to even ask
@JocelynBlaze-ii9cv
4 ай бұрын
It’s the “ oh no thank you 😁” for me 😂😭
@simsingsimmer
5 ай бұрын
When I have a baby no one is gonna be allowed to touch it for at least a month but me and husband
@justatinyhalfling
Ай бұрын
„Got it got it?“ has permanently assimilated into my vocabulary. 😂
@LadyJoolree
3 ай бұрын
'Got it got it' is in my head now 😊
@hals999
Ай бұрын
Oh. My.gosh thank you!! I had a friend " " or roommate who would demand to see "her" baby... when she was referring to my baby and it wasn't just cute or as a joke she was serious! Also fed him foods off if her plate he didn't eat yet as u was cooking him a healthy lunch to try... not chicken strips with ranch she was eating off of. I was in tears setting a boundry and she'd still let him lick her popsicle behind my back!! It was the worst glad we got our own place!!
@bogisz915
4 ай бұрын
Ohh you should go viral!
@MS-we9gn
Ай бұрын
I appreciate that more people are using gender neutral language in their TikToks and YT videos about pregnancy. I’m a trans man who can’t imagine enduring 9 months of pregnancy and then giving birth (because of my dysphoria) but some trans men and non-binary people are okay with it. It’s important to remember that not everyone who can give birth is a woman
@doorslore2902
Ай бұрын
As another trans man, i agree completely
@gabrielleswann6729
Ай бұрын
Now is not the time for your tantrum 😮
@Izzy-cp8yt
Ай бұрын
@@gabrielleswann6729 this was not a tantrum, what are you on about? If anything YOUR comment comes off as more of a tantrum.
@queer_unicorn
26 күн бұрын
Fellow trans man who appreciates this!
@kenetrice
25 күн бұрын
The “got it got it?” always gets me.?😂
@eat.m3
Ай бұрын
When I had my baby my grandmother was just like "I'm going to do XYZ and if you don't let me I'll never babysit for you" and then my daughter ended up in the NICU (we didn't know until I had her) and it got even worse, thank fully she didn't have my new cell number 😅
@localmenace3043
Ай бұрын
Having a baby always brings out the worst in otherwise-agreeable people, I swear.
@risitascositas1699
3 ай бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😅🤣🥰
@terryalexander9069
28 күн бұрын
I would see the baby when the parents say I can
@TomarBoroDada
Ай бұрын
😂❤
@barbarjinks8170
5 ай бұрын
Modern people are so gross. Let your family love on that baby or be prepared to loose the village that’s gonna help you raise it. There’s a reason family units are units, so they can care for each other. But if you wanna be the prissy couple in the family (who probably treats their actual kids as condescendingly as their family), go right ahead.
@Raining_Song
5 ай бұрын
It's their issue if the "village" decides to abandon people they're supposed to care for just because the parents wanted some alone time with the baby first 🤷
@RiverJDell
5 ай бұрын
Babies don't have an immune system and should not around more than a handful people for the first 12 weeks. Forget about other reasons but that alone is enough 😅
@rensca972
5 ай бұрын
So if you had the rudest parent in law ever and just pushed a whole kid out of you, you would want them all in you and your newborns space? Because I highly doubt you would. Not to mention there can be ALOT of reasons for family to not be allowed in. My baby brother had an infection so we said NO ONE and there were still temper tantrums because “but we wanna see our new little family member!” Like hell no we said no one and that means no one move on. That is a private moment that no one else is entitled to and anyone can say no for any reason that they like.
@thaloblue
5 ай бұрын
If you’re going to be such a loud cow about it you never deserved to have a grandkid to begin with. Get disowned hahaha.
@barbarjinks8170
5 ай бұрын
@@rensca972 if you have the rudest parent in law ever you made the absolute INCORRECT choice in mate my friend, and your emotions over your partner’s family will lead to early divorce, massive issues in the future. Also, your child is more likely to be drawn to the grandparent that you don’t like! Also, modern parents really be forgetting their support systems. When my first nephew came into the world, his mom was delivering on the other side of the country. Her husband, my brother in law decided that after having the baby almost killed her, that the best option for them was radio silence! So without hearing that the baby was okay or that my sister was still alive, they turned off their phones not to be heard from again till almost a whole 24 hours later. Disgusting, selfish, manipulative behavior.
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