The worst part is being alone in a relationship. 😢
@TrishaLynnDYI
Жыл бұрын
Yes. It’s the worst feeling in the world. 😢
@stevejuliano9316
Жыл бұрын
Perfectly stated
@jamaulhawes5679
Жыл бұрын
That is called loneliness. Being alone is being by yourself.
@JMarshallYTTV
Жыл бұрын
Robin Williams said it best - the only thing worse than being alone is being with people who make you feel alone. This was my now ex-wife who I let use and emotionally abused me far too long till I got the strength to divorce her - and yet I still miss her 7 months later even after she ghosted me for the last 18 months of our marriage. I will be weak for women no more!
@RebelAngel14
Жыл бұрын
Well said 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💯
@jspenceofficial
Жыл бұрын
Anyone experiencing loneliness, remember it's just for a season.. a season of preparation. God bless.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
Жыл бұрын
God bless!
@freepoetjsr1602
Жыл бұрын
Six years of loneliness is not a season. It’s a lifetime sentence. It’s a prison cell. It’s a marathon. Waiting for the seasons finale.
@mariodorsey9260
Жыл бұрын
@@freepoetjsr1602 develop in obsercuity
@mergned
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, I just said this to myself 💕 you confirmed AMEN sister
@jspenceofficial
Жыл бұрын
@@mergned Amen. Fantastic! We are truly in one spirit. 😊🙏🏾
@elizabethdumas4147
Жыл бұрын
It is better to be single and lonely, than married and miserable.
@katwoman1413
Жыл бұрын
Amen to that sistah.
@mommovesherbabies2384
Жыл бұрын
Praying for all of us 😢💔❤️🩹❤️🙏
@wojciechj2102
Жыл бұрын
Proverbs 21:9: 'Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.' ;)
@soyempatica5406
Жыл бұрын
Correct😊
@Texasbread23
Жыл бұрын
I agree! No truer words have been spoken. Amen!!!
@gidiisuniverse661
Жыл бұрын
I really don't fear being alone , I just fear being with the person God didn't call me to be with
@catshultz9045
Жыл бұрын
@nazareyes3773I hadn’t to thought about it that way! Thank you
@Yipper64
Жыл бұрын
The idea of a single "soul mate" isnt actually biblical. There isnt a single person God has called you to be with. There are many people who love God and would be someone you could have a God honoring relationship with. I that isnt something I would worry about. The concept of "oh but what if I chose the wrong one and God actually had someone else for me" is not a question I will ever ask. If I marry a woman, that's it, that's who im meant to be with. Because I make that commitment in marriage.
@achmed2pac
Жыл бұрын
The ULTIMATE Sign of Love is what Jesus Christ did on that Cross 2000 years ago for ALL of us...we need to return to that FIRST Love God has shown us and stay in the love of Jesus because the Devil Satan and his Demons who are Ruling this world will Never be Able to touch us if we Remain in his Love and presence🙏💟If we are TRUE Desciples of Jesus and we OBEY His words written in Matthew Mark Luke and John🙏When we are LED by his Holy spirit that he Promised to ALL of us and we are washed from our sins and Baptized in the name of the Trinity😄
@John-nx6ue
11 ай бұрын
@nazareyes3773thats bullcrap healthy fear of foolishness is good
@paolaree8004
8 ай бұрын
The Lord does not give you a spirit of fear
@monjamondschein6486
Жыл бұрын
1. Losing the fear of being alone 2. Gaining the strength of rather being alone 3. Beginning to see that most of the joy comes from giving, not receiving. 4. Say enough to fears that are causing you to stay away from relationships.
@Insane_ForJesus
Жыл бұрын
Number 1 is false based on Genesis 2 and human psychology
@scottmacdonald8942
Жыл бұрын
@@Insane_ForJesus PAUL PREFERS SINGLENESS 7:6) and counsels widows to remain single if possible (1 Cor. 7:8). Singleness is preferred because of “the present distress” (1 Cor. 7:26, CSB), and those who aren't married are advised not to “seek a wife” (
@orangejuicesimpson7233
Жыл бұрын
According this, I'm gonna keep suffering then
@Insane_ForJesus
Жыл бұрын
@@scottmacdonald8942 You are misunderstanding Paul. If everyone followed his preference then you would get a society like Japan or Western Europe where the birth rate is so low that the care of the elderly and work force is at major risk. Big nuclear families are God's design based on Genesis. Singleness is only for a small minority of people wanting to focus on God's work. Paul recommends singleness for people that have the desire of focusing solely on God and not creating nuclear families as commanded in Genesis.
