Oh my I'm sitting all there all these year doing Therapie, working on myself, trying to figure it all out alone, trying to make my life as good and independent as possible, and trying to see who I am. And I'm just exhausted and depressed by trying to reach a perfect state until I am allowed or worthy of meeting people be it friends or lovers... I just realized how much that takes my power away
@chanekawaihae8746
Жыл бұрын
Baby you find yourself through relationships. Family,friends, romantic. You don’t have to be perfect. You just need to be you. We all have demons we just can’t let them have control.
@tb8827
Жыл бұрын
Yes! Finally..a normal take on this topic.
@dr.florence
6 ай бұрын
100%!!! We are being hurt in relationships and we heal in relationships 💖
@chanekawaihae8746
Жыл бұрын
Say it louder for the people in the back
@333mystic
4 ай бұрын
This is not how basic humans operate. The lack of self love and self awareness leads people into relationships marriages babies and they are not ready they never become ready because they chose a partner who exclude all forms of teaching but exists on abusive emotional patterns of behaviours. For example a friend was beaten so badly by his boyfriend he did leave after years of emotional abuse and when he does try and date he is choosing so badly every time. Therapy and staying single can help rebuild foundations for establishing healthy choices, in 2024 we need to be clear for who deserves what we have to offer. If we don't know every relationship will kill our soul until nothing is left and look at the children that have suffered because parents chose badly.
@minouj1595
10 ай бұрын
I disagree. Work on self to some extent first. We are always with people anyway. That gives the opportunity to work on self first and then continue. It’s like telling someone hey you need to skip kindergarten preschool etc and go right away to college! What a concept! Also I wouldn’t mislead people. It’s what work for them! I don’t follow advice blindly anymore. I used to. That’s why people end up in so many broken relationships with hundreds to heal, using others to heal self! In some cultures we don’t believe in this!
@zinedinezidane4771
10 ай бұрын
I agree. But, it depends how you take her message. I think she's talking about the fact people go to the extreme and sit there working on themselves for years which then becomes some type of avoidance.
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