@ianbetts4435
Жыл бұрын
@@Insane_ForJesus well said , I'm tired of all this bullshit spouted about what Paul said . We are not made to be alone, that's why God gave Adam a mate. Because we live in a broken sinful world many of us have to suffer singleness. Another thing that really winds me up is the " it's just for a season bullshit" many many Christians have to suffer singleness all their lives and put up with the smug advice from married Christians in the Church who haven't a clue how painful it can be.
@blacksea1726
Жыл бұрын
I am alone! Not even friends, because I attracted the same type of fake friends/ narcissists as my ex! Spend the last 6 years alone - I only have a friend now…and for the 1st time in my life, I don’t feel used! It is balanced! So, I am sure it will happen with a partner as well! Learned to do and enjoy things alone: bought a house and celebrated with a champagne ( yeah, just me), went to restaurant alone, to movie alone, a lot of diy alone- love it! There is absolutely no fear of being alone! The only thing I fear is being without God…I keep healing and working on myself!!!When I ll meet my partner…I’ll be ready!
@christoffeljongwa192
Жыл бұрын
The only fear I have is being without God. I'm with you on that.
@WWlogics
Жыл бұрын
@Quantam Leap Your comment speaks to me. A lot. I’m the same. If you ever want be prayer or accountability partners, let me know. Somehow. Lol.
@rachel33329
Жыл бұрын
I wish we lived close ! Lol
@Anonymous-yx3jf
Жыл бұрын
Same!
@Anonymous-yx3jf
Жыл бұрын
Building confidence next level
@MartealLamb
Жыл бұрын
It's better to be a little bit uncomfortable and face loneliness occasionally then to suffer with the drama and disappointment of being in the wrong relationship
@loveisneverasin9092
Жыл бұрын
... so you are being CAREFUL to Not be in the Wrong situation ? You are Not going to be a Drama Queen , for sure... but you will be Not be the Dancing Queen , either !
@hardingirls12
4 ай бұрын
Having a healthy relationship with God leads to other healthy relationships in our lives. I love this!
@danielnixon3294
Жыл бұрын
yes i learned from my last relationship your better off alone than in a toxic relationship anyday
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
Жыл бұрын
so true
@lilianakeya9868
Жыл бұрын
Exactly 😊
@candellina6
Жыл бұрын
A few days before 2023 started, I finally unlocked my heart to wholly lean on God for my problems, my joys, and loneliness. I can give and never feel empty forevermore. 🙌 God gives me love, attention, and strength to serve others without needing something in return.
@allisonpaige4786
Жыл бұрын
Act Without Expectation
@Ffuhr
2 ай бұрын
Amennnnn I used to fear being alone but man God really is working on us and he has the right ppl in store for me, never in a million years would I thought I would enjoy being alone and being okay with it‼️‼️‼️ that’s what happens when u finally just trust in the Lord
@nickharvey2105
Жыл бұрын
So HELP me God...UPDATED 20-2-23 Good news :- Glory to God after 5 years of chronic loneliness NEW HOPE of Friendship & Love :- may the honeymoon phase LAST THIS LIFETIME PLZ GOD 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
Жыл бұрын
John 15:5! He is worthy!
@S.M.Jean-Mahmoud_Ier
Жыл бұрын
Same... When even God Himself seems to rejoice in your frustration, this is when help is the most needed and love and respect run away the fastest...
@nickharvey2105
Жыл бұрын
@@S.M.Jean-Mahmoud_Ier John thanks n true, YET God has been PHENOMINAL Kind, Favoring me, Blessing me, providing SO MUCH for me, that I never lack, but a few things the enemy has STOLEN..... if the theif be caught........
@allisonpaige4786
Жыл бұрын
I AM truly, genuinely happy for you both...
@dawnstonerock4253
Жыл бұрын
Being alone can be good too. Peace, calm, time to care for yourself. Time for devotions.
@lilianakeya9868
Жыл бұрын
Yeah 👍👍
@marleenstukkien5384
9 ай бұрын
Time to turn inwards ❤
@bonfitnc5424
Жыл бұрын
I havent not been in relationship for my entire life I’m 26 and I don’t know what feels like to be loved 😂. Only Gods love has been part of my life
@nichill7474
5 ай бұрын
Being in your twenties is a bittersweet experience but critical to future fulfillment. You still have some stuff to go through in life but if you trust that God wants the best for you, he will bring someone along to walk with you. I didn’t know love in my twenties but i definitely know it now. Pain and struggle taught me about love. Ask God for his help. He wants to help you.
@barbaraedwards5675
5 ай бұрын
God’s love is the best first love 🎉
@mimap275
2 ай бұрын
God will give urs, keep praying 😊
@nicolavanrhyn1726
Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness, that loneliness in a relationship is terrible. He claimed to be a believer but was emotionally and psychologically abusive. I felt terrible. I made up my mind that I'd rather be single than unhappy and alone! Praise God that this lesson has spared me from some very potentially destructive relationships.
@dranddydavidmarc6005
Жыл бұрын
Hello 👋🏻 Beautiful Lady 🌹..How are you and the weather?
@jeremycarpenter5550
6 ай бұрын
I am finally learning seek ye first the kingdom of god and his righteousness and all these things will be added to you . Trust god give him everthing and relax in what ever season you are in just focus on god and just seek him .
@codytanner6487
Жыл бұрын
This is a timely video. I have been extremely isolated and alone for many years now, I have been asking God for a wife and a family for 4.5 years now. I hope my loneliness is coming to its final end.
@elindigeno1215
Жыл бұрын
Dear heavenly father we come together were two or three are gathered you will surely be and what we pray upon you will surely agree on. Lord, we present you your son. We also that you bless him with a wife and his family. It is time to break the loneliness in the mighty name of Christ Jesus. It is ok your word. No man should be left alone.
@shemireyahlilly5521
Жыл бұрын
I totally understand I feel the same
@millykukkiriza5338
Жыл бұрын
I have waited for 7 years and sometimes feel like giving up on waiting. Hope God will make the delivery one day.
@elindigeno1215
Жыл бұрын
@@millykukkiriza5338 I pray on that
@Nikki_1427
Жыл бұрын
❤
@magnithorsson2154
Жыл бұрын
Remember to be careful people. When you walk in contentment and lose the fear of being alone, you will suddenly find yourself getting a lot more attention than usual. Now your fear ought to be fearing choosing the wrong one, this is where prayer for confirmation comes in and is helpful. Always compare a potential boyfriend or girlfriend to biblical descriptions of good character. Remember to be weary of those who flatter and those who say one thing and behave differently. Please be patient and make sure you know who you are choosing to get involved with
@Nita-GodisGreat
Жыл бұрын
What's crazy is I've asked for confirmation before about guys and I think I've gotten it several times and then it ends badly. Sometimes it's so confusing
@magnithorsson2154
Жыл бұрын
@@Nita-GodisGreat Describe the confirmation
@Nita-GodisGreat
Жыл бұрын
@Magni Thorsson like getting a message or call from them right after or soon after or me ending up at a place that they were involved in but I didn't know or having dreams about them
@sonicgalaxy27
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes it's no fun being lonely. It really isn't. I myself still feeling like this for the past few years now and I'm waiting for my misery to be put out for good. 😓
@earth2sageee
Жыл бұрын
It's really strange because I was content in my loneliness for about a 1 year and a half and now there's this guy who i think likes me who I'm also interested in but now i feel not necessarily scared to be lonely but uncomfortable with it. It was literally just me, couple friends, and God for a while. I really hope I am ready for another relationship! :)
@dinomra7771
Жыл бұрын
Just take it easy, if God wants you to together then he will reveal it to you, otherwise keep doing what you normally would be doing.
@earth2sageee
Жыл бұрын
@@dinomra7771 Thank you so much for this advice!! God bless you! 💕
@lashondarochell7584
Жыл бұрын
Mark, Thank you so much this video was Holy Spirit inspired. I was battling loneliness some months ago and I asked God to give me a contented spirit until He blessings me with a Godly relationship that will lead to marriage. And I am content otherwise and I truly Thank God! I don't have that nagging feeling any longer about being lonely and "why has it not happened for me yet". it's truly freeing Blessings to you and your family. 🙏❤️
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
Жыл бұрын
Amen! This is great report! God is good!
@yvonneerrend8217
Жыл бұрын
I was extremely independent when I met my husband at 28 years old and at 31, we got married and we're with each other and married for 27 years when he got up and left me and he remarried within a year, and I've been single for 6 years, and I've had to go through the loneliness and acceptance of no longer having a marriage, and now I'm getting to the point where I'm okay being alone, but it's difficult, because I'm older but my great desire is to be married again!. There is no guarantee in a marriage. We both lived for God 100%, but you never know if your partner is going to change until they do.
@lindagatwiri869
5 ай бұрын
These are the things that scare me but its a risk one has to take.What casues them to change?? Praying you also move on and find a good person to settle with
@yvonneerrend8217
18 күн бұрын
@@lindagatwiri869 thank you..☺️
@cheryldwyer494
Жыл бұрын
I have been so isolated! I have chosen it. As a single mom with 3 little boys, my focus was totally on raising them for the Lord and developing in my calling to full time ministry. Their dad left when my youngest two (twins) were babies. He was no longer apart of our lives and I chose never to date, have social life or anything. My sons are now 32 and 33. I haven't made friends or dated still at 62. I just retired but to pursue the calling I've known God gave me. I never felt lonely or any desire to remarry until recently. I'm afraid of it yes but the desire is beginning and crashes into my thoughts at random times. I have been clear that I never ever wanted to remarry but here I am kind of dancing around the thought.
@allisonpaige4786
Жыл бұрын
Cheering for you from Alabama
@carissacantwell9355
10 ай бұрын
Yes, the thought of growing old alone is not a good one. Like you, never dated much but I have no kids either. It's lonely.
@barbaraedwards5675
5 ай бұрын
It’s YOUR time now
@MarlanaAlonzo
6 ай бұрын
Very true...there's nothing lonelier than being with someone that does not love you.
@everythingzchris
Жыл бұрын
To be honest I always felt lonely I always Tried my best to find friends and it always ended in a few days or perhaps hours, now I've recently started to love being alone since it helps me get closer to god✨
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
Жыл бұрын
God is good!
@snowflakesfantasyfactory
Жыл бұрын
Been single since 2021 though I got out of fear of being heartbroken. But since I rededicated my life to God I don't feel as lonely anymore... if He brings me someone that's aligned with the kingdom business I'll give thanks
@robertbarrasa1018
11 ай бұрын
I feel the same way, I'm getting past that God blesses me with the woman that aligns with the kingdom of God that will be a blessing but I can't be putting no one before God before Jesus
@ashleeearl0712
Ай бұрын
I've also been single for a long time, and I àlso wànt someone who loves God more than me. I want to this person to love God and put God first. Thanks to God, I believe I sàid enough to the fear of rejection, abàndonment,the past, pain, hurt, anxietÿ of it all. I just have to be more patient in him, and in his timing.
@faradara5310
Жыл бұрын
WoW, Mark this message truly spoke life in my hear! I stayed in a toxic dysfunctional marriage for 13 years because of my strong fear of rejection and loneliness. Then he cheated and God gave me the strength to leave. I have been single for 4 years because I know the feeling of loneliness while being with the wrong person which did more harm to my self confidence. The deep dependence is better through God. I remember my counselor mentioned ‘why fear being alone, if I cannot stand being with myself how can I expect someone else to stand being with me. I have to learn to live with myself for the rest of my life! Please pray for me so that I can break the barriers of rejection that is holding me back from truly living my life according to God’s will. I hope this helps someone!!
@gracedeguzman1278
Жыл бұрын
I can really relate to your comment. Same here, 13-year toxic relationship. It is my relationship with Jesus that I am content with. If God has plans for me to remarry, I am sure He will make it clear and obvious to me. Be in peace!
@oneoutoftheninety-nine.3314
Жыл бұрын
You are not alone! We are all works in progress. For me I do fear some rejection and I grewip in a dysfunctional household. But I ask God to break those chains, those fears. Fear is not of the Lord and keeps us stuck. Give yourself permission to move forward. With God's help you will be free. Who the son sets free is free indeed!
@cinzialbm
Жыл бұрын
Sending you hugs and love You’re not alone
@allisonpaige4786
Жыл бұрын
I would love to but someone needs to show me..I'm 53..& as a child, I had limited sporadic church experiences...but I know HE was always watching me from a distance but never introduced himself..
@Jay-nn7ue
Жыл бұрын
I fear meeting another narcissist, being with someone who wears a mask until you marry them and then they show their true colors
@rashunr1
5 ай бұрын
Just went through this for 3 years luckily we didn't get married
@VivianMcall
4 ай бұрын
Same. Our job now is to understand and recognize the warning signs early. I see the ones i ignored now. I wish I saw them, but God has a purpose. I wouldn’t have my son otherwise.
@RedsFan1976
4 ай бұрын
Yup,, ditto on that. Just got out of that mess a few years ago
@rebeccacerecke4511
2 ай бұрын
I got badly burned and hoodwinked by a man who lovebombed me, married me then singlemindedly tried to get his paws on my money, as he had none,, I received a sudden diagnosis of a life altering disease, he couldnt leave fast enough. Good riddance !
@soyempatica5406
Жыл бұрын
I can relate to #s 1 2 and 4 Thanking the Lord for taking away all the loneliness in terms of broken relationships My loneliness now is caused from the loss of my 2 siblings in a year(2021) It's been hard to take all the pain and sadness. It's now the worries of my sister diagnosed with a stage 4 breast cancer last year Been praying harder and my ultimate wish this 2023 is for God to heal her. With God, nothing is impossible😊
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear about these trials and losses. May the Lord bless you and secure you in faith as you keep walking forward with him
@beverlinefrancis8294
Жыл бұрын
Was literally having a conversation with someone about these same things and this pops up on my phone, God was listening
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
Жыл бұрын
Nice!
@melissawolf9759
Жыл бұрын
Same
@esmeralda3213
Жыл бұрын
Lord, please let these years be over- I want to stand in joy and contentment in you- but its hard to believe for a healthy community when your hope over and over is deferred
@jordanchambliss9744
8 ай бұрын
This was so timely. Definitely grateful. The key is His presence brothers and sisters. May our relationships with the Lord be stronger may we receive healing emotionally as well in Jesus name
@suzianthony4928
Жыл бұрын
Lord please restore everything 💕
@camryncothran8058
Жыл бұрын
there are some days when i think i’m ready for a relationship and some days i think i’m not. it’s hard
@nickharvey2105
Жыл бұрын
Taste & see 👀That The Lord is 👁️👁️GOOD....... toe dip in a Godly relationship :- BEWARE OF UNEQUALLY YOKED for it is NO JOKE he says after 2 train-wreck failure marriages - losing Everything BUT finding God finally - I can see He was ALWAYS around me....... so... it probably could have been worse........ am still here devil & now the table is gonna get turned on that nasty narcissist LOSER ‼️🙏🙏🙏
@pattypatty1484
Жыл бұрын
I so agree with you about the pushy sales people. I avoid pushy sales people like the plague.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
Жыл бұрын
Amen, me too :)
@graceomakada5082
Жыл бұрын
Anything pushy or forced is very repulsive.
@DiscipleGabe
Жыл бұрын
This video spoke right to my heart but in a very painful way. God is showing me that I may still have a long way to go out of this dreadful season. It’s rough but I trust God and know He will guide me out of it, while molding me into who I need to be.
@kathleenmcardle1866
Жыл бұрын
No one has to be alone life is to short.
@Lucylu723
Жыл бұрын
I finally get the meaning behind the saying *I'd rather be alone, than be with people who make me feel lonely.*
@lakaeshahewitt1814
Жыл бұрын
Amen. I was with my First Love for 18 years married 13. But now I have been on my own 4 years. I Thank God for my Alone time. I just know that I was never lonely because I had God on my side.❤
@ButterflyT23
10 ай бұрын
Everything always works in God's timing, just like when I received this message today. Thank you 🙏🏾♥️
@jamespython5147
Жыл бұрын
Lesson number one. Don't let non-lonely people speak about loneliness.
@John-nx6ue
11 ай бұрын
If you have experienced it it fine to
@sofiahassan7568
Жыл бұрын
I love myself i gave up on seeking for relationship with people so loneliness is not a barrier i love spending time with myself because when God is on my side nothing is impossible
@loveisneverasin9092
Жыл бұрын
... You must have heard that Justin Bieber song , " if you think I'm holding out 4 you...why don't you just Love Yourself ! "
@Alibern7
Жыл бұрын
Fantastic video. I love the advice. Though I’m so tired of trying to make friends or find my future husband I’d rather just stop talking to people. It hurts to be rejected even when I take things slow. Hard to find genuine people in California.
@gailrosenberg48
Жыл бұрын
Loneliness in a marriage is a slow, painful death of hope.
@sia8288
Жыл бұрын
I'm 37.My family are unbelievers for generations.I along with God have to overcome the impossible
@cinzialbm
Жыл бұрын
For God nothing is impossible
@dcharmed2
Жыл бұрын
First of all, Mark, your background/set is better than before. 🙂 It's good to switch locations sometimes. Second, thank you for this message. I am not afraid of being alone but sometimes I could feel in my spirit that I am longing to have someone to enjoy life. It's not loneliness but i just want to have someone to share moments with.
@robertbarrasa1018
11 ай бұрын
I agree with what you're say, it's sometimes I feel it's not loneliness is just wanted to share those moments with but at times it is loneliness that means I have to dive in the in the in the Bible and read the word of God 🙏🙏
@DIAMOND2287
Жыл бұрын
God is putting all these videos in my path. He is talking to me!!!!
@ashleeearl0712
Жыл бұрын
I am not afraid of being alone at all, and I'm very much content in God and confident in god more than anything. I'm also serving the lord the best that I can. and God completes me, all of us, really, and not people. I have been single for 22 years, and I've been in situationships (crushing relationships) and I've feared abandonment because I was abandoned as a child, and I once feared rejection, but I don't fear those things anymore. I said enough to those fears long ago and I'm still saying enough to those fears to this day.
@MCharlerySmith
Жыл бұрын
Hey Mark, this was another timely video. Thanks! You know I'm a supporter, but I think there are some topics which may need less of a list and more of personal account to get the point across. Many who follow you know that you were married while still very young and have children too. An older person who is still single in their 30's or 40's may think that you have no experience in what you're talking about and have no clue what real loneliness is like. As a pastor I'm sure you've ministered too and learned a lot from the people you've ministered too over the years, so maybe recounting some of that would be helpful. Also, perhaps you could ask for some interaction from your viewers as to what their experience of loneliness is as that would be edifying and informative for us all. As somebody who lived a long time abroad, I think the Christian community fails to be an available, perceptive and responsive source of encouragment for those who are struggling in this area, We must be a visible and tangible and use our knowledge (and that of others) alonside empathy and compassion. God bless! More ministers need to cover these topics for the benefit of the Body of Christ.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for these suggestions Matthew. I always try to find the balance of teaching verses sharing. I do lean more on teaching as KZitem tends to attract people looking for answers rather than a connection. But I see what you mean and do think there is a time for me to share more than teach :) God bless as you keep serving the Lord!
@em77775
Жыл бұрын
I think Allen Parr did a video where he shares his experience of many years of celibacy before finding his wife in his 40s I believe?
@katlegosibiya7866
Жыл бұрын
The timing of this video!❤️
@cytinachavis9157
Жыл бұрын
This always happens with me and Mark's videos. That's how I know the Lord is who led me to subscribe to him and listen often.
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
Жыл бұрын
Amen! So glad to hear this!
@bobgunner3086
5 ай бұрын
I am very impressed with this video. Very very few pastors, priests, prophets, etc share this perspective. But it is true. God picks a partner in you that will push every single one of your buttons, and a few you didn't know about. You will be tested in the most wounded area of your heart. You will fail to be Christlike. You will be driven to prayer. There you will find the Cross. THAT and only that will bring the grace needed to overcome. I am in that time myself. God has revealed to me who my partner will be, and I am terrified. I hate it!!!
@amvaun
10 ай бұрын
I’m there. I’m married to Jesus anybody else is extra. When I first started my walk with God fully I was eager to get a wife but not anymore. I am complete. if it happens it happens but it’s not a need. I love my time with God without the distraction. ❤️🔥🙏🏽
@childofgod5414
Жыл бұрын
I’ve been struggling with intense loneliness since I was a child😢 most of my years and still now I didn’t have enough good friends and now I mostly feel lonely for God as I feel I can’t ever get enough of him and I’m afraid of getting attached to people whether a relationship or friendship because so many people presumed to be friends have let me down and have all rejected me😞
@jejuislandtrekker8113
Жыл бұрын
Being an Expat, I have had too many mismatched friendships. Thanks for being awareness to this.
@jaymers66
Жыл бұрын
Mark, as usual, you are on point! Great video. I always enjoy listening to you and your advice. My thing though is that I’ve been alone so long, and I’m content with being alone, and if ever anyone tries to get close to me, it’s going to irritate me that there’s somebody there. 😂
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
Жыл бұрын
lol, you probably just need to find someone who likes alone time too! You two can be "alone" together :)
@nickharvey2105
Жыл бұрын
Pearls are FORMED as a SOLUTION TO an 'irritation'........... 💎.......
@savinggracechurch4112
4 ай бұрын
Great video awesome advice. I've been alone for over seven years, but there is a strong awareness of God's presence on my life! But there's no getting away from the fact that at sixty-one. I have never married.
@d.l.t7421
Ай бұрын
Omg this is making me feel like I pushed someone I don’t want to lose away! 😭😭😭 God please! I learned my lesson
@kotymccallister5150
19 сағат бұрын
I'm not afraid of being alone, I just hate it. Hard to be afraid of something I have to face every day. I'm already living it.
@paulapeeler3157
Жыл бұрын
I am happy to see this. This is where I am right now.....
@yayama3967
4 ай бұрын
What a breakthrough I've made today. God, thank you. This appearing in my timeline is too serendipitous to be coincidental.
@sweetwolf30
Жыл бұрын
I'm not afraid of being alone, I'm afraid of getting to used being alone so much that I forget how to be with someone else.
@JustAJoker
Жыл бұрын
Mark I was in a relationship with someone I thought was the one at first until I realized she wasn’t the best for my mindset because she had cheated on someone with me to begin that relationship. After that started tormenting my mind, we ended up breaking up because she left me for someone else. I was destroyed for years until I saw your video stating that God wouldn’t build a healthy relationship based on that, I honestly believe that your video describing my situation was a sign from God that it really wasn’t meant to be.
@faitheverline9492
Жыл бұрын
Im ready to walk down the road can you hold my hand please
@SpencerSinclair98
Жыл бұрын
I really needed this video. Everything you said checks off the list of what I'm experiencing in this season of my life. For a while, I thought I was being disciplined for something, but no..God is just refining me and preparing me for the better. Thank you for sharing :)
@Rosh-C
Жыл бұрын
I can relate I feel the same 🙌🏾🙏🏾
@elindigeno1215
Жыл бұрын
Heavenly father I would love to remarry again. It is dumb to think I can live alone.
@stephanieharper6047
Жыл бұрын
Yes I have lost it. I don’t mind being alone and not except being treated any kind of way. I will walk away I know my value and what I want.
@disappointed_in_humanity
Жыл бұрын
I guess 2023 will be a good year then 😄 whether or not I end up meeting someone, I threw unnecessary pessimism out of the window and put my trust in God 😇
@winniethepooh2690
Жыл бұрын
Praise the Lord! ❤
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
Жыл бұрын
Amen, God is good!
@penelopeconstantatos4577
Жыл бұрын
Good and timely message Mark, after a hectic and broken love filled day. But I knew Something had o be solved, and my God came through unexpectedly and Supernaturally to the rescue after a long awaited answer. Watching to see what come up next. Loving others, yes I truly believe returns back to you one hundred fold Praise Him.
@katibland9206
Жыл бұрын
I am currently struggling with this. Loneliness is a painful thing. I've been trying to rewire my brain to be content with being single where I'd otherwise go back to a bad relationship that hurt me for 2 years. Prayer would be appreciated.
@lisarussell8874
Жыл бұрын
I'm sending my prayers to you.
@Nita-GodisGreat
Жыл бұрын
Just remember, we are worthy of a Godly marriage and we deserve it. Pray to God about this and let this singleness bring you closer to God
@SJ-po5fg
Жыл бұрын
I am sorry you are going through this. My husband separated from me with my two children because I was becoming closer to the Father. It’s been very painful. No support from family but have that shalom in your heart. Biblical prophecies are happening more quickly and do believe the eminent return of Christ is very near. This is the blessed hope. Still praying for those who are falling away. God bless you all!
@Lucylu723
Жыл бұрын
Watching this video really has shown me how far I've come. I used to not want to be alone. I used to not want to leave the friends that would purposefully confuse me to embarrass me in public. Those days are no more. Thank you God😊🙏🏾❤
@claricesmith9528
Жыл бұрын
Once again Mark you have help me see things differently in relationships. Thank you! And.....I love the background it's warm and inviting!😊
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
Жыл бұрын
So glad this was useful! And thanks for the feedback :)
@ArleneKennedy
17 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏 very blessed by this. All glory to God. God bless you and everyone on this channel 🙏
@Truthsetsusfree446
Жыл бұрын
What about serving someone out of love, only to realize that it wasn’t appropriate? Yes I totally agree that serving others brings love towards others, but I hesitate greatly to give due to loosing friendships. Happened to me twice and I still don’t understand why? It was extremely painful when you loved deeply, only to find it end rejection. Though both relationships have been restored, yet I will never give to them like I used to. If I give it’s healthy to give small. Br Mark, would you be interested in doing a teaching on this? You have tremendously helped me in relationships already. I came from a background of not having close relationships. In my late teens and twenties I’ve had so much trouble in relationships.
@jeanehuber127
Жыл бұрын
All my life is loneliness, pain. I give all to the lord but i fill tired ,i do,nt know. What must do.
@tynic7573
Жыл бұрын
Me too. My soul is tired. This can't be how life is supposed to be
@watchman001
Жыл бұрын
Revelation 21:4 He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.”
@jeanehuber127
Жыл бұрын
Thanks you for the beautiful wonderful powerful magnificent encourage word make my Faith strong and believen that with the lord is victory. thanks you so much God Bless you lovely brother watchman
@watchman001
Жыл бұрын
@@jeanehuber127 Amen, God Bless you too jeane
@melis.j.
Жыл бұрын
Your message is so helpful and encouraging. Subscribed your chanel. Bless you and your family. Almost 10 years being a widow physically. But with God he is always with me. Trust in God's timing. He will sent right people and friends to us. Waiting faithfully. Jesus love each and everyone of us. Bless you all.
@SuperJayfive
Жыл бұрын
Being married and feeling completely alone is an unhappy place. Hopelessness is a drag too. 😊 … that said , wake up every morning and press reset.. and keep it moving.
@tamarawebb5017
4 ай бұрын
This is an awesome topic! Brother, you have eloquently spoken on the Word! ❤
@frankwashington8740
Жыл бұрын
Basically "The Lord helps those, who help themselves." Excellent.
@lisahull6745
10 ай бұрын
Mark, Recently discovered your channel. So encouraged by your unadulterated biblical content regarding relationships. We all need hope. Thank you for sharing this great wisdom you have been given regarding relationships. I appreciate your analogies. They are very relevant.
@karenstephenson
Жыл бұрын
I feel alone all the time!😥
@dwaynegarfield1551
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! This video answers my questions about being lonely.... Ive been in a relationship for about 23 years and she passed away about almost 3 years now and I'm starting all over a new life and been taking my time to find a new relationship... This time... I'm depending on God for my time with someone... Thank you and God Bless you!👍💕🙏💕
@faitheverline9492
Жыл бұрын
Me I'm just single mum
@Mr7352
27 күн бұрын
I have been alone for about 30 years, waiting, praying the Lord would bring me someone to share ny life with. Two months ago an x girlfriend who's husband died 4 years ago is now reading and sharing the Bible together. I believe she is my prayer answered. Still a long road ahead but not walking it alone no more. Thank upu Father I love you. ❤
@michellemarks-mb1ou
10 ай бұрын
I am single but I pray not for long because of physically abusive relationships 🙏🙏 I pray for a man who is compatible 💝
@annamalatino8706
Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU! VERY INSIGHTFUL! WITH MUCH GRATITUDE! AMEN ☮️♥️🫂🙏
@FreshRose-z3s
Жыл бұрын
As far as the people in my life, I choose quality over quantity.
@angel-mq2mo
5 ай бұрын
I definitely don't fear being alone...I just DON'T LIKE being alone😂🙏thank you for this content❤
@marimuller9530
Жыл бұрын
Being lonely for 9 years now and been praying for 9 years for a wonderful man to come into my life , but no answers from God and feel abandoned as if God does not want to answers my prayers. I have so much love to give and feel so empty of not receiving love and care from a soulmate. It is hell on earth!!!
@tory198511
Жыл бұрын
Well Mark, # four is definitely me. It's the only one that matches me. I have stayed away from relationships for years now and I'm 37 and I want to be married and I want kids but I just always have a fear that I'm going to meet the wrong person and that they may take advantage of me or be a bad person pretending to be a nice person. I've had it happen so many times. I always have to tell the guy goodbye and block them cuz they won't stop calling after I realize that they're not right for me. No sex is involved it's just a bunch of weirdos that are unequally yoked with me.
@jeanlanz2344
5 ай бұрын
Wow. So much wisdom. Thank you and God bless you.
@helennagl3500
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for teaching. Great advise. 🙇♂️
@PrettyIntelligent
Жыл бұрын
Brother Mark is sure enough in the Spirit because, once again, this is right on time!!!
@antoinettefriloux6658
9 ай бұрын
Talented in preaching this pastor and giving the truth
@beverlyjohnson5503
Жыл бұрын
I been listen to your awesome video so today I subscribed to your beautiful channel 💕 ❤️ 💜
@sia8288
Жыл бұрын
You are so wise Mark.Thanks for posting this Mark.God bless you.
@Ten40ise
Жыл бұрын
Wao; this is very impactful. The part that without God,s love there is no true love.
@casanovarockstar1000
7 ай бұрын
Hey well said man. Good stuff. Gives me some more confidence in myself being single. Righteous!
@KingdomtalkwithTiffany
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for allowing the Holy Spirit to guide and lead you in your videos. You break things down very nicely and share scriptures to enhance and edify the knowledge you are giving us. God bless you and your family Mark!
@claricebechara
Жыл бұрын
Thankyou Mark God is helping me through you❤😊
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
Жыл бұрын
So glad this was helpful! All glory to God!
@soulcarewithkenia
Жыл бұрын
Beautifully said, thanks Mark😊 You’re awesome and so gifted. Thank you Lord
@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you are enjoying the teachings! All glory to God!
@Michael-mj2hg
Жыл бұрын
Honestly the best video you've made Mark.
@reemiller965
Жыл бұрын
Videos are always right on time...thank you HolySpirit🙏
@louisgarcia2073
8 ай бұрын
Love this video! I'm so grateful that I watched it. It put a lot into perspective on handling my loneliness. And what I need to do to manage it. So that the lord can put an end toy loneliness.
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